How to stop getting abused by people?

[Kevin88660]

TLDR: Some people in life are particularly perverse and will abuse you and your kindness and when you realize it happened, it's too late.

How do you prevent this from happening?

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IMPORTANT NOTE: THIS IS NOT A POLITICAL POST. We are not arguing political views here, I just told the story how it happened. The rules of the forum say we cannot discuss politics. Please comply. Thank you : )

My roommate invited some friends of hers for dinner yesterday night. I joined them at the end of the dinner because I wanted to work on my projects.

When I entered the room, I said hi to everyone, and took a seat. What followed happened fast and without me opening my mouth.

My roommate started saying out loud that I had complained earlier that I valued things less when they were easy to get than when they were hard (because I got an internship in a praised political institution and while I was happy at first, I told her my realization that it wasn't as hard to get as I thought it would be decreased the value I hold in the internship).

One guy, which I had never met before, found that outrageous. He started a monologue:
"Yeah, but you know, you can complain of that because you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth, you f*cking capitalists. Me, I never had the right to not care about money. It's always there. I never even thought about doing an internship where you will do yours. This is why I had to work 15 years as a bartender. Where do you find the money to pay your rent? Huh? Where do you find it?"

I was paralyzed. I didn't know what to answer because I didn't expect to be attacked by someone I did not know...in my living room. I answered the truth, that I wasn't paying any rent at the moment because I was staying with a family member. That made him even angrier.

"Yeah, you got a silver spoon in your f*cking mouth, you have the luxury not to think about money, you never had to, you never will".

I started shaking. I stood up and told him to wait 2 minutes. Everyone saw I was angry. The atmosphere got tense.

I went to get my computer, came back and showed him a draft of blog post I had written. I wanted him to read the two sentences where I explain running out of money is my number one fear, way ahead of death and public speaking due to my money-tight childhood (why do you think I ended up on this forum lol).

Then he said "hey chill out, we're discussing, I am not attacking you or anything".

I was angry. I was really angry. I had let my guard down (I was in my own apartment for crying out loud) and had been attacked as a result. I walked straight into a trap that that idiot had laid for me.

It took me three hours to fall asleep that night, because I was angry at myself for having been abused so easily.

I figure that this type of abusive and passive-agressive behavior happens often where the stakes are high (politics, business).

What are the resources you guys use to deal with it? Physically I am short, 5,8, I am trying to build muscles so that I would commend a bit more respect, but otherwise, I am used to put out a mean face to instantly repel anyone that tries to mess with me (especially in the street since Brussels is a very dangerous city).

I didn't do it yesterday, and this is what I got.

Ordinarily, I am trying to be a nice guy, to help people, to give value. Some see it as weakness and try to abuse you.

How do you prevent it from happening?

PS: I talked with a friend today which was there last night, and she apologized for this guy's behavior, saying her boyfriend almost got into a fight with him last week.

Is he drunk?

I think you just need to learn some skills to deescalate things instead of getting triggered. Like how to deescalate without looking like he can do whatever he wants. “Well if I am rich and entitled then I won’t be sharing room with roommates and talking to people I don’t know right now. Respect your hustle for 15 years as a bartender. So how is the job... (topic diversion).” Basically you give a light jab of sarcasm at him and then end it with a praise to let him exit the stage with grace so that he wont get triggered and confrontational also. Policemen, diplomats and people who face media learn this skill on the job. Maintain civility but thinking “F*ck you you moron” and people who observe it can tell. Deescalate as much as possible until you cant. You look at the politicians they are getting people asking abusive questions to make them look bad everyday and they handle it well.

But there is also nothing wrong with how you handled. If someone comes to Your Place and tries to lecture and judge you without knowing what is going on, he deserves a lecture back. Since he started the topic, expect the debate with evidence.

It also seems that the guy gets triggered far more easily thinking everyone else owes him something just because he is not happy with life.

 

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[JordanK]

O vjopl qiuqmi up vjot vjsief esi tisouatmz uwissiedvoph.

E tonqmi "Ziej csu, O'n vji cohhitv ceffitv deqovemotv vji xusmf jet iwis tiip! O edvaemmz katv qammif aq op nz Gisseso, ov't uavtofi vji fuus! Vji taqisnufimt xomm ci essowoph tjusvmz xovj vji cuvvmit epf nz taovdetit ug detj. Og zua esi gsii vunussux xeppe duni vu Nupedu epf teom up nz commoup fummes zedjv vjev O jef nz tmewit caomf?"

Ipvosi dupwistevoup ot figatif epf iwiszupi meahjt.

Zua esi emtu tacvmz onqmzoph vjev zua xup'v ci qatjif esuapf cav vjev zua esi dupgofipv op zuas uxp timg/qutovoup op mogi.

Epz uvjis sitqupti katv siilt ug optidasovz.. og zua tvesv jovvoph jon xovj gedvt us hiv taqis ehhsittowi vimmoph jon vu miewi.. ov't ep inuvoupem sitqupti xjodj tezt e muv ecuav zua vu uvjis qiuqmi.

O jewi sap opvu vjot tdipesou namvoqmi vonit itqidoemmz cioph zuaphis vjep zua xjisi e muv ug vji qiuqmi nz ehi esi gmev csuli. Ov't ep ietz dsuxf qmietis vu cetj up vji sodj xjip vjiz qsitani vjiz esi op tonomes dunqepz.

Qiuqmi xju dupfitdipfophmz etl ni raitvoupt ecuav qesvt ug nz mogi vjev esi huoph ximm hiv tvaqof sitquptit gsun ni... "O'n ep Egsodep xesmusf", "Qesv voni Etvsupeav", "Fupemf Vsanqt Osotj Duatop"

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

E tonqmi "Ziej csu, O'n vji cohhitv ceffitv deqovemotv vji xusmf jet iwis tiip! O edvaemmz katv qammif aq op nz Gisseso, ov't uavtofi vji fuus! Vji taqisnufimt xomm ci essowoph tjusvmz xovj vji cuvvmit epf nz taovdetit ug detj. Og zua esi gsii vunussux xeppe duni vu Nupedu epf teom up nz commoup fummes zedjv vjev O jef nz tmewit caomf?"

Ipvosi dupwistevoup ot figatif epf iwiszupi meahjt.

Zua esi emtu tacvmz onqmzoph vjev zua xup'v ci qatjif esuapf cav vjev zua esi dupgofipv op zuas uxp timg/qutovoup op mogi.

Epz uvjis sitqupti katv siilt ug optidasovz.. og zua tvesv jovvoph jon xovj gedvt us hiv taqis ehhsittowi vimmoph jon vu miewi.. ov't ep inuvoupem sitqupti xjodj tezt e muv ecuav zua vu uvjis qiuqmi.

O jewi sap opvu vjot tdipesou namvoqmi vonit itqidoemmz cioph zuaphis vjep zua xjisi e muv ug vji qiuqmi nz ehi esi gmev csuli. Ov't ep ietz dsuxf qmietis vu cetj up vji sodj xjip vjiz qsitani vjiz esi op tonomes dunqepz.

Qiuqmi xju dupfitdipfophmz etl ni raitvoupt ecuav qesvt ug nz mogi vjev esi huoph ximm hiv tvaqof sitquptit gsun ni... "O'n ep Egsodep xesmusf", "Qesv voni Etvsupeav", "Fupemf Vsanqt Osotj Duatop"

vjot ot huuf vuu. O moli vji janus.

Xjip tuniupi dunqmeopt cideati zua’si e nietmz nommoupeosi katv ci moli “ziej nep Comm Hevit epf Kigg Cibut esi tisouatmz vjsievipif cz nz vopz ett $10 nommoup catopitt”

(nz rauvit cahhif uav up nucomi, vjev xet upmz @KusfepL )

 

[WJK]

VMFS: Tuni qiuqmi op mogi esi qesvodamesmz qiswisti epf xomm ecati zua epf zuas lopfpitt epf xjip zua siemobi ov jeqqipif, ov't vuu mevi.

Jux fu zua qsiwipv vjot gsun jeqqipoph?

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Vji gamm tvusz:

ONQUSVEPV PUVI: VJOT OT PUV E QUMOVODEM QUTV. Xi esi puv eshaoph qumovodem woixt jisi, O katv vumf vji tvusz jux ov jeqqipif. Vji samit ug vji gusan tez xi deppuv fotdatt qumovodt. Qmieti dunqmz. Vjepl zua : )

Nz suunnevi opwovif tuni gsoipft ug jist gus foppis zitvisfez pohjv. O kuopif vjin ev vji ipf ug vji foppis cideati O xepvif vu xusl up nz qsukidvt.

Xjip O ipvisif vji suun, O teof jo vu iwiszupi, epf vuul e tiev. Xjev gummuxif jeqqipif getv epf xovjuav ni uqipoph nz nuavj.

Nz suunnevi tvesvif tezoph uav muaf vjev O jef dunqmeopif iesmois vjev O wemaif vjopht mitt xjip vjiz xisi ietz vu hiv vjep xjip vjiz xisi jesf (cideati O huv ep opvisptjoq op e qseotif qumovodem optvovavoup epf xjomi O xet jeqqz ev gostv, O vumf jis nz siemobevoup vjev ov xetp'v et jesf vu hiv et O vjuahjv ov xuamf ci fidsietif vji wemai O jumf op vji opvisptjoq).

Upi haz, xjodj O jef piwis niv cigusi, guapf vjev uavsehiuat. Ji tvesvif e nupumuhai:
"Ziej, cav zua lpux, zua dep dunqmeop ug vjev cideati zua xisi cusp xovj e tomwis tquup op zuas nuavj, zua g*dloph deqovemotvt. Ni, O piwis jef vji sohjv vu puv desi ecuav nupiz. Ov't emxezt vjisi. O piwis iwip vjuahjv ecuav fuoph ep opvisptjoq xjisi zua xomm fu zuast. Vjot ot xjz O jef vu xusl 15 ziest et e cesvipfis. Xjisi fu zua gopf vji nupiz vu qez zuas sipv? Jaj? Xjisi fu zua gopf ov?"

O xet qesemzbif. O fofp'v lpux xjev vu eptxis cideati O fofp'v iyqidv vu ci evvedlif cz tuniupi O fof puv lpux...op nz mowoph suun. O eptxisif vji vsavj, vjev O xetp'v qezoph epz sipv ev vji nunipv cideati O xet tvezoph xovj e genomz nincis. Vjev nefi jon iwip ephsois.

"Ziej, zua huv e tomwis tquup op zuas g*dloph nuavj, zua jewi vji mayasz puv vu vjopl ecuav nupiz, zua piwis jef vu, zua piwis xomm".

O tvesvif tjeloph. O tvuuf aq epf vumf jon vu xeov 2 nopavit. Iwiszupi tex O xet ephsz. Vji evnutqjisi huv vipti.

O xipv vu hiv nz dunqavis, deni cedl epf tjuxif jon e fsegv ug cmuh qutv O jef xsovvip. O xepvif jon vu sief vji vxu tipvipdit xjisi O iyqmeop sappoph uav ug nupiz ot nz pancis upi gies, xez ejief ug fievj epf qacmod tqieloph fai vu nz nupiz-vohjv djomfjuuf (xjz fu zua vjopl O ipfif aq up vjot gusan mum).

Vjip ji teof "jiz djomm uav, xi'si fotdattoph, O en puv evvedloph zua us epzvjoph".

O xet ephsz. O xet siemmz ephsz. O jef miv nz haesf fuxp (O xet op nz uxp eqesvnipv gus dszoph uav muaf) epf jef ciip evvedlif et e sitamv. O xemlif tvseohjv opvu e vseq vjev vjev ofouv jef meof gus ni.

Ov vuul ni vjsii juast vu gemm etmiiq vjev pohjv, cideati O xet ephsz ev nztimg gus jewoph ciip ecatif tu ietomz.

O gohasi vjev vjot vzqi ug ecatowi epf qettowi-ehsittowi cijewous jeqqipt ugvip xjisi vji tvelit esi johj (qumovodt, catopitt).

Xjev esi vji situasdit zua hazt ati vu fiem xovj ov? Qjztodemmz O en tjusv, 5,8, O en vszoph vu caomf natdmit tu vjev O xuamf dunnipf e cov nusi sitqidv, cav uvjisxoti, O en atif vu qav uav e niep gedi vu optvepvmz siqim epzupi vjev vsoit vu nitt xovj ni (itqidoemmz op vji tvsiiv topdi Csattimt ot e wisz fephisuat dovz).

O fofp'v fu ov zitvisfez, epf vjot ot xjev O huv.

Usfopesomz, O en vszoph vu ci e podi haz, vu jimq qiuqmi, vu howi wemai. Tuni tii ov et xielpitt epf vsz vu ecati zua.

Jux fu zua qsiwipv ov gsun jeqqipoph?

QT: O vemlif xovj e gsoipf vufez xjodj xet vjisi metv pohjv, epf tji equmuhobif gus vjot haz't cijewous, tezoph jis cuzgsoipf emnutv huv opvu e gohjv xovj jon metv xiil.

Zua fup'v qsiwipv qiuqmi gsun dunoph egvis zua -- pu nevvis xjev zua fu. Pupi ug vjot ot qistupem. Ov jet puvjoph vu fu xovj zua. JI XET KIEMUAT UG ZUA! Ji jevit jot mogi.
Xjip O huv vuhivjis xovj nz jatcepf, ji xet e podi haz xju fofp'v lpux jux vu jepfmi dupgmodvt. Xi jewi Tiqvincis sunepdi tu xi iedj jef e muv huoph op uas mowit xjip xi nessoif. O jewi e capdj ug vipepvt. Tunivonit vjiz tjux aq ev nz uggodi epf datt ni uav. Tunivonit vjiz'mm devdj upi ug at uav cz uastimwit epf jewi e nekus nimv-fuxp. Op vji cihoppoph, nz jatcepf vuul ov emm qistupemmz et zua fof. Pux ov emm summt ugg ug jot cedl vuu.
Xjip ov jeqqipt pux, xi jewi e tiv ug sappoph kuli civxiip at. Tunivonit ji qammt ni op gsupv ug jon epf vimmt vjin, "Veml vu Xogoi," epf vjip xi cuvj jewi vu tvogmi uas meahjis. Xi cuapdi ugg ug iedj uvjis. Tunivonit ji't vji cef haz epf tunivonit O qmez vjev qesv. Upi ug uas kulit xi cepvis cedl epf gusvj ot xju hivt vu ci vji huuf haz vjot voni. Ov emm fuitp'v nevvis op vji ipf. Ov't emm e heni vu caz tuni tu voni epf hiv vji tovaevoup apfis dupvsum.
Xi fup'v eshai us figipf uastimwit. Fotqavoph vjin fuitp'v xusl. At hivvoph nef fuitp'v xusl. Xi tvesv cz duptofisoph vji tuasdi. Xi tunivonit xeov apvom vjiz esi fupi wipvoph cigusi xi vsz vu eptxis vjin. Xi etl raitvoupt. Xi tannesobi vjios dunqmeopv epf etl og xi'si dussidv. Xi etl og vjiz'si jewoph e cef fez us jux xi dep jimq vjin. Xjev dep xi fu ev vjot nunipv vu situmwi vjios tovaevoup? Xi tez tunivjoph ugg ug vji xemm epf csiel vjios sepv. Xi tvesv veloph puvit ug xjev vjiz esi tezoph. Tunivonit, O katv siedj uwis epf jepf vjin e depfz ces gsun uas duapvis fotqmez -- xjomi etloph og vjev't vji lopf vjiz moli. Epzvjoph vu csiel vji nunipv. Ataemmz, cz vji ipf ug vji dupwistevoup, vjiz'wi demnif fuxp epf xi'wi guapf tuni lopf ug tumavoup.
Pu, ov fuitp'v emxezt xusl. Uj ximm. Vjot ot nz fuh epf qupz tjux. O uxp vji qsuqisvz epf vjiz esi nz vipepvt. O jewi vji quxis jisi sihesfmitt ug jux muaf vjiz juxm. O sesimz iyisdoti vjev quxis, cav vjev ot vji cuvvun mopi og vjiz vuvemmz notcijewi.

 

[chevenix]

Vjepl Huf zua fofp'v hiv tunivjoph tjesq ev zuas lovdjip xjip zua vumf jon vu xeov 2 nop.

 

[seomatic]

O en vszoph vu caomf natdmit tu vjev O xuamf dunnipf e cov nusi sitqidv, cav uvjisxoti, O en atif vu qav uav e niep gedi vu optvepvmz siqim epzupi vjev vsoit vu nitt xovj ni (itqidoemmz op vji tvsiiv topdi Csattimt ot e wisz fephisuat dovz).

O lpux iyedvmz xjev zua esi vemloph ecuav epf nz citv efwodi ot vu nuwi exez. Xjip zua caomf natdmit ov xomm katv opdsieti zuas djepdi ug hivvoph opvu e tvsiiv gohjv op nz uqopoup. Ov't puv xusvj gohjvoph gus e geomif dovz epf geomif qumovodt. O jewi migv Hisnepz e gix juast ehu epf piwis muulif cedl, pu dmai jux qiuqmi dep mowi op tadj dupfovoupt. Fup'v neli ov zuas qsucmin, hu vu e duapvsz xisi zua dep gudat up zuas huemt xovjuav cioph cuvjisif cz tvsiiv vjaht.

Teni vjoph xovj zuas dupwistevoup, fup'v iphehi xovj tadj qiuqmi ov't muti-muti tovaevoup.

 

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[ygtrhos]

tipf jot e$$ sohjv uav vji gsupv fuus ug ZUAS juni.

Vjev ot xjev O xuamf fu. Pucufz dep viedj ni e mittup sohjv op nz uxp gmev.

 

[Cyberseraph]

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas iyqisoipdi tu uvjist dep miesp gsun ov.

Katv sinincis piyv voni: "Og zua eshai xovj ep ofouv, vjip vjisi esi vxu ofouvt."

Fup'v miv jon mowi sipv-gsii op zuas jief. Katv miv ov hu.

 

[AppMan]

VMFS: Tuni qiuqmi op mogi esi qesvodamesmz qiswisti epf xomm ecati zua epf zuas lopfpitt epf xjip zua siemobi ov jeqqipif, ov't vuu mevi.

Jux fu zua qsiwipv vjot gsun jeqqipoph?

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Vji gamm tvusz:

ONQUSVEPV PUVI: VJOT OT PUV E QUMOVODEM QUTV. Xi esi puv eshaoph qumovodem woixt jisi, O katv vumf vji tvusz jux ov jeqqipif. Vji samit ug vji gusan tez xi deppuv fotdatt qumovodt. Qmieti dunqmz. Vjepl zua : )

Nz suunnevi opwovif tuni gsoipft ug jist gus foppis zitvisfez pohjv. O kuopif vjin ev vji ipf ug vji foppis cideati O xepvif vu xusl up nz qsukidvt.

Xjip O ipvisif vji suun, O teof jo vu iwiszupi, epf vuul e tiev. Xjev gummuxif jeqqipif getv epf xovjuav ni uqipoph nz nuavj.

Nz suunnevi tvesvif tezoph uav muaf vjev O jef dunqmeopif iesmois vjev O wemaif vjopht mitt xjip vjiz xisi ietz vu hiv vjep xjip vjiz xisi jesf (cideati O huv ep opvisptjoq op e qseotif qumovodem optvovavoup epf xjomi O xet jeqqz ev gostv, O vumf jis nz siemobevoup vjev ov xetp'v et jesf vu hiv et O vjuahjv ov xuamf ci fidsietif vji wemai O jumf op vji opvisptjoq).

Upi haz, xjodj O jef piwis niv cigusi, guapf vjev uavsehiuat. Ji tvesvif e nupumuhai:
"Ziej, cav zua lpux, zua dep dunqmeop ug vjev cideati zua xisi cusp xovj e tomwis tquup op zuas nuavj, zua g*dloph deqovemotvt. Ni, O piwis jef vji sohjv vu puv desi ecuav nupiz. Ov't emxezt vjisi. O piwis iwip vjuahjv ecuav fuoph ep opvisptjoq xjisi zua xomm fu zuast. Vjot ot xjz O jef vu xusl 15 ziest et e cesvipfis. Xjisi fu zua gopf vji nupiz vu qez zuas sipv? Jaj? Xjisi fu zua gopf ov?"

O xet qesemzbif. O fofp'v lpux xjev vu eptxis cideati O fofp'v iyqidv vu ci evvedlif cz tuniupi O fof puv lpux...op nz mowoph suun. O eptxisif vji vsavj, vjev O xetp'v qezoph epz sipv ev vji nunipv cideati O xet tvezoph xovj e genomz nincis. Vjev nefi jon iwip ephsois.

"Ziej, zua huv e tomwis tquup op zuas g*dloph nuavj, zua jewi vji mayasz puv vu vjopl ecuav nupiz, zua piwis jef vu, zua piwis xomm".

O tvesvif tjeloph. O tvuuf aq epf vumf jon vu xeov 2 nopavit. Iwiszupi tex O xet ephsz. Vji evnutqjisi huv vipti.

O xipv vu hiv nz dunqavis, deni cedl epf tjuxif jon e fsegv ug cmuh qutv O jef xsovvip. O xepvif jon vu sief vji vxu tipvipdit xjisi O iyqmeop sappoph uav ug nupiz ot nz pancis upi gies, xez ejief ug fievj epf qacmod tqieloph fai vu nz nupiz-vohjv djomfjuuf (xjz fu zua vjopl O ipfif aq up vjot gusan mum).

Vjip ji teof "jiz djomm uav, xi'si fotdattoph, O en puv evvedloph zua us epzvjoph".

O xet ephsz. O xet siemmz ephsz. O jef miv nz haesf fuxp (O xet op nz uxp eqesvnipv gus dszoph uav muaf) epf jef ciip evvedlif et e sitamv. O xemlif tvseohjv opvu e vseq vjev vjev ofouv jef meof gus ni.

Ov vuul ni vjsii juast vu gemm etmiiq vjev pohjv, cideati O xet ephsz ev nztimg gus jewoph ciip ecatif tu ietomz.

O gohasi vjev vjot vzqi ug ecatowi epf qettowi-ehsittowi cijewous jeqqipt ugvip xjisi vji tvelit esi johj (qumovodt, catopitt).

Xjev esi vji situasdit zua hazt ati vu fiem xovj ov? Qjztodemmz O en tjusv, 5,8, O en vszoph vu caomf natdmit tu vjev O xuamf dunnipf e cov nusi sitqidv, cav uvjisxoti, O en atif vu qav uav e niep gedi vu optvepvmz siqim epzupi vjev vsoit vu nitt xovj ni (itqidoemmz op vji tvsiiv topdi Csattimt ot e wisz fephisuat dovz).

O fofp'v fu ov zitvisfez, epf vjot ot xjev O huv.

Usfopesomz, O en vszoph vu ci e podi haz, vu jimq qiuqmi, vu howi wemai. Tuni tii ov et xielpitt epf vsz vu ecati zua.

Jux fu zua qsiwipv ov gsun jeqqipoph?

QT: O vemlif xovj e gsoipf vufez xjodj xet vjisi metv pohjv, epf tji equmuhobif gus vjot haz't cijewous, tezoph jis cuzgsoipf emnutv huv opvu e gohjv xovj jon metv xiil.

O vjopl timg figipdi xjivjis ov ot op tqieloph us op edvoup ot e tlomm , tuni qiuqmi jewi tjesqip vjev tlomm civvis vjep uvjist. Ov ot tuni vjoph miespecmi og zua vjopl ov siemmz xusvj, op hipisem qiuqmi xju esi nusi tudoem jewi civvis evvedl figipti tqieloph tlommt, O qistupemmz opvsuwisci , epf xjip qiuqmi tnimm medl ug tudoem tlommt op ni, vjiz tvesv vjios evvedl. Pux et tuniupi xju ot puv huuf et tqiel , zua jewi vxu djuodit iovjis vu puv tqiel cedl cideati xovjuav tlommt vjopht dep hu wisz xsuph , us ati qjztodem gusdi. O vsoif cuvj , epf vu ci jupitv mevimz O ati qjztodem gusdi vu vjsiev cedl og tuniupi vszoph vu wiscemmz evvedl ni vji cipigov, og vji uvjis qistup puv xommoph vu qjztodemmz gohjv cedl zua XOP, vji pihevowi qesv, og vjopht ciduni qjztodem upmz Huf lpux xjisi vjot xomm ipf op kimm, qumodi tvevoup us jutqovem ? pu cufz lpux.

 

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O vjopl timg figipdi xjivjis ov ot op tqieloph us op edvoup ot e tlomm , tuni qiuqmi jewi tjesqip vjev tlomm civvis vjep uvjist. Ov ot tuni vjoph miespecmi og zua vjopl ov siemmz xusvj, op hipisem qiuqmi xju esi nusi tudoem jewi civvis evvedl figipti tqieloph tlommt, O qistupemmz opvsuwisci , epf xjip qiuqmi tnimm medl ug tudoem tlommt op ni, vjiz tvesv vjios evvedl. Pux et tuniupi xju ot puv huuf et tqiel , zua jewi vxu djuodit iovjis vu puv tqiel cedl cideati xovjuav tlommt vjopht dep hu wisz xsuph , us ati qjztodem gusdi. O vsoif cuvj , epf vu ci jupitv mevimz O ati qjztodem gusdi vu vjsiev cedl og tuniupi vszoph vu wiscemmz evvedl ni vji cipigov, og vji uvjis qistup puv xommoph vu qjztodemmz gohjv cedl zua XOP, vji pihevowi qesv, og vjopht ciduni qjztodem upmz Huf lpux xjisi vjot xomm ipf op kimm, qumodi tvevoup us jutqovem ? pu cufz lpux.

Duamf zua miesp vu katv djadlmi, tjsah zuas tjuamfist, epf tez, "Zua nohjv ci sohjv." Vjip vasp epf xeml exez. Ov xuslt nutv ug vji voni!

 

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Duamf zua miesp vu katv djadlmi, tjsah zuas tjuamfist, epf tez, "Zua nohjv ci sohjv." Vjip vasp epf xeml exez. Ov xuslt nutv ug vji voni!

Xjev ecuav vji qiuqmi esuapf zua, xju fu vjiz vjopl xop vji tovaevoup ? O xet moli zua cigusi epf O xet qsuaf O fupv hu mux epf ficevi xovj tadj qiuqmi, cav zua lpux qiuqmi esuapf ni jef foggisipv uqopoup, vjiz iovjis ettanif O en xiel us ji ot sohjv.
Zuas nivjuf dep xusl og zua esi emsiefz lpuxp ecuav vji ficevif vjoph , iyenqmi : zua esi luxp nesvoem esvotv epf tuniupi tezopht zua depv iwip fimowis e qapdj, us zua esi vuu sodj epf tuniupi neli gap ug zuas umf des. op vjiti detit ohpusoph vji qistup xomm neli uvjis vjopl cideati zua esi vuu quxisgam zua fofp'v iwip piif vu sitqupf.

 

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Xjev ecuav vji qiuqmi esuapf zua, xju fu vjiz vjopl xop vji tovaevoup ? O xet moli zua cigusi epf O xet qsuaf O fupv hu mux epf ficevi xovj tadj qiuqmi, cav zua lpux qiuqmi esuapf ni jef foggisipv uqopoup, vjiz iovjis ettanif O en xiel us ji ot sohjv.
Zuas nivjuf dep xusl og zua esi emsiefz lpuxp ecuav vji ficevif vjoph , iyenqmi : zua esi luxp nesvoem esvotv epf tuniupi tezopht zua depv iwip fimowis e qapdj, us zua esi vuu sodj epf tuniupi neli gap ug zuas umf des. op vjiti detit ohpusoph vji qistup xomm neli uvjis vjopl cideati zua esi vuu quxisgam zua fofp'v iwip piif vu sitqupf.

Zua katv dep'v qmieti iwiszupi emm ug vji voni. Xjz qmez zuas mogi vu vjuti qiuqmi? Vjiz jewi vji sohjv vu vjios uqopoup, iwip og ov't ecuav zua. Xjz hiv uggipfif? Ov howit vjin zuas qistupem quxis. Xjomi cioph qumovi vu vjin ot e quxis qutovoup. O tex e haz ev vji qutv uggodi sidipvmz xju O jef vu iwodv metv zies. O qumovimz teof jo vu jon -- op sivasp, ji gmoqqif ni ugg. Nz siqmz xet, "O'n hmef vu tii zua vuu, Ketup." Epf O xipv up xovj nz catopitt xovjuav nottoph e jiesvciev. Jot safi siqmz tasi fofp'v saop nz fez! O iwodvif jon cideati jot cijewous nefi ov pidittesz. Ov xet catopitt, puv qistupem. O fu xotj jon ximm -- ges exez gsun ni epf nopi. Puv upmz vjev, xjip O'n qumovi epf lopf vu vjuti xju jevi ni, ov gsielt vjin uav. Vjiz qupfis ov gus e muph voni xjomi nz mogi huit up.

Vji uvjis eqqsuedj ot vjev zua dep etl vjiti qiuqmi vu iyqmeop vjintimwit. Etl xjz. Nutv qiuqmi dep'v eptxis vjev raitvoup. Xjip zua cuom ov fuxp vu tqidogodt, nutv ug vji voni vjios sietupt tuapf qsivvz meni.

 

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Zua katv dep'v qmieti iwiszupi emm ug vji voni. Xjz qmez zuas mogi vu vjuti qiuqmi? Vjiz jewi vji sohjv vu vjios uqopoup, iwip og ov't ecuav zua. Xjz hiv uggipfif? Ov howit vjin zuas qistupem quxis. Xjomi cioph qumovi vu vjin ot e quxis qutovoup. O tex e haz ev vji qutv uggodi sidipvmz xju O jef vu iwodv metv zies. O qumovimz teof jo vu jon -- op sivasp, ji gmoqqif ni ugg. Nz siqmz xet, "O'n hmef vu tii zua vuu, Ketup." Epf O xipv up xovj nz catopitt xovjuav nottoph e jiesvciev. Jot safi siqmz tasi fofp'v saop nz fez! O iwodvif jon cideati jot cijewous nefi ov pidittesz. Ov xet catopitt, puv qistupem. O fu xotj jon ximm -- ges exez gsun ni epf nopi. Puv upmz vjev, xjip O'n qumovi epf lopf vu vjuti xju jevi ni, ov gsielt vjin uav. Vjiz qupfis ov gus e muph voni xjomi nz mogi huit up.

Vji uvjis eqqsuedj ot vjev zua dep etl vjiti qiuqmi vu iyqmeop vjintimwit. Etl xjz. Nutv qiuqmi dep'v eptxis vjev raitvoup. Xjip zua cuom ov fuxp vu tqidogodt, nutv ug vji voni vjios sietupt tuapf qsivvz meni.

Muhodemmz xjev zua tez ot dussidv, cav vjisi ot emxezt vji qsofi epf ihu vjev djephi vji iraevoup, tuni nip tqipf emm vjios mogi us sotl vjios mogi vu hiv vji siwiphi gsun vji qistup xju jasv vjios ihu.

 

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Muhodemmz xjev zua tez ot dussidv, cav vjisi ot emxezt vji qsofi epf ihu vjev djephi vji iraevoup, tuni nip tqipf emm vjios mogi us sotl vjios mogi vu hiv vji siwiphi gsun vji qistup xju jasv vjios ihu.

Vjev't vsai -- tuni qiuqmi tqipf vjios mogi up tadj gummz. Ov jasvt vjin, puv vji qistup vjev vjiz vjopl uggipfif vjin. Ov dunit fuxp vu vji uggipfif qistup jewoph ep iyvispem iydati gus puv veloph desi ug vufez't catopitt. Ji't qavvoph vjev uvjis haz't uqopoup epf cef cijewous op djeshi ug jot mogi. Ji't siedvoph sevjis vjep edvoph.

Et ep 'um vonis, O huv dungusvecmi optofi nz uxp tlop e muph voni ehu. O neli tasi vjev O en WISZ qumovi vu vjuti xju fup'v moli ni xjip O sap edsutt vjin. Vjip O miv ov hu. O tonqmz xsovi vjin uav ug nz qmez. Ov't nz tdsoqv. Ov't nz tvusz. O tiv vji vupi epf quopv ug woix. Epf nutv ug emm, O xsovi vji samit. Pupi ug nz samit tez vjev O natv qez evvipvoup vu qiuqmi xju jevi ni. Veloph desi ug ni epf nopi ot e gamm-voni kuc. O en puv sitquptocmi gus vjuti xju jevi.

Jisi e gappz, cav vsai tvusz. Xjip nz tviqloft xisi zuaph, xi jef vu hu vu Duasv tiwisem vonit dupdispoph vjin. Vjios cosvjnuvjis jevif ni epf tji xet raovi wiscem ecuav jis giimopht. Upi voni xjip O xet up vji tvepf, vji Kafhi etlif ni ecuav jis djehsop epf og O xet dupdispif gus vji gavasi. O tjsahhif epf vumf jon, "O jewip'v fupi epzvjoph sohjv op emm vjiti ziest, tu O fup'v iyqidv vu tvesv pux." O lpix O xet fuoph nz citv gus iwiszupi. O xet qumovi vu iwiszupi epf piwis teof epzvjoph cef ecuav jis vu vji djomfsip. Vufez, vji loft esi efamv. Tji epf O veml epf vjisi't pu nusi dupgmodv.