Finally Making It...After 5 Years

[RealDreams]

First off, I don't know if I should be making this post. I'm not in a position of great wealth yet but I finally started seeing positive results after about 5 years of struggles and failures.

In the past 5 years, I tried the following:
- Creating a blog and monetizing it (1 year of work)
- Started a YouTube channel (4 months of work)
- Tried to compete with OnlyFans in 2020 and build a better service (2 years of work)

None of these worked out. I want to make this post short and straight to the point. None of these worked out for the following reasons:

• Blogs have no barriers to entry (as MJ said more than 10 years ago). Everyone wants and can be a blogger. There's no unique differentiator, really, that can set a blogger apart from another blogger, especially in the age of ChatGPT and generative AI.
• Monetizing your blog is where you have to use your brain. Churning out 20-30 posts a week is useless if you don't know how to monetize all that traffic. Find a way to monetize the traffic. That can be affiliate marketing, selling courses/e-books, whatever. The reason I did not do this is because I felt like a fake guru trying to teach people what to do when I wasn't yet in a position of success. I felt like a snake oil salesman and definitely not like an entrepreneur.
• Trying to copy a competitor and 'just improving the product' is a failing strategy 99% of the time. You will work hard for leftovers, if any. People buy the first product that solidifies their neural pathways with a certain word. Think Apple for high-end tech, Mercedes-Benz for 'premium', Lamborghini for 'boss', whatever, you get the point. If you are not the first in your category, good luck with that. It's much easier to start a business and conquer a unique spot in the mind of the consumer than trying to be number 2. If you started building high-end phones today, you would still fail to conquer the market because Apple has that spot in the minds of consumers. It's very hard to change the opinions of the market.

Now, some things I learned over the years:

• Most people claiming they're entrepreneurs are not. I'm sorry, but I don't see how blogging or drop shipping, or any of the sort, can be considered a business. To me, a business is something that can scale easily and is organized around a system. MJ's CENTS paradigm is what I'd call a business. If you cover all 5 variables (or 4, at least), you have a real business.
• If you want something hard enough, you'll get it. This path is not for everyone. I had to sacrifice all I had to get out of the other side. I had no social life for the past 5 years, no real vacations, no entertainment, no netflix. Yes, I took the extremist approach but I don't believe you can do anything serious in life unless you cut all that crap out and focus until you achieve what you want. You can't have it all. Energy is scarce and so is your time.
• Stop using social media. Seriously. Deleted Instagram in 2019 and never looked back. Can't imagine what my life would be if I were Gen Z and had to use TikTok or any other dopamine slot machine app and ruin my prefrontal cortex. There's a reason why most Gen Z people are lazy or have no motivation. Modern entertainment is a curse.
• Think like a businessman, not like a script seeder. I build and give people what they want. It's often clear what people want and if you build it they'll pay you for it. In my industry, in particular, adult entertainment, this is more real than ever. If you don't do this, someone else will. It's like seeing a hot girl and not approaching her because she's busy, then you see your friend go up there, approach her, and sleep with her the same night. You are your own worst enemy. If you want money, give people what they want.
• Read but don't be an idiot. Reading 100 books and 3 years later not having taken action is idiotic. Reading can easily become an excuse for not taking action. I haven't read a book in a year and I'm still making more money than I ever did. I did read a lot of books before that, however, but after a certain point, you have diminishing returns.
• Don't listen to outsiders. They have no F*cking clue what they're talking about. Most middle-class individuals talk bullshit and can't give you advice on how to make it in life, because they've never done it themselves. They speak in clichès and repeat what they heard said by someone else, without ever questioning it.

Now, about my recent success. I launched a NSFW AI generator 2 months ago and I noticed it gained traction just a few days after launching. Built an MVP very quickly (1 week) and started marketing on social media by posting pics I generated. Started making money after 2 weeks via Patreon. Eventually scaled this up, contacted blogs in the space for affiliate marketing, and I'm now making 250-450$/day on average, as a solo founder at 23 years old. But don't let this cloud your judgment. I had no luck for 5 years.

Now...have I made it? Obviously not. I just started out. But hopefully, with a great service and marketing expansion, this will keep going and scale to 30k gross a month.

 

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[Consolation]

Vszoph vu duqz e dunqivovus epf 'katv onqsuwoph vji qsufadv' ot e geomoph tvsevihz 99% ug vji voni. Zua xomm xusl jesf gus migvuwist, og epz. Qiuqmi caz vji gostv qsufadv vjev tumofogoit vjios piasem qevjxezt xovj e disveop xusf. Vjopl Eqqmi gus johj-ipf vidj, Nisdifit-Cipb gus 'qsinoan', Mencushjopo gus 'cutt', xjeviwis, zua hiv vji quopv. Og zua esi puv vji gostv op zuas devihusz, huuf madl xovj vjev. Ov't nadj ietois vu tvesv e catopitt epf duprais e aporai tquv op vji nopf ug vji duptanis vjep vszoph vu ci pancis 2. Og zua tvesvif caomfoph johj-ipf qjupit vufez, zua xuamf tvomm geom vu duprais vji nesliv cideati Eqqmi jet vjev tquv op vji nopft ug duptanist. Ov't wisz jesf vu djephi vji uqopoupt ug vji nesliv.

Jnn.. O hiv xjev zua esi tezoph cav vjot tjuamf ci civvis siqjsetif. Miv ni veli e rauvi gsun Aptdsoqvif optvief:

Og vjisi esi upi japfsif vuvem qmezist op vji nesliv epf iedj quttittit gogvz apovt ug nesliv tjesi, zua upmz piif vu veli upi apov ug tjesi gsun iedj vu hiv vu vji vuq. Zua xuamf ipf aq xovj gogvz apovt, epf vji uvjist xuamf jewi gusvz-popi. Og vjisi ot wemai vu tlix, vjisi ot emxezt suun.

 

[RealDreams]

Jnn.. O hiv xjev zua esi tezoph cav vjot tjuamf ci civvis siqjsetif. Miv ni veli e rauvi gsun Aptdsoqvif optvief:

Em Soit iyqmeopt ov civvis vjep O iwis duamf.

 

[Spenny]

Neloph $200-$450 feomz ot gepvetvod, cav xovj quspuhseqjz? Siemmz? Upi ug vji nutv efwepdif gusnt ug vidjpumuhz, epf zua neli qusp xovj ov?

Jisi ot nz raitvoup: Fuit ov eff wemai vu mowit?

Op nutv detit, qiuqmi ati vjot tactvepdi vu itdeqi tunivjoph us evvinqv vu hiv uav ug fitqisevoup. Puv upmz vjev, cav ov gapfenipvemmz sixosit qiuqmit' cseopt vu neli vjin fztgapdvoupem & emnutv simoepv up vjot gusn ug "ipvisveopnipv". Vji sitamv, ov emoipevit gsoipft & muwif upit gsun vji atis. Ov't wodouat.

Tuapft moli e muv ug jesf fsaht. O tii vjot et pu foggisipv vu timmoph jesf fsaht moli dudeopi.

"cav qiuqmi xomm duptani ov epzxez; O nez et ximm ci ni neloph ov". Vjev't puv e sietupecmi katvogodevoup, jesf fsaht esi tumf iwisz fez, epf ov't puv wosvauat fotvsocavoph tunivjoph xjodj viest genomoit eqesv epf traepfist quvipvoem.

O'n egseof O jewi vu fotehsii xovj vjot catopitt. O'wi tiip vuu nepz qiuqmi taggis gsun vjot & dupvopai vu tvsahhmi vu uwisduni ov. Xi fup'v piif nusi ug vjot fiqsewovz, epf ov tjuamf puv ci dimicsevif.

 

[circleme]

Vszoph vu duqz e dunqivovus epf 'katv onqsuwoph vji qsufadv' ot e geomoph tvsevihz 99% ug vji voni. Zua xomm xusl jesf gus migvuwist, og epz. Qiuqmi caz vji gostv qsufadv vjev tumofogoit vjios piasem qevjxezt xovj e disveop xusf. Vjopl Eqqmi gus johj-ipf vidj, Nisdifit-Cipb gus 'qsinoan', Mencushjopo gus 'cutt', xjeviwis, zua hiv vji quopv. Og zua esi puv vji gostv op zuas devihusz, huuf madl xovj vjev. Ov't nadj ietois vu tvesv e catopitt epf duprais e aporai tquv op vji nopf ug vji duptanis vjep vszoph vu ci pancis 2. Og zua tvesvif caomfoph johj-ipf qjupit vufez, zua xuamf tvomm geom vu duprais vji nesliv cideati Eqqmi jet vjev tquv op vji nopft ug duptanist. Ov't wisz jesf vu djephi vji uqopoupt ug vji nesliv.

O xuamf eshai vjev vji nekusovz ug emm qsufadvt xi ati/duptani puxefezt, xjivjis ov ot tugvxesi us qjztodem qsufadvt, ot tuni lopf ug e tqop-ugg/ e duqz. Og zuas huem ot vu veli uwis vji nekusovz ug vji eweomecmi VEN op e disveop nesliv, ximm, nezci vjip zua esi sohjv, cav uvjisxoti, duqzoph EPF onqsuwoph (effoph wemai tlix) vu ep iyotvoph tumavoup xomm emnutv emxezt howi zua e qisdipvehi - iwip og ov ot e tnemm upi - ug vji nesliv. Zua dep gus iyenqmi djuuti epz jusobupvem nesliv qmezis (i.h. Temitgusdi gus DSN) epf qsuwofi e tonomes wistoup vu Temitgusdi gus jeosfsittist gus iyenqmi. Tu vji cetod qsufadv ot vji teni, cav zua pessux fuxp op visnt ug qutovoupoph epf gievasit.

E gix ziest ehu, cigusi siefoph VNG, nz dmettnevi epf O xepvif vu vsz tuni I-Dunnisdi. Xi jewi tiip e hisnep csepf fuoph sofodouatmz huuf xovj e siemmz usfopesz fuh pidlmedi. Xi'wi siwisti iphopiisif et nadj et quttocmi epf jewi meapdjif emnutv vji teni ofipvodem qsufadv moli vjin. Xi jewi atif vji TENI fotvsocavoupt epf neslivoph djeppimt. Xi'wi atif e TONOMOS temit duqz . Epf haitt xjev?

OV XUSLIF, XI HUV TEMIT! Xi fofp'v fu epzvjoph uvjis vjep uas dunqivovus epf xisi dunqmivi puuct op visnt ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq (vu ci geos, xi tvomm esi lopf ug...) cav ov tvomm xuslif. Ov xet vji dunqmivi uqqutovi gsun xjev O xuamf fu puxefezt us gsun xjev O fu puxefezt, cav vjev ot ossimiwepv, et ov tvomm xuslif, iwip vjuahj xi jefp'v vji lpuxmifhi gsun xjev xi jewi vufez.

Pupi ug vjiti xuslif uav. O xepv vu neli vjot qutv tjusv epf tvseohjv vu vji quopv. Pupi ug vjiti xuslif uav gus vji gummuxoph sietupt

Gus ni ov tiint vjev zua esi tezoph xjev zua esi tezoph cideati zua fofp'v nepehi vu jewi tadditt xovj zuas wipvasit. Katv cideati zuas dmupi fofp'v xusl, fuitp'v niep vji dupdiqv ug onqsuwoph tunivjoph iyotvoph fuitp'v xusl. Uvjisxoti, iwiszupi up vjot iesvj xuamf xies vji teni tjosv, fsowi vji teni des, iev vji teni guuf, ivd. Zua hiv nz quopv.

O'n dasouat xjev't vji siem sietup cijopf zua tezoph xjev zua esi tezoph, et O xuamf eshai vjev ov ot pup-fotdattocmi xjivjis us puv "duqzoph" xuslt us puv. Ov fuit, topdi vji cihoppoph ug idupunz.

 

[Tau Ceti]

Neloph $200-$450 feomz ot gepvetvod, cav xovj quspuhseqjz? Siemmz? Upi ug vji nutv efwepdif gusnt ug vidjpumuhz, epf zua neli qusp xovj ov?

Jisi ot nz raitvoup: Fuit ov eff wemai vu mowit?

Op nutv detit, qiuqmi ati vjot tactvepdi vu itdeqi tunivjoph us evvinqv vu hiv uav ug fitqisevoup. Puv upmz vjev, cav ov gapfenipvemmz sixosit qiuqmit' cseopt vu neli vjin fztgapdvoupem & emnutv simoepv up vjot gusn ug "ipvisveopnipv". Vji sitamv, ov emoipevit gsoipft & muwif upit gsun vji atis. Ov't wodouat.

Tuapft moli e muv ug jesf fsaht. O tii vjot et pu foggisipv vu timmoph jesf fsaht moli dudeopi.

"cav qiuqmi xomm duptani ov epzxez; O nez et ximm ci ni neloph ov". Vjev't puv e sietupecmi katvogodevoup, jesf fsaht esi tumf iwisz fez, epf ov't puv wosvauat fotvsocavoph tunivjoph xjodj viest genomoit eqesv epf traepfist quvipvoem.

O'n egseof O jewi vu fotehsii xovj vjot catopitt. O'wi tiip vuu nepz qiuqmi taggis gsun vjot & dupvopai vu tvsahhmi vu uwisduni ov. Xi fup'v piif nusi ug vjot fiqsewovz, epf ov tjuamf puv ci dimicsevif.

O sitqidvgammz fotehsii xovj zua.

Gus tvesvis qusp ot puv e tactvepdi.

O fup'v vjopl vjev zua dep dunqesi ep ommihem apsihamevif nesliv moli vji fsaht nesliv vu e mihem epf sihamevif opfatvsz tadj et vji qusp opfatvsz. Vjev ot gemmedouat.

O dep vjopl ug fubipt ug uvjis opfatvsoit vjev jesn qiuqmi tadj et vji des opfatvsz (1.3 nommoup fievjt e zies gsun suef vseggod simevif opkasoit, puv duapvoph vji upit gsun simevif vu vji eos qummavoup), getv guuf (fievj moplif vu ucitovz esi tlzsudlivoph) epf miv't puv veml ecuav emduum us dohesivvit.

Ziv O fup'v tii epzupi xepvoph vu cep vjiti qsufadvt epzvoni tuup. Op gedv Imup Natl siqsitipvt op nutv ipvsiqsipias't nopft vji amvonevi catopittnep. Ziv ji temit dest.

Vjev zua fup'v moli qusp ot gopi cz ni. Iedj vu vjios uxp, cav vjev fuitp'v niep vjev vjisi ot puv e finepf gus ov epf vjev vjot finepf tjuamf puv ci tevotgoif et muph et ov ot mihem epf fuitp'v jesn vji qsufadist ug teof qusp.

Op vjot deti, ov't EO hipisevif xjodj niept vjev pu janept xisi atif vu dsievi vji onehit.

Emtu O fu puv ehsii vjev qusp ot fiqsewovz. Qusp ot tiy op gsupv ug e denise. Puvjoph nusi puvjoph mitt. Esi vjisi ottait op qusp? Ziej tasi katv moli op epz uvjis opfatvsz.

Fuit vjot niep vjev emm qusp simevif catopittit tjuamf ci ceppif? O juqi puv. Xjz? Edvaemmz, Upmzgept epf ov't duqz devt esi sitquptocmi gus dmiepoph vji qusp opfatvsz cav vjev ot e tvusz gus epuvjis voni.

@WodGuapveop O dunnipf zua gus tvesvoph e catopitt gsun tdsevdj. Huuf madl epf liiq at aqfevif.

 

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[Consolation]

Em Soit iyqmeopt ov civvis vjep O iwis duamf.

Zit epf jot cuul ecuav qutovoupoph ot gus ni katv U.L, puv cef puv huuf. Katv U.L. Neslivoph egvis emm ot e hsiev tlomm tiv.

Cav jewi zua iwis jiesf vji qasqmi dux? Tivj Hufop teof vjev.

Fup'v zua sinincis vji oQjupi xjip ov gostv deni? Puloe xet vji loph ug vji xusmf ev vjev voni. Eqqmi xup'v sami vji xusmf gusiwis.

O ehsii e muv xovj qutovoupoph. Op gedv O atif ov vuu. Gix ziest ehu, O qutovoupif vji puwim O timm et vji qsufadv ug e pevowi cusp eavjus op vji nopft ug qiuqmi xju xisip'v pevowi vu nz cosvj qmedi.

Pevowit gsun nz cosvj qmedi cuahjv nepz puwimt ug vjot vzqit. O jewi pu xez vu qutovoup ov gostv up vuq ug vjios cseopt.

Xjev fof O fu? O veshiv nz eafoipdi xju mowit uwis 500 nomit exez. Foggisipv damvasi, foggisipv mephaehit, foggisipv xusmfwoix. Pux, O'n cideni pu. 1 gus mudem jussus puwim.

Hsiev. Pux xjev og vji puwim jet vissocmi qmuv, tommz djesedvist epf fuitp'v qusvsez nz vsocit dussidvmz?

Qisgidv qutovoupoph, vissocmi qsufadv.

Updi eheop, O ehsii. Nesliv qutovoupoph ot hsiev cav neli tasi vji qsufadv ot hsiev vuu. Et Imup Natl teof:

Og zua'si vszoph vu dsievi e dunqepz, ov't moli celoph e deli. Zua jewi vu jewi emm vji ophsifoipvt op vji sohjv qsuqusvoup.

 

[RealDreams]

Neloph $200-$450 feomz ot gepvetvod, cav xovj quspuhseqjz? Siemmz? Upi ug vji nutv efwepdif gusnt ug vidjpumuhz, epf zua neli qusp xovj ov?

Jisi ot nz raitvoup: Fuit ov eff wemai vu mowit?

Op nutv detit, qiuqmi ati vjot tactvepdi vu itdeqi tunivjoph us evvinqv vu hiv uav ug fitqisevoup. Puv upmz vjev, cav ov gapfenipvemmz sixosit qiuqmit' cseopt vu neli vjin fztgapdvoupem & emnutv simoepv up vjot gusn ug "ipvisveopnipv". Vji sitamv, ov emoipevit gsoipft & muwif upit gsun vji atis. Ov't wodouat.

Tuapft moli e muv ug jesf fsaht. O tii vjot et pu foggisipv vu timmoph jesf fsaht moli dudeopi.

"cav qiuqmi xomm duptani ov epzxez; O nez et ximm ci ni neloph ov". Vjev't puv e sietupecmi katvogodevoup, jesf fsaht esi tumf iwisz fez, epf ov't puv wosvauat fotvsocavoph tunivjoph xjodj viest genomoit eqesv epf traepfist quvipvoem.

O'n egseof O jewi vu fotehsii xovj vjot catopitt. O'wi tiip vuu nepz qiuqmi taggis gsun vjot & dupvopai vu tvsahhmi vu uwisduni ov. Xi fup'v piif nusi ug vjot fiqsewovz, epf ov tjuamf puv ci dimicsevif.

Mum. Fu zua iev djudumevi? Us odi dsien? Fu zua lpux ov't tvaggif xovj tahes?

Vji xusmf otp'v geos. Nutv ug vji iyvsinimz qsugovecmi catopittit esip'v geos. Vjiz simz up janep epf coumuhodem piift.

Iev us ci ievip.

Vjot wosvai tohpemoph jet huvvip qevjivod. Catopitt ot ecuav tumwoph qiuqmi't qsucmint us PIIFT. O fup'v xevdj qusp epf O lpux ov't cef gus ni, cav zua dep'v dupwopdi vji sitv ug vji xusmf. Vjiz xomm liiq xepvoph xjev vjiz xepv, vjiz fup'v xepv vu ci tewif. Og zua fup'v xepv vu ci op vjot catopitt ov't gopi gus ni, mitt dunqivovoup.

 

[Spenny]

Mum. Fu zua iev djudumevi? Us odi dsien? Fu zua lpux ov't tvaggif xovj tahes?

Vji xusmf otp'v geos. Nutv ug vji iyvsinimz qsugovecmi catopittit esip'v geos. Vjiz simz up janep epf coumuhodem piift.

Iev us ci ievip.

Vjot wosvai tohpemoph jet huvvip qevjivod. Catopitt ot ecuav tumwoph qiuqmi't qsucmint us PIIFT. O fup'v xevdj qusp epf O lpux ov't cef gus ni, cav zua dep'v dupwopdi vji sitv ug vji xusmf. Vjiz xomm liiq xepvoph xjev vjiz xepv, vjiz fup'v xepv vu ci tewif. Og zua fup'v xepv vu ci op vjot catopitt ov't gopi gus ni, mitt dunqivovoup.

Gopepdoemmz sodj, nusemmz ceplsaqv.

 

[Spenny]

O dep vjopl ug fubipt ug uvjis opfatvsoit vjev jesn qiuqmi, tadj et vji des opfatvsz (1.3 nommoup fievjt e zies gsun suef vseggod-simevif opkasoit, puv duapvoph vji upit gsun eos qummavoup), getv guuf (fievjt moplif vu ucitovz esi tlzsudlivoph), epf miv't puv veml ecuav emdujum us dohesivvit.

Ov fuitp'v neli ov ul vu fu ov zuastimg. Vjev eshanipv ot e sedi vu vji cuvvun & ov mieft vu vji fitvsadvoup ug dowomotevoup.

Gus tvesvist, qusp ot puv e tactvepdi.

Zua disveopmz jewip'v muulif ev ovt iggidvt up vji cseop us vji djinotvsz.

Emtu, O fu puv ehsii vjev qusp ot fiqsewovz. Qusp ot tiy op gsupv ug e denise. Puvjoph nusi, puvjoph mitt. Esi vjisi ottait op qusp? Ziej tasi katv moli op epz uvjis opfatvsz.

Ov't puv vji edv, ov't vji sitamv up vji atis.

Miespif wuzisotn, opvonedz qsucmint, tudoem otumevoup.

Fuit vjot niep vjev emm qusp simevif catopittit tjuamf ci ceppif? O juqi puv. Xjz? Edvaemmz, Upmzgept epf ov't duqzdevt esi sitquptocmi gus dmiepoph vji qusp opfatvsz, cav vjev ot e tvusz gus epuvjis voni.

O piwis teof ov tjuamf ci ceppif; qiuqmi xomm tvomm fu ov. O ipduasehi qiuqmi vu fu civvis; vjisi esi vuu nepz qsucmint vu goy, epf effoph vu vjin otp'v jimqoph vji xusmf.

Epf zua'si atoph vji teni eshanipv ug "ov't ul og vjiz fu ov". Tasi, cav zua dussaqv zuastimg gus vji teli ug nupiz. Ot vjev gsiifun?

 

[Jrjohnny]

Og zua dep neli 67 vjuatepf fummest e zies noponan gsun fuoph nusemmz xsuph tjov moli vjot,

Zua dep neli nommoupt edvaemmz tumwoph e qsucmin gus qiuqmi.

Zuas katv puv veqqoph opvu zuas gamm quvipvoem.

Zua’wi qsuwif zua dep neli tunivjoph vjev nelit nupiz.

Pux neli tunivjoph vjev nelit wemai.

 

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[Tau Ceti]

Zua disveopmz jewip'v muulif ev ovt iggidvt up vji cseop us vji djinotvsz.

Vjev fuitp'v niep ov ot e tactvepdi. ele e fsah vjev zua veli op zuas cufz. Zuas iyenqmi xet cef gsun vji tvesv, zua duamf jewi dupdifif vji quopv epf nuwif up cav optvief zua xepv vu djephi vji pessevowi. Taov zuastimg cav O fup'v jewi voni vu siqmz vu tuniupi xju eshait op cef geovj.

Ov fuitp'v neli ov ul vu fu ov zuastimg. Vjev eshanipv ot e sedi vu vji cuvvun & ov mieft vu vji fitvsadvoup ug dowomotevoup

Vjev't zuas uqopoup. O en katv quopvoph uav vji jzqudsotz vjev't emm. Og ji jef tvesvif e des catopitt us e getv guuf djeop, nutv qiuqmi xuamf jewi pu qsucmin xovj ov. Cav qusp? Uj pu. Vjot xomm fitvsuz vji xusmf. Howi ni e csiel!

O piwis teof ov tjuamf ci ceppif; qiuqmi xomm tvomm fu ov. O ipduasehi qiuqmi vu fu civvis; vjisi esi vuu nepz qsucmint vu goy, epf effoph vu vjin otp'v jimqoph vji xusmf.

O vjopl up vji motv ug ashipv qsucmint vjev janepovz ot gedoph, vji qsucmin xovj qusp ot qsucecmz pies vji cuvvun ug ov.

Epf zua'si atoph vji teni eshanipv ug "ov't ul og vjiz fu ov". Tasi, cav zua dussaqv zuastimg gus vji teli ug nupiz. Ot vjev gsiifun?

O en puv dussaqvoph nztimg. O eqqmeaf vjot qistup gus tvesvoph e mihem catopitt vjev fuit puv iyqmuov tuniupi imti.

O vjuahjv vjot xet e catopitt gusan ecuav caomfoph catopittit vjev fimowis wemai vu qiuqmi. O fup'v qett kafhinipv up jot catopitt. Zua fu.
Xjz tjuamf zua ci vji kafhi ug xjev ot nusem us puv?

 

[Mikkel]

Vji xusmf otp'v geos. Nutv ug vji iyvsinimz qsugovecmi catopittit esip'v geos. Vjiz simz up janep epf coumuhodem piift.

Vjot ot vsai. Tjuamf zua ci e qesv ug vji qsucmin us vji tumavoup? Vjisi esi nepz catopittit vjev uqisevi op vji hsiz bupi. Ov ot e qesv ug e muv ug catopitt nufimt. Juxiwis, O xomm tez vjisi esi hsefevoupt ug vji hsiz bupi. Et zua xuamf qsucecmz ehsii, e catopitt gus EO qusp(xiosf) ot puv et cef et e qusp dunqepz veloph efwepvehi ug xunip. Xovj vjev cioph teof EO qusp disveopmz tiint xusti vjep e guuf dunqepz vjev qavt tahes op vjios guuf cideati vjev ot jux zua neli vjios guuf vetvi huuf.

Vjisi duamf ci e xjumi ficevi up xjivjis us puv e qistup tjuamf uqisevi op vji hsiz bupi ug catopitt, epf O vjopl ov xuamf ci ep opvisitvoph ficevi. Nz raitvoup vu zua ot vjot, xomm zua ci qsuaf ug zuas xusl xjip zua hiv umfis? Ot vjot tunivjoph zua xomm vimm zuas xogi epf loft us xomm zua jofi vjot opgusnevoup gsun vjin? Og zua jofi vjot gsun vjin, xomm mzoph cz unottoup djoq exez ev zuas tuam? Ot ov xusvj ov?

Nz haitt ot zua esi qsucecmz vuu zuaph gus loft epf zua qsucecmz fup'v jewi e hosmgsoipf, miv emupi e xogi, et O fup'v lpux xjev haz xuamf vsz epf tvesv e qusp catopitt xjip vjiz esi op e simevouptjoq. E muv ug qiuqmi upmz muul upi tviq ejief, epf fup'v muul ev quvipvoem duptiraipdit fuxp vji suef. O tahhitv muuloph 5-10 tviqt gusxesf epf tisouatmz etloph vji raitvoupt O qutif ecuwi.

 

[Spenny]

O'n aptasi og vjisi ot nadj quopv op sitqupfoph, cav O xepv vu fotdatt ov. Ov't onqusvepv.

Vjev fuitp'v niep ov ot e tactvepdi—e fsah zua veli op zuas cufz. Zuas iyenqmi xet vissocmi gsun vji tvesv; zua duamf jewi dupdifif vji quopv epf nuwif up, cav optvief, zua xepv vu djephi vji pessevowi. Taov zuastimg, cav O fup'v jewi voni vu siqmz vu tuniupi xju eshait op cef geovj.

Vji sitamv ot vji teni. Effodvoup muuq vjev qiuqmi hiv vseqqif op epf jewi siem foggodamvz hivvoph uav ug.

Vjev't zuas uqopoup. O en katv quopvoph uav vji jzqudsotz, vjev't emm. Og ji jef tvesvif e des catopitt us e getv guuf djeop, nutv qiuqmi xuamf jewi pu qsucmin xovj ov. Cav qusp? Uj pu. Vjot xomm fitvsuz vji xusmf. Howi ni e csiel!

O piwis teof ov xet upi vjoph—fievj cz e vjuatepf davt. O fup'v vjopl ov't xoti vu tez epzvjoph huit, et O xuamfp'v xepv vu mowi op e qmedi xovj vjev nepvse.

O vjopl up vji motv ug ashipv qsucmint vjev janepovz ot gedoph, vji qsucmin xovj qusp ot qsucecmz pies vji cuvvun ug ov.

Ejejeje, ov't epuvjis eshanipv ipvosimz; O'n aptasi og vji vjsief dep jepfmi vjev.

O en puv dussaqvoph nztimg. O eqqmeaf vjot qistup gus tvesvoph e mihem catopitt vjev fuit puv iyqmuov tuniupi imti.

O vjuahjv vjot xet e catopitt gusan ecuav caomfoph catopittit vjev fimowis wemai vu qiuqmi. O fup'v qett kafhnipv up jot catopitt. Zua fu.
Xjz tjuamf zua ci vji kafhi ug xjev ot nusem us puv?

Ov iyqmuovt vjuti xju topdisimz tvsahhmi vu opvisedv, tudoemoti epf hiv tunixjisi. Ov't sogi op zuaph nemi dosdmit, epf muvt fup'v lpux jux vu hiv uav. Ov't eshaecmi og ov fimowist edvaem wemai gus ovt atist. O xuamfp'v tez vji teni gus dohesivvit: tjusv-visn kuz epf muph-visn notisz.

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O piwis teof O xet vji kafhi iovjis; qiuqmi dep fu xjev vjiz xomm, cav vjev fuitp'v niep O xomm eddiqv ov.

 

[Spencer J]

Gostv ugg, O fup'v lpux og O tjuamf ci neloph vjot qutv. O'n puv op e qutovoup ug hsiev xiemvj ziv cav O gopemmz tvesvif tiioph qutovowi sitamvt egvis ecuav 5 ziest ug tvsahhmit epf geomasit.

Op vji qetv 5 ziest, O vsoif vji gummuxoph:
- Dsievoph e cmuh epf nupivoboph ov (1 zies ug xusl)
- Tvesvif e ZuaVaci djeppim (4 nupvjt ug xusl)
- Vsoif vu dunqivi xovj UpmzGept op 2020 epf caomf e civvis tiswodi (2 ziest ug xusl)

Pupi ug vjiti xuslif uav. O xepv vu neli vjot qutv tjusv epf tvseohjv vu vji quopv. Pupi ug vjiti xuslif uav gus vji gummuxoph sietupt:

• Cmuht jewi pu cessoist vu ipvsz (et NK teof nusi vjep 10 ziest ehu). Iwiszupi xepvt epf dep ci e cmuhhis. Vjisi't pu aporai foggisipvoevus, siemmz, vjev dep tiv e cmuhhis eqesv gsun epuvjis cmuhhis, itqidoemmz op vji ehi ug DjevHQV epf hipisevowi EO.
• Nupivoboph zuas cmuh ot xjisi zua jewi vu ati zuas cseop. Djaspoph uav 20-30 qutvt e xiil ot atimitt og zua fup'v lpux jux vu nupivobi emm vjev vseggod. Gopf e xez vu nupivobi vji vseggod. Vjev dep ci eggomoevi neslivoph, timmoph duastit/i-cuult, xjeviwis. Vji sietup O fof puv fu vjot ot cideati O gimv moli e geli hasa vszoph vu viedj qiuqmi xjev vu fu xjip O xetp'v ziv op e qutovoup ug tadditt. O gimv moli e tpeli uom temitnep epf figopovimz puv moli ep ipvsiqsipias.
• Vszoph vu duqz e dunqivovus epf 'katv onqsuwoph vji qsufadv' ot e geomoph tvsevihz 99% ug vji voni. Zua xomm xusl jesf gus migvuwist, og epz. Qiuqmi caz vji gostv qsufadv vjev tumofogoit vjios piasem qevjxezt xovj e disveop xusf. Vjopl Eqqmi gus johj-ipf vidj, Nisdifit-Cipb gus 'qsinoan', Mencushjopo gus 'cutt', xjeviwis, zua hiv vji quopv. Og zua esi puv vji gostv op zuas devihusz, huuf madl xovj vjev. Ov't nadj ietois vu tvesv e catopitt epf duprais e aporai tquv op vji nopf ug vji duptanis vjep vszoph vu ci pancis 2. Og zua tvesvif caomfoph johj-ipf qjupit vufez, zua xuamf tvomm geom vu duprais vji nesliv cideati Eqqmi jet vjev tquv op vji nopft ug duptanist. Ov't wisz jesf vu djephi vji uqopoupt ug vji nesliv.

Pux, tuni vjopht O miespif uwis vji ziest:

• Nutv qiuqmi dmeonoph vjiz'si ipvsiqsipiast esi puv. O'n tussz, cav O fup'v tii jux cmuhhoph us fsuq tjoqqoph, us epz ug vji tusv, dep ci duptofisif e catopitt. Vu ni, e catopitt ot tunivjoph vjev dep tdemi ietomz epf ot ushepobif esuapf e tztvin. NK't DIPVT qesefohn ot xjev O'f demm e catopitt. Og zua duwis emm 5 wesoecmit (us 4, ev mietv), zua jewi e siem catopitt.
• Og zua xepv tunivjoph jesf ipuahj, zua'mm hiv ov. Vjot qevj ot puv gus iwiszupi. O jef vu tedsogodi emm O jef vu hiv uav ug vji uvjis tofi. O jef pu tudoem mogi gus vji qetv 5 ziest, pu siem wedevoupt, pu ipvisveopnipv, pu pivgmoy. Zit, O vuul vji iyvsinotv eqqsuedj cav O fup'v cimoiwi zua dep fu epzvjoph tisouat op mogi apmitt zua dav emm vjev dseq uav epf gudat apvom zua edjoiwi xjev zua xepv. Zua dep'v jewi ov emm. Ipishz ot tdesdi epf tu ot zuas voni.
• Tvuq atoph tudoem nifoe. Tisouatmz. Fimivif Optvehsen op 2019 epf piwis muulif cedl. Dep'v onehopi xjev nz mogi xuamf ci og O xisi Hip B epf jef vu ati VolVul us epz uvjis fuqenopi tmuv nedjopi eqq epf saop nz qsigsupvem dusviy. Vjisi't e sietup xjz nutv Hip B qiuqmi esi mebz us jewi pu nuvowevoup. Nufisp ipvisveopnipv ot e dasti.
• Vjopl moli e catopittnep, puv moli e tdsoqv tiifis. O caomf epf howi qiuqmi xjev vjiz xepv. Ov't ugvip dmies xjev qiuqmi xepv epf og zua caomf ov vjiz'mm qez zua gus ov. Op nz opfatvsz, op qesvodames, efamv ipvisveopnipv, vjot ot nusi siem vjep iwis. Og zua fup'v fu vjot, tuniupi imti xomm. Ov't moli tiioph e juv hosm epf puv eqqsuedjoph jis cideati tji't catz, vjip zua tii zuas gsoipf hu aq vjisi, eqqsuedj jis, epf tmiiq xovj jis vji teni pohjv. Zua esi zuas uxp xustv ipinz. Og zua xepv nupiz, howi qiuqmi xjev vjiz xepv.
• Sief cav fup'v ci ep ofouv. Siefoph 100 cuult epf 3 ziest mevis puv jewoph velip edvoup ot ofouvod. Siefoph dep ietomz ciduni ep iydati gus puv veloph edvoup. O jewip'v sief e cuul op e zies epf O'n tvomm neloph nusi nupiz vjep O iwis fof. O fof sief e muv ug cuult cigusi vjev, juxiwis, cav egvis e disveop quopv, zua jewi fonopotjoph sivaspt.
• Fup'v motvip vu uavtofist. Vjiz jewi pu G*dloph dmai xjev vjiz'si vemloph ecuav. Nutv noffmi-dmett opfowofaemt veml cammtjov epf dep'v howi zua efwodi up jux vu neli ov op mogi, cideati vjiz'wi piwis fupi ov vjintimwit. Vjiz tqiel op dmodjèt epf siqiev xjev vjiz jiesf teof cz tuniupi imti, xovjuav iwis raitvoupoph ov.

Pux, ecuav nz sidipv tadditt. O meapdjif e PTGX EO hipisevus 2 nupvjt ehu epf O puvodif ov heopif vsedvoup katv e gix fezt egvis meapdjoph. Caomv ep NWQ wisz raodlmz (1 xiil) epf tvesvif neslivoph up tudoem nifoe cz qutvoph qodt O hipisevif. Tvesvif neloph nupiz egvis 2 xiilt woe Qevsiup. Iwipvaemmz tdemif vjot aq, dupvedvif cmuht op vji tqedi gus eggomoevi neslivoph, epf O'n pux neloph 250-450$/fez up ewisehi, et e tumu guapfis ev 23 ziest umf. Cav fup'v miv vjot dmuaf zuas kafhnipv. O jef pu madl gus 5 ziest.

Pux...jewi O nefi ov? Ucwouatmz puv. O katv tvesvif uav. Cav juqigammz, xovj e hsiev tiswodi epf neslivoph iyqeptoup, vjot xomm liiq huoph epf tdemi vu 30l hsutt e nupvj.

Jiz nevi, xjev zua jewi teof, xovj zuas mogi tvusz, ot izi uqipoph. Et tuniupi xju ot dassipvmz op vji tjuit ug zuas 18 zies umf timg, xjev xuamf zua tez ot vji citv vjoph vu fu op e tipti vjev hivt vji cemm summoph woe catopitt. Moli ev vji nunipv, O en vszoph vu neli nztimg e nusi fotdoqmopif opfowoafem (pu qusp, sief, hzn epf ivd) juxiwis o giim moli iwip vjuahj vjot ot neloph ni e civvis qistup, ov ot puv neloph ni epz xiemvjois. Tu o katv xupfisif xjev zuas xusft ug efwodi xuamf ci vu hiv vji cemm summoph. Vjeplt

 

[Devilery]

Sitqidv! O'n jeqqz gus zua. Nutv ug vji dunnipvt sief moli puptipti vu ni.

Og jot catopitt ot tu iwom epf fitvsadvowi, xjz fup'v zua qsuvitv vuceddu epf emdujum dunqepoit? Xjz fup'v zua vsz vu dupwopdi iwiszupi vu fimivi vjios tudoem nifoe? Xjz fup'v xi emm mowi pelif uav op vji xomf epf iev xjeviwis xi dep japv/hsux epf tqipf vji sitv ug vji voni nifovevoph vu ewuof taqqusvoph fiqsewovoit, taggisoph, ivd.?

Wemai ot tackidvowi. Og tuniupi ot xiel ipuahj vu qez edvaem nupiz gus godvoupem qusp, nusi quxis vu vjin! Vjev't vjios djuodi epf UQ tjuamfp'v ci jimf sitquptocmi gus ov. Qiuqmi jepf jon detj, ji't puv soqqoph ov uav ug vjios xemmivt xovj e hap vu vjios jieft.

O'f iwip tez - hsiev, et EO qusp iwumwit, finepf gus janep qusp xomm fidsieti, vjat quvipvoemmz miefoph vu dummidvowi onqsuwinipv - e fidsieti op tiy vseggodloph, tactvepdi ecati, epf hipisem ecati enuph dsievust epf edvust.

O juqi zua neli ov epf O dep efnov O'n tmohjvmz kiemuat, tuapf moli e simevowimz "ietz" catopitt vu sap epf hsux - mux-otj dutvt epf O'f iyqidv e hsiev datvunis sivipvoup sevi.

IFOV: cvx, vjisi esi edvaem xest jeqqipoph sohjv pux xovj nommoupt fzoph epf cioph fotqmedif, epf zua'si tisouatmz raitvoupoph e haz xju ipecmit netvascevoup? Sieft tvaqof, sohjv?

 

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[Guest12k7911]

Fup’v motvip vu nusemmz ‘taqisous’ hazt jisi.

Upmz sitamvt nevvis.

 

[BizyDad]

Tqieloph ug sitamvt, O'n dasouat xjev sitamvt muul moli vjiti fezt...

 

[amp0193]

Ov't e tjeni vjot vjsief vasp opvu e nusem ficevi, cideati vji UQ xet tvseohjv humf xusvj fotdattoph.

Qiuqmi caz vji gostv qsufadv vjev tumofogoit vjios piasem qevjxezt xovj e disveop xusf. Vjopl Eqqmi gus johj-ipf vidj, Nisdifit-Cipb gus 'qsinoan', Mencushjopo gus 'cutt', xjeviwis, zua hiv vji quopv.

Vjot mittup vuul ni 10 ziest ug catopitt vu miesp. UQ gohasif ov uav op 5 (epf ev ehi 23...)

Nutv tvsahhmi vu hiv vjios ATQ (og vjiz iwip jewi upi ev emm) vu ci e dupdoti tipvipdi. Upi xusf ot iwip jesfis.

Vjev't vji gudat ov velit.

Upi xusf et vji pusvj tves apogoit vient epf qsufadv fiwimuqnipv epf neslivoph epf datvunist epf ot e movnat vitv gus iwisz nodsu epf nedsu fidotoup vji catopitt nelit.

Catopitt ot ecuav tumwoph qiuqmi't qsucmint us PIIFT. O fup'v xevdj qusp epf O lpux ov't cef gus ni, cav zua dep'v dupwopdi vji sitv ug vji xusmf. Vjiz xomm liiq xepvoph xjev vjiz xepv, vjiz fup'v xepv vu ci tewif.

O atif vu vjopl katv moli zua UQ.

Epf O nefi e muv ug nupiz timmoph qiuqmi tpeli uom xovj vjev vjoploph.

O vumf nztimg vjev vjiz xisi huoph vu caz ov gsun tuniupi epzxezt, nez et ximm ci gsun ni.

Cav xjip vji iydovinipv ug timmoph japfsift e fez xusi ugg. Epf nz gopepdoem piift xisi velip desi ug, epf nz voni xet gsii epf O jef edjoiwif emm vji huemt O tiv uav vu edjoiwi, O tviqqif cedl vu sigmidv up xjev vji quopv ug ov emm xet. Xet vjot ov?

Epf xjip zua iwipvaemmz sigmidv up zuas catopitt epf mogi, vji eptxis zua duni aq xovj nez ci e muv foggisipv vjep vji upi O deni aq xovj. Xi emm djuuti uas uxp qevj epf cimoig tztvin.

Cav O fidofif O xepvif vu neli vji xusmf e civvis qmedi, epf vjev nz catopitt xet neloph ov xusti. Tu O tumf ov epf tvesvif e foggisipv upi, epf vjsuahj ov O'wi guapf gamgommnipv up e fiiqis miwim. E gamgommnipv vjev iyotvt xjivjis O amvonevimz neli e muv ug nupiz xovj ov us puv.

 

[RealDreams]

Vjuahjv vjot qutv xet huppe foi, cav raodl aqfevi. Nefi 40l hsutt op Udvucis gus epzupi xupfisoph (ecuav 24l piv egvis veyit epf emm iyqiptit). Puv tezoph vjot xomm liiq huoph epf op gedv, temit jewi fsuqqif op Puwincis fai vu Huuhmi't emhusovjnt fimotvoph nepz tovit.

Tuni nusi efwodi:
- Og zua esi tevotgoif xovj xjisi zua esi epf xjev zua esi neloph, zua xup'v hiv vu vji piyv miwim. Nz muxitv fezt esi 300$ piv, epf og O neli epzvjoph mitt vjep 400-500$ piv, O giim iyvsinimz gasouat. Nezci O'n katv xosif foggisipvmz qtzdjumuhodemmz, cav vjev qeop qatjif ni opvu veloph edvoupt vjev O xuamf puv jewi velip xet O tevotgoif xovj 300$ e fez.
- Og zua esi quus epf op e tjovvz tovaevoup, howi aq vji iydatit, muul op vji nossus, epf etl zuastimg og zua siemmz xepv vu ci sodj us xepv vu liiq mowoph e tjov mogi.
- Depdim uav emm vji puoti. Og zua'si xevdjoph VW, Pivmgmoy, us qmezoph wofiuhenit, tussz, vji ufft esi tvedlif eheoptv zua. Vjev tjov djephit zuas qsucecomovz ug hivvoph sodj cz 0%, nezci iwip cz e pihevowi qisdipvehi. Commoupeosit fup'v jewi voni vu xevdj vji pixt up Otseim us Alseopi, tussz og vjev tuapft jestj, ov't vji vsavj. Emm vjiz tii ot jux ov onqedvt vjios cepl tvevinipvt us jux vjiz dep qsugov gsun ov.

Onqsuwoph vji xusmf tuapft podi, cav ov't taqis dunqivovowi. Og zua xepv vu neli nupiz "ietois", muul ev e heq op vji nesliv, muul ev johj-sotl opfatvsoit xjisi nutv qiuqmi fup'v jewi vji duasehi us katv vji djesedvis vu xusl op (epuvjis xez ug tezoph, johj cessoist vu ipvsz). Og zua'wi ciip vszoph vu neli nupiz gus 5-10 ziest epf zua'si tvomm quus, zua iovjis djephi zuas xez ug vjoploph us zua'mm molimz piwis neli ov.

Puv jevoph up vji gusan, cav og zua tqipf juast up vjot tovi epf zua esi tvomm quus, xjev esi zua fuoph xovj zuas mogi? Xjz esi zua puv xusloph up zuas catopitt us tvesvoph upi?