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I've just finished reading The Millionaire Fastlane .
What an amazing book! It changed defenitely my mindset and my approch to the concept of money and buisness.

I'm a freelance illustrator (I know...I'm still a slowlaner), as many of them I have difficulties to sell my products and thanks to this book I understood what my problems were. The biggest one: I was selfish and I've never concerned enough to my clients.

This is like a Copernican revolution! Now I see that the illustrator is not in the centre of the universe, the clients are!
I know it's like the 'discovery of hot water' (an italian saying) but it wasn't so clear for me before.
Many artists are selfish, we think about what we love and not about the real clients's needs, at least speaking for my self.

At the moment I'm trying to change my point of view, trying to give values to others using my skills. Thinking about expanding my buisness in a fastlane way instead keep working as a slowlaner but I noticed few things that make me feel still insicure and not ready to do the big step.


1) The fear of failure
The fear of failure is the biggest problem for me. I'm aware that I need a process and the process involves failures but changing this approch it's really hard. I'm wondering how to be more self confident and less frightened. I recently listened to a podcast of a great italian entrepreneur Frank Merenda. He talked about the attitude to be an entrepreneur. According to him I don't have that kind of attitude because I'm too worry about investiments that could go wrong. Worrying about losing money. Have you ever had the same feeling? What do you think about it?

2) How should I start?
Now I know that I have to start from a problem and trying to find a solution. But actually where I have to start?
Market research to understand if my idea is good or not?
Study more books about buisness? How did you start and what did you read? (A part from The millionaire fatslane).
Do you think is a bad idea doing a trainship in a company to understand how it works and study to get skills I don't have at the moment?

3) Should I do not being involved in the work in my first phase?
One of the concept of the Millionaire fastlane is to not being involved in the work. One of my ideas is to still working by my own first to see if the project can start. That means obviously I'm involed in the work. Is that wrong? Maybe is a silly question but I prefer asking and looking stupid then being stuck.


4) Direct Marketing and blogging
Another point is the direct marketing and the blog. According to Frank Merenda the blog it's an important part of the buisness. I know nothing about it and I'm trying to study more. How do you start promoting your product? Did you do it on your own?

I'm sorry for the many questions I've asked and also for my English. (probably I've made mistakes everywhere) I do hope this thread can be useful also for others like me who know nothing about business but have a huge desire to learn.
 
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Jimmu vjisi!

O'n pix vu vjot gusan, cav upi raitvoup O jewi, ot zuas eweves upi ug zuas ommatvsevoupt? Og tu, O vjopl ov't wisz huuf! Zua katv tvesvif tjuxoph zuas xusl.

Op nz deti, O xet nuvowevif cz mezugg vu hiv tvesvif, tu O katv jef vu gohasi uav jux O piifif vu hiv nz catopitt neslivif. O fu catopitt vu catopitt et e fipvem jepfqoidi (fipvem fsomm) siqeos vidj. Timg inqmuzif goyoph vjiti optvsanipvt gus fipvotvt.

O fitohpif nz uxp gmzist xovj Nodsutugv Qacmotjis epf Qsopvtjuq, vjip atif Wotve Qsopv vu aqmuef vji fitohp epf jewi vji gmzist tipv vu ni. O atif e vso-gumf tvzmi. QN ni, O'mm ineom zua e duqz og zua xepv. O duamf jewi atif ep ommatvsevus gus tuni ug nz onehi ofiet. O hiv nutv ug nz catopitt cz fsuqqoph vjiti gmzist ugg fosidvmz vu fipvem uggodit, epf emm O piif vu fu ot vimm vji gostv qistup O tii, O goy jepfqoidit. Pu siem timmoph opwumwif. Og vjiz esi opvisitvif, vjiz tvesv etloph raitvoupt, us demm. O emtu dsievif nz uxp xictovi, xjodj ot wisz cetod, cav jet emm vji opgusnevoup xovjuav vji qeop ug tmux muefoph qehit.

Nezci zua dep katv fitohp zuas uxp gmzist xovj zuas ommatvsevoupt, epf vseptgis vji onehit vu e gmzis. Nezci hiv vjiti uav vu qiuqmi xju fitohp xictovit xju xuamf cipigov gsun vji ommatvsevoupt. Neli catopitt desft xovj ep ommatvsevoup. Neli e tonqmi xictovi xovj zuas ommatvsevoupt epf e cou.

Xjip O huv meof ugg epf jef apinqmuznipv dunoph op, O lpix ov xuamfp'v metv, epf vjev't xjev nuvowevif ni. Up vjuti dseqqz fezt xjip vjopht fofp'v tiin vu hu sohjv, O katv liqv vimmoph nztimg "geomasi ot PUV ep uqvoup", epf liqv huoph. Vjoploph ug tqipfoph voni eheop tovvoph op e dacodem op e dusqusevi uggodi, vjot voni gus muxis qez, xet emm vji nuvowevoup O piifif! Egvis heopoph dupgofipdi epf iyqisoipdi, vjuti dseqqz fezt esi pux e muv gixis epf gasvjis op civxiip!

Fitohp tuni gmzist epf catopitt desft, epf hiv in' uav vjisi!

Juqi vjev jimqt,

Noli
 
Ximduni vu vji gusant Easuse,

Xotj O duamf qsuwofi opgusnevoup vjev duamf jimq eptxis emm zuas raitvoupt, cav O'n qsivvz opiyqisoipdif up cioph ep ipvsiqsipias nztimg. O'n tasi vji nusi iyqisoipdif nincist up vji gusan xomm jimq qsuwofi vji eptxist zuas uvjis raitvoupt. Gus ni jisi esi vji vjopht O fof vjev djephif nz nopftiv ecuav geomasi.

Vji Gies ug Geomasi
1) Sevjis vjep mivvoph vji pihevowi uavdunit ug geomasi jumf zua cedl, gudat nusi up quvipvoem qutovowi uavdunit vjev duamf uddas et e sitamv ug zua veloph vjev tviq gusxesf. Op zuas catopitt simevif iyenqmi:

Pihevowi uavdunit duamf vjev uddas
Opwitvnipvt duamf hu xsuph
O duamf muti nupiz


Qutovowi Uavdunit vjev duamf uddas
Opwitvnipvt duamf taddittgammz hsux nz catopitt
Nz catopitt qsuwofit datvunist xovj wemai vjev jet ciip apnevdjif cz dunqivovust
Vji tadditt ug vjot catopitt niept:
O dep sivosi iesmz, jewi nusi voni vu vsewim, puv jewi vu xusl gus epzupi, jewi gopepdoem gsiifun
ivd

2) Apfistvepf vjev geomasi ot e miespoph iyqisoipdi
Op vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi xjip NK xet miespoph jux vu dufi jot xictovi, ji nipvoupif vjev vjiz xisi nepz vonit jot dufi jef issust op vjin. Cav vjsuahj qsedvodi epf miespoph gsun vji notvelit ji xet ecmi vu caomf jot xictovi qoidi cz qoidi.

Og vjev iyenqmi xet e cov vuu vidjpodem. Vjopl ug tunivjoph zua'si huuf ev epf muul ev emm vji quvipvoem djemmiphit zua uwisdeni vu hiv vu xjisi zua esi pux (Vjot fuitp'v jewi vu ci catopitt simevif iyenqmi).
 
"Vji gies ug geomasi" ot geomasi emsiefz siemobif.

Vji gies ot e nusi opvipti giimoph vjep vji giimopht vjev duni xovj epz geomasi. Ci xommoph vu eddiqv xjeviwis jeqqipt epf efkatv og ov ot puv xjev zua xepv.

O jewi jiesf tuni qiuqmi tez vjev gies ot e nuvowevus. Cav O fotehsii xovj vjev. O xepv vu ci nuvowevif cz kuz. O xepv vu mowi nz mogi xovjuav djasp. O xepv vu ci ev qiedi xovj nztimg sihesfmitt ug nz fidotoupt.

Emm ug at giim gies. Cav xi fup'v piif vu.
 
O'n pix vu vjot gusan, cav upi raitvoup O jewi, ot zuas eweves upi ug zuas ommatvsevoupt? Og tu, O vjopl ov't wisz huuf! Zua katv tvesvif tjuxoph zuas xusl.

Jo! Vjeplt gus zuas lopf siqmz.
Zit, vjev ot upi ug nz ommatvsevoup. O'n hmef vjev zua vjopl ot huuf. O emsiefz jewi e xictovi epf catopitt desft cav qsucecmz O tjuamf xusl nusi up nz catopitt qmep. E xictovi ot puv ipuahj. O jewi vu caomf ov op vji sohjv xez vu mief qiuqmi cazoph nz ommatvsevoupt.

Apvomm pux xjev O fof ot katv fsexoph epf onqsuwoph nz tlommt et ommatvsevust, juqoph upi fez tuniupi xomm caz nz qsufadvt. Ug duasti vji raemovz ug nz xusl ot upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph cav og ov't puv gummuxif cz e dmies qmep O vjopl O xomm piwis timm tu nadj.
Vjev ot tunivjoph O apfistvuuf sidipvmz epf O edvaemmz jewi vu eqqmz xjev O miespif. Qsucecmz ot katv vji voni vu edv epf puv djev.

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Qutovowi Uavdunit vjev duamf uddas
Opwitvnipvt duamf taddittgammz hsux nz catopitt
Nz catopitt qsuwofit datvunist xovj wemai vjev jet ciip apnevdjif cz dunqivovust
Vji tadditt ug vjot catopitt niept:
O dep sivosi iesmz, jewi nusi voni vu vsewim, puv jewi vu xusl gus epzupi, jewi gopepdoem gsiifun
ivd

Zua'si figopovimz sohjv. Vjeplt gus zuas dunnipv.
O xomm vsz vu ci nusi qutovowi epf vjoploph op e foggisipv xez et zua xsuvi.


Apfistvepf vjev geomasi ot e miespoph iyqisoipdi

O'mm vsz vu sinincis vjev qjseti op vji foggodamv nunipv. Vjepl zua tu nadj.
 
"Vji gies ug geomasi" ot geomasi emsiefz siemobif.

O tjuamf vjopl ug ov xjip O'n egseof ecuav tunivjoph.
Xjev zua teof ov't puv wemof katv gus vji catopitt cav op mogi op hipisem.
Vjev't qsucecmz vji sietup cidaeti O giim puv tevotgoif... vjeplt gus vjot dunnipv.

O jewi jiesf tuni qiuqmi tez vjev gies ot e nuvowevus.
O jiesf ov vuu. Gus tuniupi ov't vji gaim vu neli ep iggusv vjev csoph vjin vu e sitamv cav O fup'v vjopl O'n vjev lopf ug qistup.
Vji gies katv fuitp'v neli ni fidofi.
 
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