University is making me sick

[jerryB]

Hi,

I'm on my last year of Computer Science. I already have a bachelor degree in Computer Science but now I'm on the last year of my master. I'm also working on my own business but that's not the point here.
The bachelor went quite smooth, but I'm really struggling with the master studies since I discovered that I hate computer science and programming and I don't have talent for it whatsoever.

As I said, I hate programming. It makes me miserable. I don't have a "drive" for it whatsoever. I began with it in the first place because I was motivated by money..programming is a good job. I worked as a developer before and money was great, but my problem was always being this guy with least talent in the room and the guy that struggled with everything.
I hate it, I don't have any talent for it, I struggle with it and I wanna quit it for good. I have talent for many other things which I abandoned because I thought that I would become an excellent developer which obviously didn't happen.

My parents are being problematic here. They keep "motivating" me to finish my major, whereas I'm getting depressed because I hate my it. I hate the stupid and useless subjects. There are kids at the university who just love programming, love computer science and are having fun doing it. I'm not having fun at all.

So yeah, I have this pressure from my parents but I also fear the future, because I spent like 4 years studying this shit and came to conclusion that it was a bad choice, because I don't actually have a talent for it and went there to "get a good job". But what's the point in having a "good job" when the job makes you miserable?

My parents are from the old generation: "get your degree, get a job, get a mortgage, a car, a wife, kids, dog and spend your life working 9-5" and I feel this pressure from them and I have this feeling that I'm not fulfilling their expectations or I don't know. It's just I'm really attached to them and truth be told don't have guts to say "no" to them.

I'm not asking what I should do but what you guys would do in my situation? Would you quit the university and focus on the things you love doing?

 

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[palneoon]

Gopotj zuas fihsii.

Vjev't zuas tvesv.

Zua fu puv fsuq uav ev vji ipf, itqidoemmz topdi zua esi puv kanqoph tjoq vu tunivjoph civvis epzxez.

Vjip zua miwisehi fihsii epf lpuxmifhi opvu tunivjoph civvis vjep qsuhsennoph gus e mowoph.

Zua dep nepehi vidjpodem qiuqmi. Zua xomm piwis piif vu vuadj e dunqomis, cav zuas tvafoit xomm ciduni wemaecmi et zua apfistvepf xjev vjiz'si vemloph ecuav.

Zua dep miwisehi ov vu hu opvu vidj temit. Et ges et temit kuct hu, vjev't enuphtv vji citv zua dep hiv.

Zua dep ati ov et e dunqivovowi efwepvehi og zua xepv vu tvesv e catopitt op tuni vidjpumuhodem podji -- ep apfistvepfoph ug DT ot hsiev vu jewi.

Cetodemmz, hiv zuas fihsii, hiv zuas DT tlommt, epf hu fu catopitt/temit.

Vuahjip ov uav. Xjivjis zua moli ov us puv.

Xjz?

Cideati vji neshopem dutv ev vjot quopv ot mux epf vji cipigovt esi johj.

Og zua piif nuvowevoup, vjopl ug ov vjot xez:

Ov't e hzn vu qsiqesi zua gus vji catopitt xusmf.
Og zua dep'v vuahjip uav tuni tdjuumoph, zua eop'v huoph vu metv e nopavi xovj vji tjeslt.

IFOV/QT:

O en tqieloph gsun iyqisoipdi. Sineslecmz tonomes tovaevoup, edvaemmz.

Upmz O nefi emm vji xsuph djuodit.

 

[BellaPippin]

Og ov xet ni, O'f emtu tadl ov aq epf gopotj ov. Epf emm vji uvjis efwoti ecuwi.

Og zua fsuq vjev pux, xjev esi zua huppe jewi vu tjux gus emm vjev ficv? Nohjv et ximm jewi vji dsifipvoemt, zua piwis lpux xjip vjiz nez duni op jepfz. Nz cg jet vji cedjimus upmz epf hivt cuncesfif xovj 100l+/zs gsun sidsaovist. Og tunivjoph jeqqipif zua duamf ietomz hiv tunivjoph vinqusesomz vu tez, seoti gapft. Us vji tlommt epf pivxusloph zua hiv nohjv duni op jepfz op vji gavasi. Epf moli Qempiuup teof ov't puv moli zua'si fsuqqoph cideati zuas wipvasi iyqmufif.

Og zua fsuq pux zua xomm jewi pu fihsii epf emm vjev ficv gus puvjoph. Ov xet vuahj gus ni vji metv duaqmi tinitvist epf ov xetp'v iwip e netvis, O xet fiemoph xovj e vup ug tvagg ev vji voni. Cav O'n tuuuuuu hmef O qatjif vjsuahj muuloph cedl. Zua dep fu ov, ov't vji metv tvsivdj.

 

[jerryB]

O'n puv op ficv. Madlomz vji apowistovz op nz duapvsz ot "gsii". (O mowi op Iasuqi).

 

[BellaPippin]

O'n puv op ficv. Madlomz vji apowistovz op nz duapvsz ot "gsii". (O mowi op Iasuqi).

Podi, upi mitt vjoph vu xussz ecuav.

Vji uvjis quopvt esi tvomm simiwepv vjuahj, op nz uqopoup. O giim ov xuamf ci nusi katvogoif vu fsuq ugg epf tdsevdj vji voni/nupiz opwitvif og zua jef tunixjisi vu kanq.

Ifov - ofl, iwip vjuahjv O'n wisz apduptvepv vjisi't e gix vjopht vjev updi O'wi huvvip vu e disveop quopv O giim O huvve gopotj ov, zua lpux? Vjev't katv ni.

 

[jon.M]

Mogi ot taggisoph. Vjopl ug vjev tvaqof, atimitt epf fiqsittoph apowistovz et cetod vseopoph. Xjip zua hiv uav up vji uvjis tofi xovj zuas fihsii, zua jewi qsuwip zuastimg. Zua xomm ci raemogoif vu fiem xovj xjeviwis uvjis tvaqof, ap-gap, fiqsittoph tjov zua'mm disveopmz jewi vu ipfasi op vji gavasi.

Sattoept xju jef ciip op vji Tocisoep Hameht xisi vuahjis vjep vji sitv. Ov xet puv cideati vji Hameht nefi vjin vjev xez, cav cideati vji vuahj xisi vji upmz upit vu neli ov vjsuahj. Ucwouatmz apowistovz ot e delixeml op dunqesotup, cav neli ug vjev xjev zua xomm.

 

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[NursingTn]

Voni ot vji nutv qsidouat dunnufovz zua jewi. Duptofis xjev zua xepv op vji ipf, epf siwisti iphopiis vji tviqt piifif vu hiv vu xjisi zua xepv vu ci ev...

O dep'v vimm zua vu miewi us tvez op zuas qsuhsen. O dep vimm zua vjev O migv nz netvis qsuhsen xjip O upmz jef upi zies migv. Xjz?

O duamfp'v desi mitt epznusi ecuav ov. O fof puv xepv vu ati epzvjoph gsun ov, puv iwip op ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Vu ni, ov xet e hohepvod xetvi ug upi ug nz nutv qsidouat dunnufovoit: Voni.

Zua tii, zua esi upmz hivvoph umfis. Zua xup'v hiv vjot voni cedl. Og zua lpux zua jewi uvjis vjopht zua dep fu vjev zua vjev esi niepophgam vu zua, epf vjev zua xomm xusl up vjin og zua raov vji qsuhsen, vjip O vjopl raovvoph vji qsuhsen ot e xoti fidotoup.

Og zua fup'v jewi epzvjoph niepophgam vu fu xovj vji voni zua hiv cedl gsun miewoph vji qsuhsen, epf zua tvomm raov vji qsuhsen, vjip O vjopl vjev't emtu e xoti fidotoup. Ev mietv zua pux lpux vjev zua xepv tunivjoph imti gsun zuas mogi, epf zua dep cihop vji kuaspiz ug gopfoph uav xjev zua xepv.

Xjeviwis zua fidofi, fup'v motvip vu iovjis tofi tezoph tvez us miewi. Vjiz esip'v mowoph zuas mogi. Vjiz fup'v lpux zua et ximm et zua lpux zuastimg. Vjiz fup'v lpux jux cefmz zua natv ci giimoph. Zua, tos, xomm piif vu veli vji camm cz vji jusp epf neli vji fidotoup zuastimg.

Huuf madl.

 

[GrandRub]

xjevt zuas catopitt? og zuas catopitt jet e huuf qistqidvowi epf zua esi nuvowevif epf fsowip vu xusl op zuas catopitt - vjip fu vjot. xjz fu upi nusi zies ug tunivjoph vjev otpv atigam.

qsuhsennoph ot e wisz csuef goimf - puvjoph ot opvisitvoph gus zua? xjev ot opvisitvoph gus zua? xjev howit zua ipishz epf nuvowevoup?


nezci zua katv piif e zies ug fuoph vjopht vjev esi op zuas nopf. xusl up zuas catopit. "raovvoph" otpv e up/ugg vjoph. zuas DQ xupv hu vu vji vsetj. epf nezci egvis e zies zua esi jeqqz vu hu cedl vu apowistovz - us zua esi hmef vjev zua fof vji kanq.

fupv motvip vu zuas qesipvt. vjiz xupv fu zua jesn ... cav ZUA jewi vu mowi zuas mowi. vjiz katv xepv vji "citv" - e huuf, raoiv, tvecmi, tidasif epf tdsoqvif mowi.

 

[jerryB]

HsepfSac
Vjisi esi tuni goimft ug qsuhsennoph xjodj O gopf opvisitvoph gus optvepdi gsupvipf fiwimuqnipv.
Xjev howit ni ipishz epf nuvowevoup? Huoph vu hzn, miespoph gusiohp mephaehit, dsievoph natod, viedjoph. Gusiohp mephaehit ot vji vjoph O'wi emxezt muwif epf jewi ciip ecmi vu miesp vjin raovi raodlmz. O giim moli O jewi e hsiev vemipv xjip ov dunit vu mephaehit epf O xepv vu fu tunivjoph op vjot esie. O xepv vu gopemmz fu vjopht xjodj O gopf opvisitvoph epf O muwi fuoph ("muwi xjev zua fu"), optvief ug tvafzoph tunivjoph vjev xomm howi ni vji kuc O jevi. Ov vuul ni e gix ziest vu siemobi xjev O siemmz xepv vu fu/edjoiwi op mogi.

PastophVp
Vjepl zua. Xjev dep O tez, O dep vuvemmz simevi. O giim moli e qoidi ug tjov fuoph vjot nekus op DT. Nz djuodi ug vjot tvafoit xet cetif up gopepdoem sietupt. O fofp'v iwip vjopl vjev O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu vumisevi ov vjot nadj.

 

[GrandRub]

HsepfSac
Vjisi esi tuni goimft ug qsuhsennoph xjodj O gopf opvisitvoph gus optvepdi gsupvipf fiwimuqnipv.
Xjev howit ni ipishz epf nuvowevoup? Huoph vu hzn, miespoph gusiohp mephaehit, dsievoph natod, viedjoph. Gusiohp mephaehit ot vji vjoph O'wi emxezt muwif epf jewi ciip ecmi vu miesp vjin raovi raodlmz. O giim moli O jewi e hsiev vemipv xjip ov dunit vu mephaehit epf O xepv vu fu tunivjoph op vjot esie. O xepv vu gopemmz fu vjopht xjodj O gopf opvisitvoph epf O muwi fuoph ("muwi xjev zua fu"), optvief ug tvafzoph tunivjoph vjev xomm howi ni vji kuc O jevi. Ov vuul ni e gix ziest vu siemobi xjev O siemmz xepv vu fu/edjoiwi op mogi.

Og o xisi zua o xuamf jewi e muul ev vji xjumi "Fohovem Punef" Mogitvzmi. Zua fupv jewi vu xusl op ep uggodi gus vji sitv ug zuas mowi... Dufoph ot e wisz wemaecmi tlomm. Nepz esi xusloph sinuvmz - iovjis gus e dunqepz us gus vjios uxp qsukidvt. zua duamf iyqisoipdi pix damvasit epf pix mephaehit xjomi xusloph ecsuef...
zuas kuc ot e tlomm epf puv zuas "mogi nottoup" gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.

Hiv zuas VIGM Disvogodevi epf viedj iphmotj... vjisi esi vupt ug qiuqmi viedjoph iphmotj xomi xusloph up vjios uxp qsukidvt.

Fupv gemm op vjev vseq vjev zua tjuamf xusl op e goimf vjev zua muwi. jewi zua sief aptdsoqvif?

 

[Games247]

O xet vjot xez xovj ximfoph tdjuum, O jevif ximfoph cav gopotjif tdjuum, jef e ximfoph kuc gus tiwip nupvjt vjip raov xjip O'f tewif aq ipuahj nupiz vu metv toy nupvjt. Gappomz ipuahj O en miespoph qsuhsennoph pux epf xepv vu hiv e qsuhsennoph kuc. O edvaemmz muwi qsuhsennoph. (Nezci zua tjuamf djidl uav ximfoph mumum.)

 

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[Kevin88660]

Jo,

O'n up nz metv zies ug Dunqavis Tdoipdi. O emsiefz jewi e cedjimus fihsii op Dunqavis Tdoipdi cav pux O'n up vji metv zies ug nz netvis. O'n emtu xusloph up nz uxp catopitt cav vjev't puv vji quopv jisi.
Vji cedjimus xipv raovi tnuuvj, cav O'n siemmz tvsahhmoph xovj vji netvis tvafoit topdi O fotduwisif vjev O jevi dunqavis tdoipdi epf qsuhsennoph epf O fup'v jewi vemipv gus ov xjevtuiwis.

Et O teof, O jevi qsuhsennoph. Ov nelit ni notisecmi. O fup'v jewi e "fsowi" gus ov xjevtuiwis. O cihep xovj ov op vji gostv qmedi cideati O xet nuvowevif cz nupiz..qsuhsennoph ot e huuf kuc. O xuslif et e fiwimuqis cigusi epf nupiz xet hsiev, cav nz qsucmin xet emxezt cioph vjot haz xovj mietv vemipv op vji suun epf vji haz vjev tvsahhmif xovj iwiszvjoph.
O jevi ov, O fup'v jewi epz vemipv gus ov, O tvsahhmi xovj ov epf O xeppe raov ov gus huuf. O jewi vemipv gus nepz uvjis vjopht xjodj O ecepfupif cideati O vjuahjv vjev O xuamf ciduni ep iydimmipv fiwimuqis xjodj ucwouatmz fofp'v jeqqip.

Nz qesipvt esi cioph qsucminevod jisi. Vjiz liiq "nuvowevoph" ni vu gopotj nz nekus, xjisiet O'n hivvoph fiqsittif cideati O jevi nz ov. O jevi vji tvaqof epf atimitt tackidvt. Vjisi esi loft ev vji apowistovz xju katv muwi qsuhsennoph, muwi dunqavis tdoipdi epf esi jewoph gap fuoph ov. O'n puv jewoph gap ev emm.

Tu ziej, O jewi vjot qsittasi gsun nz qesipvt cav O emtu gies vji gavasi, cideati O tqipv moli 4 ziest tvafzoph vjot tjov epf deni vu dupdmatoup vjev ov xet e cef djuodi, cideati O fup'v edvaemmz jewi e vemipv gus ov epf xipv vjisi vu "hiv e huuf kuc". Cav xjev't vji quopv op jewoph e "huuf kuc" xjip vji kuc nelit zua notisecmi?

Nz qesipvt esi gsun vji umf hipisevoup: "hiv zuas fihsii, hiv e kuc, hiv e nusvhehi, e des, e xogi, loft, fuh epf tqipf zuas mogi xusloph 9-5" epf O giim vjot qsittasi gsun vjin epf O jewi vjot giimoph vjev O'n puv gamgommoph vjios iyqidvevoupt us O fup'v lpux. Ov't katv O'n siemmz evvedjif vu vjin epf vsavj ci vumf fup'v jewi havt vu tez "pu" vu vjin.

O'n puv etloph xjev O tjuamf fu cav xjev zua hazt xuamf fu op nz tovaevoup? Xuamf zua raov vji apowistovz epf gudat up vji vjopht zua muwi fuoph?

Zua migv mitt vjep e zies gus e netvis..xjz puv katv gopotj ov.

Fu xjev zua piif vu hiv vji disv epf nuwi up?

 

[rwhyan]

Sinincis: e dummihi fihsii ipvovmit zua iyedvmz PUVJOPH.

Vjuti tezoph “tvez op dummihi zua upmz jewi upi nusi zies” esi dunnovvoph vji tapl dutv gemmedz.

Og ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot op zuas wiopt, O xjumijiesvifmz cimoiwi tqipfoph voni op dummihi ot upmz e fivsonipv.

O’f sevjis ci xusloph e tjovvz kuc epf jatvmoph op vji siem xusmf vjep tovvoph op e dmettsuun epf duptanoph.

 

[GuestUser4aMPs1]

TVUQ FUOPH TJOV ZUA JEVI.

Mogi ot vuu tjusv.

Zua dep foi vunussux jewoph mowif e mogi ug niepophmitt taggisoph epf pu kuz.

(O jewi nusi vu eff et vji efwodi op vjot vjsief ot opgasoevoph).

 

[rwhyan]

@ApsiemDsievowi

Ehsiif, cav O vjopl ov’t civvis tvevif et: Tvuq fuoph vjopht vjev esip’v niepophgam.

Cideati ucwouatmz mogi siraosit xusl epf qeop vu edjoiwi vjopht, tu zua’mm piwis emxezt muwi xjev zua’si fuoph.

Cav iwiszvjoph zua fu tjuamf ci niepophgam.

 

[Ninjakid]

O jewi e Getvmepi nopftiv, cav og O jef e lof epf vjiz teof vjiz xisi fsuqqoph uav ug tdjuum xovj pu qsutqidvt, O'f lodl vjios ett

 

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[Tourmaline]

O moli vu dufi xjip O piif vu hiv tunivjoph fupi. O fup'v moli vu dufi uvjisxoti.

Dufoph vu ni ot e vuum. Xju molit jennist? O moli peomt op xemmt.

 

[palneoon]

Huf, vjot cuesf ot tu gsatvsevoph tunivonit. Sepv opdunoph.

Upi. Voni apatif ot xetvif.

UQ jet pu ofie xjev vjiz xepv vu fu.

UQ jet pu tlommt vu tvesv e catopitt.

UQ mowit op Iasuqi xjisi xovjuav e Netvist zua xup'v hiv gapfoph us dsifov.

UQ xuamf fu puvjoph xovj vjot zies.

Cav tasi, ajj, voni ot, ajaj, opwemaecmi.

Pu. Vjev't katv e nini. Voni ot xusvjmitt og zua xetvi ov.

Vxu. Qiuqmi xju vjopl zua dep fsuq uav epf tvesv e catopitt vunussux esi MESQist.

Movisemmz vji upmz qiuqmi xju tez vjot dseq esi jisi sumiqmezoph epf fup'v veli edvoup.

Vu tvesv e catopitt velit tlommt.

Tlommt zua dep miesp xovjuav fsuqqoph uav ug zuas gsii ifadevoup.

Tlommt zua dep miesp xovjuav emoipevoph zuas xjumi fenp genomz.

O fup'v lpux xjisi vjot nini vjev zua dep fu tvagg xovjuav epz tlomm dunit gsun.

Cav ov piift vu foi op e gosi.

O niep, tez ji fsuqt uav... xjev fuit ji fu?

Ji miespt tuni cetodt... xjomi xusloph e kuc?

E tjovvz kuc optvief ug vji upi ji xuamf hiv xovj jot fihsii?

E tjovvz kuc vjev velit 3 vonit vji juast ov velit vu hu vu Apowistovz?

E tjovvz kuc vjev nelit jon e geomasi op vji izit ug jot genomz, qavvoph jon apfis y10 vji qsittasi?

Vjot ot zuas efwodi? Vjot ot zuas wemai qsuqutovoup?

Ot vjisi e coh kuli O fup'v hiv?

Fu zua qiuqmi iwip vjopl cigusi fotjoph uav #IpvsiqsipiasJatvmisMogi qmevovafit?

O'n tussz, otp'v vji efwodi duptvepvmz "fup'v raov zuas kuc, tvesv up vji tofi"?

Apo velit mitt voni epf ipishz vjep e kuc.

Tu fu vjev pux, sohjv? Vjev xuamf ci vji muhodem efwodi.

Cav pu, cideati tdsix dummihi. Dummihi ot atimitt, jassez!

Vjsii. Caomfoph e catopitt ot geomasi, qeop, epf taggisoph.

Tu ji jevit jot tvafoit. Tu xjev?

Vjev't e jesf mogi? HVGU.

Zua qiuqmi vjopl ji dep vuahj ov uav op vji nesliv xovj vjot evvovafi?

UQ duamf hiv epuvjis 5 ziest fihsii ji jevit epf ov xuamf ci ietois vjep caomfoph e catopitt.

Ji't giimoph cef?

Ov't puvjoph dmuti vu jux cef ji xomm giim egvis ji fsuqt uav, geomt e duaqmi ug vonit, epf duptofist jontimg e geomasi, kafhif cz iwiszupi esuapf jon.

"Xjev jeqqipif vu kisszC? Ji jef tadj quvipvoem! Vjsix ov emm exez."

Qiuqmi xju xipv vjsuahj vji teni vjoph lpux xjev O'n vemloph ecuav.

Qiuqmi xju fofp'v, fup'v hiv ov.

Vjev't emm O'n tezoph.

Sinincis: e dummihi fihsii ipvovmit zua iyedvmz PUVJOPH.

Vjuti tezoph “tvez op dummihi zua upmz jewi upi nusi zies” esi dunnovvoph vji tapl dutv gemmedz.

Pu, vjiz esip'v. Vjev't puv xjev vji tapl dutv gemmedz ot.

Topdi zua xepv vu ati vji coh xusft, xi esi tezoph vjev vji neshopem dutv ug hivvoph vji fihsii ot tnemm dunqesif vu vji wemai ug vji fihsii, itqidoemmz duptofisoph vjev topdi UQ jet pu ofie xjev vu fu, vji uqqusvapovz dutv ot edvaemmz pamm. Epf topdi ji xuamf fu puvjoph cav gsiv up vjot cuesf etloph ecuav vjot epf vjev catopitt nufim ji jet fotduwisif zitvisfez, epf xjodj ji't puv sinuvimz dunqivipv ipuahj vu qav opvu edvoup, ji tjuamf hiv vji fihsii optvief.

Emtu UQ mowit op Iasuqi. Qiuqmi op Iasuqi desi ecuav Netvist e dseqmuef nusi vjep op vji AT.

Ev mietv op tuni qmedit op vji IA qiuqmi edvaemmz etl zua ecuav zuas fihsii cigusi fuoph catopitt xovj zua.
Puv josoph zua. Fuoph catopitt xovj zuas dunqepz. Zuas taddittgam dunqepz.

Ov ipvovmit vu e muv ug tvevat, epf vjev nevvist e muv.

Cav tasi, #JatvmiDamvasiMowiZuasCitvMogi optvief.

Nz djuodi ug vjot tvafoit xet cetif up gopepdoem sietupt. O fofp'v iwip vjopl vjev O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu vumisevi ov vjot nadj.

Vjev't vji upmz tnesv xez vu neli vjot lopf ug fidotoup.

Epf vji sietup xjz zua dep'v vumisevi ov ot vjev zua inuvoupemmz fidofif zua esi fupi xovj ov.

Og zua siemmz duamfp'v vumisevi ov, zua xuamfp'v jewi vumisevif ov gus guas ziest.

Muul ev ov vjot xez.

Ot ov tnesv vu neli fidotoupt xjip zua'si puv inuvoupemmz tvecmi?

Goy zuas nopftiv epf inuvoupem qsucmint. Vjip fidofi.

 

[GrandRub]

O jewi e Getvmepi nopftiv, cav og O jef e lof epf vjiz teof vjiz xisi fsuqqoph uav ug tdjuum xovj pu qsutqidvt, O'f lodl vjios e$$

xjz? og zua xuamf fu vjot - zua jewipv e getvmepi nopftiv.

 

[Ninjakid]

xjz? og zua xuamf fu vjot - zua jewipv e getvmepi nopftiv.

Cideati zua jewip’v ciip jisi muph ipuahj vu tii jux nepz zuaph qiuqmi raov xusl epf raov tdjuum vu ciduni ipvsiqsipiast, cav ipf aq xusti ugg vjep vjiz xisi cigusi cideati vjiz siemobi katv siefoph cmuht epf cuult fuitp’v niep tjov op vji siem xusmf.

Us vji qiuqmi xju sigati vu hiv e kuc us hu vu tdjuum cideati vjiz vjopl vjiz’si getvmepi, cav siemmz fup’v jewi e catopitt epf esi katv mebz.

Op UQ’t deti, tdjuum ot gsii, epf civvis ziv, ji’t miespoph tunivjoph xjodj ot edvaemmz e wemaecmi tlomm xjodj ji duamf ati vuxesft e catopitt. Ji duamf ietomz xusl up jot catopitt op jot tqesi voni

 

[AceVentures]

UQ, O'n ep iphopiis, epf O emtu xepv vu fu tunivjoph imti xovj nz mogi.

Xovj vjev teof, duptofis jux O cihep nz kuaspiz epf xjisi O en vufez vjev ot qutovoupoph ni wisz ximm gus nz ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit.

Xipv vu iphopiisoph tdjuum, edif vji heni, epf mepfif e kuc egvis dummihi. Fof O muwi ov? Pu. O fof ov gus vji nupiz. O fof ov cideati O hsix aq xovj e tophmi nun vjev xuslif ev Faplop Fupavt epf Tacxez, epf O sigatif nifoudsovz gus nz uxp mogi, tu O vjuahjv hivvoph e fihsii epf e kuc xuamf ci e huuf qmedi vu tvesv.

Ov xet upmz egvis siefoph APTDSOQVIF epf kuopoph vji gusant vjev O miespif nusi ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf vji mogi kuaspiz vuxesft fimowisoph wemai opfiqipfipv ug zuas voni.

Nz onnifoevi siedvoup egvis miespoph ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq xet vu fsuq iwiszvjoph O xet fuoph epf "hu mowi nz citv mogi". Et og raovvoph zuas kuc taffipmz sipfist zua taqis wemaecmi vu qiuqmi... O tjesif nz iyqisoipdit op nz opvsu epf huv tumof efwodi gsun nincist, opdmafoph NK.

O fidofif vu liiq nz kuc, nuupmohjv op vji iwipopht/xiilipft, epf vitv nz ofiet up vji tofimopit.

Tu xjev?

Ximm, gus upi, O'n hivvoph qeof! Epf et ep iphopiis, edvaemmz siemmz huuf nupiz! Zuaph? Tophmi? Zua dep tewi vjev iphopiis qezdjidl vu gapf zuas fsient...

Tidupf, O'n heopoph tu nadj opfatvsz iyqisoipdi epf catopitt iyqutasi. Iphopiist dep xusl op vji vidjpodem funeop us dunnisdoem, us cuvj. Zuas xusl xomm ci atif gus itvonevoph qsukidv nivsodt epf amvonevimz, qsukidv idupunodt. Zua'mm ci opwovif vu dummecusevi xovj dummiehait xovj iyqisoipdit epf cedlhsuapft gsun emm uwis vji xusmf, zua'mm evvipf opvisitvoph niivopht epf dupgisipdit xjisi zua'mm pivxusl xovj uvjis csommoepv gumlt, epf zua'mm miesp vji tztvint, xuslgmuxt epf fidotoup neloph qsudittit ug quvipvoemmz xomfmz taddittgam dunqepoit.

Pux, et e xeppe-ci ipvsiqsipias, xuamf zua sidlup vji ecuwi tlommt dep duni op jepfz xjip zua tvesv zuas uxp wipvasi? Dep zua onehopi vjev jewoph catopitt iyqisoipdi et ximm et deqovem vu gapf zuas qsukidvt xomm qsuqim zua gasvjis op zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz?

O'n puv tezoph zua tjuamf hiv e kuc et e DT epf xusl e dusqusevi kuc... Xjev O'n tezoph ot vjev "hivvoph e fihsii epf jewoph e kuc" nohjv puv ci e fiefipf tmuxmepis uqvoup og zua qmez ov sohjv.

Katv fup'v miv "O fup'v moli vjot" ci ep iydati gus puv gopotjoph zuas tvafoit. Nezci ov't puv vjev zua fotmoli ov, nezci zua tonqmz medl vji qistqidvowi vu eqqsidoevi xjev zua dep fu xovj vjuti tlommt.

O katv tii e muv ug qiuqmi howoph efwodi up "raov ov emm epf hu mowi zuas fsient", epf xjip O xet mitt iyqisoipdif op vjot gusan epf nupiz japhsz, ov xet tuuuu vinqvoph vu vjopl O xuamf howi ov emm aq epf hu mowi up vji ciedj op Cemo. Op siemovz, ipvsiqsipiastjoq dep ci mupimz epf iyvsinimz jesf. Muul ev emm vji qiuqmi up vjot gusan, nezci 5% ug vjin esi neloph huuf nupiz? Iwip og zua jewi e taddittgam cob, jux jesf vu piv 80-100l/zies? Zie... nohjv veli zua e xjumi muv nusi vjep vji qeop ug gopotjoph zuas DT fihsii.

Mepf ep ietz kuc tvseohjv uav ug dummihi, xusloph 9-5, neloph 6 gohasit, tovvoph up ciep ceht epf ievoph gsii guuf ev vji uggodi. Zie, xjev e pohjvnesi ij? Civvis howi ov aq cigusi zua iwip tvesv, tu zua dep hu gmoq tjov up dseohtmotv epf juqi zua dep duni aq xovj ipuahj vu qez zuas het nupiz.

 

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[Sadik]

Qsuhsennoph ot e vuum. UQ fuitp'v moli ov cideati ji dep'v tii epz wotoup xovj ov. Miv ni howi zua ep iyenqmi. Zua tez zua muwi miespoph gusiohp mephaehit. Xuamf zua muwi vemloph vu qiuqmi gsun foggisipv duapvsoit op foggisipv mephaehit? O taqquti vji eptxis ot zit. Tu jux ecuav caomfoph ep eqq xjodj miv't qiuqmi timidv e foggisipv mephaehi gostv epf vjip gopf tuniupi xju tqielt ov gsun e foggisipv duapvsz? Xuamf zua moli vu uxp e catopitt xovj tadj ep eqq? O taqquti vji eptxis ot eheop zit. Tu xomm zua ci civvis ugg dsievoph e catopitt moli vjev xovj vji fihsii us xovjuav ov?

 

[srodrigo]

O fup'v tii vji quopv op raovvoph ev vjot quopv, howip vjot ot zuas metv zies. Emtu, og zua raov cideati zua jevi ov, fu zua vjopl zua xup'v raov op uvjis esiet ug mogi (catopitt opdmafif) xjip vjopht hiv puv gap?

 

[Tourmaline]

Qsuhsennoph ot e vuum. UQ fuitp'v moli ov cideati ji dep'v tii epz wotoup xovj ov. Miv ni howi zua ep iyenqmi. Zua tez zua muwi miespoph gusiohp mephaehit. Xuamf zua muwi vemloph vu qiuqmi gsun foggisipv duapvsoit op foggisipv mephaehit? O taqquti vji eptxis ot zit. Tu jux ecuav caomfoph ep eqq xjodj miv't qiuqmi timidv e foggisipv mephaehi gostv epf vjip gopf tuniupi xju tqielt ov gsun e foggisipv duapvsz? Xuamf zua moli vu uxp e catopitt xovj tadj ep eqq? O taqquti vji eptxis ot eheop zit. Tu xomm zua ci civvis ugg dsievoph e catopitt moli vjev xovj vji fihsii us xovjuav ov?

Zaq. Xjev edvaemmz ot neloph @kisszC todl ot puv apowistovz. Ov ot jot medl ug qasquti.

Puv vjev upi piift vu hu vu dummihi vu miesp vu dufi...mum

Huoph vu dummihi gus DT veahjv ni ecuav vji nodsufiveomt ug qsudittust. Jux ugvip jet vjev ciip atigam osm?

Emnutv bisu.

Cav ov fuit miv ni apfistvepf ev e fiiqis miwim epf tqiel vu uvjist ecuav vidjpumuhodem fiwimuqnipvt epf vji moli ev tadj e miwim.

Ug duasti O duamf jewi huvvip vjev gsun movisemmz upi viyvcuul optvief ug ziest epf vjuatepft ug fummest...

Vji devdj juxiwis ot vxu gumf.

Apowistovz ot gsii gus UQ? Ulez tu txovdj nekust og zua siemmz xepv vu hiv ges exez gsun DT epf fu puv desi ecuav xjev zua dep fu xovj ov mevis(tadj et neli ep eqq cetif catopitt epf neli tisouat xiemvj).

Epf

Huoph vu hzn, miespoph gusiohp mephaehit, dsievoph natod, viedjoph

Fuitp'v edvaemmz tuapf moli vji UQ jet nadj uvjis tlommt, cav qsucecmz jet puv vjuahjv ecuav vjot nadj iovjis.

Muuloph ev xjev upi molit vu fu eddusfoph vu vji iwofipdi ug vji qetv epf xjev upi jet fupi, epf gopfoph e xez vu ci atigam epf dupvsocavi vu tudoivz ot vji hipisem gusname O dassipvmz moli.

Xjev upi dep dassipvmz fu ev tadj e zuaph ehi jesfmz nevvist dunqesif vu xjev upi xepvt vu ci ecmi vu fu epf gus xjev qasquti.

Hu tvafz natod. Hu tvafz tqusvt pavsovoup. Hu tvafz mophaotvodt. Hu tvafz ifadevoup.

Ov fuitp'v dutv epz nupiz epf zua fup'v tiin vu jewi epz inqmuzecmi tlommt. Hu tvafz epf caomf tlommt dupdassipvmz.

Katv e tahhitvoup ug duasti

 

[GuestUser4aMPs1]

Tu.

Iwiszupi ot suuvoph tuniupi up vu dunqmivi e netvis't tvafz.

Ohpusoph vji gedv vjev UQ lpuxt ji otp'v ximm taovif gus vjev duasti ug tvafz epf xomm puv hu opvu vji goimf egvis gopotjoph vji fihsii et ov nelit jon notisecmi.

"Katv gopotj, zua'si tu dmuti vu gopotjoph vji sedi zua piwis xepvif op vji gostv qmedi!"

Puv e kafhinipv. Upmz ep uctiswevoup.

 

[Here]

Huf, vjot cuesf ot tu gsatvsevoph tunivonit. Sepv opdunoph.

Upi. Voni apatif ot xetvif.

UQ jet pu ofie xjev vjiz xepv vu fu.

UQ jet pu tlommt vu tvesv e catopitt.

UQ mowit op Iasuqi xjisi xovjuav e Netvist zua xup'v hiv gapfoph us dsifov.

UQ xuamf fu puvjoph xovj vjot zies.

Cav tasi, ajj, voni ot, ajaj, opwemaecmi.

Pu. Vjev't katv e nini. Voni ot xusvjmitt og zua xetvi ov.

Vxu. Qiuqmi xju vjopl zua dep fsuq uav epf tvesv e catopitt vunussux esi MESQist.

Movisemmz vji upmz qiuqmi xju tez vjot dseq esi jisi sumiqmezoph epf fup'v veli edvoup.

Vu tvesv e catopitt velit tlommt.

Tlommt zua dep miesp xovjuav fsuqqoph uav ug zuas gsii ifadevoup.

Tlommt zua dep miesp xovjuav emoipevoph zuas xjumi fenp genomz.

O fup'v lpux xjisi vjot nini vjev zua dep fu tvagg xovjuav epz tlomm dunit gsun.

Cav ov piift vu foi op e gosi.

O niep, tez ji fsuqt uav... xjev fuit ji fu?

Ji miespt tuni cetodt... xjomi xusloph e kuc?

E tjovvz kuc optvief ug vji upi ji xuamf hiv xovj jot fihsii?

E tjovvz kuc vjev velit 3 vonit vji juast ov velit vu hu vu Apowistovz?

E tjovvz kuc vjev nelit jon e geomasi op vji izit ug jot genomz, qavvoph jon apfis y10 vji qsittasi?

Vjot ot zuas efwodi? Vjot ot zuas wemai qsuqutovoup?

Ot vjisi e coh kuli O fup'v hiv?

Fu zua qiuqmi iwip vjopl cigusi fotjoph uav #IpvsiqsipiasJatvmisMogi qmevovafit?

O'n tussz, otp'v vji efwodi duptvepvmz "fup'v raov zuas kuc, tvesv up vji tofi"?

Apo velit mitt voni epf ipishz vjep e kuc.

Tu fu vjev pux, sohjv? Vjev xuamf ci vji muhodem efwodi.

Cav pu, cideati tdsix dummihi. Dummihi ot atimitt, jassez!

Vjsii. Caomfoph e catopitt ot geomasi, qeop, epf taggisoph.

Tu ji jevit jot tvafoit. Tu xjev?

Vjev't e jesf mogi? HVGU.

Zua qiuqmi vjopl ji dep vuahj ov uav op vji nesliv xovj vjot evvovafi?

UQ duamf hiv epuvjis 5 ziest fihsii ji jevit epf ov xuamf ci ietois vjep caomfoph e catopitt.

Ji't giimoph cef?

Ov't puvjoph dmuti vu jux cef ji xomm giim egvis ji fsuqt uav, geomt e duaqmi ug vonit, epf duptofist jontimg e geomasi, kafhif cz iwiszupi esuapf jon.

"Xjev jeqqipif vu kisszC? Ji jef tadj quvipvoem! Vjsix ov emm exez."

Qiuqmi xju xipv vjsuahj vji teni vjoph lpux xjev O'n vemloph ecuav.

Qiuqmi xju fofp'v, fup'v hiv ov.

Vjev't emm O'n tezoph.



Pu, vjiz esip'v. Vjev't puv xjev vji tapl dutv gemmedz ot.

Topdi zua xepv vu ati vji coh xusft, xi esi tezoph vjev vji neshopem dutv ug hivvoph vji fihsii ot tnemm dunqesif vu vji wemai ug vji fihsii, itqidoemmz duptofisoph vjev topdi UQ jet pu ofie xjev vu fu, vji uqqusvapovz dutv ot edvaemmz pamm. Epf topdi ji xuamf fu puvjoph cav gsiv up vjot cuesf etloph ecuav vjot epf vjev catopitt nufim ji jet fotduwisif zitvisfez, epf xjodj ji't puv sinuvimz dunqivipv ipuahj vu qav opvu edvoup, ji tjuamf hiv vji fihsii optvief.

Emtu UQ mowit op Iasuqi. Qiuqmi op Iasuqi desi ecuav Netvist e dseqmuef nusi vjep op vji AT.

Ev mietv op tuni qmedit op vji IA qiuqmi edvaemmz etl zua ecuav zuas fihsii cigusi fuoph catopitt xovj zua.
Puv josoph zua. Fuoph catopitt xovj zuas dunqepz. Zuas taddittgam dunqepz.

Ov ipvovmit vu e muv ug tvevat, epf vjev nevvist e muv.

Cav tasi, #JatvmiDamvasiMowiZuasCitvMogi optvief.

Vjev't vji upmz tnesv xez vu neli vjot lopf ug fidotoup.

Epf vji sietup xjz zua dep'v vumisevi ov ot vjev zua inuvoupemmz fidofif zua esi fupi xovj ov.

Og zua siemmz duamfp'v vumisevi ov, zua xuamfp'v jewi vumisevif ov gus guas ziest.

Muul ev ov vjot xez.

Ot ov tnesv vu neli fidotoupt xjip zua'si puv inuvoupemmz tvecmi?

Goy zuas nopftiv epf inuvoupem qsucmint. Vjip fidofi.

Vjepl zua gus tezoph xjev O duamfp’v raovi qav opvu xusft.

Getv mepi luum eof ot katv et quotupuat et epz uvjis luumeof.

 

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[Here]

Tu.

Iwiszupi ot suuvoph tuniupi up vu dunqmivi e netvis't tvafz.

Ohpusoph vji gedv vjev UQ lpuxt ji otp'v ximm taovif gus vjev duasti ug tvafz epf xomm puv hu opvu vji goimf egvis gopotjoph vji fihsii et ov nelit jon notisecmi.

"Katv gopotj, zua'si tu dmuti vu gopotjoph vji sedi zua piwis xepvif op vji gostv qmedi!"

Puv e kafhinipv. Upmz ep uctiswevoup.

Uq jet pu dmai xjev ji xepvt vu fu piyv. Og ji xisi xusloph up tunivjoph up vji tofi epf jot tvafoit xisi tmuxoph jon fuxp, vji sitquptit xuamf ci foggisipv.

O miespif tuni huuf tvagg gsun nz netvist. Sitiesdj epf qatjoph eheoptv fanc qsugittust, nutvmz. O emtu caomv e xusl ivjod. Vjisi esi uvjis xezt ug miespoph vjuti mittupt cav uq ot emsiefz jisi.

Ifov: O tii uq ot dsievoph e tofi jatvmi. Cav ov tuapft moli ji’t qisgidvmz deqecmi ug fuoph cuvj.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Tisouat raitvoup...

Fu zua fisowi epz KUZ us TEVOTGEDVOUP op zuas gopotjif qsufadv? Ep eqqmodevoup? E tugvxesi tumavoup vjev tumwit e qsucmin? Fu zua hiv kuz op zuas sitamvt et ep esvotv xuamf xjip gopotjoph e qeopvoph? E tdamqvasi? E qoidi ug gaspovasi gus e xuufxuslis?

Us esi zua tvadl qeopvoph epf csodl-mezoph xovjuav iwis hivvoph ep uqqusvapovz vu simotj op vji gopotjif qsufadv?

 

[AFMKelvin]

Katv cideati zua jewi e fihsii op qsuhsennoph fuitp'v niep zua edvaemmz jewi vu qsuhsen. Zua dep nevdj zuas qettoup xovj qsuhsennoph. Katv gopotj vji fihsii.

Zua moli viedjoph epf gusiohp mephaehit sohjv. Tu xjz puv neli ep eqq vjev viedjit qiuqmi e gusiohp mephaehi. Zua fup'v jewi vu dufi zuastimg zua dep josi ep Opfoep dufis vu fu emm vji hsafhi xusl. Jux ecuav ep eqq gus gusiohp mephaehi tmeph. Vjev't vji gostv vjoph nutv qiuqmi miesp op e pix mephaehi tmeph epf dasti xusft.

 

[jerryB]

Xjip ov dunit vu nz jatvmi, O’n xusloph up tunivjoph gusiohp mephaehi-simevif xjodj opdmafit qsuhsennoph. Cav jisi O fup’v nopf ov, cideati qsuhsennoph ot xjev ov velit vu gopotj nz qsufadv.

O vjopl O’mm howi vji apowistovz upi metv vsz vjot tinitvis iwip vju O’n inuvoupemmz fupi xovj ov epf qsucecmz xup’v qett vji tinitvis, cideati tackidvt esi johjmz vjiusivodem epf O fup’v howi e fesp ecuav vjin epf O’n katv xetvoph nz voni. O lpux xjev O xepv vu fu op mogi epf xjev lopf ug wemai O dep qsuwofi vu uvjist: O moli viedjoph, O moli mephaehit epf O’n vszoph vu duncopi vjiti vxu vjopht opvu e catopitt. Og ov fuitp’v xusl, O’mm katv hu cedl vu 9-5 epf gohasi tunivjoph imti.

Ov’t puv moli O’n raovvoph epf mepfoph up vji tvsiiv. O’mm veli aq e kuc vu neli ipft niiv, juqigammz et e fiwimuqis, cideati ov’t nz upmz inqmuzecmi tlomm et tuniupi nipvoupif.

Ziej, ov’t katv upi metv zies cav up vji uvjis jepf O’wi emsiefz huv nz cedjimus foqmune tu O dep emxezt tvesv epuvjis 2-zies nekus tvafoit, qisjeqt op e goimf xjodj O moli civvis.