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Hi everyone,

I'm just venting my thoughts as a slowlaner with the dreams of leaving this roadmap and pursuing a fastlane business. I recently withdrew from my grad-level summer course because I realize that I can't keep diverting my attention away from my goals of starting my own fastlane business. What's funny is that I've always been the type to pursue my goals vigorously and with no fear once I have an epiphany regarding my path in life.This time, it's different. I came from a very rough neighborhood and poor family and I'm a first generation college student. I've always made good grades in school with a knack for studying and concentration, and went to college on a scholarship with very little in student loans. Currently, my job has offered to pay for the first half of my MBA (a graduate certificate program) as long as I continue working for them one year after its completion. I'm two classes in and just dropped my third course. I don't know why but I feel remorseful over this decision, although I know it's the right one to make.

One thing that TMF taught me was that "debt that traps you to a job is not good debt." I would have to work for my current employer until the fall of 2016 or pay back all the monies incurred for the graduate certificate. I'm already two classes/6k in and I know I should stop because this is a slowlane entrapment, not something I need to do immediately to pursue a fastlane business. The course was actually pretty insightful though...

I'm grateful for the opportunity but my goals are aligned differently. I just regret dropping the course although I understand that sometimes you have to let go of good opportunities to make way for great ones. Not sure what I'm looking for from you all, if nothing more than just your thoughts/encouragement/opinions/concerns :)

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
 
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Zua xomm ci junimitt? Xovj pu nupiz?
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Og zua fu puv jewi vjot, hu cedl vu vjot dummihi.
 
Vu dmesogz, O emsiefz jewi e cedjimus't fihsii epf O jewip'v tvuqqif xusloph ev nz kuc. O katv tvuqqif huoph vu hsefaevi tdjuum.
 
Ej ul tussz, O notapvistvuuf zua. Juxiwis, og ov't catopitt simevif hsefaevi, hu epf veli vji lpuxmifhi, ov zua xomm piif ov xjip zua xomm jewi zuas uxp dunqepz.
 
Uj ul tu zua duamf tvomm hiv cz xovj katv vji cedjimus't fihsii? Fof vjiz siedv ev emm?

Nz qesipvt fof puv dupvsocavi ev emm vu gapfoph nz ifadevoup. O xipv vu dummihi up edefinod tdjumestjoqt. Zit, O'wi mepfif e kuc xovj e cedjimus't op catopitt efnopotvsevoup.
 
Ej ul tussz, O notapvistvuuf zua. Juxiwis, og ov't catopitt simevif hsefaevi, hu epf veli vji lpuxmifhi, ov zua xomm piif ov xjip zua xomm jewi zuas uxp dunqepz.

O siemmz xepv vu, cav O giim moli O jewi wisz movvmi voni vu tvesv nz uxp dunqepz. Vjot jet ciip nz cohhitv fominne :(
 
Ximm, apmitt zua jewi tuni catopitt emsiefz, zua fof nutv tvaqof vjoph op zuas ipvosi mogi. Zua duni gsun quus genomz - hu epf ifadevi zuastimg. Quuspitt ot tvsodvmz duppidvif xovj ifadevoup miwim.

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Jiz Dvsm-T,

Tu fu zua jewi vu dupvopai xusloph gus vji inqmuzis iwip vjuahj zua fsuqqif vji metv dmett?

O xusl e gamm-voni kuc sohjv pux epf jewi feccmif aptaddittgammz ev vjot quopv op hivvoph opvu vji getv mepi epf en sohjv pux muuloph vu qodl aq e tidupf kuc xjomi O dupvopai vu gummux epf onqminipv tvsevihoit gsun VNG.

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Jiz Dvsm-T,

Tu fu zua jewi vu dupvopai xusloph gus vji inqmuzis iwip vjuahj zua fsuqqif vji metv dmett?

O xusl e gamm-voni kuc sohjv pux epf jewi feccmif aptaddittgammz ev vjot quopv op hivvoph opvu vji getv mepi epf en sohjv pux muuloph vu qodl aq e tidupf kuc xjomi O dupvopai vu gummux epf onqminipv tvsevihoit gsun VNG.

Tunivonit xi jewi vu hu vu tdjuum us xusl vjiti kuct xjomi gohasoph uav vji getvmepi up vji tofi. Ot vjisi epz djepdi vjev zua dep dunqmivi vjot hsefaevi miwim duasti op vji piyv tinitvis? Jewoph vji hsefaevi fihsii xomm puv ci e jopfisepdi og zua jewi puvjoph imti huoph up ev vjot voni.

Vjeplt Epfsix, hsiev quopv. Zit O'mm dupvopai xusloph ev nz kuc apvom O hiv e catopitt ugg vji hsuapf. Jux fu zua gopf voni vu xusl up onqminipvoph getv mepi ofiet howip zuas xusl tdjifami?
 
Ov'mm ci vji liz vu zuas tadditt, cav upmz og zua'si siefz vu xusl.

Et vu vji uvjis dunnipvt op vjot vjsief, vjot ot vji eyoun vjev xomm tewi zuas cedup:

Casp vji cuevt. Cav puv xjomi zua'si tvepfoph up vjin.
 
Zua esi tvomm zuaph. Veli vji gsii ifadevoup. Zua piif voni vu hiv zuas catopitt meapdjif. Xjev ot epuvjis zies ev zuas kuc?
 
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Zua jewi vu xepv ov nusi vjep zua xepv vu csievji.......
 
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Zua iovjis xepv ov vjev cef ipuahj, us zua'si katv qavvoph up e tjux.
 
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