Are you getting married/divorced? If not, you're probably jumping the gun.
My solution...just don't get married. Marriage used to be a RELIGIOUS institution that the government has perverted. I am happy to be in a monogamous relationship, long term, but one of my stipulations is that we won't get married. If she can't handle that, she can leave. The only exception might be for a passport / citizenship status. No one is forcing me to get married.
I believe @Esquire and/or @GlobalWealth may have some insight here.
My solution...just don't get married. Marriage used to be a RELIGIOUS institution that the government has perverted. I am happy to be in a monogamous relationship, long term, but one of my stipulations is that we won't get married. If she can't handle that, she can leave. The only exception might be for a passport / citizenship status. No one is forcing me to get married.
I believe @Esquire and/or @GlobalWealth may have some insight here.