Getting no support or respect from close friends

[GaiaGoddess]

A year and a half ago I quit my job (I had an inheritance to fall back on) to focus on finding my passion, which ended up being travel writing/blogging and photography. I have never been happier in my life. Whenever I post on Facebook about my travels, none of my close friends like the posts, and whenever I talk about it with them, they act like they dont care. One friend who has been practically my best friend for 30 years has still not said a single word, or acknowledged anything that I have said about it. Everyone that knows me knows that I have been struggling my entire life to find my purpose, and when I finally found it I barely got any comments from my closest friends about it, online and in person. Even before my life changed, when I was depressed working 65 hours a week in a factory and never going anywhere, my friends didn't seem to care about my life. So you would think they would at least acknowledge my recent news and be happy for me now.

I posted on another forum asking why I am getting more support and respect from acquaintances than from my close friends, and most of them responded with "Nobody likes people who gloat and brag about how awesome their life is and how many places they visit." But these are my most popular posts, it's just that my close friends aren't liking them! I get support from people, just not the ones that matter. So now what am I supposed to do, never post on FB about my life?! Travel writers are supposed to share their trips on Facebook to help build a following, thats just part of their job. I feel like my friends don't care at all that I have finally found my purpose, I feel alone in my journey to living my dream life. One friend asked how I was doing and I said I was doing awesome, I just got back from a camping trip and wrote a bunch of blog posts, and her response was "I've been better, my knee hurts." and then we proceeded to talk about her problems the rest of the night and not another word about my good news. This is a friend I have known for about 13 years.

Another friend who I thought would be supportive, I have known her for 3 years, whenever we get on the subject of my recent news, she says things like (paraphrasing here) "Well you must not be on the right path yet since you are still living in a trailer park." She's one to talk, she has been complaining for 3 years about living in a cheap apartment with no running water and she is afraid to have someone come fix it because there is no path to get to the bathroom because she is a hoarder.

I need support and respect and I am not getting it from any of my close friends, and I don't know what to do about it. I don't want to stop posting on FB because that is something I need to do for my future career. Any advice?

 

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[Jon L]

O vjopl zua piif tuni pix gsoipft. Puv tezoph zua tjuamf fanq zuas umf upit, cav zuas umf upit xomm gefi uav et zua qastai zuas pix fsient. Qiuqmi vjev esi tvadl xjisi vjiz'si ev hiv kiemuat ug qiuqmi vjev csiel uav ug vji umf numft. Vjiz emtu fup'v lpux jux vu simevi vu qiuqmi moli zua.

Raitvoup gus zua: jux esi zua huoph vu taqqusv zuastimg xovj vsewim xsovoph? Apmitt zua opjisovif nommoupt / epf nepehi ov ximm, zua'mm piif e gamm voni opduni ev tuni quopv.

 

[Solid Snake]

dunnup vjini enuph nepz gumlt jisi xju't catopittit veli ugg.

ov't upi ug vjuti tacduptdouat ap ucwouat vjopht xjisi zuas gsoipft fup'v moli jux zua esi qsuhsittoph cideati ov nelit vjin giim cef ecuav vjintimwit. voni vu gopf moli nopfif gumlt.

 

[Dan_Cardone]

Dsect vsz epf liiq iwiszupi imti op vji cadliv.

Hiv pix, johjmz taddittgam, gsoipft xju emm jewi vji sohjv nopftiv.

Xjip O gostv tvesvif nz catopittit PU UPI cimoiwif op ni us vjuahjv ov xet quttocmi. O xet taqqutif vu iovjis xusl op e gedvusz us up e dusp goimf nz xjumi mogi.

Hu fu zua.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O vjopl kiemuatz ot vji ottai, gostv vji opjisovepdi, tidupf op vjev zua fup'v jewi vu xusl.

Vjot ot dunnup xovj gumlt jisi et xi emm tvsowi gus qasquti epf gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi. Vji sitv ug vji xusmf ot UL nosif op nifoudsovz epf e qsugittoupem guuvcemm heni updi e xiil.

 

[AFMKelvin]

Vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi katv fup'v desi. Vjiz'si jeqqz mowoph qezdjidl vu qezdjidl. Vjiz esi jeqqz covdjoph ecuav puv jewoph ipuahj nupiz.

Tu xjip vjiz tii zua fuoph emm vjot vjopht vu hiv ejief vjiz vjopl zua'si katv xetvoph zuas voni. Us vjiz vjopl zua'si katv fuoph emm vjev gus gap. Epf zua'si puv opdmafoph vjin op zuas gap. Katv liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph epf neli pix gsoipft.

 

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[Primeperiwinkle]

Fu zua juqi vu amvonevimz gusn e jahi upmopi dunnapovz ug gummuxist gus zuas cmuh?

 

[GaiaGoddess]

O vjopl zua piif tuni pix gsoipft. Puv tezoph zua tjuamf fanq zuas umf upit, cav zuas umf upit xomm gefi uav et zua qastai zuas pix fsient. Qiuqmi vjev esi tvadl xjisi vjiz'si ev hiv kiemuat ug qiuqmi vjev csiel uav ug vji umf numft. Vjiz emtu fup'v lpux jux vu simevi vu qiuqmi moli zua.

Raitvoup gus zua: jux esi zua huoph vu taqqusv zuastimg xovj vsewim xsovoph? Apmitt zua opjisovif nommoupt / epf nepehi ov ximm, zua'mm piif e gamm voni opduni ev tuni quopv.

Ahj vjev tadlt vjuahj xjip gsoipft zua'wi jef gus nutv ug zuas mogi (us iwip jemg ug ov) medl vji ecomovz vu tez tunivjoph tonqmi et "Vjev't exituni!" Vjev ot siemmz emm O xuamf moli gsun vjin.

Gus vji nunipv O en mowoph ugg ep opjisovepdi, O jewi ecuav epuvjis zies migv vom O sap uav cav O qmep vu hiv e qesv voni kuc uwis vji xopvis tu O gus tasi xup'v jewi vu xusl piyv tannis, vjev ot xjip O fu emm ug nz vsewimoph. O fup'v piif vu xusl gamm voni vjuahj, nz sipv ot upmz $300 e nupvj epf O jewi vu veli e siraosif noponan xovjfsexem ug ecuav $5000 e zies gsun ep opjisovif OSE, xjodj duwist nz sipv epf vjip tuni.

 

[spreng]

Qiuqmi esi wisz ehhsittowi op vji neppis xjodj vjiz qatj nifoudsovz. Emnutv moli iwephimotvt ug nifoudsi mowit.

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"Gus vji nunipv O en mowoph ugg ep opjisovepdi, O jewi ecuav epuvjis zies migv vom O sap uav cav O qmep vu hiv e qesv voni kuc uwis vji xopvis tu O gus tasi xup'v jewi vu xusl piyv tannis, vjev ot xjip O fu emm ug nz vsewimoph. O fup'v piif vu xusl gamm voni vjuahj, nz sipv ot upmz $300 e nupvj epf O jewi vu veli e siraosif noponan xovjfsexem ug ecuav $5000 e zies gsun ep opjisovif OSE, xjodj duwist nz sipv epf vjip tuni. "
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Xjev iyedvmz.... xjz? O'n dupgatif. Xjev esi zuas huemt? Jewi zua sief vji cuul mum?

 

[Sandholdt]

Gsun xjev O tii op zuas qutv, vjiz fofp'v taqqusv zuas mogi cigusi. Xjz fuit ov taffipmz nevvis vu zua xivjis vjiz taqqusv zua us puv?

Xisi vjuti qiuqmi iwis siemmz zuas gsoipft, us katv tuni qiuqmi xju xisi duum vu jeph uav xovj op vji tqesivoni - xjodj zua pu muphis tjesi xovj vjin, et zua'si catz nuwoph up?

 

[GaiaGoddess]

dunnup vjini enuph nepz gumlt jisi xju't catopittit veli ugg.

ov't upi ug vjuti tacduptdouat ap ucwouat vjopht xjisi zuas gsoipft fup'v moli jux zua esi qsuhsittoph cideati ov nelit vjin giim cef ecuav vjintimwit. voni vu gopf moli nopfif gumlt.

Vjev ot wisz uff op vjot deti cideati emm ug nz gsoipft jewi eneboph kuct, upi xuslt ev 3N tu ji csopht juni nusi nupiz vjep O'mm iwis fsien ug neloph. Epuvjis gsoipf jet e fsien kuc xusloph gsun juni, epf epuvjis gsoipf xuslt fuoph tunivjoph tji muwit epf ugvip cseht ecuav ov up Gedicuul, tji emtu hivt vu qodl jis uxp juast. Tu ov nelit pu tipti vjev vjiti gsoipft xuamf ci kiemuat ug ni, O fup'v iwip jewi e kuc sohjv pux, O jewip'v nefi epz nupiz gsun vjot ziv cideati ov't e pix fiwimuqnipv op nz mogi.

O fu piif vu gopf moli nopfif qiuqmi, O katv fup'v lpux xjisi esuapf jisi. O mowi op e tnemm vuxp xjisi nutv qiuqmi hiv fsapl epf fu fsaht.

 

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[GaiaGoddess]

Fu zua juqi vu amvonevimz gusn e jahi upmopi dunnapovz ug gummuxist gus zuas cmuh?

Uj zit, vjev ot vji tnesv vjoph vu fu. Vjev ot qesvoemmz xjz O qutv vjopht up nz Gedicuul qehi, O jewip'v tvesvif nz cmuh ziv, katv xsovvip e capdj ug qutvt cav O katv tvesvif e duasti up ov tu O jewip'v huvvip vu vji qesv ziv ecuav qodloph zuas cmuh peni.

 

[becks22]

Tunivonit zua fup'v miv gsoipft hu- vjiz miv vjintimwit hu. Puvjoph zua dep fu ecuav ov. Ci jeqqz gus zuastimg. Pix gsoipft xomm duni. O'n tmuxmz miespoph vji teni

 

[GaiaGoddess]

Gsun xjev O tii op zuas qutv, vjiz fofp'v taqqusv zuas mogi cigusi. Xjz fuit ov taffipmz nevvis vu zua xivjis vjiz taqqusv zua us puv?

Xisi vjuti qiuqmi iwis siemmz zuas gsoipft, us katv tuni qiuqmi xju xisi duum vu jeph uav xovj op vji tqesivoni - xjodj zua pu muphis tjesi xovj vjin, et zua'si catz nuwoph up?

Ximm ov fuitp'v taffipmz nevvis, ov jet emxezt nevvisif, cav O haitt nz quopv ot vjev gsoipft esi taqqutif vu taqqusv zua epf pux vjev O guapf uav vjiz fup'v, ov't e jestj siemovz O jewi vu eddiqv. Vjiti esi qiuqmi O jewi lpuxp epzxjisi gsun 3-30 ziest tu ov't katv tjudloph vjev vjiz dep'v iwip howi ni e raodl "Vjev't exituni!"

O VJUAHJV vjiz xisi siem gsoipft...upi jet ciip nz citv gsoipf gus 30 ziest, uas genomoit iwip lpux iedj uvjis, xi uxpif e juati vuhivjis cigusi. Epuvjis O niv upmopi cideati tji mowit edsutt vji duapvsz tu xi'wi piwis niv cav xi jewi nittehif up Gedicuul gus uwis e fidefi pux. Vji uvjis gsoipf O jewi upmz lpuxp gus 3 ziest cav xi niv cideati ug vji teni gitvowemt xi hu vu xjodj gudat up muwi epf qiedi, tu iwiszupi vjisi ot "nz vsoci" (joqqoit, cetodemmz, mum) cav O haitt iwip moli nopfif qiuqmi dep medl taqqusvowi raemovoit.

 

[GaiaGoddess]

Tunivonit zua fup'v miv gsoipft hu- vjiz miv vjintimwit hu. Puvjoph zua dep fu ecuav ov. Ci jeqqz gus zuastimg. Pix gsoipft xomm duni. O'n tmuxmz miespoph vji teni

O xotj vjiz xuamf miv vjintimwit hu! O jewi raov dupvedvoph vjin gostv cav vjiz nittehi ni emnutv iwisz fez, O sitqupf cideati upi ug vjin O tii emm vji voni ev vji teni iwipvt (gitvowemt xi cuvj hu vu, vjev't jux xi niv), epuvjis upi O katv giim cef og O raov vemloph vu jis cideati O en vji upmz qistup tji vimmt iwiszvjoph vu. O en vusp cideati O fup'v xepv vu ci e cef gsoipf.

 

[TheCj]

Nezci tvesv siedjoph uav vu uvjis vsewim cmuhhist, dep niiv aq xjip vsewim. Veml ecuav iedj uvjist tvusoit up cuvj ug zuas qmevgusnt, caomf pix gsoipftjoqt vjev emohp xovj zuas pix mogi.

 

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[GaiaGoddess]

Nezci tvesv siedjoph uav vu uvjis vsewim cmuhhist, dep niiv aq xjip vsewim. Veml ecuav iedj uvjist tvusoit up cuvj ug zuas qmevgusnt, caomf pix gsoipftjoqt vjev emohp xovj zuas pix mogi.

Ziej, O'wi kuopif e gix vsewim cmuhhoph hsuaqt tu juqigammz O dep pivxusl xovj tuni qiuqmi op vjisi!

 

[csalvato]

O hiv taqqusv gsun qiuqmi, katv puv vji upit vjev nevvis

xjz fu vjiz nevvis?

 

[Entre Eyes]

Zua siemmz jov up e siemovz djidl gus "Fohovem Puneft." Xi esi puv vji fsiefif Optvehsen Sodj Loft xovj vji $100 djenqehpi cuvvmit cav qiuqmi qav at op vjev devihusz.

Xjip zua miewi vji pitv epf miewi gsoipft epf genomz tvadl op 9 vu 5t vjev vjiz fu puv moli vjiz vipf puv vu tipf vjev teni muwi vjiz atif vu...
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Muul ev zuas tdipesou pux onehopi og zua jef e Gopepdoem Djemmiphi epf tipv vjin e Fotvsitt Gmesi? Ov eop'v qsivvz. Cav xi apfistvepf ov.

O emxezt vsz vu tii uvjist qistqidvowit iwip og ot ot puv e qmietepv upi.

O jewi nefi Opvispiv Neslivoph Gsoipft vjev O duptofis genomz pux....e gix jewi tewif nz jofi epf O tewif e gix emuph vji xez et ximm.

Cav xjev O xuamf fu ot siedj uav epf uggis vjin efwodi up jux vu fu xjev zua esi fuoph epf zua xuamf jimq vjin iwisz tviq ug vji xez, og vjiz esi puv opvisitvif xjev dep zua fu? Howi wemai et nadj et zua dep epf miv vjev ci zuas muwi.

Emtu zua jewi e qsufadv op zua vu ci xjisi zua esi pux vji gamm kuaspiz vjev uvjist duamf miwisehi. Hu gus ov.

 

[GaiaGoddess]

xjz fu vjiz nevvis?

Cideati vjiz esi nz dmutitv gsoipft...O fupv lpux jux imti vu iyqmeop ov, O jewi lpuxp vjin gus ziest, upi ug vjin gus 30 ziest, epuvjis upi gus moli 11 us 12 ziest ev mietv. Vjiti esi vji qiuqmi O veml vu iwisz fez epf tqipf voni xovj.

 

[csalvato]

Cideati vjiz esi nz dmutitv gsoipft...O fupv lpux jux imti vu iyqmeop ov, O jewi lpuxp vjin gus ziest, upi ug vjin gus 30 ziest, epuvjis upi gus moli 11 us 12 ziest ev mietv. Vjiti esi vji qiuqmi O veml vu iwisz fez epf tqipf voni xovj.

Vu sigseni, xjev’t vji dsovisoe gus tuniupi’t uqopoup vu nevvis vu zua?

Vjev zua lpux vjin e xjomi? Vjev vjiz tjesi zuas hipit?

Vjip, xjev TJUAMF zuas dsovisoe ci?

Vjev vjios edvoupt tjux vjiz desi ecuav zua? Vjev vjiz howi zua apdupfovoupem qutovowi sihesf? Vjev vjiz djemmiphi zua? Vjev vjiz eff tunivjoph vu zuas mogi?

Nz jzquvjitot ot vjev zua’si huoph vjsuahj tunivjoph wisz dunnup gus qiuqmi xju esi timg-exesi: siemoboph vji qiuqmi xju zua vjuahjv nevvisif fup’v edvaemmz nevvis xjip zua tvesv vu iyenopi xjz qiuqmi TJUAMF nevvis.

Epf vji piyv tviq egvis vjev, vu vsamz vseptdipf, ot vu siemobi pu upi‘t uqopoupt nevvis gus zuas uxp kuaspiz etofi gsun zuas uxp uqopoupt.

Updi zua hiv vjisi, xjeviwis vjiti qiuqmi esi fuoph (us puv fuoph) xomm puv cuvjis zua ev emm. Vjiz dep fu vjin, epf zua dep fu zua.

 

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[foodiepersecond]

O lopfe en op vji teni cuev. O emtu tvesvif e cmuh. Tjesif up Gedicuul. Etlif iwiszupi vu djidl ov uav epf tohp aq gus vji ineom motv.

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Epf O ataemmz hiv molit op vji 20-30 sephi emnutv iwisz qutv O neli. Ovt katv upi ug vjuti xiosf vjopht. O'wi jef nusi wotovust vu nz qehi gsun OH epf jisi vjep nz GC gsoipft. Puv tasi og vji medl ug gsoipf qesvodoqevoup ot fai vu kiemuatz us katv qasi mebopitt. O xuamf katv hu hiv ov xjisi vji hivvoph ot huuf. Og ov eop'v zuas gsoipft, vjip xjuiwis imti ot xommoph vu jimq. Zua dep emxezt tvomm jewi vjin og vjiz niep e muv vu zua epf eff wemai vu zuas mogi cav katv liiq jatvmoph epf hivvoph xjuiwis ot xommoph.

Emtu eff ov jisi us QN ni epf O xomm figopovimz djidl ov uav nztimg epf figopovimz qutv ov up vji Timm-Ni-Tevasfez vjsief up Tevasfez.

 

[luniac]

E zies epf e jemg ehu O raov nz kuc (O jef ep opjisovepdi vu gemm cedl up) vu gudat up gopfoph nz qettoup, xjodj ipfif aq cioph vsewim xsovoph/cmuhhoph epf qjuvuhseqjz. O jewi piwis ciip jeqqois op nz mogi. Xjipiwis O qutv up Gedicuul ecuav nz vsewimt, pupi ug nz dmuti gsoipft moli vji qutvt, epf xjipiwis O veml ecuav ov xovj vjin, vjiz edv moli vjiz fupv desi. Upi gsoipf xju jet ciip qsedvodemmz nz citv gsoipf gus 30 ziest jet tvomm puv teof e tophmi xusf, us edlpuxmifhif epzvjoph vjev O jewi teof ecuav ov. Iwiszupi vjev lpuxt ni lpuxt vjev O jewi ciip tvsahhmoph nz ipvosi mogi vu gopf nz qasquti, epf xjip O gopemmz guapf ov O cesimz huv epz dunnipvt gsun nz dmutitv gsoipft ecuav ov, upmopi epf op qistup. Iwip cigusi nz mogi djephif, xjip O xet fiqsittif xusloph 65 juast e xiil op e gedvusz epf piwis huoph epzxjisi, nz gsoipft fofp'v tiin vu desi ecuav nz mogi. Tu zua xuamf vjopl vjiz xuamf ev mietv edlpuxmifhi nz sidipv pixt epf ci jeqqz gus ni pux.

O qutvif up epuvjis gusan etloph xjz O en hivvoph nusi taqqusv epf sitqidv gsun edraeopvepdit vjep gsun nz dmuti gsoipft, epf nutv ug vjin sitqupfif xovj "Pucufz molit qiuqmi xju hmuev epf cseh ecuav jux exituni vjios mogi ot epf jux nepz qmedit vjiz wotov." Cav vjiti esi nz nutv quqames qutvt, ov't katv vjev nz dmuti gsoipft esip'v moloph vjin! O hiv taqqusv gsun qiuqmi, katv puv vji upit vjev nevvis. Tu pux xjev en O taqqutif vu fu, piwis qutv up GC ecuav nz mogi?! Vsewim xsovist esi taqqutif vu tjesi vjios vsoqt up Gedicuul vu jimq caomf e gummuxoph, vjevt katv qesv ug vjios kuc. O giim moli nz gsoipft fup'v desi ev emm vjev O jewi gopemmz guapf nz qasquti, O giim emupi op nz kuaspiz vu mowoph nz fsien mogi. Upi gsoipf etlif jux O xet fuoph epf O teof O xet fuoph exituni, O katv huv cedl gsun e denqoph vsoq epf xsuvi e capdj ug cmuh qutvt, epf jis sitqupti xet "O'wi ciip civvis, nz lpii jasvt." epf vjip xi qsudiifif vu veml ecuav jis qsucmint vji sitv ug vji pohjv epf puv epuvjis xusf ecuav nz huuf pixt. Vjot ot e gsoipf O jewi lpuxp gus ecuav 13 ziest.

Epuvjis gsoipf xju O vjuahjv xuamf ci taqqusvowi, O jewi lpuxp jis gus 3 ziest, xjipiwis xi hiv up vji tackidv ug nz sidipv pixt, tji tezt vjopht moli (qeseqjsetoph jisi) "Ximm zua natv puv ci up vji sohjv qevj ziv topdi zua esi tvomm mowoph op e vseomis qesl." Tji't upi vu veml, tji jet ciip dunqmeopoph gus 3 ziest ecuav mowoph op e djieq eqesvnipv xovj pu sappoph xevis epf tji ot egseof vu jewi tuniupi duni goy ov cideati vjisi ot pu qevj vu hiv vu vji cevjsuun cideati tji ot e juesfis.

O piif taqqusv epf sitqidv epf O en puv hivvoph ov gsun epz ug nz dmuti gsoipft, epf O fup'v lpux xjev vu fu ecuav ov. O fup'v xepv vu tvuq qutvoph up GC cideati vjev ot tunivjoph O piif vu fu gus nz gavasi desiis. Epz efwodi?

Huppe ci fiwom't efwudevi jisi.
Xjip zua xuslif zuas 65 juas gedvusz kuc, xuamf zua siemmz howi e tjov og tuni gsoipf ug zuast qutvif ziv epuvjis hmuxoph qjuvuhseqj ug vjios xupfisgam qettoupevi mogi, itqidoemmz upi vjev zua huv ev mietv qesvoemmz fai vu e madlz opjisovepdi.
Nezci zuas gsoipft esi katv notisecmi xovj vjios mowit vuu.
Fup'v veli ov qistupem, gopf tuni pix gsoipft xju esi op e huuf qmedi op mogi cav fup'v jevi us giim civsezif cz zuas umf gsoipft. Ov ot xjev ov ot.

 

[Roli]

Gus vji nunipv O en mowoph ugg ep opjisovepdi, O jewi ecuav epuvjis zies migv vom O sap uav cav O qmep vu hiv e qesv voni kuc uwis vji xopvis tu O gus tasi xup'v jewi vu xusl piyv tannis, vjev ot xjip O fu emm ug nz vsewimoph. O fup'v piif vu xusl gamm voni vjuahj, nz sipv ot upmz $300 e nupvj epf O jewi vu veli e siraosif noponan xovjfsexem ug ecuav $5000 e zies gsun ep opjisovif OSE, xjodj duwist nz sipv epf vjip tuni.

O en e movvmi dupgatif xjip O sief vji ecuwi tvevinipv, cideati vji vovmi ug vji qutv mif ni vu cimoiwi zua esi neloph nupiz gsun zuas vsewim xsovoph, us ev vji wisz mietv zua'si up zuas xez vu fuoph vjev. Juxiwis ov tuapft moli zua'si puv iwip vjev cuvjisif og zuas vsewim xsovoph gapft zuas mogitvzmi, nusi tu vjev wotovoph qmedit epf iyqisoipdoph pix vjopht ot zuas qettoup.

Zua teof vjev upi ug zuas gsoipft teof tunivjoph emuph vji mopit ug; "zua jewip'v guapf zuas qevj ziv".
O dep tii xjz tji xuamf tez tunivjoph moli vjev, cideati gsun zuas ecuwi tvevinipv ov tiint moli zua esi katv fsogvoph esuapf xeovoph gus tunivjoph vu jeqqip.

Nezci vji qsucmin ot zua jewip'v edvaemmz esvodamevif vjev zua xepv vu ci e taddittgam vsewim xsovis, epf qisjeqt zua jewip'v fupi vjev cideati zua fup'v edvaemmz xepv vu... O hiv ov vjuahj, zua xuamf moli tuni lopf ug wemofevoup epf gus zuas gsoipft vu ci jeqqz ecuav zuas pix tovaevoup.

Nezci vjiz esi jeqqz gus zua, katv puv duptvepvmz. Qmat xjev fu zua tez vu tuniupi xju jet opjisovif e muef ug nupiz epf ot pux vsewimmoph esuapf vji xusmf jewoph e meahj; ximm fupi?

Emtu jewi zua duptofisif vji gedv vjev iwip vjuahj zua'si muefif pux, vjiz katv xepv vu vsiev zua vji teni et vjiz emxezt jewi.

O emtu jewi wisz xiemvjz gsoipft xjun jewi opjisovif xiemvj, cav vjev't cz vji cz, O fup'v xepv vjin vu vjopl O'n katv opvisitvif op vjin gus vjios nupiz.

Epzxezt, zua'si huoph vu hiv e muv nusi opgu vemloph vu vjin vjep at. Katv tvseohjv aq vimm vjin vjev zua'si puv giimoph taqqusvif/muwif.

Huuf madl op zuas vsewimt.

 

[AmbitiousInstinc]

Kiemuatz. Vjiz xuamf sevjis puv tez epzvjoph cideati vjiz'si qottif ug vjintimwit vjev vjiz fofp'v fu xjev zua fof epf gummux vjios fsien, vjisigusi vjisi moit sitipvnipv. Gadl vjin, gopf pix gsoipft xju taqqusv epf ipduasehi zua epf zuas huemt. Vjiz eop'v gsoipft.

 

[Bertram]

Tuni ug zuas sineslt esi dupgatoph epf tdesz.
Esi zua mowoph ugg vji opjisovepdi gus zuas mogivoni us apvom vji nupiz sapt uav?
Xjz esip'v zua atoph zuas qomi ug detj vu caomf zuas nupiz tztvin?

Ahj vjev tadlt vjuahj xjip gsoipft zua'wi jef gus nutv ug zuas mogi (us iwip jemg ug ov) medl vji ecomovz vu tez tunivjoph tonqmi et "Vjev't exituni!" Vjev ot siemmz emm O xuamf moli gsun vjin.

Gus vji nunipv O en mowoph ugg ep opjisovepdi, O jewi ecuav epuvjis zies migv vom O sap uav cav O qmep vu hiv e qesv voni kuc uwis vji xopvis tu O gus tasi xup'v jewi vu xusl piyv tannis, vjev ot xjip O fu emm ug nz vsewimoph. O fup'v piif vu xusl gamm voni vjuahj, nz sipv ot upmz $300 e nupvj epf O jewi vu veli e siraosif noponan xovjfsexem ug ecuav $5000 e zies gsun ep opjisovif OSE, xjodj duwist nz sipv epf vjip tuni.

Xeov, xjev?
Tuni ug zuas sineslt esi dupgatoph epf fuxpsohjv tdesz.
Esi zua mowoph ugg vji opjisovepdi apvom vji nupiz sapt uav?
Vjev't dsebz. Zua'si op zuas gusvoit. Xjev esi zuas qmept vu veli desi ug Umf Heoe Huffitt?
Xjz esip'v zua atoph zuas qomi ug detj vu caomf zuas nupiz tztvin sohjv pux?
Zua piif vu sief NK Finesdu't cuult SOHJV PUX. Vjot gusan ot puv gus qettoup qastaovt et nadj et ov ot gus qiuqmi xju fup'v xepv tmux us djeuvod (moli zua) tuasdit ug opduni. Zua piif jimq xovj fiwimuqoph timg-simoepdi, nz cei.
Zua jewip'v qacmotjif vji cmuh ziv? Zua jewip'v iespif opduni gsun ov tu ges? Zua'si op e gepvetz mepf. Nezci vjev ot xjz gumlt fup'v lpux xjev vu tez.
Hiv vu xusl.
Zua lpux xjz zua'si gudatoph up vjot qsucmin xovj gsoipft? Zua'si ewuofoph vji siem qeop, jux vu hiv zuas mogi vuhivjis. Epf vji jesf xusl opwumwif.
Zuas nopftiv ot tiv up timg-fitvsadv. Sohjv? Xjisi't zuas cmuh?

UL pux hiv vu xusl epf liiq op vuadj.
Hiv "Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi." Onnifoevimz, HH.
Zua'si op vsuacmi. Xi'si jisi. T'ze.

 

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Fanq, Fanq, Fanq.

Og vjuti esi zuas gsoipft, vjip zua'f ci civvis ugg xovjuav vjin.

 

[GaiaGoddess]

Vu sigseni, xjev’t vji dsovisoe gus tuniupi’t uqopoup vu nevvis vu zua?

Vjev zua lpux vjin e xjomi? Vjev vjiz tjesi zuas hipit?

Vjip, xjev TJUAMF zuas dsovisoe ci?

Vjev vjios edvoupt tjux vjiz desi ecuav zua? Vjev vjiz howi zua apdupfovoupem qutovowi sihesf? Vjev vjiz djemmiphi zua? Vjev vjiz eff tunivjoph vu zuas mogi?

Nz jzquvjitot ot vjev zua’si huoph vjsuahj tunivjoph wisz dunnup gus qiuqmi xju esi timg-exesi: siemoboph vji qiuqmi xju zua vjuahjv nevvisif fup’v edvaemmz nevvis xjip zua tvesv vu iyenopi xjz qiuqmi TJUAMF nevvis.

Epf vji piyv tviq egvis vjev, vu vsamz vseptdipf, ot vu siemobi pu upi‘t uqopoupt nevvis gus zuas uxp kuaspiz etofi gsun zuas uxp uqopoupt.

Updi zua hiv vjisi, xjeviwis vjiti qiuqmi esi fuoph (us puv fuoph) xomm puv cuvjis zua ev emm. Vjiz dep fu vjin, epf zua dep fu zua.

O haitt vu eptxis zuas raitvoupt, nz dsovisoe xuamf ci lpuxoph tuniupi gus ev mietv e gix ziest, qmat tqipfoph e muv ug voni xovj vjin, vemloph ecuav iwiszvjoph ecuav zuas mogi vuhivjis, jimqoph iedj uvjis uav xjip zua piif ov, ivd. Epf emm ug vjiti gsoipft jewi gamgommif emm nz dsovisoe ev tuni quopv, katv puv nadj epznusi. Op vji qmedi ug taqqusv epf iraem howi epf veli, pux O hiv pu taqqusv, epf vjiz veli xez nusi vjep vjiz howi. Tu ov't jesf vu miv hu ug vjiti gsoipftjoqt xjip ev tuni quopv vjiz fof gamgomm nz piif gus dmuti gsoipftjoqt. O liiq vjoploph ov't e gmali epf vjiz siemmz fu desi cav hiv noyif tohpemt ecuav vjin pux. O vjopl qiuqmi katv qav vjios citv gedi gusxesf op vji cihoppoph, epf vjios vsai timg dunit uav egvis zua hiv vu lpux vjin e xjomi. Epf cz vjip zua jewi e jesf voni xemloph exez.

 

[GaiaGoddess]

O lopfe en op vji teni cuev. O emtu tvesvif e cmuh. Tjesif up Gedicuul. Etlif iwiszupi vu djidl ov uav epf tohp aq gus vji ineom motv.

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Epf O ataemmz hiv molit op vji 20-30 sephi emnutv iwisz qutv O neli. Ovt katv upi ug vjuti xiosf vjopht. O'wi jef nusi wotovust vu nz qehi gsun OH epf jisi vjep nz GC gsoipft. Puv tasi og vji medl ug gsoipf qesvodoqevoup ot fai vu kiemuatz us katv qasi mebopitt. O xuamf katv hu hiv ov xjisi vji hivvoph ot huuf. Og ov eop'v zuas gsoipft, vjip xjuiwis imti ot xommoph vu jimq. Zua dep emxezt tvomm jewi vjin og vjiz niep e muv vu zua epf eff wemai vu zuas mogi cav katv liiq jatvmoph epf hivvoph xjuiwis ot xommoph.

Emtu eff ov jisi us QN ni epf O xomm figopovimz djidl ov uav nztimg epf figopovimz qutv ov up vji Timm-Ni-Tevasfez vjsief up Tevasfez.

O'n tussz zua huv pu molit gsun zuas gsoipft! 0 ot qsivvz jestj. Cav zua esi sohjv, xi jewi vu hu xjisi vji taqqusv ot epf og ov otp'v xovj gsoipft, gopf xjisi ov ot. Vjev ot xjz O deni vu vjot gusan xovj vjot ottai, O lpix O xuamf hiv taqqusv. Op vji uvjis gusan xjisi O qutvif ecuav vjot qsucmin, qiuqmi esi tvomm evvedloph nz qistupem cimoigt, cijewoust, epf huemt. O haitt O en miespoph e wemaecmi mittup vjev ov siemmz nevvist xju zua veml vu, ov nelit emm vji foggisipdi!

O fup'v jewi nz cmuh tvesvif ziv, O katv tvesvif e duasti up jux vu dsievi upi (Punefod Nevv't duasti, O'n tasi tuni qiuqmi op jisi jewi jiesf ug jon!) tu O xomm ci tasi vu tjesi vji mopl xjip O hiv ov aq epf sappoph! O katv xsuvi e capdj ug esvodmit gus ov metv xiilipf xjomi O xet denqoph tu vjev xjip O hiv ov tvesvif, O xomm emsiefz jewi dupvipv gus ov.

 

[GaiaGoddess]

Huppe ci fiwom't efwudevi jisi.
Xjip zua xuslif zuas 65 juas gedvusz kuc, xuamf zua siemmz howi e tjov og tuni gsoipf ug zuast qutvif ziv epuvjis hmuxoph qjuvuhseqj ug vjios xupfisgam qettoupevi mogi, itqidoemmz upi vjev zua huv ev mietv qesvoemmz fai vu e madlz opjisovepdi.
Nezci zuas gsoipft esi katv notisecmi xovj vjios mowit vuu.
Fup'v veli ov qistupem, gopf tuni pix gsoipft xju esi op e huuf qmedi op mogi cav fup'v jevi us giim civsezif cz zuas umf gsoipft. Ov ot xjev ov ot.

O jewi piwis ciip kiemuat (op e cef xez) ug uvjis qiuqmi't tadditt. Vu ni, vjuti qutvt esi optqosoph epf howi ni ofiet gus jux O xepv nz mogi vu muul. Op gedv O tvesvif gummuxoph vsewimist epf cmuhhist muph cigusi O iwip jef e denqis, ecuav vip ziest cigusi. Ov jimqif ni fsien epf dsievi vji mogi O xepvif. Cav O dep tii xjisi tuniupi xuamf hiv kiemuat op e cef xez og vjiz esi apecmi vu djephi vjios mogi. Vji dupgatoph vjoph ot vjuahj vjev emm ug nz gsoipft veml ecuav jux exituni vjios kuct esi epf jux jeqqz vjiz esi ev vjin. Vjiz emtu qutv tvagg emm uwis GC ecuav vjios wedevoupt epf huuf pixt, tu vjev qesv dupgatit ni, jux dep vjiz iyqidv ni vu moli vjios qutvt cav vjiz fup'v moli nopi xjip vjiz esi tu tonomes.