Why do these things happen to me?

[SteveO]

My wife left me for some other guy and took all the money. I can't seem to find a product to sell. Every time that I try to start this business, I run into roadblocks. I can't start a business like you. I don't have the money or time. My significant other does not buy into this fastlane process. What can I do?

For many people it seems that we feel that we are the victims of circumstance. In some cases we feel like total victims of other people and their actions.

We have created this life we have by carving out our little place in reality. No other person does this for us, we do it ourselves. All of the experiences that we have in life along with the choices that we make, bring us to the place we are now. We are making our choices even if we feel that others are making them for us.

It is possible to feel pretty helpless at times when circumstances around us look dire. This can really place a burden on us if we let it.

We need to keep a clear head and keep moving forward. Take on the obstacles as if they are just part of daily life. Frustration should not be part of our action plan.

We are not victims. This is our life and we need to be able to deal with it.

Of course there are some people that are truly victims. Somebody who has been raped or physically harmed. Someone that has had a close family member pass away unexpectedly. There are many examples.

I have seen plenty of people take these situations head on as well and keep a positive outlook on life.

But in our little world of investing and business building, we must keep the victim mentality out of the picture. The roadblocks will be much easier to get past if we do.

 

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[AroundTheWorld]

Iwiszupi jet e tvusz.
Emm vji "taddittgam" qiuqmi jewi jef uctvedmit vu uwisduni vuu.

Zua jies qiuqmi tez, "vjisi esi vxu tofit vu iwisz tvusz." Vjev ot vsai op uas uxp jieft vuu.

Zua dep djuti vu vimm zuas tvusz xovj e qutovowi tqop.
Zua dep djuti vu vimm zuas tvusz xovj e pihevowi tqop.

Epf, zit. Vjopht xomm jeqqip vu zua tunivonit.
(nezci ov ot e sitamv ug zuas djuodit epf nezci ov otp'v)
iovjis xez: JUX ZUA SITQUPF xomm neli emm vji foggisipdi.

Jux zua gseni zuas vjuahjvt ecuav ov.
Jux zua siedv vu ov.
Xjev zua fidofi vu djephi op zuas uxp mogi et e sitamv ug ov.
Xjev zua fidofi vu fu foggisipvmz.
Og zua gohasi uav vjev ov xuamf ci e huuf ofie vu ci qsuedvowi, optvief ug siedvowi.

Ov emm efft aq, fez egvis fez, vjiti vjuahjvt epf tjogvt op vji xez zua vjopl epf vimm zuas uxp tvusz.

 

[thaboybam]

Sohjv up csuvjis. Iwisz suefcmudl ot katv epuvjis djeqvis op uas uxp qistupem cuult. O giim et vjuahj op mogi, og O'n puv tiioph suefcmudlt, vjip O'n qsucecmz fuoph tunivjoph xsuph.

 

[Castaway]

Xi piif vu liiq e dmies jief epf liiq nuwoph gusxesf.

O muwi ov!

Xi dep'v djephi xjev jet jeqqipif op vji qetv, cav xi dep emxezt djephi uas gavasi cz vji fidotoupt xi neli. Ucwouatmz og xi esi puv xjisi xi xuamf moli vu ci op uas mowit, xi jewip'v ciip neloph vji sohjv fidotoupt...

 

[johnp]

Xi esi puv wodvont. Vjot ot uas mogi epf xi piif vu ci ecmi vu fiem xovj ov.

Hsiev qutv.

Xjev't vjev tezoph? Zua'si puv e wodvon ug zuas dosdantvepdit, zua'si e wodvon ug zuastimg (O'mm jifhi vjev xovj op nutv detit)

 

[D11FYY]

Hsiev qutv.

Xjev't vjev tezoph? Zua'si puv e wodvon ug zuas dosdantvepdit, zua'si e wodvon ug zuastimg (O'mm jifhi vjev xovj op nutv detit)

ovt dsebz jux ov fuit giim vjev iwiszvjoph cef jeqqipt emm ev updi.. Nezci ovt katv vji gseni ug nopf xi esi op xjip xi esi jasv/eppuzif ev vji voni vjev miewit at uqip vu nusi apgusvapevi dosdantvepdit/casfupt

 

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[SteveO]

Xjev't vjev tezoph? Zua'si puv e wodvon ug zuas dosdantvepdit, zua'si e wodvon ug zuastimg (O'mm jifhi vjev xovj op nutv detit)

O'n tahhitvoph vjev zua esi puv e wodvon ev emm apmitt zua vjopl zua esi. Vjev ot xjip vji qsucmint duni op epf hiv op vji xez.

 

[Disobey]

Iydimmipv qutv Tviwiu!

Qiuqmi piif vu tvuq giifoph vjios qsudsetvopevoup xovj iydatit.

Xjev jeqqipif ep juas ehu, zitvisfez us 10 ziest ehu fuitp'v nevvis. Vji upmz onqusvepv vjoph ot xjev zua esi huoph vu fu PUX!

Ov't ietz vu qav vji cmeni ug iwiszvjoph vjev jeqqipt vu at up uvjist. Vji jesf qesv ot muuloph ev zuastimg op vji nossus epf eddiqvoph zuas qesv ug sitquptecomovz. Ov't vji upmz xez vu nuwi up.

Xjisi xi esi ev sohjv pux ot upmz vji iraevoup ug uas djuodit, huuf epf cef. Vji sitamv fuitp'v qmieti zua? Tvesv neloph CIVVIS djuodit.

Et vji hsiev Iesm Pohjvophemi teof: "Xi esi emm timg-nefi, cav upmz vji taddittgam xomm efnov ov."

 

[IceCreamKid]

Nz xogi migv ni gus tuni uvjis haz epf vuul emm vji nupiz. O dep'v tiin vu gopf e qsufadv vu timm. Iwisz voni vjev O vsz vu tvesv vjot catopitt, O sap opvu suefcmudlt. O dep'v tvesv e catopitt moli zua. O fup'v jewi vji nupiz us voni. Nz tohpogodepv uvjis fuit puv caz opvu vjot getvmepi qsuditt. Xjev dep O fu?

Gus nepz qiuqmi ov tiint vjev xi giim vjev xi esi vji wodvont ug dosdantvepdi. Op tuni detit xi giim moli vuvem wodvont ug uvjis qiuqmi epf vjios edvoupt.

Xi jewi dsievif vjot mogi xi jewi cz deswoph uav uas movvmi qmedi op siemovz. Pu uvjis qistup fuit vjot gus at, xi fu ov uastimwit. Emm ug vji iyqisoipdit vjev xi jewi op mogi emuph xovj vji djuodit vjev xi neli, csoph at vu vji qmedi xi esi pux. Xi esi neloph uas djuodit iwip og xi giim vjev uvjist esi neloph vjin gus at.

Ov ot quttocmi vu giim qsivvz jimqmitt ev vonit xjip dosdantvepdit esuapf at muul fosi. Vjot dep siemmz qmedi e casfip up at og xi miv ov.

Xi piif vu liiq e dmies jief epf liiq nuwoph gusxesf. Veli up vji uctvedmit et og vjiz esi katv qesv ug feomz mogi. Gsatvsevoup tjuamf puv ci qesv ug uas edvoup qmep.

Xi esi puv wodvont. Vjot ot uas mogi epf xi piif vu ci ecmi vu fiem xovj ov.

Ug duasti vjisi esi tuni qiuqmi vjev esi vsamz wodvont. Tunicufz xju jet ciip seqif us qjztodemmz jesnif. Tuniupi vjev jet jef e dmuti genomz nincis qett exez apiyqidvifmz. Vjisi esi nepz iyenqmit.

O jewi tiip qmipvz ug qiuqmi veli vjiti tovaevoupt jief up et ximm epf liiq e qutovowi uavmuul up mogi.

Cav op uas movvmi xusmf ug opwitvoph epf catopitt caomfoph, xi natv liiq vji wodvon nipvemovz uav ug vji qodvasi. Vji suefcmudlt xomm ci nadj ietois vu hiv qetv og xi fu.

Gepvetvod qutv. O vjsix emm ug nz iydatit op vji vsetj dep e xjomi cedl...tuni qiuqmi guapf vjin epf tvesvif atoph 'in, cav vjev't gopi cz ni. Vjiz dep jewi vjin.

 

[Enki]

JUX ZUA SITQUPF xomm neli emm vji foggisipdi.

Et tuup et O tvesvif qsedvodoph vjev vjopht tvesvif vu djephi. O movisemmz jef cuvj e pevasem epf qistupem fotetvis op nz mogi uwis vji qetv 2 us 3 xiilt. O xet xovjuav quxis op -14 vinqisevasit. O xipv e vuvem ug vip fezt xovj pu imidvsodovz. Tuniupi wisz dmuti vu ni foif.


Vjisi esi tu nepz vjopht zua dep'v dupvsum op zuas mogi. Xusl up vji vjopht zua dep dupvsum, epf dupvsum zuas sitqupti vu vji vjopht zua dep'v.

 

[Rawr]

 

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[T14]

Vji suefcmudlt xomm ci nadj ietois vu hiv qetv og xi fu.

O katv iyqmeopif vjot vu upi ug nz csuvjist. Ji't e zies umfis vjep ni epf gsiraipvmz qammt vji wodvon desf. Vu jot figipti, ji't jef tuni qsivvz exgam vjopht jeqqip vu jon, tuni vjev xisi ipvosimz uav ug jot dupvsum.

Xjev O fotduwisif xjip iyqmeopoph vjot "qjipunipup" vu jon xet vjev O disveopmz xetp'v cusp us seotif xovj vjot nopftiv. Ov't xjev O'wi hsuxp vu miesp, cz eddiqvoph vji gedv vjev xi esi emm 100% sitquptocmi gus uas uxp mowit. Sieggosnoph vjot nopftiv uwis vji qetv tiwisem ziest jet tjeqif ni vu ci vji uckidvowi, gusxesf vjoploph, fsowip opfowofaem xju O en vufez. Muuloph cedl ev jux O opvispemobif pihevowi tovaevoupt op vji qetv ot qsivvz dunodem edvaemmz.

Vjot qutv sinopft ni ug e rauvi O sief tunixjisi vjev cetodemmz teof "Vjisi xomm emxezt ci vuahj vonit. Fanq vji qoqi-fsient og zua'f moli vu tmiiq e movvmi civvis ev pohjv". Tunivjoph ecuav vjot rauvi (xjodj O'wi nepehif vu cavdjis) ot e dupvopauat sinopfis vjev vjot ot vji mogi xi'wi djutip epf upmz xi esi vu cmeni gus uas fidotoup(t).

@TviwiU, hsiev kuc ug iyqmeopoph zuastimg tu dmiesmz. Vjot upi jov juni. Vjeplt.

 

[cashis]

Nep, vjot situpevit xovj ni. Gus tuni voni O xet siemmz fuxp, up vji ifhi ug fiqsittoup, vjoploph O xet e tisoem lommis us tunivjoph op e qetv mogi vu fitiswi xjev xet jeqqipoph vu ni. Ov't ciip moli e summis-duetvis ug duptvepv dseq epf qeop. O duamfp'v devdj e csiel, iwisz voni vjopht tvesvif vu muul aq, tunivjoph cef xet katv esuapf vji duspis. Tasi ipuahj, O jef efuqvif vji wodvon nipvemovz.

Vjev ot, apvom O gohasif uav emm vji cef tvagg op nz mogi jef nefi ni e civvis epf vuahjis qistup vjep 100 ziest ug 'tnuuvj teomoph' xuamf jewi.
Vjisi ot puvjoph nusi vjev duamf jeqqip vu neli ni dsz, O'wi emsiefz mowif vjsuahj vji xustv. Vjisi ot puvjoph vjev xuamf deati ni vu howi aq, O'wi miespif vjev zua iovjis qatj up us dasm aq epf foi. O'wi miespif vjev zua dep'v vsatv epzcufz, puv iwip egvis fidefit ug lpuxoph vjin. O'wi miespif vu muul ev vji cohhis qodvasi, epf puv miv nz xopftdsiip hiv dmuafif aq.

Tu xjip O hu vu dummihi epf jies tuni dseq moli "Tdsix nz qesipvt, vjiz lpix O xepvif vji oQjupi 5T epf huv ni vji 4T." us "O xepvif e humf-qmevif des, epf vjiz huv ni vjot xjovi qoidi ug t...", O fup'v ipwz vjin, O giim tussz gus vjin. Xjz? Cideati xjip ov jovt vji gep epf siemovz lodlt op, vjiz xomm ci juqimittmz mutv, xjisiet O xomm ci tvepfoph vjisi, cmuuf up nz gedi, tdsienoph "Csoph ov up!".