19 And 1 Year TMF Anniversary

[abstructs]

Who else has had this experience?

A month after graduating high-school I read TMF in August 2015.
It completely CHANGED me on a deep level

Throughout high-school I was depressed and couldn't talk to anyone. I would come home from school, sleep until 8pm then play video games until 3am...

Then I would wake up for school at 7am and do it all over again.

After TMF my eyes were wide open, I was tired of that life.​

Fast-forward 1 year ​

• I've read over 60 books. Business, mindset, ANYTHING that I felt would help me!
• I started programming!
• I started talking to people!
• I became 300% MORE social!
• I hit a 245lb squat, 200 lb bench and 275 deadlift in the gym!
• I stopped playing video games!
• I started being helpful whether I can! Giving up my seat on the bus, throwing out trash if I can... Talking to people when they need support. I even purchased copies of TMF for my best friends! (This had one of the great positive effects on my life and relationships!)

The depressed loser I was in high-school is so far away...​

And I am SO HAPPY with my journey so far.

The Challenges I Face Today​

• I'm going to community college for "computer programming" which I am not happy about.
• My girlfriend broke up to me (July 28th), said I was becoming "too much like the books I read all the time"... This one hurt the most!
• I've never held a job and made money before!

What Is The Plan Of Action?

I'm Actually Very Uncertain
​

I'm currently reading "The Personal MBA" and I'm about to write a resume to get a part-time job.

The loss of my relationship is really effecting me and I'm realizing that I want a much better social circle so I'm taking action on building that by going to networking events and meet-ups.

Other than from the books I read I lack any sort of mentor/guidance in my life, I feel that it's because I lack value so I will be putting more effort into creating value through copywriting and programming.

However programming feels like a dead-end job especially here in Toronto where programmers are everywhere, college and programming feel like empty pursuits...

SORRY to leave it off on such a sad tone! I know excuses aren't welcome here nor do I welcome excuses in my own life!

About Me
I am 19 years old living in Ontario (Caledon).
My github repositories can be found here: https://github.com/abstructs.
I enjoy jazz music, jogging, weightlifting, photography and challenging my own limiting beliefs!

It's good to meet you!​

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[Luke.]

Tuni hsiev qsuhsitt ov tiint xjodj ot huuf.

O'n huoph vu dunnapovz dummihi gus "dunqavis qsuhsennoph" xjodj O en puv jeqqz ecuav.

Xjz esi zua huoph og zua'si puv jeqqz ecuav ov?

Nz hosmgsoipf csuli aq vu ni (Kamz 28vj), teof O xet cidunoph "vuu nadj moli vji cuult O sief emm vji voni"... Vjot upi jasv vji nutv!

Zua xomm djephi et e qistup emm vji voni. Qiuqmi xomm duni epf hu emm vji voni. Op vji ipf, zua xomm ci tassuapfif cz moli nopfif qiuqmi xovj howip voni, xjomi uvjist hiv migv cijopf. Ov't katv apgusvapevi vjev ov't zuas hosmgsoipf op vjot deti.

Upi vjoph O natv puvi vjuahj ot, emvjuahj egvis e zies ov tiint zua'si op e civvis qmedi, zua jewip'v fupi nadj. Toploph zuastimg op 60 foggisipv cuult epf cipdjqsittoph 200mct xupv hiv zua wisz ges. Sinincis, vjiti esi katv vuumt. Edvoup ot xjev xomm.

O sidunnipf siefoph @TopotvisMiy't qutv up gsiimepdoph og zua dep dufi xictovit. Vjot xomm neli zua tvepf uav dunqesif vu emm vjin uvjis qsuhsennist vjev esi 'iwiszxjisi' epf emmux zua vu neli e fidipv enuapv ug detj op pu voni.

 

[Jackflower93]

Xjev Ot Vji Qmep Ug Edvoup?

O'n Edvaemmz Wisz Apdisveop​

Xjev wemai fu zua jewi vu uggis vu uvjist? Og vji Eptxis ot puvjoph zua tjuamf tvesv miespoph tunivjoph uvjis qiuqmi deppuv fu. Vjip uggis vjin vjot wemai...

 

[abstructs]

Tuni hsiev qsuhsitt ov tiint xjodj ot huuf.

Vjepl zua gus vjev!​

Xjz esi zua huoph og zua'si puv jeqqz ecuav ov?

O dep'v howi zua e huuf sietup uvjis vjep "ov't xjev vjiz vumf ni vu fu" epf "nz qesipvt esi qezoph gus ov".

Zua xomm djephi et e qistup emm vji voni. Qiuqmi xomm duni epf hu emm vji voni. Op vji ipf, zua xomm ci tassuapfif cz moli nopfif qiuqmi xovj howip voni, xjomi uvjist hiv migv cijopf. Ov't katv apgusvapevi vjev ov't zuas hosmgsoipf op vjot deti.

Vjot xet tunivjoph O xuamf jewi ohpusif op vji qetv cav O giim et vjuahj O apfistvepf ov civvis pux jewoph ciip vjsuahj ov, djiist vu nuwoph up vu hsievis epf civvis!

Upi vjoph O natv puvi vjuahj ot, emvjuahj egvis e zies ov tiint zua'si op e civvis qmedi, zua jewip'v fupi nadj. Toploph zuastimg op 60 foggisipv cuult epf cipdjqsittoph 200mct xupv hiv zua wisz ges. Sinincis, vjiti esi katv vuumt. Edvoup ot xjev xomm.

O dunqmivimz ehsii epf apfistvepf, O jewip'v ciip veloph sitquptocomovz gus medl ug edvoup, katv duwisoph ov aq xovj iydatit moli "O'n qsucecmz puv huuf ipuahj". Siemovz tmeqqif ni op vji gedi gus vjot ohpusepdi epf og O fup'v veli edvoup ov xomm tasimz tmeq ni jesfis piyv voni.

O sidunnipf siefoph @TopotvisMiy't qutv up gsiimepdoph og zua dep dufi xictovit. Vjot xomm neli zua tvepf uav dunqesif vu emm vjin uvjis qsuhsennist vjev esi 'iwiszxjisi' epf emmux zua vu neli e fidipv enuapv ug detj op pu voni.

O'wi gummuxif @TopotvisMiy't vjsieft op vji qetv cav O'wi piwis velip edvoup.
O'n muuloph opvu gsiimepdoph sohjv pux vu hiv vu vji fuoph!