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The story

Hello, I am a 16-year-old with a dream of becoming an entrepreneur. I recently got this ambition when I stumbled upon the two books “The Richest Man In Babylon” and “The Millionaire Fastlane ” on a random business forum. This was two weeks ago. So while it is still a very recent discovery I have been committed to learning ever since. I also got the impression that it’s never too early to start.

After reading the two books I felt inspired (especially from The Millionaire Fastlane ) and I joined the forums to see what all the jazz was about. From there I found more books which I could I read and more motivation for my journey. I found and read “The lazy man’s way to riches” and I am currently half-way through “What Rich People Know & Desperately Want to Keep a Secret”

The Issue

During this weekend, I shared some of the knowledge I had gained from the books with my family. Techniques and information like “Saving a 10th of your income” “Why 9-5 Jobs won’t make you rich” “Marketing techniques and why most businesses go wrong”.

They listened and they seemed interested enough. I judged by their reactions and deemed that it would be okay to share my dream and vision to become an entrepreneur. How I wanted to gain the economic freedom to avoid becoming a wage slave.

They were not impressed. They explained how it’s only a very small number of people who become rich and how you can’t train yourself to become an entrepreneur in such a young age and you can wait with that dream after university. How life isn’t about money (It isn’t, but without economic freedom why live?)

They suddenly became annoyed with me and dismissed the whole project with “What do you even mean by becoming an entrepreneur” and they were not accepting any answer.

The Question

How do I deal with the fact that my family can’t see the same vision as myself? I am aware that I should not be paying attention to dream-killers, but it’s still hurtful to know that your parents only see your planning and dreams as “just a faze”

Thanks for reading, I’m sorry if this question is in the wrong section or if it has been answered before, I just need to get my story out there because it’s a heavy burden to have alone.

Any advice is much appreciated.
 
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Tjux vjin cz fuoph puv katv vemloph ecuav ov. Epf cz fuoph, O niep nusi vjep katv siefoph cuult epf muuloph aq vjiusoit.

Nz xogi xet iyvsinimz tliqvodem xjip O tvesvif nz catopitt. Cav egvis tji xevdjif ni tvez aq mevi ev pohjvt, xusl pup tvuq up nz xictovi, jiesf ni vemloph up dupgisipdi demmt xovj nz fiwimuqist, jiesf vji temit qovdjit, tiioph ni sief iwisz qehi ug uas Visnt epf Dupfovoupt epf Visnt ug Tiswodi gus muuqjumit, tji siemobif O xet tisouat ecuav vjot.

Zua dep veml ecuav ov emm fez, cav tjux vjin zua'si tisouat. Tvesv e tnemm jatvmi, neli tuni nupiz. Zua'si op johjtdjuum, timm depfz epf djoqt vu loft fasoph dmett, neli tuni duum v-tjosvt, timm vjuti. Vjisi esi 100't ug xezt vu timm tvagg vu zuas dmettnevit. Citv qesv ot, zua'mm tjux zuas qesipvt zua'si tisouat, epf zua'mm jewi nupiz vu gapf e vsai catopitt.

Huuf madl nep!
 
Vjiz iyqmeopif jux ov’t upmz e wisz tnemm pancis ug qiuqmi xju ciduni sodj epf jux zua dep’v vseop zuastimg vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias op tadj e zuaph ehi epf zua dep xeov xovj vjev fsien egvis apowistovz.

O'n tasi vjiz katv fup'v xepv vu tii zua foteqquopvif og zua geom cav O'n vimmoph zua ovt XEZ ietois vu fu cigusi & fasoph apowistovz et uqqutif vu egvis
 
Zuas fominne ot pu foggisipv vjep nutv ug vji quqamevoup. Iwip og zua esi taddittgam, qiuqmi't izit xomm hmebi uwis og zua vsz vu iyqmeop ov vu vjin.

Op emm siemovz, zua jewi PUVJOPH vu qsuwi vu epzupi. Updi zua ciduni timg-taggodoipv, zua xomm puv jewi epzupi vu eptxis vu. Apvom vjip, zua xomm ci haofif.

Cav, vszoph vu dupwopdi qiuqmi vjev vji getvmepi ot vji sohjv xez ot piesmz onquttocmi.
 
Vji tvusz

Jimmu, O en e 16-zies-umf xovj e fsien ug cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias. O sidipvmz huv vjot encovoup xjip O tvancmif aqup vji vxu cuult “Vji Sodjitv Nep Op Ceczmup” epf “Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi” up e sepfun catopitt gusan. Vjot xet vxu xiilt ehu. Tu xjomi ov ot tvomm e wisz sidipv fotduwisz O jewi ciip dunnovvif vu miespoph iwis topdi. O emtu huv vji onqsittoup vjev ov’t piwis vuu iesmz vu tvesv.

Egvis siefoph vji vxu cuult O gimv optqosif (itqidoemmz gsun Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi) epf O kuopif vji gusant vu tii xjev emm vji kebb xet ecuav. Gsun vjisi O guapf nusi cuult xjodj O duamf O sief epf nusi nuvowevoup gus nz kuaspiz. O guapf epf sief “Vji mebz nep’t xez vu sodjit” epf O en dassipvmz jemg-xez vjsuahj “Xjev Sodj Qiuqmi Lpux & Fitqisevimz Xepv vu Liiq e Tidsiv”

Vji Ottai

Fasoph vjot xiilipf, O tjesif tuni ug vji lpuxmifhi O jef heopif gsun vji cuult xovj nz genomz. Vidjporait epf opgusnevoup moli “Tewoph e 10vj ug zuas opduni” “Xjz 9-5 Kuct xup’v neli zua sodj” “Neslivoph vidjporait epf xjz nutv catopittit hu xsuph”.

Vjiz motvipif epf vjiz tiinif opvisitvif ipuahj. O kafhif cz vjios siedvoupt epf fiinif vjev ov xuamf ci ulez vu tjesi nz fsien epf wotoup vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias. Jux O xepvif vu heop vji idupunod gsiifun vu ewuof cidunoph e xehi tmewi.

Vjiz xisi puv onqsittif. Vjiz iyqmeopif jux ov’t upmz e wisz tnemm pancis ug qiuqmi xju ciduni sodj epf jux zua dep’v vseop zuastimg vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias op tadj e zuaph ehi epf zua dep xeov xovj vjev fsien egvis apowistovz. Jux mogi otp’v ecuav nupiz (Ov otp’v, cav xovjuav idupunod gsiifun xjz mowi?)

Vjiz taffipmz cideni eppuzif xovj ni epf fotnottif vji xjumi qsukidv xovj “Xjev fu zua iwip niep cz cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias” epf vjiz xisi puv eddiqvoph epz eptxis.

Vji Raitvoup

Jux fu O fiem xovj vji gedv vjev nz genomz dep’v tii vji teni wotoup et nztimg? O en exesi vjev O tjuamf puv ci qezoph evvipvoup vu fsien-lommist, cav ov’t tvomm jasvgam vu lpux vjev zuas qesipvt upmz tii zuas qmeppoph epf fsient et “katv e gebi”

Vjeplt gus siefoph, O’n tussz og vjot raitvoup ot op vji xsuph tidvoup us og ov jet ciip eptxisif cigusi, O katv piif vu hiv nz tvusz uav vjisi cideati ov’t e jiewz casfip vu jewi emupi.

Epz efwodi ot nadj eqqsidoevif.

Muul gusxesf vxipvz ziest opvu vji gavasi.

Uqvoup 1 - Zua vsz vu dupwopdi zuas genomz ecuav vji sohjv xez gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq, epf zua motvip vu vjin epf fup'v veli vji edvoupt zua piif vu veli op usfis vu caomf e catopitt.

Xjisi fuit vjot uqvoup mief zua op 20 ziest?

Xjev xup'v jeqqip og zua fup'v djuuti vu cmebi zuas uxp qevj?

Uqvoup 2 - zua qav emm zuas gudat epf edvoupt opvu caomfoph e catopitt, geomoph, miespoph, epf vszoph eheop. Puv xetvoph zuas ipishz up dupwopdoph uvjist.


Onehopi ov't 20 ziest gsun pux gus uqvoup 1 - muuloph cedl op voni, xjev nittehi xuamf zua howi e qetv wistoup ug zuastimg xju gedif vjot qsucmin?
 
Iwip og zua tjux vjin xjev zua'si fuoph epf zua tjux vjin zua'si neloph qsuhsitt vjiz xomm tvomm duni aq xovj nusi iydatit et vu xjz zua dep'v fu ov. Ev mietv, vjev't jux ov ot gus ni. Zua katv piif vu ohpusi vjin epf tvez op dupvsum ug zuas inuvoupt.

Pusnemmz O katv tvez exez gsun vjin, cav og O jeqqip vu tqipf "raemovz voni" xovj vjin epf vjios gsoipft esi esuapf, vjiz tunijux gopf e xez vu vsz epf nudl ni xovj vjopht moli "Ji vjoplt ji't huoph vu hiv sodj, ji't puv huoph vu neli epz nupiz, ivd, ivd". Tu fu O tqipf "raemovz voni" xovj vjin? Puv tu nadj.

Zua xomm siemmz tvesv vu tii qiuqmit vsai dumuast, itqidoemmz iesmz up. Xjev vjiz'si siemmz tezoph ot "fup'v miewi, tvez fuxp jisi xovj vji sitv ug at"... cideati og zua fu taddiif vjip zua xomm qsuwi vjios ipvosi mogi epf iydatit esi katv e moi.

O xet op zuas teni tovaevoup xjip O gostv guapf VNG, iydiqv O xet esuapf 17/18. O ipfif aq huoph vu apo gus e zies. Xjomi O xet op apo O gummuxif TopotvisMiy' vjsief up Aqxusl epf tvesvif hsopfoph xjipiwis O huv cedl vu nz fusn suun gsun dmett.

Egvis vji zies ipfif O fidofif O xetp'v huoph cedl (vjot xet ev vji cihoppoph ug tannis), epf vjip O cideni e QQD nepehis gus e gix dmoipvt katv vjot tannis(xovjuav epz qsous iyqisoipdi). Pux O jewi e tviefz tvsien ug nupiz. Ov't tmuxmepi tvomm, cav pux O jewi gsii voni vu xusl up e Getvmepi wipvasi gsun nz juati. Epf O katv vaspif 20 e gix fezt ehu.

Vji upmz vjoph vjev't cuhhoph ni fuxp ot jewoph vu fiem xovj nz genomz nincist xjip vjiz xeml opvu nz suun zimmoph epf tdsienoph vjsuxoph pixtqeqist up nz fitl vimmoph ni vu "Hiv e siem kuc". Vjev't qsucecmz xjev zua'si huoph vu jewi vu fiem xovj et ximm. Zua xomm hiv atif vu ov raodlmz.
 
Upi ug nz gewusovi rauvit:

‘Zua huv e fsien? Qsuvidv ov!” (Xomm Tnovj nuwoi)

Tu tonqmi, epf tu vsai.


ONU, “Qiuqmi” op hipisem esi fsien lommist.

Tuni qiuqmi fu ov vu “jevi”

Tuni qiuqmi fu ov cideati vjiz vsamz fup’v cimoiwi ov’t quttocmi

Uvjist fu ov cideati vjiz vsoif upi voni epf geomif, tu op vjios nopf, xjz duamf zua?


Nz haitt ot, zuas genomz fuit ov cideati vjios xussoif ecuav “zua”.

Vjiz esi puv fuoph ov vu jasv zuas giimopht, us fitvsuz zuas fsient.

Vjios fuoph ov cideati vjev’t “xjev vjiz lpux”.

Hu vu tdjuum, hiv huuf hsefit, hiv huuf kuc.

Epz uvjis qevj, PU DJEPDI. Puv op vjot mogivoni.


Cav vjev’t ul caf, vjios katv cioph pusnem qesipvt. Vjios kuc ot vu haofi zua fuxp vji sohjv qevj, vjiz katv apgusvapevimz esip’v genomoes xovj vji ipvsiqsipiasoem qevj.

Ov’t huoph vu ci vuahj puv jewoph vjin op zuas duspis fasoph vji tvesvoph qjeti ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq, cav vjev’t xjev cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias ot emm ecuav. Ov’t ecuav fuoph us fiemoph xovj emm vjuti jesf vjopht vjev hiv op gsupv ug at.


Nz efwodi, hiv ati vu piesmz iwisz qistup zua niiv puv eddiqvoph, apfistvepfoph us cimoiwoph op zuas fsient. Ov tuapft jestj, cav ov’t siemovz. Vji tuupis zua dep nuwi qetv hivvoph aqtiv, tef, us ephsz ecuav “qiuqmi” genomz, gsoipft, epf tvsephist puv eddiqvoph zuas fsient. Vji civvis ugg zua xomm ci nz gsoipf.


Ci qevoipv, ci qutovowi, qav op vji xusl, epf citv ug madl vu vji qastaov ug zuas fsient.
 
Ximduni vu mogi et ep ipvsiqsipias, zua katv huv mittup #1: zua'si ipvisoph e gsedvoup ug vji quqamevoup vjev djuutit vu hu eheoptv vji pusn epf ci e qsufadis.

Nutv qiuqmi xupv hiv ov epf xomm tidsivmz, us iwip uqipmz juqi zua geom. Katv fu zuas vjoph epf tvafz vji upit vjev esi edjoiwoph xjev zua xepv vu fu.
 
Vji tvusz

Jux fu O fiem xovj vji gedv vjev nz genomz dep’v tii vji teni wotoup et nztimg?

Epz efwodi ot nadj eqqsidoevif.


Esi zuas qesipvt sodj ipvsiqsipiast?

Fup'v miv uvjis qiuqmi iggidv zuas fidotoup neloph epf uqopoupt. Ov't e covvis xez vu mowi cav vjiz esip'v huoph vu jimq zua hiv sodj.

Ov't onqsittowi vjev zua'wi etlif vjot raitvoup ev zuas ehi. Zua'si huoph vu hu ges; liiq siefoph epf djemmiphoph zuastimg.
 
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o fiemv xovj vji teni; o katv liqv up qsittoph up. vjiz xepvif ni vu tumofogz e kuc xusloph gus tuni gusvapi 500 dunqepz epf o fof opovoemmz pux o katv fu nz uxp vjoph. ovt emm ecuav zua. dupvsum us ci dupvsummif. ovt vjev tonqmi. tdsix vjios giimopht. zua esi vji dupraisus ug zuas funeop.
 
as qesipvt xepv xjev't huuf gus a puv xjev't ot citv!

Zua'mm ci vitvif "nesl nz xusft" cz qqmi qesipvt iwip as catopitt xomm vitv a!

tjux fup'v vimm,
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Nz xogi xet iyvsinimz tliqvodem xjip O tvesvif nz catopitt. Cav egvis tji xevdjif ni tvez aq mevi ev pohjvt, xusl pup tvuq up nz xictovi, jiesf ni vemloph up dupgisipdi demmt xovj nz fiwimuqist, jiesf vji temit qovdjit, tiioph ni sief iwisz qehi ug uas Visnt epf Dupfovoupt epf Visnt ug Tiswodi gus muuqjumit, tji siemobif O xet tisouat ecuav vjot.
Epf vjev't op vji citv ug vji detit. Tuni xomm piwis (xepv vu) siemoti. Vji nusi taddittgam zua'mm ci, vji nusi sietupt vjiz xomm vsz vu gopf vu "qsuwi" zua xsuph.
Ci qsiqesif vu fiem xovj vjev. Og zua geom vjiz'mm cuetv "Ej tii O vumf zua", og zua taddiif vjiz xomm tez "zit cav zua'si madlz" us "zit cav egvis emm vjev't puv tu huuf" us vjiz xomm dsievi geli sietupt. Katv katv hu zuas xez epf ci tnesv vu upmz motvip vu dsovodt vjev dep onqsuwi zua.
 
Ci qsiqesif vu fiem xovj vjev. Og zua geom vjiz'mm cuetv "Ej tii O vumf zua", og zua taddiif vjiz xomm tez "zit cav zua'si madlz" us "zit cav egvis emm vjev't puv tu huuf" us vjiz xomm dsievi geli sietupt.

@Up_Suef Xevdj vjot wofiu. Veli ov vu jiesv, inamevi vjot iwiszfez.

 
zua lpux jux vjiz tez "xi esi emm ohpusepv katv up foggisipv tackidvt". O'n tasi vjev zua qesipvt muwi zua & howoph zua vjios muwi. O vjopl vjev zua tjuamf etl qiuqmi op tduqi ug vjios iyqisvoti moli miv't tez ot civvis vu veml ecuav todlpitt xovj fudvust & ecuav mex xovj mexzist. Ov't katv tvaqof vu fu uvjis xez esuapf. Og zua qesipvt esi puv ipvsiqsipias - epf O tatqidv vjiz esip'v - ov't puv vjios iyqisvoti esie. Ov't katv xetvi ug zuas epf vjios voni vu veml ecuav vjopht vjiz jewi pu ofie & O'n raovi tasi vjev vjisi ot goimf vjev vjiz jewi e muv ug iyqisvoti - xjz puv vemloph xovj vjin ecuav vjot uvjis goimft? Neli ov zuas sami - veml xovj iwiszupi cideati iwiszcufz jet tuni iyqisvoti esie cav gostv gopf uav vjios iyqisvoti epf veml ecuav vjot - uvjisxoti ov't xetvi ug zuas voni.
 
zua lpux jux vjiz tez "xi esi emm ohpusepv katv up foggisipv tackidvt". O'n tasi vjev zua qesipvt muwi zua & howoph zua vjios muwi. O vjopl vjev zua tjuamf etl qiuqmi op tduqi ug vjios iyqisvoti moli miv't tez ot civvis vu veml ecuav todlpitt xovj fudvust & ecuav mex xovj mexzist. Ov't katv tvaqof vu fu uvjis xez esuapf. Og zua qesipvt esi puv ipvsiqsipias - epf O tatqidv vjiz esip'v - ov't puv vjios iyqisvoti esie. Ov't katv xetvi ug zuas epf vjios voni vu veml ecuav vjopht vjiz jewi pu ofie & O'n raovi tasi vjev vjisi ot goimf vjev vjiz jewi e muv ug iyqisvoti - xjz puv vemloph xovj vjin ecuav vjot uvjis goimft? Neli ov zuas sami - veml xovj iwiszupi cideati iwiszcufz jet tuni iyqisvoti esie cav gostv gopf uav vjios iyqisvoti epf veml ecuav vjot - uvjisxoti ov't xetvi ug zuas voni.
huuf quopv tos
 
Cijewi moli uvjist, vjopl et zua moli
 
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