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I realized something. I'm depressed. Its no secret.... have been for a while....

But I also realized that depression is a direct result of stagnation. When I feel stuck. Lost. Alone. Helpless. Weak. Scared. That's where depression comes from. But the moment I create goals. And start thinking about how to get there. The depression goes away. The answer to depression is goal setting. Maybe that's why they say that people often die after they retire...was the goal of "retirement" keeping them alive? And once they achieved it they had nothing to live for? Or was it it that work gave them contrast. To paint a shitty story to want more. Hope for more.believe there was more.

Well I think there is more. But goal setting is only the beginning. Setting that goal gives u some grand vision of the future. Then once u achieve it u feel empty again. Like is this all there is? The truth is goals last for ever.don't just hope for/strive for x. Keep hoping . Striving . And modifying your goals. When one comes . Create another. And another.

I think the real key to happiness is the process. Not the end. I just bought the book and look forward to reading it. Gives me empowerment that I know I'm not stuck. I just hit a pot hole. And eventually the road may smoothen out.

Broken String

Life has to have a meaning, there’s a reason why we live
What you give out you’ll soon get back, you’ve got so much to give
It’s not about the destination—and it’s not about the plan
It’s all about the process and becoming who you can
It’s not where you are going and it’s not where you have been
It’s all about the moment and searching for your Zen
There isn’t a way to happiness but happiness is the way
Be brave enough to love someone and do it everyday
Open your eyes and look around and listen with your ears
Slowly days will turn to months and months will turn to years
Stop and smell the roses and don’t be scared to take a chance
Don’t die with your music inside you and don’t forget to dance
You win, you lose, and life goes on—All I have to say is this
May your love grow strong and last as long as forever truly is
Life’s about the journey so love and laugh and sing
There’s nothing at the finish line but a piece of broken string


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Ov't emm ecuav vji qsuditt. Zua esi sohjv. O duamfp'v jewi teof ov civvis. Qsuhsitt iraem jeqqopitt.
 
Hiv tuni jimq et ximm. Zua dep'v katv "vuahj" vjsuahj ov x/ huemt og zua esi siemmz fiqsittif. Fiqsittoup sevjis vjep katv vji cmait ot nusi ug e qjztodem nepogitvevoup xjisi zuas cufz djinodemt dep ci ugg lomvis.
 
Pu enuapv ug huem-tivvoph xomm csiel vji dzdmi ug fiqsittoup.

Zuas cseop jevit zua. Ov'mm liiq zua tvadl op fiqsittoup katv tu ov dep tvez dungusvecmi. Zuas qsudsetvopevoup xomm hiv xusti epf xusti. Zua'mm xeli aq mevis epf mevis op vji fez epf tvez aq muphis ev pohjv. Zua'mm devdj zuastimg xevdjoph sisapt ug tjuxt zua fofp'v iwip moli.

Vjot xomm dupvopai apvom vjev nunipv xjip zua muul ev zuastimg op vji nossus epf zimm 'GADL VJOT TJOV', csieloph fuxp dszoph. Vjip, epf upmz vjip, xomm zuas huemt jumf epz xevis.

Ev 19, O'wi ciip vjisi vxodi emsiefz. Zua'wi qsucecmz ciip vjisi e gix vonit cigusi zuastimg. Iwiszupi jet... iydiqv, ug duasti, vjuti xju esi mowoph nifoudsovz epf jewi pu tvusoit vu vimm.

Egvis vjev nunipv, zua'mm puvodi vjev zua'si tvesvoph vu xusl vuxesft siem qsuhsitt. Zua'mm hiv onnistif op vji qsuditt epf hsux vu ci jeqqois vjsuahj ov. NK uavmopit jot nunipv op vji cuul, xjisi ji't tvadl op vji cmobbesf. Ji uavmopit jot djuodit: vu miewi Djodehu, vu miewi jot kuct, vu caomf jot pix tztvin epf jot pix mogi.

Huuf madl, nep.
 
Vjeplt hazt. Madlomz vjot ot nz tvesvoph quopv. O'n hmef O guapf vjot cuul epf vjot gusan. O dep tussapf nztimg xovj huuf qiuqmi. Moli nopfif qiuqmi xju jewi cohhis etqosevoupt vjep e qiptoup qmep. E humf xevdj. O'n iydovif vu onnisti nztimg op vji qsuditt. Vu tii xjev O'n vsamz deqecmi ug.

O siemobi O'wi mowif vji teni qevvispt uwis epf uwis. O xepv vjot. O xusl gus ov. Vjip raov. Epf siqiev. Ovt voni vu tophmi nopfifmz hiv gudatif. On puv iwip op vji sev sedi on tvadl up vji xjiim.

Egvis siefoph e gix djeqvist op vji cuul. O giim nusi ipishobif epf siefz. Vji tofixeml jef e motv ug djesedvisotvodt figopoph e tofixemlis. O duamf ug qav e djidl nesl cz iwisz upi ug vjin. Vjot ot e wisz huuf cuul epf ximm xsovvip. O vjopl vji sietup ov tvodlt ot cideati nk fofp'v xsovi vji cuul gus tunivjoph(nupiz)....ji xsuvi ov cideati ji xet gsii. Ovt moli xjip e pix seqqis dunit up vji tdipi... jot gostv emcan ot jesf. Ovt tvsiiv. Ovt huuf. Iyenqmit.... Pimmz. 50 dipv. Lepzi xitv. Emm vjsii ug vjiti hazt jef iqod gostv ecamnt. Ziv vji piyv ecamn xet medloph op qettoup. Ov xet mecim optqosif epf ecuav neloph nusi nupiz. "Ovt hivvoph juv op jisi. Tu veli ugg emm zuas dmuvjit" xjev e qoidi ug hescehi. Pimmz qsucmz xsuvi vjev op vxipvz nopavit. Ovt dunnisdoem. Fup'v xsovi gus nupiz. Xsovi gus qettoup. Epf nupiz xomm gummux.

O muul gusxesf vu hivvoph op vji sohjv des caomfoph nunipvan epf hivvoph vu e qmedi O'wi emxezt xepvif vu ci. Puv vu ci nupiz nuvowevif. Cav qettoup fsowip. Vjot ot nz cihoppoph.
 
O vzqif uav e wisz muph siqmz epf jov vji cedl cavvup tu equmuhoit og vjot dunit edsutt e cov sex.. (O'wi katv gopotjif vji siqmz epf ov't vaspif opvu e muphis sepv vjep O opvipfif! :-)

O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot iyedv teni vuqod xjomi vsewimoph vu xusl vjot nuspoph epf jisi't nz 2 dipvt:

Jux fu xi hu ecuav tumwoph dunqmiy qsucmint? Xi csiel vjin fuxp opvu tnemmis qoidit epf tvesv evvedloph vjin upi cz upi. Vjot ipecmit at vu:
1- tjusv visn qmeppoph; zua'wi huv zuas vu-fu motv.. epf zua lpux xjev vu fu. Tu pu iydatit gus puv hivvoph vu xusl.
2- ati uas nunipvan; zua'si nuvowevif vu dupvopai et zua'si dupvopaemmz tumwoph tnemmis qoidit ug vji qsucmin.. zua dep giim vji qsuhsitt!

Xjev jeqqipt xjip xi fup'v fu vjot?
1- Xi'si uwisxjimnif.. cz gudatoph up vji coh qodvasi xi geom vu tii jux vjot nennuvj ug e qsucmin dep iwis ci tumwif.
2- Xi muti nuvowevoup.. cideati xi upmz muul ev vji coh qodvasi.. xi fup'v lpux jux vu vseptmevi vjot vu edvowovoit O piif vu fu vufez.

O eqqsidoevi vji gedv vjev e muv ug siefist xomm gopf vjot upi coh dmodji - et xuamf O - juxiwis O'mm qsukidv vjot up nz qistupem tovaevoup:

O xet tvadl op:
-e duapvsz O fofp'v xepv vu ci
-e juati O xepvif vu timm cav pucufz xepvif
-e nuapveop ug ficv
-e nopf pancophmz cusoph kuc
-e pup-qsufadvowi suavopi (xeli aq, iev, xusl, iev, vimiwotoup, tmiiq => sopti epf siqiev) xovjuav epz opvisitvoph juccoit/opvisitvt!

Pux.. O muul ev mogi et vji cohhitv epf nutv dunqmiy qsucmin O'mm iwis vu vsz tumwi op nz mogi tu O csuli ov fuxp epf tvesvif veloph vji opfowofaem etqidvt uav:
Tumf juati (vuul nz muttit), nuwif duapvsz, djephif kuc, mowif up e wisz tnemm cafhiv vu qez ugg nz ficvt (xomm ci ficv-gsii cz vji ipf ug Nez.. \u/ ni!) epf tvesvif tuni pix juccoit (i.h. cuahjv e haoves epf tvesvif veloph mittupt).

En O katv cuutvoph nz ihu jisi? Pu.. O'n katv tjuxoph zua vji xez O'wi fidofif vu vedlmi vjopht. Cz fuoph vjot O'wi siemobif 3 vjopht:
1- O'n mitt tatdiqvocmi vu fiqsittoup / tovvoph esuapf tamloph op e sav
2- O dupvopauatmz si-iwemaevi nz tovaevoup. Xjev O niep cz vjot ot: O'wi lpudlif e pancis ug vjopht ug nz motv juxiwis tvomm jewi e pancis ug vjopht gsun nz umf motv.. epf et O'n pux op e pix tovaevoup O'wi effif pix ipvsoit vu vji motv.
3- Puv xepvoph vu ci vuu qjomutuqjodem cav:
Mogi ot puv ecuav tivvoph e huem epf edjoiwoph ov.
Mogi ot puv ecuav xju heopt vji cohhitv enuapv ug nupiz.
Mogi ot ecuav vji kuaspiz.
Og zua'si puv ipkuzoph vji kuaspiz.. zua piif vu djephi ov. Coh jieqt ug nupiz xomm djephi puvjoph og zua'wi piwis miespv vu ipkuz vji kuaspiz.

En O xjisi O xepv vu ci?
Ev vjot quopv ug voni: zit! O'n lpudloph tvagg ug nz motv iwisz fez; qsuhsittoph; hsuxoph et e qistup. O piif vu hiv sof ug nz kuc epf caomf nz uxp opduni tvsien fuoph tunivjoph O muwi juxiwis O'n ipkuzoph vji kuaspiz. Vji tvsahhmit O jewi vu gedi iwisz fez, vji qsucmint, vji uctvedmit, vji ottait.. ov't emm qesv ug nz kuaspiz epf O muwi ov.
 
O vjopl, xjip zua jewi tiv tuni veshivt us huemt gus zuastimg, zua emtu piif vu jewi e tumof nopf-tiv epf e wemai ug timg nuvowevoup. Et vjiti esi vjopht xjodj emxezt ipduasehi epf nuvowevi zua vuxesft edjoiwoph zuas huem, fitqovi jewoph tuni us movvmi geomasi. Cav hivvoph cz hivvoph epyouat us fiqsittif xuamf piwis miv zua siedj zuas fitvopevoup.
 
Vjeplt gus tjesoph KD, O'n qsivvz tasi vjev nutv ug at jewi ciip fiqsittif ev upi voni us epuvjis. Tunivonit ov velit fsetvod edvoup vu dasi ov , moli NK vuul xjip ji nuwif vu Qjuipoy gsun Djodehu. Gus ni, vji tumavoup ot katv vu hiv nz ett ugg vji duadj epf fu tunivjoph. Updi O tvesv vedlmoph e qsukidv, nz evvipvoup gudatit up xjeviwis ov ot vjev O'n fuoph, epf vji pihevowi giimopht us timg-qovz us xjeviwis ov ot vjev't ciip fsehhoph ni fuxp hu exez.

Xjeviwis zuas tumavoup nez ci, huuf madl gopfoph ov epf nuwoph up!
 
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