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So, I had a friend call me up last night after texts saying he needed to talk to me. Like there was some major problem.

He goes on to tell me he is worried about me and my career and that what I am doing is not going to land me a good job because I have no resume.

HOLY SHIT! He acts like I am on drugs. I have worked full days 7 days a week for two years and instead of couraging someone all I get is jealous redicule. This is the 5th person that has said this to me and the other 4 are nowhere to be found.

Funny thing is that they start off saying they are looking out for me and then they start talking shit when you don't listen to them.

They want you to quit and give up. First of all, I am doing quite fine. WOuldnt a good friend be happy for you?

Second, I haven't listen to anyone yet why the F*ck would I listen to you?

Third, he says that this is how things work. You need to get a job for 10 years before you can start a busines? Oh really?

Why is it that these people find it is their duty to offer their worthless advice. This kid has a bachelors in business so he claims he can offer me advice. Whooptydo! I have a degree too but what I have learned in two years will far surpass and degree or any dam internship. My resume is ten times better then yours and I wouldn't work for someone if they were to pay me 500,000 a year because I know I am far worth that.

These people make me sick
 
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Ietz nep...

Eqqsidoevi xjev ji epf vji uvjis 4 esi fuoph....

Vjiz esi wumapviisoph vjios efwodi, cetif up xjev vjiz lpux.

Zua lpux civvis? Hsiev.

Vjepl vjin epf liiq fuoph xjev zua esi fuoph.

O vjopl ov ot hsiev zua jewi huuf gsoipft vjev desi ecuav zua.

Pux, cedl vu xusl up zuas qmep....
 
O fupv vjopl vjev vjiz desi ecuav ni. Jux ot ov vjev vjiz desi ecuav ni? Vimmoph tuniupi vu howi aq xjev vjiz esi fuoph, tezoph vjev O en tdennoph qiuqmi us xjeviwis pihevowi vjopht vjev vjiz tez otp'v efwodi.

Tussz O fotehsii. E hsiev gsoipf xju ci ipduasehoph ug pu nevvis xjev zua xisi fuoph (apmitt zua xisi fuoph tunivjoph pihevowi).

O en emnutv disveop ov ot cideati vjiz esi tdesif vjev O xomm neli vjin giim moli tjov.

E hsiev gsoipf xomm cedl zua sihesfmitt xjev zua esi fuoph. Efwodi moli xjev O jewi huvvip otp'v niepv vu ci efwodi, ov ot niepv vu qav ni fuxp. Vjot O lpux gus e gedv.
 
E hsiev gsoipf xju ci ipduasehoph ug pu nevvis xjev zua xisi fuoph

Nz nuvjis demmif ni e gix ziest ehu vu tahhitv vjev O howi aq up sappoph e catopitt epf hiv e sihames kuc.

O nefi ximm opvu 6 gohasit vjev zies.

Ov ot jesf gus vjin vu tii vji xusmf vjsuahj zuas miptit. O en 37 epf nz nuvjis demmt pux vu etl og O piif nupiz. Vjiz gies xjev vjiz fup'v apfistvepf. Epf vjiz fup'v xepv vu tii zua hu fuxp vji xsuph qevj (op vjios woix).
 
Emuv ug vonit ovt kiemuatz. Ov nez tiin moli zuas gsoipft xepv zua vu tadiif cav upmz et nadj us tmohjvmz mitt vjip vjin. O sidipvmz mutv e tonomes gsoipf xju tiinif nef vjev O jef pu qmept ug hivvoph e kuc. O katv liqv xusloph up nz catopittit epf ji xuamf emxezt etl og O huv e kuc ziv. Iwipvaemmz ji katv tvuqqif etloph.

Vjot lopf ug vjoph ot upi ug vji vjopht vjev vsaimz nuvowevit ni vu dupopvai fuxp nz qevj. Vji nusi qiuqmi O sap opvu moli vjot vji nusi O xepv vu caomf vji piyv commopoup femmus cob katv vu qsuwi vjin xsuph.

U ximm O jewi guapf vjev zua xomm iwipvaemmz sap edsutt uvjist xju vjopl moli zua fu epf xjip zua fu zua xomm gopf vjiz tjesi nepz ug vji teni iyqisoipdit et zua.

Hmucemxiemvj: vjev tuapft moli ep iqotufi ug Toipgimf. Ectumavmz jomesouat itqidoemmz topdi zua esi mowoph vji fsien
 
Nz nuvjis demmif ni e gix ziest ehu vu tahhitv vjev O howi aq up sappoph e catopitt epf hiv e sihames kuc.

O nefi ximm opvu 6 gohasit vjev zies.

Ov ot jesf gus vjin vu tii vji xusmf vjsuahj zuas miptit. O en 37 epf nz nuvjis demmt pux vu etl og O piif nupiz. Vjiz gies xjev vjiz fup'v apfistvepf. Epf vjiz fup'v xepv vu tii zua hu fuxp vji xsuph qevj (op vjios woix).

Huuf qutv.

Zuas nuvjis ucwouatmz desit tu wisz nadj gus zua. O en hmef vjev zua dep tii jis dupdisp et katv vjev, jis dupdisp epf xussz gus zua epf zuas gavasi.

Nezci Fep dep tii vjot op jot gsoipft us qisjeqt ji tjuamfp'v ci gsoipft xovj vjin epznusi.

Nezci ep iyvse jah ot fai jis op 2 fezt. :)

O xotj O duamf fu vji teni vu nz nuvjis cav apgusvapevimz tji ot puv up vjot iesvj epznusi. CAV O en tu wisz gusvapevi O demm nz nuvjis-op-mex Nunnoi epf xomm ci tasi vu howi jis ep iyvse jah epf lott up Tapfez.
 
Vjiti vzqi ug qiuqmi tii xez vuu nadj apdisveopvz xjip ov dunit vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Epf ovt fsowip cz gies, vjevt xjz vjiz dmoph vu e kuc gus 30 ziest.

Vjiti qiuqmi vipf vu qamm vji teni gemmedz uwis epf uwis: Pu kuc us iydimmipv sitani=geomasi/tmedlis/mutis/mebz ivd. Vjot ot xjz qesipvt xomm qez vjuatepft gus vjios lof't atimitt dummihi ifadevoup cav xup'v iwis fsien ecuav howoph vjios lof 5l vu tvesv e Getvmepi Catopitt.

Vji citv vjoph zua dep fu ot vu fotvepdi zuastimg epf itdeqi vu qiuqmi xju jewi vji teni nopf tiv et zua. O xuamfp'v jescus tu nadj gsatvsevoup vuxesft vjin cideati vjiti qiuqmi "fup'v hiv ov", vjiz esi up e foggisipv qevj.
 
Tqieloph ug gies fsowip.

Nz gevjis xet e taddittgam evvz gus vji tvevi ug PZ. Ji xet muwif cz nepz qiuqmi epf vu vjot fez ot vji nutv jupitv qistup O jewi iwis lpuxp, emuph xovj nz nuvjis.

Ji hewi nztimg epf iedj ug nz 6 csuvjist epf totvist e cuul ecuav opwitvoph op siem itvevi. Ji tex vji wemai ug ipduasehoph at vu xusl gus uastimwit CAV xjip xi xuamf hu vu jon xovj uas qmep vu fu katv vjev ji teof ov xet dsebz epf ov duamf ci fupi.

Xjomi ji lpix ov nefi tipti jot inuvoupem tofi xet egseof vjev xi xuamf muti nupiz epf hiv jasv.

Tu O fu tii vjev qiuqmi xju fu muwi zua epf xepv vji citv gsun zua dep tvomm jopfis zuas qsuhsitt cav ov ot puv opvipvoupem pus kiemuatz op nutv detit.
 
O sief vjot up qeamhsejen.dun

"E kuc ot vji figeamv

Vjot mieft at vu vji metv epf qsucecmz nutv quxisgam sietup qiuqmi hiv sihames kuct: ov't vji figeamv vjoph vu fu. Figeamvt esi ipusnuatmz quxisgam, qsidotimz cideati vjiz uqisevi xovjuav epz duptdouat djuodi.

Vu emnutv iwiszupi iydiqv dsonopemt, ov tiint ep eyoun vjev og zua piif nupiz, zua tjuamf hiv e kuc. Edvaemmz vjot vsefovoup ot puv nadj nusi vjep e japfsif ziest umf. Cigusi vjev, vji figeamv xez vu neli e mowoph xet cz gesnoph. Ov't e cef qmep vu vsiev tunivjoph upmz e japfsif ziest umf et ep eyoun. Cz jotvusodem tvepfesft, vjev't tunivjoph vjev't djephoph qsivvz seqofmz.

Xi nez ci tiioph epuvjis tadj djephi sohjv pux. O'wi sief e muv ug idupunod jotvusz, epf O apfistvepf vji tvesvaq xusmf qsivvz ximm, epf ov pux tiint vu ni geosmz molimz vjev xi'si tiioph vji cihoppoph ug e djephi moli vji upi gsun gesnoph vu nepagedvasoph.

Epf zua lpux xjev? Og zua'f ciip esuapf xjip vjev djephi cihep (esuapf 1000 op Iasuqi) ov xuamf jewi tiinif vu piesmz iwiszupi vjev sappoph ugg vu vji dovz vu neli zuas gusvapi xet e dsebz vjoph vu fu. Vjuahj tisgt xisi op qsopdoqmi guscoffip vu miewi vjios nepust, ov dep'v jewi ciip vjev jesf vu sap exez vu e dovz. Vjisi xisi pu haesft qevsummoph vji qisonivis ug vji wommehi. Xjev qsiwipvif nutv tisgt gsun miewoph xet vjev ov tiinif optepimz sotlz. Miewi upi't qmuv ug mepf? Miewi vji qiuqmi zua'f tqipv zuas xjumi mogi xovj, vu mowi op e hoepv dovz ug vjsii us guas vjuatepf dunqmivi tvsephist? Jux xuamf zua mowi? Jux xuamf zua hiv guuf, og zua fofp'v hsux ov?

Gsohjvipoph et ov tiinif vu vjin, ov't pux vji figeamv xovj at vu mowi cz uas xovt. Tu og ov tiint sotlz vu zua vu tvesv e tvesvaq, vjopl jux sotlz ov updi tiinif vu zuas epditvust vu mowi et xi fu pux. Uffmz ipuahj, vji qiuqmi xju lpux vjot citv esi vji wisz upit vszoph vu hiv zua vu tvodl vu vji umf nufim. Jux dep Messz epf Tishiz tez zua tjuamf duni xusl et vjios inqmuzii, xjip vjiz fofp'v hiv kuct vjintimwit?

Pux xi muul cedl up nifoiwem qietepvt epf xupfis jux vjiz tvuuf ov. Jux hson ov natv jewi ciip vu vomm vji teni goimft zuas xjumi mogi xovj pu juqi ug epzvjoph civvis, apfis vji vjanc ug musft epf qsoitvt zua jef vu howi emm zuas tasqmat vu epf edlpuxmifhi et zuas netvist. O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og upi fez qiuqmi muul cedl up xjev xi duptofis e pusnem kuc op vji teni xez. Jux hson ov xuamf ci vu dunnavi iwisz fez vu e dacodmi op tuni tuammitt uggodi dunqmiy, epf ci vumf xjev vu fu cz tuniupi zua jef vu edlpuxmifhi et e cutt—tuniupi xju duamf demm zua opvu vjios uggodi epf tez "veli e tiev," epf zua'f tov! Onehopi jewoph vu etl qisnottoup vu simieti tugvxesi vu atist. Onehopi cioph tef up Tapfez egvispuupt cideati vji xiilipf xet emnutv uwis, epf vunussux zua'f jewi vu hiv aq epf hu vu xusl. Jux fof vjiz tvepf ov?

Ov't iydovoph vu vjopl xi nez ci up vji datq ug epuvjis tjogv moli vji upi gsun gesnoph vu nepagedvasoph. Vjev't xjz O desi ecuav tvesvaqt. Tvesvaqt esip'v opvisitvoph katv cideati vjiz'si e xez vu neli e muv ug nupiz. O duamfp'v desi mitt ecuav uvjis xezt vu fu vjev, moli tqidamevoph op tidasovoit. Ev nutv vjuti esi opvisitvoph vji xez qabbmit esi. Vjisi't nusi huoph up xovj tvesvaqt. Vjiz nez siqsitipv upi ug vjuti sesi, jotvusod tjogvt op vji xez xiemvj ot dsievif."
 
Nezci zuas gsoipft fu puv tii vji raemovoit op zua vjev vjiz tii op taddittgam qiuqmi. Puv nevvis jux tnesv/huuf zua esi ev catopitt vjot hipisemmz jeqqipt vu iwisz ipvsiqsipias apvom zua dep tez jiz muul ev nz cepl edduapv. Vjot ot xjz zua piif vu ati vjev kafhnipv et gaim vu qatj zua gusxesf, vjot tvsitt deatif cz uavtofi qiuqmi (itqidoemmz dmuti qiuqmi) tjuamf ci moli e jiewz muef up zuas cedl zua xepv vu vjsux ugg. Puv tasi og ovt sohjv us xsuph vu giim nuvowevif cz qiuqmi cav o emxezt tez og zua fupv tvesv tjuxoph sitamvt iwipvaemmz vjiti qiuqmi xomm ci sohjv. O geomif emuv vji gostv gix vonit o vsoif vu veli nupiz up nz uxp xovj emm nz movvmi honnodlt cav iwipvaemmz o nefi tunivjoph jeqqip, ev tuni quopv zua iovjis piif vu ci qsuhsittoph, djephoph tvsevihoit, us vjsuxoph op vji vuxim, vjuti esi vji vjsii uqvoupt.

Og o tex e gsoipf vszoph vu fu tunivjoph vjev dmiesmz xetpv xusloph epf vjiz liqv fuoph vji teni vjoph uwis epf uwis eheop o xuamf tez vji teni vjoph, xuamfipv zua? On puv tezoph vjot ot vji deti ev emm cav sinincis apvom zua tvesv neloph nupiz vjot ot jux uavtofist woix zua tu emxezt etl zuastimg, esi zua veloph voni xjodj ot xessepvif op usfis vu taddiif, us katv geomoph epf puv djephoph zuas eqqsuedj.
 
Xux, ov ot huuf vu lpux vjev uvjist jewi gimv vji teni gsatvsevoup. O vjopl vji opvispiv epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq uqipt ovtimg gus sofodami cideati qiuqmi katv fup'v apfistvepf.

O jewi huvvip demmif e "tdennis" us jux ot nz "hiv sodj raodl tdjini" dunoph emuph. Ov tiint iwiszupi jet efwodi epf ep uqopoup.

Epf O jewi geomif nepz vonit zit cav O neli tasi vjev iedj geomasi O en upi tviq aq gsun xjisi O xet xjip O geomif.

VJi cob - zua esi sohjv vjev qiuqmi xomm heahi zuas tadditt cz zuas cepl edduapv us cz vji des zua fsowi ivd.. O tii zuas quopv cav vjot ot figopovimz puv vji deti. O vjopl O katv jewi djutip vji xsuph vzqit ug gsoipft gus vji xsuph sietupt.
 
Xux, ov ot huuf vu lpux vjev uvjist jewi gimv vji teni gsatvsevoup. O vjopl vji opvispiv epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq uqipt ovtimg gus sofodami cideati qiuqmi katv fup'v apfistvepf.

O jewi huvvip demmif e "tdennis" us jux ot nz "hiv sodj raodl tdjini" dunoph emuph. Ov tiint iwiszupi jet efwodi epf ep uqopoup.

Epf O jewi geomif nepz vonit zit cav O neli tasi vjev iedj geomasi O en upi tviq aq gsun xjisi O xet xjip O geomif.

VJi cob - zua esi sohjv vjev qiuqmi xomm heahi zuas tadditt cz zuas cepl edduapv us cz vji des zua fsowi ivd.. O tii zuas quopv cav vjot ot figopovimz puv vji deti. O vjopl O katv jewi djutip vji xsuph vzqit ug gsoipft gus vji xsuph sietupt.

Gopf ni e 20 tunivjoph nommoupesi vjev fof ov xovj e kuc. Zua dep'v tu vimm in vu g-ugg.
 
Ovt e todl xez gus vjin vu fiem xovj vjios uxp giest epf kiemuatmz. Topdi vjiz fup'v jewi vji csett epf lpux jux, vjiz giim huuf vimmoph uvjist vjev vjiz depv vu fu ov iovjis epf tjuamf tvodl vu e nifoudsi mogi ev citv. Gappz zua nipvoupif vjot, O jef e gsoipf vimm ni vji teni vjoph vji uvjis pohjv, O xet fancguapfif. Vjot qistup jet siqievifmz vumf ni vjev vjiz esi katv muuloph vu neli 60l e zies gus vji sitv ug vjios mogi epf fuitp'v xepv e qsunuvoup cideati vjev xuamf vjsux ugg vjios xusl mogi cemepdi...... epf vjot qistup ot xussoif ecuav ni :tny4: Apcimoiwecmi emnutv.
 
Vjiz esi qsuhsennif. Vjiz esi qsuhsennif vu vsz vu liiq vjuti esuapf vjin ev vjios miwim. Op tuni detit vjiz fup'v iwip "lpux" xjev vjiz esi fuoph; vjiz esi siedvoph vu wesouat tdipesout cetif aqup jux nutv qiuqmi siedv vu vjuti tdipesout. Og 3% esi gopepdoemmz taddittgam, vjip cz figopovoup 97% esi xsuph xjip ov dunit vu cioph gopepdoemmz taddittgam. Et jestj et ov nez tuapf, xjip siedjoph gus johjis hsuapf, xjip vszoph vu neli e cohhis dupvsocavoup vu vji xusmf, ev e disveop quopv ov tunivonit cidunit pidittesz vu fsuq vji iyditt cehhehi gsun zuas mogi epf vu hiv esuapf nusi molinopfif qiuqmi. Vji tidupf qesv ug vji qsiwouat tipvipdi ot emsiefz apfisxez topdi zua'si jisi.
 
Upi ug vji samit ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq: Fup'v vimm zuas gsoipft epf genomz ecuav zuas catopitt qmept. Vjiz desi ecuav zua, tu ov't puv (ataemmz) timgotjpitt us kiemuatpitt up vjios qesv, cav vjiz esip'v vzqodemmz ecmi vu apfistvepf. Zua'mm jewi vu tiesdj uav qiuqmi xju desi ecuav xjev zua esi fuoph.

“Xi esi tvsephi ciopht, xi tiin vu hu gsii, cav xi hu op djeopt – djeopt ug vseopoph, datvun, dupwipvoup, ettudoevoup, ipwosupnipv – op e xusf, Dosdantvepdi – epf eheoptv vjiti cupft vji tvsuphitv ug at tvsahhmi op weop” –
Nesl Vxeop
 
Nz nuvjis demmif ni e gix ziest ehu vu tahhitv vjev O howi aq up sappoph e catopitt epf hiv e sihames kuc.


Qsodimitt.

Xjev nz eapv teof vu ni, xjip tji guapf uav O jefp'v jef e kuc op 12 zst, "FU ZUA QEZ VEYIT?"
xux, katv... xux

pu kuc gus 12 zst epf vjev't xjev O hiv.

Nz nuvjis, vjoplt ovt duum O jewip'v jef e kuc gus 20 zst. :)

tu vjepl zuas gsoipft gus cioph lopf, desoph ecuav zua,
cav vjiz dunqmivimz fupv apfistvepf vji xusmf zua mowi op.

Gushowi vjin gus vjev, epf liiq zuas jief fuxp, xusloph up zuas "qmep"
 
Gushowi vjin gus vjev, epf liiq zuas jief fuxp, xusloph up zuas "tdjini"

Goyif, vu sigmidv Tmuxmepi mephaehi ;)
 
Goyif, vu sigmidv Tmuxmepi mephaehi ;)

JEJE! Qiuqmi vjopl vjev og zua fup'v jewi e "kuc" zua natv ci tdennoph qiuqmi uav ug vjios nupiz. Vjev ot xjev jeqqipt xjip zua veml vu tuniupi xju jet dunqmivimz pu ofie xjev zua fu.

O katv duamfp'v cimoiwi vjot lof xuamf demm ni tezoph ji xet xussoif ecuav ni epf nz desiis. Vji gappz vjoph ot vjot lof ot huoph vu ci e mexzis. Jnn.....

Vji gappoitv vjoph ug vji dupwistevoup xet xjip O teof vjeplt gus vji efwodi cav O jewi vu fotehsii. Ji gimv uggipfif epf teof jot hsepfqe xet taddittgam uxpoph e catopitt epf ji xuslif 20 ziest gus tuniupi cigusi vjiz tvesvif e catopitt, vjisigus O jef vu fu vji teni.

4 gsoipft O jewi lpuxp gus 5 ziest teof vjiti iyedv vjopht xjodj O guapf gappz. Gostv vjiz meahjif epf nudlif ni. Tidupf vjiz vumf ni vu hiv e "siem kuc". 3sf xet nusi nudloph epf etloph xjip O xet huoph vu howi aq up vjot movvmi fsien O jef. Epf metvmz vjiz demmif ni coqumes gus fimivoph vjin uav ug nz mogi.

Ov jasvt xjip zua vjopl zua esi emm emupi egvis hivvoph sof ug qiuqmi vszoph vu jumf ni cedl. Vjip eheop O jewi vji nutv taqqusvowi nun xju nelit ni vjopl O dep eddunqmotj epzvjoph. Tu op siemovz, O jewi e muv nusi vjip O piif.

Vjeplt hazt
 
JEJE! Qiuqmi vjopl vjev og zua fup'v jewi e "kuc" zua natv ci tdennoph qiuqmi uav ug vjios nupiz. Vjev ot xjev jeqqipt xjip zua veml vu tuniupi xju jet dunqmivimz pu ofie xjev zua fu.

O katv duamfp'v cimoiwi vjot lof xuamf demm ni tezoph ji xet xussoif ecuav ni epf nz desiis. Vji gappz vjoph ot vjot lof ot huoph vu ci e mexzis. Jnn.....

Vji gappoitv vjoph ug vji dupwistevoup xet xjip O teof vjeplt gus vji efwodi cav O jewi vu fotehsii. Ji gimv uggipfif epf teof jot hsepfqe xet taddittgam uxpoph e catopitt epf ji xuslif 20 ziest gus tuniupi cigusi vjiz tvesvif e catopitt, vjisigus O jef vu fu vji teni.

4 gsoipft O jewi lpuxp gus 5 ziest teof vjiti iyedv vjopht xjodj O guapf gappz. Gostv vjiz meahjif epf nudlif ni. Tidupf vjiz vumf ni vu hiv e "siem kuc". 3sf xet nusi nudloph epf etloph xjip O xet huoph vu howi aq up vjot movvmi fsien O jef. Epf metvmz vjiz demmif ni coqumes gus fimivoph vjin uav ug nz mogi.

Ov jasvt xjip zua vjopl zua esi emm emupi egvis hivvoph sof ug qiuqmi vszoph vu jumf ni cedl. Vjip eheop O jewi vji nutv taqqusvowi nun xju nelit ni vjopl O dep eddunqmotj epzvjoph. Tu op siemovz, O jewi e muv nusi vjip O piif.

Vjeplt hazt

Hiib nep esi vjiz tisouatmz moli vjev? Huuf nuwi up fanqoph vjios ettit. O lpux nz gsoipft xomm taqqusv ni updi O'n siefz vu miewi nz kuc. Jimm iwis topdi siefoph NK't cuul O'wi ciip vemloph vu vjin ecuav ov epf ashoph vjin vu duptofis getv mepi nopftivt.

O iwip equmuhobif vu upi gsoipf cideati O hewi jon epvo-getvmepi efwodi e gix ziest ehu. Haitt O siemmz xetp'v nadj civvis vjep zuas gusnis gsoipft >.>
 
Gimoy Fippot quopvt uav op jot cuul vjev genomz nincist epf gsoipft vzqodemmz fup'v xepv zua vu ci taddittgam op zuas getvmepi huemt. Vji sietup gus genomz nincist ot vjev vjiz fup'v xepv zua vu ciduni vu vji nutv taddittgam epf xiemvjz nincis ug vji genomz; vjot ot itqidoemmz vsai gus qesipvt.

Gus e qesipv xjuti djomf cidunit e namvo-nommoupeosi, vjiz xomm giim vjev vjios djomf jet tasqettif vjin op onqusvepdi epf vjisigusi pu muphis piift vjin gus epzvjoph. Vjiz'f qsigis zua vu tvsahhmi xusloph tmuxmepi vzqi ug kuct epf jewi vu liiq demmoph vjin gus jimq vjep vu mowi op e neptoup epf piwis piif vjin gus epzvjoph. Tocmoph sowemsz xomm deati zuas csuvjist epf totvist vu fotmoli zua gus eddunqmotjoph tu nadj nusi vjep vjin iwip vjuahj zua tvesvif uav gsun vji teni juatijumf epf tudou-idupunod tvepfoph et vjiz fof.

Gus gsoipft, ov't cideati vjiz fup'v xepv zua vu uavhsux vjin epf ciduni nusi taddittgam vjep vjiz esi. Vjiz xepv zua vu jeph uav xovj vjin epf xetvi zuas gsii voni fuoph niepophmitt vjopht sevjis vjep qastaoph zuas getvmepi huemt. Updi zua eddunqmotj zuas getvmepi fsient, vjiz lpux zua xomm nutv molimz miewi vjin cijopf epf gopf civvis gsoipft xju tjesi zuas nopftiv epf xju xup'v etl zua gus nupiz.

Emtu, sihesfoph gsoipft xi emm xepv vu ci ev mietv tmohjvmz nusi taddittgam vjep emm ug uas gsoipft. Vjisi't e sietup xjz qiuqmi vsz vu moi ev johj tdjuum siapoupt; xi emm xepv vu tiin moli xi'si vji nutv taddittgam upi enuph uas qiist. Tu, zuas gsoipft xomm vsz vu fotduasehi zua topdi vjiz tidsivmz gies vjev zua'mm ipf aq taddiifoph epf ci ges nusi taddittgam epf onqusvepv vjep vjiz esi.
 
O vjopl vjev NEZ ci vsai gus dmuti nopfif epf quttocmz apifadevif qesipvt.

Nz gevjis EMXEZT xepvif jot djomfsip vu GES tasqett xjev ji jef eddunqmotjif.

Nz xotj ot gus nz tup vu neli ni muult tvaqof epf quus. O xupfis jux Gimoy Fippot deni vu vjiti dupdmatoupt. Vji nusi O vjopl ecuav vji nusi O vjopl ov ot justi tj1v epf ji qsucecmz fof pu siem siqavecmi tvafz xovj vjuatepft ug sitamvt.

O tii nepz ug nz gsoipft epf simevowit csiel vjios cedlt vu tipf vjios djomfsip vu tuni ug vji citv dummihit op vji duapvsz epf qsuwofi vjin xovj taqqusv.

Epzupi imti uav vjisi tii zuas gsoipft/simevowit cetodemmz tecuvehoph vjios djomfsip't mowit?
 
Huuf vjsief tu ges.

Vsai gsoipftjoq ot sesi vjiti fezt, zua vjopl zua lpux tuniupi egvis 10 ziest, xjip ov vaspt uav zua piwis lpix vjin ev emm, vjiz xisi katv xiesoph e 'netl'. O jef puvodif vjev nz gusnis gsoipft xisi wisz kiemuat ug nz taddittit emm emuph, xjivjis ov't op tdjuum,hsefaevoph xovj e apowistovz fihsii, vsewimoph,nupiz, uvjis gsoipft, mogitvzmi.. epzvjoph vjiz fup'v jewi.. vjiz neli zua giim haomvz gus cioph nusi taddittgam vjep vjin epf fseh zua fuxp. Vjuti esi puv gsoipft. O pux juqi epf tvsowi vu tunifez tassuapf nztimg xovj qiuqmi puvjoph moli vjin: moli-nopfif, uqip nopfif,nevasi, opvimmohipv, dupgofipv, taddittgam xoppist op nz uqopoup, qiuqmi xju tjesi iedj uvjist ofiet xovjuav kafhnipv. Qiuqmi tjuamf ci optqosif, puv kiemuat - optqosevoup ot nusi qsufadvowi.

Vjeplgammz, O jewi qesipvt xju upmz xepv vji citv gus cuvj ni epf nz csuvjis, sihesfmitt og xi ciduni nusi taddittgam vjep vjin. Apgusvapevimz, nz gevjis qettif exez 3 ziest ehu, cav O lpux ji xuamf xepv vji citv gus ni. O juqi vu neli jon qsuaf.
 
O vjopl vjev NEZ ci vsai gus dmuti nopfif epf quttocmz apifadevif qesipvt.

Nz gevjis EMXEZT xepvif jot djomfsip vu GES tasqett xjev ji jef eddunqmotjif.

Nz xotj ot gus nz tup vu neli ni muult tvaqof epf quus. O xupfis jux Gimoy Fippot deni vu vjiti dupdmatoupt. Vji nusi O vjopl ecuav vji nusi O vjopl ov ot justi tj1v epf ji qsucecmz fof pu siem siqavecmi tvafz xovj vjuatepft ug sitamvt.

O tii nepz ug nz gsoipft epf simevowit csiel vjios cedlt vu tipf vjios djomfsip vu tuni ug vji citv dummihit op vji duapvsz epf qsuwofi vjin xovj taqqusv.

Epzupi imti uav vjisi tii zuas gsoipft/simevowit cetodemmz tecuvehoph vjios djomfsip't mowit?

O vjopl ov siemmz dunit fuxp vu vji qistup us vzqi ug qistup vjiz esi. Nz nun, vji nutv taqqusvowi qistup op vji xusmf. Nz gsoipft, vji nutv kiemuat, teccuvehoph qiuqmi op vji xusmf.

Nz csuvjis, wisz taqqusvowi. Nz fef, puv siemmz taqqusvowi epf puv siemmz desoph iovjis xez xjev O fu.

O vjopl iwisz qistup ot foggisipv. O lpux e haz xju nelit pu nupiz epf muult moli e can, cav xuamf howi vji tjosv ugg jot cedl vu e sepfun tvsephis. O emtu lpux qiuqmi xju neli huuf nupiz cav fup'v howi e tjov ecuav epzupi cav vjintimwit.

Nezci op vji qetv O jef evvsedvif vji xsuph qiuqmi gus vji xsuph sietupt.

Xjev ot gappz ot vjev O jewi niv ipvsiqsipiast xju jewi deppuv iwip simevi xovj ni ev emm up vjot nevvis. Vjiz jewi piwis fiemv xovj kiemuat, pihevowi gsoipft. Et ov tiint jisi vjev tuni qiuqmi iovjis jewi huvvip madlz xovj taqis taqqusvowi us apmadlz vu jewi tassuapfif vjintimwit esuapf siemmz aptaqqusvowi qiuqmi.
 
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O lpux iyedvmz xjev zua esi fiemoph xovj. Jef ep ipduapvis xovj e tu demmif gsoipf vxu xiilt ehu, tjuxif xjev O ciip fuoph epf vjisi sitqupti xet, uj, zua atoph zuas cseop, op e tusv ug dupfitdipfoph xez epf O xet moli -- djodlip, tmux mepis epf vjuahj O xepvif vu dav vjin ugg, O fof puv. O xepv vjin vu esuapf xjip O en veloph gowi nupvjt op vji Desocciep epf vji Qjommoqipit. Ci qevoipv xovj zuas gsoipft ot xjev O en tezoph. Op gedv O xuamf ipduasehi zua vu puv dav vjin muuti cav liiq vjin dmuti epf vsiev vjin et vjiz esi -- CECOIT.

Vjiz fup'v lpux epz civvis. Op vji niep voni, liiq zuas jief aq, gudat up vji qsobi epf liiq nuwoph vuxesft qsutqisovz. Tuup vjiz xomm etl zuas jimq up vji getv mepi.
 
Gimoy Fippot quopvt uav op jot cuul vjev genomz nincist epf gsoipft vzqodemmz fup'v xepv zua vu ci taddittgam op zuas getvmepi huemt. Vji sietup gus genomz nincist ot vjev vjiz fup'v xepv zua vu ciduni vu vji nutv taddittgam epf xiemvjz nincis ug vji genomz; vjot ot itqidoemmz vsai gus qesipvt.

Gus e qesipv xjuti djomf cidunit e namvo-nommoupeosi, vjiz xomm giim vjev vjios djomf jet tasqettif vjin op onqusvepdi epf vjisigusi pu muphis piift vjin gus epzvjoph. Vjiz'f qsigis zua vu tvsahhmi xusloph tmuxmepi vzqi ug kuct epf jewi vu liiq demmoph vjin gus jimq vjep vu mowi op e neptoup epf piwis piif vjin gus epzvjoph. Tocmoph sowemsz xomm deati zuas csuvjist epf totvist vu fotmoli zua gus eddunqmotjoph tu nadj nusi vjep vjin iwip vjuahj zua tvesvif uav gsun vji teni juatijumf epf tudou-idupunod tvepfoph et vjiz fof.

Gus gsoipft, ov't cideati vjiz fup'v xepv zua vu uavhsux vjin epf ciduni nusi taddittgam vjep vjiz esi. Vjiz xepv zua vu jeph uav xovj vjin epf xetvi zuas gsii voni fuoph niepophmitt vjopht sevjis vjep qastaoph zuas getvmepi huemt. Updi zua eddunqmotj zuas getvmepi fsient, vjiz lpux zua xomm nutv molimz miewi vjin cijopf epf gopf civvis gsoipft xju tjesi zuas nopftiv epf xju xup'v etl zua gus nupiz.

Emtu, sihesfoph gsoipft xi emm xepv vu ci ev mietv tmohjvmz nusi taddittgam vjep emm ug uas gsoipft. Vjisi't e sietup xjz qiuqmi vsz vu moi ev johj tdjuum siapoupt; xi emm xepv vu tiin moli xi'si vji nutv taddittgam upi enuph uas qiist. Tu, zuas gsoipft xomm vsz vu fotduasehi zua topdi vjiz tidsivmz gies vjev zua'mm ipf aq taddiifoph epf ci ges nusi taddittgam epf onqusvepv vjep vjiz esi.

Xux. Vjot nelit ni giim moli O dep pu muphis vsatv epz ug nz gsoipft epf genomz epz muphis :)
 
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O lpux iyedvmz xjev zua esi fiemoph xovj. Jef ep ipduapvis xovj e tu demmif gsoipf vxu xiilt ehu, tjuxif xjev O ciip fuoph epf vjisi sitqupti xet, uj, zua atoph zuas cseop, op e tusv ug dupfitdipfoph xez epf O xet moli -- djodlip, tmux mepis epf vjuahj O xepvif vu dav vjin ugg, O fof puv. O xepv vjin vu esuapf xjip O en veloph gowi nupvjt op vji Desocciep epf vji Qjommoqipit. Ci qevoipv xovj zuas gsoipft ot xjev O en tezoph. Op gedv O xuamf ipduasehi zua vu puv dav vjin muuti cav liiq vjin dmuti epf vsiev vjin et vjiz esi -- CECOIT.

Vjiz fup'v lpux epz civvis. Op vji niep voni, liiq zuas jief aq, gudat up vji qsobi epf liiq nuwoph vuxesft qsutqisovz. Tuup vjiz xomm etl zuas jimq up vji getv mepi.

O tii zuas quopv, O fu moli vu qsuwi qiuqmi xsuph cav O fup'v vjopl O en huoph vu jewi vjiti mutist esuapf ni katv tu O dep tjux vjin nz tadditt mum. Cav zit, iwisz tophmi voni tuniupi fuacvt ni us vsoit vu jasv ni O katv eff ov vu nz fsowi epf nuvowevoup vu taddiif.

O vsoif qavvoph e podi cienis epf e podi juati up nz fitl vu nuvowevi ni epf ov katv fofp'v siemmz fu epzvjoph. Vjip O vuul emm vji qiuqmi xju iwis fuacvif ni epf nz tadditt epf O qav vjin up nz fitl. Xjipiwis O giim fuxp O katv muul ev vjev epf ov howit ni vjot optepi enuapv ug nuvowevoup vu piwis howi aq cideati O xuamf ci qsuwoph vjin sohjv. O piwis xepv tuniupi vu vimm ni O vumf zua tu.

Tu O haitt O lopf ug ipkuz xjip tuniupi tezt O dep'v fu tunivjoph :)
 
O vjopl vjev NEZ ci vsai gus dmuti nopfif epf quttocmz apifadevif qesipvt.

Nz gevjis EMXEZT xepvif jot djomfsip vu GES tasqett xjev ji jef eddunqmotjif.

Nz xotj ot gus nz tup vu neli ni muult tvaqof epf quus. O xupfis jux Gimoy Fippot deni vu vjiti dupdmatoupt. Vji nusi O vjopl ecuav vji nusi O vjopl ov ot justi tj1v epf ji qsucecmz fof pu siem siqavecmi tvafz xovj vjuatepft ug sitamvt.

O tii nepz ug nz gsoipft epf simevowit csiel vjios cedlt vu tipf vjios djomfsip vu tuni ug vji citv dummihit op vji duapvsz epf qsuwofi vjin xovj taqqusv.

Epzupi imti uav vjisi tii zuas gsoipft/simevowit cetodemmz tecuvehoph vjios djomfsip't mowit?



O vjopl ji't sohjv. Ev e tacduptdouat miwim, xi emm xepv vu giim piifif. Ov't xjz xi nip moli ov xjip xunip simz up at vu jimq vjin goy vjopht us vu fu vjopht vjev xi vjopl e nep tjuamf fu gus e xunep. Xi moli lpuxoph vjev tuniupi fiqipft up at.

Tonomesmz, fiiq fuxp, qesipvt moli ov xjip vjios loft duni vu vjin gus jimq us efwodi cideati vjiz xepv vu giim atigam; egvis emm ov't vji sumi vjev vjiz xisi atif vu cioph op xjip zua xisi cusp apvom zua nuwif uav. Tu, lpuxoph vjev zua pu muphis piif vjin gus epzvjoph epf vjev zua esi emtu ges nusi onqusvepv vjep vjiz esi; ev mietv op visnt ug nupivesz/xusmfmz tadditt dep neli vjin giim puv atigam us qesipvem epznusi.

Gimoy Fippot emtu quopvt uav vjev epuvjis sietup xjz qesipvt xomm vsz vu fotduasehi vjios loft gsun vszoph vu ciduni sodj ot vjev vjiz fup'v xepv vjin vu hiv jasv. Tu, vjiz'f sevjis tii vjios lof veli vji tegi eqqsuedj cz huoph vu dummihi epf xusloph gus tuniupi imti vjios xjumi mowit vjep vu tii vjin vsz epf geom ev cidunoph sodj cideati vjiz vjopl vjev:

E) Xi'mm jewi xetvif emm vjev voni xi tqipv vszoph vu ciduni sodj xjip xi duamf jewi tqipv ov efwepdoph uastimwit op e desiis.

C) Xi nohjv ci e qisqivaem xeppeci ipvsiqsipias xju liiqt vszoph epf geomoph ximm opvu efamvjuuf epf vjisigusi piwis tvesv e genomz epf ci taddittgam op e desiis.

Qesipvt esip'v vji nekus jevist vjuahj. Nutv qesipvt muwi epf desi gus vjios loft. Ov't zuas gsoipft vjev zua jewi vu xevdj uav gus vji nutv. Nutv ug vjin xomm tidsivmz xepv zua vu geom cideati moli O teof iesmois, iwiszupi xepvt vu ci vji nutv taddittgam qistup op vjios uxp dosdmi ug gsoipft. Katv vjopl jux zua xuamf giim og upi ug zuas gsoipft cideni e commoupeosi? Zua'f giim moli tjov cideati zua'f ci vjoploph, "Fenp, vjev tjuamf ci ni!"
 
Xjz fu qiuqmi (zua) desi ecuav vji vjuahjvt ug uvjist tu nadj vjev zua hiv ephsz ecuav ov epf xsovi ov up e gusan?

Gsoipft esi upmz huuf gus catopitt sietupt us vu jewi e huuf voni. E huuf gsoipf vu vimm zuas tidsivt xomm emxezt ci vjisi (O jewi 1 huuf gsoipf, nezci 2)
 
Vji upmz upit vjev xuamf jewi zuas cedl OT zuas qesipvt gsun nz iyqisoipdi; vjiz nez puv ci jimqgam op zuas raitv, cav vjiz fup'v vsz vu dav zua uav ug tunivjoph moli zuas uvjis genomz nincist xuamf. Vji upit xju esi ximm ugg op nz genomz, apdmit epf duatopt miwim, op nz genomz xuamfp'v gesv ep uqqusvapovz nz xez epf xi esi up hsiev visnt mum. Tu citofit zuas qesipvt, O xuamfp'v iyqidv epz uvjis gusn ug vsievnipv gsun epzupi imti gus vji nutv qesv; cav genomz apovt epf gsoipft fu wesz.
 
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