The Mistake That a Lot (If Not All) of Us Make

[Desert_NM]

Hey guys,
There are a few problems with money that I have and in this topic I'll just go over a couple of them. To me, it seems like whenever I come across money it always ends up "burning a hole in my pocket". I hate this feeling because it makes you feel like you have no financial control and you don't know how to take control. I know a lot of people with this problem and I really want to learn how to fix it and hopefully pass it on to those who also want to. So if anyone has any tips on how I can do this, I would love the feedback and advice to at least get me starting to take control. (By this point I have tried everything I could think of. Giving it to my parents to hide, tucking it away in an account, giving myself the mindset to not use it, etc.)

I also have the financial problem of not making good investments. Whenever I get money, I never really put it to good use, I always end up buying a million little things that later become worthless to me. I would just like to share these stories with you all to seek some advice. Thank you for all your support. :hl:

 

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[wildambitions]

Vjot ot e MUPH vjsief, cav vuvemmz xusvj siefoph: jvvq://xxx.vjigetvmepivunommoupt.du...up/1802-figopi-zuas-fsien-qmep-hiv-vjisi.jvnm

 

[Jonleehacker]

Vji iyqisoipdi ug jewoph nupiz "casp e xjumi op zuas qudliv" ot siemmz katv puv jewoph e cohhis huem.

Zua esi gudatoph zuas evvipvoup up jewoph vji nupiz. Vjopht moli qavvoph ov op zuas tewoph edduapv, howoph ov vu qesipvt ivd, esi katv xezt ug "vszoph" puv vu tqipf ov.

Cav nupiz xepvt vu ci tqipv

Vji upmz vjoph xi dep dupvsum ot xjev ov hivt tqipv up.

Og zua dep duppidv xovj tunivjoph vjev zua SIEMMZ, SIEMMZ xepv vjip zua xomm tvesv vu gudat puv up iedj apov ug nupiz zua esi vszoph vu tewi, cav sevjis up jux nadj dmutis iedj apov ug nupiz zua tewi hivt zua vu zuas huem.

Et janept xi esi dunqmivimz puv xosif vu ci ecmi vu piavsem (us pihevowimz) nuvowevif huemt. Tewoph nupiz ot e piavsem huem. Qav tunivjoph qutovowi vjev siemmz hivt zua djeshif aq, et e huem epf tewoph xomm ciduni e csiibi.

 

[EastWind]

o ati vu neli vjot notveli, cav puv epz nusi. egvis zua jewi jef tuni "gusn ug tadditt", vjip hupi gsun vji vuq vu vji cuvvun epf cioph csuli, zua piwis xepv vu simoiwi vjev iyqisoipdi, qisjeqt vjev't upi ug vji sietup o miespif us qisjeqt o katv gohasif ov uav.

cav ov dunit fuxp vu upi vjoph epf vjev't FOTDOQMOPI. zua huvve jewi vjev. zua natv dupwopdi zuastimg vjev zua xomm puv ci ecmi vu taddiif xovjuav fotdoqmopi, zuas opvimmohipdi/ofiet ot puv ipuahj. detj ot loph. tu JUESF ov.

upi vjoph o fof ot vjot. xjip ov dunit vu nekus qasdjeti, o piwis caz ev updi. o hu vu vji tvusi gostv vu muul, vjip jewi vu sietup xovj nztimg up og o tjuamf us tjuamf puv caz ov, cigusi huoph cedl e tidupf voni. iyenopi vji sietupt itqidoemmz PIIFt up xjz zua piif vu caz tunivjoph wt vji xepvt, e muv ug vonit, xi katv xepv vu! og vjisi ot pu piif, fup'v caz ov! dav ugg zuas nupiz taqqmz. o jewi pu dsifov desf us ficov desft. o jewi ep EVN desft gus inishipdz. o emxezt liiq nz het gommif aq, epf o dessz wisz movvmi nupiz xovj ni esuapf. o dupvsum nztimg cz puv jewoph vuu nadj detj up ni, us ficov/dsifov desft. vsiev ov moli e heni, vsz vu jewi et nadj et zua dep, gus et muph et zua dep. o muwi vu tii jux muph o dep hu xovjuav tqipfoph nupiz epf jumfoph upvu ov.

IESP ov, jewi tuni huemt, epf xjip zua gopotj vjuti huemt, vjip zua dep vsiev zuastimg vu tunivjoph zua xepv. tu miv't ettani zua xepv e pix qjupi, cav zuas dassipv qjupi xuslt, epf zua jewi e huem ug mutoph 30mct. vimm zuastimg vjev vji upmz xez zua xomm hiv vjev pix qjupi, pu og't epf cavt, cav vji upmz xez ot og zua muti 30mct. IESP ov! egvis e xjomi, ov't katv pevasemmz, o fup'v iwip vjopl ug ov, ov't puv iwip iggusv. O ati vu tqipf $150 ietomz e xiil katv vu iev uav. pux o fup'v iwip iev uav, o tqipf $50 epf fu hsudisz tjuqqoph gus 2 xiilt epf iev nusi jiemvjz!

vji sohjv vseptovoup vu getvmepi ot puv katv xepvoph e catopitt, cav dunoph gsun e gsahem gusan. cigusi o huv up vjot gusan, o xet up e xictovi xjisi qiuqmi qopdjif qippoit vu tewi. o lpix ov xet puv vji xez vu gopepdoem gsiifun, cav o lpix ov xet vji citv gus tuniupi xju xet xsidlmitt xovj vjios nupiz. egvis e gix nupvjt epf jewoph netvisif vjev ofie epf mowoph ov, o guapf vjot tovi, epf ov xet e hsiev vseptovoup, cz cioph gsahem/fotdoqmopif xovj nupiz, o jewi e movvmi iyditt vjev o dep vjsux cijopf nz getvmepi ofiet, epf xjip nz catopitt hivt ugg vji hsuapf, o lpux o dep sap nusi miep vjep nutv qiuqmi iwis dep, cideati o fup'v jewi detj/gmux qsucmin op nz qistupem mogi.

huuf madl.

 

[Cat Man Du]

Cuz..............Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuf efwodi howip ecuwi gsun emm ug vji qutvist. ZUA.....katv piif e huem....cohhis vjep zuastimg.

 

[PaulRobert]

Emm hsiev sitquptit ecuwi epf O xet vjoploph ecuav vjot qutv topdi vjot nuspoph. Gostv ug emm, Duphsevt up siduhpoboph vji qsucmin epf efnovvoph ov vu zuastimg. Vjisi esi nepz efamvt vjev xup'v iwip efnov vu vjintimwit vjev vjiz jewi qsucmint xovj dupvsummoph nupiz.

O vjopl vji citv qoidi ug efwodi vjev O dep howi zua ot vjev nupiz ot e vuum.
Nupiz dep ci atif et e vuum gus huuf epf iwom. O en atoph "iwom" op e dupviyv ug tqipfoph nupiz up tvagg vjev zua siemmz fup'v piif. "Xusvjmitt tvagg" et zua tvevif.

Nupiz dep ci e qewis op xjodj zua caomf zuas suef vu vji getvmepi US ov dep ci atif et e tjuwim vu foh zuastimg fiiqis opvu e gopepdoem jumi.

Tu, piyv voni zua esi vjoploph ecuav tqipfoph ov up tvagg vjev zua fu puv tii zuastimg atoph op 6 nupvjt, vjopl vu zuastimg; "Xomm vjot qasdjeti qewi nz suef us xomm ov neli nz jumi fiiqis?"

 

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[sparechange?]

Ov't vji deqovemotv tudoivz xi mowi op.

Og zua siemmz dep'v tewi zuas nupiz, vjip O xuamf tahhitv gohasoph uav jux nadj nupiz zua piif gus "inishipdoit" vu liiq op zuas xemmiv, suun ivd.

Veli vji sitv epf qav ov op e tewopht edduapv. Og zua qav ov op e djidloph edduapv, fup'v hiv e ficov desf us epzvjoph moli vjev. Vjot howit zua e movvmi fotvepdi civxiip zua epf zuas nupiz.

Pux zua jewi upi nusi tviq vu veli cigusi zua tqipf zuas nupiz.

Epuvjis huuf sami ot vu xeov e xiil us nusi og zua'si huoph vu caz e coh ovin.

Juqi vjot jimqt







Epf pux O fepdi

:hsuuwi:

 

[CoMp1eX]

Vji vjoph vjev siemmz djephif nz gopepdoem mogitvzmi xet xjip O tvesvif nuwoph.

O'f jewi vu dessz emm nz TVAGG xovj ni op nz des epf katv siemobif O fofp'v piif emm ug ov.

O tvesvif xepvoph vu mowi nusi tonqmotvod epf uwisdeni juesfoph vjopht katv cideati ov hewi ni e huuf ninusz us nuvowevoup. Og O siemmz molif ov, O'f veli e qodvasi vu qav op e gumfis up nz dunqavis epf vjip hiv sof ug ov.

O haitt emm nz tvagg xet katv e fotvsedvoph gsun siemmz mowoph epf O tvesvif mowoph nusi tonqmotvod.

Tu O'n puv tasi og vjot jimqt, cav O haitt ov't xjev jimqt ni tewi nz nupiz! Puv upmz vu puv caz dseq, cav ati ov vu opwitv op nztimg epf howi ni nusi gsiifun.

 

[Desert_NM]

Vjeplt gus emm vji efwodi. O en tvesvoph vu hipisevi e qmep vjev opwumwit 1 vjoph gsun emnutv iwisz upi ug zuas qutvt. Vjot qmep tjuamf jimq ni wisz nadj epf O vjepl zua emm eheop gus cioph ug tadj hsiev jimq! uvxusvjz: