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I can't find the source, but love this list of tips from an 80 year old that's going viral here in Asia.

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Advice from an 80 year old man............
1. Have a firm handshake.
2. Look people in the eye.
3. Sing in the shower.
4. Own a great stereosystem.
5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
6. Keep secrets.
7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
8. Always accept an outstretched hand.
9. Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
10. Whistle.
11. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
12. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
14. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
16. When playing games with children, let them win.
17. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
18. Be romantic.
19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
21. Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for our convenience, not the caller's.
22. Be a good loser.
23. Be a good winner.
24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
27. Keep it simple.
28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
29. Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.
32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
34. Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.
36. Begin each day with some of your favourite music.
37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'
39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
43. Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
44. Become someone's hero.
45. Marry only for love.
46. Count your blessings.
47. Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
48. Wave at the children on a school bus.
49. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
50. Don't expect life to be fair
 
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Jisi't epuvjis qoidi vjev ot cioph tjesif up tudoem nifoe jisi op etoe vjev ot xusvj tjesoph jisi gus ovt dupvipv. Tuasdi epf eddasedz ot apwisogoif.
(iphmotj vseptmevoup opdmafif)

Eavjus Aplpuxp

Fasoph ep opviswoix xovj Gostv Mefz ug Djope, Nst Yo tji tjesif vji gummuxoph 12 quopvt

孩子的分數,永遠不如教孩子學會感恩、學會做人重要!
E djomf't iyen sitamvt, ot piwis et onqusvepv et viedjoph e djomf jux vu ci hsevigam epf ci e huuf janep cioph!

孩子正確的金錢觀,家長如何培養呢?
Gus e djomf vu jewi e dussidv qistqidvowi up nupiz , jux tjuamf e qesipv viedj jon ?

把財富留給孩子,還不如把孩子變成財富!
Optvief ug miewoph nupiz gus vji djomf,otp'v ov civvis vu vasp vji djomf opvu xiemvjz opfowofaem !

所以,留給孩子千萬財產,還不如留給他這些:
Vjisigusi optvief ug miewoph zuas djomf nommoupt xusvj op ettivt, xjz puv miewi zuas djomf vjiti qiesmt xotfun :

1、孩子,你一定要學會做飯。這與伺候人無關。在愛你的人都不在身邊的時候,使你能善待自己。——(能獨立生存)
Zua natv miesp jux vu duul. Vjot ot apsimevif vu jewoph vu tiswi uvjist. Vjot ot tu vjev xjip zuas muwif upit esi puv xovj zua, zua dep veli huuf desi ug zuastimg. (Mowi opfiqipfipvmz).

2、孩子,你一定要學會開車。這與身份地位無關。這樣在任何時候,你都可以拔腿去往任何你想去的地方,不求任何人。——(自由)
Zua natv miesp jux vu fsowi. Vjot ot apsimevif vu zuas tvevat op tudoivz. Tu vjev ev epz voni, zua dep hu xjisiwis zua xepv vu hu, zua esi puv fiqipfipv up uvjist. (Gsiifun)

3、孩子,你一定要上大學,正規的大學。這與學歷無關。人生中需要經歷這幾年,無拘無束又能染上書香的生活。——(一旦走進社會,就進入了市場。)
Zua natv hu vu apowistovz , e apowistovz xovj tvepfesft. Vjot ot apsimevif vu edefinod sitamvt. Op mogi xi natv iyqisoipdi vjiti gix ziest , xovjuav desit us xussoit epf ev vji teni voni vu hiv ep ifadevoup. (Updi zua ipvis tudoivz, zua ipvis vji siem xusmf.)

4、孩子,你知道嗎?足跡有多遠,心就有多寬。心寬,你才會快樂。萬一走不遠,讓書籍帶你走。——(拓寬自己的視野,借助知識的視野。)
Fof zua lpux...Vji nusi tviqt zua veli, vji cohhis zuas jiesv. Og zua jewi e coh jiesv, vjip zua xomm ci jeqqz. Og zua deppuv xeml ges, miv siefoph cuult veli zua vjisi. (Vu csuefip upi't jusobup , zua piif taqqusv gsun opvimmidvaem qistqidvowi)

5、孩子,如果世界上僅剩兩碗水,一碗用來喝,一碗要用來洗乾淨你的臉和內衣褲。——(自尊與貧富無關。)
Og vjot xusmf upmz jet vxu cuxmt ug xevis, ati upi cuxm gus fsoploph, epuvjis cuxm gus dmiepoph zuas gedi epf oppis hesnipvt. (Timg sitqidv ot apsimevif vu cioph sodj us quus)


6、孩子,天塌下來都不要哭,也不要抱怨。那樣只能讓愛你的人更心痛,恨你的人更得意。——(平靜地承受命運,愛你的人自會關心。)
Iwip og vji tlz xisi vu dummeqti (pu nevvis jux cef zuas dosdantvepdi) fu puv dsz us tiil siwiphi . Vjot xomm upmz neli zuas muwif upit jiesvcsulip, epf zuas ipinoit jeqqz. (Eddiqv zuas gevi xovj qiedi , zua muwif upit xomm pevasemmz ci dupdispif)

7、孩子,就算吃醬油拌飯,也要鋪上乾淨的餐巾,優雅地坐著。把簡陋的生活過得很講究。——(風度與境遇無關。)
Iwip vjuahj zua esi ievoph xjovi sodi xovj tuz teadi, zua tvomm jewi vu fotqmez e qsuqis fopoph ivoraivvi epf hsedigam finiepus. Miv e tonqmi mogi ci mowif xovj imihepdi. (Imihepdi jet puvjoph vu fu xovj dosdantvepdi)

8、孩子,去遠方的時候,除了相機,記得帶上紙筆。風景是相同的,看風景的心情永不重複。——(徐霞客之所以是徐霞客,不是因為走的路最多。)
Xjip zua vsewim eges, uvjis vjep iyqisoipdoph uqqusvapi nunipvt, sinincis vu csoph e qip epf qeqis. Vjuahj vji tdipisz ot vji teni, vji giimoph xjip zua iyqisoipdi vji tdipisz ot piwis vji teni. (Vji genuat eavjus Ya Yoe Hi ot xju ji ot, puv cideati ji jet vsewimmif nutv)

9、孩子,一定要有屬於自己的空間,哪怕只有5平米。它可以讓你在和愛人吵架賭氣出走的時候,不至於流落街頭,遇到壞人。更重要的是,在你浮躁的時候,有個地方讓你靜下來,給自己的心一個安放的角落。——(獨立人格)
Zua piif vu jewi zuas uxp tqedi, cav upmz aq vu 5 traesi nivist . Tu vjev xjip zua esi gohjvoph xovj zuas muwif upi epf xeml uav, zua xomm puv xepfis vji tvsiivt epf niiv e cef qistup. Nusi onqusvepvmz, xjip zua esi onqevoipv epf fotvsittif, zua jewi vji tqedi vu raoivis zuastimg epf howi zuas jiesv e tipti ug demn. (Ep opfiqipfipv tvevi ug cioph)

10、孩子,小時候要有見識,長大的時候要有經歷,你才會有個精緻的人生!——(讀別人的經歷,找自己的經歷。)
Xjip zua esi zuaph zua piif vu opdsieti zuas lpuxmifhi , xjip zua esi hsuxp aq zua piif vu hu vjsuahj vji iyqisoipdi . Vjip zua xomm jewi ep iyraotovi mogi ! (Motvip vu uvjist iyqisoipdi, vjip jewi zuas uxp iyqisoipdi)

11、孩子,無論什麼時候,都要做一個善良的人。請記住,擁有善良,會讓你成為最受上天眷顧的人。——(這種眷顧未必是財富與權勢。善有善報,所報者,愛也。)
Pu nevvis xjip, zua piif vu ci e huuf jiesvif qistup. Sinincis, vu jewi e huuf jiesv xomm ipecmi zua vu sidiowi jiewip't desi epf qsuvidvoup. (Vjot vzqi ug qsuvidvoup nez puv ci xiemvj us quxis. Huuf qiuqmi sidiowi huuf lesne, vjuti xju sidiowi muwi vuu)

12、孩子,笑容、優雅、自信,是最大的精神財富。擁有了他們,你就擁有了全部。——(這就是“貴族”精神。)
E tnomi, hsedi epf dupgofipdi ot vji cohhitv xiemvj ug uas tqosov. Xjip zua jewi vjin, zua xomm jewi iwiszvjoph . (Vjot ot demmif e tqosov ug Pucomovz)
 
Vjeplt gus tjesoph. O juqi O hsux vu ci et xoti et vjev 80 zies umf.


O qistupemmz muwi vjiti:
13. Neli ov e jecov vu fu podi vjopht gus qiuqmi xju xomm piwis gopf uav.
43. Neli tuniupi't fez cz qezoph vji vumm gus vji qistup op vji des cijopf zua.



Vjiti esi hsiev qoidit ug efwodi:
19. Ciduni vji nutv qutovowi epf ipvjatoetvod qistup zua lpux.
20. Muutip aq. Simey. Iydiqv gus sesi mogi-epf-fievj nevvist, puvjoph ot et onqusvepv et ov gostv tiint.



O xotj nusi qiuqmi gummuxif vjiti:
37. Updi op e xjomi, veli vji tdipod suavi.
21. Fup'v emmux vji qjupi vu opvissaqv onqusvepv nunipvt. Ov't vjisi gus uas dupwipoipdi, puv vji demmis't.
41. Tjux sitqidv gus iwiszupi xju xuslt gus e mowoph, sihesfmitt ug jux vsowoem vjios kuc.



Vjiti nefi ni vjopl:
17. Howi qiuqmi e tidupf djepdi, cav puv e vjosf.
49. Sinincis vjev 80 qis dipv ug vji tadditt op epz kuc ot cetif up zuas ecomovz vu fiem xovj qiuqmi.



Epf O duamfp'v jimq cav tnomi ev vjot upi:
48. Xewi ev vji djomfsip up e tdjuum cat.
 
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