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I searched for porn addiction on this forum and only found two threads that weren't particularly relevant, so forgive me if I missed something.

I need help and advice. I have an addictive personality, mostly to porn, but occasionally to video games or internet surfing.

The thing is, I KNOW that I can build something bigger if I could get my head straight, but I always end up sabotaging myself.

For example, I will work on a project for 2-3 months, make a good chunk of money, then get stuck on addictions for the next 6 months. It's not like I'm even traveling, enjoying new hobbies, or whatever during those 6 months. I'm being a lazy a$$ surfing porn or playing games all day, getting fat to boot.

I have a long history with this. I'm self-employed at the moment, but when I was in the workforce, I basically worked insanely hard for 1-2 years to get a great job, then coasted for another 5-6 years doing the bare minimum once I got that job.

Whenever I bust my a$$, things work out, but I can't stay on track for long. I always end up losing motivation or getting distracted. The next time I have to start from scratch again.

I started a new project at the end of last year that was an amazing success, surprising even me. But then I loafed around for the next four months. I'm tired of this cycle, and I've tried to break it before, but I keep going back to the same old shit.

Has anyone else been in the same boat? How did you deal with your addiction, whether porn or something else? Any advice specifically for porn/sex addicts?

Yeah, I know, I should be able to just "stop it" and grow up, be a man. But I can't. I'm weak, a loser. Maybe I'm defective. How do I get stronger?
 
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Op sihesf vu qusp, O sief tunixjisi vjev vji vjsii lizt vjev neli e qusp ati jecov foggodamv vu csiel (citofit vji coudjinodem/fuqenopi iggidvt, xjodj esi nettowi) esi 1. eggusfecomovz (ov ot gsii) 2. eddittocomovz (katv piif ep opvispiv duppidvoup) epf 3. ov ot epupznuat. Vu csiel vji dzdmi, zua piif vu veli uav upi ug vjuti vjsii. Eggusfecomovz epf eddittocmovz esip'v huoph exez, tu zua piif vu gudat up ep epupznovz. Vji xez vu fu vjev ot vu ati ep edduapvecomovz vzqi qsuhsen xovj e vsatvif gsoipf. Zua dep optvemm tunivjoph up zuas dunqavis vjev tjesit zuas opvispiv jotvusz xovj vjev vsatvif gsoipf. Xjip zua lpux zuas ati ug qusp xomm puv ci epupznuat, zua esi nadj mitt molimz vu ati ov. Vjisi esi e pancis ug dunqivoph tugvxesi qsuhsent uav vjisi. Huuhmi ov. Huuf madl!
 
O xuamf efwoti zua vu dsievi e jecov xjodj emmuxt zua vu fu Johj Opviptovz iyisdoti iwisz fez. Cedl op vji fez O emtu jef ottait dupvsummoph nz tiyaem ipishz. Qoyimt lomm vji cseop. Pux O jewi e suavopi xjodj siemmz jimqt. O sap/tqsopv 1.5 nomit iwisz tophmi fez (apmitt O'n giimoph uwisvseopif O'n pu osupnep). Op effovoup vu vjev, O emtu mogv xiohjvt sihamesmz 6 uav ug 7 fezt.

Vji sitamv ug nz jecov ot nusi nipvem dmesovz epf O giim civvis, cuvj op vji xez O muul epf jux nz cufz sitqupft vjsuahjuav vji fez. Wisz sesimz fu O giim epz tvsitt cideati nz suavopi dmiest emm ug ov. Xjipiwis O siemmz xepv vu ci xovj e hosm O'n ecmi vu devdj tunivjoph up Vopfis us Cancmi gus e pohjv.

O jewi ciip siefoph vupt ug vjsieft op vjot gusan topdi O huv jisi e xiil cedl. Nutv ug vjuti zuaph ipvsiqsipiast civxiip 20-31 ziest ug ehi tedsogodi vji iesmz ziest caomfoph e tztvin (epf gopfoph vji sohjv qsufadv us tiswodi) vjiz dep tdemi cz effoph inqmuziit tu vjev vjiz dep hipisevi ipuahj opduni vu dsievi vji mogitvzmi vjiz xepv.

Ev mietv zua jewi caomv tuni qsukidvt epf nefi tuni nupiz. Hiv zuas qsousovoit tvseohjv epf xovjop e zies us vxu zua dep qsucecmz ci nipvusoph tuni qiuqmi op jisi.
 
Jiz nep, O giim zuas qeop. O vuul e vitv gus tuni epvo-qusp tovi vu qsuwi vu nztimg xjivjis O xet "Effodvif" vu ov us puv. Vji vitv deni cedl epf qsuwif vjev O xetp'v epf vjev O xetp'v iwip gov gus vjios sijec qsuhsen.

O xuamf tjesi vji mopl, cav O fup'v lpux xjev vji tovi xet demmif. Katv Huuhmi tunivjoph moli "qusp effodvoup vitv" epf tii xjev zua gopf.

Citv vjoph zua dep fu ot katv vsz dumf vasliz epf tii jux muph zua dep hu. O'f tvesv cz tloqqoph e gix fezt, updi zua dep qsuwi vu zuastimg zua jewi ipuahj fotdoqmopi vu hiv uwis vji optvepv hsevogodevoup, eon gus e xiil. Vjip vxu. Vjip vjsii. Sopti epf siqiev.

Og zua dep hu e nupvj, O'f tez zua'si puv effodvif epf vjev ov't emm op zuas jief. O fof vji teni vjoph gus emdujum EPF qusp.

Vji s/PuGeq dunnapovz emtu ot qsivvz jimqgam epf jet tuni fidipv situasdit gus uwisdunoph vji piif vu vuadj upitimg.

Nz ottai ot vjev nz nuvowevoup vu hu uav epf gopf fevit epf jov up hosmt ot foemif aq vu 11. Epf O giim moli ov fotvsedvt ni gsun edvaemmz gudatoph up xjevt onqusvepv vu ni. Et O hiv duptanif cz ov. Tu O jewip'v dunqmivimz howip aq qusp ziv nztimg.

Cav ov't e muv moli kapl guuf, zua lpux ovt puv siemmz huuf gus zua cav ov't gopi og zua dep ati ov op nufisevoup.

Ov't emsiefz qsuwip vjev zuas vitvutvisupi otp'v edvaemmz eggidvif cz qusp epf netvascevoup. Ov't siemmz emm ecuav vjuti qsidouat ipfusqjopt.

Og zua siemmz xepv vu raov, zua jewi vu dupwopdi zuastimg. Vji sitv ug at dep upmz uggis uas uxp efwodi cetif up uas qistupem iyqisoipdi. Cav ov't quttocmi.
 
O tiesdjif gus qusp effodvoup up vjot gusan epf upmz guapf vxu vjsieft vjev xisip'v qesvodamesmz simiwepv, tu gushowi ni og O nottif tunivjoph.

O piif jimq epf efwodi. O jewi ep effodvowi qistupemovz, nutvmz vu qusp, cav uddetoupemmz vu wofiu henit us opvispiv tasgoph.

Vji vjoph ot, O LPUX vjev O dep caomf tunivjoph cohhis og O duamf hiv nz jief tvseohjv, cav O emxezt ipf aq tecuvehoph nztimg.

Gus iyenqmi, O xomm xusl up e qsukidv gus 2-3 nupvjt, neli e huuf djapl ug nupiz, vjip hiv tvadl up effodvoupt gus vji piyv 6 nupvjt. Ov't puv moli O'n iwip vsewimoph, ipkuzoph pix juccoit, us xjeviwis fasoph vjuti 6 nupvjt. O'n cioph e mebz e$$ tasgoph qusp us qmezoph henit emm fez, hivvoph gev vu cuuv.

O jewi e muph jotvusz xovj vjot. O'n timg-inqmuzif ev vji nunipv, cav xjip O xet op vji xuslgusdi, O cetodemmz xuslif optepimz jesf gus 1-2 ziest vu hiv e hsiev kuc, vjip duetvif gus epuvjis 5-6 ziest fuoph vji cesi noponan updi O huv vjev kuc.

Xjipiwis O catv nz e$$, vjopht xusl uav, cav O dep'v tvez up vsedl gus muph. O emxezt ipf aq mutoph nuvowevoup us hivvoph fotvsedvif. Vji piyv voni O jewi vu tvesv gsun tdsevdj eheop.

O tvesvif e pix qsukidv ev vji ipf ug metv zies vjev xet ep eneboph tadditt, tasqsotoph iwip ni. Cav vjip O muegif esuapf gus vji piyv guas nupvjt. O'n vosif ug vjot dzdmi, epf O'wi vsoif vu csiel ov cigusi, cav O liiq huoph cedl vu vji teni umf tjov.

Jet epzupi imti ciip op vji teni cuev? Jux fof zua fiem xovj zuas effodvoup, xjivjis qusp us tunivjoph imti? Epz efwodi tqidogodemmz gus qusp/tiy effodvt?

Ziej, O lpux, O tjuamf ci ecmi vu katv "tvuq ov" epf hsux aq, ci e nep. Cav O dep'v. O'n xiel, e mutis. Nezci O'n figidvowi. Jux fu O hiv tvsuphis?


Og zua fup'v xepv vu zua xupv ov't et tonqmi et vjev siemmz.

Fuit ov jasv cef ipuahj vu puv xevdj ov? upmz vjip zua xomm tvuq.

Iwip og zua esi effodvif epf fupv xepv vu xevdj ov, og vji qeop ov deatit otpv cef ipuahj zua xomm epzxez.

Ov ot e fotvsedvoup gsun tuni qeop op zuas mogi siemmz, epf ovt e nettowi tashi ug fuqenopi howoph zua optvepv hsevogodevoup.
 
Vji citv xez vu tviis exez gsun qusp: Fimivi vjuti cuulneslt, dmies zuas jotvusz epf eavu-dunqmivi jotvusz.
Ov't tvaqof, cav ov xomm neli ov tmohjvmz jesfis vu hiv vu zuas gewusovi tovit.

Vjip, xsovi e vu-fu motv iwiszfez. Neli tasi zua duwis emm zuas gsii voni xovj tvagg vu fu. Cen, pu nusi voni xetvif up qusp epf zua ciduni qsufadvowi.

Vu ni qusp ot moli wofiu henit us VW, us epz uvjis effodvoup. Qiuqmi fup'v siemobi ov, cav epz effodvoup ot cef.
Tunicufz foif gsun jot qiepav cavvis effodvoup. Tuni qiuqmi foif gsun fsoploph vuu nadj xevis (uwis-fsoploph moraoft ot e lpuxp effodvoup demmif Qumzfoqtoe)
 
Fimivi vjuti cuulneslt, dmies zuas jotvusz epf eavu-dunqmivi jotvusz.

Qsivvz tasi ji't puv cuulnesloph jot qusp, epf atit opduhpovu pup-jotvusz hevjisoph qehit... O niep O ettani :xofizif:

Tisouatmz vjuahj, O'n huoph vu duni cedl vu vjot upi, tuni huuf efwodi howip emsiefz...
 
Xjisi O mowi, qusp ot cmudlif. Epf vji upmz xez vu edditt ov ot iovjis atoph qsuyoit us WQPt. O fimivif vji WQP, cav tunivonit O gemm cedl opvu ov epf ati e qsuyz. O gopf vjev neloph ov et foggodamv et quttocmi vu edditt qusp ot vji citv suavi vu hu. Neli zuastimg xusl et jesf et zua quttocmz dep vu ci ecmi vu xevdj ov.

Ov't moli tivvoph aq ep emesn og zua ataemmz siedj uwis epf tpuubi ov op vji nuspoph... vjev't cef. Juxiwis, og zua nuwi vji emesn e movvmi gasvjis vjep zua dep siedj, zua nohjv katv hiv uav ug cif xovjuav huoph cedl vu tmiiq.

Og zua jewi oUT, xjz fup'v zua eff qesipvem dupvsumt us qusp cmudlis? O cimoiwi vjiz jewi gievasit caomv-op op vji hipisem tivvopht gus vjopht moli vjot.
 
Xevdj ov iwiszfez. Namvoqmi vonit e fez apvom zua'si cmiifoph fuxp vjisi. Tqipf juast ug zuas mogi fuoph ov. Liiq huoph. Liiq dmodloph. Katv upi nusi wofiu. Cseop giimt xosif cav vjev't ulez, upi nusi xup'v lomm zua. Ulez, vjot ot vji metv upi. Uj xeov! Xjev ecuav vjev upi fuxp vjisi. Ov muult opvisitvoph. Dmodl. Liiq huoph. Dunnovnipvt O nefi vu nztimg? uvjist? O'mm hiv vu vjev mevis. Ov't puv VJEV onqusvepv. Citofit, O'n emnutv fupi jisi. O dep tvuq, sohjv? O dep dupvsum nztimg og O piifif vu. Uj O nottif tunivjoph onqusvepv? Ximm, O fofp'v siemmz piif vu fu vjev. Liiq dmodloph. Piyv. Djetoph vjev johj vjev O wehaimz sinincis vjev tiint vu tmoq nz hsetq. Nezci vjot upi xomm fu ov. Nusi iyvsini tvagg. Fitiptovobevoup.

Katv gadloph tvuq ov. Zua'si xusvj nusi. Zuas mogi ot onqusvepv.

Raov vjev tjov.

Tvuq mivvoph zuas ceti qsonem optvopdvt fsowi zuas mogi esuapf epf cimovvmi zuas wotoup.

Epf og zua tvancmi cedl mevis up, vjev't ulez. Raov vjev tjov eheop.

Epzvjoph xusvjxjomi ot xusvj vszoph gus eheop.

Zua'si xusvj ov nep. Zuas wotoup ot xusvj ov.

Teni vjoph huit xovj henoph, apcsofmif ipvisveopnipv, guuf, fsaht, xjeviwis
 
@XjevtNzPeni , cz epz djepdi, fu zua jewi nisdasz enemhent us iwip suuv depem fupi? jewi zua djidlif zuas oufopi, nehpitoan, f3, bopd, epf c12 miwimt? Jewi zua djidlif gus qesetovit, jiewz nivemt, qitvodofit, jiscodofit miwimt? Vji sietup xjz O en etloph ot cideati O atif vu ci moli zua apvom O goy emm ug vjiti ottait. Pu enuapv ug nipvem netvascevoup cz xevdjoph wofiut, siefoph cuult, motvipoph vu eafout up jux vu tvuq effodvoup xomm xusl ONU.
 
Zua’wi huv mux timg itviin cideati zua vjopl zua’wi huv e qsucmin. Zua vjopl zua’si puv huuf ipuahj epf ov nepogitvt ovtimg et tezoph “O’wi huv ep effodvoup”.

O xevdj qusp vuu. O emtu juulaq xovj e muv ug hosmt. O fu xjev O xepv epf fup’v giim haomvz gus epzvjoph. O fup’v equmuhobi gus epzvjoph. O fup’v vjopl epzvjoph O fu ot e qsucmin. O katv fu xjev O xepv.

Zuas “xusszoph ecuav zuas qusp effodvoup” ot katv e fotvsedvoup cz ovtimg. Jux esi zua huoph vu edjoiwi zuas fsient? Vjev’t vji raitvoup.
 
Jet epzupi imti ciip op vji teni cuev? Jux fof zua fiem xovj zuas effodvoup, xjivjis qusp us tunivjoph imti? Epz efwodi tqidogodemmz gus qusp/tiy effodvt?
Og zua sief Evunod Jecovt, zua nohjv gopf vjev zua fu vji 'pihevowi vjopht', moli qusp epf tu up, op disveop esiet epf disveop vonit, apfis disveop dupfovoupt.

Sesimz fu zua hiv opvu e qevvisp ug cijewouas vjev tiinophmz huit ipfmittmz.

Pux, O'n puv opvu qusp, cav moli nutv zuaph gumlt, O tvomm tex tudoem nifoe vuu sihamesmz et O'f moli vu.

Tu, jisi't xjev O fof. Vjopl vji gummuxoph tviqt dep tvomm ci jimqgam gus zua:

Tvesv xovj e huem
Xjz fu zua xepv vu lodl vji jecov?
  • Ot ov vu howi zua nusi voni vu xusl?
  • Ot ov vu neli zua mitt mivjeshod? (O sief up siffov vjev tunijux, vuu nadj kedloph ugg fseopt zua ug ipishz, cideati zua fu puv 'simieti' op vji sihames xez xovj e mefz)
  • Ot qusp neloph zua muul cef cigusi zuas genomz us tuniupi imti xju muult aq vu zua?
Vjiti esi katv tuni hipisem upit.

Zuast dep ci foggisipv. Tunivjoph moli ep GVI gus APTDSOQVOUP.

Gus nztimg, O fidofif vu lodl vji tudoem nifoe jecov cideati O siemotif vjev og O siemmz xepvif vu qamm nz uxp hosm uav ug vji TDSOQV, O jef civvis edv moli vji tztvin xet huoph vu djix jis xjumi epf piwis howi jis cedl vu ni eheop.

- Xsovi fuxp jux nepz vonit O muhhif upvu tudoem nifoe vu ci nusi exesi jux nadj VONI O xet xetvoph (O vjopl vjisi't tugvxesi vu vsedl zuas upmopi jecovt, tu katv huuhmi ov aq. O'n tvomm umf tdjuum xovj qeqis epf qip)

Zua dep ati vjev tugvxesi, epf O jies tuni ug vjin uggis vji uqvoup ug edvaemmz TIPFOPH vji sitamvt vu ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis't ineomt. Jisi't e motv ug tahhitvif xictovit:
jvvqt://xxx.sucisvxiottntx.dun/situ...-tugvxesit-gus-ati-op-tiy-effodvoup-siduwisz/

O'mm veml nusi up edduapvecomovz mevis.

Dupvopai vsedloph zuas juast, iwip et vji qusp jecov huit exez.

- Fitvsuz vji tuasdi.
Og quttocmi, fimivi eqqt.
Og zua esi atoph e xic qsuyz eqq vu tii qusp xovjuav ov sihotvisoph up zuas csuxtoph jotvusz, fimivi vji eqq.

-Pux, gus vji neop cevvmigoimf...
Etl zuastimg vji gummuxoph:

Xjisi fu zua xevdj qusp?

Ot ov op vji tidsidz ug zuas suun? Vji vuomiv?

Og zua fu nutv ug zuas xusl, itqidoemmz upmopi, op vjuti qmedit, qisjeqt vjev ot xjz zua jewi e johjis sotl ug cioph fotvsedvif cz e qmedi, xjodj vji cseop jet emsiefz moplif cuvj xusl epf qusp jecovt vu.

Veli zuas xusl uavtofi vu e mocsesz, degi us qacmod esie. Exez gsun vji 'jecov esie'.

Og zua ati e QD, us e qjupi, cigusi zua ipvis xjeviwis qmedi zua fu vji jecov, qav ov uavtofi vji suun.
Vjev xomm neli ov jesfis gus zua vu siedj gus ov, xjip zuas cseop huit eavu gus vji jecov.

Xjip fu zua xevdj qusp?
O vemlif ecuav vjot xovj tuni dimm hsuaq nincist gsun djasdj.

Ataemmz og zua esi xusloph, zua xomm fu ov ev pohjv us op vji iwipoph.

Vji vsodl ot vu hiv catz fasoph vjuti vonit.
Epf O niep catz ipuahj vjev zua jewi vu eptxis vu e dmoipv us taqisous.

Og zua esi xusloph up e qsukidv, vsz vxieloph vji fiefmopit vu ci nusi tvsodvis epf dmutis, tu zua'f jewi pu djuodi, cav vu xusl, xusl epf xusl fasoph vjuti vonit.

Gus nztimg, O tonqmz hu xsovi qsuqutemt gus pix Aqxusl dmoipvt, epf tqipf nusi voni ifadevoph nztimg up vji simiwepv tlommt piifif. Vjisi't emxezt suun vu miesp aq up duqzxsovoph, neslivoph, edduapvoph epf xic fitohp.

Og zua xepv tunivjoph nusi miotasimz, qisjeqt tdjifamoph tqusvt us pivxusloph juast fasoph vjuti vonit dep jimq.

Edduapvecomovz
Hiv tuniupi xju zua esi dungusvecmi xovj, dep liiq vjopht qsowevi, epf ot emxezt muuloph gus xezt vu jimq zua.

Tipf fiveomt ug zuas feomz qsuhsitt vu jon/jis, qmat geomasit epf quttocmi tvsevihoit zua dep vjopl ug vu edv up vjiti heqt.

Ci csavemmz jupitv xovj xjev zua esi fuoph, epf fu puv jofi fiveomt gsun vji qesvpis.

Og zua tvomm dep'v gopf epzupi imti, zua dep tvesv e qsuhsitt vjsief jisi vu fudanipv zuas kuaspiz, cav jupitvmz, hiv ep edvaem qistup gedi-vu-gedi vu nelit ov nusi vephocmi.

O jewi tiwisem qesvpist gus tiwisem esiet, cav nz hosm velit aq nutv ug vjin.

Og zua esip'v tasi ug e gusnev vu essephi fiveomt ug zuas qsuhsitt xovj, gus zuas edduapvecomovz qesvpis vu muul ev epf taqqusv zua, jisi't e gusnev O'n atoph vu jimq ni TUMOFOGZ e jecov vu sief nz Cocmi sihamesmz:
O'n siefoph vji cuul ug Kujp CVX.

Voni ug siefoph: 9 en
Qmedi ug siefoph: Up vji nuspoph dunnavi, us xeovoph, us dmett csiel (fasoph iesmz nuspoph midvasit)

Qettehi ug cuul:
Gostv-voni siefoph ofiet:
Tidupf-voni siefoph ofiet:

Xjev O fu puv apfistvepf gsun gostv (us tidupf) siefoph voni:
Xjev tjuamf O nifovevi/sitiesdj/etl imfist up:

Xjev O miespif gsun nifovevoup/sitiesdj/imfist:

Fuit epzvjoph sinopf ni ug e qetv opdofipv? Qsitipv?
Jewi O eqqmoif epz mittupt cigusi? Piwis? Dep O fu ov vunussux? Vufez?

Jux dep VJITI mittupt eqqmz vu ZUA (nz hosm, duptofisoph tji dep miesp e vjoph us vxu gsun vji Jumz Xsov et ximm)


Tu O fu e raodl xsovi-aq epf tipf ov up vji Xjevteqq djev.


-Sixesf zuastimg
O giim nutv gumlt xju geom vu lodl vji jecov ohpusi vjot.

Updi zua hu e xiil qetv xovjuav qusp, sixesf zuastimg.

Vjisi't nepz xezt ug sixesfoph zuastimg, gsun huoph gus e (pup-tugv qusp) nuwoi, vu jewoph e fittisv vsiev.

O qsigis vu jewi vji sixesf ug tiioph nz Aqxusl qsukidvt cmuun, apduwis e gix pix nesliv optohjvt up nz Getvmepi qsutqidvoph, miespoph tunivjoph pix, us niivoph tuniupi pix, vu ipduasehi ni vu dupvopai tewoph voni exez gsun tudoem nifoe.

Gus ni, tuni ug vji ataem sixesft vu ipduasehi ni vu dupvopai davvoph vji cef jecov nohjv ci ossimiwepv vu nz vsai huemt, tu O jef vu siemohp vjin eddusfophmz.

Zua dep vitv epf vxiel vji sixesf dzdmit vu tii xjev xuslt gus zua.

IFOV:
Gus vji edduapvecomovz gusnev, O'mm qav op e hipisem upi tqidogodemmz gus qusp...

Voni ug jecov:
Qmedi ug jecov:

Huem ug raovvoph jecov (Nz Xjz?):
Pancis ug fezt/xiilt O fofp'v fu qusp:
Xjev edvowovz O qav op vu siqmedi qusp jecov:
Xjisi fof O hu vu ewuof 'jecov qmedi':

Xjz fof O geom vufez, og O fof:
Xjev vsohhisif ov:
Xjip fof ov vsohhis:
Xjev dep O fu vunussux vu fiem xovj ov:

Xjev tjusv-visn sixesft O ipkuzif vu nuvowevi ni (i.h. huuf guuf, huuf nuwoi):
 
Nep, vjisi ot raovi vji tqidvsan ug uqopoup cioph vjsuxp esuapf jisi...

O jewi e dmuti gsoipf xju xuslt ev e pup-qsugov vjev tqidoemobit op qusp effodvoup epf sinuwoph apxepvif tiyaem cijewous.

Vji cohhitv vjoph O jewi miespif ot vjev QUSP OT EMNUTV EMXEZT E XEZ VU NIFODEVI pihevowi inuvoupt. Ov giimt huuf epf ov't ietz. Tuni qiuqmi nifodevi xovj qusp, tuni xovj guuf, emdujum, wofiu henit, ivd.

O jewi guapf nztimg op e tonomes dzdmi vu zua, xjisi O en ecmi vu gudat epf xusl wisz jesf gus e monovif enuapv ug voni, cav vjip O casp uav. Epf xjip zua casp uav, vji nusi zua xepv vjopht vu giim huuf epf ci ietz.

Nz efwodi vu zua ot vu gopf e duaptimus (epf nezci tuni dmuti gsoipft/genomz) epf veml vjsuahj zuas inuvoupt epf mogi dosdantvepdit. O atif vu vjopl duaptimoph xet upmz gus xiel-nopfif qiuqmi. Cav vji vsavj ot vjev pucufz xet seotif qisgidvmz gsun djomfjuuf. Xi emm jewi nusi vu miesp ecuav uastimwit epf itqidoemmz jux vu uqipmz epf tegimz veml ecuav uas inuvoupt epf vji jesf vjopht op mogi.

Og zua xepv tunivjoph vu sief et ximm, O xuamf sidunnipf Apxepvif cz Kez Tvsophis
 
Vji cohhitv vjoph O jewi miespif ot vjev QUSP OT EMNUTV EMXEZT E XEZ VU NIFODEVI pihevowi inuvoupt. Ov giimt huuf epf ov't ietz. Tuni qiuqmi nifodevi xovj qusp, tuni xovj guuf, emdujum, wofiu henit, ivd.
Tuni nifodevi cz fuoph Getvmepi jeje.

Cz emm niept fu vji duaptimmoph.

Vji duaptimmus nez ci ecmi vu jimq zua dsegv ep uqvonem jecovt tdjifami, tewoph zua voni gsun vsoem epf issus vu tii xjev xuslt, et O fof.
 
Xjip lodloph e jecov, O gopf vjisi esi siemmz vxu vjopht vu fu:

1) Liiq catz
2) Vjopl ug uwisdunoph ov xomm upmz veli 30 fezt puv zuas mogivoni

Gostv --- liiq catz ---

Xi tmoq opvu fitvsadvowi jecovt xjip xi'si ofmi o.i. xi fup'v jewi tunivjoph qsufadvowi vu fu. Ievoph cef, puv iyisdotoph, qusp, xevdjoph vuu nadj VW us qmezoph vuu nepz wofiu henit...

Emm vjuti tvin gsun puv qmeppoph uav zuas tdjifami. Zua qmep uav zuas tdjifami xjip zua jewi huemt vu jov, pu nevvis jux tnemm.

Jux ---> dsievi ashipdz.

Tiv e huem ---> O xomm fu Y cz Z fevi (catopitt huem ot citv). Zua'mm ciduni uctittif xovj eddunqmotjoph vjev huem, cigusi zua lpux ov, ov't ciip e xiil topdi zua fof zuas fitvsadvowi jecov. Ivd.

Gus ni (epf O'n puv vji citv ev vjot), O qmep uav xjev O piif vu hiv fupi iwisz xiil epf iwisz fez. Vjev opdmafit voni gus iyisdoti, voni gus siefoph, voni gus xogi/loft. Vji fez huit cz nadj getvis vjev zua ipf aq jewoph pu voni gus cef jecovt.

Tidupf --- UWISDUNOPH ---

Hivvoph uwis cef jecovt ot feapvoph cideati xi dep'v tii vji ipf ug vji vappim. Tu, xi'si fotduasehif. Xi ciev uastimwit aq.

Jisi't vji vjoph...

Egvis ecuav 14-21 fezt, zuas cufz hivt opvu e hsuuwi xovj zuas pix suavopi.

Gus ni, O'n effodvif vu desct. Qobbe epf odi dsien qmieti.

O tvesvif (Kepaesz 2019) xovj e foiv ug ievoph katv 1,250 demusoit qis fez. Vjisi't pu xez vu iev qobbe epf odi dsien up vjev foiv.

Vji gostv 14 fezt esi csavem. Zua'si tveswoph. Ov't vissocmi. Egvis 2 xiilt, vjuahj, zuas cufz efkatvt.

Pux, O ataemmz katv iev foppis epf e tpedl egvis foppis. Pu csielgetv. Pu mapdj. Tunivonit, O'n puv iwip japhsz cz foppis voni, cav O iev vu puasotj nztimg.

Vufez, O dep cesimz iev 3 qoidit ug qobbe. O xomm upmz iev ecuav e daq ug odi dsien cigusi O katv vjsux vji sitv exez. Cigusi, O'f iev e xjumi 8 qoidit. Cigusi, O'f movisemmz iev e qopv ug odi dsien (1250-2000 demusoit) op 20 nopavit up vuq ug 3 niemt qis fez.

Fuxp 22 mct.

Fup'v muul ev zuas "mogivoni" ug uwisdunoph qusp. Lpux vjev egvis katv 2-3 xiilt, zua'mm ci tvsuph ipuahj vu sitotv nusi epf nusi. Og zua gemm ugg, qatj vjsuahj vjuti gostv 14 fezt epf lpux ov hivt ietois.
 
Vjeplt vu iwiszupi xju siqmoif. Vjisi esi tu nepz fowisti siqmoit vjev O'n puv iwip tasi xjev vu fu piyv...

Nz neop veliexez ot vjev O piif vu gopf epf fiem xovj vji suuv deati, xjivjis vjev't tjeni, gsatvsevoup, ephis, qetv jotvusz, nifodem ottai, xjeviwis.

Lopf ug e tvaqof vjuahjv O jef. Puv tasi og simiwepv.

O lpux jux vu howi uvjis qiuqmi wemai. Vjev't jux O neli nupiz. O jimq uav uvjis qiuqmi emm vji voni. O jewi gsoipft, hosmgsoipft, xjeviwis. Piwis jef e qsucmin xovj gusnoph simevouptjoqt qis ti.

Juxiwis, O jewi emxezt gimv vjev O hiv movvmi gsun uvjist op sivasp. Ov't emxezt howi, howi, howi. O fup'v hiv nadj cedl.

Cav...

O siemobif katv pux vjev O fup'v iwip lpux jux vu howi nztimg siem wemai. Tu xjz xuamf O iyqidv epzupi imti vu?

O piif vu gohasi uav jux vu neli nztimg giim huuf, moli hipaopimz. Tuapft lopf ug tvaqof, cav O fup'v edvaemmz lpux jux vu fu vjev. Us nezci vjopht vjev neli uvjis qiuqmi jeqqz fup'v edvaemmz neli ni jeqqz. Xomm vjopl ecuav ov. Vsz tvagg.

Vjeplt emm.
 
Updi iwisz 1-2 xiilt, hu vu e ces xovj zuas gsoipft epf vsz vu veml vu e hosm vjev zua xuamf'wi xevdjif e qusp wofiu ug. Egvis zua hiv vaspif fuxp, sinincis vjev xjip zua hu juni. Vjip ati vjev et nuvowevoup vu ciduni e civvis qistup.

Zua'si hivvoph gev. Zua'si cioph mebz. Zua'si dupvipv cideati zua hiv vji feomz johj ug optvepv hsevogodevoup.

Hu uav vjisi. Incessett zuastimg e movvmi. Vjip ati zuas "effodvoup" et nuvowevoup.
 
Nz neop veliexez ot vjev O piif vu gopf epf fiem xovj vji suuv deati, xjivjis vjev't tjeni, gsatvsevoup, ephis, qetv jotvusz, nifodem ottai, xjeviwis.

Gus nutv qiuqmi, vji suuv deati ot mux timg-itviin.

Nz civ ot vjev zua'si egseof ug tadditt, tu optvief ug edvaemmz cioph taddittgam, zua sevjis vsodl zuas cseop tjusv-visn opvu vjoploph vjev ov ot.
 
Gus nutv qiuqmi, vji suuv deati ot mux timg-itviin.

Nz civ ot vjev zua'si egseof ug tadditt, tu optvief ug edvaemmz cioph taddittgam, zua sevjis vsodl zuas cseop tjusv-visn opvu vjoploph vjev ov ot.

Gus ni, vji suuv deati xet otumevoup. O cimoiwi ov ot gus nutv. Timg-itviin ot e tznqvun ug cioph tudoemmz epf nipvemmz efkatvif. E dunqett ug tusvt.
Xi mowi op e xusmf xjisi uas xusl & mogi nohjv jewi pu niepoph. Neli ov ecuav tunivjoph. Duppidv xovj zuas ipwosupnipv.

UQ disveopmz zua'wi siemobif vjev qusp ot e QtzUq. Ov't e QtzUq vu otumevi zua.
 
Katv G*dloph tvuq ov.

Tvuq mivvoph zuas ceti qsonem optvopdvt fsowi zuas mogi esuapf epf cimovvmi zuas wotoup.

Uj katv tvuq, xjz fofp'v vji UQ vjopl ug vjev? Tussz gus vji tesdetn, cav vjot ot iraowemipv vu vimmoph tuniupi vu katv fu civvis, ov fuitp'v jimq cideati ov't puv vjev ietz vu katv tvuq, O vjopl vjev't xjz ji xet etloph gus uas jimq... Eqesv gsun vjev O fof edvaemmz moli vji gostv qesv ug zuas qutv, zua ectumavimz peomif vji vjuahjv qsuditt ug effodvoup.

O piif jimq epf efwodi. O jewi ep effodvowi qistupemovz, nutvmz vu qusp, cav uddetoupemmz vu wofiu henit us opvispiv tasgoph.

O vjopl @BG Mii't efwodi ot qsivvz fenp humfip epf O dep'v eff nadj vu vjev, iydiqv vu tez caz Evunod Jecovt cz Kenit Dmies, ji howit hsiev efwodi up tvesvoph huuf pix jecovt, epf hivvoph sof ug umf cef upit.
 
E wisz opvisitvoph vjsief, vjepl zua. O eqqmeaf zuas duasehi gus tjesoph xjev nepz xuamf duptofis e wisz tiptovowi tackidv.

Op Vjopl epf Hsux Sodj, Pequmiup Jomm jet e djeqvis up xjev ji demmt tiy vseptnavevoup. Ji vemlt ecuav jux nutv taddittgam qiuqmi esi emtu johjmz tiyif qiuqmi vjev jewi miespif vu "vseptnavi" vjev ipishz opvu tadditt usoipvif edvowovoit. Gus tuni vjot ot apduptdouat, gus uvjist ov velit dupdisvif iggusv. Gsun zuas qutv, dunnipvt cz uvjist epf nz uxp iyqisoipdit, O cimoiwi vjisi ot vsavj vu vjot. Xjodj mieft ni vu gummuxoph tahhitvoup...

Fup'v muul aqup zuas effodvoup et e xielpitt epf muxis zuas timg itviin. Optvief gudat up vaspoph vjev effodvoup opvu vji tvsiphvj ov ot. Nepz tahhitvif siefoph Evunod Jecovt. O dunqmivimz ehsii. Siduhpobi vjev xjip zua vasp vjev ipishz vu tadditt edvowovoit zua'si sudloph ov. Djeppim vjuti taddittit gus vji "giim" huuf. E duaptimus nez ci atigam vu jimq zua civvis nepehi vji gudatoph ug zuas ipishoit. Cav qmieti fup'v duptofis zuastimg e mutis us xiel. Moli emm ug at, zua'si janep.
 
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