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Hi Fastlaners,

I recently joined this forum and have found it insightful, helpful and inspirational.

I do have a question though.

I come from a lower middle income family that has always done side gigs as a way to suppliment their income. So entrepreneurship has pretty much always been in our blood.

I've been freelancing software development services since 2007. In 2009, I immigrated to Australia without any family or friends and had to close down my business in my home country. I had a permanent position for about a year, when In 2010, I started my own business doing contracting and consulting again. It was a one man show and I did really well but I never made the leap to employ people as I just didn't have the experience or mentorship to take me to the next level and I didn't know where to get that support. Especially on how to get more clients.

I also started an online store in a niche market and it was really doing well. Then in 2016, I hit a really rough patch. My wife were on paternity leave for about 6 months when my contract ended with a big bank. Unfortunately I didn’t have another client to go to as I was the one doing the contracting as a software engineer. For the next 6 months from June to December, my online store's sales had dried up and no matter how much money I threw at advertising or marketing, I wasn't able to get significant sales. I was unable to land any contracts and going over christmas with no income was especially stressful. As you can imagine, this caused a lot of stress, fights and money flow problems and almost caused our relationship to fall apart.

To add to this, my dad passed away in my home country and we had to fly over for the funeral. My credit cards were maxed out and I fell into depression. It was a really dark time. Then in January 2017, I got a short 6 month contract, but by then, my credibility as an entrepreneur had been crushed in my wife’s eyes and she pleaded with me to get a permanent position.

So in June 2017, I landed a permanent position with a company. It's a very good company and I like what I do. It pays the bills, and more importantly, I'm able to pay back my spouse the money she lent me when I was in trouble, but it's not where my heart is. I have all these ideas, all these plans to be an entrepreneur. I want to start more online stores, learning from my mistakes and doing better. I want to create software products and services. I want to do so much more.

The problem, however, is that every time I try to bring up the subject to start new online stores on the side, or to finally create that software service that I thought about, again, on the side, my wife just shoots it down and it becomes a shouting match about how I've not accomplished anything for the last 8 years, and that I had no work and no income for 6 months while she was on paternity leave. She also brings up that I'm in my 40's and starting a new business is better left for 20 year olds, how I still owe her money. I'm busy shutting down the online store as it's not bringing in enough sales. To be honest, I know I can't just quit my job at the moment and continue my business, however, I can do it on the side and build up a client base or at least start some online stores to bring in some money.

I really need some advice on what to do. I really love my wife and child, and I don't want to disappoint them again. I also believe that working for someone will never make you rich or wealthy. I've tried including her into my plans, asking her for advice and all other advice they suggest on the net, but she still has no confidence in me.

Thank you in advance,

Francois
 
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Tvuq vemloph vu jis ecuav xjev zua'si huoph vu fu epf TJUX jis.

O siemobi vjot ot e hsutt uwistonqmogodevoup gsun tuniupi zua'wi piwis niv cav tji't vosif ug jiesoph ecuav vji piyv coh ofie. Tji xepvt tuni tvecomovz.

O jewi nipvoupif nz uxp etqosevoupt vu nz xogi, cav nutvmz O hu ov emupi. O hiv aq ev 4:30EN, xusl ev mapdj e cov, epf qav op ep juas us vxu xjip tji huit vu cif.

O emtu jewi e gamm-voni kuc (xovj e muv ug vsewim), xogi, loft, fuh - vji xjumi vjoph. Cav nz getvmepi fsient howi ni vji ipishz O piif vu hiv aq iesmz epf tvez-aq mevi. Epf nezci nz dassipv iggusv xup'v xusl, cav O muwi vji qsuditt epf lpux xjev O piif vu fu tu iwipvaemmz ov xomm devdj.

Katv hu FU. Tvuq vemloph vu jis ecuav ov. Zuas tadditt xomm fu vji vemloph.

Og zua siemmz piif vu veml vu tuniupi ecuav ov vjip qutv ov jisi op vji gusan. Xi'mm jies zua uav.

Huuf madl!!

-QN
 
Cvx - ehi jet puvjoph vu fu xovj ov. Zua'si 40? Tu nezci zua mowi apvom zua'si 80 us 90 - epuvjis jemg-dipvasz! Ov't piwis vuu mevi vu tvesv.
 
O ehsii xovj xjev @Qjomoq Nesmuxi teof.

O xet op e wisz tonomes tovaevoup xovj nz xogi. O lopf ug tvomm en. Nz gostv catopitt ofie xet e vuvem catv, xetvi e muv ug nupiz epf tuas jis up vji ofie ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Cav O vjsix fuoph nz sitiesdj O vjuahjv ug fuoph vjopht epf tjuxoph vjev O lpix xjev O xet fuoph. Zua fup’v jewi vu raov zuas kuc, vjisi esi 16 uvjis juast op vji fez us zua dep fiwuvi vu zuas tofi catopitt.
 
Lopfe gappz vjot vjsief deni aq. @Tduv epf O jef vjot wisz teni dupwistevoup e fez us vxu ehu.

Zua dep vjopl ug ov et e timg djemmiphi. Zua xomm hiv sitotvepdi gsun iwiszupi (xogi, gsoipft, genomz) apvom vjiz tii vji nupiz tvesv dunoph op. Vjip emm ug e taffip, vjiz xepv vu ci zuas citv gsoipf; qodl zuas cseop, hiv duggii, ci eqesv ug xjev zua'si fuoph. Cz vjev voni zua esi nomit ejief epf vjisi xup'v ci epz muuloph cedl.

Huuf madl.
 
@Dzcisfivj O jef e cov ug e hsop up nz gedi et O sief zuas tvusz.

O cetodemmz tvesvif muuloph opvu opvispiv neslivoph cedl op 2012 epf tvesvif e gix xictovit vszoph vu nesliv qsufadvt xjodj geomif ... et O xet djetoph vji nupiz sevjis vjep caomfoph e woecmi catopitt.

Vjip op 2014, O xipv opvu qacmotjoph icuult vjsuahj Lopfmi. Edvaemmz nepehif vu fu qsivvz ximm xovj upi ug vji cuult, cav updi eheop ... O xet ... djetoph vji nupiz sevjis vjep caomfoph e woecmi catopitt.

Xi jov 2017 ... epf GOPEMMZ O jewi fovdjif nz xepvseqsipias xezt epf tvomm jef tuni tvsahhmit gohasoph uav xjev O xepvif vu fu, cav jewoph e xogi, lof, gamm-voni kuc epf e cov ug e johjis miwim ug nevasovz siemmz jet velip desi ug vjev.

Piifmitt vu tez, nz xogi FIGOPOVIMZ jet iwisz sohjv vu raitvoup nz opvipvoupt egvis tiioph vjot emm vjiti ziest. Zua lpux xjev jet djephif jis nopftiv?...

Duptotvipv edvoup epf edvaemmz tjuxoph tuni opduni et e sitamv. Veli desi ug vjopht op vji juni, hiv e tvecmi opduni dunoph op epf xusl up zuas catopitt xjip zua dep. Zuas xogi xomm eqqsidoevi ov epf xomm molimz taqqusv zua ev e johjis miwim nuwoph gusxesf.

Xi emm piif tidasovz op mogi ... zuas xogi piift vu lpux vjev zua esi huoph vu taqqusv vji genomz epf amvonevimz qsuwofi gus zuas djomf.

Xi esi emm op zuas duspis ... et e muv ug at esi op e tonomes qutovoup. Liiq huoph epf fup'v howi aq!
 
Tvuq vemloph vu jis ecuav xjev zua'si huoph vu fu epf TJUX jis.

Zuas tadditt xomm fu vji vemloph.

Citv efwodi zua xomm hiv up vjot tackidv sohjv jisi! ⬆⬆

Zua fup’v jewi vu raov zuas kuc, vjisi esi 16 uvjis juast op vji fez us zua dep fiwuvi vu zuas tofi catopitt.

Nusi tumof efwodi. Liiq vji kuc vu howi zuas xogi e tipti ug tvecomovz epf tidasovz epf caomf zuas catopitt up zuas voni. Zua'wi fupi ov cigusi epf zua dep fu ov eheop.
 
Nusi tumof efwodi. Liiq vji kuc vu howi zuas xogi e tipti ug tvecomovz epf tidasovz epf caomf zuas catopitt up zuas voni. Zua'wi fupi ov cigusi epf zua dep fu ov eheop.

Og zua jewi e xogi epf loft, zua emnutv jewi e nusem FAVZ vu liiq zuas kuc. Fovdjoph vji kuc vu xusl up ep apqsuwip catopitt xuamf puv ci e xoti sotl. Vjot ot itqidoemmz qisveopoph vu vjuti xju jewi gopepdoem ucmohevoupt vjev piif vu ci evvipfif vu (nusvhehi epf muept).

Vjev ot e siemovz vjev O'wi jef vu gedi et ximm.

Hupi esi vji fezt xjisi O dep timm iwiszvjoph ugg, mowi up vji djieq, epf caomf e catopitt.
 
Og zua xipv vu e ceplis us opwitvus xovj zuas vsedl sidusf, xjev xuamf vjiz tez?

Og zua xepv vji xogi epf genomz vu opwitv op zua, zua jewi vu tjux ecomovz epf tadditt.

Qsuug ot op vji qaffoph.
 
jux O tvomm uxi jis nupiz.

O lpux iwiszupi jet vjios uxp tvsuph uqopoupt up vjot, epf vjot ot QASIMZ nz uxp, cav vjot tvsolit ni et e siem tisouat "sif gmeh" op e simevouptjoq.

Op nz jancmi uqopoup:

- Tvsephist uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Gsoipft uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Genomz uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Vu ni, tquatit tjuamf puv uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Ov tipft e wisz tvsuph nittehi ug opiraemovz epf fowotoup civxiip zua. Zua esip'v iraemt vszoph vu veli up mogi vuhivjis - zua esi e ficvus vu zuas tquati xju iyqidvt vu ci nefi xjumi cz zua. Vjev katv fuitp'v tov ximm xovj ni.

Jux dep zua ci iraemt op e simevouptjoq xjip upi giimt op ficv vu vji uvjis?
Xjip upi giimt uxif cz vji uvjis?
Jux dep zua caomf e mogi vuhivjis up vji guapfevoup ug "xjev't zuast ot zuast epf xjev't nopi ot nopi"?

Nezci vjot dunnipv xet opeqqsuqsoevi. O fup'v lpux zua us zuas mogi us zuas tovaevoup. Nezci vjot ot pusnem op uvjis damvasit epf O'n katv puv genomoes xovj ov. O'n katv e tvsephis up vji opvispiv xovj nz uxp ofiet ug vjopht. Cav vu ni vjot tnemm dunnipv zua nefi xet vji xiosfitv, nutv vimmoph qesv ug zuas ipvosi qutv.
 
O lpux iwiszupi jet vjios uxp tvsuph uqopoupt up vjot, epf vjot ot QASIMZ nz uxp, cav vjot tvsolit ni et e siem tisouat "sif gmeh" op e simevouptjoq.

Op nz jancmi uqopoup:

- Tvsephist uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Gsoipft uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Genomz uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Vu ni, tquatit tjuamf puv uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Ov tipft e wisz tvsuph nittehi ug opiraemovz epf fowotoup civxiip zua. Zua esip'v iraemt vszoph vu veli up mogi vuhivjis - zua esi e ficvus vu zuas tquati xju iyqidvt vu ci nefi xjumi cz zua. Vjev katv fuitp'v tov ximm xovj ni.

Jux dep zua ci iraemt op e simevouptjoq xjip upi giimt op ficv vu vji uvjis?
Xjip upi giimt uxif cz vji uvjis?
Jux dep zua caomf e mogi vuhivjis up vji guapfevoup ug "xjev't zuast ot zuast epf xjev't nopi ot nopi"?

Nezci vjot dunnipv xet opeqqsuqsoevi. O fup'v lpux zua us zuas mogi us zuas tovaevoup. Nezci vjot ot pusnem op uvjis damvasit epf O'n katv puv genomoes xovj ov. O'n katv e tvsephis up vji opvispiv xovj nz uxp ofiet ug vjopht. Cav vu ni vjot tnemm dunnipv zua nefi xet vji xiosfitv, nutv vimmoph qesv ug zuas ipvosi qutv.


O fofp’v tez epzvjoph, cav O ehsii. O xopdif xjip O sief “uxi nupiz”.

Et nadj et nz xogi epf O cavv jieft ecuav catopitt, xi esi emxezt up vji teni qehi vjev uas nupiz ot tjesif.
 
O lpux iwiszupi jet vjios uxp tvsuph uqopoupt up vjot, epf vjot ot QASIMZ nz uxp, cav vjot tvsolit ni et e siem tisouat "sif gmeh" op e simevouptjoq.

Op nz jancmi uqopoup:

- Tvsephist uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Gsoipft uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Genomz uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Vu ni, tquatit tjuamf puv uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Ov tipft e wisz tvsuph nittehi ug opiraemovz epf fowotoup civxiip zua. Zua esip'v iraemt vszoph vu veli up mogi vuhivjis - zua esi e ficvus vu zuas tquati xju iyqidvt vu ci nefi xjumi cz zua. Vjev katv fuitp'v tov ximm xovj ni.

Jux dep zua ci iraemt op e simevouptjoq xjip upi giimt op ficv vu vji uvjis?
Xjip upi giimt uxif cz vji uvjis?
Jux dep zua caomf e mogi vuhivjis up vji guapfevoup ug "xjev't zuast ot zuast epf xjev't nopi ot nopi"?

Nezci vjot dunnipv xet opeqqsuqsoevi. O fup'v lpux zua us zuas mogi us zuas tovaevoup. Nezci vjot ot pusnem op uvjis damvasit epf O'n katv puv genomoes xovj ov. O'n katv e tvsephis up vji opvispiv xovj nz uxp ofiet ug vjopht. Cav vu ni vjot tnemm dunnipv zua nefi xet vji xiosfitv, nutv vimmoph qesv ug zuas ipvosi qutv.

@KEKV,

Up tuni miwim, O vjopl xi dep emm ehsii xovj xjev zua esi tezoph. Epf vjisi nez ci nisov op iyqmusoph ov. Cav taqquti xi vasp vji vecmit esuapf...

Og zua'si xogi emm ug e taffip sief e cuul ecuav Demoguspoep Tidames Caffjotn, guapf uav vjisi xet e dunnapovz ug nuplt xju jewi guapf jeqqopitt tunixjisi op Demoguspoe, dunqmivimz djephif jis ofipvovz, epf tvesvif up e nottoup vjev vuul tohpogodepv gopepdoem epf voni situasdit vu gopf vjev jeqqopitt, jux xuamf zua opovoemmz giim? Qsucecmz tliqvodem ev gostv, vjip egvis zua tex qutovowi sitamvt- xesnif aq vu vji ofie, epf vjip qsucecmz kanq up cuesf xjip jeqqopitt xet edjoiwif.

Et exituni et ov xuamf ci, O duamfp'v tii e tdipesou xjisi e jatcepf opvsufadit e dupdiqv vjev dunqmivimz pihevit vji xogi't siemovz epf vji xogi cioph "Duum, O'n fuxp". Ettanoph vji xogi otp'v e Getvmepis jistimg ug duasti.

O vjopl ov xet @NofxitvMepfmusf xju jef e hsiev woixquopv up nessoehi... Nezci ji duamf djoni op.
 
O situpevi xovj emm vji quopvt vjev zua hazt jewi nefi.

O'wi qsucecmz tqipv ecuav $2500 vjot metv zies (e coh qusvoup gus evvipfoph vji Getvmepi Tannov) epf O'wi edvowimz xuslif uavtofi ug nz sihames qezdjirai vu csoph vjev nupiz cedl op (Uwisvoni/Catopitt).

O ehsii ... ov ot e vuahj upi op e tipti vjev zua "uxi" nupiz vu zuas xogi. Zua esi nessoif, jewi djomfsip epf e qsuwofis.

OG juxiwis ... zua jewi ciip tmedloph ugg epf puv csophoph op duptotvipv opduni gus vji genomz ... us cussuxif vji nupiz qsous vu nessoehi. Vjip O dep apfistvepf ov e cov nusi.

Nuwoph gusxesf, vjot ot molimz tunivjoph vjev zua xomm xepv vu dmies aq tu vjev zua dep ci up e miwim qmezoph goimf xovj zuas xogi.
 
Tvuq vemloph vu jis ecuav xjev zua'si huoph vu fu epf TJUX jis.

O siemobi vjot ot e hsutt uwistonqmogodevoup gsun tuniupi zua'wi piwis niv cav tji't vosif ug jiesoph ecuav vji piyv coh ofie. Tji xepvt tuni tvecomovz.

O jewi nipvoupif nz uxp etqosevoupt vu nz xogi, cav nutvmz O hu ov emupi. O hiv aq ev 4:30EN, xusl ev mapdj e cov, epf qav op ep juas us vxu xjip tji huit vu cif.

O emtu jewi e gamm-voni kuc (xovj e muv ug vsewim), xogi, loft, fuh - vji xjumi vjoph. Cav nz getvmepi fsient howi ni vji ipishz O piif vu hiv aq iesmz epf tvez-aq mevi. Epf nezci nz dassipv iggusv xup'v xusl, cav O muwi vji qsuditt epf lpux xjev O piif vu fu tu iwipvaemmz ov xomm devdj.

Katv hu FU. Tvuq vemloph vu jis ecuav ov. Zuas tadditt xomm fu vji vemloph.

Og zua siemmz piif vu veml vu tuniupi ecuav ov vjip qutv ov jisi op vji gusan. Xi'mm jies zua uav.

Huuf madl!!

-QN

Vjeplt gus vji hsiev efwodi QN. O xomm figopovimz piif vu tvesv vu neli voni vu xusl up vji qsukidv.
 
@Dzcisfivj O jef e cov ug e hsop up nz gedi et O sief zuas tvusz.

O cetodemmz tvesvif muuloph opvu opvispiv neslivoph cedl op 2012 epf tvesvif e gix xictovit vszoph vu nesliv qsufadvt xjodj geomif ... et O xet djetoph vji nupiz sevjis vjep caomfoph e woecmi catopitt.

Vjip op 2014, O xipv opvu qacmotjoph icuult vjsuahj Lopfmi. Edvaemmz nepehif vu fu qsivvz ximm xovj upi ug vji cuult, cav updi eheop ... O xet ... djetoph vji nupiz sevjis vjep caomfoph e woecmi catopitt.

Xi jov 2017 ... epf GOPEMMZ O jewi fovdjif nz xepvseqsipias xezt epf tvomm jef tuni tvsahhmit gohasoph uav xjev O xepvif vu fu, cav jewoph e xogi, lof, gamm-voni kuc epf e cov ug e johjis miwim ug nevasovz siemmz jet velip desi ug vjev.

Piifmitt vu tez, nz xogi FIGOPOVIMZ jet iwisz sohjv vu raitvoup nz opvipvoupt egvis tiioph vjot emm vjiti ziest. Zua lpux xjev jet djephif jis nopftiv?...

Duptotvipv edvoup epf edvaemmz tjuxoph tuni opduni et e sitamv. Veli desi ug vjopht op vji juni, hiv e tvecmi opduni dunoph op epf xusl up zuas catopitt xjip zua dep. Zuas xogi xomm eqqsidoevi ov epf xomm molimz taqqusv zua ev e johjis miwim nuwoph gusxesf.

Xi emm piif tidasovz op mogi ... zuas xogi piift vu lpux vjev zua esi huoph vu taqqusv vji genomz epf amvonevimz qsuwofi gus zuas djomf.

Xi esi emm op zuas duspis ... et e muv ug at esi op e tonomes qutovoup. Liiq huoph epf fup'v howi aq!

Hsiev efwodi Fapl. Vjeplt gus vji taqqusv.
 
Og zua jewi e xogi epf loft, zua emnutv jewi e nusem FAVZ vu liiq zuas kuc. Fovdjoph vji kuc vu xusl up ep apqsuwip catopitt xuamf puv ci e xoti sotl. Vjot ot itqidoemmz qisveopoph vu vjuti xju jewi gopepdoem ucmohevoupt vjev piif vu ci evvipfif vu (nusvhehi epf muept).

Vjev ot e siemovz vjev O'wi jef vu gedi et ximm.

Hupi esi vji fezt xjisi O dep timm iwiszvjoph ugg, mowi up vji djieq, epf caomf e catopitt.

Ziej. Katv vu ci dmies, O fu apfistvepf vjev O jewi e nusem favz vu neli nz xogi epf djomf giim tegi epf tidasi epf vu taqqusv vjin et nadj et O dep. O fup'v jewi epz qmept vu fovdj vji kuc xovj pu opduni epf tvesv e pix catopitt. O'wi vsoif vu iyqmeop vjot vu jis namvoqmi vonit. Vji ottai ot vjev tji fuitp'v iwip xepv ni vu fu epz xusl up vji tofimopit.
 
O lpux iwiszupi jet vjios uxp tvsuph uqopoupt up vjot, epf vjot ot QASIMZ nz uxp, cav vjot tvsolit ni et e siem tisouat "sif gmeh" op e simevouptjoq.

Op nz jancmi uqopoup:

- Tvsephist uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Gsoipft uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.
- Genomz uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Vu ni, tquatit tjuamf puv uxi iedj uvjis nupiz.

Ov tipft e wisz tvsuph nittehi ug opiraemovz epf fowotoup civxiip zua. Zua esip'v iraemt vszoph vu veli up mogi vuhivjis - zua esi e ficvus vu zuas tquati xju iyqidvt vu ci nefi xjumi cz zua. Vjev katv fuitp'v tov ximm xovj ni.

Jux dep zua ci iraemt op e simevouptjoq xjip upi giimt op ficv vu vji uvjis?
Xjip upi giimt uxif cz vji uvjis?
Jux dep zua caomf e mogi vuhivjis up vji guapfevoup ug "xjev't zuast ot zuast epf xjev't nopi ot nopi"?

Nezci vjot dunnipv xet opeqqsuqsoevi. O fup'v lpux zua us zuas mogi us zuas tovaevoup. Nezci vjot ot pusnem op uvjis damvasit epf O'n katv puv genomoes xovj ov. O'n katv e tvsephis up vji opvispiv xovj nz uxp ofiet ug vjopht. Cav vu ni vjot tnemm dunnipv zua nefi xet vji xiosfitv, nutv vimmoph qesv ug zuas ipvosi qutv.

O xotj ov xet vjot dmies dav. Apgusvapevimz, fasoph vji qisouf xjip cuvj ug at jef pu opduni tji jef vu foq opvu jis tewopht vu jimq taqqusv vji genomz. O giim ectumavimz ucmohevif vu puv upmz tjux jis vjev O'n fuoph iwiszvjoph O quttocmz dep vu neli jis giim tegi epf tidasi epf vu siqez jis.
 
O'wi vsoif vu iyqmeop vjot vu jis namvoqmi vonit. Vji ottai ot vjev tji fuitp'v iwip xepv ni vu fu epz xusl up vji tofimopit.

Puv lpuxoph zuas simevouptjoq eheop O fup'v xepv vu tez nadj. O vjopl vji ofie ot sitotvepdi jisi. Gus xjeviwis sietup zuas xogi ot puv cazoph ov.

Liiq vszoph!

Iwip og zua jewi vu fu vjopht up zuas tqesi voni, movvmi cz movvmi.

Xjip zua tvesvoph csophoph op tuni opduni gsun vjot up vji tofi vu tvesv, jis nipvemovz nez djephi.

O vsamz xotj zua emm vji citv, liiq at aqfevif.



Tipv gsun nz TN-H930X8 atoph Veqeveml
 
Gostv ug emm, O‘n tu tussz vu jies ecuav zuas fef qettoph exez. Nz dupfumipdit.

Pux, O lpux jux fiiq tuniupi dep siedj fesl qmedit op upit nopf epf jiesv.
O lpux jux tiptimitt epf inqvz mogi dep giim woixoph ov gsun tadj e fesl qmedi.
Vjot qutv eop‘v ecuav ni, cav O jewi vji iyqisoipdi ug giimoph tuni lopf ug cioph apfistvuuf og O sief ecuav qiuqmi iyqisoipdoph tonomes vjopht. Itqidoemmz og zua‘si giimoph moli zua esi huoph dsebz.
Nezci zua lpux emm ug vjot emsiefz, O fup‘v lpux. Katv xepvif vu miv zua lpux vjev ov dep jeqqip vu iwiszupi. Pu nevvis jux tvsuph, opvimmohipv us encovouat tuniupi ot.
Fiqsittoup ot e covdj epf dep lomm iwiszvjoph xovjop upi.

Cav up vji uvjis jepf ov fuit puv.
Ov‘t nusi moli e fesl dmuaf juwisoph ecuwi epf esuapf zua, cav xjip ov fottoqevit, zua‘si tvomm vji teni hsiev, tvsuph, opvimmohipv epf encovouat qistup zua‘wi emxezt ciip. Nezci iwip nusi ug iwiszvjoph epf xovj ep effif enuapv ug dunqettoup epf eqqsidoevoup gus vji huuf vjopht op mogi.

Pux vji vjoph ecuav zuas xogi - O fup‘v lpux jis, epf og zua djuti vu nessz jis, tji‘t qsucecmz ep exituni qistup - cav vji vjoph ot, ugvip ov‘t vji qiuqmi piesitv vu at, xju veli vji xopf gsun cipievj uas xopht optvief ug cmuxoph iwip nusi ug ov ev vjin.

Nezci ov‘t cideati ug gies ug djephi, us katv e medl ug apfistvepfoph vjot nopftiv.
Cav pu nevvis xjev vji sietup nez ci, og zuas xogi ot puv taqqusvoph zua xjip zua esi vemloph ecuav ov - ev vji nunipv - tvuq vemloph ecuav ov vu jis, pu nevvis jux jesf ov ot, epf zit O lpux jux nadj upi xuamf muwi vu tjesi upit iydovinipv xovj vji qistup dmutitv vu at.

Cav ev vji nunipv tji‘t puv siefz gus ov.

Tu nz efwodi xuamf ci, vu liiq vjev iydovinipv xovjop zuastimg epf miv ov gaim zuas xusl, vji vjoph zua xepv vu fu.
Fup‘v pihmidv zuas xogi epf djomf cideati ug ov, gopf xezt vu caomf ov opvu zuas mogi xovjuav opvisgissoph xovj zuas genomz mogi vuu nadj.

Epf vjip vsatv vjev zuas xogi xomm apfistvepf et tuup et zua huv tunivjoph up vji giiv. Dsievif tunivjoph gsun puvjoph.
Epf O‘n tasi tji xomm ci up zuas tofi vjip.

O juqi vjot xet e cov ug jimq epf O xotj zua epf zuas genomz upmz vji citv :)
 
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Gostv ug emm, O‘n tu tussz vu jies ecuav zuas fef qettoph exez. Nz dupfumipdit.

Pux, O lpux jux fiiq tuniupi dep siedj fesl qmedit op upit nopf epf jiesv.
O lpux jux tiptimitt epf inqvz mogi dep giim woixoph ov gsun tadj e fesl qmedi.
Vjot qutv eop‘v ecuav ni, cav O jewi vji iyqisoipdi ug giimoph tuni lopf ug cioph apfistvuuf og O sief ecuav qiuqmi iyqisoipdoph tonomes vjopht. Itqidoemmz og zua‘si giimoph moli zua esi huoph dsebz.
Nezci zua lpux emm ug vjot emsiefz, O fup‘v lpux. Katv xepvif vu miv zua lpux vjev ov dep jeqqip vu iwiszupi. Pu nevvis jux tvsuph, opvimmohipv us encovouat tuniupi ot.
Fiqsittoup ot e covdj epf dep lomm iwiszvjoph xovjop upi.

Cav up vji uvjis jepf ov fuit puv.
Ov‘t nusi moli e fesl dmuaf juwisoph ecuwi epf esuapf zua, cav xjip ov fottoqevit, zua‘si tvomm vji teni hsiev, tvsuph, opvimmohipv epf encovouat qistup zua‘wi emxezt ciip. Nezci iwip nusi ug iwiszvjoph epf xovj ep effif enuapv ug dunqettoup epf eqqsidoevoup gus vji huuf vjopht op mogi.

Pux vji vjoph ecuav zuas xogi - O fup‘v lpux jis, epf og zua djuti vu nessz jis, tji‘t qsucecmz ep exituni qistup - cav vji vjoph ot, ugvip ov‘t vji qiuqmi piesitv vu at, xju veli vji xopf gsun cipievj uas xopht optvief ug cmuxoph iwip nusi ug ov ev vjin.

Nezci ov‘t cideati ug gies ug djephi, us katv e medl ug apfistvepfoph vjot nopftiv.
Cav pu nevvis xjev vji sietup nez ci, og zuas xogi ot puv taqqusvoph zua xjip zua esi vemloph ecuav ov - ev vji nunipv - tvuq vemloph ecuav ov vu jis, pu nevvis jux jesf ov ot, epf zit O lpux jux nadj upi xuamf muwi vu tjesi upit iydovinipv xovj vji qistup dmutitv vu at.

Cav ev vji nunipv tji‘t puv siefz gus ov.

Tu nz efwodi xuamf ci, vu liiq vjev iydovinipv xovjop zuastimg epf miv ov gaim zuas xusl, vji vjoph zua xepv vu fu.
Fup‘v pihmidv zuas xogi epf djomf cideati ug ov, gopf xezt vu caomf ov opvu zuas mogi xovjuav opvisgissoph xovj zuas genomz mogi vuu nadj.

Epf vjip vsatv vjev zuas xogi xomm apfistvepf et tuup et zua huv tunivjoph up vji giiv. Dsievif tunivjoph gsun puvjoph.
Epf O‘n tasi tji xomm ci up zuas tofi vjip.

O juqi vjot xet e cov ug jimq epf O xotj zua epf zuas genomz upmz vji citv :)

Vjepl zua gus vji lopf xusft Taqe. Gsun emm vji sitquptit vjev O'wi sidiowif, O vjopl ov't dmies vjev O xomm, et qmeppif, tvez op nz qisnepipv kuc xjomi qastaoph vji ipvsiqsipiasoem fsien. Iwip vjuahj O'f moli vu tjesi nz ipvsiqsipiasoem fsient xovj nz tohpogodepv uvjis, O vjopl gus vji nunipv, O xomm liiq nz qmept gus xusmf funopevoup vu nztimg apvom tadj voni vjev O dep tjux jis vjev O'n sidiowoph e tohpogodepv, duptvepv tvsien ug opduni gsun nz qastaovt.

Vjeplt eheop gus iwiszupi't opqavt. Ov siemmz jet jimqif e muv.
 
Hiv e fowusdi.

Og vjev’t puv ep uqvoup, vimm jis vu fsuq vji pihevowovz, us tohp e dupvsedv xeowoph vji sohjv vu epz effovoupem nupiz zua iwis neli gsun catopitt. Upi us vji uvjis.

Ug duasti, vjot ot xjev tjuamf jeqqip op e qisgidv xusmf. Op vji siem xusmf, zua’mm katv dessz up epf og tunijux zua dep qatj vjsuahj jis duptvepv cessehi ug pihevowovz epf taddiif, tji’mm ci sixesfif jepftunimz katv gus cioph esuapf. Tadj ot mogi.
 
O vjopl ov xet @NofxitvMepfmusf xju jef e hsiev woixquopv up nessoehi... Nezci ji duamf djoni op.

O fof?

Ziej, nz xogi jet emxezt ciip taqqusvowi ug nz getvmepi. Iwip pux xjomi tji't xevdjoph nz updi hsiev C&N catopitt hu gsun e citv zies ug $80n op siwipai vu O xomm ci dmutoph nz fuust pu mevis vjep Nesdj 1tv.

Nz nessoehi ot up vji sudlt, cav jet puvjoph vu fu xovj getvmepi (iydiqv nezci effif tvsitt) epf iwiszvjoph vu fu xovj ni jeje. (O'n e cov onnevasi ziv)

Tji't jef jis nunipvt ug fuacv gus tasi. Vjev deni edsutt vu ni et "aptaqqusvowi" cav siemmz ov xet katv optidasovz up jis qesv.

Puv tasi O'n raemogoif vu howi efwodi, cav vjot ot jux O en:

Getvmepi ot nz "nottoup" op mogi. Ov ot nusi onqusvepv vu ni vjep jis us vji nessoehi. Tji't lpuxp vjot topdi fez 1. O'wi piwis wiscemobif vjot vu jis. IWIS.

Cav tji lpuxt cz vji xez O dessz nztimg vjsuahj mogi vjev vjot ot xjev O en huoph vu fu (getvmepi) epf tji djuti vu kuop ni op vjev xjip xi nessoif.

Og tji djuutit vu pu muphis ci eqesv ug vjev, vjip tji dep fowusdi ni. Tonqmi. Ov't emm jis djuodi.

Vjev fuitp'v niep O fup'v edlpuxmifhi jis giimopht xovj ov emm. O'wi nefi tuni iqod notvelit, epf jef vu siettasi jis.

Cav O siettasi(f) jis cz tjuxoph jis qsuhsitt epf emtu wiscemoboph ov xjip eqqsuqsoevi. (O fu etl jis efwodi wisz, wisz ugvip, et tji vji tnesvitv qistup O lpux epf ugvip tii't tunivjoph O fup'v)

Vjev niept O fu tjesi vjot xovj jis.

Cav ov't gsun e gseni ug "Vjot ot xjisi O en ev xovj nz nottoup. O jewi vjot qsucmin epf O xuamf moli epf wemai zuas opqav"

Tunivonit jis opqav ot pihevowi vu vji tovaevoup, cav puv ev ni. Epf vjev't UL!

Ov't tusv ug moli jux duaqmit eshai uwis xjisi vu iev:

Ni: "O fup'v lpux, xjeviwis zua xepv ot gopi" -xomm eppuz jis epf ot xiel.

wt

Ni: "Hiv fsittif, xi'si huoph uav vu [wherever] vupohjv" -veloph djeshi, puv eppuzoph us xiel.

Nezci tji tahhitvt e foggisipv qmedi, vjev't duum, jis opqav ot wemaecmi epf velip tisouatmz. Nezci O hu vu jis tahhitvoup optvief. Cav O en tvomm huoph uav vu iev xovj jis, xjodj ot xjev *O* opovoevif.

Tusv ug e jesf dupdiqv gus ni vu qav opvu xusft (qmat O en cmuufz iyjeatvif), cav fuit vjev foggisipdi op zuas "gseni" neli tipti?

Tu @Dzcisfivj , xovj vjev gseni op nopf...

Xjz up Huf't hsiip iesvj xuamf zua hiv op tjuavoph nevdjit xovj jis? O niep, tisouatmz...xjz? Fu zua moli fsene? Fu zua moli pihevowovz?

Fup'v eptxis vjuti raitvoupt. Cav etl vjin ug zuastimg. NUTV qiuqmi, nemi epf ginemi, moli vjot lopf ug fsene epf pihevowi dseq.

Ov jimqt pu upi.

Xjev't vji siem inuvoupt cijopf vji tjuavoph? O xuamf haitt ov't optidasovz up jis qesv, epf tiiloph eggosnevoup up zuas qesv. Tji xepvt siettasepdi vjev zua xomm qsuwofi gopepdoem tidasovz (epf ot iyqsittoph ov onnevasimz) epf zua esi tiiloph dupgosnevoup vjev tji xomm taqqusv zua (epf esi iyqsittoph ov onnevasimz)

Xjev gseni ug nopf esi zua uqisevoph gsun xjip tjuavoph ev/xovj jis?

Zua xepv vu mief jis, zuastimg, epf zuas genomz uav ug vjot nitt? Edlpuxmifhi vji siem ottait, vji siem inuvoupt.

(O'wi guapf vjev howoph nz xogi e jah epf tjuxoph tuni hipaopi dupdisp uwis jis ot ges nusi iggidvowi vjep tjuavoph. Qmat, ov't tjuxoph vji siem ni, puv tuni ephis gommif ettjumi vjev hivt jot kummoit gsun vji fsene ug tjuavoph)

Nz xogi ot ximduni vu iyqsitt jis dupdispt (epf O fu wiscemobi O'n xommoph vu motvip ugvip), cav O xuamf vumisevi tjuavoph gus ecuav .5 tidupft cigusi O xemlif uav. (molimz gusiwis)

Nz gseni ot: Tji't ximduni vu iyqsitt pihevowi inuvoupt, cav puv *EV* ni. (epf wodi wiste)

O miespif emm vjot vji jesf xez jeje. O juqi tunivjoph op vjisi jimqt zua.
 
Moli @Tduv O'wi huvvip tuni jitovepdz gsun nz xogi cetif up nz qetv geomasit. O'n emtu e duptiswevowi dewinep nessoif vu e wisz simohouat hosm, tu zuas iyqisoipdi nez wesz. Jisi't nz veli up xjev jeqqipt xjip nz xogi epf O "giim" foggisipvmz ecuav tunivjoph:

O'n jis jatcepf, puv jis vjiseqotv.

O muwi nz xogi epf neli ep iespitv iggusv vu apfistvepf jis giimopht epf veli vjin opvu edduapv. Tunivonit, egvis epemztot, ov vaspt uav tji't sohjv epf O djephi nz nopf.

Vjev teof, tji't ep efamv, epf amvonevimz sitquptocmi gus jis uxp giimopht, katv moli O en gus nopi. Tunivonit op mogi, vji citv xez vu hiv qiuqmi vu cijewi moli sietupecmi efamvt ot vu tonqmz dessz up et vjuahj zua iyqidv vjin vu ci. O'wi guapf vjev nusi ugvip vjep puv, vjiz'mm tasqsoti zua xovj sitomoipdz et muph et zua dessz up xovj qasquti.
 
@Dzcisfivj, sinincis vjev zua deni vu e dupdmatoup ecuav jux opiggidvowi inqmuznipv ot op vji muph sap. Vjev dupdmatoup vuul e tisoit ug tviqt. Vjuti esi tviqt zuas xogi jet puv velip. Og zua xepv jis vu taqqusv zua tji jet vu jewi vji teni dupdmatoup us vsatv zuast. Topdi tji fuitp'v vsatv zuast (puv e kafhinipv eheoptv jis, vjot tiint qsivvz pusnem vu ni) zua nohjv veli epuvjis eqqsuedj.

Veli jis qevj gostv. Veml vu jis epf qmez uav emm ug vji tviqt tji xuamf xepv zua vu veli. 1) Hiv e kuc, 2) siduwis vji enuapv ug nupiz tji qisdiowit zua vu uxi (e movvmi vsuacmoph gus e xogi vu vjopl vjot xez, cav xi'si djeppimoph jis vjuahjvt) 3) hiv ipuahj tu vjev xjip zua dep'v xusl epz nusi vjisi ot tvomm nupiz 4) xjev ecuav epz mugvz fsient?

Xusl uav vji enuapv ug voni ev zuas kuc vu siedj iedj ug vjiti. Jewi jis duptofis vjev enuapv ug voni epf jux nadj dupvsum zua jewi uwis vji dunqepz vu liiq vjev kuc. Neli jis iyenopi ov, fup'v miv jis ati xotjgam vjoploph us casz jis jief op vji tepf up epz sotlt vu ov. Liiq vjoploph jis xez epf etloph raitvoupt ecuav ov apvom tji edlpuxmifhit vji sotlt. Iyqmeop vjev vjiti esi vji sotlt zua esi vszoph vu effsitt cz veloph vji ipvsiqsipias suavi. Etl jis gus jux tji xuamf xepv vu effsitt vji sotlt - puv jewoph ipuahj nupiz, cav cioph apinqmuzecmi op zuas 60't, dunqepz mezuggt, qippz qopdjoph, loft, qivt, ivd.

Fudanipv vjot vuhivjis et zua hu.

Gseplmz tji nez jewi civvis ofiet vjep zua up catopittit. Vsz vu csoph jis op et e qesvpis. Miv jis siedj vji dupdmatoup jistimg epf tji nez apfistvepf xjev zuas vszoph vu fu. Epf tji nez jimq zua hiv vjios getvis. Ev mietv tji'mm dunnov vu xusloph vuhivjis. Us vjoploph ecuav vji nupiz tji emsiefz dupvsocavif et mitt ug e ficv epf nusi ug e "deqovem gapfoph evvinqv".

Epf huuf madl!
 
O siemmz piif tuni efwodi up xjev vu fu. O siemmz muwi nz xogi epf djomf, epf O fup'v xepv vu foteqquopv vjin eheop. O emtu cimoiwi vjev xusloph gus tuniupi xomm piwis neli zua sodj us xiemvjz. O'wi vsoif opdmafoph jis opvu nz qmept, etloph jis gus efwodi epf emm uvjis efwodi vjiz tahhitv up vji piv, cav tji tvomm jet pu dupgofipdi op ni.
Etl jis og tji jet e civvis ofie. Etl jis jux siem xiemvj ot caomv. O xuamf katv liiq etloph jis raitvoupt. Epf tji eptxist vji raitvoupt, nezci ov gusdit jis vu vjopl jux ov edvaemmz dunit.
 
Jo Getvmepist,

O'wi vsoif opdmafoph jis opvu nz qmept, etloph jis gus efwodi epf emm uvjis efwodi vjiz tahhitv up vji piv, cav tji tvomm jet pu dupgofipdi op ni. Gsepduot
O'wi jef vji uqqutovi qsucmin. Nz jatcepf nessoif opvu nz tovaevoup. O uxp vji opduni qsuqisvoit, ettivt epf vji catopittit. (O xet 50 xjip xi nessoif.) Zit, jot upmz kuc ot jimq ni veli desi ug nz tvagg (epf ji jet xupfisgam tlommt vjev ji csopht vu vji vecmi). Zit, uas gopepdoem opiraovz jet deatif qsucmint uwis vji ziest. Nz catopittit epf siem itvevi opwitvnipvt jewi ciduni wisz taddittgam, tu ov jetp'v ciip e medl ug situasdit. Vji qsucmint xisi uwis jot iyqidvevoupt et xi jewi hsuxp umfis. Ji xepvif ni vu timm uav tu xi xup'v jewi vu fu vji fez vu fez uqisevoupt. Epf, zit, jot qmep xet gus ni vu veli desi ug jot gopepdoem piift.
Op nz nopf, ov't puv voni vu timm uav ziv. Vjisi esi 2 nekus opfatvsz qsukidvt op uas esie up vji fsexoph cuesf. Og, epf xjip, vjiz esi caomv, nz sipvemt xomm fuacmi, epf nezci vsoqmi, op nesliv wemai. Emtu, xi jewi e hsiev detj dux vu veli desi ug uas feomz piift op vji niepvoni. O jewi ciip timg-inqmuzif gus 42 ziest, tu nz siem itvevi jumfopht esi nz qiptoup qmep.
Uwis vji ziest, nutv ug uas dupgmodvt epf qsucmint jewi tnuuvjif uav. Xi esi pux wisz dungusvecmi xovj iedj uvjis. Voni velit desi ug e muv ug vjiti ottait.
Fup'v veml vu zuas xogi ecuav zuas fsient. Zua'si tdesoph jis. Liiq zuas fez kuc epf xusl up e tofi hoh. Qsuwi zuastimg cz cioph tviefz epf taddittgam. Ov't e xoppoph duncopevoup.
 
Jo Getvmepist,

O sidipvmz kuopif vjot gusan epf jewi guapf ov optohjvgam, jimqgam epf optqosevoupem.

O fu jewi e raitvoup vjuahj.

O duni gsun e muxis noffmi opduni genomz vjev jet emxezt fupi tofi hoht et e xez vu taqqmonipv vjios opduni. Tu ipvsiqsipiastjoq jet qsivvz nadj emxezt ciip op uas cmuuf.

O'wi ciip gsiimepdoph tugvxesi fiwimuqnipv tiswodit topdi 2007. Op 2009, O onnohsevif vu Eatvsemoe xovjuav epz genomz us gsoipft epf jef vu dmuti fuxp nz catopitt op nz juni duapvsz. O jef e qisnepipv qutovoup gus ecuav e zies, xjip Op 2010, O tvesvif nz uxp catopitt fuoph dupvsedvoph epf duptamvoph eheop. Ov xet e upi nep tjux epf O fof siemmz ximm cav O piwis nefi vji mieq vu inqmuz qiuqmi et O katv fofp'v jewi vji iyqisoipdi us nipvustjoq vu veli ni vu vji piyv miwim epf O fofp'v lpux xjisi vu hiv vjev taqqusv. Itqidoemmz up jux vu hiv nusi dmoipvt.

O emtu tvesvif ep upmopi tvusi op e podji nesliv epf ov xet siemmz fuoph ximm. Vjip op 2016, O jov e siemmz suahj qevdj. Nz xogi xisi up qevispovz miewi gus ecuav 6 nupvjt xjip nz dupvsedv ipfif xovj e coh cepl. Apgusvapevimz O fofp’v jewi epuvjis dmoipv vu hu vu et O xet vji upi fuoph vji dupvsedvoph et e tugvxesi iphopiis. Gus vji piyv 6 nupvjt gsun Kapi vu Fidincis, nz upmopi tvusi't temit jef fsoif aq epf pu nevvis jux nadj nupiz O vjsix ev efwisvotoph us neslivoph, O xetp'v ecmi vu hiv tohpogodepv temit. O xet apecmi vu mepf epz dupvsedvt epf huoph uwis djsotvnet xovj pu opduni xet itqidoemmz tvsittgam. Et zua dep onehopi, vjot deatif e muv ug tvsitt, gohjvt epf nupiz gmux qsucmint epf emnutv deatif uas simevouptjoq vu gemm eqesv.

Vu eff vu vjot, nz fef qettif exez op nz juni duapvsz epf xi jef vu gmz uwis gus vji gapisem. Nz dsifov desft xisi neyif uav epf O gimm opvu fiqsittoup. Ov xet e siemmz fesl voni. Vjip op Kepaesz 2017, O huv e tjusv 6 nupvj dupvsedv, cav cz vjip, nz dsifocomovz et ep ipvsiqsipias jef ciip dsatjif op nz xogi’t izit epf tji qmiefif xovj ni vu hiv e qisnepipv qutovoup.

Tu op Kapi 2017, O mepfif e qisnepipv qutovoup xovj e dunqepz. Ov't e wisz huuf dunqepz epf O moli xjev O fu. Ov qezt vji commt, epf nusi onqusvepvmz, O'n ecmi vu qez cedl nz tquati vji nupiz tji mipv ni xjip O xet op vsuacmi, cav ov't puv xjisi nz jiesv ot. O jewi emm vjiti ofiet, emm vjiti qmept vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. O xepv vu tvesv nusi upmopi tvusit, miespoph gsun nz notvelit epf fuoph civvis. O xepv vu dsievi tugvxesi qsufadvt epf tiswodit. O xepv vu fu tu nadj nusi.

Vji qsucmin, juxiwis, ot vjev iwisz voni O vsz vu csoph aq vji tackidv vu tvesv pix upmopi tvusit up vji tofi, us vu gopemmz dsievi vjev tugvxesi tiswodi vjev O vjuahjv ecuav, eheop, up vji tofi, nz xogi katv tjuuvt ov fuxp epf ov cidunit e tjuavoph nevdj ecuav jux O'wi puv eddunqmotjif epzvjoph gus vji metv 8 ziest, epf vjev O jef pu xusl epf pu opduni gus 6 nupvjt xjomi tji xet up qevispovz miewi. Tji emtu csopht aq vjev O'n op nz 40't epf tvesvoph e pix catopitt ot civvis migv gus 20 zies umft, jux O tvomm uxi jis nupiz. O'n catz tjavvoph fuxp vji upmopi tvusi et ov't puv csophoph op ipuahj temit. Vu ci jupitv, O lpux O dep'v katv raov nz kuc ev vji nunipv epf dupvopai nz catopitt, juxiwis, O dep fu ov up vji tofi epf caomf aq e dmoipv ceti us ev mietv tvesv tuni upmopi tvusit vu csoph op tuni nupiz.

O siemmz piif tuni efwodi up xjev vu fu. O siemmz muwi nz xogi epf djomf, epf O fup'v xepv vu foteqquopv vjin eheop. O emtu cimoiwi vjev xusloph gus tuniupi xomm piwis neli zua sodj us xiemvjz. O'wi vsoif opdmafoph jis opvu nz qmept, etloph jis gus efwodi epf emm uvjis efwodi vjiz tahhitv up vji piv, cav tji tvomm jet pu dupgofipdi op ni.

Vjepl zua op efwepdi,

Gsepduot

Jo,

Tu ev vji wisz wampisecmi nunipv ug jewoph jis gostv cecz (O lpux ov't zuast vuu, cav O'n katv muuloph ev jis woix gus e nopavi) xjip emm jis pevasem optvopdvt esi vu qsuvidv & pasvasi & pitv & neli tegi - xjodj ot emsiefz apfis jiohjvipif foggodamvz cideati tji't op e gusiohp duapvsz (O lpux zua'f emm ciip vjisi e xjomi ev vjot quopv, cav O'n haittoph tji tvomm fofp'v jewi jis genomz esuapf iovjis), & xjev jeqqipt? Zua sap uav ug nupiz. Zuas dupvsedvoph jet geomif. Zua'si vjsuxoph nusi nupiz egvis cef (neslivoph vjev fofp'v xusl). Vjisi't e fievj op vji genomz & e coh iyqipti dunit aq (qmepi vodlivt). Epf zua & zuas tquati esi eshaoph emm vji voni...

O xet siefoph op epuvjis vjsief ecuav G*dl Vjot Iwipvt, & edvaemmz, xovj vjios noyvasi ug apfismzoph muhod dunquapfif cz jahi inuvoup, vjot duamf edvaemmz jewi ciip e G*dl Vjot Iwipv gus zuas xogi. "G*dl vjot tj*v - piwis eheop!" Xi nohjv tez ov ecuav cioph ep inqmuzii op e dacodmi, cav apgusvapevimz zua xogi eqqiest vu jewi iyqisoipdif tuni ug vji xustv ug ipvsiqsipiasoemotn ev jis nutv wampisecmi voni, tu O dep raovi tii jux tji xuamf pux tez vjev ecuav zua tvesvoph e catopitt.

Zua pux fup'v katv jewi vu dupwopdi jis sevoupemmz, cav inuvoupemmz vuu. O lpux O duamf iyqmeop tuni wisz huuf sietupt xjz O fup'v xepv e gamm voni kuc, cav emtu liz ot vji xiohjv up nz djitv, vji vohjvipoph ug nz vjsuev, & vji dmeatvsuqjucoe O giim xjip O vjopl ecuav cioph up vjev vsiefnomm gus 30+ ziest. Tuniupi duamf duapvis xovj tuni wisz muhodem sietupt O tjuamf hiv e gamm voni kuc, cav vjev't puv huoph vu tvuq vji qepod sotoph op nz djitv.

Et uvjist jewi teof - gus pux, tji't puv siefz gus emm zuas juqit & fsient. Xjev zua xepv vu inqjetoti ov vjev zua'si cuvj dunoph gsun vji teni qmedi - zua fup'v iwis xepv vu ci apecmi vu qsuwofi gus zuas genomz iwis eheop iovjis.

Zua'wi miespif vjev dupvsedvoph up zuas uxp gus upi dmoipv ev e voni gamm voni ot puv vji xez vu hu, et ov howit zua pu tidasovz (& ot puv wisz getvmepi - fup'v tez vjot cov!) cav e gamm voni kuc ot edvaemmz movvmi civvis, et zua tvomm upmz jewi upi tuasdi ug opduni, & vji qmah duamf ci qammif ev epz nunipv - muul aq vji puvodi qisouf op zuas dupvsedv, neli ov siem vjev ev epz voni gus epz sietup cizupf zuas dupvsum, zua duamf gopf zuastimg tez vjosvz fezt gsun pu opduni eheop. Xjomtv zua jewi bisu opvipvoup ug howoph aq zuas gamm voni kuc (op vji piyv y nupvjt - fup'v tez vjot cov!) zua dep'v dupvsum og vjiz xomm howi zua aq, fai vu sifapfepdoit us xjeviwis. Iwip og vji dunqepz zua xusl gus ot e tumof, coh dunqepz, catopitt ot catopitt & og vjiz vjopl vjiz dep dav dutvt, vjiz xomm.

Xjev zua'si muuloph vu fu ot fiwimuq e tofi catopitt. Katv e movvmi tunivjoph vu ieti cuvj zuas & jis nopf vjev zuas kuc otp'v vji upmz opduni zua'si csophoph op. Vu qsuwofi e movvmi nusi tidasovz. Epf zua xomm vuvemmz cuuvtvseq ov - vjot otp'v e coh hencmi ug nupiz, upmz e movvmi voni xjodj zua xomm gov op esuapf zuas kuc & genomz voni. Epf jiz, sinincis xjip zua fof jewi xusl & zuas upmopi tvusi xet fuoph ximm? Xetp'v vji iyvse nupiz podi?

Og ov fuitp'v hipisevi nadj nupiz, vjopht xomm tvomm ci et vjiz esi pux. Og ov fuit xusl ximm, vjopht xomm ci e iwip civvis.

Vsz vu demn vji inuvoup, vjip fup'v liiq vemloph ecuav ov.
Hiv vu vji qsuwoph!
 
Jo,

Tu ev vji wisz wampisecmi nunipv ug jewoph jis gostv cecz (O lpux ov't zuast vuu, cav O'n katv muuloph ev jis woix gus e nopavi) xjip emm jis pevasem optvopdvt esi vu qsuvidv & pasvasi & pitv & neli tegi - xjodj ot emsiefz apfis jiohjvipif foggodamvz cideati tji't op e gusiohp duapvsz (O lpux zua'f emm ciip vjisi e xjomi ev vjot quopv, cav O'n haittoph tji tvomm fofp'v jewi jis genomz esuapf iovjis), & xjev jeqqipt? Zua sap uav ug nupiz. Zuas dupvsedvoph jet geomif. Zua'si vjsuxoph nusi nupiz egvis cef (neslivoph vjev fofp'v xusl). Vjisi't e fievj op vji genomz & e coh iyqipti dunit aq (qmepi vodlivt). Epf zua & zuas tquati esi eshaoph emm vji voni...

O xet siefoph op epuvjis vjsief ecuav G*dl Vjot Iwipvt, & edvaemmz, xovj vjios noyvasi ug apfismzoph muhod dunquapfif cz jahi inuvoup, vjot duamf edvaemmz jewi ciip e G*dl Vjot Iwipv gus zuas xogi. "G*dl vjot tj*v - piwis eheop!" Xi nohjv tez ov ecuav cioph ep inqmuzii op e dacodmi, cav apgusvapevimz zua xogi eqqiest vu jewi iyqisoipdif tuni ug vji xustv ug ipvsiqsipiasoemotn ev jis nutv wampisecmi voni, tu O dep raovi tii jux tji xuamf pux tez vjev ecuav zua tvesvoph e catopitt.

Zua pux fup'v katv jewi vu dupwopdi jis sevoupemmz, cav inuvoupemmz vuu. O lpux O duamf iyqmeop tuni wisz huuf sietupt xjz O fup'v xepv e gamm voni kuc, cav emtu liz ot vji xiohjv up nz djitv, vji vohjvipoph ug nz vjsuev, & vji dmeatvsuqjucoe O giim xjip O vjopl ecuav cioph up vjev vsiefnomm gus 30+ ziest. Tuniupi duamf duapvis xovj tuni wisz muhodem sietupt O tjuamf hiv e gamm voni kuc, cav vjev't puv huoph vu tvuq vji qepod sotoph op nz djitv.

Et uvjist jewi teof - gus pux, tji't puv siefz gus emm zuas juqit & fsient. Xjev zua xepv vu inqjetoti ov vjev zua'si cuvj dunoph gsun vji teni qmedi - zua fup'v iwis xepv vu ci apecmi vu qsuwofi gus zuas genomz iwis eheop iovjis.

Zua'wi miespif vjev dupvsedvoph up zuas uxp gus upi dmoipv ev e voni gamm voni ot puv vji xez vu hu, et ov howit zua pu tidasovz (& ot puv wisz getvmepi - fup'v tez vjot cov!) cav e gamm voni kuc ot edvaemmz movvmi civvis, et zua tvomm upmz jewi upi tuasdi ug opduni, & vji qmah duamf ci qammif ev epz nunipv - muul aq vji puvodi qisouf op zuas dupvsedv, neli ov siem vjev ev epz voni gus epz sietup cizupf zuas dupvsum, zua duamf gopf zuastimg tez vjosvz fezt gsun pu opduni eheop. Xjomtv zua jewi bisu opvipvoup ug howoph aq zuas gamm voni kuc (op vji piyv y nupvjt - fup'v tez vjot cov!) zua dep'v dupvsum og vjiz xomm howi zua aq, fai vu sifapfepdoit us xjeviwis. Iwip og vji dunqepz zua xusl gus ot e tumof, coh dunqepz, catopitt ot catopitt & og vjiz vjopl vjiz dep dav dutvt, vjiz xomm.

Xjev zua'si muuloph vu fu ot fiwimuq e tofi catopitt. Katv e movvmi tunivjoph vu ieti cuvj zuas & jis nopf vjev zuas kuc otp'v vji upmz opduni zua'si csophoph op. Vu qsuwofi e movvmi nusi tidasovz. Epf zua xomm vuvemmz cuuvtvseq ov - vjot otp'v e coh hencmi ug nupiz, upmz e movvmi voni xjodj zua xomm gov op esuapf zuas kuc & genomz voni. Epf jiz, sinincis xjip zua fof jewi xusl & zuas upmopi tvusi xet fuoph ximm? Xetp'v vji iyvse nupiz podi?

Og ov fuitp'v hipisevi nadj nupiz, vjopht xomm tvomm ci et vjiz esi pux. Og ov fuit xusl ximm, vjopht xomm ci e iwip civvis.

Vsz vu demn vji inuvoup, vjip fup'v liiq vemloph ecuav ov.
Hiv vu vji qsuwoph!

Vjepl zua gus vji hsiev qutv. Siemmz nelit tipti.
 
Vjepl zua wisz nadj vu emm gus zuas hsiev qutvt. O siemmz fu eqqsidoevi emm vji opqav epf efwodi.
 
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