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Today I got bored. It wasn't because I was doing anything tedius. It wasn't because I had to sit in a quiet room, waiting for a phone call. In fact, I was quite thoughrally engaged, mentally speaking. Yet, I still got bored- bored going on border, which for me brings about a sense of pain, and would lead to depression if I let it.

The difference between this and 'normal' boredom is that it isn't hard to concentrate... Tedius things make you literally fall asleep (I did some research before posting. A boring, difficult little article said this: 30 seconds before mistakes are made with repetitive tasks, the rest parts of the brain activate. So basically scientists with an MRI discovered what we already know: Boring, repetitive tasks shut your brain off.)

Here's the thing I recognize: Often when I get bored, it's because my actions/situation don't line up with what I'm expecting or desiring in my head. Basically, I want something else out of the situation.
Today I couldn't take any action that would make what I want come to fruition, so rather than that course, I changed my environment. Logged in here, did a little looking around, made a post (2 if you count this) and that worked. My expectations changed with the environment, and all is lined up in a way that works.

However... I dawned on a question that I believe could lead me to much higher levels of productivity:
How do you turn the focus in your head to align with your actions or situation, instead of the other way around?


I hope that made sense. Right now, I'm about 60-70% of what Russ would call a dreamer. (Got that from a forum search on 'boring'.).. While the little bit of doing is leaps and bounds better than none, switching those numbers to 60-70% doer would be awesome.

Maybe the problem will turn out to be simply discipline after all (as it parallels a lack of discipline: Being unwilling to do things when there's something else you would prefer.)- I don't know. In my current state of mind, it seems more like a cause to lack discipline, than being undisciplined itself.

Before I post this and wait for discussion and advice, I'll list off the best tip I found for reading through a boring book. "Pretend William Shatner is reading it to you."
 
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