I've considered going to get tested for ADHD.. But I always end up doing something else.
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Free registration at the forum removes this block.Make a list of what you are good at and tailor your life to your strengths. If you absolutely despise something, you simply will not be effective at it because of the nature of this disorder. Square peg/ round hole isn't effective. All this mentality leads to is you beating yourself down all the time and bruising the hell out of your ego. Don't use ADHD as a crutch, but understand that it's called a DISORDER for a reason.
Here's an example... In my Analyst job I'm expected to mentally crunch data and memorize it so I can regurgitate trends, schedule production, measure efficiency, etc. I would be absolutely terrible if I did things the traditional route!
Instead, I develop complex spreadsheets that work on auto pilot. A little copy and paste here and there, and I have the information I need.
Instead of banging my head against my desk all day trying to memorize shit that doesn't interest me, I hyper focus on maintaining and improving spreadsheets (something that I halfway enjoy doing). When people ask me questions, I don't just spit out answers based upon what I've memorized... I print out summaries of the reports I've created that give them more details and information than anything I could provide. Plus, it gives them a printout so they don't forget our conversation in 10 seconds.
My last evaluation said I was the companies "best problem solver." Why? Because I hate doing boring shit and come up with ways to not have to do it anymore. Try to apply this to your business... Don't like crunching numbers? Hire a cheap assistant. Do you suck at sales and hate the thought of selling? Find a partner who doesn't.
Sorry about the rambling... I'm beating ADD, but I'm not symptomless.
That's good a question Charmander. I have a son that was diagnosed with A.D.H.D when he was four and supposedly was going to be a delinquent in his teens. I gave him meds all his life. Took him to specialists. I'll admit when he's was young he was very energetic, and into everything. When he was in his teens I figured out he was taking pills for the side effects of concerta. His behaviors were better off the medicine, felt better, and never has been in trouble. So, I feel guilty sometimes that maybe I was giving him meds the whole time from side effects from the meds rather then him having A.D.H.D.
So, it doesn't make sense what they were telling me would happen, but he never turned out the way they projected A.D.H.D. on him.
yup, real sadSome one just posted this on another site I'm on. It really leaves sadness on my heart to see so many children being medicated at such young ages. What are we doing when we diagnose children that are 0-5 years!
http://www.cchrint.org/psychiatric-drugs/children-on-psychiatric-drugs/
http://www.cchrint.org/2015/04/09/psychology-vs-psychiatry/
I guess I'm one of those people that refuse to diagnose people!
AS with any disorder, there's a spectrum. Not believing ADD/ADHD to be real is like not believing any psyciatric disorder is real...based on your feelings about it. As with all things, ADD isn't a problem, or isn't real for many, until it is. That is, many don't believe it exists because they can't see it. Watch a friend lose their home and turn their life around after being properly diagnosed and treated, suddenly it's very real.
Make a list of what you are good at and tailor your life to your strengths. If you absolutely despise something, you simply will not be effective at it because of the nature of this disorder. Square peg/ round hole isn't effective.
@tminch55 How did you find out what you were really good at? I myself am interested in almost everything, from accounting to mechanical engineering to industrial engineering to marketing to growing potatoes. The one thing they all have in commen is that they are about creating but that's it.
Great thread, I think this personality trait is relatively common among entrepreneurs etc. I always thought I had ADD/ADHD since I was a kid. Over the years several of my teachers made comments etc. but my family did not want to put me on meds which I agreed with.
I have always designed my life around this. I have a million hobbies, love the outdoors and have found the seasonality of outdoor sports to really agree with me. I also had a business that was somewhat cyclical with a multitude of jobs from physical work to mental etc. that really worked well for me and I loved it. In hindsight I can really see how it fit my personality.
Now I am working on/in a more tradition job/business that is quite a bit more binary then my old business and there really isn't any physicality to the work. Mostly mental etc. I find that when I get into a groove I can really crank, producing great results, and have been told that I have a talent for what I am doing. However, I find that after a long time in the office I start getting really restless and fidgety. I do plan on buying a standup desk so I can move around a bit more. Plus I do really like what I am doing and can see a really great future in it.
Basically would like to get your opinion etc as well as how you would go about finding the right doctor and if you think you could see yourself taking medication on an as needed basis vs. all the time.
Hey sorry I overlooked this post. I'm doing a bit of research on your first question. I will get back with you today my friend.
Awesome thanks!
You're very welcome. Have you had your apt yet?Thanks for the this great AMA, tminch! I think you've helped me to realize I have ADHD.
For a long time (since I was a teenager) it's been suggested that I try adderall or ritalin or some ADHD variant. I looked at other friends I had who were on prescription drugs and thought I didn't want any part of it.
But reading what you've described of your life with ADHD, sounds almost exactly what I've dealt with in my life - and how my life is right now. I've tried it all as well - meditation, dieting, info vids on improving your focus...you name it. It always seems to work for the first few days, then I seem to crash harder and focus even less.
I just tried taking an online ADHD test, and apparently I'm in the upper reaches of ADHD severity. I never really considered taking prescription drugs before, but now I'm going to finally schedule an appointment with my doctor and seriously discuss it.
So yeah, I didn't have a question per say, I just wanted to sincerely thank you for making your posts. You may've just made a huge difference in my life.
Fingers crossed.
Isn't this the same for everybody though?For me, I feel like I'm definitely ADD, and I do struggle with it at times. However, I can have periods of extreme focus on one thing. I tend to procrastinate on tasks I really DON"T want to do.
Isn't this the same for everybody though?
I want to make a quick blanket statement to clarify a few things, and then I will get back to answering everyone's questions...
#1. I will answer any question you have about ADHD. Anything. ADHD meds seem to be the biggest concern for most around here in regards to this subject, so I will answer those questions for you. Please understand, however, my intent isn't to come to the Fastlane and encourage everyone to get on ADHD medication. There are many who claim they can completely control ADHD without meds. In my particular situation, it has been part of a very effective treatment regimen, but it's not the only treatment regimen. @Vigilante am I clarifying myself appropriately here? Don't want the thread to get whacked due to me appearing to be a drug pusher
#2. I'm not going to argue the validity of ADHD. I had debilitating problems in my life and several trusted health care practitioners diagnosed and medicated me for a disorder they deem valid. After following through with these treatment regimens, I am now a very productive person because of these treatment plans.
#3. Everyone has focus problems at times. If you haven't had debilitating symptoms your entire life, most likely you are dealing with a side effect from another issue in your life... stress, depression, midlife crisis, erectile dysfunction, etc. You get my drift.
And now back to your regularly scheduled programming....
I've been in the boat that ADHD isn't real but I've had the diagnosis since elementary and was on Ritalin for 5 years. I spoke with my doctor again about how I felt and he said it sounded like Adult ADHD (meaning he felt it never went away) I wanted to disagree but I'm willing to try most anything on a trial basis. I started on Vyvanse and it seemed to help my thought process I got my shit sorted (disconnected from my slowlane stuff, TVs, most distractions) It also brought back a passion I had for video games that had been lost for over a year (which previously was most of my life). This was not an asset as it wasn't creating any opportunities for me and I simply wasted 2 months playing them. After that I decided that med was too expensive to get out of pocket (yeah no generics yet because pharma is good at making massive $$$).
I tried Adderall but it made me very moody (and I think had some skin side affects) after wearing off and that definitely wasn't helping my social life or home life. Now I'm considering the old fashioned Dextro but again something nags me not to rely on some med to get things sorted out.
I'm glad to hear you've turned things around for yourself and your family, a solid foundation is required for many things and that includes shifting into the fastlane.
@tminch55 Hey tminch! I actually had a question now.
How difficult was it for you to actually get your medication prescribed to you? The issue I seem to be running into unfortunately, is that the people I'm talking to seem to be on high alert for potential drug addicts that are just trying to get prescribed pills and are hesitant to go that route. Did you face the same attitudes when you were first trying to get medication? Was there anything you did to help move the process along?
Have you used prescribed medication for ADD/ADHD (adderal, etc.)?
How did you overcome your ADD/ADHD and still become productive?
For me, I feel like I'm definitely ADD, and I do struggle with it at times. However, I can have periods of extreme focus on one thing. I tend to procrastinate on tasks I really DON"T want to do.
I want to make a quick blanket statement to clarify a few things, and then I will get back to answering everyone's questions...
#1. I will answer any question you have about ADHD. Anything. ADHD meds seem to be the biggest concern for most around here in regards to this subject, so I will answer those questions for you. Please understand, however, my intent isn't to come to the Fastlane and encourage everyone to get on ADHD medication. There are many who claim they can completely control ADHD without meds. In my particular situation, it has been part of a very effective treatment regimen, but it's not the only treatment regimen. @Vigilante am I clarifying myself appropriately here? Don't want the thread to get whacked due to me appearing to be a drug pusher
#2. I'm not going to argue the validity of ADHD. I had debilitating problems in my life and several trusted health care practitioners diagnosed and medicated me for a disorder they deem valid. After following through with these treatment regimens, I am now a very productive person because of these treatment plans.
#3. Everyone has focus problems at times. If you haven't had debilitating symptoms your entire life, most likely you are dealing with a side effect from another issue in your life... stress, depression, midlife crisis, erectile dysfunction, etc. You get my drift.
And now back to your regularly scheduled programming....
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