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I am 22 years old so I know I am young and may not understand but I can't seem to wrap my brain around having kids. They are needy, codependent, stressful as F*ck, and take up so much damn money. Also, the kids can turn into a complete mess up that I have no control over causing more stress in my life. In the end, the world is going to end anyways and there are 6 billion other people in the world who will continue our species so I won't be important in that area of continuation of humanity.


I absolutely love my life and the directions I am headed in and I feel a kid will just completely ruin this. I just want to live life to the absolute fullest. I understand parents saying kids will help you grow as a person but I have other avenues that I am growing in and am completely happy to do just that.

As you know from reading MFL and unscripted , alot of the things you have been told in life is bullshit. From the food you have been eating to the things you find interest in. So I was wondering to myself, is having a kid something "I" REALLY want or is it something that is expected of me by society and my family? Will it make ME happy? Because ultimately, this is YOUR life. You can even say life begins and ends with you as you are the only one experiencing life so your life experience is the most important thing. Not to be too self centered but even helping other's life experience is to enhance your life experience so in a way we are all selfish.


If anything, I will like to adopt a kid if I were to have one as that is one less poor soul I can save from atrocious acts they didn't deserve. As for legacy, I want my legacy to be the lives I touched and how I lived my life in the time I am here. I don't care if my name lives on through my family gene as the sun will explode the Earth anyways, so isn't what we do today the thing that counts the most? Isn't the present the most important thing anyways?


For those with kids, why should I have kids? Give me a solid argument.
 
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Xjisi ot emm vjot dunoph gsun?

Zua'si puv huoph vu hiv e 'tumof eshanipv' cideati pucufz jisi desit xjivjis us puv zua jewi e lof.

Vjev't moli ni etloph vji dunnapovz "Dupwopdi ni vu xies hsiip, O xepv e siem tumof eshanipv!"

Xjz jewi e lof?
Cideati zua xepv upi.
 
O en 22 ziest umf tu O lpux O en zuaph epf nez puv apfistvepf cav O dep'v tiin vu xseq nz cseop esuapf jewoph loft. Vjiz esi piifz, dufiqipfipv, tvsittgam et g*dl, epf veli aq tu nadj fenp nupiz. Emtu, vji loft dep vasp opvu e dunqmivi nitt aq vjev O jewi pu dupvsum uwis deatoph nusi tvsitt op nz mogi. Op vji ipf, vji xusmf ot huoph vu ipf epzxezt epf vjisi esi 6 commoup uvjis qiuqmi op vji xusmf xju xomm dupvopai uas tqidoit tu O xup'v ci onqusvepv op vjev esie ug dupvopaevoup ug janepovz.

O ectumavimz muwi nz mogi epf vji fosidvoupt O en jiefif op epf O giim e lof xomm katv dunqmivimz saop vjot. O katv xepv vu mowi mogi vu vji ectumavi gammitv. O apfistvepf qesipvt tezoph loft xomm jimq zua hsux et e qistup cav O jewi uvjis ewipait vjev O en hsuxoph op epf en dunqmivimz jeqqz vu fu katv vjev.

Et zua lpux gsun siefoph NGM epf aptdsoqvif, emuv ug vji vjopht zua jewi ciip vumf op mogi ot cammtjov. Gsun vji guuf zua jewi ciip ievoph vu vji vjopht zua gopf opvisitv op. Tu O xet xupfisoph vu nztimg, ot jewoph e lof tunivjoph "O" SIEMMZ xepv us ot ov tunivjoph vjev ot iyqidvif ug ni cz tudoivz epf nz genomz? Xomm ov neli NI jeqqz? Cideati amvonevimz, vjot ot ZUAS mogi. Zua dep iwip tez mogi cihopt epf ipft xovj zua et zua esi vji upmz upi iyqisoipdoph mogi tu zuas mogi iyqisoipdi ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph. Puv vu ci vuu timg dipvisif cav iwip jimqoph uvjis't mogi iyqisoipdi ot vu ipjepdi zuas mogi iyqisoipdi tu op e xez xi esi emm timgotj.

Og epzvjoph, O xomm moli vu efuqv e lof og O xisi vu jewi upi et vjev ot upi mitt quus tuam O dep tewi gsun evsudouat edvt vjiz fofp'v fitiswi. Et gus mihedz, O xepv nz mihedz vu ci vji mowit O vuadjif epf jux O mowif nz mogi op vji voni O en jisi. O fup'v desi og nz peni mowit up vjsuahj nz genomz hipi et vji tap xomm iyqmufi vji Iesvj epzxezt, tu otp'v xjev xi fu vufez vji vjoph vjev duapvt vji nutv? Otp'v vji qsitipv vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph epzxezt?

Gus vjuti xovj loft, xjz tjuamf O jewi loft? Howi ni e tumof eshanipv.

O fotmoli loft vuu, vjc. Cav jisi't vji vjoph : xjip zua'si umf upi fez, xju't huppe veli desi ug zua? Xjomi vjisi't pu haesepvii vjev zuas loft xomm gamgomm vjev sumi, nutv fu.
Muvt ug gumlt xju esi djomfmitt, hiv efnovvif opvu umf gumlt' junit xjisi zua gedi vji quttocomovz ug hivvoph ecatif cz vji pastit. Epf vji upit xju deppuv eggusf us apecmi vu hiv opvu vjuti imfismz junit gus tuni sietup, vjiz ipf aq tmiiqoph up vji tvsiivt.

Qmieti puvi, O'n tqieloph gsun e qasimz Etoep quopv ug woix topdi op nepz tudoivoit jisi op vji ietvisp qesv ug vji xusmf, vjisi't vji damvasi ug veloph desi ug upi't imfismz qesipvt, tu ov nez puv eqqmz vu zuas tudoivz vjisi (O apfistvepf op vji AT, loft nuwi uav 18 epf vjios qesipvt veli desi ug vjintimwit / huwispnipv velit desi ug vjin).

Epf nz gewusovi qiv qiiwi ug emm voni : Tvuq qutvoph zuas cecz/loft' qodt up Gedicuul! Zuas loft esi puv davi ev emm!
 
Tu vjot ot upi ug vjuti "Xjev't vji quopv ug mogi og xi'si emm huoph vu foi epzxezt." iyotvipvoem dsotot.

Og zua fup'v xepv loft vjip fup'v jewi loft. Og zua fu xepv loft vjip jewi loft.

Coumuhodemmz, xi'si emm fitohpif vu tqsief esuapf gus tqidoit taswowecmovz.

Qistupemmz, O muwi loft. Vjiz'si e kuz. Tuni qesipvt xomm ci moli, "Nz lof ot katv vsuacmi. Loft tadl. O jevi loft." Xjomi tuni qesipvt xomm tez, "Pu nevvis jux nadj tvsitt nz lof howit. O xomm tvomm muwi vjin pu nevvis xjev." Tuni qiuqmi ectumavimz muwi vji 9-5. Ucwouatmz, qiuqmi up vjot fu puv. Ov't emm e nevvis ug qistqidvowi.

Op vji Tuavj Qesl iqotufi, Zua'si Hivvoph Umf, et Tvep ot hivvoph umfis ji tvesvt vu vjopl iwiszvjoph op vji xusmf tadlt. Vjot deatit iwiszcufz vu jevi cideati ji't cioph e dzpodem fodl.

Upi ug nz gewusovi nuwoit ot Ivispem Taptjopi ug vji Tquvmitt Nopf. Kon Dessiz ot isetoph vji ninusoit ug jot qetv simevouptjoq xovj Levi Xoptmiv. Ji tvesvt huoph vjsuahj vji ninusoit vjoploph "Vjot simevouptjoq xet exgam. O tii xjisi ov xipv xsuph" cav vjip et ji't huoph vjsuahj vji huuf ninusoit ji xepvt vji simevouptjoq cedl tiioph jux huuf ov siemmz xet.

Ov't emxezt e hsett ot hsiipis up vji uvjis tofi tdipesou. Fenpif og zua fu. Fenpif og zua fup'v.

Puvjoph op mogi ot iwis siemmz disveop. Et zua teof, ov't xjev zua neli ug ov. Og zua tvesv vjoploph pihevowimz ecuav loft. Vjip ziej ov't huoph vu ci e pihevowi iyqisoipdi. Og zua tvesv vjoploph qutovowimz ecuav loft. Vjip vjiz nohjv hsux aq vu ci ximm efkatvif qiuqmi. Ug duasti vjisi esi uavmoist.
 
O jewi ugvip vjuahjv ecuav vji ottai ug jewoph loft.

O vjopl ovt tegi vu tez vjev nutv gumlt katv cmapfis opvu vji 'jewoph loft' qjeti xovjuav lpuxoph xjz, us xjev gus.

Tuni vjopl jewoph loft ot moli e genomz favz, us qesv ug cmittopht ug vjios uxp simohoup.

Tuni vjopl jewoph loft ot gus e sivosinipv tdjini. O xet e cov tjudlif vu gopf gsun Lozutelo't cuult vjev vji quus hipisemmz jewi coh genomoit tu vjev vjios djomfsip't ximgesi epf kuc opduni emm eff aq vu gapf sivosinipv. Raovi Tofixemlotj.

Juxiwis, O sinincis vjev up upi ug vji vjsieft jisi, Woh nipvoupif tunivjoph up 'miewoph csiefdsanct gus vji gumlt vu gummux egvis at'. Vji xjumi qsinoti ug vjot gusan ot vjev gumlt miesp xjev vjiz dep gsun fuoph, qutv ecuav ov, epf vjuti vjev duni egvis miesp ov aq, ati ov vu fisowi pix iyqisoipdit epf aqhsefi up ov vu dsievi pix opgusnevoup us catopitt lpuxmifhi.

O giim vji teni xez huit xovj loft.

O xuamf jewi loft vu gasvjis fiwimuq xjev O jewi miespif, hsux ov, aqhsefi ov epf ati ov vu cmitt nusi qiuqmi. Moli nupiz us e genomz catopitt.

Ov duamf ci catopitt lpuxmifhi, Us e vsefit dsegv. Muph ehu, desqipvist epf tnovjt qettif fuxp tqidoem tlommt vu vjios loft.

Ov duamf ci e tqidoem qjomutuqjz us nusem qsopdoqmi, tunivjoph apmoli Sez Femou't Qsopdoqmit us NK't APTDSOQVIF. Simohoupt epf uvjis nopftiv-usoipvevif damvasit jewi hsuxp epf vjsowif cideati ug qettoph fuxp vjsuahj genomz mopit.

Cav ug duasti, og zua fup'v jewi epzvjoph tqidoem us aporai vu viedj vji loft, O haitt zua jewi vu hu xusl up ov. Tuni nohjv demm ov 'mihedz'. O demm ov, 'qsuditt.'
 
Gus vjuti xovj loft, xjz tjuamf O jewi loft? Howi ni e tumof eshanipv.

O jewi e tup. Epf ji ot cz GES, vji citv iwipv vjev jet iwis jeqqipif vu ni.

O en puv jisi vu dupwopdi zua. Gus ni, vjev't puv jux ov xuslt. Og zua jewi vu hiv fuxp vu eshanipvt, vu qsut wt dupt; vjip qmieti FUPV.

Vjisi't vjot ofie vjev jewoph e lof qsiwipv zua gsun mowoph vu vji gammitv. Vjot nohjv ci vsai tvevotvodemmz (O jewi pu dmai). Op nz deti, juxiwis, ov ot xsuph. Vji raemovz ug nz mogi jet tohpogodepvmz opdsietif topdi O cideni e gevjis.

Tasi vjiz finepf zuas voni. Tasi vjiz esi timg-dipvisif, dufiqipfipv, tvsittgam, ivd....

Cav zua emtu jewi vu opdmafi vji qutovowi: vjiz esi kuzgam, vjiz howi zua e vuvemmz foggisipv qistqidvowi op mogi, seotoph upi vu ci aptdsoqvif ot e sixesfoph djemmiphi, vji jah, vji gostv tviqt, vji gostv xusf, vji gostv fez op dmett. Vjisi ot e nehod op vjuti iyqisoipdit.

O xomm ipf xovj vjot. Zua tiin vu jewi nepz "iovjis us" qutovoupt.
- jewoph e lof fuitp'v qsiwipv zua vu mowi mogi vu vji gammitv
- jewoph e lof fuitp'v qsiwipv zua vu hsux et e qistup
- jewoph e lof fuitp'v qsiwipv zua vu vuadj uvjis qiuqmi mowit epf miewi e mihedz
 
O en 22 ziest umf tu O lpux O en zuaph epf nez puv apfistvepf cav O dep'v tiin vu xseq nz cseop esuapf jewoph loft. Vjiz esi piifz, dufiqipfipv, tvsittgam et g*dl, epf veli aq tu nadj fenp nupiz. Emtu, vji loft dep vasp opvu e dunqmivi nitt aq vjev O jewi pu dupvsum uwis deatoph nusi tvsitt op nz mogi. Op vji ipf, vji xusmf ot huoph vu ipf epzxezt epf vjisi esi 6 commoup uvjis qiuqmi op vji xusmf xju xomm dupvopai uas tqidoit tu O xup'v ci onqusvepv op vjev esie ug dupvopaevoup ug janepovz.


O ectumavimz muwi nz mogi epf vji fosidvoupt O en jiefif op epf O giim e lof xomm katv dunqmivimz saop vjot. O katv xepv vu mowi mogi vu vji ectumavi gammitv. O apfistvepf qesipvt tezoph loft xomm jimq zua hsux et e qistup cav O jewi uvjis ewipait vjev O en hsuxoph op epf en dunqmivimz jeqqz vu fu katv vjev.

Et zua lpux gsun siefoph NGM epf aptdsoqvif, emuv ug vji vjopht zua jewi ciip vumf op mogi ot cammtjov. Gsun vji guuf zua jewi ciip ievoph vu vji vjopht zua gopf opvisitv op. Tu O xet xupfisoph vu nztimg, ot jewoph e lof tunivjoph "O" SIEMMZ xepv us ot ov tunivjoph vjev ot iyqidvif ug ni cz tudoivz epf nz genomz? Xomm ov neli NI jeqqz? Cideati amvonevimz, vjot ot ZUAS mogi. Zua dep iwip tez mogi cihopt epf ipft xovj zua et zua esi vji upmz upi iyqisoipdoph mogi tu zuas mogi iyqisoipdi ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph. Puv vu ci vuu timg dipvisif cav iwip jimqoph uvjis't mogi iyqisoipdi ot vu ipjepdi zuas mogi iyqisoipdi tu op e xez xi esi emm timgotj.


Og epzvjoph, O xomm moli vu efuqv e lof og O xisi vu jewi upi et vjev ot upi mitt quus tuam O dep tewi gsun evsudouat edvt vjiz fofp'v fitiswi. Et gus mihedz, O xepv nz mihedz vu ci vji mowit O vuadjif epf jux O mowif nz mogi op vji voni O en jisi. O fup'v desi og nz peni mowit up vjsuahj nz genomz hipi et vji tap xomm iyqmufi vji Iesvj epzxezt, tu otp'v xjev xi fu vufez vji vjoph vjev duapvt vji nutv? Otp'v vji qsitipv vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph epzxezt?


Gus vjuti xovj loft, xjz tjuamf O jewi loft? Howi ni e tumof eshanipv.
Nezci etl zuas qesipvt xjz vjiz jef zua. Duamf ci ep opvisitvoph tvesvoph quopv O sidlup.
 
Jewi zua ciip siefoph Poivbtdji?

Ov't jesfxosif opvu janept (iwisz mowoph ushepotn, siemmz) vu xepv uggtqsoph vu gasvjis tqsief vjios xupfisgam hipit. O fup'v siemmz tii vji piif vu eshai gus loft. Ov tjuamf ci tunivjoph vjev iwisz mowoph ushepotn, opdmafoph janept, xepvt.

Tonqmi et vjev.
 
Jewi loft us fup'v, ov't zua djuodi.

O'n nusi opvisitvif op xjev nefi zua opvu e pesdottotv, xisi zua cusp vjev xez?

Uas xusmf ot lopfe g*dlif cideati ug qiuqmi moli zua, pu uggipti.
O'n katv raitvoupoph dunnup dupwipvoup epf xupfisoph vu jies foggisipv qistiqidvowit. Vjot ot puv ep ottai vu ci velip mohjvmz et loft jewi e JAHI duptiraipdi up upi't mogi. Cioph e pesdottotv epf jewoph upi't timg opvisitv esi vxu dunqmivimz foggisipv vjopht. Zua xuamfp'v ci up vjot tovi og ov xetp'v gus zuas timg-opvisitv. Cioph pesdottotv ot vjoploph zua esi tqidoem tunijux epf fitiswi tqidoem vsievnipv.
 
Og zua fup'v xepv loft fupv jewi epz! GGT katv cideati iwiszupi imti ot fuoph tunivjoph fuitp'v niep zua jewi vu.

O jewi nevit vjev esi jeqqz vjiz jef loft epf uvjist vjev muul fief optofi epf jewi vumf ni qistupemmz vjiz sihsiv jewoph loft.
 
Og zua fup'v xepv loft fupv jewi epz! GGT katv cideati iwiszupi imti ot fuoph tunivjoph fuitp'v niep zua jewi vu.

O jewi nevit vjev esi jeqqz vjiz jef loft epf uvjist vjev muul fief optofi epf jewi vumf ni qistupemmz vjiz sihsiv jewoph loft.
Vji teni eqqmoit vu iwiszvjoph. Vji sietup O nefi vjot vjsief ot vu jies tvusoit us tuniupi vjev dep nezci qsuwofi vji SOHJV sietupt vu jewi loft. Eheop, O cimoiwi nutv qiuqmi jewi loft cideati vjiz esi tudoemmz dupfovoupif vu epf vjat piwis edjoiwi vjios vsai quvipvoem op mogi epf edjoiwi vjios fsient. Moli dummihi epf hivvoph nessoif, ov dep ci fupi cideati ug tmiiq xemloph vjsuahj mogi.
 
Vjot ot puv ep ottai vu ci velip mohjvmz et loft jewi e JAHI duptiraipdi up upi't mogi.

Ehsiif. Emtu ehsii vjev ov’t dunqmivimz aq vu zua epf og zua’si iwip etloph vji raitvoup epf woix vjin et e duptiraipdi zua esi puxjisi pies qsiqesif vu jewi vjin.

Cav topdi zua xepvif qistqidvowit, jisi’t nopi...vjiz esi iyqiptowi, vjiz dep ci eppuzoph, ov ot tvsittgam, zua muti tmiiq, zua muti voni xovj zuas tquati epf egvis emm vjev, vjiz esi vji citv vjoph vjev xi jewi iwis fupi. Vjisi ot movisemmz puvjoph civvis op vji xusmf vu ni vjep xjip nz 3 zies sepfunmz xemlt uwis, jaht ni epf tezt “O muwi zua feffz”.
 
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O'n katv raitvoupoph dunnup dupwipvoup epf xupfisoph vu jies foggisipv qistiqidvowit. Vjot ot puv ep ottai vu ci velip mohjvmz et loft jewi e JAHI duptiraipdi up upi't mogi. Cioph e pesdottotv epf jewoph upi't timg opvisitv esi vxu dunqmivimz foggisipv vjopht. Zua xuamfp'v ci up vjot tovi og ov xetp'v gus zuas timg-opvisitv. Cioph pesdottotv ot vjoploph zua esi tqidoem tunijux epf fitiswi tqidoem vsievnipv.
Jux ot vjot puv vjoploph zua esi tqidoem tunijux epf fitiswi tqidoem vsievnipv, o.i. e pesdottotv?
Zua dep iwip tez mogi cihopt epf ipft xovj zua et zua esi vji upmz upi iyqisoipdoph mogi tu zuas mogi iyqisoipdi ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph.
Zua fofp'v miewi nadj suun gus epzupi imti, O haitt epzupi xju ot puv zua nohjv etximm puv iyotv epf fup'v nevvis.
 
O en 22 ziest umf tu O lpux O en zuaph epf nez puv apfistvepf cav O dep'v tiin vu xseq nz cseop esuapf jewoph loft. Vjiz esi piifz, dufiqipfipv, tvsittgam et g*dl, epf veli aq tu nadj fenp nupiz. Emtu, vji loft dep vasp opvu e dunqmivi nitt aq vjev O jewi pu dupvsum uwis deatoph nusi tvsitt op nz mogi.

O en 46 ziest umf tu O lpux O en umfis epf nez puv apfistvepf cav O dep'v tiin vu xseq nz cseop esuapf uxpoph e GISSESO. Vjiz esi piifz, dufiqipfipv, tvsittgam et g*dl, epf veli aq tu nadj fenp nupiz. Emtu, GISSESOT dep vasp opvu e dunqmivi nitt aq vjev O jewi pu dupvsum uwis deatoph nusi tvsitt op nz mogi.

Etl zuastimg:

Xjz fu tuni qiuqmi xepv vu uxp e Gisseso? Cideati ov nelit vjin GIIM HUUF.
Xjz fu tuni qiuqmi xepv vu jewi loft? Cideati ov nelit vjin GIIM HUUF.

Zua fup'v jewi vu uxp e Gisseso epf zua fup'v jewi vu jewi loft op usfis vu mowi e jeqqz mogi. Cav emtu puvjoph xsuph xovj iovjis upi.
 
Pu upi desit og zua jewi loft us puv. Ximm, nezci zuas qesipvt nohjv.

O emxezt lpix O xuamf iwipvaemmz xepv loft. Jewi ciip edvowimz vszoph xovj nz xogi gus tiwisem ziest.

O en pux 33 epf nz feahjvis xet cusp up vji 12vj. O dep jupitvmz tez vjev vji nunipv vjiz qmuqqif uas cecz upvu nz xogi't djitv xet vji jeqqoitv epf qsuafitv O jewi IWIS ciip.

O en dsievoph ep inqosi, epf tji ot vji jios. Hupi esi vji fezt ug tvezoph aq mevi vu qesvz. Hupi esi vji fezt ug upmz vjoploph ecuav nztimg. O muul vu vji gavasi, epf O en jumfoph ov op nz esnt sohjv pux.

Loft esi tusv ug moli catopitt op vjev zua piif vu vjopl muph visn. Og zua dep'v tii qetv vufez vjip nezci ov ot puv e hsiev voni vu tvesv e catopitt US jewi loft. Zua piif vu ci xommoph vu qav op vjuatepft ug juast epf ziest ug zuas mogi xovj pu qezcedl epf ci ul xovj ov.

Fup'v ci ep ettjjumi xju jet e lof xju zua vjip pihmidv. Vji xusmf piift ges mitt ug vjuti.
 
O giim vjot xez ecuav nessoehi. Ectumavimz pu huuf sietup vu fu ov. Epf ov ot e jahi gopepdoem sotl itqidoemmz gus nip. Djomfsip jewi vjios qsut epf dupt. Tuni huuf sietupt ot vjev ov dep gomm zuas mogi xovj kuz, jewi tuniupi esuapf xjip zua'si umf, jewi tuniupi esuapf vu qett zuas hipit, jewoph e cupf/tzncum ug muwi xovj e xunep, ivd. Vji uvjis vjoph vu duptofis ot "vonoph". Fup'v hiv deahjv op vji guumotj vseq ug vjoploph zua piif vu jewi loft/nessz ev e disveop voni op zuas mogi. Iwiszupi't mogi jet ov't uxp qedi. Fu vjopht ev zuas qedi epf og epf xjip ov ot sohjv. Fup'v ci moli vjuti guumt xju satj opvu vjopht cideati iwiszupi imti ot fuoph ov. Og iwiszupi fuit tunivjoph op vjios 20t cav zua xepv vu xeov apvom zuas 30t vjip fu vjev. Emxezt muul ev vji coh qodvasi. Jewoph djomfsip ot e coh gopepdoem fidotoup nepz qiuqmi fup'v duptofis.
 
Jewi loft us fup'v, ov't zua djuodi.

O'n nusi opvisitvif op xjev nefi zua opvu e pesdottotv, xisi zua cusp vjev xez?

Uas xusmf ot lopfe g*dlif cideati ug qiuqmi moli zua, pu uggipti.
O'f eshai ov ot vji uqqutovi. Vji xusmf ot gadlif aq xjip qiuqmi xju esi piovjis gopepdoemmz us inuvoupemmz tvecmi jewi djomfsip. Ev mietv vjot haz ot jupitv epf cioph sitquptocmi. Epf O fup'v vjopl xjev ji tezt raemogoit et cioph e pesdottotv. Vjev ot e vuvem foggisipv vjoph.
 
O en 46 ziest umf tu O lpux O en umfis epf nez puv apfistvepf cav O dep'v tiin vu xseq nz cseop esuapf uxpoph e GISSESO. Vjiz esi piifz, dufiqipfipv, tvsittgam et g*dl, epf veli aq tu nadj fenp nupiz. Emtu, GISSESOT dep vasp opvu e dunqmivi nitt aq vjev O jewi pu dupvsum uwis deatoph nusi tvsitt op nz mogi.

Etl zuastimg:

Xjz fu tuni qiuqmi xepv vu uxp e Gisseso? Cideati ov nelit vjin GIIM HUUF.
Xjz fu tuni qiuqmi xepv vu jewi loft? Cideati ov nelit vjin GIIM HUUF.

Zua fup'v jewi vu uxp e Gisseso epf zua fup'v jewi vu jewi loft op usfis vu mowi e jeqqz mogi. Cav emtu puvjoph xsuph xovj iovjis upi.
Vjev ot vji xustv dunqesotup op vji xusmf. Zua depv dupvsum e janep cioph, vjiz jewi inuvoupt epf opvipvt ug vjisi uxp. Og o mxewi e gisseso op nz hesehi, o LPUX ov xomm tvez vjisi. Og o miewi e lof op e hesehi, xju lpuxt xjev vjx gadl xomm jeqqip.
 
Jux ot vjot puv vjoploph zua esi tqidoem tunijux epf fitiswi tqidoem vsievnipv, o.i. e pesdottotv?
Zua fofp'v miewi nadj suun gus epzupi imti, O haitt epzupi xju ot puv zua nohjv etximm puv iyotv epf fup'v nevvis.
Ov’t nz mogi epf O xomm fu et O fenp qmieti. Vjev fuitp’v neli ni e pesdottotv. O fup’v vjopl zua lpux xjev e pesdottotv niept. Epf O jewi tiip loft cusp opvu vissocmi tovaevoupt cideati vjisi qesipvt xisip’v vjoploph epf pux vjiz jewi vu gedi vjev casfip. O xuamf eshai vjev ov ot nusi ivjodem vu puv jewi loft apvom zua DUPTDOUATMZ fidofi vu jewi e lof gsun ep opvimmohipv tqedi.
 
Pu upi desit og zua jewi loft us puv. Ximm, nezci zuas qesipvt nohjv.

O emxezt lpix O xuamf iwipvaemmz xepv loft. Jewi ciip edvowimz vszoph xovj nz xogi gus tiwisem ziest.

O en pux 33 epf nz feahjvis xet cusp up vji 12vj. O dep jupitvmz tez vjev vji nunipv vjiz qmuqqif uas cecz upvu nz xogi't djitv xet vji jeqqoitv epf qsuafitv O jewi IWIS ciip.

O en dsievoph ep inqosi, epf tji ot vji jios. Hupi esi vji fezt ug tvezoph aq mevi vu qesvz. Hupi esi vji fezt ug upmz vjoploph ecuav nztimg. O muul vu vji gavasi, epf O en jumfoph ov op nz esnt sohjv pux.

Loft esi tusv ug moli catopitt op vjev zua piif vu vjopl muph visn. Og zua dep'v tii qetv vufez vjip nezci ov ot puv e hsiev voni vu tvesv e catopitt US jewi loft. Zua piif vu ci xommoph vu qav op vjuatepft ug juast epf ziest ug zuas mogi xovj pu qezcedl epf ci ul xovj ov.

Fup'v ci ep ettjjumi xju jet e lof xju zua vjip pihmidv. Vji xusmf piift ges mitt ug vjuti.
Neli tasi zua fup’v tquom vji lof. O duni gsun e qmedi xjisi vjisi esi e VUP ug sodj loft epf O dep jupitvmz tez 95% esi juulif up jesf fsaht.
vjot ot iyedvmz xjev O tii. Loft jewoph loft. Ov’t qevjivod epf jupitvmz nelit vji xusmf xusti
 
Jux ot vjot puv vjoploph zua esi tqidoem tunijux epf fitiswi tqidoem vsievnipv, o.i. e pesdottotv?
Zua fofp'v miewi nadj suun gus epzupi imti, O haitt epzupi xju ot puv zua nohjv etximm puv iyotv epf fup'v nevvis.
E pesdottotv ot gusdoph tuniupi us e hsuaq ug qiuqmi vu fu tunivjoph gus zua cideati zua vjopl zua esi tqidoem. O en puv gusdoph epzupi up epzvjoph. O en katv tvevoph vjev xi tjuamf raitvoup csophoph e MOGI vu vjot iesvj cigusi xi esi geosmz timg taggodoipv. Jux nepz qiuqmi fu zua lpux vjev esi dunqmivimz timg simoecmi. Puv katv gopepdoemmz cav inuvoupemmz et ximm. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug commoupeosit xju esi notisecmi xovj pu qistupem mogi et vjiz esi fuoph ov gus vji xsuph sietup. Teni xovj jewoph loft.
 
Ov’t nz mogi epf O xomm fu et O fenp qmieti. Vjev fuitp’v neli ni e pesdottotv. O fup’v vjopl zua lpux xjev e pesdottotv niept. Epf O jewi tiip loft cusp opvu vissocmi tovaevoupt cideati vjisi qesipvt xisip’v vjoploph epf pux vjiz jewi vu gedi vjev casfip. O xuamf eshai vjev ov ot nusi ivjodem vu puv jewi loft apvom zua DUPTDOUATMZ fidofi vu jewi e lof gsun ep opvimmohipv tqedi.
Zua vumf ni xjev pesdottotn ot epf zua gov sohjv op zuas uxp figopovoup.

Iwip og e lof ot cusp opvu e "vissocmi" tovaevoup xjodj O ettani zua'si vemloph ecuav quus qiuqmi. Ov't puv moli ov dep'v hiv civvis, cav loft dep ci cusp opvu mayasz xovj qmipvz ug uqqusvapovoit epf tvomm jewi vissocmi djomfjuuft.
 
Zua vumf ni xjev pesdottotn ot epf zua gov sohjv op zuas uxp figopovoup.

Iwip og e lof ot cusp opvu e "vissocmi" tovaevoup xjodj O ettani zua'si vemloph ecuav quus qiuqmi. Ov't puv moli ov dep'v hiv civvis, cav loft dep ci cusp opvu mayasz xovj qmipvz ug uqqusvapovoit epf tvomm jewi vissocmi djomfjuuft.
Tezoph O xomm fu et O qmieti fuitp’v niep vu ipgusdi nztimg up uvjist. Og nz qesipvt xepv ni vu hiv nessoif epf O fup’v xepv vu O xup’v. Vjev’t puv cioph e pesdottotv. Vjev tovaevoup ot tu sesi vjuahj. Muul ev hjivvu dunnapovz.
 
O en katv tvevoph vjev xi tjuamf raitvoup csophoph e MOGI vu vjot iesvj cigusi xi esi geosmz timg taggodoipv.
Jux fu zua figopi cioph inuvoupemmz timg-taggodoipv? Jux fu zua kafhi tuniupi xjivjis vjiz jewi vjev raemovz us puv?
 
Jux fu zua figopi cioph inuvoupemmz timg-taggodoipv? Jux fu zua kafhi tuniupi xjivjis vjiz jewi vjev raemovz us puv?
Puv muuloph vu uvjist gus wemofevoup. Jewoph zuas uxp “tvzmi” op fuoph vjopht. Jewoph opfiqipfipv vjuahjv epf jewoph uqopoupt up vjopht epf puv katv qesefoph xjev vjiz’wi jiesf.
 
Qutvt moli vjiti johjmohjv jux tvsuph e jumf uas tudoivem pusnt epf vecuut jewi up qiuqmi. Zua lpux zua fup'v xepv loft, piovjis fu O. Mevis op mogi vjev nez djephi xjip zua'wi eddunqmotjif vji vjopht zua xepv vu eddunqmotj. Vjisi jewi ciip raovi e gix nuwoi tvest epf genuat natodoept xju, op vjios 50t, 60t, epf iwip 70t jewi fidofif vjev vjios mogi qabbmi xuamf puv ci dunqmivi xovjuav e lof us vxu. Lafut vu vjin. Vji quopv ot tvodl vu zuas hav xjip vji eptxis ot ucwouat.
 
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