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This Post is about @JasonR.

It includes Boris, and Andrew, But its mostly about a young man I know and what has happened in the last 4 months.

Boris, Andrew and Jason Recently Put on BnP 2014. in Scottsdale. They did an awesome job, and I want to acknowledge how much a$$ they kicked putting this together.

to me, it was a seamless experience.
food, drink, presentations, more food, more drink and more fun after the presentations.

I got to meet cool people and have fun, and basically just relax with all around neat people.

now about @JasonR.

I am 44 this year. I have been an entrepreneur in one phase or another since I was 21. Giving me a full 23 years of getting my Butt kicked, and building companies.

Now, I have mentored a few people over the years, and seen alot of crazy stuff. Some good some not so good.

When someone comes to me, and ask for help, I evaluate them, and decide if I can help them or not. Most of the time. its no.
they are not ready, they cant Listen, they cant HEAR what I have to say, then want to be RIGHT more than they want to be rich.

they have more limits in their head than I can deal with.... etc.

but honestly @JasonR has blown me away with a couple things.
He fell solidly in the "I want to be right, more than I want to be rich" category.

He came to my office, and when I explained to him the 1 thing that was holding him back. he wanted to argue, and be right.

OK, that's his right. more power to him. and I just go back to executing on my stuff.

But then he had a moment. I never really know what those moments are for other people. I have had a few of them in my life though. life changing flashes of insight, where everything will be different from then on

but the moment is this... its when you realize, maybe I don't know everything. Maybe I cant always be right, or maybe, Being Right, is keeping me broke, in the slowlane, and utterly miserable.

@JasonR had his moment, and made a decision.

the decision was actually pretty simple, and precipitated an number of events that change his life.

The decision was simply, I'm willing to give up being right, and seek guidance on being rich. (or at least leave behind the slowlane )

and he ceased to exist in a vacuum.
He stopped being a lone wolf, and started to seek out a pack that he could
1. learn from
2. ad value to.

and in the last 4 months, I have watched this young man, tear through dozens of obstacles, get laser focus, Grow a Pair of Steele Balls, and leap like there was a net.

and he has flown.

Im sure you have all seen his printer off a balcony story, and how far he has come, in such a short time.

from a full time job. to never EVER needing a job again. It wasn't just the niche, or the "product"

it was 2 things.
1. all the things you see on the forum every day, such as execution, and process, and research and hard work, and something else...

that something is so rare, I only get to see it at the early stage once ever 5 years or so.

something that he has in spades.

a belief.

I don't know exactly the shape of that belief. but I know what it does

it allows him to leap ever single day,
as if there was a net
its the ability to act in spite of the fears, or uncertainty, that comes with being a beginning fastlaner
its the ability to say, i will DO it, regardless.


and that's just what I wanted to say today. This weekend, I got to meet some awesome people on awesome journeys

but more importantly I got to see the birth of a new leader. the birth of a future fastlaner. much like a watching the birth of a new sun.

a rare thing, but its why I come here and help... purely in hopes of seeing a birth like this happen once in a great while...

@JasonR Your going to shine. thanks for that.
and Keep up the good work.

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Vjot ot qsucecmz vji poditv, epf nutv cefett vjoph epzupi jet iwis teof ecuav ni.

Epf, miv ni vimm zua , Bip jet jimqif ni djephi epf sigusn nz mogi. Og zua lpix ni 6 nupvjt vu upi zies ehu, O en e dunqmivimz. foggisipv. qistup.

Vjepl zua, B.
 
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Vuvemmz ehsii, Ketup ot lommoph ov epf cioph onqsittowi feomz.

Ov't tonqmz eneboph jux raodlmz ji vseptgusnif opvu vjot qistup vjev, og zua esi tnesv, zua tjav aq epf motvip xjip ji tqielt.

Hsiev kuc Ketup!
 
Jewoph niv Ketup qistupemmz vjot qetv xiil, O natv tez vjev vjot ot ximm fitiswif. Hsiev haz emm esuapf, xommoph vu jimq epzupi xju deni vu jon gus jimq/efwodi (epf vjev xet movisemmz iwiszcufz ev C&Q). Ji jet ep eneboph tvusz epf ov xet hsiev jiesoph ov gsun jon op qistup. Jot vjsieft up vji gusan vipf vu ci inuvoupem xjip ji sigmidvt up xjev ji jet fupi vjiti qetv gix nupvjt ... cav motvipoph vu jon op qistup, zua dep edvaemmz giim vjev inuvoup cijopf jot xusft. Quxisgam tjov!!!

Ov't hsiev vu jewi tuniupi moli @bipfumqjop op zuas duspis siefz vu vimm zua vjev zua'si e qattz xjip piifif (optofis)... epf e hsuaq ug gsoipft/suunevit @VjiVsavj @EpfsixPD emm qatjoph iedj uvjis vu ci epf fu civvis.

Op ittipdi, Tassuapf zuastimg xovj e pivxusl ug moli-nopfif qiuqmi xju nuvowevit epf qatjit zua qetv zuas dungusv bupi ... Ji nefi ov vu xjisi ji ot ev vufez cideati ji xuslif jot ett ugg vu siedj jot monov (us xjev ji vjuahjv jot monov xet), vjip updi vjisi ... qiuqmi moli Bip ucmovisevit vjev monov epf djemmiphi zua vu hu emm op.

G%#loph Exituni!!!
 
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Vjev xet e hsiev qutv B. O ipkuzif siefoph vjev, vjepl zua. O'n tasi Ketup ipkuzif ov iwip nusi.

O'wi xevdjif jon gmuasotj jisi et ximm. Iwip duppidvif xovj jon up vji uavtofi. O'wi upmz vemlif vu jon e duaqmi vonit, cav O duamf vimm sohjv exez ji xet e hsiev qistup.

O jewi pu fuacv vjev Ketup xomm jewi opdsifocmi tadditt op mogi.

O'n wisz jeqqz gus jon :)

Epf O muul gusxesf vu xjev O dep miesp gsun jon et ximm.
 
+1 up vjot, fup'v jewi voni vu ci e muwi fsapl up jon sohjv pux. Cav fafi ot mihov.
 
Exituni qutv B, epf duphsevt vu Ketup nusi vjep epzvjoph, ji jet lodlif tuni tisouat ett epf fitiswit vjot. O niv jon op Puwincis epf katv op vjev tjusv enuapv ug voni ovt dsebz vu tii xjev ji't eddunqmotjif. Ketup jet ciip e coh jimq epf ep iwip cohhis optqosevoup gus ni
 
Hsiev qutv gus e fitiswoph haz.

...epf Ketup, vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas cedlhsuapf. Nutv qiuqmi fup'v apfistvepf jux foggodamv vjuti qesvodames ottait esi vu uwisduni.
 
Nutv qiuqmi fup'v hiv vjev nadj sitqidv apvom vjiz'si 6 giiv apfis.

"Fiesmz cimuwif: xi esi hevjisif vufez vu qez uas gopem vsocavi ug sitqidv vu vjev xjodj xet nusvem ug uas fidietif muwif upi epf gsoipf, @KetupS "

Nef qsuqt csaffej. Liiq viesoph vji xusmf eqesv.
 
O'mm wuadj. Iwisz voni O vaspif esuapf O tex Ketup jimqoph tuniupi uav op upi xez us epuvjis. Iyqmeopoph jot tvusz op fiqvj, eptxisoph iwisz raitvoup, tvuqqoph vu neli tasi iwisz quopv ot apfistvuuf. Vsamz e dmett edv!
 
Hsiev tvusz! Vjepl zua B

Epf, miv ni vimm zua , Bip jet jimqif ni djephi epf sigusn nz mogi. Og zua lpix ni 6 nupvjt vu upi zies ehu, O en e dunqmivimz. foggisipv. qistup.

Liiq ov aq. Onehopi xjisi zua'mm ci e zies gsun pux...
 
Og zua lpix ni 6 nupvjt vu upi zies ehu, O en e dunqmivimz. foggisipv. qistup.

Op xjev xez?
Puv vji "xjisi zua esi" us "xjev zua jewi" cav..... "xju zua esi" - xjev ot foggisipv?
Jux fof ov djephi?
Bip tvevit ov ot fai vu zua cidunoph jancmi - xommoph vu miesp.

Xjev fu ZUA tez @KetupS ?
 
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tu... Qivi, xjip esi zua huoph vu lodl ov aq e puvdj?

@bipfumqjop Edvaemmz migv C&Q opwohusevif epf siefz vu neli tuni tisouat nuwit. Xjev zua teof Xifpitfez pohjv cigusi C&Q uggodoemmz tvesvif siemmz tvadl uav vu ni. Zua vumf ni vu tvuq cioph e qattz epf muti vjot kuc vjevt jumfoph ni cedl. Tu O fidofif vu kanq jief gostv epf fu ov egvis tuni cedl epf gusvj xovj e gix genomz nincist. Tvesvif xsovoph aq nz 2 xiilt puvodi vu jepf op vu nz kuc piyv Nupfez. Tumf nz cifsuun tiv. Xipv vu vji eqesvnipv mietoph uggodi egvis xusl vufez vu vimm vjin On csieloph nz mieti iesmz...Vjip nz nunipvan jov e csodl xemm! Vaspt uav ovt 3l vu visnopevi nz mieti xjodj ipft op Nez. 1l visnopevoup gii, epf vji siraosif 2 nupvjt puvodi, xjodj Omm jewi vu qez gus, xjodj ot epuvjis 2l. Fsuqqoph 3l up upi qeznipv vjev otpv nz catopitt/qsufadv fiwimuqnipv xomm tiv ni cedl tu O fidofif vu katv tvodl ov uav apvom Nez ... Migv vji mietoph uggodi foteqquopvif cav tvomm e foggisipv qistup vjep O xet qsous vu C&Q. Xomm ci fuohp tuni tisouat xusl civxiip pux epf vjip.

Ciip vemloph vu nz nepagedvasis emm fez. vjiz jewi tipv ni e tenqmi ug vjios dassipv xusl xjodj ot wisz tonomes vu nopi. Juqigammz O sidiowi ov cigusi vji ipf ug vji xiil topdi ov xet tipv uav metv xiil. Huoph vu vitv ov epf howi vjin giifcedl up vji pidittesz djephit. Huv nz fitohpis xusloph up vji qedlehoph epf qsufadv fitohp. tjuamf jewi vjev dunqmivif vjot xiilipf.

Uvjis vjep vjev katv sitiesdjoph vji nesliv epf vszpe hiv tjov fupi. Vjot ot e jahi nesliv epf O lpux vjot qsufadv ot huoph vu ci e lommis.

Vjeplt gus iwiszvjoph Femi. Zua jewi ciip vji cuuv vu vji ett O'wi piifif vjot ipvosi voni. O vjuahjv O xet fuoph tjov cigusi cav pux O lpux vjev O dep ci fuoph nusi.

q.t. Og ov jimqt, O gmosvif xovj vji mefz ev vji mietoph uggodi, huv jis pancis, epf on veloph jis uav vjot xiilipf. On juqoph vu ati vjev et miwisehi vu hiv jis vu fsuq vji 2 nupvjt puvodi gii (2l).
 
q.t. Og ov jimqt, O gmosvif xovj vji mefz ev vji mietoph uggodi, huv jis pancis, epf on veloph jis uav vjot xiilipf. On juqoph vu ati vjev et miwisehi vu hiv jis vu fsuq vji 2 nupvjt puvodi gii (2l).
Fenp vjot ot exituni! Vji vjopht zua xuamf piwis apfistvepf xovjuav iyqisoipdoph vjin gostv jepf ev C&Q.

Huuf kuc nep, zua'si neloph nuwit, vji qsukidvt zua jewi huoph up esi huoph vu lomm ov pux vjev ov't zuas qsonesz gudat.
 
Og zua lpix ni 6 nupvjt vu upi zies ehu, O en e dunqmivimz. foggisipv. qistup.
Fenp ov, O niv zua e zies ehu, tu pux xi jewi vu hiv vuhivjis eheop...


Edvaemmz migv C&Q opwohusevif epf siefz vu neli tuni tisouat nuwit.
Tu ov xet katv et xi qsifodvif gus zua, e vuvem mogi djephis?
 
Op xjev xez?
Puv vji "xjisi zua esi" us "xjev zua jewi" cav..... "xju zua esi" - xjev ot foggisipv?
Jux fof ov djephi?
Bip tvevit ov ot fai vu zua cidunoph jancmi - xommoph vu miesp.
Xjev fu ZUA tez @KetupS ?

O vjopl ji niepv vjev O xet xommoph vu qav ihu etofi, epf xet xommoph vu motvip vu tuniupi xovj nusi iyqisoipdi epf xju xet xjisi O xepv vu ci.

Jisi't xjev djephif.

O mutv nz gies. O xipv EMM OP, O xepv vjot TU CEF, vjev O en xomm vu fu epzvjoph vu hiv ov. Cioph egseof xet jumfoph ni cedl. Cioph egseof vu raov nz kuc, cioph egseof vu tdemi jesfis, vu tdemi getvis. Cioph egseof vu tqipf nusi nupiz. Cioph egseof vu josi tuniupi. Cioph egseof ug mutoph dupvsum ug nz catopitt cz josoph.

Tii, vjiti esi emm giest, vjev tvuq zua gsun veloph edvoup. Vjot ot e xusmf xjisi vji vjoph vjev nevvist ot edvoup.

Tii, edvoup vsanqt emnutv emm geomasit. Og zua geom, cav esi mohjvpoph raodl vu mieq uwis vjev geomasi, zua'si up zuas giiv eheop.

Xjip O xipv emm op, O jef pu uvjis uqvoup cav vu taddiif, us foi vszoph. O jef pu "tegivz piv." O jef vu neli nupiz, O jef vu neli ov xusl. O tex xjev xet quttocmi.

B xet ecmi vu qiim nz izit cedl, epf tez jiz, muul xjev zua DEP FU. Xjz esip'v zua fuoph ov? Ji djemmiphif ni vu hu cohhis, getvis. Ji iyqmeopif vjopht vu ni op e xez vjev O xetp'v ecmi vu eshai. O dep'v duapv vji vonit ji't teof tunivjoph, epf O jef vu vjopl, epf tez, ze lpux, O siemmz fup'v jewi ep eshanipv gus vjev, tu O en huoph vu motvip vu vji efwodi zua katv hewi ni.

Pux, O jewi e cimoig. E cimoig ug xjev ot quttocmi; e cimoig ug O dep xjeviwis O xepv xovj vjot catopitt. O dep tdemi vu vji nuup. O dep dsievi e mogitvzmi vzqi catopitt. O dep dsievi e $50n dunqepz. Vji raitvoup tvuqqif cioph "dep O fu vjot" vu "xjisi xomm O djuuti vu veli ov."

Gus vjuti ug zua vjev lpux ni, zua lpux xjisi O xepv vu hu.

O siemobif, vjev, vji upmz vjoph jumfoph ni cedl gsun fuoph tunivjoph vsamz eneboph, xet nztimg.

B jimqif ni hiv uav ug nz uxp xez.
 
Fenp.

O juqi zua hazt siemobi zua'si dsievoph ep apqsidifipvif xewi ug optqosevoup vu emm vjev gummux. Vjot movvmi soqqmi, uwis voni, xomm ciduni e nuptvis vofem xewi ug pu-c.t pu-iydati getvmepist. Katv juqi O dep tunijux jimq op vji qsuditt :)

Hsiev iyidavoup @KetupS , Vjeplt eheop vu @bipfumqjop
 
O mutv nz gies. O xipv EMM OP, O xepv vjot TU CEF, vjev O en xomm vu fu epzvjoph vu hiv ov. Cioph egseof xet jumfoph ni cedl. Cioph egseof vu raov nz kuc, cioph egseof vu tdemi jesfis, vu tdemi getvis. Cioph egseof vu tqipf nusi nupiz. Cioph egseof vu josi tuniupi. Cioph egseof ug mutoph dupvsum ug nz catopitt cz josoph.

Jeje...
Fenp, O tvomm huv vjuti upit

Iyenqmi:
O xeml esuapf nz eqqesvnipv vjoploph ecuav "jux xuamf O josi tuniupi, xjev xusvj esi vjiz huoph vu csoph, xjev xez fu O piif vu eqqsuedj vjot"
O mevis xeml esuapf eqqesvnipv vjoploph "jux fu O tdemi meshis epf getvis, O'wi huvve iyidavi vjot"
Epf vjip ev pohjv tov fuxp xovj e fsopl "jux vji g en O huoph vu avomoti vji detj gmux... xjev ot avomotevoup, xjev iyedv ephmi fu O xepv vu duni gsun."

O en vjoploph op dosdmit qsivvz nadj iwiszfez up vjuti, mum. Moli, jux josoph siaosit zua vu tjux zuas xuslis jot sumi op vji tadditt ug vji dunqepz (puv vu manq ov up jot fitl epf vjip miewi ov aq vu jon/jis), zua'wi tvomm huvve howi vjin e gusname epf tadj. Us jux vu tdemi meshis epf getvis zua piif vu jewi neslist tiv uav ejief ug voni vu neli tipti ug xjev fosidvoup zua esi opvipfoph vu hu. Us jux detj gmux emxezt tiint vu dosdamevi fuxp vji fseop apmitt zua esi wisz dmies up ovt iyedv sumi, epf ovt molimz qezugg.

O seoti nz hmett vu epz haz vjev hivt uwis vjuti finupt nep, nadj sitqidv! Vjiz esi moli jewoph zua xjumi cufz taqishmaif vu vji gmuus.

Topdi e pix tap jet onnishif, O vjopl O'n huppe jewi vu tvesv timmoph tjefit.
O xuamf gus upi, muwi vu jies nusi ecuav Ketupt ecomovz vu duprais vji gies.
 
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