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Your post really hit home for me.
I've been feeling stuck in my current state for a while now, and your words honestly motivated me to start seriously considering a move. It's been -30 degrees and my car won't even start. I love lifting weights and still do it anyway but it's annoying when this happens and the cold hurts my face. My girlfriend and I have even been talking about checking out Nevada as a potential destination. The thought of being able to enjoy warm weather and new experiences is really appealing to us and honestly, if I move out right now into an apartment here it's going to be $1,500+..might as well check out a state like Nevada or Arizona.
The only challenge is that my girlfriend is kind of attached to our current state, her job is here and she doesn't have as much saved as I do, and it might be tough to motivate her to break that bond. But your message about prioritizing happiness and making choices that make it more likely has really resonated with me, and I'm going to try to use it as motivation to convince her that a move could be a positive step for us.
I genuinely believe that if I move out from my parents house right now and to a warmer state with her I will be happier and challenged by it for the better.
I've been feeling stuck in my current state for a while now, and your words honestly motivated me to start seriously considering a move. It's been -30 degrees and my car won't even start. I love lifting weights and still do it anyway but it's annoying when this happens and the cold hurts my face. My girlfriend and I have even been talking about checking out Nevada as a potential destination. The thought of being able to enjoy warm weather and new experiences is really appealing to us and honestly, if I move out right now into an apartment here it's going to be $1,500+..might as well check out a state like Nevada or Arizona.
The only challenge is that my girlfriend is kind of attached to our current state, her job is here and she doesn't have as much saved as I do, and it might be tough to motivate her to break that bond. But your message about prioritizing happiness and making choices that make it more likely has really resonated with me, and I'm going to try to use it as motivation to convince her that a move could be a positive step for us.
I genuinely believe that if I move out from my parents house right now and to a warmer state with her I will be happier and challenged by it for the better.
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