My family has given me nothing since I turn an adult, while I on the other hand help them much more in many way. I given my money to mother when she broke, I do not ask for rent if she were to live with me nor anyone, I given people presents like last mother day I given my mother $50 gift. I given my grandmother jewelry. And what does my other sibling does??? Absolutely nothing, and they compare me to him... whom was going to live with me.
I found out today that my grandmother called my mother and telling her that I am quitting my "minimum wage-restaurant job" and she said she's very embarrass of me. A grown person sleeping until 2 p.m., and that it looks like I am quitter. No it's not that... it's that I know I could make more somewhere else... I know what I can do with my time, and that job just suck.
My mother called me and gave a rant about, "you should work, you should work because I work those kind of jobs all my life and it adds up, what are they going to say **aunt/uncle; never given me anything either**, you're lazy, you're this/that" I am pissed because everything I done for them career-wise is for them, college-wise for them, and I feel like I screwed up my life to make them happy. This was the final straw, since I could leave this all behind. I feel in my heart they are just dragging me down, since I only wanted to stay in this state for my grandmother. But I feel like I need to mentally just disown them for my own sake.
I just don't know anymore if it's worth caring about their personal opinions....
I found out today that my grandmother called my mother and telling her that I am quitting my "minimum wage-restaurant job" and she said she's very embarrass of me. A grown person sleeping until 2 p.m., and that it looks like I am quitter. No it's not that... it's that I know I could make more somewhere else... I know what I can do with my time, and that job just suck.
My mother called me and gave a rant about, "you should work, you should work because I work those kind of jobs all my life and it adds up, what are they going to say **aunt/uncle; never given me anything either**, you're lazy, you're this/that" I am pissed because everything I done for them career-wise is for them, college-wise for them, and I feel like I screwed up my life to make them happy. This was the final straw, since I could leave this all behind. I feel in my heart they are just dragging me down, since I only wanted to stay in this state for my grandmother. But I feel like I need to mentally just disown them for my own sake.
I just don't know anymore if it's worth caring about their personal opinions....
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