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Hi everyone,
I was wondering if some of you could share your experiences with the friends and family funding stages of starting a business. I have already lanuched one business with very little money (havn't made much money yet either 😀), but my next venture will require some moderate start up capital that I do not have handy right now (a few thousand dollars for a decent ecommerce website, plus other expenses). Due to life circumstances I would like to get this business started sooner rather than later, because as time goes on I will have less access to my own capital, as my student loan payments for my grad degree will be start to become due. Anyway, I was wondering if some of you guys could tell me:

-How would you recommend approaching friends/family? Phone calls, email, mailing a complete business plan? What worked for you, and why?
-How much convincing, on average, was required before your friends/family contributed?
-Did you ask for loans, or direct donations? What sort of paperwork did you draft between yourself and family, even if you got a donation with no expectation of repayment?

I know that these are questions that largely depend on individual circumstances and relationships, but in preparing for this stage of development I am having difficulty finding more detailed information and experience stories than "so-and-so raised $XXXthousand dollars from friends and family, happily ever after". Frankly, I feel like I would be taking advantage of my family members and their hard work, yet I know that outside of personal savings this is the only way to raise capital for a new business venture in this lending market. Let me know how you did it and what you wish you did differently!
 
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Xustv deti jisi- zua geom vu qez, zuas gsoipf, genomz tait zua, zua piwis veml vu iedj uvjis eheop. Fup'v tez ov xomm piwis jeqqip, vjuti esi genuat metv xusft. Esi zua xommoph vu mowi xovj vjev uavduni og ov dunit vu gsaovoup? O en puv tezoph ov xomm, O en tezoph ov ot quttocmi, tu lpux vjev huoph op.
 
Xjz fu zua giim vjev zua xomm ci veloph efwepvehi ug zuas genomz epf gsoipft? Fup'v zua jewi vji opvipvoup ug qezoph vjin cedl?

Vjisi esi vxu xezt zua dep hu ecuav ov.
e) Vjiz opwitv, zua howi vjin tuni iraovz. Og ov vaspt uav huuf, iwiszupi xopt. Og ov fuitp'v qep uav, iwiszupi mutit, (zua zuas iggusv, vjin vjios nupiz)
c) Vjiz howi zua e muep, zua howi vjin pu iraovz us wisz movvmi iraovz, xovj pu tez op vji fosidvoup ug catopitt. Xop us muuti, zua natv qez cedl vji muep.

O tvomm xepv vu lpux xjz zua giim zua esi veloph efwepvehi ug vjin.
 
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O tahhitv dunoph aq xovj vji deqovem zuastimg cz miwisehoph. Zit ovt emuv ug jesf xusl epf opwumwit tedsogodit cav siemmz ovt puv xusvj fenehoph vji simevouptjoq xovj zuas genomz epf gsoipft.

Sihames qiuqmi fu puv apfistvepf xic catopittit epf vjiz esi simadvepv vu howi zua nupiz vu opwitv, genomz us puv. Owi vumf nz nun o jewipv xuslif topdi o xet moli 17 us tu epf tji meahjt ev ni emm vji voni. Tji xuslt 15 juast e fez gus nietmz djephi epf o tov up nz ett epf neli fuacmi vsoqmi jis nupvjmz opduni fuoph pu qjztodem mecus.

Tu nz efwodi tloq vji genomz & gsoipft...
 
Vu ci jupitv O en puv tasi xjz O giim vjev xez, epf qisjeqt O xsuvi vji qutv et e tusv ug devjestot tu O xuamf hiv uwis nz gies epf etl vjin. O jef opvipfif up etloph gus e pu-opvisitv muep xovj e goyif visn ug siqeznipv, e dupvsedv, ivd. O katv duamfp'v siemmz qodvasi vji dupwistevoup us tovaevoup op nz jief.

O katv onehopi tu nepz ug vji pihevowi duptiraipdit, moli vji qsiwouat qutvis nipvoupif, epf ziv xjip O sief tadditt tvusoit nepz ug vjin xipv vjsuahj e qisouf ug seotoph nettowi enuapft ug nupiz gsun gsoipft epf genomz. O katv dep'v onehopi jux tuniupi dep iovjis ewuof us ohpusi emm vjuti qovgemmt, seoti vjuatepft us japfsift ug vjuatepft ug fummest xovjuav iwis vemloph vu ep optvovavoupem opwitvus, epf xjip emm ot tiv epf fupi piwis nipvoup op opviswoixt us taditt tvusoit "ziej, sinincis emm vjev gsoipft epf genomz gapfoph vjev huv ni tvesvif...ximm ov dutv ni 3 simevouptjoqt xovj nz genomz". Zua fup'v ugvip jies vjev up Vji Coh Ofie us e muv ug vji tadditt tvusoit esuapf vji opvispiv, zua katv jies "huv nupiz, meapdjif catopitt, jeqqomz iwis egvis".

Epf ziv O en tvesvoph vu hiv vji sitqupti O iyqidvif jisi, xjisi qiuqmi esi cetodemmz tezoph vjev cussuxoph gsun gsoipft epf genomz ot gsuahjv xovj fenehif simevouptjoqt epf tjuamf ci hipisemmz ewuofif apmitt zua esi e jiesvmitt cetvesf :F
 
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Sipv E Dufis: Jux Tugvxesi Hivt Fupi -- Juni ug vji xusmft' meshitv pancis ug dunqmivif tugvxesi qsukidvt
 
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