Authenticity over attachment

[beyondpraise]

People when they're born, they have two basic needs; authenticity and attachment.

Attachment is due to our parents providing us with resources and survival, if were not attached to them, we would die

Authenticity is our needs, wants, instincts and true selves independent of other people and attachment

People pleasers, indecisive people, unsuccessful, inconsistent, afraid of mistakes individuals are attachment over authenticity

Independent, detached, relaxed, focused, highly successful, smart, always learning and super achievers are authenticity over attachment

I am the first type and it had a lot of payoffs
I read almost hundred books, talked to a lot of people, and gained knowledge necessary to make my dreams come true, but here is one BIG problem with my exact concrete situation of being too attached

I won't get enough, always reading and re-reading books, talking about problems even while knowing the solutions, knowing what to do, why, when, which, where but never doing it because of some certain block to my true self, still dependent on people
I know how to solve this problem that you're reading about right now, but still
I am afraid and don't want to solve it, there is this intrinsic need for approval, maybe fear, guilt, whatever it is, karma, archetypes, horoscopes, personality type, curse,

I will continue on the comments

 

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[beyondpraise]

I am disconnected and estranged from this world and myself, feels like a complete delusion, there is no real me, only an entity, something illusory,

Paradox of choice is when there is an abundance of choices and one cannot decide

Paradox of knowledge is my problem, there is an EXCESS of knowledge on one singular topic, and everyone say they're right EVEN though they contradict each other and there is this fear of being WRONG or being my true self to be honest, that makes me FOLLOW other people, and the moment there is contradiction
I am lost again, because too many opinions, nothing seems right but everyone say their is truth
People judge too much, they never prospect
I judge too less, always prospecting
I wanna have balance between authenticity and attachment, and most important
Judgment and prospection, because it is making me insane right now

 

[beyondpraise]

I really need F*cking balance between wrong and right, prospecting and judging, attachment and authenticity, consistency and inconsistency

Whoever understood me, thank you in advance, because this shit is really making me sick

I took some tests and one day ENTP and the second day ENTJ, it is way too f*cked up because they're in extreme
97% prospecting, then 97% judging, what the hell is that?
Some kinda f*cking trauma or joke from our creator?

I know that personality isn't permanent, but yet it is, but yet it is half true, but yet it is 1/4 true, what the hell?

Truth and falsehood, what is happening to me, it is really making me anxious and F*cking stressed

As if there is BIG internal hole inside of me

 

[beyondpraise]

I really need F*cking balance between wrong and right, prospecting and judging, attachment and authenticity, consistency and inconsistency

Whoever understood me, thank you in advance, because this shit is really making me sick

I took some tests and one day ENTP and the second day ENTJ, it is way too f*cked up because they're in extreme
97% prospecting, then 97% judging, what the hell is that?
Some kinda f*cking trauma or joke from our creator?

I know that personality isn't permanent, but yet it is, but yet it is half true, but yet it is 1/4 true, what the hell?

Truth and falsehood, what is happening to me, it is really making me anxious and F*cking stressed

As if there is BIG internal hole inside of me

Bipolar personality disorder?
I do not believe in mental disorders, yet
I do believe in them, yet
I can't believe in them, yet
I won't believe in them, plus

There is THOUSANDS of rushing opinions inside of me,
I am afraid to pick one, maybe it is wrong?
Where is truth, permanent me, there is no real me,
I simply am not there

 

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[Andy Black]

People when they're born, they have two basic needs; authenticity and attachment.

Attachment is due to our parents providing us with resources and survival, if were not attached to them, we would die

Authenticity is our needs, wants, instincts and true selves independent of other people and attachment

People pleasers, indecisive people, unsuccessful, inconsistent, afraid of mistakes individuals are attachment over authenticity

Independent, detached, relaxed, focused, highly successful, smart, always learning and super achievers are authenticity over attachment

I am the first type and it had a lot of payoffs
I read almost hundred books, talked to a lot of people, and gained knowledge necessary to make my dreams come true, but here is one BIG problem with my exact concrete situation of being too attached

I won't get enough, always reading and re-reading books, talking about problems even while knowing the solutions, knowing what to do, why, when, which, where but never doing it because of some certain block to my true self, still dependent on people
I know how to solve this problem that you're reading about right now, but still
I am afraid and don't want to solve it, there is this intrinsic need for approval, maybe fear, guilt, whatever it is, karma, archetypes, horoscopes, personality type, curse,

I will continue on the comments

I am disconnected and estranged from this world and myself, feels like a complete delusion, there is no real me, only an entity, something illusory,

Paradox of choice is when there is an abundance of choices and one cannot decide

Paradox of knowledge is my problem, there is an EXCESS of knowledge on one singular topic, and everyone say they're right EVEN though they contradict each other and there is this fear of being WRONG or being my true self to be honest, that makes me FOLLOW other people, and the moment there is contradiction
I am lost again, because too many opinions, nothing seems right but everyone say their is truth
People judge too much, they never prospect
I judge too less, always prospecting
I wanna have balance between authenticity and attachment, and most important
Judgment and prospection, because it is making me insane right now

I really need F*cking balance between wrong and right, prospecting and judging, attachment and authenticity, consistency and inconsistency

Whoever understood me, thank you in advance, because this shit is really making me sick

I took some tests and one day ENTP and the second day ENTJ, it is way too f*cked up because they're in extreme
97% prospecting, then 97% judging, what the hell is that?
Some kinda f*cking trauma or joke from our creator?

I know that personality isn't permanent, but yet it is, but yet it is half true, but yet it is 1/4 true, what the hell?

Truth and falsehood, what is happening to me, it is really making me anxious and F*cking stressed

As if there is BIG internal hole inside of me

Bipolar personality disorder?
I do not believe in mental disorders, yet
I do believe in them, yet
I can't believe in them, yet
I won't believe in them, plus

There is THOUSANDS of rushing opinions inside of me,
I am afraid to pick one, maybe it is wrong?
Where is truth, permanent me, there is no real me,
I simply am not there

What's your goal?

You seem to be overthinking a lot. I'm worried you might need professional help. Please check if you need help.

I did a video that might help you get over your desire to learn your way out of problems:

MINDSET - Start Faster. Stop "Learning".

If you're just getting started, haven't made a sale, or feel you're spinning your wheels then this 8 minute video should help. It's pulled out of a longer call (also linked below). Curious what your main takeaways are, and what you'll do different going forward. View...

www.thefastlaneforum.com

 

[Rachinrabindra]

We have to love our parents also others. you written is really appreciable. people nowadays forget everything and can't balance on authenticity and attachment.

 

[beyondpraise]

What's your goal?

You seem to be overthinking a lot. I'm worried you might need professional help. Please check if you need help.

I did a video that might help you get over your desire to learn your way out of problems:

MINDSET - Start Faster. Stop "Learning".

If you're just getting started, haven't made a sale, or feel you're spinning your wheels then this 8 minute video should help. It's pulled out of a longer call (also linked below). Curious what your main takeaways are, and what you'll do different going forward. View...

www.thefastlaneforum.com

My goal is to create my own religion/philosophy, by showing how it can fully transcend people's problems and get them what they want.

 

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[beyondpraise]

My goal is to create my own religion/philosophy, by showing how it can fully transcend people's problems and get them what they want.

I must build a business, physique, mental strength, relationships and abundance in success to have validity to speak things to people.

 

[Andy Black]

My goal is to create my own religion/philosophy, by showing how it can fully transcend people's problems and get them what they want.

I must build a business, physique, mental strength, relationships and abundance in success to have validity to speak things to people.

Helping people solve problems and get what they want is the cornerstone of business.

The other half is getting paid.

How will you earn money?

 

[beyondpraise]

Helping people solve problems and get what they want is the cornerstone of business.

The other half is getting paid.

How will you earn money?

I will create communities and courses + blog about my exciting life after getting it
I will dropservice before that to earn money
Help find best talent combinations and create masterpiece solutions for others' businesses

 

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[Andy Black]

I will create communities and courses + blog about my exciting life after getting it
I will dropservice before that to earn money
Help find best talent combinations and create masterpiece solutions for others' businesses

I can't tell if you're serious or trolling us.

Who will you help? What will you help them with? How will you do it?

Can you help someone this week?

 

[beyondpraise]

I can't tell if you're serious or trolling us.

Who will you help? What will you help them with? How will you do it?

Can you help someone this week?

I am serious
I will help people on some group chat with their "happiness" problems by introducing them to problem solving method based on letting go of emotions, that is free, but they'll pay me money, capitalism baby,
I will simply create group chat and channel, post every week,
I will also wait month or two till my habits are accelerated and my lifestyle is changed into its full potential
I will then have a blog with travel, money, women, then help others do the same BY instructions and mentorship
I can do a call for 50$ this week probably

 

[Lex DeVille]

I am serious
I will help people on some group chat with their "happiness" problems by introducing them to problem solving method based on letting go of emotions, that is free, but they'll pay me money, capitalism baby,
I will simply create group chat and channel, post every week,
I will also wait month or two till my habits are accelerated and my lifestyle is changed into its full potential
I will then have a blog with travel, money, women, then help others do the same BY instructions and mentorship
I can do a call for 50$ this week probably

So get to it.

 

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[beyondpraise]

So get to it.

I will
Actually all this problem spitting helped me
Get food (emotional, spiritual, physical) and defend family (from all kinds of problems), only two things matter in this world to a man, nothing else actually does
Rest of the world doesn't matter
My problems, this sh*t with attachment over authenticity or whatever can be solved by this realization
Get and protect, it is like biological stuff in a man
Fame, status, prestige doesn't matter, only getting your goal and then protecting your family does