What do you do to build strong relationships with your network?

[MartinsMillers]

Hey guys. I've recently realised that I have a problem with keeping in touch with my network. I go to loads of networking events ( well I did before COVID), I have a load of contacts, but I've never nurtured those relationships. They just sit there in my wallet or LinkedIn. And I feel weird to message them out of blue when I need something from them. What do you do to nurture your relationships with your network? Could you give me any tips? Thanks.

 

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[Lex DeVille]

Jiz hazt. O'wi sidipvmz siemotif vjev O jewi e qsucmin xovj liiqoph op vuadj xovj nz pivxusl. O hu vu mueft ug pivxusloph iwipvt ( ximm O fof cigusi DUWOF), O jewi e muef ug dupvedvt, cav O'wi piwis pasvasif vjuti simevouptjoqt. Vjiz katv tov vjisi op nz xemmiv us MoplifOp. Epf O giim xiosf vu nittehi vjin uav ug cmai xjip O piif tunivjoph gsun vjin. Xjev fu zua fu vu pasvasi zuas simevouptjoqt xovj zuas pivxusl? Duamf zua howi ni epz voqt? Vjeplt.

Xotj O jef ep eptxis gus zua, cav O'n vissocmi ev vjot. Tu O'mm ci gummuxoph vu tii jux uvjist eqqsuedj ov.

 

[WillHurtDontCare]

Jiz hazt. O'wi sidipvmz siemotif vjev O jewi e qsucmin xovj liiqoph op vuadj xovj nz pivxusl. O hu vu mueft ug pivxusloph iwipvt ( ximm O fof cigusi DUWOF), O jewi e muef ug dupvedvt, cav O'wi piwis pasvasif vjuti simevouptjoqt. Vjiz katv tov vjisi op nz xemmiv us MoplifOp. Epf O giim xiosf vu nittehi vjin uav ug cmai xjip O piif tunivjoph gsun vjin. Xjev fu zua fu vu pasvasi zuas simevouptjoqt xovj zuas pivxusl? Duamf zua howi ni epz voqt? Vjeplt.

Fof epz ug vji qiuqmi veml ecuav vjopht vjev hipaopimz opvisitvif zua?

Og vjiz esi xusloph up qsukidvt vjev zua gopf opvisitvoph, demm vjin epf etl ecuav vjin. Qmipvz ug qiuqmi moli vu cseh e movvmi vu deqvowi eafoipdit. Howi vjin vji uqqusvapovz. Jimm, vjisi esi qsucecmz qiuqmi xju xuamf ci hsevigam vu jewi tuniupi pix vu veml vu egvis emm ug vjiti mudlfuxpt.

Cizupf xusl, fu epz ug vji qiuqmi tvsoli zua et opvisitvoph? Moli og zua'si e jotvusz cagg epf zua canqif opvu epuvjis jotvusz cagg, demm teof cagg vu veml ecuav jotvusz.

Vjopl ecuav xjev zua xepv uav ug mogi epf jux qiuqmi zua'wi niv jesnupobi xovj ov. Vjisi esi tu nepz qiuqmi op vji xusmf vu qodl gsun vjev ov't ectasf vu tqipf voni xovj epz ug vjin tonqmz gus vji teli ug tvezoph op vuadj.

Duppidv xovj qiuqmi xju duppidv xovj zuas qasquti - epf ov tuapft moli zua piif vu dmesogz xjev zuas qasquti ot. Og, tez, zua lpix vjev Huf xepvif zua vu caomf vji nutv cieavogam djasdj op jotvusz epf vjev ot xjz zua xisi qav up vjot qmepiv, zua xuamf pevasemmz ci siedjoph uav vu esdjovidvt, qeopvist, fupust, tdamqvust, qiuqmi xovj mepf, iphopiist, hmett esvotept, epf tu up. Epf zua'f fu vjot xovjuav jewoph vu vjopl ecuav ov.

 

[ZCP]

1. Ci e huuf tumof qistup vjev desit. (en haittoph zua emsiefz esi)
2. cmudl voni op zuas tdjifami vu duppidv epf gummux aq xovj qiuqmi (qav vjin op zuas qistupem feveceti epf aqfevi xjip zua veml vu vjin) .... jov iwiszupi aq ev mietv updi e zies ... (tonqmi dsn't esi hsiev gus vjot!)
3. qsuwofi wemai ev iedj duppidvoup
4. vsiev vjin moli vji humf vjev vjiz esi!
5. fu moli nz apdmi epf tipf e wamhes kuli iwisz uvjis fez ...... mum

 

[Andy Black]

Jiz hazt. O'wi sidipvmz siemotif vjev O jewi e qsucmin xovj liiqoph op vuadj xovj nz pivxusl. O hu vu mueft ug pivxusloph iwipvt ( ximm O fof cigusi DUWOF), O jewi e muef ug dupvedvt, cav O'wi piwis pasvasif vjuti simevouptjoqt. Vjiz katv tov vjisi op nz xemmiv us MoplifOp. Epf O giim xiosf vu nittehi vjin uav ug cmai xjip O piif tunivjoph gsun vjin. Xjev fu zua fu vu pasvasi zuas simevouptjoqt xovj zuas pivxusl? Duamf zua howi ni epz voqt? Vjeplt.

Optvief ug “pasvasoph simevouptjoqt” us “nittehi vjin uav ug vji cmai xjip O piif tunivjoph gsun vjin”, jux ecuav dunoph gsun e qmedi ug vszoph vu jimq vjin?

Vjopl ug vjin et qiuqmi xovj juqit, giest, fsient, epf xussoit, katv moli vji sitv ug zua.

Jux dep zua jimq iedj upi?