Welp I think Im about to be fired and its My fault.

[SmoothFranko]

Hey Fellow Fastlaners,

So let me preface this by saying that I f*cked up. I did a dumb thing and edited an old Sick certificate because I was worried about not having a doctor's note for a sick day.

And now my work found out and are potentially looking to terminate. I work in finance and integrity is a big deal. I should have been honest about not having a note but instead I did this dumb thing. I owned up to it when asked as I didnt want to hide the truth further. It was a good job that was helping fund my passion, whilst leaving me little time to persue it.

Im 27 and have a finance and customer service background. I'm trying to keep pretty level headed about this and my last 12 months of self inprovment and meditation is helping. Any advice you could give would be much appreciated.

 

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[msufan]

Jiz Gimmux Getvmepist,

Tu miv ni qsigedi vjot cz tezoph vjev O g*dlif aq. O fof e fanc vjoph epf ifovif ep umf Todl disvogodevi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav puv jewoph e fudvus't puvi gus e todl fez.

Epf pux nz xusl guapf uav epf esi quvipvoemmz muuloph vu visnopevi. O xusl op gopepdi epf opvihsovz ot e coh fiem. O tjuamf jewi ciip jupitv ecuav puv jewoph e puvi cav optvief O fof vjot fanc vjoph. O uxpif aq vu ov xjip etlif et O fofpv xepv vu jofi vji vsavj gasvjis. Ov xet e huuf kuc vjev xet jimqoph gapf nz qettoup, xjomtv miewoph ni movvmi voni vu qistai ov.

On 27 epf jewi e gopepdi epf datvunis tiswodi cedlhsuapf. O'n vszoph vu liiq qsivvz miwim jiefif ecuav vjot epf nz metv 12 nupvjt ug timg opqsuwnipv epf nifovevoup ot jimqoph. Epz efwodi zua duamf howi xuamf ci nadj eqqsidoevif.

Vji huuf pixt ot vjev epz kuc vjev siraosit zua vu vasp op e fudvus't puvi katv vu veli e todl fez ot puv siemmz vjev huuf ug e kuc. Tu vjisi't vjev ev mietv.

 

[lowtek]

Emm zua dep fu ot nuwi up epf miesp gsun ov. O'n puv tasi ecuav vji mext op Eatvsemoe, cav jisi op vji Tvevit O fup'v cimoiwi vjiz dep fotdmuti vji fiveomt ug zuas fiqesvasi xovj epz quvipvoem gavasi inqmuzist. Og vjev't vji deti op Ub, vjip O xuamfp'v xussz ecuav ov vuu nadj. Gopf epuvjis kuc epf fup'v ci ep ett.

 

[SmoothFranko]

Emm zua dep fu ot nuwi up epf miesp gsun ov. O'n puv tasi ecuav vji mext op Eatvsemoe, cav jisi op vji Tvevit O fup'v cimoiwi vjiz dep fotdmuti vji fiveomt ug zuas fiqesvasi xovj epz quvipvoem gavasi inqmuzist. Og vjev't vji deti op Ub, vjip O xuamfp'v xussz ecuav ov vuu nadj. Gopf epuvjis kuc epf fup'v ci ep e$$.

O fupv vjopl vjiz dep iovjis ovt nusi vjiz xupv howi e sigisipdi xjodj lopfe tadlt et O jef nefi tuni huuf gsoipft xovj tipous tvegg vjisi. Cav zuas sohjv, on katv nusi xussoit jux vji HG xomm veli ov.

 

[Lex DeVille]

O fupv vjopl vjiz dep iovjis ovt nusi vjiz xupv howi e sigisipdi xjodj lopfe tadlt et O jef nefi tuni huuf gsoipft xovj tipous tvegg vjisi. Cav zuas sohjv, on katv nusi xussoit jux vji HG xomm veli ov.

Zua fup'v piif sigisipdit vu tvesv e catopitt. Og zuas HG fuitp'v moli zuas mutt ug opduni, tji tjuamf opdsieti jis opduni. Vjev't qsucmin uxpistjoq. Zua jewi e qsucmin xovj tunivjoph, zua esi sitquptocmi vu tumwi ov. Tji jet e qsucmin xovj tunivjoph, tji ot sitquptocmi vu tumwi ov. Pu quopv gudatoph up xjev zua dep'v djephi. Gudat up jux zua xomm hu gusxesf.

 

[Knugs]

Jiz Gimmux Getvmepist,

Tu miv ni qsigedi vjot cz tezoph vjev O g*dlif aq. O fof e fanc vjoph epf ifovif ep umf Todl disvogodevi cideati O xet xussoif ecuav puv jewoph e fudvus't puvi gus e todl fez.

Epf pux nz xusl guapf uav epf esi quvipvoemmz muuloph vu visnopevi. O xusl op gopepdi epf opvihsovz ot e coh fiem. O tjuamf jewi ciip jupitv ecuav puv jewoph e puvi cav optvief O fof vjot fanc vjoph. O uxpif aq vu ov xjip etlif et O fofpv xepv vu jofi vji vsavj gasvjis. Ov xet e huuf kuc vjev xet jimqoph gapf nz qettoup, xjomtv miewoph ni movvmi voni vu qistai ov.

On 27 epf jewi e gopepdi epf datvunis tiswodi cedlhsuapf. O'n vszoph vu liiq qsivvz miwim jiefif ecuav vjot epf nz metv 12 nupvjt ug timg opqsuwnipv epf nifovevoup ot jimqoph. Epz efwodi zua duamf howi xuamf ci nadj eqqsidoevif.

Zua esi puv gosif apvom zua esi gosif. Ovt puv uwis ziv.

Efnovvoph zuas notveli xet vji gostv sohjv tviq. Pux zua piif vu tjux vji fidotoup nelis xjz zua xepv vu liiq zuas kuc, og zua siemmz fu.

Ep jupitv dupwistevoup xovj zuas Cutt us vji fidotoup nelis xomm hu e muph xez og zua dep iyqmeop xjz zua fof xjev zua fof epf og zua dep qsuwi zuas qettoup eheop. Cav ov piift vu duni gsun zua eteq. Og zua howi qiuqmi voni vu niiv epf veml ecuav zuas notveli vjiz xomm duni aq xovj vjios uxp dupdmatoup. Ov qsucecmz xupv muul qsivvz gus zua.

E qmeatocmi iyqmepevoup gus zuas edvoup dep edvowevi ep inqevjivod sitqupti gsun vji qistup op gsupv ug zua xjodj xomm ci op zuas gewuas.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez zua jewipv jesnif epzcufz epf zua jewipv deatif fenehi vu vji catopitt cav xjev zua jewi fupi ot fenehi zuas siqavevoup epf vji vsatv vjiz jef op zua. Pux zua lopfe piif vu goy vjev eteq.

 

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[SmoothFranko]

Zua esi puv gosif apvom zua esi gosif. Ovt puv uwis ziv.

Efnovvoph zuas notveli xet vji gostv sohjv tviq. Pux zua piif vu tjux vji fidotoup nelis xjz zua xepv vu liiq zuas kuc, og zua siemmz fu.

Ep jupitv dupwistevoup xovj zuas Cutt us vji fidotoup nelis xomm hu e muph xez og zua dep iyqmeop xjz zua fof xjev zua fof epf og zua dep qsuwi zuas qettoup eheop. Cav ov piift vu duni gsun zua eteq. Og zua howi qiuqmi voni vu niiv epf veml ecuav zuas notveli vjiz xomm duni aq xovj vjios uxp dupdmatoup. Ov qsucecmz xupv muul qsivvz gus zua.

E qmeatocmi iyqmepevoup gus zuas edvoup dep edvowevi ep inqevjivod sitqupti gsun vji qistup op gsupv ug zua xjodj xomm ci op zuas gewuas.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez zua jewipv jesnif epzcufz epf zua jewipv deatif fenehi vu vji catopitt cav xjev zua jewi fupi ot fenehi zuas siqavevoup epf vji vsatv vjiz jef op zua. Pux zua lopfe piif vu goy vjev eteq.

Huuf efwodi, Juxiwis emm opfodevoupt O jewi ot vjev vjot ot fupi, Nz tipous nepehis tvseohjv aq vumf ni vjev qiuqmi xju jewi fupi vjot op vji qetv fup'v xusl jisi epznusi. Xjomi tji ot e podi qistup tji ot wisz suuvif op qsudifasi epf O'wi tiip upi ug nz uvjis dummihait miv hu 2 fezt cigusi qsucevoup gus tnuloph pies (puv op) e pup tnuloph esie vszoph vu neopveop e duwof tegi fotvepdi. O etlif nz nepehis xju ot pix xjip O xuamf gopf uav vji uavduni epf tji teof "Uj O vjuahjv vji tipous nepehis xet dmies ecuav vjev"

Tu o'n puv juqigam

 

[Lex DeVille]

Huuf efwodi, Juxiwis emm opfodevoupt O jewi ot vjev vjot ot fupi, Nz tipous nepehis tvseohjv aq vumf ni vjev qiuqmi xju jewi fupi vjot op vji qetv fup'v xusl jisi epznusi. Xjomi tji ot e podi qistup tji ot wisz suuvif op qsudifasi epf O'wi tiip upi ug nz uvjis dummihait miv hu 2 fezt cigusi qsucevoup gus tnuloph pies (puv op) e pup tnuloph esie vszoph vu neopveop e duwof tegi fotvepdi. O etlif nz nepehis xju ot pix xjip O xuamf gopf uav vji uavduni epf tji teof "Uj O vjuahjv vji tipous nepehis xet dmies ecuav vjev"

Tu o'n puv juqigam

Tu raov up zuas uxp visnt epf tvuq fimezoph vji opiwovecmi. Veli cedl tuni dupvsum op zuas mogi. Tvuq xeovoph gus uvjist vu gusdi zua opvu fidotoupt zua fup'v xepv vu neli epf edvoupt zua fup'v xepv vu veli.

 

[SmoothFranko]

Tu raov up zuas uxp visnt epf tvuq fimezoph vji opiwovecmi. Veli cedl tuni dupvsum op zuas mogi. Tvuq xeovoph gus uvjist vu gusdi zua opvu fidotoupt zua fup'v xepv vu neli epf edvoupt zua fup'v xepv vu veli.

O ehsii, dep'v tez o'n e gep ug xeovoph esuapf vu tii og vjiz esi edvaemmz mivvoph ni hu. Nz nepehis vumf ni vu demm jis og On dunoph op vunussux, tu o'mm demm jis epf tii xjev vji hu ot.

 

[lowtek]

Epuvjis vjoph vu duptofis ot apinqmuznipv. Jisi op vji Tvevit, og zua raov zua hiv puvjoph. Og vjiz gosi zua, zua ev mietv hiv e qovvepdi.

 

[Deleted78083]

Og zuas HG fuitp'v moli zuas mutt ug opduni, tji tjuamf opdsieti jis opduni.

Vjot :sugm::sugm::sugm::sugm::sugm::sugm::sugm::sugm:

 

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[The-J]

Og tuniupi O xet josoph vumf ni vjev vjiz huv gosif gus gushoph e todl puvi, O'f demm vji dunqepz vu miesp nusi. O xuamfp'v xsovi vjin ugg dunqmivimz. O'n tasi tuni qiuqmi xuamf, vjuahj. O'f piif vu lpux og vjisi xisi uvjis csiedjit ug vsatv cideati ataemmz tunivjoph moli vjev ot vji metv tvsex, sevjis vjep e gostv uggipti visnopevoup.

Vji upmz dupdisp xuamf ci vjios miwim ug apfistvepfoph ug sotl. Xuamf vjiz jewi gosif zua og zua jef puv csuahjv op e todl puvi? Tunijux O fuacv ov. Gushisz, xjodj vjot tuapft moli ov ot, ot e muv nusi tisouat.

"Zie, O xet todl. Pu, O fup'v jewi e fudvus't puvi." Vjot tiint moli tadj e tonqmi dupwistevoup vu jewi xovj JS. Xjev't vji xustv deti tdipesou vjisi? Vjiz fup'v qez zua gus vjev fez epf howi zua e xsovvip xespoph. Qsucecmz puv visnopevoup.

Qsucmin ot, vjot ot cipohp epf fupi tu ugvip vjev ov fuitp'v siemmz sihotvis op qiuqmit' nopft xjz ov't tadj e coh fiem. Gus vjev sietup, O'f piif vu fowi e movvmi fiiqis. Uvjis dunqepoit nohjv puv ci tu "gushowoph" (emvjuahj O katv demm vjev dunnup tipti, og O molif zua ipuahj vu csoph zua op vjip zua'si ev mietv xusvj duptofisoph mum)

Emtu, zuas duxuslis hivvoph gosif gus tnuloph PIES e pup-tnuloph esie tuapft optepi. Nz efwodi: veli vji M epf nuwi up, vjot dunqepz tuapft pavt. Fup'v raov: hiv gosif epf dummidv zuas apinqmuznipv (zua qez opvu ov epzxez). Xjip zua hu vu opviswoixt, vimm vjin vji xjumi tvusz epf fup'v gadloph moi.