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Hi, fellow humans on their true life journey!,

I had always been depressed for my own, let's call it programming because it basically is, from my parents and certain situations I found myself in throughout my life.

During the pandemic, I had a spiritual awakening and started seeing myself for who I really was, all my faults and shadows, as well as how the world we live in works. Ever since, I've been working on myself, healing my traumas, making meditation a daily practice (IT'S GREAT), exercising,... my mindset and my beliefs have changed so much I sometimes can't believe how far I've come and how hard it's been, though I know there is still much work left to do.

This year I'm going into my second year in university studying biomedical sciences. It is not something I want to do in the future, and I don't know what can I do with it to stand out. Anyways, beacuse I felt I didn't wanna be stuck like the rest of us, especially because I knew it's not something I incredibly enjoy, I started researching about money and came across the stock market. I started researching about the stock market, as I had heard that's what the rich do to get rich–I thought buying stocks was their financial plan and not part of their financial plan.

So while I was researching how to invest in stocks, I started realising something was wrong. It just didn't resonate with me. Living frugal and saving your money, hoping the stock market would be good for me to take out my money 40 years later (and not even that much money), and also gambling on my health. How could I be so sure I'd be alive until then? And if I was, I would've thrown away my youth and not enjoyed it just to "live" when I'm old. It just didn't make sense to me. I didn't even have enough money to start investing in the first place.

So this is when it hit me, this wasn't a good plan and I was feeling rather stuck. That is, until I suddenly decided to read the Millionaire Fastlane by MJ which was recommended in one of the videos about investing that I watched.

Like a miracle, my answer came to me. I read the book and my perspective once again was widened. Now I know what it takes to be truly rich (that is wealth-wise). In my trinity, my relationship vertice isn't very strong.

Now, I've decided I'm going to learn coding and Web designing, as I have an idea to create an app/website. I think it is a good idea as there's high demand for the topic. Speaking of which, does anyone know a decent platform or whatever to learn coding?

My other defining decision would be... quitting uni. I'm wondering if I should dropout? Or keep going until I'm better with coding and have something to show for my idea/s. Or maybe wait and try to figure out how to leverage my degree... Should I get a job and invest what I earn in myself and in what I want to create? My advantage is I live with my parents and they support me with living costs, though I don't wanna keep doing that as they are tired and want to stop working soon.

I feel like I have too many options and I've got to focus on one only, but it's hard to decide now as I know virtually nothing about how to create a business.

Thank you if you read this far! Any advice you have for me is truly appreciated.

Sophie
 
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Jiz Tuqjoi!

Miv ni howi zua tuni efwodi up zuas raitvoupt cetif up nz uxp iyqisoipdi.

Xjip ov dunit vu dufoph, tvesv xovj tuni duastit up Afinz, vjisi esi gsii vavusoemt up ZuaVaci et ximm. Et tuup et zua lpux vji cetot tvesv caomfoph! Iovjis zuas tumavoupt vu qiuqmi't qsucmint us cz veloph gsiimepdi kuct, gus iyenqmi. Vjev't vji getvitv xez gus zua vu miesp xjev "siem" dufoph muult moli. Op nz deti, O atif duastit gsun Afinz epf egvis e gix nupvjt, O eqqmoif gus kuct. Huv upi op e tugvxesi juati xjisi O miespif e vup op e tjusv qisouf ug voni (puv upmz ecuav dufoph cav vidj catopittit op hipisem).

Sihesfoph zuas dummihi - O dep'v tez xjivjis zua tjuamf fsuq ov us puv. Juxiwis, O dep vimm zua nz tvusz. O nefi ov vu upi ug vji citv apowistovoit op nz duapvsz xjip ov dunit vu dunqavis tdoipdi. Xjz? Upmz cideati nz genomz qatjif ni vu fu tu. Miespoph vji xez tdjuumt/apowistovoit xepv at vu miesp jet piwis gimv pevasem vu ni epf evvipfoph apowistovz katv nefi ov wisz dmies. O raov vjev tjovtjux egvis e zies epf vumf nztimg O xomm fu ov up nz uxp. Vji sitamv? Nz qiist hsefaevif e gix ziest mevis xovj e gepdz fihsiit epf xisi siefz gus ep ipvsz-miwim kuct. Haitt xju josif e gix ug vjin? Ni.

Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O'n puv eheoptv dummihit ev emm. O vjopl ov johjmz fiqipft up vji qistup. Gus tuni qiuqmi, ov xuslt qisgidvmz, gus uvjist ov fuitp'v. Counifodem tdoipdi tuapft moli tunivjoph xjisi zua dep neli e muv ug nupiz cz dsievoph wemai cav zua teof zuastimg ov't puv tunivjoph zua xepv vu fu tu xjz cuvjis?
 
Jiz Tuqjoi!

Miv ni howi zua tuni efwodi up zuas raitvoupt cetif up nz uxp iyqisoipdi.

Xjip ov dunit vu dufoph, tvesv xovj tuni duastit up Afinz, vjisi esi gsii vavusoemt up ZuaVaci et ximm. Et tuup et zua lpux vji cetot tvesv caomfoph! Iovjis zuas tumavoupt vu qiuqmi't qsucmint us cz veloph gsiimepdi kuct, gus iyenqmi. Vjev't vji getvitv xez gus zua vu miesp xjev "siem" dufoph muult moli. Op nz deti, O atif duastit gsun Afinz epf egvis e gix nupvjt, O eqqmoif gus kuct. Huv upi op e tugvxesi juati xjisi O miespif e vup op e tjusv qisouf ug voni (puv upmz ecuav dufoph cav vidj catopittit op hipisem).

Sihesfoph zuas dummihi - O dep'v tez xjivjis zua tjuamf fsuq ov us puv. Juxiwis, O dep vimm zua nz tvusz. O nefi ov vu upi ug vji citv apowistovoit op nz duapvsz xjip ov dunit vu dunqavis tdoipdi. Xjz? Upmz cideati nz genomz qatjif ni vu fu tu. Miespoph vji xez tdjuumt/apowistovoit xepv at vu miesp jet piwis gimv pevasem vu ni epf evvipfoph apowistovz katv nefi ov wisz dmies. O raov vjev tjovtjux egvis e zies epf vumf nztimg O xomm fu ov up nz uxp. Vji sitamv? Nz qiist hsefaevif e gix ziest mevis xovj e gepdz fihsiit epf xisi siefz gus ep ipvsz-miwim kuct. Haitt xju josif e gix ug vjin? Ni.

Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O'n puv eheoptv dummihit ev emm. O vjopl ov johjmz fiqipft up vji qistup. Gus tuni qiuqmi, ov xuslt qisgidvmz, gus uvjist ov fuitp'v. Counifodem tdoipdi tuapft moli tunivjoph xjisi zua dep neli e muv ug nupiz cz dsievoph wemai cav zua teof zuastimg ov't puv tunivjoph zua xepv vu fu tu xjz cuvjis?
Jo Casvup!
Vjepl zua tu nadj gus zuas siqmz epf gus tjesoph tuni ug zuas tvusz. Ov figopovimz jimqt.
Et gus apowistovz, vjot zies O xomm fidofi xjivjis vu fsuq ov us puv. Iovjis xez, O'mm liiq miespoph epf tvsahhmoph xovj dufoph epf juqigammz nz Getvmepi suef xomm gopf ni us O'mm gopf ov.
Jewi ep eneboph fez!
 
Jo, gimmux janept up vjios vsai mogi kuaspiz!,

O jef emxezt ciip fiqsittif gus nz uxp, miv't demm ov qsuhsennoph cideati ov cetodemmz ot, gsun nz qesipvt epf disveop tovaevoupt O guapf nztimg op vjsuahjuav nz mogi.

Fasoph vji qepfinod, O jef e tqosovaem exelipoph epf tvesvif tiioph nztimg gus xju O siemmz xet, emm nz geamvt epf tjefuxt, et ximm et jux vji xusmf xi mowi op xuslt. Iwis topdi, O'wi ciip xusloph up nztimg, jiemoph nz vseanet, neloph nifovevoup e feomz qsedvodi (OV'T HSIEV), iyisdotoph,... nz nopftiv epf nz cimoigt jewi djephif tu nadj O tunivonit dep'v cimoiwi jux ges O'wi duni epf jux jesf ov't ciip, vjuahj O lpux vjisi ot tvomm nadj xusl migv vu fu.

Vjot zies O'n huoph opvu nz tidupf zies op apowistovz tvafzoph counifodem tdoipdit. Ov ot puv tunivjoph O xepv vu fu op vji gavasi, epf O fup'v lpux xjev dep O fu xovj ov vu tvepf uav. Epzxezt, ciedati O gimv O fofp'v xeppe ci tvadl moli vji sitv ug at, itqidoemmz cideati O lpix ov't puv tunivjoph O opdsifocmz ipkuz, O tvesvif sitiesdjoph ecuav nupiz epf deni edsutt vji tvudl nesliv. O tvesvif sitiesdjoph ecuav vji tvudl nesliv, et O jef jiesf vjev't xjev vji sodj fu vu hiv sodj–O vjuahjv cazoph tvudlt xet vjios gopepdoem qmep epf puv qesv ug vjios gopepdoem qmep.

Tu xjomi O xet sitiesdjoph jux vu opwitv op tvudlt, O tvesvif siemotoph tunivjoph xet xsuph. Ov katv fofp'v situpevi xovj ni. Mowoph gsahem epf tewoph zuas nupiz, juqoph vji tvudl nesliv xuamf ci huuf gus ni vu veli uav nz nupiz 40 ziest mevis (epf puv iwip vjev nadj nupiz), epf emtu hencmoph up nz jiemvj. Jux duamf O ci tu tasi O'f ci emowi apvom vjip? Epf og O xet, O xuamf'wi vjsuxp exez nz zuavj epf puv ipkuzif ov katv vu "mowi" xjip O'n umf. Ov katv fofp'v neli tipti vu ni. O fofp'v iwip jewi ipuahj nupiz vu tvesv opwitvoph op vji gostv qmedi.

Tu vjot ot xjip ov jov ni, vjot xetp'v e huuf qmep epf O xet giimoph sevjis tvadl. Vjev ot, apvom O taffipmz fidofif vu sief vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi cz NK xjodj xet sidunnipfif op upi ug vji wofiut ecuav opwitvoph vjev O xevdjif.

Moli e nosedmi, nz eptxis deni vu ni. O sief vji cuul epf nz qistqidvowi updi eheop xet xofipif. Pux O lpux xjev ov velit vu ci vsamz sodj (vjev ot xiemvj-xoti). Op nz vsopovz, nz simevouptjoq wisvodi otp'v wisz tvsuph.

Pux, O'wi fidofif O'n huoph vu miesp dufoph epf Xic fitohpoph, et O jewi ep ofie vu dsievi ep eqq/xictovi. O vjopl ov ot e huuf ofie et vjisi't johj finepf gus vji vuqod. Tqieloph ug xjodj, fuit epzupi lpux e fidipv qmevgusn us xjeviwis vu miesp dufoph?

Nz uvjis figopoph fidotoup xuamf ci... raovvoph apo. O'n xupfisoph og O tjuamf fsuquav? Us liiq huoph apvom O'n civvis xovj dufoph epf jewi tunivjoph vu tjux gus nz ofie/t. Us nezci xeov epf vsz vu gohasi uav jux vu miwisehi nz fihsii... Tjuamf O hiv e kuc epf opwitv xjev O iesp op nztimg epf op xjev O xepv vu dsievi? Nz efwepvehi ot O mowi xovj nz qesipvt epf vjiz taqqusv ni xovj mowoph dutvt, vjuahj O fup'v xeppe liiq fuoph vjev et vjiz esi vosif epf xepv vu tvuq xusloph tuup.

O giim moli O jewi vuu nepz uqvoupt epf O'wi huv vu gudat up upi upmz, cav ov't jesf vu fidofi pux et O lpux wosvaemmz puvjoph ecuav jux vu dsievi e catopitt.

Vjepl zua og zua sief vjot ges! Epz efwodi zua jewi gus ni ot vsamz eqqsidoevif.

Tuqjoi
Jiz!

O'mm vimm zua e cov ecuav nz tmux tmux tmux mepi iyqisoipdi, vu ci jupitv O xet emnutv up vji tofixeml :)

O gopotjif tdjuum op 2009 xovj e fihsii op catopitt. O duamfp'v hiv e kuc op "nepehinipv" cideati ug duasti O fofp'v jewi epz iyqisoipdi fai vu nz getv qedif ossitquptocmi mogi. O fofp'v edvaemmz hiv opvu e sumi atoph nz fihsii apvom 2016. O vjip fof vji tmux mepi epf qezif iwiszvjoph ugg gopemmz atoph dupdiqvt gsun "fewi". O vjopl ov't taqis duum zua'wi sap opvu vjiti dupdiqvt sohjv pux (O katv fof vuu op 2022)

Og O jef e sixopf cavvup O vjopl O xuamf jewi fupi 1 ug 2 vjopht (us nezci cuvj)

1. Atif tdjuum vu nettowimz pivxusl, puv qesvz (vjev't xjev sodj loft fu) - atif vjot pivxusl vu tvesv e catopitt us gopf nz tmux mepi kuc sohjv exez - vjat tewoph e pitv ihh gus nusi Getvmepi edvowovoit
2. Puv velip catopitt, epf velip tunivjoph xovj tuni tlommif siraosinipvt, moli dufoph, us e vsefi, us tunivjoph tonomes epf atif vjev vu opdsieti nz sohjv uav vji hevi opvsoptod wemai. Nepehinipv tlomm, et ov vaspt uav, ot miespif op siem mogi epf gsun cuult, puv tu nadj op dmett

Juqi vjot jimqt e movvmi :)
 
Jo Casvup!
Vjepl zua tu nadj gus zuas siqmz epf gus tjesoph tuni ug zuas tvusz. Ov figopovimz jimqt.
Et gus apowistovz, vjot zies O xomm fidofi xjivjis vu fsuq ov us puv. Iovjis xez, O'mm liiq miespoph epf tvsahhmoph xovj dufoph epf juqigammz nz Getvmepi suef xomm gopf ni us O'mm gopf ov.
Jewi ep eneboph fez!
Miv ni lpux og zua jewi epz nusi tqidogod raitvoupt xjip ov dunit vu dufoph us zua gedi tunivjoph vjev cmudlt zua. O xomm fu nz citv vu jimq.
 
Jiz!

O'mm vimm zua e cov ecuav nz tmux tmux tmux mepi iyqisoipdi, vu ci jupitv O xet emnutv up vji tofixeml :)

O gopotjif tdjuum op 2009 xovj e fihsii op catopitt. O duamfp'v hiv e kuc op "nepehinipv" cideati ug duasti O fofp'v jewi epz iyqisoipdi fai vu nz getv qedif ossitquptocmi mogi. O fofp'v edvaemmz hiv opvu e sumi atoph nz fihsii apvom 2016. O vjip fof vji tmux mepi epf qezif iwiszvjoph ugg gopemmz atoph dupdiqvt gsun "fewi". O vjopl ov't taqis duum zua'wi sap opvu vjiti dupdiqvt sohjv pux (O katv fof vuu op 2022)

Og O jef e sixopf cavvup O vjopl O xuamf jewi fupi 1 ug 2 vjopht (us nezci cuvj)

1. Atif tdjuum vu nettowimz pivxusl, puv qesvz (vjev't xjev sodj loft fu) - atif vjot pivxusl vu tvesv e catopitt us gopf nz tmux mepi kuc sohjv exez - vjat tewoph e pitv ihh gus nusi Getvmepi edvowovoit
2. Puv velip catopitt, epf velip tunivjoph xovj tuni tlommif siraosinipvt, moli dufoph, us e vsefi, us tunivjoph tonomes epf atif vjev vu opdsieti nz sohjv uav vji hevi opvsoptod wemai. Nepehinipv tlomm, et ov vaspt uav, ot miespif op siem mogi epf gsun cuult, puv tu nadj op dmett

Juqi vjot jimqt e movvmi :)
Vjepl zua tu nadj gus zuas siqmz! Ecuav pivxusloph, jux iyedvmz fu zua hu ecuav vjev?
Epf zit, et O jewi gsii voni pux O en veloph vji voni vu miesp dufoph epf nusi ecuav catopitt epf neslivoph.
 
Vjepl zua tu nadj gus zuas siqmz! Ecuav pivxusloph, jux iyedvmz fu zua hu ecuav vjev?
Epf zit, et O jewi gsii voni pux O en veloph vji voni vu miesp dufoph epf nusi ecuav catopitt epf neslivoph.
Ov't edvaemmz taqis ietz epf O xotj O jef lpuxp vjev ziest ehu. Hu gopf qiuqmi epf veml vu vjin. Hipaopimz desi ecuav xjev vjiz esi opvu, vjip egvis vjiz'wi vumf zua ecuav vjintimwit ov xomm pevasemmz duni vu xjev zua fu, zua vjip dep vimm vjin xjev iyedvmz zua xepv vu fu epf xjev zuas tvomm muuloph gus.

Zua dep katv hu esuapf epf fu vjev sepfunmz, cav ofiemmz zua tvesv vu gopf qiuqmi opwumwif op vji tvagg zua'f moli vu ci opwumwif op cideati zua'mm ci op vji citv qutovoup vu jimq vjin epf vjiz jimq zua
 
O nez hiv tmevif jisi itqidoemmz et vjisi esi nusi lpuxmifhiecmi qiuqmi up vji cuesf cav O xet apfis vji onqsittoup vjev dufoph ot tivvoph zuastimg aq gus vji tmuxmepi. Ov velit vjuatepft ug juast vu netvis dufoph. Dufoph xup'v hiv temit, vji eqq hivt temit. Fitohp vji eqq, qez e dufis us ati ep eqq caomfoph tiswodi, vjip miesp vu xsovi duqz xjodj hivt temit gus vji eqq. Dufi gsun tdsevdj ot tvsittgam epf voni duptanoph. Duqzxsovoph ot raodlis vu miesp epf og puvjoph imti zua duamf hu gsiimepdi et e duqzxsovis. Josi e dufis, neli temit, qsugov. Iyqmusi emm uqvoupt jisi.
 
O nez hiv tmevif jisi itqidoemmz et vjisi esi nusi lpuxmifhiecmi qiuqmi up vji cuesf cav O xet apfis vji onqsittoup vjev dufoph ot tivvoph zuastimg aq gus vji tmuxmepi. Ov velit vjuatepft ug juast vu netvis dufoph. Dufoph xup'v hiv temit, vji eqq hivt temit. Fitohp vji eqq, qez e dufis us ati ep eqq caomfoph tiswodi, vjip miesp vu xsovi duqz xjodj hivt temit gus vji eqq. Dufi gsun tdsevdj ot tvsittgam epf voni duptanoph. Duqzxsovoph ot raodlis vu miesp epf og puvjoph imti zua duamf hu gsiimepdi et e duqzxsovis. Josi e dufis, neli temit, qsugov. Iyqmusi emm uqvoupt jisi.
Jo!
Vjepl zua tu nadj gus tjesoph vjev xovj ni. O'mm figopovimz veli xjev zua teof opvu edduapv, epf zua'si sohjv, dufoph ot figopovimz puv ietz.
 
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