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I am going to argue that it is certainly possible, but unlikely. Studies flat out prove a canyon of belief system divide between the rich and the poor.
The problem is MINDSET... NOT MONEY.
The vast majority of the poor believe that wealth means you are lucky.
The majority of the poor believe that if it wasn't luck, it was dishonesty.
The poor believe that the rich should pay higher taxes.
The rich and the poor are interested in vastly different activities and lifestyles.
The rich adopt healthy habits more often then the poor.
The rich are disciplined and the poor are not.
The rich persue goals and the poor do not.
The rich are educated (whether self or traditionally) and the poor put less emphasis on becoming smarter.
Their ideas of a good time are vastly different.
They raise their families in vastly different ways.
They have differing hobbies.
The poor often are hostile of the rich.
The rich have an internal locus and the poor have an external locus of control.
All of this said, I have never met someone that was both happy to be poor and wanted to be friends with me. I don't blame them, because the feeling is mutual. I choose friends I can respect.
This is all notwithstanding the bootstrapping entrepreneurial minded person that is interested in and making the choices that make one wealthy, but isn't there yet. Those people already have the mindset that creates this divide.
I am not one to exclude someone because of how much money they have, but for me to put effort into a friendship with someone, I need to have respect for them in some way. It is the way I am wired. I can't force myself to like someone that makes repeatedly stupid choices and lives the life of a loser.
When you realize it is a choice, it is not a surprise why friend groups reflect similar socioeconomic and political backgrounds.
Bottom line. Choose your friend circle carefully. They can bring you up or bring you down.
The problem is MINDSET... NOT MONEY.
The vast majority of the poor believe that wealth means you are lucky.
The majority of the poor believe that if it wasn't luck, it was dishonesty.
The poor believe that the rich should pay higher taxes.
The rich and the poor are interested in vastly different activities and lifestyles.
The rich adopt healthy habits more often then the poor.
The rich are disciplined and the poor are not.
The rich persue goals and the poor do not.
The rich are educated (whether self or traditionally) and the poor put less emphasis on becoming smarter.
Their ideas of a good time are vastly different.
They raise their families in vastly different ways.
They have differing hobbies.
The poor often are hostile of the rich.
The rich have an internal locus and the poor have an external locus of control.
All of this said, I have never met someone that was both happy to be poor and wanted to be friends with me. I don't blame them, because the feeling is mutual. I choose friends I can respect.
This is all notwithstanding the bootstrapping entrepreneurial minded person that is interested in and making the choices that make one wealthy, but isn't there yet. Those people already have the mindset that creates this divide.
I am not one to exclude someone because of how much money they have, but for me to put effort into a friendship with someone, I need to have respect for them in some way. It is the way I am wired. I can't force myself to like someone that makes repeatedly stupid choices and lives the life of a loser.
When you realize it is a choice, it is not a surprise why friend groups reflect similar socioeconomic and political backgrounds.
Bottom line. Choose your friend circle carefully. They can bring you up or bring you down.
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"Corley conducted a survey by interviewing 233 wealthy people who make $160,000 or more in annual income and hold at least $3.2 million in net liquid assets (177 of whom were self-made, coming from poverty or the middle class) and 128 poor people who make less than $35,000 per year and have less...
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