I'm on the slowlane, but just because you aren't doesn't mean you can't be happy. There are plenty of people out there who truly love their jobs, being in the military definitely has it's ups and downs. Do I want to be my own boss? Yes of course, but I'm still young and I enjoy the thrill that the military gives. Could I do what I Do in the military on the outside? Maybe, but it wouldn't be the same way. I used to fly on helicopters, the kind that go out and rescue people in combat areas. I was surrounded by pilots and "high speed low drag" type of guys, these guys love their job and a lot of them would do it for free. I think people focus too much on wanting to own their own business and becoming wealthy, that they forget about being truly happy. Me personally, I want to have a side business designing games. Sure once the military thrill wears off, I'll get out, but for now I want to enjoy it. If I was in a different job in the civilian world, it would be different. Would you truly be happy if you were CEO? Or do you just think you would be? It's kind of like when people say "well once I have this car and make this much money, I'll be happy", but they get it and realize they aren't happy. You said: "Happiness matters, but doesn't becoming your boss matter much more?" Isn't that the whole point of wanting to become free of the slowlane? To be happy? I mean why would you want to get out of the slowlane if you hated where you were going anyways? Reminds me of that success story posting by a member here, Cantwait2 :
To me it's about being happy, if you're happy then nothing else matters. Who cares about your bank account status, or the cars in your driveway if you're not happy. I'd rather have less and be happy, than everything and hate my life. In the end, when you're on your death bed, it won't matter how much money you made, but the experiences that you had in life that will make you smile.
Happiness all depends on the individual. If you're happy that's wonderful. Right now at this EXACT moment in my life, I am simply content... but I know where I am going and the road I am taking with my life. I went through some tragedies that makes me appreciate the good that I currently have, and the opportunities that I will soon achieve in my life. If I could be content making $10 at a assembly line, then I can be CONTENT doing anything. I feel like a rich person, since I have the power to quit my current job for a few months too, and not worry about my finances. And I will leave it for my next career opportunity, which would be learning and operating a million-dollar industry in a field I will enjoy. But I won't be 100% happy, maybe 50% happy and 50% still hungry for my own business. But definitely not only content, since I am learning and growing as a person.
To be 100% in a general state of happiness, in all honesty, I would need to weigh 110 lbs/plastic surgery (for self-esteem, and I am working on this), own/operate a franchise bringing in millions a year (so I'll feel successful), have a small group of true friends for social contact, have a loving and healthy relationship with a minimum 6'0 ft and intelligent and general good-looking clean and compatible man who has equal ambitions and makes decent money so I don't feel like I am supporting him but can equally contribute to our wealth together, feel like I have total financial freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want, have at least a bachelor degree by 26 (even though it's not high up in my list I still want to feel accomplish in this aspect after I get my job training). And have a little bit of fame, be it in Forbes magazine or just in the industry that I am working at, but at least I left a mark on the planet (but this is low down the list, but it will be 5% happiness).
And material goods that I would want that would be trophy items. A nice little cottage in the woods, with deers and rabbits all around, and surrounded by birds tweeting. A nice running car. No debt, and pure profits. And I'll bake a pie, since I have free time to do so to celebrate my life. And I'll believe in God a little bit more, and go to church more often.
And that will make me happy. At least I hope so.
So I guess owning a million-dollar corporation isn't going to make me happy, but the people and the lifestyle I live will. But money sure does help.
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