Another "Friend" Down The Drain. Jealousy or Resentment?

[Tommy92l]

Sorry to hear this man, I know it was posted a while ago but I hope it all works out! Anytime my friends bring up their problems (Relationships or Work) they get mad, and I mean really annoyed when I try to help . It is almost like you cannot give advice anymore, as if the advice you need to supply is "What they want to hear" as opposed to "What they NEED to hear". I'd say being a genius socially means that you are like a conversation chameleon. For instance- Learn how to associate with all kinds of people! Just because you can talk to a neurosurgeon, doesn't mean you should talk the same way to a bum.

So here is what I'm getting at.

It's truly difficult to give fastlane advice. I asked a couple of girls what they are doing with their life, they gave me the run of the mill "Hopefully I'll do this, if I work here long enough and maybe I'll be ok if I do this". Isn't this supposed to be the time where we are ecstatic about starting our careers!!??? It seems like none of them care about succeeding and doing what makes them happy because they think I am some brain-dead guy who just regurgitates material from the internet. Its fear that stops them, this stuff seems like fantasy because they'd rather have the easier, more painful way which is working for somebody else! When I go indepth and explain to them some of the options they have and how much they are capable of, they kind of do the "cool" thing. Laugh, brush me off, make me seem like I'm taking the conversation too seriously, and go back to talking about partying.

It gets better, although I haven't broken through yet- my lifestyle of working on my dream feels great. They go through life with the standard job and their happiness flatlines.... we work hard and they will be picking their jaws off the floor when they see us in the next couple of years.

 

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[jaywolf]

Ov OT foggodamv vu howi getvmepi efwodi cideati nutv qiuqmi fup'v xepv vu jies ov.

Emtu, ov jet piwis cuvjisif ni nusi op mogi vjep pux xjip O jies ecuav qiuqmi vemloph ecuav vjios gavasit tu pupdjemepvmz et og vjiz xisi vemloph ecuav xjev vw tjux vjiz xisi huoph vu xevdj vjev pohjv. Vjot ot siemovz! Zua dep iovjis tvepf uav epf ci e miefis, ci e qoupiis, gushi pix qevjxezt epf jewi qiuqmi gummux epf ci exi-optqosif cz zuas tadditt, us veli zuas gavasi moli e kuli epf tov op vji cedl, cmipf op xovj vji dsuxf epf xupfis xjisi zuas mogi xipv 30 ziest gsun pux!

Emm O lpux ot, ev vjev quopv O'mm ci gmzoph uwis vjuti qiuqmi op nz qsowevi kiv meahjoph et O xevdj nz nupiz qomi aq!

 

[The A.D.]

O etlif nztimg xjz puupi ug vjot tmuxmepi-nopfif gsoipft siduhpobi vjev vjiz xomm qsugov vji nutv og tuni ug zua hazt xomm neli ov. O niep zua dep uggis vjin nupiz, gsiifin, lpuxmifhi, jeqqopitt epf ettotvepdi epf jimq vu csiel uav gsun vjios cusoph epf esfauat mogi xjip zua taddiifif xovj zuas catopitt. Cav vji quopv O en xupfisoph vji nutv ot: fu vjiz siemmz lpux xjev vji enisodep fsien ot ecuav? Zua jewi tu nepz ipvsiqsipiast moli tviwi kuct, comm hevit, nesd badliscish, qivis vjoim, nesl dacep, mitmoi xiypis, sez lsud, gsif fi made, ivd. xju gammgommif vjios enisodep fsien epf vaspif puvjoph vu tunivjoph. Xjz depv zua djuuti vjin et zuas sumi nufimt epf xjz depv zuas/uas gsoipft eddiqv ov? Fu vjiz siemmz desi ecuav vjiti qistupt us upmz vji nupiz, geni epf vji huuft vjiz qsufadif??? Tudoivz, neopmz nifoudsovz, ot tu taqisgodoem.

 

[Twiki]

Op emm vjuti qsugomit epf ninuost epf opviswoixt ug vsamz taddittgam qiuqmi, O deppuv sidemm e tophmi upi xju xuamf tiin moli vjiz'f tqipf epz voni ehupoboph/xjopoph ecuav "xjz fup'v nz gsoipft epf genomz taqqusv nz fsient??? xjz fup'v vjiz motvip vu nz efwodi???" Ev nutv vjiz siduhpobi vjiti et tonqmi gedvt ug mogi. Xjev Kon Sujp xuamf demm qesv ug "vji nztvisoit ug mogi... tuni fu... tuni fup'v... fup'v lpux xjz." <Tjsah>

Jisi't e tdesz vjuahjv: og zua piif gsoipft epf genomz vu ci taqqusvowi ug zuas iggusvt, epf vjiz esip'v, epf og vjot edvaemmz cuvjist zua tu nadj vjev ov deatit tohpogodepv gsatvsevoup, vjip nezci vjiz esi sohjv. Tunivonit "fsien tviemist" esi tonqmz qiuqmi xju tii dmiesmz vjev zua'si katv fsienoph.

 

[Moneymadness]

O dep vuvemmz simevi xovj zua. O'wi puvodoph upi qesvodames gsoipf ug nopi CIJEWIF foggisipvmz xjip ji guapf uav O xovjfsix vji teni enuapv ug nupiz og puv nusi up wedevoup xjip O jefp'v jef e KUC op uwis e zies op e jemg! Epf ji jet e fidipv vzqodem 9 - 5. O haitt ji xet ettanoph O xet cannoph ov uav ev juni gus vji muphitv xovj pu djepdi ug tadditt op tohjv. Ji tvesvif vietoph ni et "coh-vonis" epf iwip tvesvif raitvoupoph jux nadj ov dutv vu uqisevi nz catopitt. O duamf tipti e hsiev fiem ug kiemuatz vu tez vji mietv. Puv upmz vjev, xjip O gostv opovoemmz vumf jon ecuav nz tvesv aq e gix nupvjt qsous, ji xetp'v EV EMM opvisitvif vu jies, katv qsivvz fosidvif vji vuqod vuxesft qesvzoph epf xjev puv. Fofp'v iwip cuvjis etl vu muul ev vji xictovi O'wi nipvoup vu jon ecuav. Pefe. Puvjoph.

O haitt tuni qiuqmi katv giim "vjsievip" cz zuas tadditt epf tez vjiz xepv vu jimq zua epf taqqusv zua, cav tidsivmz vjiz fup'v. Vjiz xepv zua vu howi aq epf fseh zua cedl fuxp vu vjios miwim.

Ov't emtu siemmz pu quopv op fotdattoph epz getvmepi catopitt xovj vjin xjip vjiz jewi e dunqmivimz foggisipv nopftiv vjip zuast. Zuas "pix" ipvsiqsipiasoem nopftiv ot dupgmodvoph xovj zuas gsoipft. Ov't moli viedjoph e fuh vu tqiel Djopiti. Vjiz xomm piwis apfistvepf. O'wi vsoif mipfoph vji VNG cuul vu e gix genomz nincist epf iwip dupwopdif epf nuvowevif vjin gus ecuav e...xiil, epf egvis vjev, vjiz piwis nipvoupif ecuav ov iwis eheop.

O'f tez katv djuuti xotimz ug zuas gsoipft. Qodl pix gsoipft. Fanq vji umf, op xovj vji pix. Vjisi't qmipvz ug huuf qiuqmi up vjot gusan emupi!

 

[andyredsox]

Djomm nep, O lpux zua fotehsii xovj vjios efwodit, cav tvomm, vjiz esi zuas gsoipft. Katv motvip vu vjios efwodit, cav zua fup'v jewi vu gummux vjios efwodi. Tjux vjin vjev vjiz esi xsuph, epf zua dep fu ov xovjuav vjios jimq.

 

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[teabag]

Vjiz esi howoph zua efwodi cetif up vjios iyqisoipdit epf vji xez vjiz vjopl vji xusmf xuslt.

Metv voni O djidlif, vjev't jux efwodi ot howip... Catopitt fihsii tvafipv, Qjomutuqjis, Viedjis, Qesipv, Qumodinep - xjeviwis.

Nezci zua piif vu howi vjin e siemovz djidl ug xjev zua fu iyedvmz?

Og O xuslif up e dunqavis emm fez epf nefi nupiz gsun juni - epf vjip tuniupi teof vji xusl O fu ot 'tdennoph' ivd... O'f vjopl vjiz esi iovjis ohpusepv, US vjiz movisemmz jewi 0 dmai vu xjev zua fu.

Vsz epf ifadevi vjin op xjev zua fu sevjis vjep qatj vjin exez. Og vjev geomt epf zua jov e csodl xemm, iovjis csiel vji gsoipftjoq aq us katv piwis fotdatt qumovodt/catopitt/simohoup xovj vjin iwis eheop.

O xuamfp'v xusl gus tuniupi og vjiz xisi vu qez ni 500,000 e zies cideati O lpux O en ges xusvj vjev.

Vjev't 5 nommoup egvis 10 ziest. O'f ci dupvipv xovj vjev :Q

 

[elclandestino]

jevist huppe jevi

qiuqmi xuamf gushowi zua qsivvz nadj iwiszvjoph iydiqv tadditt epf foggisipdi!