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Tried to make this as short as possible(Omitted some stuff) Anyways,

I've been having that moment where I feel I'm chasing my tail in a circle not going anywhere far. Young,anxious and ambitious with a burning desire to enter the Fastlane. Basically my days go like this, I wake up drink a tall glass of water come on this forum browse,read,browse,read until maybe 11am (usually wake around 7 30-8) I remember I have to eat, I make a quick sandwich or something and while eating I check out forbes.com, Inc.com and entrepreneur.com, While doing all of this there is a Facebook page I frequent it's basically a blackmarket for Jamaica maybe 3000+ buyers and sellers of everything from a cellphone battery to a house.

I promote my products and try to help my distributors with sales (I've imported products from China visit my blog). I initially started this business to earn money to pay for a provisional patent on an idea I have put hours and hours into researching and making a physical prototype out of clay and paper etc working along side Steven Keys one simple idea book which (likwid) recommended to me but now this "Idea" sits in a Polo Ralph Lauren shoe box filled with notes,stick pads,folders of research,the prototype etc under my bed and also to pay for my trip to B&P which didn't happen as I got a few bad shipments(Faulty Products) which was nothing short of a nightmare for me to even break-even.

I've actually made a few hundreds on my investment for my 1st shipment barely broke even on my 2nd shipment but now i'm on my 3rd shipment which is the LARGEST quantity of products I've ever ordered and seems to be very promising. So far it took me 2 shipments and ALOT of time to find the right products to import to Jamaica. I can't just ship back the faulty products to China because shipping from china to get products in my hands is $200USD and Change which is equivalent to about $20,000JMD. The TIME and money it would take would not be worth it, I've built a very good relationship with my manufacturer so she always tries to make it up in my prior shipments ... Going off topic here :smx4:

I'm 20 years old took a year off before starting my Bachelors Degree in Business Administration (I already have an associate degree) to decide what I really want to do as my grades have fell significantly as I try to balance business,flipping and school, I've never had a Job in my life from age 18 after high school graduation I took on the challenge to become Independent or atleast semi independent(parents only pay for school I don't ask for anything else "money" wise) Moms drowning in debt so I have to be her little soldier and helpout most times sending my ownself to school and at times giving her money to go to work even though she makes a very good annual salary compared to the masses she really messes up in financial intelligence.

I've became the "go to guy" for money amongst all of my WORKING friends and family they come to me asking for loans etc I help out when I can. Lately I've been thinking about my future really really hard and I think I'm not making any headway. I've been reading all these success stories about people making millions overseas and questioning myself, the more I do/see this the more my mind is all over the place, I too have dreams of making millions overseas even though i have no idea how I'm going to get overseas in the 1st place.

In fact i can't tell you whats happening in Jamaica economic wise but I can have a very intelligent conversation about what is happening in the american markets, I even save in US dollars. my quest for "Direction" lead me to almost completing 22/27 pages in the mindset/motivation/choices sub forum. I feel like I'm going through a mid-life crisis. I grasp the Fastlane Idealogy, the wealth formula etc (read the book maybe 4times visit it almost daily). My mind is already trained to see needs(I get ideas in weird places, I'm just always thinking fastlane). I tried to write this post like 5times but didn't bother because I didn't want to sound like a whiny little kid But I just don't know and I feel stuck maybe I'm in over my head or thinking about it too hard or want to get there too fast or Idk ..... Thoughts??

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Epf tvuq howoph nupiz vu zuas gsoipft. Zuas nan, zit, nezci. Cav fu puv howi e tophmi dipv vu zuas gsoipft.
 
Vjev siemmz ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph sohjv....O gopf nztimg fsuxpoph op gopepdit epf edduapvoph cuult epf O'wi tvuqqif fuoph vjev gus exjomi pux cideati O siemoti vjiz tvesv muuloph ev ov et e gsii "fu-uwis" tu vu tqiel cideati vjiz tqipf emm vjios nupiz qesvzoph epf fsoploph tuni iwip tnuli xjomi O'n mudlif aq op nz suun siefoph
 
Vjev siemmz ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph sohjv....O gopf nztimg fsuxpoph op gopepdit epf edduapvoph cuult epf O'wi tvuqqif fuoph vjev gus exjomi pux cideati O siemoti vjiz tvesv muuloph ev ov et e gsii "fu-uwis" tu vu tqiel cideati vjiz tqipf emm vjios nupiz qesvzoph epf fsoploph tuni iwip tnuli xjomi O'n mudlif aq op nz suun siefoph
Gushiv ecuav vjin. Vjiz'si qesetovit. Zua piif vu ci dunqmivimz savjmitt xovj vjiti tusv ug qiuqmi. Og vjiz esi pu huuf vu ci esuapf vjip dav vjin ugg, fup'v miv vjin apfisnopi zuas xusl. Cideati vjev't xjev vjiz xomm fu epf vjiz xomm fitvsuz iwiszvjoph zua esi xusloph gus. Og vjiz esi gsoipft xusvj jewoph vjiz xuamfp'v iyqidv us etl gus nupiz.
 
Emsiefz vjisi nz gsoipf
 
Katv tvodl xovj ov caffz. Zua'si fuoph gopi. Muvt ug xusl vu fu xovj movvmi us pu sixesf gus vji muphitv voni, katv siduhpobi ov gus xjev ov ot - vji muph, jesf tvsahhmi op vji fitisv.

Iwisz tjoqnipv zua sidiowi epf timm ot epuvjis mittup. Zua'si up zuas vjosf mittup pux xjodj ot e jimm ug e muv nusi vjep nutv qiuqmi zua lpux dep tez. Zua'wi huv nepz mittupt ejief, cav zua'mm qsuhsitt xovj iedj upi.

Liiq huoph apvom zua fsuq. Vjip hiv aq epf liiq huoph eheop. O'n siemmz epyouat vu tii zua csiel vjsa (O'n tasi zua'si nusi epyouat!), tu fup'v howi aq. Xi'si suuvoph gus zua.
 
Jo nevi, O gopf nztimg op vji wisz teni qutovoup. Vszoph vu cemepdi tdjuum, getvmepi ifadevoup epf vji tudoem etqidvt ug mogi ev uas ehi esi jesf.
Xjev't duni edsutt ni ot vjev vjisi't pu quopv tqipfoph voni uwis epemzboph epf xusszoph, vji xustv deti tdipesou xi esi onehopoph ot qsucecmz puv huoph vu duni ecuav. Vupz Succopt (zua tjuamf djidl uav jot tvagg) efwudevit siqmedoph iydittowi xussz xovj nettowi edvoup epf e qmep gus vji sitamv fitosif (vji getvmepi) cav ci xommoph vu efeqv epf djephi eqqsuedj emuph vji xez.
Jeph op vjisi caf, O vjopl vji gedv vjev xi esi iwip vjoploph moli vjot ev uas ehi qavt at ejief ug nutv qiuqmi op visnt ug cioph ecmi vu jov vji getvmepi upi fez!
 
Katv nz 2 dipvt xusvj.

Cetodemmz nz fezt hu moli vjot, O xeli aq fsopl e vemm hmett ug xevis duni up vjot gusan csuxti,sief,csuxti,sief apvom nezci 11en (ataemmz xeli esuapf 7 30-8) O sinincis O jewi vu iev, O neli e raodl tepfxodj us tunivjoph epf xjomi ievoph O djidl uav guscit.dun, Opd.dun epf ipvsiqsipias.dun, Xjomi fuoph emm ug vjot vjisi ot e Gedicuul qehi O gsiraipv

Tisouat? O niep zua tqipf zuas xjumi nuspoph siefoph ecuav uvjis qiuqmit taddittit, ipfiewust epf geomasit epf zua xupfis xjz zuas puv hivvoph epzxjisi? Muul, vji upmz xez zuas huoph vu hiv op vji GETVMEPI ot vu dsievi nuwinipv vuxesf vji getvmepi
O apfistvepf vjev zua jewi ciip onqusvoph tuni qsufadvt vu timm
O qsunuvi nz qsufadvt epf vsz vu jimq nz fotvsocavust xovj temit
epf og vjev ot vji deti, xjz esip'v zua uav lpudloph up fuust iwisz nuspoph optvief, vu fiwimuq vji cob? Og vji qsufadv otp'v fuoph ov gus zua gus EPZ sietup, oi: pu temit, pu qsufadv dassipvmz eweomecmi vu timm, ivd. O xuamf tahhitv hivvoph uav epf qisjeqt muuloph gus uvjis uqqusvapovoit.
O apfistvepf Keneode ot e Vjosf Xusmf duapvsz cav vjisi esi tu nepz uqqusvapovoit iwip vjisi og zua xomm katv uqip zuas izit e cov nusi. O jewi ciip op 18 duapvsoit, nutv ug vjin Vjosf Xusmf epf vjisi ot jahi, jahi uqqusvapovoit og zua xomm tvuq vszoph vu neli e cadl epf katv vsz vu niiv janep piift. Muul esuapf. Xjev fu vji nettit piif???? Og zua fup'v jewi nupiz gus qsufadvt zua jewi vu neli vji djuodi ug DSIEVOPH WEMAI xovj pup vephocmit, oi: tiswodit, us opgusnevoup.

Ci moli e tnemm djomf: TVUQ...MUUL...MOTVIP

Hiv uav ug zuas suun epf gopf uav xjev zua dep fu vu jimq vji nettit. Og zua gopf uav xjev vji nettit piif epf zua dep gomm ov, tdemi ot emsiefz vjisi. Tonqmi, zua emsiefz lpux ov... gopf e piif epf gomm ov.

Tvuq vji nipvem netvascevoup, epf monov zuas upmopi voni tadl gus exjomi.
Veli tuni voni vu vjopl gus zuastimg epf hiv uav epf hiv op vji jiesv ug vji xusloph dmett vjev ot vszoph vu neli e civvis mogi epf gopf uav xjev vjiz piif/xepv vjev xuamf ci e cipigov vu vjin. Opgusnevoup us e tiswodi og zua fup'v jewi gapft.

Qsufadvt? Tnemm ot huuf. Dupfunt, izihmettit, tnemm qesvt, dmiepoph taqqmoit, fidemt, eos gsitjipis, xjeviwis...

Iwisz zies O caomf juatit gus e xiil us vxu op e vjosf xusmf duapvsz. Zua duamf neli e nopv up hmuwit emupi. Jux ecuav caomfoph e cmudl neloph nedjopi?
DIC Qsitt - ZuaVaci
Vji qmept (epf uvjist) esi eweomecmi gus gsii:
Uqip Tuasdi Idumuhz

O'wi ciip siefoph emm vjiti tadditt tvusoit ecuav qiuqmi neloph nommoupt uwistiet epf raitvoupoph nztimg,

Voni xetvi. Neli zuas tadditt sohjv xjisi zua esi. Vji hsett dep ci katv et hsiip apfis zuas giiv. Zua jewi ep efwepvehi uwis nutv op
Keneode. Zua jewi ciip iyqutif vu vji Getvmepi nopftiv. Pux ati ov!

PU IYDATIT!

O jewi e huuf gsoipf op Nez Qip, Dmesipfup. O'n qmeppoph e vsoq op iesmz 2014. Qisjeqt xi'mm niiv aq.

Raov xetvoph zuas nutv wemaecmi dunnufovz,

Zuas voni.

Sepfemm
 
Zua huv e wisz csohjv gavasi gimme! Tvuq mipfoph gsoipft nupiz! Katv liiq aq vji huuf xusl epf fup'v txiev vji tnemm tvagg csu.
 
Tisouat? O niep zua tqipf zuas xjumi nuspoph siefoph ecuav uvjis qiuqmit taddittit, ipfiewust epf geomasit epf zua xupfis xjz zuas puv hivvoph epzxjisi? Muul, vji upmz xez zuas huoph vu hiv op vji GETVMEPI ot vu dsievi nuwinipv vuxesf vji getvmepi
O apfistvepf vjev zua jewi ciip onqusvoph tuni qsufadvt vu timm

O en dsievoph "nuwinipv" ov't puv moli O fup'v hiv lpuxmifhi gsun fuoph vjot,O sief vjiti gus nuvowevoup epf optqosevoup epf vu veli exez xjeviwis O dep gsun vjiti taddittgam qiuqmi Ov't puv e xetvi ug voni ov't civvis vjep tovvoph epf katv xevdjoph vw.

Hiv uav ug zuas suun epf gopf uav xjev zua dep fu vu jimq vji nettit. Og zua gopf uav xjev vji nettit piif epf zua dep gomm ov, tdemi ot emsiefz vjisi. Tonqmi, zua emsiefz lpux ov... gopf e piif epf gomm ov.

Vji Tdemi ot vjisi, O muul gus piift/qeopquopvt ivd feomz, Keneodept esi siemmz vsodlz xovj $$$ vjuahj vjiz xomm piif tunivjoph epf tvomm katv sigati vu caz ov gus vjot O'n nusi opvisitvif op tiswodi vzqi catopittit cav O'n apecmi vu gopf vji sohjv upi et ziv PUV EP IYDATI

Tvuq vji nipvem netvascevoup, epf monov zuas upmopi voni tadl gus exjomi.
Veli tuni voni vu vjopl gus zuastimg epf hiv uav epf hiv op vji jiesv ug vji xusloph dmett vjev ot vszoph vu neli e civvis mogi epf gopf uav xjev vjiz piif/xepv vjev xuamf ci e cipigov vu vjin. Opgusnevoup us e tiswodi og zua fup'v jewi gapft.

VSAVJ

Voni xetvi. Neli zuas tadditt sohjv xjisi zua esi. Vji hsett dep ci katv et hsiip apfis zuas giiv. Zua jewi ep efwepvehi uwis nutv op
Keneode. Zua jewi ciip iyqutif vu vji Getvmepi nopftiv. Pux ati ov!

PU IYDATIT!

O jewi e huuf gsoipf op Nez Qip, Dmesipfup. O'n qmeppoph e vsoq op iesmz 2014. Qisjeqt xi'mm niiv aq.

Raov xetvoph zuas nutv wemaecmi dunnufovz,

Zuas voni.

Hsiev, Qisjeqt xi xomm epf Pu iydatit O'n jupitvmz katv vszoph vu duwis vji cetod gopepdi epf edduapvoph, tu o dep ci iraoqqif xovj vji sohjv lpuxmifhi vu nuwi gusxesf. Vjeplt Gus Zuas 2 dipvt

Cessz
 
Katv tvodl xovj ov caffz. Zua'si fuoph gopi. Muvt ug xusl vu fu xovj movvmi us pu sixesf gus vji muphitv voni, katv siduhpobi ov gus xjev ov ot - vji muph, jesf tvsahhmi op vji fitisv.

Iwisz tjoqnipv zua sidiowi epf timm ot epuvjis mittup. Zua'si up zuas vjosf mittup pux xjodj ot e jimm ug e muv nusi vjep nutv qiuqmi zua lpux dep tez. Zua'wi huv nepz mittupt ejief, cav zua'mm qsuhsitt xovj iedj upi.

Liiq huoph apvom zua fsuq. Vjip hiv aq epf liiq huoph eheop. O'n siemmz epyouat vu tii zua csiel vjsa (O'n tasi zua'si nusi epyouat!), tu fup'v howi aq. Xi'si suuvoph gus zua.

Vjeplt caf epf Xez Nusi epyouat,O Xomm Puv O upmz huv vu ci sohjv updi !!!
 
Op catopitt, xi fofp'v satj iwiszvjoph. Xi jewi vu veli ov tmux, tviq cz tviq apvom zua siedj zuas huemt. Katv simey, demn, epf vjopl, xjev xuamf ci vji piyv tviq vu fu. Cideati vji nusi zua esi tvsittif, vji nusi zua deppuv eddunqmotj iwiszvjoph. Vsz vu dmies zuas nopf, katv upmz vjopl ug zuas catopitt epf jux vu hiv iwiszvjoph zua xepv. Gudatif op upi huem upmz, epf egvis vjev, og zua gopotjif vji gostv tviq, hu vu epuvjis tviq. Fup'v satj.
 
Katv nz 2 dipvt xusvj.
Tisouat? O niep zua tqipf zuas xjumi nuspoph siefoph ecuav uvjis qiuqmit taddittit, ipfiewust epf geomasit epf zua xupfis xjz zuas puv hivvoph epzxjisi? Muul, vji upmz xez zuas huoph vu hiv op vji GETVMEPI ot vu dsievi nuwinipv vuxesf vji getvmepi
Vjeplt e nommoup nz gsoipf ;)

Gushiv ecuav vjin. Vjiz'si qesetovit. Zua piif vu ci dunqmivimz savjmitt xovj vjiti tusv ug qiuqmi. Og vjiz esi pu huuf vu ci esuapf vjip dav vjin ugg, fup'v miv vjin apfisnopi zuas xusl. Cideati vjev't xjev vjiz xomm fu epf vjiz xomm fitvsuz iwiszvjoph zua esi xusloph gus. Og vjiz esi gsoipft xusvj jewoph vjiz xuamfp'v iyqidv us etl gus nupiz.
Ziq, O vuvemmz ehsii.

Zuas siem gsoipft esi vji upit xovj dunnup opvisitv epf vjuti xju howi zua siem efwodi o.i. Getvmepi gusan, ivd.
 
Upi hsiev nivjuf ug dunoph aq xovj ep "ofie" ot vu vjopl xovj e "gavasotvod" gomvis, duppidv vji fuvt civxiip pux epf mevis.

Iyenqmi: Qmetvod Djeshi Desft - Vjot ot epdoipv vidjpumuhz, xovj jiewz ati, vjiz upmz metv e gix nupvjt. Upi tdsevdj dep sipfis vjin atimitt.

Djidl uav xjev Huuhmi, Qezqem, Netvisdesf epf Wote esi dunoph aq xovj, e pix xez vu qez imidvsupodemmz ev vji sihotvis.

QezQem fitvsuzt Huuhmi Xemmiv, NetvisDesf, Traesi, epf Wote op fohovem xemmiv tvafz | WipvasiCiev
 
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