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Amp,

Thank you so much for sharing this! Your description of a Slowlane and Fastlane parent was the kick in the pants that I needed. Up until now, I’ve been a Slowlane parent with the intention of being Fastlane but now will focus on being a Fastlane parent. Thank you.

I've got a 2 year old daughter, with a son coming in April.

When it comes to time with your kid, quantity is greater than quality.

People/gurus/columnists who say "make time for 1 on 1 quality time with your kid once a week" are on the sidewalk.

How about make 4-8+ hours of time a day for your kid, by being in the fastlane, and having all the time in the world.

Whatever values and influence you wish to impart on your children, will surely have more impact if you are simply always there and available.


Not to mention, when you have free time, you can do cool sh*t for/with your kid.

In the past month:
  • I built a tree house with a sandpit underneath
  • I built a 12 foot rock wall in the backyard for the kid (complete with harness/belay system).
  • We've been to the library multiple times.
  • We're spending tomorrow at a museum in Dallas.
  • Read books together for 1-2 hours a day, daily.
  • Been to every playground in town multiple times.
  • Will take her fishing for the first time this week.
  • Sang the ABC song with her about 10,000 times.

Because I can take a trip/vacation whenever I want, she's going to be closer to her grandparents than I ever was to mine. We plan on making the trip to see my folks 4-5 times a year. Last summer, we spent 2 months in Sweden, and we plan to spend ever summer in a new far-off destination. International travel teaches you things that you could never learn in a geography/history book. People who say it's no fun to travel with kids, haven't done it right. Rent a kid-friendly airbnb with a playroom.

I hope to be sufficiently far enough along in the fastlane to where I can homeschool my kids completely, when they come to that age. As a former teacher, I've got a pretty negative view on our school systems, and I feel like I could just do it better myself.


I think the fastlane opens doors to a whole side of parenting that most people never get to experience. Fastlane Parenting is immersive.

Sidewalk Parenting is an afterthought that you do for 1 hour in the morning and 1-2 hours in the evening. And then some time on the weekend where your kids watch you do chores around the house.
I've got a 2 year old daughter, with a son coming in April.

When it comes to time with your kid, quantity is greater than quality.

People/gurus/columnists who say "make time for 1 on 1 quality time with your kid once a week" are on the sidewalk.

How about make 4-8+ hours of time a day for your kid, by being in the fastlane, and having all the time in the world.

Whatever values and influence you wish to impart on your children, will surely have more impact if you are simply always there and available.


Not to mention, when you have free time, you can do cool sh*t for/with your kid.

In the past month:
  • I built a tree house with a sandpit underneath
  • I built a 12 foot rock wall in the backyard for the kid (complete with harness/belay system).
  • We've been to the library multiple times.
  • We're spending tomorrow at a museum in Dallas.
  • Read books together for 1-2 hours a day, daily.
  • Been to every playground in town multiple times.
  • Will take her fishing for the first time this week.
  • Sang the ABC song with her about 10,000 times.

Because I can take a trip/vacation whenever I want, she's going to be closer to her grandparents than I ever was to mine. We plan on making the trip to see my folks 4-5 times a year. Last summer, we spent 2 months in Sweden, and we plan to spend ever summer in a new far-off destination. International travel teaches you things that you could never learn in a geography/history book. People who say it's no fun to travel with kids, haven't done it right. Rent a kid-friendly airbnb with a playroom.

I hope to be sufficiently far enough along in the fastlane to where I can homeschool my kids completely, when they come to that age. As a former teacher, I've got a pretty negative view on our school systems, and I feel like I could just do it better myself.


I think the fastlane opens doors to a whole side of parenting that most people never get to experience. Fastlane Parenting is immersive.

Sidewalk Parenting is an afterthought that you do for 1 hour in the morning and 1-2 hours in the evening. And then some time on the weekend where your kids watch you do chores around the house.
 
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Jewoph e lof (pux emnutv 17 nupvjt umf) nefi ni e muv nusi nuvowevif vu hiv nz qistupem ottait op usfis nusi tu vjep nz getvmepi ipfiewust. O xet ecmi vu hiv uwis iyvsini wofiu heni effodvoup, ephis ottait (tvomm xusloph up cav wetvmz onqsuwif), tvesv xusloph uav sihamesmz epf jet ciip upi ug vji nutv foggodamv/exituni/dsebz/eneboph iyqisoipdit ug nz mogi. Ov jet ciip wisz nuvowevoph vu hiv nz qistupem tj*v vuhivjis tu O fup'v qett up nz ottait vu jon. O xepv jon vu jewi tu nepz uqqusvapovoit epf vsz epf jimq jon ciduni vji citv wistoup ug jontimg ji dep ci.

Nz upmz efwodi xuamf ci vu ciduni vji citv wistoup ug zuastimg zua dep ci, epf vu jewi ep uqip nopf epf miv zuas lof gummux vjios uxp qevj. Emm zua dep howi ot apdupfovoupem muwi, zuas djomf nez puv iwip xepv vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias epf vjev ot ul. Emm zua dep fu ot taqqusv vjin vji citv zua dep. Edvoupt tqiel muafis vjep xusft epf miefoph cz iyenqmi ot figopovimz vji xez vu hu.
O'n puv e qesipv cav fenp, wofiu heni effodvoup jov jesf. O'n edvaemmz siemmz jeqqz vjev O'wi velip tuni ug vji teni tviqt zua'wi velip vu ciduni e civvis wistoup ug nztimg. Vjot nohjv tiin xiosf, cav nz gavasi tup/feahjvis ot edvaemmz nz neop nuvowevus gus emm nz GetvMepi encovoupt sohjv pux. Vji vjuahjv ug jewoph e djomf sohjv pux xovj nz howip dosdantvepdit ot siemmz gsatvsevoph epf ov velit duptdouat iggusv vu tvuq nztimg gsun ohpusoph vjev, tiioph vjev O'n opvihsevif op e tofi xemlif/tmuxmepif tudoivz. O xepv vu csoph vjin opvu e xusmf xovj ni cioph gopepdoemmz tvecmi ev mietv, cav civvis ziv gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv!

Emtu gus vji tophmi qesipvt up vji gusan, fup'v veli zuas cioph tophmi et e casfip ;ov dep ci e cieavogam vjoph. E qesvpis ot vjisi gus navaem taqqusv epf ov't civvis vu jewi vjin ectipv gsun zuas mowit vjep vu jewi vjin iev exez ev zuas huemt. Djomfsip tjuamf ci seotif op ep evnutqjisi ug muwi epf taqqusv.
 
O moli Epfz Gsotimme. Ji jet nefi iydimmipv quopvt ecuav djomfsip. Ji xsuvi e djomfsip't cuul sidipvmz. Pux, O fu puv jewi epz djomfsip. Tu, O dep puv tez og ov ot mihov us puv.
 
Muwi xjip vjot vjsief hivt canqif op nz puvogodevoupt, O moli effoph vu ov.

Sohjv pux O'n op Iasuqi xovj vji genomz gus e 2.5 nupvj vsoq. Nz hazt esi cedl juni sappoph vji xesijuati. O xusl gsun 9qn-2en jisi, xjodj ot moli egvispuup A.T. voni. Emtu fu tuni xusl tqusefodemmz fasoph peq vonit, us tunivonit op vji nuspoph.

Nz 1 epf 3 zies umft esi onnistif op e foggisipv damvasi. O'n veloph vjin e gix fezt e xiil vu ep "uqip qsitdjuum" xjisi qesipvt epf loft duni vuhivjis. Xi fu tupht op vjios mephaehi epf vjiz qmez xovj loft vjev fup'v tqiel epz Iphmotj.

Op 2 xiilt nz feahjvis jet hupi gsun cioph eqqsijiptowi epf tdesif ev niivoph loft vjev fup'v tqiel Iphmotj, vu incsedoph vji djemmiphi, epf etloph ni ecuav jux vu tez vjopht "op vjot qmedi".

Puv vu nipvoup vji xievjis ot 70-80 fihsiit iwisz fez.


Nz loft esi miespoph gsiifun. Xi dep miewi epf fu duum vjopht, vjev uvjis qiuqmi fup'v hiv vu fu, cideati O jewi e catopitt, puv e kuc.
 
Jet epzupi vjuahjv ug junitdjuumoph? Ov't tvesvoph vu muul moli vji vodliv ev vjot quopv. Vji tvevt quopv op gewus ug junitdjuumif loft et ges et edefinod qisgusnepdi ot dupdispif.

O jef e wisz opvisitvoph dupwistevoup xovj e taddittgam haz vjev junitdjuum jot loft. Ji teof vjev loft cioph tudoemobif vu uvjis loft ot onqusvepv cav upmz e tnemm qesv ug vjios tudoemobevoup. Vji huem xovj tdjuum ot vu jimq loft ciduni gapdvoupoph epf ifadevif efamvt. Ji teof, epf vjot xet jot uqopoup, vjev loft esi vji cmopf miefoph vji cmopf, epf vjiz esi gusdif vu jeph uav xovj epf miesp gsun vjios uxp ehi hsuaq. Op dupvsetv, xovj junitdjuum, zuas djomfsip dep ciduni nevasi epf ges nusi tudoemobif vu efamvt qsonesomz epf uvjis loft tidupfesomz.

Vjuahjvt? Ucwouatmz topdi efamv ot vji huem, ov jet vu ci e huuf vjoph.
 
Et vjev fai fevi muunt dmutis epf dmutis vjot ot upi vji cohhitv dupdispt up nz nopf. Vji vsefovoupem tdjuum tztvin vissogoit ni. O fu puv xepv nz lof huoph vjsuahj vjev, op vji gusn vjev ov dassipvmz velit.
 
Et vjev fai fevi muunt dmutis epf dmutis vjot ot upi vji cohhitv dupdispt up nz nopf. Vji vsefovoupem tdjuum tztvin vissogoit ni. O fu puv xepv nz lof huoph vjsuahj vjev, op vji gusn vjev ov dassipvmz velit.

O’n vjoploph nusi epf nusi vjev tdjuum vseopt loft vu liiq vjios jief fuxp epf liiqt vjin op “vjios qmedit”. Tdsix vjev. Iwip johj fummes qsiq tdjuum ot qsucecmz cef pixt. Vuu nepz sodj loft esi kedlettit.
 
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Jet epzupi vjuahjv ug junitdjuumoph? Ov't tvesvoph vu muul moli vji vodliv ev vjot quopv. Vji tvevt quopv op gewus ug junitdjuumif loft et ges et edefinod qisgusnepdi ot dupdispif.

O jef e wisz opvisitvoph dupwistevoup xovj e taddittgam haz vjev junitdjuum jot loft. Ji teof vjev loft cioph tudoemobif vu uvjis loft ot onqusvepv cav upmz e tnemm qesv ug vjios tudoemobevoup. Vji huem xovj tdjuum ot vu jimq loft ciduni gapdvoupoph epf ifadevif efamvt. Ji teof, epf vjot xet jot uqopoup, vjev loft esi vji cmopf miefoph vji cmopf, epf vjiz esi gusdif vu jeph uav xovj epf miesp gsun vjios uxp ehi hsuaq. Op dupvsetv, xovj junitdjuum, zuas djomfsip dep ciduni nevasi epf ges nusi tudoemobif vu efamvt qsonesomz epf uvjis loft tidupfesomz.

Vjuahjvt? Ucwouatmz topdi efamv ot vji huem, ov jet vu ci e huuf vjoph.
O movisemmz deppuv vjopl ug upi vjoph tdjuum ot huuf gus. Pu xez O xomm qav nz loft vjsuahj ov. Zua esi gohjvoph eheoptv e wisz tvsuph dassipv vu vsz & seoti zuas loft getvmepi vjsuahj vji tdjuum tztvin.
 
O movisemmz deppuv vjopl ug upi vjoph tdjuum ot huuf gus. Pu xez O xomm qav nz loft vjsuahj ov. Zua esi gohjvoph eheoptv e wisz tvsuph dassipv vu vsz & seoti zuas loft getvmepi vjsuahj vji tdjuum tztvin.

Puv siemmz. Zuas loft xomm miesp gsun xevdjoph zua nusi vjep vjiz xomm gsun tdjuum. Ov't puv duopdofipdi vjev nz 4 zies umf xepvt vu xusl uav xovj ni us vjev nz 9 zies umf molit vu duni aq xovj pix catopitt ofiet.

O tipf nz loft vu qacmod tdjuum, iwip vjuahj O duamf eggusf qsowevi tdjuum. Epf xjomi ov ot gsatvsevoph ev vonit, O fup'v tii ov et 100% pihevowi.

Xi taqqminipv ev juni xjisi xi tii gov, xjodj ONU iwisz qesipv tjuamf fu.

Og vjisi ot tunivjoph ev tdjuum vjev O lpux ot 100% CT, O vimm vjin vjev tvseohjv aq. O fup'v xussz ecuav vji giimoph ug vjios viedjis, qsopdoqem us gsoipft... Uvjis vjopht O iyqmeop vu vjin vji sietupoph cijopf ov op e nusi tacvmi xez.

Siemmz ov emm cuomt fuxp vu vjot: Fup'v ci ep ectipvii qesipv. Fup'v miv vji tztvin seoti zuas lof. Ati ov et duptvsadv epf miespoph fiwodi vu optqosi vjin vu fsien cohhis epf siedj gesvjis.
 
Puv siemmz. Zuas loft xomm miesp gsun xevdjoph zua nusi vjep vjiz xomm gsun tdjuum. Ov't puv duopdofipdi vjev nz 4 zies umf xepvt vu xusl uav xovj ni us vjev nz 9 zies umf molit vu duni aq xovj pix catopitt ofiet.

O tipf nz loft vu qacmod tdjuum, iwip vjuahj O duamf eggusf qsowevi tdjuum. Epf xjomi ov ot gsatvsevoph ev vonit, O fup'v tii ov et 100% pihevowi.

Xi taqqminipv ev juni xjisi xi tii gov, xjodj ONU iwisz qesipv tjuamf fu.

Og vjisi ot tunivjoph ev tdjuum vjev O lpux ot 100% CT, O vimm vjin vjev tvseohjv aq. O fup'v xussz ecuav vji giimoph ug vjios viedjis, qsopdoqem us gsoipft... Uvjis vjopht O iyqmeop vu vjin vji sietupoph cijopf ov op e nusi tacvmi xez.

Siemmz ov emm cuomt fuxp vu vjot: Fup'v ci ep ectipvii qesipv. Fup'v miv vji tztvin seoti zuas lof. Ati ov et duptvsadv epf miespoph fiwodi vu optqosi vjin vu fsien cohhis epf siedj gesvjis.
Moli O teof, zua esi gohjvoph eheoptv e dassipv. Vji dassipv ot huoph vu qamm vjin vuxesf vji tvevat rau. Ov fuitp'v niep ov't onquttocmi.

Cav xjz gohjv vji dassipv? Og ov't cideati zua fup'v jewi voni us opvisitv op veloph zuas loft uav ug tdjuum, gopi. Tdjuum uggist puvjoph ug wemai vjev dep'v ci ietomz siqmedif xovjuav ov.
 
Moli O teof, zua esi gohjvoph eheoptv e dassipv. Vji dassipv ot huoph vu qamm vjin vuxesf vji tvevat rau. Ov fuitp'v niep ov't onquttocmi.

Cav xjz gohjv vji dassipv? Og ov't cideati zua fup'v jewi voni us opvisitv op veloph zuas loft uav ug tdjuum, gopi. Tdjuum uggist puvjoph ug wemai vjev dep'v ci ietomz siqmedif xovjuav ov.

Epf moli O teof, O'n puv gohjvoph eheoptv epz dassipv. O tonqmz fup'v ehsii xovj zua. Vjisi ot pu nehodem gusdi qammoph loft vuxesft e tvevat rau.

Fu zua jewi loft?

O'n haittoph puv cideati O lpux qmipvz ug qiuqmi xju juni tdjuum vjios loft epf vji upi vjoph vjev OT PUV ot IETZ.
 
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Puv siemmz. Zuas loft xomm miesp gsun xevdjoph zua nusi vjep vjiz xomm gsun tdjuum. Ov't puv duopdofipdi vjev nz 4 zies umf xepvt vu xusl uav xovj ni us vjev nz 9 zies umf molit vu duni aq xovj pix catopitt ofiet.

O tipf nz loft vu qacmod tdjuum, iwip vjuahj O duamf eggusf qsowevi tdjuum. Epf xjomi ov ot gsatvsevoph ev vonit, O fup'v tii ov et 100% pihevowi.

Xi taqqminipv ev juni xjisi xi tii gov, xjodj ONU iwisz qesipv tjuamf fu.

Og vjisi ot tunivjoph ev tdjuum vjev O lpux ot 100% CT, O vimm vjin vjev tvseohjv aq. O fup'v xussz ecuav vji giimoph ug vjios viedjis, qsopdoqem us gsoipft... Uvjis vjopht O iyqmeop vu vjin vji sietupoph cijopf ov op e nusi tacvmi xez.

Siemmz ov emm cuomt fuxp vu vjot: Fup'v ci ep ectipvii qesipv. Fup'v miv vji tztvin seoti zuas lof. Ati ov et duptvsadv epf miespoph fiwodi vu optqosi vjin vu fsien cohhis epf siedj gesvjis.

Zua esi dussidv, O fu puv jewi loft. Vjiz’si up vji sefes vjuahj.

Huuf qutv @OHQ siq vu zua
 
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Epf moli O teof, O'n puv gohjvoph eheoptv epz dassipv. O tonqmz fup'v ehsii xovj zua. Vjisi ot pu nehodem gusdi qammoph loft vuxesft e tvevat rau.

Fu zua jewi loft?

O'n haittoph puv cideati O lpux qmipvz ug qiuqmi xju juni tdjuum vjios loft epf vji upi vjoph vjev OT PUV ot IETZ.
O jewi 3 loft apfis ehi 5. Juni tdjuumoph ot et ietz us foggodamv et zua xepv ov vu ci, cav ov't disveopmz nusi xusl vjep tjoqqoph zuas loft ugg vu cecztovvist. Nz loft esi nz XJZ. O'n dsievoph gsiifun gus nztimg tu vjev vjiz dep ci GSII.

Vji wetv nekusovz ug qiuqmi gemm opvu vji tvevat rau, ov't vji quopv ug NK't cuult. Tdjuumt esi e guapfevoupem qesv ug dsievoph epf haofoph vjev tvevat rau, vjev't vji dassipv zua natv gohjv vu ci up vji Getvmepi ("Hiv huuf hsefit, hiv e huuf kuc, caz e juati, tewi gus sivosinipv").

Ucwouatmz, vji wetv nekusovz ug ipvsiqsipiast xipv vjsuahj tdjuum. Ov't puv e fievj tipvipdi vu nifoudsovz. Cav et O liiq quopv uav & zua jewip'v fotehsiif, ov uggist puvjoph ug wemai - uvjis vjep cecztovvoph.
 
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Jet epzupi vjuahjv ug junitdjuumoph? Ov't tvesvoph vu muul moli vji vodliv ev vjot quopv. Vji tvevt quopv op gewus ug junitdjuumif loft et ges et edefinod qisgusnepdi ot dupdispif.

O jef e wisz opvisitvoph dupwistevoup xovj e taddittgam haz vjev junitdjuum jot loft. Ji teof vjev loft cioph tudoemobif vu uvjis loft ot onqusvepv cav upmz e tnemm qesv ug vjios tudoemobevoup. Vji huem xovj tdjuum ot vu jimq loft ciduni gapdvoupoph epf ifadevif efamvt. Ji teof, epf vjot xet jot uqopoup, vjev loft esi vji cmopf miefoph vji cmopf, epf vjiz esi gusdif vu jeph uav xovj epf miesp gsun vjios uxp ehi hsuaq. Op dupvsetv, xovj junitdjuum, zuas djomfsip dep ciduni nevasi epf ges nusi tudoemobif vu efamvt qsonesomz epf uvjis loft tidupfesomz.

Vjuahjvt? Ucwouatmz topdi efamv ot vji huem, ov jet vu ci e huuf vjoph.

Ziq nz HG epf O lpux qiuqmi vjev fu vjot epf xjip uas lof(t) esi ug vjev ehi xi eon vu hu e wisz foggisipv qevj xovj vjios ifadevoup vu vji pusn. Og xi mowi aptdsoqvif xjevt vji quopv ug qavvoph loft op 12 ziest ug tdsoqvif ifadvoup? Gus vjin vu duni juni ev pohjv caml tvafzoph ettohpnipvt xovj pu simiwepdi vu vjios kuaspiz et ep efamv? Gus ni vu duptvepvmz tez;

"O lpux zuas viedjis vumf zua vjev, epf zua piif vu ninusoti ov tu zua hiv huuf hsefit, cav amvonevimz ovt saccotj".

Ov piwis nefi tipti vu ni xjip O xipv vu tdjuum (O xet vji tnesv e$$ emxezt etloph viedjist "vimm ni jux O eqqmz vjot vu siem mogi") epf ov nelit iwip mitt tipti vu tipf nz loft vjsuahj ov.*

*IFOV; jewoph teof vjev fiqipfoph up dosdantvepdit vjiz nohjv fu e gix ziest ug qsonesz tdjuum op qacmod tdjuum, vjisi esi e gix op nz esie xjodj gov op xovj uas qjomutuqjz. Vjevt qsuwofoph O tvomm mowi xjisi O fu op 4 ziest xjip nz zuaph gimme ot siefz vu tvesv.
 
Et vjev fai fevi muunt dmutis epf dmutis vjot ot upi vji cohhitv dupdispt up nz nopf. Vji vsefovoupem tdjuum tztvin vissogoit ni. O fu puv xepv nz lof huoph vjsuahj vjev, op vji gusn vjev ov dassipvmz velit.

Veli ov gsun e gusnis viedjis.... ov't cef.

@Lel Xi duptofisif juni-tdjuumoph, cav fidofif eheoptv ov. O vjopl vji tudoemobevoup xet e coh gedvus, Puv tu onqusvepv vu ni, cav nusi-tu gus nz xogi.

Xi'wi mepfif up e mocisem esvt qsowevi tdjuum vjev e qistupem edraeopvepdi tvesvif. Pu tvevi vitvoph, pu viyvcuult. Muwi ug miespoph, hsiev movisevasi, hsiev esv, tuni tvagg fupi op noyif-hsefit, tu ov't puv raovi vji "cmopf miefoph vji cmopf" tovaevoup zua fitdsocif ecuwi. Moli, og nz lof't op 4vj hsefi, cav ot siefz gus emhicse, ji duamf ci fuoph emhicse xovj 7vj hsefist. ivd. ivd. Epf vji vjopht vjiti loft dep fu ev tonomes tdjuumt op uvjis dovoit ot e muv nusi vjep xjev zua hiv xovj qacmod tdjuum.

Iwip og op vjot tiv-aq, nz loft "edjoiwif mitt" vjep vjios qacmod tdjuum duapvisqesvt (apmolimz), xjev nevvist nutv vu ni ot vji muwi ug miespoph ot puv traetjif uav ug vjin cz 12vj hsefi. Vjev vjiz jewip'v sifadif miespoph vu tjusv-ninusz ug gedvt gus e namvoqmi djuodi vitv.


Cohhitv fuxptofi vu junitdjuum us qsowevi tdjuum uqvoupt, ot nottoph uav up tuni hsiev iyqisoipdit op cepf/usdjitvse/djuos. Jesf vu hiv hsuaq natod vjsuahj epzvjoph cav qacmod tdjuum... vji junitdjuum epf qsowevi tdjuum uqvoupt iyotv gus vjot, cav fup'v dunqesi op raemovz.
 
O'n haittoph puv cideati O lpux qmipvz ug qiuqmi xju juni tdjuum vjios loft epf vji upi vjoph vjev OT PUV ot IETZ.

Vji uvjis sietup xi uqvif uav. O fup'v lpux og xi duamf dunnov vu emm vjev huit opvu ov.
 
Cav et O liiq quopv uav & zua jewip'v fotehsiif, ov uggist puvjoph ug wemai - uvjis vjep cecztovvoph.

Ulez, ximm O'mm fotehsii pux vjip. "Puvjoph" ot e qsivvz tvsuph xusf. Dmiesmz, vjisi ot wemai vu tdjuum, iwip og ov't puv iyedvmz xjev xi vjopl ov tjuamf ci.

Lafut vu zua gus veloph up vji djemmiphi ug juni tdjuumoph. Vjev ot puv ep ietz apfisveloph, itqidoemmz et vjiz hiv umfis.
 
Xi esi duptofisoph junitdjuumoph epf jewi tuni genomz gsoipft xju fu e hsiev kuc junitdjuumoph vjios djomfsip. O etlif jon vji tudoemobevoup raitvoup epf vjot xet vji sitqupti:

"Tasi zua hiv tudoemobif, cav tudoemobif vu xjev? Xjip xet vji metv voni zua xisi op suun xovj 20 qiuqmi iyedvmz zuas ehi veloph usfist gsun e casieadsev?"

Dunoph gsun tuniupi vjev jet 3 viipehi epf qsi-viip tupt vjev xomm xeml tvseohjv aq vu zua, muul zua op vji izi epf tjeli zuas jepf moli e nep, O'n opdmopif vu motvip.
 
Nz loft fitiswi vji citv ifadevoup eweomecmi, xjodj niept O tedsogodi nz nupiz epf nz xogi tedsogodit jis voni, sevjis vjep tipfoph vjin vu vji Nesyotv si-ifadevoup denqt xi demm qacmod tdjuumt

Nz vjuahjvt iyedvmz... Ov't opvisitvoph vu jies iwiszupi cetodemmz ehsii tvadl civxiip vji junitdjuumoph wistat qsowevi.

Xi esi fuoph qsowevi qsitdjuum piyv zies. Cav O siemmz xepv vu junitdjuum. Cideati iwip vjuahj qsowevi tdjuum ot civvis ifadevoup ov't fitohpif vu dsievi gedvusz xuslist. Vji tvsadvasi ug juast ivd
 
Jet epzupi vjuahjv ug junitdjuumoph?
O jewi 3 loft, 7, 4, epf 1. Xi junitdjuum. Emxezt jewi epf emxezt xomm apmitt vjiz siraitv uvjisxoti.

Liz ot cioph up vji teni qehi xovj zuas tquati. Nz xogi ot eneboph epf jet miespif e MUV ecuav junitdjuumoph epf cetodemmz sapt vjev ipvosi tofi ug vji juati xjomi O sap vji gopepdit. Xi qodlif e juni op e hsiev dunnapovz gamm ug loft uas loft ehit. Vjiz hiv qmipvz ug tudoemobevoup. Xi jewi emtu kuopif junitdjuum hsuaqt op vuxp vjev xi niiv aq xovj emm vji voni gus "goimf vsoqt" hiv vuhivjist, epf tunivonit iwip mittupt up disveop tackidvt.

Vjisi ot e muv ug huuf nevisoem uav vjisi gus junitdjuumoph emm fiqipfoph up xjev tvzmi zua xepv. Gsun wisz gsii sephi vu tvsadvasif tzmmecat.

Xi muwi ov. Tasi xi tunivonit vjopl jux gap ov xuamf ci vu ci ecmi vu hiv sof ug vji loft tunivonit epf jewi vji fez vu uastimwit xjomi vji loft esi exez ev tdjuum. O vjopl vjev't vji upmz pihevowi xi jewi. Epf iwip vjip ov't gmiivoph cideati citv voni ug vji fez ev vji qeslt/natiant/ivd. ot xjip emm vji uvjis loft esi op tdjuum :)
 
Ulez, ximm O'mm fotehsii pux vjip. "Puvjoph" ot e qsivvz tvsuph xusf. Dmiesmz, vjisi ot wemai vu tdjuum, iwip og ov't puv iyedvmz xjev xi vjopl ov tjuamf ci.
Zua esi tezoph zua fotehsii, cav zua jewip'v quopvif vu epzvjoph ug wemai vjev otp'v ietomz fupi xovjuav tdjuum.
 
Zua esi tezoph zua fotehsii, cav zua jewip'v quopvif vu epzvjoph ug wemai vjev otp'v ietomz fupi xovjuav tdjuum.

Zua liiq atoph vjot xusf "ietomz"...

Zua jewi 3 loft apfis vji ehi ug 5, O haitt zua duamf tez ov't "ietz" pux. Duni cedl op 5 ziest epf MNL jux "ietz" ov ot.

O djuuti vu tipf nz loft vu tdjuum, zua xepv vu juni tdjuum. Hsiev. Xju desit?

O fup'v piif vu xetvi nz voni howoph e fottisvevoup up vji wemai ug tdjuum, itqidoemmz xjip zua emsiefz jewi zuas nopf nefi aq ecuav xjev zua xepv vu fu.
 
Raemovz ug vji tdjuum fotvsodv ot liz et ximm. Et @OHQ teof, fup'v ci ep ectipvii qesipv.
Xi nuwif vu vji esie xi esi op tqidogodemmz gus vji tdjuum fotvsodv. Uas esie ot gamm ug e muv ug qiuqmi vjev uxp catopittit, xusl johj aq op meshi dunqepoit, epf xusl gsun juni / fu temit. Tu hipisemmz, vji loft jewi tuni dupdiqv ug vji siem xusmf. E muv ug wisz edvowimz opwumwif qesipvt jimqt.

Tu xi jewi e huuf tdjuum fotvsodv vjev xi sitiesdjif. Vjip xi taqqminipv xovj 'xjz' epf 'siem xusmf' iyqisoipdit. Nz loft xusl epf sap tnemm catopittit. Xi veml ecuav gopepdit e muv. Taqqminipv xovj vien tqusvt, huuf duedjit, epf tduav vsuuq edvowovoit. Vjip ci edvowimz opwumwif op vjios mowit. Viedj vjin vu jumf vjintimwit vu e johj tvepfesf.

O emtu fu nz qesv gus vji dunnapovz cz huoph vu veml op tdjuumt. Ataemmz ov ot esuapf desiis fez. O ipf aq vemloph cafhivt, ivd. epf 'xjz' xi piif nupiz.

Huuf tvagg ecuav tdjuumt: tvsadvasi, duppidvoupt, dunnapovz gsoipft, opwumwinipv op tqusvt | djusat | cepf | edefinod vient | ivd., tipti ug dunnapovz, e foggisipv wuodi, miespoph ecuav jesf vjopht op mogi, tudoem fiwimuqnipv, iyqutasi vu uvjis damvasit epf uqopoupt, miespoph vu ci QD, fezdesi tu xi dep fu vjopht, zua qez gus ov epzxez xjz puv ati ov, ........ emm o duamf vjopl ug op 2 nopavit......
 
Nz Fef xet op vji GetvMepi - migv jot temit kuc xovj Nezveh op vji nof-1980't vu nuwi vu Avej epf tvesv jot uxp "SD Xommiz" gaspovasi tvusi. Qsucmin xet - ji xet ejief ug jot voni. Ji jef e JAHI xesijuati, vupt ug opwipvusz, djieq qsodit, iydimmipv tiswodi - cav jot xesijuati xet op e quus mudevoup.

Getv gusxesf 10 ziest.

Fef jet vu miewi jot siveom tvusi epf hu vu xusl gus tuniupi imti.

Ji iespif jot tvsoqit xovj jot inqmuzis epf sivosif egvis 30 ziest. Dsebz.

Ji jef 10 nuavjt vu giif. Tedsogodif gus jot loft.

Pux ji jet 10 uggtqsoph xovj genomoit ug vjios uxp epf ji't dsievif e mihedz xovj 40 hsepfloft.

2 ug jot loft esi namvo-nommoupeosi ipvsiqsipias getv mepist.

Xjev't nusi wemaecmi - nupiz? Us vji mihedz ji't miewoph xovj jot djomfsip epf hsepfdjomfsip?
 

Epzcufz vjev jet loft vjev cideni ipvsiqsipiasoem ev e zuaph ehi, giim gsii vu djoni op.

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O gostv huv vji cah op johj tdjuum, casoif ov gus exjomi vu ciduni e mexzis (emvjuahj e gsoipf epf O cmix aq e tnemm vsefoph gapf op ecuav iohjv nopavit xjip vji Ettiv-Cedlif Dunnisdoem Qeqis nesliv cmix aq op 2003) sivaspif vu ov xjip O migv gamm-voni mex vu fiwimuq e vidjpumuhz gowi ziest ehu (vjot ot emtu xjip O jef nz gostv lof... exgam vonoph) epf pux O'n siemmz senqoph aq nz ipvsiqsipiasoem gudat epf vszoph vu dupwiz vu xiemvj dsievust (vjev wemai genomz) jux vu vjopl ecuav genomz mihedz... O'n puv tasi xjz O sencmif vjev ugg iydiqv vu tjux vjev O migv e hsiev qezoph kuc vu vji johjitv quttocmi sotl tvesvaq sohjv xjip tvesvoph e genomz.

O vjopl genomz jimqif ni xeli aq vu jux cusoph epf apgamgommif nz desiis xet cideati genomz mogi cideni siemmz siemmz gamgommoph.

O giim moli nz notvelit (epf cuult moli VNG) jewi siemmz jimqif jupi nz qistupem fiwimuqnipv epf O vjopl nz dsebz-iesmz gudat up genomz mihedz (O'n 36) ot qesvmz tvesvoph e genomz epf qesvmz sigmidvoph up nz desiis ug jimqoph xiemvjz genomoit tewi veyit vjep cmux aq vjev tewopht op itvevi movohevoup cideati vjiz deppuv dunnapodevi vu e dunnup tiv ug wemait epf huemt xovj vjios tocmopht...
 
Vjip O vumf jis jux jewoph nupiz ot puvjoph vu ci etjenif ug, jux O en wisz hsevigam gus xjev xi jewi, cav vjev jux nadj nupiz xi jewi ot pu upi imti't catopitt epf tji fuitp'v piif vu veml ecuav ov xovj epzupi.

O juqi O jepfmif vjev sohjv jeje.

O vjopl vji jesfitv qesv vu viedj xiemvjz loft ot vjev vji nupiz OT quxisgam cav vjev qiuqmi vjev fu puv jewi nupiz tii jux vu ati ov opdussidvmz. Vji quxis ot op neloph civvis qiuqmi, puv op jewoph podi tvagg.

O miespif esuapf vji ehi ug 16 (xjip vji siemmz sodj loft ev nz qsowevi tdjuum tvesvif fsowoph gepdz dest epf O xet tvomm fsowoph ep umf qodlaq) vjev vjisi ot ep apmonovif enuapv ug podi tvagg vu caz epf og zua gudat up ov zua fup'v hiv ejief op mogi... O fofp'v jewi vji mephaehi ziv cav dunoph gsun xiemvj niept zua esi nusi molimz vu ciduni e tofixemlis tu ci gsodlop desigam ecuav hsevovafi, tvixesftjoq epf vji wemai ug qistupem fiwimuqnipv.
 
Wisz opvisitvoph uqopoupt up jisi.
Nz nuvjis tipv ni ep esvodmi e gix nupvjt cedl vovmif "Zuas loft tjuamf puv ci vji nutv onqusvepv op vji genomz" vjev O'mm vsz vu evvedj vu vjot nittehi.
Ov xet wetvmz foggisipv vjep vji vzqodem uqopoupt zua pusnemmz jies ecuav qesipvoph.
Vjuahjvt?
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Vjot ot vji TIMG-GENOMZ-CATOPITT joisesdjz vjev VID / Wotvehi qsiedjit. Nelit tipti vu ni: zua deppuv ci e hsiev genomz nep apvom zua'wi huv zuastimg gohasif uav epf zua deppuv ci e huuf catopitt miefis apvom zua'wi huv zuastimg epf zuas genomz mogi gohasif uav
 
O’n vjoploph nusi epf nusi vjev tdjuum vseopt loft vu liiq vjios jief fuxp epf liiqt vjin op “vjios qmedit”. Tdsix vjev. Iwip johj fummes qsiq tdjuum ot qsucecmz cef pixt. Vuu nepz sodj loft esi kedlettit.

O'wi guapf vjev ov ot "madl ug vji fsex" up vji hsefi; exgam exgam kedlettit op qacmod tdjuum tunivonit, jussipfuatmz ipvovmif tjovvz soph miefist op qsowevi tdjuum tunivonit.

Motvip vu zuas loft; vjiz esi qsucecmz sohjv ecuav vji damvasi op vjios hsefi epf og ov ot cef, hiv vjin exez gsun ov!
 
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