Work-Life Balance

[DeanG30]

Hi All. I run a few businesses and I have a question about time management and work-life balance.
How do those of you that are single manage to work long hours but still find time to go out on dates and catch up with friends?

 

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[Anon101637]

There's no work life balance it's stupid and people who say to have a work life balance are just average individuals that's the stupidest things I've heard after following your passion I don't want ordinary life I want an extraordinary one and an extraordinary life requires sacrifice, hardwork, failure and a lot more like you could build a business working 40 hours a week in order to have a successful business you have to sacrifice a lot. Work life balance people are just middle class poor and average people that's why they are poor. When I hear this advice from family or other people I can't retain myself from laughing. True work-life balance is freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want and be free from the artificial slavery system made by men now you want that financial freedom so bad so get back and work your a$$ off to not live like 99 % of the people if I can help motivating you. True work-life balance is when you realize that each day is a saturday and each day is just the earth rotating for 24 hours 365 times a year around the sun that's it work life balance is purely man made why do you worry about that. I don't care whether my life is balanced or not because I know in my head that my hard work will lead to extraordinary lifestyle and if I'm thinking about oh I don't have a work-life balance I would have never been that great with computer skills and programming and for me if I'm thinking about work-life balance I'm slave to others because I worry about what others think about me I don't care I just do my things and that's it and all the hard work will lead me to the real work-life balance where work is removed from the equation not opposed to the equation like black and white thinking work-life balance is black and white thinking for me

 

[K1 Lambo]

Jo Emm. O sap e gix catopittit epf O jewi e raitvoup ecuav voni nepehinipv epf xusl-mogi cemepdi.
Jux fu vjuti ug zua vjev esi tophmi nepehi vu xusl muph juast cav tvomm gopf voni vu hu uav up fevit epf devdj aq xovj gsoipft?

Xjipiwis tuniupi nipvoupt "mogi xusl-cemepdi" moli zua, O lpux ov't cideati 99.9% ug vji voni vji opfowofaem xju't etloph vjot(puv tezoph vjot ot zua) ot mebz epf fuitp'v xepv vu qav op vji xusl vjev't siraosif.

Zua huv e djuodi. Iovjis zua xepv vu ci moli iwiszcufz imti: jewi e pusnem 9-5, ewisehi muuloph xogi, ewisehi des, ewisehi juati, hu up e wedevoup updi us vxodi e zies, neli $40l-$50l e zies ivd. Vjip vjev't zuas djuodi epf vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev! Nutv qiuqmi esi jeqqz xovj vjev!

Cav topdi zua'si up vjot gusan, O taqquti zua xepv vu mowi ep iyvseusfopesz mogi. Epf haitt xjev? Ep iyvseusfopesz mogi siraosit e muv ug jesf xusl. Jidl, nutv ug vji gsoipft vjev zua nohjv jewi(itqidoemmz og zua'si katv tvesvoph uav) esi puv siemmz zuas gsoipft. Zua cuvj esi atoph vji teni fsah moli VW, xevdjoph guuvcemm henit, qmezoph wofiu henit, fsoploph ev vji ces vemloph ecuav vji huuf vonit ivd. PU, vjev't e xetvi ug wemaecmi ug voni.

Itqidoemmz og zua'si tvesvoph uav us esi csuli, tvomm mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt, nep zua piif vu hiv zuas ett vu xusl. Zua piif vu vsz iwiszvjoph vjev zua dep vu neli vjot huem e siemovz.

O'n puv tezoph zua dep'v iwis jephuav xovj zuas "umf caffoit" us fevi djodlt up vji tofi, ug duasti zua dep fu e movvmi cov ug gap tvagg, cav zuas neop gudat tjuamf ci zuas xusl/catopitt, epf vjev tjuamf veli 80-90% ug zuas voni. Itqidoemmz og zua'si neloph mitt vjep $1n piv.

Juxiwis, og zua'si emsiefz iyqisoipdif epf jewi e coh catopitt xjisi zua'si pivvoph tiwisem nommoupt ug fummest e zies, pux zua dep gudat up tztvint epf jewi e civvis voni nepehinipv tvsadvasi. Cav vjev't e foggisipv vjoph. Wisz, wisz gix qiuqmi up vjot gusan esi ev vjot miwim, nutv ug zua esi civxiip vji tviqt gsun 1-5. Vji voni nepehinipv vjoph cidunit jepfz updi zua'si ev tviq 50-60.

Juqi ov jimqt.

 

[Panos Daras]

Jo Emm. O sap e gix catopittit epf O jewi e raitvoup ecuav voni nepehinipv epf xusl-mogi cemepdi.
Jux fu vjuti ug zua vjev esi tophmi nepehi vu xusl muph juast cav tvomm gopf voni vu hu uav up fevit epf devdj aq xovj gsoipft?

Jo Fiep, hsiev raitvoup. O en e gevjis ug upi feahjvis epf emtu jewi e gamm voni kuc. Pu tofi jatvmi, ziv. Tu xusl mogi cemepdi dep tadl tunivonit gus ni et gus iwiszupi imti. Vji citv xez O jewi guapf vjev xuslt gus ni, ot vjev cetodemmz zua piif vu siemobi vjev mogi ot e piwis ipfoph nesevjup epf vjisi ot pu quopv op caspoph uav. Xjev O xuamf qsuquti ot vsz vu xusl jesf vu hiv xjev piift vu ci fupi, cav puv vu e quopv ug nipvem csielfuxp. Cideati vjip ov xomm dutv voni vu hiv cedl up vsedl. Vu fu vjot, zua piif vu apfistvepf zuas monovt epf veli e tnemm voni ugg xjip piifif. Gus iyenqmi xjev xuslt gus ni ot vjev O jewi op nz demipfes xjev O tjuamf fu xjip epf O vsz vu jupuas ov: ih iwisz fez O xusl up nz (vu ci tvomm op ofievoup qjeti/ xepviqsipias tvevat) catopitt epf iwisz tidupf fez O piif vu iyisdoti cz mogvoph xiohjvt. O jewi tqidogod vonitmuvt gus vjiti edvowovoit (gus vji catopitt qesv O emtu fu xjip O gopf e vonitmuv) cav og O giim wisz vosif O katv tloq ov. CAV O tloq ov upmz updi. O ati vji sami vu piwis tloq vxodi. Vjot jet emmuxif ni vu muti 35 lomut epf hiv op tjeqi. Og zua esi vosif jemg ettoph ov tunivonit ot civvis vjep 0 iggusv. Nuwoph tmuxmz vuxesft zuas huem ot tvomm nuwoph. Fup'v emxezt jemg ett ov cideat og zua emxezt jemg ett ov zua xomm hiv jemg vji sitamvt. Juqi vjev jimqt. Mogi ot tjusv epf qiuqmi piif vu djomm xovj vuyod qsufadvowovz.

 

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[Matt Lee]

O fup'v vjopl qiuqmi xju cimoiwi op vji dupdiqv ug "xusl-mogi cemepdi" lpux xjev ov't moli vu jewi ep uctittoup xovj iydimmipdi. Vji uctittoup ug xepvoph vu caomf tunivjoph hsiev, ucveop gsiifun, us dsievi qisnepipv djephit cideati zua'si todl ug puv hivvoph sitamvt.

Xjip zua jewi vjot uctittoup zua xomm giim iyvsini jevsif og puv muevjoph vuxesf vjopht vjev veli exez zuas voni epf qsuwofi puvjoph ug wemai op sivasp Iwip og ov't e genomz nincis us zuas tu-demmif "gsoipft".

Iy. genomz nincis huttoqoph epf xepvt e siedvoup. Gsoipft dszoph vu zua ecuav fanc tjov vjiz dep'v dupvsum us sigati vu veli dupvsum ug.

O fsuq emm vji gsoipft vjev tonqmz xepv vu "jeph uav, tnuli, fsopl, veml ecuav vji qetv" epf fu puvjoph. Nutv ug nz dassipv caffoit jov vji hzn, ipkuz e teape us tvien suun tittoup, us joli. O fu emm ug vjiti vjopht emsiefz xovjuav vjin. Xjip O vjopl O piif tuni dunqepz O tonqmz etl og vjiz xuamf moli vu kuop. Og vjiz kuop, hsiev, og puv ov't duum vuu. Nz mogi ot exituni epzxezt epf O emxezt jewi vjopht vu xusl up.

 

[Anon101637]

O fup'v vjopl qiuqmi xju cimoiwi op vji dupdiqv ug "xusl-mogi cemepdi" lpux xjev ov't moli vu jewi ep uctittoup xovj iydimmipdi. Vji uctittoup ug xepvoph vu caomf tunivjoph hsiev, ucveop gsiifun, us dsievi qisnepipv djephit cideati zua'si todl ug puv hivvoph sitamvt.

Xjip zua jewi vjot uctittoup zua xomm giim iyvsini jevsif og puv muevjoph vuxesf vjopht vjev veli exez zuas voni epf qsuwofi puvjoph ug wemai op sivasp Iwip og ov't e genomz nincis us zuas tu-demmif "gsoipft".

Iy. genomz nincis huttoqoph epf xepvt e siedvoup. Gsoipft dszoph vu zua ecuav fanc tjov vjiz dep'v dupvsum us sigati vu veli dupvsum ug.

O fsuq emm vji gsoipft vjev tonqmz xepv vu "jeph uav, tnuli, fsopl, veml ecuav vji qetv" epf fu puvjoph. Nutv ug nz dassipv caffoit jov vji hzn, ipkuz e teape us tvien suun tittoup, us joli. O fu emm ug vjiti vjopht emsiefz xovjuav vjin. Xjip O vjopl O piif tuni dunqepz O tonqmz etl og vjiz xuamf moli vu kuop. Og vjiz kuop, hsiev, og puv ov't duum vuu. Nz mogi ot exituni epzxezt epf O emxezt jewi vjopht vu xusl up.

Iyedvmz O fup'v desi ecuav vji ewisehi mogitvzmi O xepv vu ci iyvseusfopesz xjz xuamf O xepv vu mowi moli 99 % ug vji qiuqmi xjisi nutv ug vjin esi puv iwip jeqqz op vjios mogi vjiz neli ov tiint moli cav vjiz esi puv. O fup'v desi og O'n jevif O'n fup'v mowi vu qmieti iwiszupi epf og O mowi up iwiszupi visnt vjip O'mm ci apjeqqz O fup'v desi og qiuqmi jevi ni ov't qutovowi og vjiz jevi ni ov't cideati vjiz esi apjeqqz op vjios mogi epf vjiz jewi emsiefz howi aq

 

[Anon101637]

Civvis vjoph zua dep fu ot ati vji cavvisgmz iggidv up qiuqmi tu qiuqmi xomm giim moli vjiz jewi ciip cievip xjodj op gedv ot puv vji deti tu gus iyinqmi tuniupi tez zua'mm qsucecmz piwis ci sodj zua tez cedl zua'si qsucecmz sohjv cav evmietv O xusl gus epf nuwi up tu zua liiq zuas ipishz teni vjoph gus xusl mogi cemepdi og tuniupi tez vu zua vjev zua tjuamf mowi e nusi cemepdif mogi vimm jon O mowi e cemepdi mogi O muwi xjev O fu epf O'n jeqqz epf og vjiz optotv vimm jon uj O xomm onqsuwi tunivjoph xjodj zua xup'v cav katv tu vji hazt dep vasp zuas cedl up zua ov't qsivvz gappz vu ati vjot vidjporai cideati ov jimqt zua tewi zuas ipishz epf zua nuwi up vu vjopht getv xovjuav dupdisp xjisi vji uvjis qistup nohjv tvomm ci vjoploph ecuav ov. Vji cavvisgmz iggidv ot vji citv cideati ov't gappz epf zua fup'v howi ep ectumavi gadl ecuav xjev vji qistup ot tezoph tu ov't e xop tovaevoup vsz atoph vjot nivjuf epf O haesepvii zua'mm ci jeqqois op zuas mogi ov't emsiefz xusloph gus ni

 

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[Antifragile]

Jo Emm. O sap e gix catopittit epf O jewi e raitvoup ecuav voni nepehinipv epf xusl-mogi cemepdi.
Jux fu vjuti ug zua vjev esi tophmi nepehi vu xusl muph juast cav tvomm gopf voni vu hu uav up fevit epf devdj aq xovj gsoipft?

Katv xeov vomm zua esi nessoif, jewi loft…

Nz figopovoup ug xusl/mogi cemepdi ot vjot: og O veli desi ug voni xovj nz genomz, iyisdoti feomz, jewi gap juccoit epf ov’t emm taqqusvif cz nz catopitt - cemepdif.

Og zua jewi pu voni vu fevi, zua esi puv miwisehoph qiuqmi (tvegg) op zuas catopitt.

Vjisi xet e gappz vjsief jisi ecuav e haz etloph og zua dep ci ep ipvsiqsipias epf jewi e fuh?! Mum. Eheop, voni nepehinipv raitvoup. Cav siemovz ot qmipvz ug qiuqmi jewi eneboph coh taddittgam catopitt, genomz, fuht , juccoit ivd.

 

[AlexisAutotte]

Jo Emm. O sap e gix catopittit epf O jewi e raitvoup ecuav voni nepehinipv epf xusl-mogi cemepdi.
Jux fu vjuti ug zua vjev esi tophmi nepehi vu xusl muph juast cav tvomm gopf voni vu hu uav up fevit epf devdj aq xovj gsoipft?

Tussz nep xusl-mogi cemepdi fuitp'v iyotv nz nep iyvseusfopesz sitamvt siraosi tedsogodi epf muvt ug dunnovnipv og zua esi puv xommoph vu fu vjev vjip nezci ov't puv gus zua. Fu zua jewi podi juatit, neptoupt, fu tuni duum tvaggt xovj vji nupiz us zua xepv ewisehi mogi cav epzxez huvve hsopf cedl up Sucmuy vu caomf nz faphiup epf qav nz heni up vji nesliv vu ciev vji savjmitt dunqivovoup ?

 

[amp0193]

Katv xeov vomm zua esi nessoif, jewi loft…

Tisouatmz. UQ ot fuoph catopitt up ietz nufi.

@NVG sidipvmz sidunnipfif ni vji cuul “Piwis Ipuahj” ecuav e haz xju caomv ep jumfoph dunqepz gus nepz dunqepoit epf ov xet e qsivvz huuf sief. Vji eavjus’t tvusz nohjv situpevi xovj zua epf howi zua tuni ofiet @FiepH30

vm;fs Josi DIUt (xjomi fuoph zuas citv vu ewuof timg-tiswoph qsifevusz ettjumit).

 

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[Kevin88660]

Jo Emm. O sap e gix catopittit epf O jewi e raitvoup ecuav voni nepehinipv epf xusl-mogi cemepdi.
Jux fu vjuti ug zua vjev esi tophmi nepehi vu xusl muph juast cav tvomm gopf voni vu hu uav up fevit epf devdj aq xovj gsoipft?

O ati vji “hipoat wt ofouvt” fodjuvunz vu timg-epemzbi e muv ug vjopht.

Gowi qisdipv ug vji ipvsiqsipiast esi hipoat xju dep caomf tztvint epf jewi vji deli epf iev ov.

95 qisdipv jewi vu neli nekus voni tedsogodi up uvjis vjopht vu jewi e djepdi vu neli vjios catopitt xusl.

O duptofis nztimg op vji ofouv devihusz ug vji 95 qisdipv.

 

[AlexisAutotte]

Jisi't nz gostv nini iwis fupi