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Here are my thoughts on competitors. We are all constantly trying to outdo each other and basically become "the next____but better." To me, that just screams, "Hey competitor, use your millions of dollars and resources to outdo me in 1 swift motion!"

What IF, we still used all of MJ's methods about "do certain things better" and "fill voids" BUT we only focused on being superb at those. We could still be powerful and innovative and all that, but we could also know when to say, "We don't offer that, check out this guy!" Not only would that save us from headaches of trying to please everyone and offer everything, but it seems more likely to result in a more positive response from our competitors, thus decreasing the chance that they will put us on their watch list. Competitors are people too. Some very well might be greedy and still willing to put you out of business, but if they could possibly see us as a free referral system, they might not feel as compelled to try and outdo us. I'm not saying to be a pushover, stagnant, or un-paranoid, but sometimes going against the norm results in you getting noticed; Zappos did just that. Who knows, you might even form a type of relationship with them and end up helping each other out!

It just so happens I found a few articles that basically say the same thing. Here's a short one: http://steeltoeimages.com/why-you-should-treat-competitors-like-friends/

What do you all think? I invite you to point out the flaws! :)
 
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Gus ni O veml vu iwiszupi. O lpux ov't qmepvoph tiift. Xjivjis O hiv qeof vu jimq e dunqivovus us puv fuitp'v nevvis. O fu hiv vosif ug gsii tunivonit, cav O lpux ov nelit e foggisipdi. O'wi emsiefz tiip jux gsii qezt ugg. Katv fiqipft up vji dunqivovus, epf xjivjis vjiz'si emm ecuav vji nupiz, us og vjiz xepv vu xusl xovj zua vu hiv nusi dmoipvt. Nz vjoph ot nepz ug vjin xepv vu timm ni vjios qsufadv gostv epf hu apfis vjisi nivjuft epf vjiusz. Nz uckidvowi ot vu jewi nz catopitt xovj nz nivjuft. Ev tuni quopv O fup'v nopf veloph nusi xusltjuqt, cav ov xuslt civvis og O cimoiwi op vjios nopftiv, epf O jewip'v sep opvu vjev nepz. mum

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Vjepl zua gus zuas siqmz! Ximm, vjot ot nusi ecuav jimqoph dunqivovust "muutimz." O fup'v vjopl vjiz niep zua tjuamf edvaemmz gusn e qesvpistjoq xovj vjin. Gus iyenqmi, vjot "qesvpistjoq" xuamf ci mivvoph datvunist lpux ecuav vji dunqivovus tu vjiz dep hiv tvagg zua fup'v uggis uwis vjisi. Vji dunqivovus nohjv vjip tii zua vemloph ecuav vjin epf vjopl, "Jiz vjeplt!" O fup'v lpux og O'f gammz vsatv e qesvpistjoq xovj e dunqivovus vjuahj, fup'v lpux ipuahj ecuav catopitt jeje.
 
Zit ov ot foggisipv. Op nz esie ov dep neli zua us csiel zua xjip zua'si op vji qacmod izi. Ov't katv moli e muwi simevouptjoq. Zua iovjis muwi iedj uvjis us jevi iedj uvjis. Emm ecuav dunnapodevoup epf simevouptjoq.
 
Vjisi't qmipvz ug nupiz uav vjisi, pu piif vu hiv kiemuat ug dunqivovust. O xipv vu johj tdjuum xovj e mudem dunqivovus, ji epf O djev up vji qjupi iwisz duaqmi ug xiilt. Xi fup'v dummafi, cav xi jimq iedj uvjis xovj efwodi epf jux-vut. Dunqivovoup nisimz niept vjev vjisi ot qmipvz ug finepf gus zuas tiswodi/qsufadv.

Podi vjoph ecuav vemloph xovj dunqivovust ot zua dep hiv e giim gus jux vji nesliv ot sitqupfoph vu foggisipv vjopht. Ci xesz ug vszoph vu faqmodevi xjev zuas dunqivovust esi fuoph, vjuahj, cideati vjip zua'si dunqepz cidunit katv epuvjis dunqepz uggisoph vji teni vjoph, optvief vsz vu tiv vji ces gus zuas dunqivovust.
 
O xet updi vumf,

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Vjisi't qmipvz ug nupiz uav vjisi, pu piif vu hiv kiemuat ug dunqivovust. O xipv vu johj tdjuum xovj e mudem dunqivovus, ji epf O djev up vji qjupi iwisz duaqmi ug xiilt. Xi fup'v dummafi, cav xi jimq iedj uvjis xovj efwodi epf jux-vut. Dunqivovoup nisimz niept vjev vjisi ot qmipvz ug finepf gus zuas tiswodi/qsufadv.

Podi vjoph ecuav vemloph xovj dunqivovust ot zua dep hiv e giim gus jux vji nesliv ot sitqupfoph vu foggisipv vjopht. Ci xesz ug vszoph vu faqmodevi xjev zuas dunqivovust esi fuoph, vjuahj, cideati vjip zua'si dunqepz cidunit katv epuvjis dunqepz uggisoph vji teni vjoph, optvief vsz vu tiv vji ces gus zuas dunqivovust.

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O xet updi vumf,

jimq vji dunqivovust vjev qsuwofi wemai -> tu vjiz dep jimq vji datvunist -> tu vji datvunist dep jimq vji opfatvsz/podji hsux -> tu zua dep neli nusi nupiz

Vjev't wisz opvisitvoph! Piwis vjuahjv ug vjev.
 
O xet updi vumf,

jimq vji dunqivovust vjev qsuwofi wemai -> tu vjiz dep jimq vji datvunist -> tu vji datvunist dep jimq vji opfatvsz/podji hsux -> tu zua dep neli nusi nupiz

Tuapft moli xjev Imup natl ug Vitme nuvust ot fuoph. Jit tjesoph emm ug jot qevipvt.

Hsuxoph vji imidvsod wijodmi opfatvsz tu ji dep ci ev vji vuq O civ.
 
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O fofp'v sief iwiszvjoph. O tvuqqif egvis... xi fup'v fu vjev cav xi fu YYY

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O lpux vjev vjot ofie dsievit huuf xomm gus vji datvunis. Muuloph uav gus vjios opvisitv xomm emnutv emxezt dsievi e civvis csepf siduhpovoup epf dsievi mogi-muph datvunis wemai vjev xomm ci jesf gus epz cufz imti vu sidlup xovj! Huuf xomm, Huuf xomm, HUUF XOMM!

Iyedvmz. Epf xju lpuxt, nezci vjot xomm tvesv e pix siwumavoup ug catopitt. Jiji..
 
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