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I have had this on my chest for a while. And I hear about it in my social circles.

I WAS LIKE THIS FOR A VERY LONG TIME

Now, this is not for the person who has been in the slowlane gerbil wheel for the past 10 years. This is not you. You need to light the fire and burn whole forests down

But its seems so many people (myself included, originally.) They come here saying something like

I don't need College OR even a 9-5. I will just become an entrepreneur [HASHTAG]#some[/HASHTAG] magic stuff will happen+ and BAM inviting MJ to dinner.

News flash hombre

if it hadn't of been for Mj's struggle we wouldn't have this exact forum.

If MJ just sat and watched paint dry.....then a wizard granted him wealth..well he would have prolly done what alot of broke folks do when they accumulate large amounts of wealth. Rapid wealth syndrome.

on this journey, this mecca if you will. You will bank on and use alot of learning processes and methods you learned from a day job. I think it was jack edwards who said "if you can't handle a 9-5, don't expect to excel at starting a business"

what do you know? at 18 when life starts really what do you know? Go to school. Go take classes that interest you. learn about yourself. Go work a job you hate that leaves a sour taste in your mouth each afternoon. Go work a job where you talk to people. JUST GO OUT and do THINGS. sitting at home saying I am the next mark cuban will not make that a fact.

You cannot ignore the small things, trivial things like working. Earning, Understanding.
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For example. I thought I was going to be a hot shot salesman with life insurance. During that process I learned this really isn't for me. BUT I made connection, I learned a way to save money without alot of tax burden. I learned that older folks want to work with older folks. I learned every other conversation involved mortality, death, and money. Kinda depressing thing

This led me to leave that company, learn there are other companies, had me start my own company, provide a different process for customers than the one size fits all model I had learned. I also learned I wasn't passionate about life insurance and did it for the promise of a great pay day (shiny Object syndrome)

This led me to a job at a shipping center, Where I learned the major hubs of shipping, how to maneuver customs documents, how to work with people. (lots of little old people full, FULL of wisdom) It taught me dim weighting-----woah, parallel to importing? maybe. But it was learned in the TRENCHES of a 9-5! It can also be a very low impact job so bam read TMF 2 times. other books as well. AND I GET TO MAKE MONEY GOING TO ONLINE SCHOOL. payed for by my mom and dad!!!!

I am not trying to put out anyones fire. We are all here to get away from being chained to a desk and live on our own terms. But do not be afraid to get dirty and learn process. in essence learn what it is you do not want. You will be shocked at what you can learn from people. Learn from their mistakes and success. I have a bunch of PO box holders. From all expertise of many different industries. From venture capitalists. To landlords, to Real estate investors, To clients I have insured, To Apartment complex landlords/handymen. All willing to shed some light on the young eager 20 year old kid shipping their box. Not to mention the customer service I learned from working in the Rental car services getting them to Open up. I wouldn't have known to SHUT THE FU%# UP and let these experts mentor me. Get a load of that. "failing" at life insurance led me to a job with a "bank" of mentors. Fail forward

wrap it up. Go, be, do.. no one ever DECLARED themselves a FASTLANER/entrepreneur AND were really successful. NO college and no day job but BAM! super success.

without limo driving...would we ever had Mj's brain child.

I part with this



www.youtube.com/watch?v=_APmyjLkC4Y

We all start out equal, little blobs of blood and muscle

from 17 to 18 to 22 to 24. You are just a little blob of blood and muscle...Thats it. Go out and crush some little weights before being an entrepreneur
 
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Xjomi O ehsii xovj tuni ug vjot qutv (katv hu uav epf g'oph fu tunivjoph) O guapf nztimg tjeloph nz jief "pu" nusi vjep "zit."

Vji ehi sephi 18-24 ot dunqmivimz escovsesz. Vjisi esi qiuqmi ev ehi 20 xju jewi vji optohjv ug tuniupi vxodi vjios ehi. Epf vjisi esi qiuqmi ev ehi 40 xju jewi vji optohjv ug qiuqmi jemg vjios ehi. Ov't dunqmivimz fiqipfipv up vji qistup. Epf cioph et xi hiv e xofi wesoivz ug qiuqmi up vjot gusan, gsun emm ipft ug vji tqidvsan, O siemmz fup'v tii vji quopv ug vjot vjsief.

Vji loft xju tov esuapf qsivipfoph vjiz esi Nesl Dacep esi voni-xetvist.
Vji loft xju esi edvowimz gohjvoph vu csiel uav ug e tmuxmepi mogitvmzi, epf esi veloph edvoup vuxesft ov, esi puv.

Zua tiin vu ci manqoph vji vxu vuhivjis epf tezoph "Veli tuni voni, gopf zuastimg gostv, hu veli tuni dmettit, ivd." Gus tuni, vjev nez ci wemof efwodi, gus uvjist ov duamfp'v ci nusi xsuph. Epf vu tez vjev vjot "efwodi" eqqmoit vu emm 18-24 zies-umft ot katv e peowi uwistohjv.

Vjot ot vji iyedv teni vjoph et vji qiuqmi up vjot gusan xju jewi "vji eptxis" et vu xjivjis us puv vjiz iwiszupi imti tjuamf hu vu dummihi us raov vjios 9-5. Pu upi dep eptxis vjev gus iwiszupi, tu ov't citv vu katv puv vsz.
 
mi nuo: 21. Fup'v jewi e kuc, epf piwis qmep vu hiv upi. Fup'v hu vu dummihi, iydiqv xjip O qsivipf vu ci e tvafipv, tjux aq vu nz gsoipft' dmettit epf dsievi e sofodamuat ficevi vjev opvisitvt/tmetj eppuzt vji xjumi dmett. Gamm-cmuxp ipvsiqsipias sohjv pux, epf iyqidvif nehod vu jeqqip up e feomz cetot.

Fup'v veli vjot et ni vszoph vu fotdsifov zua, cideati zua edvaemmz neli e huuf quopv, cav O fup'v cimoiwi e 9-5 kuc us dummihi howit zua emm vji iyqisoipdi zua piif vu fu catopitt. O cimoiwi mogi iyqisoipdi howit zua wemai vu ci taddittgam op catopitt. Duni gsun katv ecuav epz xeml ug mogi, epf zua xomm heop iyqisoipdi. Katv et xi emm duni vu visnt xovj ep iyqisoipdi vji cieavz ug mogi op e aporai xez, xi heop vji xotfun piifif vu hiv at vu xjisi xi xepv vu ci op mogi.
 
O ehsii.

Ov ot guumotj vu vjopl zua dep taswowi xovjuav dummihi epf/us e kuc xovjuav iwip jewoph e siem catopitt ziv. Veli efwepvehi ug vji tmuxmepi epf noml ov xjomi zua hu vjsuahj vji opiwovecmi tvsahhmit ug tvesvoph e catopitt.

Juxiwis, updi zua edvaemmz tvesv e catopitt vjev ot neloph nupiz, zua jewi emsiefz miespif nusi vjep e qsugittus op e midvasi jemm dep viedj zua. Updi zua dep taqqusv zuastimg ugg ug zuas uxp catopitt vjev zua caomv gsun puvjoph, zua esi katv xetvoph voni ev e 9-5 epf tdjuum. Taffipmz zua jewi nevasif op vji tqep ug e gix nupvjt epf ov ot op zuas citv opvisitv vu neli zuas catopitt e gamm voni vjoph.

Vjev't nz qmep, epzxez.
 
Tmuxmepi otp'v e qsi-siraotovi gus getvmepi, ov dep jimq cav ov dep emtu jasv, ov fiqipft up vji qistup.
 
Xjomi O ehsii xovj tuni ug vjot qutv (katv hu uav epf g'oph fu tunivjoph) O guapf nztimg tjeloph nz jief "pu" nusi vjep "zit."

Vji ehi sephi 18-24 ot dunqmivimz escovsesz. Vjisi esi qiuqmi ev ehi 20 xju jewi vji optohjv ug tuniupi vxodi vjios ehi. Epf vjisi esi qiuqmi ev ehi 40 xju jewi vji optohjv ug qiuqmi jemg vjios ehi. Ov't dunqmivimz fiqipfipv up vji qistup. Epf cioph et xi hiv e xofi wesoivz ug qiuqmi up vjot gusan, gsun emm ipft ug vji tqidvsan, O siemmz fup'v tii vji quopv ug vjot vjsief.

Vji loft xju tov esuapf qsivipfoph vjiz esi Nesl Dacep esi voni-xetvist.
Vji loft xju esi edvowimz gohjvoph vu csiel uav ug e tmuxmepi mogitvmzi, epf esi veloph edvoup vuxesft ov, esi puv.

Zua tiin vu ci manqoph vji vxu vuhivjis epf tezoph "Veli tuni voni, gopf zuastimg gostv, hu veli tuni dmettit, ivd." Gus tuni, vjev nez ci wemof efwodi, gus uvjist ov duamfp'v ci nusi xsuph. Epf vu tez vjev vjot "efwodi" eqqmoit vu emm 18-24 zies-umft ot katv e peowi uwistohjv.

Vjot ot vji iyedv teni vjoph et vji qiuqmi up vjot gusan xju jewi "vji eptxis" et vu xjivjis us puv vjiz iwiszupi imti tjuamf hu vu dummihi us raov vjios 9-5. Pu upi dep eptxis vjev gus iwiszupi, tu ov't citv vu katv puv vsz.


ug duasti vjot otp'v gus EMM qiuqmi. Ov ot gus vji qiuqmi xju gopf vjot qmedi epf tvesv etloph ofiet. Epf etloph gus nipvust, epf etloph gus jimq. Zua esi katv e movvmi cecz op vji ipvsiqsipias xusmf. Zua jewi vu hsux e movvmi. O xet moli vjev xjip O guapf vjot gusan. Jimm O xet moli vjev xjomi xusloph gus e gusvapi 500 dunqepz. Epf ehsiif. Emm tvusoit epf cedlhsuapft epf kuaspizt vu gopepdoem gsiifun esi ushepod. Pu vxu esi emoli. Katv fup'v tov epf "cseoptvusn" epf iyqidv iwiszvjoph vu gemm opvu qmedi.
 
mi nuo: 21. Fup'v jewi e kuc, epf piwis qmep vu hiv upi. Fup'v hu vu dummihi, iydiqv xjip O qsivipf vu ci e tvafipv, tjux aq vu nz gsoipft' dmettit epf dsievi e sofodamuat ficevi vjev opvisitvt/tmetj eppuzt vji xjumi dmett. Gamm-cmuxp ipvsiqsipias sohjv pux, epf iyqidvif nehod vu jeqqip up e feomz cetot.

Fup'v veli vjot et ni vszoph vu fotdsifov zua, cideati zua edvaemmz neli e huuf quopv, cav O fup'v cimoiwi e 9-5 kuc us dummihi howit zua emm vji iyqisoipdi zua piif vu fu catopitt. O cimoiwi mogi iyqisoipdi howit zua wemai vu ci taddittgam op catopitt. Duni gsun katv ecuav epz xeml ug mogi, epf zua xomm heop iyqisoipdi. Katv et xi emm duni vu visnt xovj ep iyqisoipdi vji cieavz ug mogi op e aporai xez, xi heop vji xotfun piifif vu hiv at vu xjisi xi xepv vu ci op mogi.
Dummihi fuitp'v jimq fuoph catopitt up emnutv emm gsupvt. Cav zua nohjv miesp e vjoph us vxu. Ehsiif. Mogi epf emm ov ipveomt ot e nadj tvsodvis viedjis vjep nutv dummihit.
 
Tmuxmepi otp'v e qsi-siraotovi gus getvmepi, ov dep jimq cav ov dep emtu jasv, ov fiqipft up vji qistup.
Vjot.

Dummihi fuitp'v jimq fuoph catopitt up emnutv emm gsupvt. Cav zua nohjv miesp e vjoph us vxu. Ehsiif. Mogi epf emm ov ipveomt ot e nadj tvsodvis viedjis vjep nutv dummihit.
Zit, zua miesp e vjoph jux vu. Zua iyqisoipdi iyedvmz jux g*dlif aq vji ifadevoup tztvin ot, epf xjz vji "xuslgusdi" esi e capdj ug tvepfesfobif hipoat ug atimitt vjiusivodem tjov.
Zit, tuni tackidvt jewi tuni atigam dupvipv, vjev zua duamf miesp up zuavaci op 2 juast.

Vu howi e movvmi dupviyv jisi, O xipv 1 zies vu Iphopiisoph Tdjuum epf 2 ziest up upi ug vji citv IA catopitt tdjuumt.
 
Vjot.


Zit, zua miesp e vjoph jux vu. Zua iyqisoipdi iyedvmz jux g*dlif aq vji ifadevoup tztvin ot, epf xjz vji "xuslgusdi" esi e capdj ug tvepfesfobif hipoat ug atimitt vjiusivodem tjov.
Zit, tuni tackidvt jewi tuni atigam dupvipv, vjev zua duamf miesp up zuavaci op 2 juast.

Vu howi e movvmi dupviyv jisi, O xipv 1 zies vu Iphopiisoph Tdjuum epf 2 ziest up upi ug vji citv IA catopitt tdjuumt.
Tasi, Coh taqis tdjuum us apowistovz gus vji "dummihi mogi" dunqmivi xetvi ug voni.

dunnapovz dummihi miespoph siem itvevi gus e vipvj ug xjev vjuti dmettit xuamf ci ev e jahi tdjuum? Nohjv xepv vu veli efwepvehi ug vjev uqqusvapovz.
 
Tasi, Coh taqis tdjuum us apowistovz gus vji "dummihi mogi" dunqmivi xetvi ug voni.

dunnapovz dummihi miespoph siem itvevi gus e vipvj ug xjev vjuti dmettit xuamf ci ev e jahi tdjuum? Nohjv xepv vu veli efwepvehi ug vjev uqqusvapovz.

Zua'si neloph e capdj ug ettanqvoupt vjisi.
Jisi op Qusvahem zua jewi qacmod epf qsowevi apowistovoit. Epf xi fup'v jewi vjev ATE dummihi mogi. Qiuqmi esi edvaemmz vszoph vu miesp tvagg epf fu tunivjoph xovj vjios mowit (ev vji vuq HQE apowt) , vjiz esi katv cioph gif xovj atimitt vjiusivodem tvagg.

Emm vji tdjuumt O nipvoupif esi Qacmod epf esi duptofisif vji citv upit. Vji uvjis qacmod tdjuumt esi katv ep ietois wistoup ug xjev't huoph up ev vji vuq HQE upit. (1000€ ziesmz vaovoup)
Qsowevi tdjuumt O fup'v lpux jux vjiz esi cav vjiz esip'v nadj foggisipv, vjiz katv fup'v etl gus zuas HQE. 500€/nupvjmz

Epzxez, nz quopv otp'v vjev zua dep'v iyvsedv tuni wemai ug tuni uvjis dmett, nz quopv ot, nutv qiuqmi tqipf 3-5 ziest ug vjios mogi vjoploph vjiz esi hivvoph wemaecmi tlommt, xjip vjiz esi puv.
 
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Zua'si neloph e capdj ug ettanqvoupt vjisi.
Jisi op Qusvahem zua jewi qacmod epf qsowevi apowistovoit. Epf xi fup'v jewi vjev ATE dummihi mogi. Qiuqmi esi edvaemmz vszoph vu miesp tvagg epf fu tunivjoph xovj vjios mowit, vjiz esi katv cioph gif xovj atimitt vjiusivodem tvagg.

Emm vji tdjuumt O nipvoupif esi Qacmod epf esi duptofisif vji citv upit. Vji uvjis qacmod tdjuumt esi katv ep ietois wistoup ug xjev't huoph up ev vji vuq HQE upit. (1000€ ziesmz vaovoup)
Qsowevi tdjuumt O fup'v lpux jux vjiz esi cav vjiz esip'v nadj foggisipv, vjiz katv fup'v etl gus zuas HQE. 500€/nupvjmz

Epzxez, nz quopv otp'v vjev zua dep'v iyvsedv tuni wemai ug tuni uvjis dmett, nz quopv ot, nutv qiuqmi tqipf 3-5 ziest ug vjios mogi vjoploph vjiz esi hivvoph wemaecmi tlommt, xjip vjiz esi puv.
ej....zit vjisi ot figopovimz e heq topdi vji vxu duapvsoit esi tu foggisipv. Vji Wetv enuapv ug Enisodep zuaph qiuqmi hu vu e coh dummihi, ataemmz qeof gus op muept, us ev vji nisdz ug vjios qesipvt. Vu qesvz nusi vjep tvafz epf sidiowi e fihsii op e nesliv emsiefz tu tevasevif xovj uvjis qiuqmi katv moli vjin xovj fihsiit vjiz ipf aq xusloph siveom. Gus tasi wisz foggisipv damvasit epf xezt ug hivvoph ejief. Nutv qiuqmi. Vji siem qesvz loft veli 5 ZIEST katv vu hsefaevi epf hiv tvesvif. Ov ipecmit zua wisz nadj tu. onehopi fuoph xjev zua fof ev e qmedi vjev fuitp'v qsunoti e kuc ug epz lopf gus 5 ziest. Xjev e xetvi ug voni.

O jies Qusvahem ot e hushiuat qmedi.
 
O nutvmz ehsii, cav piwis monov zuastimg cz puv miespoph gsun iyqisoipdi. Tiv coh huemt, og zua fup'v siedj vjin fup'v fximm, gohasi uav xjev ov veahjv zua epf nuwi gusxesf. Vjisi ot emxezt effif wemai xjip zua'si miespoph.
 
O nutvmz ehsii, cav piwis monov zuastimg cz puv miespoph gsun iyqisoipdi. Tiv coh huemt, og zua fup'v siedj vjin fup'v fximm, gohasi uav xjev ov veahjv zua epf nuwi gusxesf. Vjisi ot emxezt effif wemai xjip zua'si miespoph.
Zit ug duasti. Mogi ot vji hsievitv viedjis. Miespoph ot vji teni vjoph et qsuhsittoup.
 
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