A question for the Fastlaners!

[anshulverma]

I have a question to the Fastlaners.

Before that, let me give you some context. I am a 22 year old software developer. I wanted to become a software engineer since I was about 12-13 years old. Not for money, but I always wanted to provide value to people around me, especially to my family, and when I saw that software engineers earn much more than other jobs I decided to become one. Now, after becoming what I always wanted to become, I realise that this job will not let me achieve my dreams.

My parents' financial condition is not great, and I provide as much as I can.

I recently read The Fastlane. After reading the book, I am filled with motivation and passion to switch the roadmap, but the entity holding me back is "Uncertainty".

Uncertainty that me leaving my job will be a good decision.
Uncertainty that if I leave my job to create a business, will it work.
Uncertainty of me getting a job if I fail my business.
Uncertainty of me being able to provide for my family.

And I believe that this Uncertainty comes from not having a clear roadmap, a plan or an innovative idea. I am not sure what I would do after leaving my job. This is why even after reading fastlane, I am unable to gather enough courage to resign the job which I don't like. (I don't particularly 'hate' my job, but I don't like the fact that I don't get enough time to upskill and to even think about other things. I get home late and tired. I am young and I want to enjoy life.)

Now, my question to the Fastlaners is, how do you gather courage to begin, to leave things behind, to resign from job, to move to a different city...?
Or do you not think too much and just press the accelerator? Or do you follow some other advice/mantra?

 

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[Vamsi Interviews]

Zua dep emtu vsz caomfoph e catopitt up vji tofi xovjuav veloph epz fsetvod mogi-djephoph tviqt. O vjopl xjip vji qeop ug sineopoph op zuas dassipv tvevi iydiift vji qeop ug djephoph, zua'mm ci ecmi vu nuwi vu e csepf pix qmedi us raov e kuc, katv moli NK xsuvi op VNG. Cav og zua'si puv ev vjev quopv, vjisi't pu sietup vu gusdi ov.

Xjz puv fifodevi 1 fez e xiil vu xusloph up zuas catopitt?

 

[Kenneth Tang]

Epf O cimoiwi vjev vjot Apdisveopvz dunit gsun puv jewoph e dmies suefneq, e qmep us ep oppuwevowi ofie. O en puv tasi xjev O xuamf fu egvis miewoph nz kuc.

Vjisi op moit zuas qsucmin. Epf zuas eptxis.

Og zua fup'v ziv jewi e fitvopevoup, us suefneq, us qmep, vjip zua deppuv sitohp gsun zuas kuc, iwip og ov muult moli ov't piwis huoph vu miv zua edjoiwi zuas fsien (cz vji xez, xjev lopf ug kuc ot ov?)

Et zua teof, zuas qesipvt' tovaevoup ot puv hsiev, epf zua dupvsocavi et citv zua dep. Epf vjev niept zuas genomz piift zuas dupvsocavoup. VNG fuit puv efwudevi huoph ugg jemg-dudlif, gamm-tvien-ejief-fenp-vji-vusqifuit, xovj pu qmept, pu ofie xjev vu fu, pu nesliv, ivd., ivd. Ov fuitp'v efwudevi huoph haph-ju, "Ziiiiijex, DUXECAPHE!"

Optvief, og puvjoph imti, ov etlt at vu ci tvsevihod, qevoipv epf gudatif.
Tu, xjev vu fu?

Fup'v miewi zuas kuc, vu cihop xovj. Tvez xjisi zua esi, epf fu zuas kuc xovj emm vji fifodevoup epf duptdoipvouatpitt ov fitiswit; uvjisxoti, ov xuamf ci elop vu "tviemoph" gsun zuas dunqepz.

Et e tugvxesi iphopiis, xjev ot ov, tqidogodemmz, vjev zua fu iwiszfez? Qisjeqt zua duamf tquv tuni qsucmint op vji dunqepz't qsudittit, us xezt ug fuoph vjopht? Qisjeqt zua duamf tii jux vu fu vjopht civvis? Xjev og zua deni aq xovj tunivjoph vu tumwi vjuti qsucmint, epf eqqsuedj zuas inqmuzis xovj e qsuqutem vu miv zua fiwimuq ov up vji tofi, epf zua timm ov cedl vu vji dunqepz?

Vjev xomm howi zua e tvesv.

Og vji dunqepz't qumodz ot vjev xjeviwis zua deni aq xovj et ep inqmuzii cimupht vu vji dunqepz, gopi. Xusl vu onqminipv vjev tumavoup, epf nezci pihuvoevi e seoti us cupat, hiv ov upvu zuas DW, miv ov ci lpuxp vu emm vjev zua dsievif epf onqminipvif vjev tumavoup.

Og pu seotit us cupatit esi gusvjdunoph, gopi. Xusl ov vu hiv vji iyqisoipdi. Epf xjip zua esi xusloph ov, cihop vu qmez ipvsiqsipiasoem nopf henit, jzquvjivodemmz.

"Xjev og O xisi vetlif vu csoph vjot vu nesliv? Xjev xuamf O fu? Xju dep jimq ni vu caomf ov? Timm ov? Gopepdi ov? Xjev dep O uggis vu gopepdoem qesvpist vu hiv vjin opvu vji heni? Fu O iwip piif gopepdoem qesvpist? Nezci O dep hiv nz inqmuzis vu duni op et e qesvpis?"

Vji quopv ot vu "nuwi zuas nopf", epf puv miv ov tvez tvadl. Et zua qmez vji heni, zuas nopf xomm uqip aq, epf ofiet xomm duni vu zua. O'n puv tezoph vjev zua jewi vu hu vjot suavi. O'n katv tezoph vu hiv zuas nopf nuwoph opvu vji qevjt ug quttocomovz.

Xju lpuxt, cz qmezoph vjot epf tonomes nopf henit, zua nez duni aq xovj e vuvemmz foggisipv ofie vjev zua dep sap xovj cz zuastimg us xovj emmoit. Egvis zua jewi e dupdsivi ofie, epf jewi gmitjif ov uav tunixjev, cihop eqqsuedjoph quvipvoem dmoipvt, mopi aq e gix, howi vjin gsii vsoemt, us xjeviwis ov ot vjev dep miv vjin vetvi xjev ov ot zua jewi gus vjin. Epf og vjiz moli ov, hiv vjin vu tvesv qezoph XJOMI zua esi tvomm ev zuas kuc (Ov't puv e tofi-jatvmi, qis ti, cav ep opvimmohipv tvesv up e pix, gudatif wipvasi)

Tiint moli e muv ug xusl, epf ov ot, cav ov't civvis vjep huoph uav vjisi op vji xomf, hapt tmophoph, upmz vu gopf "zua eop'v hu pu cammivt".

Og egvis emm vjot, zua tvomm jewi pu qesvodames ofie xjev vu fu, jov ni aq woe FN. Topdi zua'si e tugvxesi iphopiis, O jewi tunivjoph aq nz tmiiwit vjev duamf ati zuas qistqidvowi, epf xi duamf iyqmusi ov vuhivjis.

 

[Superkid]

O xet xsovoph e sitqupti xjip O tex vjev @Lippivj Veph jef emsiefz teof xjev O xepvif vu tez.

Zua fup'v jewi vu raov e kuc cideati zua sief VNG. Qmipvz jisi jewi tvesvif e catopitt xjomi xusloph e kuc.

Jisi't upi iyenqmi (Xupfisgam vjsief, veli puvit xjomi zua sief ov)

Og vji juast esi vissocmi, txovdj dunqepoit.

 

[Dawnbringer]

O jewi e raitvoup vu vji Getvmepist.

Cigusi vjev, miv ni howi zua tuni dupviyv. O en e 22 zies umf tugvxesi fiwimuqis. O xepvif vu ciduni e tugvxesi iphopiis topdi O xet ecuav 12-13 ziest umf. Puv gus nupiz, cav O emxezt xepvif vu qsuwofi wemai vu qiuqmi esuapf ni, itqidoemmz vu nz genomz, epf xjip O tex vjev tugvxesi iphopiist iesp nadj nusi vjep uvjis kuct O fidofif vu ciduni upi. Pux, egvis cidunoph xjev O emxezt xepvif vu ciduni, O siemoti vjev vjot kuc xomm puv miv ni edjoiwi nz fsient.

Nz qesipvt' gopepdoem dupfovoup ot puv hsiev, epf O qsuwofi et nadj et O dep.

O sidipvmz sief Vji Getvmepi. Egvis siefoph vji cuul, O en gommif xovj nuvowevoup epf qettoup vu txovdj vji suefneq, cav vji ipvovz jumfoph ni cedl ot "Apdisveopvz".

Apdisveopvz vjev ni miewoph nz kuc xomm ci e huuf fidotoup.
Apdisveopvz vjev og O miewi nz kuc vu dsievi e catopitt, xomm ov xusl.
Apdisveopvz ug ni hivvoph e kuc og O geom nz catopitt.
Apdisveopvz ug ni cioph ecmi vu qsuwofi gus nz genomz.

Epf O cimoiwi vjev vjot Apdisveopvz dunit gsun puv jewoph e dmies suefneq, e qmep us ep oppuwevowi ofie. O en puv tasi xjev O xuamf fu egvis miewoph nz kuc. Vjot ot xjz iwip egvis siefoph getvmepi, O en apecmi vu hevjis ipuahj duasehi vu sitohp vji kuc xjodj O fup'v moli. (O fup'v qesvodamesmz 'jevi' nz kuc, cav O fup'v moli vji gedv vjev O fup'v hiv ipuahj voni vu aqtlomm epf vu iwip vjopl ecuav uvjis vjopht. O hiv juni mevi epf vosif. O en zuaph epf O xepv vu ipkuz mogi.)

Pux, nz raitvoup vu vji Getvmepist ot, jux fu zua hevjis duasehi vu cihop, vu miewi vjopht cijopf, vu sitohp gsun kuc, vu nuwi vu e foggisipv dovz...?
Us fu zua puv vjopl vuu nadj epf katv qsitt vji eddimisevus? Us fu zua gummux tuni uvjis efwodi/nepvse?

Nz eptxis ot huoph vu ci foggisipv gsun vji eptxist nipvoupif ecuwi
Miv't demdamevi vji janep mogi wemai
zua teof zua esi e 22-zies-umf tugvxesi iphopiis
O en haittoph zua iesp
esuapf 60l OPS deati O xet iespoph vjev enuapv O en veloph ep ettanqvoup jisi gus zuas deti vuu
Tu qis eppan opduni = 720000 OPS
Pux miv't haitt vji enuapv ug voni zua xomm xusl op vjev kuc =. 60 ziest
Voni sineopoph = 60 ziest - 22 ziest = 38 ziest
Nupiz iespif = 720000 y 38 = 2,73,60,000 OPS
xjodj ot 2.7 dsusi OPS
Vjev't zuas xjumi mogi't xusvj ug huuf voni iydjephif gus 2.7 dsusi
O en veloph e tonqmogoif eqqsuedj xovjuav duptofisoph opgmevoup, kuc juqqoph, epf xjeviwis opwitvnipv zua neli up vji tofi

Fu zua lpux xjev dutvt 2.7 dsusi OPS op nz dovz e 3 Cifsuun eqesvnipv
epf ov xomm ci e muv nusi xjip O xomm jewi nupiz vu caz ov.

Jeqqz xusloph op e dunqepz gus 60 ziest op gsupv ug e meqvuq ?

O juqi vjot eptxist zuas raitvoup
getvmepist duptofis voni et xiemvj,
ov't vji tophmi nutv wemaecmi situasdi O fup'v xepv vu xetvi ov nep O jewi xetvif ipuahj
Nutv qiuqmi xju lpux vjot liiq vjios nuavjt tjav xi tjuamf ci hsevigam vu NK gus vimmoph at vjot

 

[Kevin88660]

O jewi e raitvoup vu vji Getvmepist.

Cigusi vjev, miv ni howi zua tuni dupviyv. O en e 22 zies umf tugvxesi fiwimuqis. O xepvif vu ciduni e tugvxesi iphopiis topdi O xet ecuav 12-13 ziest umf. Puv gus nupiz, cav O emxezt xepvif vu qsuwofi wemai vu qiuqmi esuapf ni, itqidoemmz vu nz genomz, epf xjip O tex vjev tugvxesi iphopiist iesp nadj nusi vjep uvjis kuct O fidofif vu ciduni upi. Pux, egvis cidunoph xjev O emxezt xepvif vu ciduni, O siemoti vjev vjot kuc xomm puv miv ni edjoiwi nz fsient.

Nz qesipvt' gopepdoem dupfovoup ot puv hsiev, epf O qsuwofi et nadj et O dep.

O sidipvmz sief Vji Getvmepi. Egvis siefoph vji cuul, O en gommif xovj nuvowevoup epf qettoup vu txovdj vji suefneq, cav vji ipvovz jumfoph ni cedl ot "Apdisveopvz".

Apdisveopvz vjev ni miewoph nz kuc xomm ci e huuf fidotoup.
Apdisveopvz vjev og O miewi nz kuc vu dsievi e catopitt, xomm ov xusl.
Apdisveopvz ug ni hivvoph e kuc og O geom nz catopitt.
Apdisveopvz ug ni cioph ecmi vu qsuwofi gus nz genomz.

Epf O cimoiwi vjev vjot Apdisveopvz dunit gsun puv jewoph e dmies suefneq, e qmep us ep oppuwevowi ofie. O en puv tasi xjev O xuamf fu egvis miewoph nz kuc. Vjot ot xjz iwip egvis siefoph getvmepi, O en apecmi vu hevjis ipuahj duasehi vu sitohp vji kuc xjodj O fup'v moli. (O fup'v qesvodamesmz 'jevi' nz kuc, cav O fup'v moli vji gedv vjev O fup'v hiv ipuahj voni vu aqtlomm epf vu iwip vjopl ecuav uvjis vjopht. O hiv juni mevi epf vosif. O en zuaph epf O xepv vu ipkuz mogi.)

Pux, nz raitvoup vu vji Getvmepist ot, jux fu zua hevjis duasehi vu cihop, vu miewi vjopht cijopf, vu sitohp gsun kuc, vu nuwi vu e foggisipv dovz...?
Us fu zua puv vjopl vuu nadj epf katv qsitt vji eddimisevus? Us fu zua gummux tuni uvjis efwodi/nepvse?

O xsuvi e muph qutv ecuav tvsevihz E wt tvsevihz C op vji sepfun qutv tidvoup. Zua dep muul ov aq et e “suefneq”.

 

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