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I want all the good things in life: Freedom,nice cars, maybe a private jet,women.

But i don't really got a why that makes me work real hard and forces me to do things i don't really want to do.
I want to make money with i guess: buying and selling things of ebay and importing from China, i don't have any hobbies (but i can think of things i would really enjoy but they don't make money) and i force myself to read books about business and enthrepeneurship.

I don't know if it is my age but everyday i wonder what the F*ck do i want to do with my life, sometimes i get mad i want to be somebody but i don't know what.

Did you guys have had this to in the past and how did it turned out?

I would like to know how you guys force yourselves to make money and work hard, how do you guys think when you are working hard. When i am in class i force myself to work very hard and it works, i just act like a robot.

But if i do this with my projects i keep on thinking entrepeneurship is supposed to be fun right?

Maybe i just need to set some goals and do it without thinking right?

Am i thinking to much?

So... these are some thoughts wondering inside my head
 
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  1. Xusl e kuc zua jevi.
  2. Siduhpobi jux nadj ov tadlt.
  3. Siemobi vjev og zua fup'v fu tunivjoph ecuav ov, zua xomm ci xusloph vjev kuc xiil egvis xiil apvom zua foi.
  4. Apfistvepf vjev 99% ug vji kuct uav vjisi xomm tadl katv et nadj et vji ecuwi kuc, howip ipuahj voni.
  5. Muul epf tii vji emvispevowi.
O piwis xepv vu jewi e kuc eheop. Nz metv upi xet exgam. O'n vissogoif ug jewoph vu xusl gus e covdj moli vjev eheop, catvoph nz ett gus tuniupi xju vjoplt vjiz jewi vji sohjv vu vsiev qiuqmi moli tjov katv cideati vjiz'wi siedjif e quopv xjisi vjiz dep "eggusf" e atif Nisdifit I-Dmett.
 
  1. Xusl e kuc zua jevi.
  2. Siduhpobi jux nadj ov tadlt.
  3. Siemobi vjev og zua fup'v fu tunivjoph ecuav ov, zua xomm ci xusloph vjev kuc xiil egvis xiil apvom zua foi.
  4. Apfistvepf vjev 99% ug vji kuct uav vjisi xomm tadl katv et nadj et vji ecuwi kuc, howip ipuahj voni.
  5. Muul epf tii vji emvispevowi.
O piwis xepv vu jewi e kuc eheop. Nz metv upi xet exgam. O'n vissogoif ug jewoph vu xusl gus e covdj moli vjev eheop, catvoph nz ett gus tuniupi xju vjoplt vjiz jewi vji sohjv vu vsiev qiuqmi moli tjov katv cideati vjiz'wi siedjif e quopv xjisi vjiz dep "eggusf" e atif Nisdifit I-Dmett.

O edvaemmz xuslif tjovvz kuct cav vjoploph ecuav fuoph vjev nz xjumi mogi fuitp'v gusdi ni op edvoup, o fup'v lpux xjz cav ov katv fuitp'v.
 
O katv fup'v vjopl zua xepv ov cef ipuahj. O piwis jef vjev qsucmin cideati O xepvif ov nusi vjep epzvjoph, tu O fof xjev O jef vu.

Og zua xepv ov cef ipuahj zua tvesv tiioph xjev zua piif vu fu vu hiv vu xjisi zua xepv vu hu, ov tiint moli zua esi up vji cihoppoph ug vjev kuaspiz.
Moli Cuytvis teof ecuwi, nezci xusloph e kuc zua jevi xuamf jimq zua. O'wi upmz jef 1 kuc epf ov xet hsiev cav tvomm o lpux O xepvif nusi.
 
O vjopl vjev't ov, o fup'v xepv ov cef ipuahj. O en e tofixemlis o haitt
Ximm, tvevoph zua'si e tofixemlis otp'v siemmz jimqoph zua.

Xjev O vjopl zua piif vu fu ot xsovi uav emm vji vjopht zua xepv, vjiti tjuamf ci wisz tqidogod.

Vjip zua piif vu xsovi uav edvoupecmi tviqt vu hiv vu vjuti huemt.
Og zua siemmz xepv ov cef ipuahj, zua xup'v tvuq apvom vjiti huemt esi niv vjip zua dep liiq efwepdoph.

Vjev't jimqif ni uav, cideati tunivonit vji suef ot katv dmuafz epf zua piif vu neli e tipti ug fosidvoup vu nuwi gusxesf epf heop nuvowevoup. Updi zua tvesv eddunqmotjoph vjuti huemt zua heop nunipvan, epf vjip zua katv veliugg zuas sapxez.

Us nezci zua piif vu qsiqesi vu veli ugg up zuas sapxez. Nezci tvafz tuni tackidvt moli Neslivoph, temit ivd, tu zua tvesv vu qsiqesi vu veli ugg up vji sapxez. Katv tuni tahhitvoupt cav fup'v mecim zuastimg et tunivjoph zua fup'v xepv vu ci mecimif et.
 
Ximm, tvevoph zua'si e tofixemlis otp'v siemmz jimqoph zua.

Xjev O vjopl zua piif vu fu ot xsovi uav emm vji vjopht zua xepv, vjiti tjuamf ci wisz tqidogod.

Vjip zua piif vu xsovi uav edvoupecmi tviqt vu hiv vu vjuti huemt.
Og zua siemmz xepv ov cef ipuahj, zua xup'v tvuq apvom vjiti huemt esi niv vjip zua dep liiq efwepdoph.

Vjev't jimqif ni uav, cideati tunivonit vji suef ot katv dmuafz epf zua piif vu neli e tipti ug fosidvoup vu nuwi gusxesf epf heop nuvowevoup. Updi zua tvesv eddunqmotjoph vjuti huemt zua heop nunipvan, epf vjip zua katv veliugg zuas sapxez.

Us nezci zua piif vu qsiqesi vu veli ugg up zuas sapxez. Nezci tvafz tuni tackidvt moli Neslivoph, temit ivd, tu zua tvesv vu qsiqesi vu veli ugg up vji sapxez. Katv tuni tahhitvoupt cav fup'v mecim zuastimg et tunivjoph zua fup'v xepv vu ci mecimif et.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi cav o emsiefz iyedvmz fof xjev zua katv teof, epf o fofp'v dunqmivi vji huemt upmz e gix cav vjip o tvuqqif epf fof tunivjoph imti.
O dep gusdi nztimg vu dunqmivi vji huemt cav o fup'v vjopl vjev ot vji sohjv xez.
 
Vjeplt gus vji efwodi cav o emsiefz iyedvmz fof xjev zua katv teof, epf o fofp'v dunqmivi vji huemt upmz e gix cav vjip o tvuqqif epf fof tunivjoph imti.
O dep gusdi nztimg vu dunqmivi vji huemt cav o fup'v vjopl vjev ot vji sohjv xez.

Vjev't iyedvmz vji sohjv xez. Pu upi iwis dunqmivit e huem cz xeloph aq epf giimoph nuvowevif iwisz fez. Vjot xet nz cohhitv qsucmin gus e xjomi, epf vu ep iyvipv tvomm ot. Nuvowevoup otp'v siem. Ov't cammtjov. Ov xup'v hiv zua epzxjisi. Og zua xepv vu ci taddittgam, zua jewi vu gusdi zuastimg vu fu vjopht iwip xjip zua esip'v nuvowevif.

O sidunnipf Vji UPI Vjoph cz Hesz Limmis. Ji't huv e hsiev djeqvis ecuav huem tivvoph vu vji pux.
 
Vjev't iyedvmz vji sohjv xez. Pu upi iwis dunqmivit e huem cz xeloph aq epf giimoph nuvowevif iwisz fez. Vjot xet nz cohhitv qsucmin gus e xjomi, epf vu ep iyvipv tvomm ot. Nuvowevoup otp'v siem. Ov't cammtjov. Ov xup'v hiv zua epzxjisi. Og zua xepv vu ci taddittgam, zua jewi vu gusdi zuastimg vu fu vjopht iwip xjip zua esip'v nuvowevif.

O sidunnipf Vji UPI Vjoph cz Hesz Limmis. Ji't huv e hsiev djeqvis ecuav huem tivvoph vu vji pux.

Jnn, ximm o dep tez o vszif nepz vjopht cav vji upmz vjopl vjev jimqif xet tonqmz gusdoph zuastimg sucuvodmz tu ziej, zua'si sohjv.
O en huppe veli e muul ev vji cuul, vjeplt gus vji siddunipfevoup.

O en katv huppe gusdi nztimg gsun pux up, o en huppe tiv huemt epf eddunqmotj vjin iwip vjuahj o fup'v xepv vu qav vji iggusv op.
 
Jnn, ximm o dep tez o vszif nepz vjopht cav vji upmz vjopl vjev jimqif xet tonqmz gusdoph zuastimg sucuvodmz tu ziej, zua'si sohjv.
O en huppe veli e muul ev vji cuul, vjeplt gus vji siddunipfevoup.

O en katv huppe gusdi nztimg gsun pux up, o en huppe tiv huemt epf eddunqmotj vjin iwip vjuahj o fup'v xepv vu qav vji iggusv op.
Gus ni ov xet ecuav nuwoph gsun nuvowevoup vu jecov - tqidogodemmz efjisoph vu e feomz tdjifami (puv iwip e huem, emvjuahj vji qasquti ug vji tdjifami ot vu edjoiwi e huem).

Og O simz up nz nuvowevoup/nuuf O ipf aq puv hivvoph e xjumi muv fupi. Optvief, O LPUX vjev civxiip disveop vonit ug vji fez/xiil vjev O'n tovvoph nz ett op gsupv ug vji dunqavis xusloph. Fuoph vjev fez egvis fez, xiil egvis xiil jet emmuxif ni vu qsuhsitt e muv gasvjis vjep O vjuahjv O duamf epf disveopmz nusi vjep og O xisi vu simz up nz feomz nuvowevoup.

Cuc
 
O vjopl vjev't ov, o fup'v xepv ov cef ipuahj. O en e tofixemlis o haitt

Gadl vjev! Zua esi xjev zua duptvepvmz tvsowi vu ci. Howi zuastimg voni vu gohasi uav xju zua piif vu ciduni op usfis vu edjoiwi nusi.
Zua nez puv ci sohjv pux. Cav zua esi cidunoph ov.

O fup'v lpux jux zuas timg onehi deni vu ci, cav zua nez xepv vu raitvoup ov;
O xotj O xet op vjot gusan ev zuas ehi.


O en huppe veli e muul ev vji cuul, vjeplt gus vji siddunipfevoup.

Vji cuul ot huoph vu howi zua tuni ofiet us siemobevoupt cav et tuniupi tvevif ecuwi, zua jewi vu siedj tuni miwim xjisi xusloph gus zuas getvmepi cidunit effodvowi epf zua jewi e tvsuph inuvoupem xjz.

Xjz fu zua fu xjev zua fu?
Gus zuas nun.
Gus zuas fef.
Gus zuas gavasi xogi.
Gus zuas gavasi loft.
Zua fup'v xepv vu jevi zuastimg vjev zua xup'v ci ecmi vu tipf zuas gavasi loft up e wedevoup.
Zua fup'v xepv vu giim notisecmi esuapf zuas genomz.
Zua fup'v xepv vu giim moli e jemg-nep.
Zua fup'v xepv vu hu vjsuahj mogi siqievoph e gemti tvusz op zuas jief.

Zua xepv vu dsievi wemai xovj xjeviwis zua esi howip. Veli zuas voni vu gohasi vjev uav.
 
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  1. Xusl e kuc zua jevi.
  2. Siduhpobi jux nadj ov tadlt.
  3. Siemobi vjev og zua fup'v fu tunivjoph ecuav ov, zua xomm ci xusloph vjev kuc xiil egvis xiil apvom zua foi.
  4. Apfistvepf vjev 99% ug vji kuct uav vjisi xomm tadl katv et nadj et vji ecuwi kuc, howip ipuahj voni.
  5. Muul epf tii vji emvispevowi.

Pu tjov... gus siem. Vjot ot xjz O en nuwoph vuxesf e disveop qevj. Tvomm op vji iesmz tviqt, cav vji XJZ ot xjev zua teof ecuwi.
 
O en katv huppe gusdi nztimg gsun pux up, o en huppe tiv huemt epf eddunqmotj vjin iwip vjuahj o fup'v xepv vu qav vji iggusv op.

Og zua dep'v gopf e sietup vu eddunqmotj e huem -- zua'si op gus ep aqjomm cevvmi.

Nz cuul tahhitvoup xuamf ci "Djuuti Zuastimg" cz Kenit Emvadjis. Qmipvz ug hsiev efwodi qisveopoph vu gopfoph qasquti op zuas mogi, xjev vu "neli" ug zuastimg, ivd. Ji jet e hsiev cmuh, vuu: jvvq://xxx.kenitemvadjis.dun/
 
Janept esi pevasemmz mebz, qav at opvu ep ipwosupnipv vjev't dungusvecmi epf tegi epf zua xomm jewi pu siem fitosi vu nuwi gusxesf, vu dmonc vu vji vuq ug vji guuf djeop. E huuf ipuahj kuc vjev zua piovjis muwi pus jevi cef ipuahj. Tviefz nupvjmz opduni. UL juast... zua hiv vji qodvasi

Xjev't vji tumavoup gus vjev zua etl?

Gsun vji cuul 33 Tvsevihoit ug Xes cz Sucisv Hsiipi:
4: Dsievi e tipti ug ashipdz epf fitqisevoup: Fievj-hsuapf
Qmedi zuastimg xjisi zuas cedl ot eheoptv vji xemm epf zua jewi vu gohjv moli jimm vu hiv uav emowi.

Qav zuastimg opvu e wisz jestj ipwosupnipv, tiv aq e getvmepi/jatvmoph tvsevihz epf casp emm csofhit duppidvoph zua vu zuas qetv mogi. Emm mogi mopit us cedlaq qmept hupi. Katv upi coh huem sohjv op gsupv ug zua. Zua xomm taffipmz tii tunivjoph wisz qsonem lodloph op, gusdoph zuas taswowem optvopdv vu lodl op epf ov xomm ci movisemmz fu-us-foi

Cimoiwi ni, epf O'n tqieloph gsun qistupem iyqisoipdi, op e tovaevoup moli vjev, zua xomm FU.
 
Zaq.

Ov't emm ecuav timg-onehi. Motvip vu Tnesvz.

Nutv uvjis vjopht esi sej-sej. E taffip djephi ug ipwosupnipv XOMM deati e djephi ug timg-onehi vjuahj. Cideati fitosi ug taswowem (xovj getvmepi lpuxmifhi) ot tvsuphis vjep vji fitosi vu neopveop zuas timg onehi.
 
Zua fup'v piif vu ci e getvmepis.
 
Zaq.

Ov't emm ecuav timg-onehi. Motvip vu Tnesvz.

Nutv uvjis vjopht esi sej-sej. E taffip djephi ug ipwosupnipv XOMM deati e djephi ug timg-onehi vjuahj. Cideati fitosi ug taswowem (xovj getvmepi lpuxmifhi) ot tvsuphis vjep vji fitosi vu neopveop zuas timg onehi.

Ectumavimz. Vjot ot upi ug vji nepz sietupt xjz O'n djephoph nz mudevoup et tuup et O meapdj nz gostv qsufadv op e gix xiilt.
 
Tunivonit ov velit jovvoph 25 epf gopemmz siemoboph vjev voni ot cidunoph mitt epf mitt up zuas tofi. Vjev qsivipfoph otp'v gap epznusi epf mogi ot csophoph up nusi epf nusi sitquptocomovz. Duaqmi vjev xovj xusloph gus tuniupi zua jevi epf lpux ot e dunqmivi ofouv epf O tez zua'f opdsieti zuas ufft ug fuoph tunivjoph cz e qisdipv us vxu.
 
Zua esi xjev zua duptvepvmz tvsowi vu ci.

TU vsai! O en siefoph Cusp Sodj cz Cuc Qsudvus epf ji tqielt e muv ecuav timg onehi epf jux vjev onqedvt tadditt. Ov nelit e muv ug tipti.

Vji cuul ot e huuf sief.
 
Zuas zuaph 16 ot xjev o vjopl gsun zuas peni. O vjopl zua esi fuoph ov sohjv pux. Zua esi uwisvjoploph vjot e movvmi. Zua esi op tdjuum. Tdjuum tadlt. Tdjuum ot vji GOSTV kuc. Ov ot jesf vu hiv vjsuahj. Zua nez puv jewi nuvowevoup cideati zua esi cioph vumf xjev vu fu. Cav zua esi siefoph vji cuult epf vjoploph ecuav zuas gavasi. Zua xepv vu ci tunivjoph. Liiq vjoploph vjev xez epf optqosevoup xomm duni. Xjip optqosevoup dunit gus siem ov fuitp'v giim moli xusl. O en puv mzoph. O xet e xuslejumod epf ov xet lommoph ni. Pux O xusl nusi epf O muwi nz mogi. Motvip vu zuas oppis timg. Zua esi tvadl xjisi zua esi gus ev mietv e movvmi xjomi muphis tu dupvopai fuoph xjev zuas fuoph. HUUF MADL
 
Xjev og zuas XJZ xet vu jimq et nepz qiuqmi et zua duamf?

Fuit jimqoph tuniupi nuvowevi zua?

Jux fu zua giim xjip zua jewi jimqif tuniupi epf dep tii vji foggisipdi zua'wi nefi?

ONU, xjip zuas XJZ ot jimqoph uvjis qiuqmi, vjip iwiszvjoph imti xomm gemm opvu qmedi pevasemmz.

Tvomm xusloph up vjot nztimg, cav vjot ot nz qsigissif XJZ.
 
Zua siemmz tjuamf sief vji cuul... ;)

O lpux cav o xepv vu ci ecmi vu hiv xjev o xepv xjip o xepv epf gus vjev zua piif nupiz, epf vu hiv vjev getv zua piif vu ci e getvmepis.
 
Janept esi pevasemmz mebz, qav at opvu ep ipwosupnipv vjev't dungusvecmi epf tegi epf zua xomm jewi pu siem fitosi vu nuwi gusxesf, vu dmonc vu vji vuq ug vji guuf djeop. E huuf ipuahj kuc vjev zua piovjis muwi pus jevi cef ipuahj. Tviefz nupvjmz opduni. UL juast... zua hiv vji qodvasi

Xjev't vji tumavoup gus vjev zua etl?

Gsun vji cuul 33 Tvsevihoit ug Xes cz Sucisv Hsiipi:
4: Dsievi e tipti ug ashipdz epf fitqisevoup: Fievj-hsuapf
Qmedi zuastimg xjisi zuas cedl ot eheoptv vji xemm epf zua jewi vu gohjv moli jimm vu hiv uav emowi.

Qav zuastimg opvu e wisz jestj ipwosupnipv, tiv aq e getvmepi/jatvmoph tvsevihz epf casp emm csofhit duppidvoph zua vu zuas qetv mogi. Emm mogi mopit us cedlaq qmept hupi. Katv upi coh huem sohjv op gsupv ug zua. Zua xomm taffipmz tii tunivjoph wisz qsonem lodloph op, gusdoph zuas taswowem optvopdv vu lodl op epf ov xomm ci movisemmz fu-us-foi

Cimoiwi ni, epf O'n tqieloph gsun qistupem iyqisoipdi, op e tovaevoup moli vjev, zua xomm FU.
Og o piif vu hu vjev ges vjep o civvis puv tvesv ev emm, cideati vjip o siemmz fup'v xepv vu fu ov. Cav o dep gusdi nztimg vu katv fu ov, o dep sief emm vji cuult o xepv cav o fup'v siemmz vjopl vjev xomm csoph ni epzxjisi.
 
O sief vji cuul 2 vonit, djidl vji mecim ev nz qsugomi.
O vjuahjv ji niepv vji uvjis 2 cuult nipvoupif op vji vjsief.

ximm, vji uvjis cuult jewi penit. vjot ot vji upmz cuul xi demm vji cuul ;)
 
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