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I know I'm going to get a lot of heat for this post but I always feel like I need to give back to this forum any way I can. I've noticed over several years that many of the guys I know that get divorced and never seen it coming because they failed to see the red flags. Here are a couple of red flags that you have to be aware before getting married to "the girl of your dreams".
I can usually predict whether a divorce will happen within 1 hour of conversation with any girl. Take my advice with a grain of salt, it may not be true for EVERY girl as that would be impossible but at the end of the day you need to protect your assets, emotions, and business. Don't be like Dave Foley...
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaC-2lj6HNg
1-Impulsiveness
Girls who are guided by actions that feel "good at the moment" are often terrible long term mates. They are looking for weddings, not marriages. They will leave your a$$ in moment when they are unhappy when things go south. You often hear it in conversations such as "I just packed my stuff and moved to California because it felt right!", " Even though I had no money, I just had to buy that pair of shoes!", etc.
2-Bad Credit
As related to impulsiveness, this really needs no explanation. You married a girl with bad credit? I guess you married her credit cards and student loans as well....
3-Social Media
Huge red flag! Common red flags are over 5000 friends, posts pictures everyday on instagram and facebook. Again she want to get married for the "likes" and isn't really looking at long term struggles and maintaining the marriage. Don't believe me that social media is a red flag? Read this... Is Facebook Ruining Your Marriage?
There are many, many more red flags that I wont' get into and getting married in 2018 is probably the riskiest "investment" you will ever make. Choose your partner carefully, like the poker game of life know when to fold AK.
I can usually predict whether a divorce will happen within 1 hour of conversation with any girl. Take my advice with a grain of salt, it may not be true for EVERY girl as that would be impossible but at the end of the day you need to protect your assets, emotions, and business. Don't be like Dave Foley...
1-Impulsiveness
Girls who are guided by actions that feel "good at the moment" are often terrible long term mates. They are looking for weddings, not marriages. They will leave your a$$ in moment when they are unhappy when things go south. You often hear it in conversations such as "I just packed my stuff and moved to California because it felt right!", " Even though I had no money, I just had to buy that pair of shoes!", etc.
2-Bad Credit
As related to impulsiveness, this really needs no explanation. You married a girl with bad credit? I guess you married her credit cards and student loans as well....
3-Social Media
Huge red flag! Common red flags are over 5000 friends, posts pictures everyday on instagram and facebook. Again she want to get married for the "likes" and isn't really looking at long term struggles and maintaining the marriage. Don't believe me that social media is a red flag? Read this... Is Facebook Ruining Your Marriage?
There are many, many more red flags that I wont' get into and getting married in 2018 is probably the riskiest "investment" you will ever make. Choose your partner carefully, like the poker game of life know when to fold AK.
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