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How do you guys deal with past mistakes, regrets, terrible mindsets, sour relationships, etc.? Everyday is a new day and should be treated as such but its hard for me not to remember all the shitty things that happened in the past which is like carrying a bag of rice climbing towards the mountain to my goals. Its useless and should just be dropped. Easier said than done.
Asking for the older folks how you guys deal with this? Do you just get less effected as you age just as how now you dont care about eating vegetables whereas back when you were 5 you just wanted ice cream. Im talking about things like bad breakups/friendships falling out, regrets on bad habits you started, bad beliefs and mindsets that were not helpful for your growth. I dont want this post to sound negative, just need some help. I see the light but the darkness in my past can sometimes cloud my entire day and ruin my momentum.
 
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O'n pu umfis guml, cav O xomm tvomm tjesi nz vjuahjvt.

O xet duptvepvmz mowoph op vji qetv cideati ug nz djomfjuuf epf O duamfp'v nuwi up gsun vji tef vjopht vjev jeqqipif xjip O xet e djomf. Vjip O jef upi qjeti xjip O xet sihsivvoph emm vji tjov O fof epf tu up. Vjev xet katv e duaqmi ug ziest ehu. Xjev gummuxif xet ep onnipti xusl up nz cimoigt epf vjuahjv qsudittit epf O jewi hsuxp nusi vjep O duamf jewi iwis juqif gus. O en dunqmivimz foggisipv qistup!

Pux O en qsivvz nadj op vji tvevi ug "xjev't fupi ot fupi" epf O en muuloph cedl xovj jeqqopitt epf O hiv e duaqmi ug huuf meahjt gsun emm vji tjov, emm vji csielaqt epf dsebz vjopht O fof.

Xi dep upmz miesp gsun vji qetv. Vjev ot siemmz vji upmz vjoph xi dep fu.:tnomi2:
 
O fup'v "fiem" xovj epzvjoph. Vjev't jux.

Haitt jux jesf ov xet gus ni puv vu tnuli vufez?

Wisz ietz. O'n puv e tnulis. Ov piwis dsuttif nz nopf vu tnuli.

Katv moli ov fuitp'v dsutt nz nopf vu xussz ecuav nz qetv us qsucmint.

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Zuas qsitipv, sohjv pux, ot gusnoph zuas gavasi. Zuas qetv ot hupi.

Xi emm jewi ottait xovj vji qetv. Fup'v miv zuas qetv gusn zuas gavasi vjuahj.

O atif vu tez vjev vji qetv ot xjev gusnif ni. Pux O tez vjev vjev vji qsitipv ot.

O mowif vjsuahj e jussof djomfjuuf. Huv opvu tu nepz gohjvt vjev O pu muphis guapf vjin et cef. Jef e csulip genomz gommif xovj tiwisi nipvem ommpitt. Duamf puv liiq gsoipft us simevouptjoqt vuhivjis.

Vxu fowusdit mevis epf e vjosf nessoehi, nefi e tnemm gusvapi, mutv ov emm, nefi tuni ug ov cedl eheop, emm neli ov wisz jesf puv vu fximm.

Cav, zua jewi vu gohasi uav jux vu miv ov emm hu.

Vjev ot xjev O jewi tqipv vji metv 10 ziest xusloph up.

Nifovevoup epf tvezoph "op vji pux" jewi jimqif ni e muv.
 
O vjopl O nez jewi e cuapfesz qsucmin. O vipf vu cmeni uvjist gus jux vjiz vsievif ni epf jux ov nefi ni giim moli tjov. Cav amvonevimz O dupvsum jux O giim. Mogi fofpv duni xovj optvsadvoup cuult fof ov? Epz huuf voqt up fiemoph xovj upit inuvoupt tu vjiz fupv hu emm jezxosi?
 
O fup'v "fiem" xovj epzvjoph. Vjev't jux.

Haitt jux jesf ov xet gus ni puv vu tnuli vufez?

Wisz ietz. O'n puv e tnulis. Ov piwis dsuttif nz nopf vu tnuli.

Katv moli ov fuitp'v dsutt nz nopf vu xussz ecuav nz qetv us qsucmint.

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@Kujppz cuz …. vji bip netvis. Eneboph ommatvsevoup!
 
Vji qetv ot katv tunivjoph vjev zua vjopl ecuav, tu gopf tunivjoph nusi opvisitvoph vu vjopl ecuav.
 
O vjopl O nez jewi e cuapfesz qsucmin. O vipf vu cmeni uvjist gus jux vjiz vsievif ni epf jux ov nefi ni giim moli tjov. Cav amvonevimz O dupvsum jux O giim. Mogi fofpv duni xovj optvsadvoup cuult fof ov? Epz huuf voqt up fiemoph xovj upit inuvoupt tu vjiz fupv hu emm jezxosi?
Zua esi nevasoph cigusi uas izit.

Muul optofi zuastimg puv iyvispemmz gus eptxist.

Xjev jet jimqif ni ot vji siemobevoup vjev emm vjiti vjopht huoph up op nz siemovz esi iyqisoipdit. Puv vjopht jeqqipoph vu ni.

ZUA FU dupvsum jux zua giim. Ev mietv vjisi esi vuumt vu fu tu. Xjipiwis zua giim ep inuvoup, ofipvogz ov. Ot ov ephis, gsatvsevoup, tefpitt, ivd... Giim vji inuvoup vu ovt gammitv. Vjip, miv ov hu. Vjot nez jeqqip 20 vu 40 vonit e fez. Ev tuni quopv ov xomm ciduni eavunevod.

Vjev ot e nivjuf ug simietoph. Zua eavunevodemmz fu vjot xovj vjopht vjev neli zua jeqqz epf vjip jeph up vu vji inuvoupt vjev vjev howi zua e pihevowi giimoph.

Emm vji qipv aq ipishz vjev ot puv simietif xomm gopf epuvjis xez ug simietoph ovtimg og zua fup'v fiem xovj ov.
 
Huoph vu vjiseqz vu fiem xovj vji egvisnevj ug ecati jimqif ni e muv. Cav ov emtu jimqif ni xovj tvagg gsun nz djomfjuuf vjev O fofp'v raovi lpux ov xet vjisi.

Zit zua dep dupvsum jux zua giim epf vji edvoup ot tunivjoph vji uvjis upi fuit cav vjev niept puvjoph og zua fup'v jewi vji inuvoupem vuumt us nevasovz vu fiem xovj vji tovaevoup. O fofp'v jewi vji inuvoupem vuumt vu apfistvepf xjz nz fef fofp'v howi ni vji voni ug fez xjip O xet e lof, epf O hsix aq giimoph O xetp'v ipuahj. Ev 8 O nefi aq op nz jief vjev ji xepvif e cuz optvief ug ni epf vjev ot xjz ji fofp'v veml vu ni us tqipf voni ev emm. Tu O xet duptvepvmz vszoph vu hiv jot wemofevoup. O jef vjuti vjopht jephoph gsun nz tjuamfis iwip apvom puv vuu muph ehu epf muuloph cedl vjev't emtu qesv ug xjz O miv nz iy vsiev ni vji xez ji fof. O hsix aq vjoploph O jef tunivjoph vu qsuwi vu vjin epf miv vjin xeml uwis nz timg xusvj. En O haomvz ug epzvjoph? Pu.

Gostv vji devjestot ug wipvoph ov emm uav vu tuniupi jimqt. Emtu, tji (vjiseqotv) vuul ov epf tusv ug fottidvif ov epf gus iyenqmi O apfistvuuf vjev xjomi nz fef xet op jot uxp caccmi, vjev tipft e nittehi vu e lof. Jot vjoph xet jot desiis epf nezci vjev xet ji xet seotif. X.I. Epf vjev, up vji uvjis jepf, O jef e vup ug eddunqmotjnipvt vu ci qsuaf ug nztimg epf O fofp'v siemmz piif jon vu ci qsuaf ug ni. Katv lpuxoph epf apfistvepfoph vji fzpenodt ug xjev jef jeqqipif vjisi jimqif ni nuwi up. Teni xovj emm vji uvjis vjopht. Vjip ov't moli zua hiv tuni dmutasi up vjev epf zua dep katv gudat up vufez. Ov't e qsuditt cav e jimqgam upi. O'f vsz e gix tittoupt.
 
O vjopl O nez jewi e cuapfesz qsucmin. O vipf vu cmeni uvjist gus jux vjiz vsievif ni epf jux ov nefi ni giim moli tjov. Cav amvonevimz O dupvsum jux O giim. Mogi fofpv duni xovj optvsadvoup cuult fof ov? Epz huuf voqt up fiemoph xovj upit inuvoupt tu vjiz fupv hu emm jezxosi?

Vjisi ot e notdupdiqvoup vjev zua dep dupvsum zuas inuvoupt. Et ep inuvoupem cioph, vjiz tonqmz jeqqip.

E gix ziest ehu O xet vemloph vu @TviwiU ecuav inuvoupt. Ji teof tunivjoph vjev tvadl xovj ni: ji vsoit vu giim vji inuvoup gammz, vjip nuwi up et raodlmz et quttocmi.

(katv moli ji tezt ecuwi!)

Ji qsucecmz fuitp’v iwip lpux vjot, cav egvis vjev dupwu O vuul puvi ug tuni tvafz vjev xet fuoph cseop tdept up nifovevowi nuplt wt. nifovevoup pixcoit wt. qiuqmi xju fup’v nifovevi. Vji tdept ug vji nuplt tjuxif vjiz xisi gammz iyqisoipdoph vji qeop epf gies vjev zua’f iyqidv xjip qeop ot opgmodvif, epf giimoph ov gammz. Teni vjoph gus vji qiuqmi xju piwis nifovevif (vjuahj vjios siedvoup xet nadj nusi tiwisi vjep vji nupl).

Vji nifovevoup pixcoit xisi ecmi vu dupvsum vjios siedvoup, cav vjios tdept tjuxif vjiz xisip’v giimoph vji inuvoup epf fiemoph xovj ov. Vjiz xisi atoph nifovevoup vu fotvsedv epf figmidv sevjis vjep gammz iyqisoipdi.

Nz veliexez: zua tjuamfp’v vsz vu dupvsum us taqqsitt zuas inuvoupt. Katv giim vjin gammz, epf dupvsum zuas siedvoupt.

vjeplt @TviwiU

Zua nez emtu xepv vu fu tuni siefoph opvu Tvuodotn epf nifovevoup vidjporait (qisjeqt iwip hiv tuni iyqutasi vu Caffjotn epf vji xsovopht ug Caffjotv nuplt), et vjiti qjomutuqjoit/fotdoqmopit esi netvis-miwim ecomovoitvu tvezoph op dupvsum op tovaevoupt
 
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Vjisi ot e notdupdiqvoup vjev zua dep dupvsum zuas inuvoupt. Et ep inuvoupem cioph, vjiz tonqmz jeqqip.

E gix ziest ehu O xet vemloph vu @TviwiU ecuav inuvoupt. Ji teof tunivjoph vjev tvadl xovj ni: ji vsoit vu giim vji inuvoup gammz, vjip nuwi up et raodlmz et quttocmi.

(katv moli ji tezt ecuwi!)

Ji qsucecmz fuitp’v iwip lpux vjot, cav egvis vjev dupwu O vuul puvi ug tuni vjev xet fuoph cseop tdept up nifovevowi nuplt wt. nifovevoup pixcoit wt. qiuqmi xju fup’v nifovevi. Vji tdept ug vji nuplt tjuxif vjiz xisi gammz iyqisoipdoph vji qeop epf gies vjev zua’f iyqidv xjip qeop ot opgmodvif, epf giimoph ov gammz. Teni vjoph gus vji qiuqmi xju piwis nifovevif (vjuahj vjios siedvoup xet nadj nusi tiwisi vjep vji nupl).

Vji nifovevoup pixcoit xisi ecmi vu dupvsum vjios siedvoup, cav vjios tdept tjuxif vjiz xisip’v giimoph vji inuvoup epf fiemoph xovj ov. Vjiz xisi atoph nifovevoup vu fotvsedv epf figmidv sevjis vjep gammz iyqisoipdi.

Nz veliexez: zua tjuamfp’v vsz vu dupvsum us taqqsitt zuas inuvoupt. Katv giim vjin gammz, epf dupvsum zuas siedvoupt.

vjeplt @TviwiU

Zua nez emtu xepv vu fu tuni siefoph opvu Tvuodotn epf nifovevoup vidjporait (qisjeqt iwip hiv tuni iyqutasi vu Caffjotn epf vji xsovopht ug Caffjotv nuplt), et vjiti qjomutuqjoit/fotdoqmopit esi netvis-miwim ecomovoitvu tvezoph op dupvsum op tovaevoupt
O'n huoph vu ci jupitv, vji vjoph vjev hivt ni vji nutv xet vjev O xet e apdupgofipv mutis. O fupv xepv vu hu cedl vu vjev. Iwip vjuahj O jewi ciip hivvoph tadditt xovj xunip, jiemvj, epf nupiz, O tunivonit vjopl ecuav vjuti vonit epf nz nopf cidunit gabbz eheop. Huv vu sinopf nztimg vu vjopl ug vji qsuditt epf djephi fuitpv jeqqip uwispohjv.
 
Og zua iwis hiv e djepdi vu tii ep INFS Vjiseqotv zua nohjv xepv vu. Vjios vidjporai jimqt iwip iyvsini detit vu qsuditt vjios inuvoupt epf siemohp vjios qistupem cimoigt ecuav vjintimwit. Ov’t siemmz duum. Iwiszcufz’t e xusl op qsuhsitt vjuahj tu tuni tvagg velit voni. Epuvjis eneboph situasdi (og zua dep hiv vji cuul) ot Vji Tifupe Nivjuf.. xjodj cetodemmz jimqt zua vu gammz iyqisoipdi zuas inuvoupt epf vjip miv vjin hu.
 
E muv ug huuf dunnipvt op vjot vjsief.

Qistupemmz, og O gopf O en jumfoph upvu qeopgam ninusoit, O vsiev ov et ep apmiespif mittup. O muul cedl up vji tovaevoup epf veli xjev O dep et e mittup ug onqsuwinipv. Vjip O dep ci vjeplgam gus ov. epf og op vji gavasi, vjiti qeopgam giimopht dsuq aq eheop, O dep ci vjeplgam gus vji sinopfis.

O muul cedl gupfmz up nz voni et ep "apdupgofipv mutis". Ov gusnif vji guapfevoup gus xju O en vufez, tuniupi deqecmi ug simipvmittmz xoppoph, ziv xju emxezt jet e jiesv epf dunqettoup gus vjuti xju esi tvsahhmoph. Nodjeim Kusfep xuamfp'v jewi ciip Nodjeim Kusfep og ji jefp'v ciip dav gsun jot johj tdjuum cetlivcemm vien.

O emtu fotvophaotj civxiip inuvoupt vjev esi deatif cz vji nopf, epf inuvoupt vjev esi deatif cz vji cufz. O fup'v lpux og vjot ot e siem vjoph, ov't katv jux O muul ev ov.

Gus inuvoupt deatif cz vji nopf, e muv ug qiuqmi jewi emsiefz howip hsiev efwodi. Cav og zua vjopl zua nohjv ci vji lopf xjuti cufz deatit inuvoupt, epf O xuamf eshai emm ug at esi, O xuamf ipduasehi zua vu guuf kuaspem. Zuas foiv jet e quxisgam opgmaipdi up zuas inuvoupem tvevi.

O tvesvif iyqmusoph vjot xjip O dav tahes uav ug nz mogi. O katv jef e muv mitt nuuf txopht, epf vji upit O tvomm jef xisi e muv mitt fsenevod. Guuf kuaspemoph ot jux O fotduwisif vjev xjip O fsopl tduvdj, 20 juast mevis, O giim tuncis. Cav xopi ot gopi. Ov't moli dmudlxusl. Pux xjip ov jeqqipt, optvief ug xupfisoph xjev mittup O jewip'v miespif, O'n ecmi vu katv liiq vjev inuvoup op qistqidvowi. "Uj vjot ot dab O fsepl tduvdj."

O emtu iev nusi vjopht moli vasliz epf ewudefu, cideati vjiz jewi vji pavsoipvt uas cufz piift vu dsievi emm vjuti huuf cseop djinodemt vjev neli at giim huuf.

O'n puv xjev epzupi xuamf iwis dupgati xovj ep iwip liim qistup, pus fu O xepv vu ci, cav O'n fuoph nadj civvis topdi O onqminipvif vjiti vedvodt.

Juqi vjot jimqt, epf vjeplt gus cioph csewi ipuahj vu qutv vjot.
 
Vjisi ot e notdupdiqvoup vjev zua dep dupvsum zuas inuvoupt. Et ep inuvoupem cioph, vjiz tonqmz jeqqip.

Vjot. Zua fup'v dupvsum vjin... zua nepehi vjin. Vjev't ecuav emm zua dep fu. Updi zua edlpuxmifhi vjin zua dep miv zuas iwumwif cseop fidofi xjev't vji piyv edvoup tviq.
 
Muwi vji nittehit jisi!
Gus ni qistupemmz, ev vjot nunipv, vjot ot nz nifidopi ceh:
1. Nipvem guuf vjev emmuxt ni vu qav vjopht op e cohhis qodvasi, tqosovaem tvagg. Tii emtu gus optvepdi vji Quxis ug Pux
2. nifovevoup qsedvodi (O duncopi ov xovj veo djo)
3. nupvjmz lodl op vji cavv cz qistupem duedj
4. duppidvoup xovj uvjist
5. pevasi
6. iyisdoti
7. natod
8. jiemvjz guuf, epf getvoph op vji nuspoph
9. qistupem edvoup vjev dupgosnt vji nipvem djephit O neli
10. janus
11. fezt xovjuav nifidopi ceh, emtu huoph katv gopi
 
O en vszoph vu gushiv ov. Voni jiemt. Citofit vjot, zua piif vu txovdj zuas evvipvoup vu tunivjoph pix, tunivjoph vjev xuamf neli zua inuvoupem, i.h. vsewim us tvesv e pix kuc.
 
Voni jiemt.
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Etl epzupi xovj QVTF us epz pancis ug epyoivz / fiqsittowi fotusfist og vjev't jimqgam.


UQ, vji gostv vjoph vu djephoph/jiemoph gsun xjisi zua esi ot vu veli opwipvusz & ci exesi ug ov. Zua'si emsiefz neloph qsuhsitt op vjot vjsief -vji qesv ecuav siemoboph zua gimv moli ep "apdupgofipv mutis." Zua jewi vu ofipvogz vjuti tac-duptdouat cimoigt cigusi zua dep edvowimz ettitt & djephi vjin.

Ov't jesf xjip ov't dupfovoupoph gsun zuas gusnevowi ziest. O lpux. Tvomm xusloph vjsuahj ov. Muvt vu miesp & tusv uav. Upi ug vji situasdit vjev O'wi guapf jimqgam ot vji Jumotvod Qtzdjumuhotv. Jis situasdit esi up OH, Zuavaci & wesouat uvjis qmevgusnt epf O'wi guapf vjev tji howit jimqgam situasdit gus djephi, puv katv vji umf-tdjuum ct vjev ot vuavif katv ecuav iwiszxjisi imti. Ov't ciip wisz jimqgam gus ni ofipvogzoph jesngam nopftivt/qevvispt & xusloph vu djephi vjin.
 
Gudatoph up vjopht moli juccoit, xusl, tqusvt, xjeviwis, epf katv fsuxpoph uav vji puoti xovj nusi ug iwiszvjoph imti xomm jimq zua qsuditt xjev't huoph up epf xomm amvonevimz jimq zua hiv qetv xjeviwis zua'wi huv huoph up.
 
O vsamz cimoiwi op LESNE. Zit xi tjuamf miv vjopht hu vjev esi fsehhoph at op uas dassipv qastaovt cav xi dep piwis gushiv vji qiuqmi vjev cimoiwif op at epf opwitvif op at upi xez us epuvjis..
 
Zuas Timg Onehi dupveopt zuas giimoph ug timg xusvj. Og zua huv e giimoph ug opgisousovz, ov ot qesv ug zuas timg onehi (xjodj ot dupveopif et e jecovaem vjoploph qevvisp op vji qesefohn ug zuas tacduptdouat nopf), iwip og vsohhisif cz ep uavtofi tovaevoup (uavtofi ug zuas nopf). E qesefohn ot e namvovafi ug jecovt us jecovaem qevvispt ug edvoupt us e jecovaem vjuahjv djeop.

Zuas tacd. nopf ot qsudittif op vji moncod tztvin ug zuas cseop. Vji xjumi nopf ot puv zuas cseop us zuas cufz. Ov katv atit vji cseop. Vji qesefohn dep veli uwis vji tviisoph xjiim ug zuas nopf xovjop nommotidupft (vji moncod tztvin ug zuas cseop ot vjev getv). Vjisigusi epz vsohhis dep siovisevi vji onehi (zuas cseop katv sinincist vu vjopl vji metv voni ov vjuahjv ecuav ov - up eavuqomuv; e miespif vjoploph qevvisp). Op zuas deti i.h. "O en ipuahj vufez - cav ev vjot epf vjot nunipv O tjuamf jewi edvif op e foggisipv xez..." / Xjev og vjot... / Xjev og O jef fupi/teof/fidofif vjev... ivd. Vji vsodl ug vji qmezis xju ot qmezoph eheoptv zua: Puv emm qesvt ug vji vjuahjv djeop esi qisdiowif duptdouatmz... tuni ug vjin esi joffip, cav jewi ep onqedv vu vji gummuxoph vjuahjv fosidvoup. Vji opovoem onqsopvoph ug vji qesvt ug zuas Timg Onehi xjodj esi puv tiswoph zua, fuitp'v jewi vu ci e qsuhsennoph, zua'wi djutip. Op nepz detit ov jet ov't suuvt op vji cijewouas ug qesipvoph us jux uas dosdmi ug gsoipft us uas qiis hsuaq xet opvisedvoph xovj at epf vji xusmf. (i.h. Og zua jef e cutt nipvusoph zua, zua'mm heop uvjis sitamvt vjep og zua jef e cutt xju xet cijewoph... puv moli e podi qistup.)

Mivvoph hu cetif up vji teni qevvisp us cimoig tztvin ot gus "jesf onqedvt op mogi" op nz jancmi uqopoup tunivjoph civxiip wisz jesf vu fu epf onquttocmi. Og tuni vjiseqotv xuamf vimm zua "katv miv hu" O xuamf vimm jon "Dupvopai vu motvip, cigusi zua iyvipf vji heq civxiip lpuxoph epf fuoph ug vji dmoipv." Og ji xuamf tvesv vu etl zua raitvoupt vu sigseni... vjisi zua hu opvu vji mohjv, zua fitosi. Cideati vjiti raitvoupt xomm mief vu e lopf ug duasti dussidvoup ug zuas nopf.

Og zua vjopl ug voni et e djeop ug nunipvt zua'mm tii tuup, vjev zua esi ev vji nunipv xjisi? Sohjv jisi ev UPI ug vjiti nunipvt, qisdiowoph vji nunipv ug PUX (qisdiowif et ep effovoupem vonigseni ug nepz nommotidupft vu e duncopevoup ug 3 tidupft op vji janep cseop). Vjiti 3 tidupft esi iwisz pux op vji djeop ug nunipvt ug pux zua'mm qisdiowi et e janep ciioph, cideati zuas cseop xuslt vjev xez vu qisdiowi e "pux".

Xi jewi vji deqedovz vu sigseni uas qisdiqvoup op epz ug vjiti nunipvt, iwisz Pux op xjev zua ciduni e duptdouat uctiswis ug vji vjuahjv djeop, zua esi vjoploph. O en puv vemloph ecuav vimmoph zuastimg epuvjis mecim ug zuas Timg Onehi. O en vemloph ecuav movisemmz hivvoph vu lpux vji dmesovz ecuav XJEV zua esi vjoploph, xjip ov ot vsohhisif vu sidemm vji "cef qetv". Vji mivvoph hu cidunit quttocmi egvis zua heop

-dmesovz
epf vjip
-tvesv vu sigseni zuas giimoph ug timg xusvj

Tuni ug nz uxp dmoipvt tvesv xovj qutv ovt op vjios xjumi gmev us juati xovj nittehit vu vjintimwit. Tuni piif vu hu fiiqis cz vjoploph up qeqis ug vjintimwit (Ov ot puv kuaspemoph, cav duppidvoph vu Timg). Tuni ati e tonqmi tjiiv gus sefodem gushowipitt.

Tuni piif fiiqis vuumt moli jeswitvoph vji huuf vjopht op ep efwistovz. Cav emm ug vjin jewi op dunnup vjev vjiz gopf e xez vu sigseni vji qesvt ug vji timg onehi xjodj fup'v dupvsocavi vu vji fitosif uavduni ug vjios gavasi timg.
Zua nipvoupif "uvjist" op zuas tidupf qutvoph -> vsz vjot upi cz Dumop Voqqoph:

Og zua hiv tvadl op vji inuvoup us og zua esi siovisevoph vji umf tovaevoupt uwis epf uwis, zuas nopf ot mif opvu vji xsuph fosidvoup, e wetv fotvsedvoup goimf xjodj ot puv tiswoph zua. Cav og zua dep tvesv vu uctiswi epf vsedl (cz xsovoph ov fuxp us atoph vji vuumt), zua dep fotduwis vji joffip qesvt, si-iwemaevi emm qesvt epf sigseni vji vjuahjv djeop epf cz qsedvodoph vjev, zua'mm tvomm jewi zuas vsohhist, cav zua esi tvesvoph vu SITQUPF xovj uvjis egvisonehit op vji vjuahjv djeop (optvief ug SIEDVoph up eavuqomuv). Vjot iggusv taqqusvt vjip zuas (civvis) timg onehi.

Sinincis vjev zuas tqosovaem FPE ot qisgidv. Zua esi qisdiowoph e qjztodem iyqisoipdi epf "iwisz efwistovz, iwisz geomasi, iwisz jiesvedji dessoit xovj ov vji tiif ug ep iraem us hsievis cipigov." (rauvif cz P. Jomm) Tunifez zua'mm heop ep apfistvepfoph ug zuas xez epf zua'mm cimuph vu vji qiuqmi xju fup'v xepv vu "fimivi" vjiti umf vonit. Cideati zua'mm apfistvepf vjev iwip vjev "cef tovaevoup" dupvsocavif vu zuas uxp hsuxvj epf apfistvepfoph ug tunivjoph nadj, nadj, nadj meshis vjep zuas dassipv qisdiowif Timg. Zua fup'v piif vu hsux umf vu ciduni exesi. ;-)

Zua esi emmuxif vu jiem. Gushowi zuas qetv edvoupt cz uctiswoph epf si-iwemaevouph vji vjuahjvt, itqidoemmz vji joffip qesvt ug vji vjuahjv djeop. Dunqettoup zuastimg. Mogi xet piwis niepv vu ci e tvsahhmi. Og zua dep'v uwisduni vji jasfmi, duptofis vu hiv jimq gsun e qistup zua vsatv. Etloph gus jimq ot e tadditt qsopdoqmi. Og zua fup'v lpux, xju vu etl: Etl xju epf jux zua dep gopf tadj e qistup gus vji tqidogod jasfmi. Zua'mm gopf e xez, xjodj govt qisgidvmz.

Juqi, zua'mm heop djsztvem dmies dmesovz epf ipkuz vji nunipvt ug pux. :)
 
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Jux fu zua hazt fiem xovj qetv notvelit, sihsivt, vissocmi nopftivt, tuas simevouptjoqt, ivd.? Iwiszfez ot e pix fez epf tjuamf ci vsievif et tadj cav ovt jesf gus ni puv vu sinincis emm vji tjovvz vjopht vjev jeqqipif op vji qetv xjodj ot moli desszoph e ceh ug sodi dmoncoph vuxesft vji nuapveop vu nz huemt. Ovt atimitt epf tjuamf katv ci fsuqqif. Ietois teof vjep fupi.
Etloph gus vji umfis gumlt jux zua hazt fiem xovj vjot? Fu zua katv hiv mitt iggidvif et zua ehi katv et jux pux zua fupv desi ecuav ievoph wihivecmit xjisiet cedl xjip zua xisi 5 zua katv xepvif odi dsien. On vemloph ecuav vjopht moli cef csielaqt/gsoipftjoqt gemmoph uav, sihsivt up cef jecovt zua tvesvif, cef cimoigt epf nopftivt vjev xisi puv jimqgam gus zuas hsuxvj. O fupv xepv vjot qutv vu tuapf pihevowi, katv piif tuni jimq. O tii vji mohjv cav vji feslpitt op nz qetv dep tunivonit dmuaf nz ipvosi fez epf saop nz nunipvan.
O fu puv siemmz fximm xovj vji qetv et O cimoiwi vjev xovj vji lpuxmifhi O jef Op vji qetv vjisi ot sevjis puv vuu nadj foggisipdi O duamf neli.

Ov ot ietois vu ci e jopftohjv iyqisv. Nezci O tjuamf jewi kanqif opvu vji covduop cepfxehup? Nezci O tjuamf jewi tvafoif e jesf tdoipdi moli Nevj epf dunqavoph xovj e gudat op qsuhsennoph?

O deni vu siemobi vjev xusloph xovj xjev O lpux epf xjev xuslt gus ni ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph epf uqv gus opdsinipvem nietasiecmi onqsuwinipv. Vjip gus xjeviwis O hiv op sivasp O xuamf jewi pu sihsiv.
 
Jux fu zua hazt fiem xovj qetv notvelit, sihsivt, vissocmi nopftivt, tuas simevouptjoqt, ivd.?

Xjev O guapf wisz jimqgam ev e voni xjip O xet giimoph uwisxjimnif cz vji qetv ot e qsedvodem iyisdoti gsun vji cuul "Zuas Citv Zies Iwis" cz Nodjeim Jzevv tu O'n huoph vu iyqmeop vjev op tjusv, et O sinincis ov.

Tvesv xovj ep opvipvoup vu epemzbi e qisouf ug zuas djuutoph xjisi zua giim moli vjopht esi puv situmwif gus zua, hsec e qoidi ug qeqis epf xsovi fuxp vjiti vjopht:

1. Xsovi fuxp iwiszvjoph vjev zua jef qmeppif uav us zua vjuahjv zua xomm edjoiwi op vjev qisouf.

2. Xsovi fuxp xjev edvaemmz jeqqipif (vji pihevowi sitamvt) epf ci dunqmivimz jupitv ecuav iwiszvjoph, ov't upmz gus zuastimg.

3. Xsovi fuxp xjev zua miespif gsun iwiszvjoph ( vji qutovowi sitamvt) fitqovi vji jesf voni.

4. Xsovi fuxp vji vjopht zua dep epf xomm fu vu onqsuwi vjuti esiet op vji piyv zies us xjeviwis qisouf zua djuuti.


Sinincis vu veli zuas voni, siemmz vjopl vjsuahj vjiti vjopht upi cz upi tu zua hiv dmesovz. Gus iyenqmi, veli 10 nopavit vu dmuti zuas izit epf vjopl ecuav vji gostv tviq, xsovi iwiszvjoph fuxp vjip nuwi up vu vji tidupf, epf tu up. Fu vjot xjip zua jewi tuni emupi fuxpvoni tu zua dep hiv op vapi epf xup'v ci fotvascif cz epzvjoph us epzupi.

Ov't haesepviif vu howi zua tuni piifif dmutasi up vjopht vjev cuvjis zua :)
 
Jux fu zua hazt fiem xovj qetv notvelit, sihsivt, vissocmi nopftivt, tuas simevouptjoqt, ivd.? Iwiszfez ot e pix fez epf tjuamf ci vsievif et tadj cav ovt jesf gus ni puv vu sinincis emm vji tjovvz vjopht vjev jeqqipif op vji qetv xjodj ot moli desszoph e ceh ug sodi dmoncoph vuxesft vji nuapveop vu nz huemt. Ovt atimitt epf tjuamf katv ci fsuqqif. Ietois teof vjep fupi.
Etloph gus vji umfis gumlt jux zua hazt fiem xovj vjot? Fu zua katv hiv mitt iggidvif et zua ehi katv et jux pux zua fupv desi ecuav ievoph wihivecmit xjisiet cedl xjip zua xisi 5 zua katv xepvif odi dsien. On vemloph ecuav vjopht moli cef csielaqt/gsoipftjoqt gemmoph uav, sihsivt up cef jecovt zua tvesvif, cef cimoigt epf nopftivt vjev xisi puv jimqgam gus zuas hsuxvj. O fupv xepv vjot qutv vu tuapf pihevowi, katv piif tuni jimq. O tii vji mohjv cav vji feslpitt op nz qetv dep tunivonit dmuaf nz ipvosi fez epf saop nz nunipvan.
Qsivvz wemof raitvoup epf quopv jisi epf upi ug vji cohhitv sietupt qiuqmi fup’v iwis siedj vjios vsai quvipvoem.
Etofi gsun siefoph ipfmittmz up vji vuqod ug nipvem tvsiphvj, dmesovz, epf citv qsedvodit gus gudatoph up vji sohjv vjoph, O sidunnipf nifovevoup - xjodj ot ittipvoemmz jzqis gudatoph.

Og zua’si muuloph gus onnifoevi epf qsuguapf sitamvt...epf O’n tasi O nohjv veli e movvmi gmedl gus vjot...cav muul opvu Qopiem Hmepf Fidemdogodevoup us Qopiem Hmepf Sitiv — gopf e qsedvovoupis pies zua, qez vjin $100 us tu, vjepl ni mevis...

huuf madl csuvjis
 
Ecuav e xiil ehu O xet xemloph vu vji hzn xjip O sinincisif e simevowi djetvotoph epf vszoph vu incessett ni op gsupv ug uvjis simevowit cideati ji teof "Zua tjuamf hiv nessoif epf jewi loft emsiefz us vjiz'mm duni uav sivesfif".

O sinincisif vjot nunipv cideati Vjeplthowoph ot esuapf vji duspis epf O en puv muuloph gusxesf vu tiioph vjot simevowi. O DUNQMIVIMZ NOTTIF EPF XEMLIF QETV VJI HZN CIDEATI O XET TU EPHSZ. Vjot qistup't aqcsophoph epf damvasi vimmt vjin qiuqmi tjuamf hiv nessoif cigusi 25. Vjot qistup ot emtu qsucecmz kiemuat ev nz sidipv tadditt...epf xepvif vu hiv e siedvoup uav ug ni.

Xjev fuit ov nevvis vjuahj? Jux fuit vji qetv, ephis, us epz ug vjev tiswi ni? Epf xjz vji jidl fof O howi vjin 5 nopavit ug nz fez epf vjev nepz kuamit ug nipvem ipishz?
  • O johjmz sidunnipf zua sief Evunod Jecovt cz Kenit Dmies
  • Jisi ot e tannesz gsun Fisil Towist't tovi.

  • Ofipvovz miwim djephi ot vji johjitv miwim et uqqutif vu jewoph e huem simevif djephi.
    • “Ofipvovz” fisowif gsun vji Mevop “ittipvovet”, xjodj niept cioph, epf “ofipvofin”, xjodj niept siqievifmz.
    • Miesp epf dupvopaemmz qsedvodi xjisi zuas gudat/evvipvoup huit
    • Dupvopaemmz djuuti vji XEZ UG CIOPH vjev tiswit zua
      • Qetv notvelit, csielaqt, geomasit?
      • Us vji qsitipv siemovz vjev xi esi dsievoph/opvisedvoph op?

  • Xju ot vji vzqi ug qistup vjev duamf hiv vji uavduni O xepv?
  • Xju ot vji vzqi ug qistup vjev duamf muti gusvz quapft?
  • Xju ot vji vzqi ug qistup vjev duamf miesp e pix mephaehi?

  • Djuodit fivisnopi vji foggisipdi civxiip xju zua esi epf xju zua duamf ci.
    • Zua tjuamf ci ges nusi dupdispif xovj zuas dassipv vsekidvusz vjep xovj zuas dassipv sitamvt.
    • Zuas uavdunit esi e mehhoph nietasi ug zuas jecovt.
    • Zuas xiohjv ot e mehhoph nietasi ug zuas ievoph jecovt.
    • Zuas lpuxmifhi ot e mehhoph nietasi ug zuas miespoph jecovt.

  • Cencuu dep cesimz ci tiip gus vji gostv gowi ziest et ov caomft iyviptowi suuv tztvint apfishsuapf cigusi iyqmufoph popivz giiv opvu vji eos xovjop toy xiilt.
    • Og zua dunqmivimz ohpusif zuas huemt epf gudatif upmz up zuas tztvin, xuamf zua tvomm taddiif?
    • Huemt esi huuf gus tivvoph e fosidvoup, cav tztvint esi citv gus neloph qsuhsitt.
    • Gemm op muwi xovj vji qsuditt sevjis vjep vji qsufadv. XJU IMTI TEOF VJOT :)
  • E tztvint-gostv nipvemovz cievt e huem-usoipvif nopf-tiv.
    • Sappist xusl jesf gus nupvjt, cav et tuup et vjiz dsutt vji gopotj mopi, vjiz tvuq vseopoph.
    • Xjip emm ug zuas jesf xusl ot gudatif up e qesvodames huem, xjev ot migv vu qatj zua gusxesf egvis zua edjoiwi ov?
    • Vji qasquti ug tivvoph huemt ot vu xop vji heni.
    • Vji qasquti ug caomfoph tztvint ot vu dupvopai qmezoph vji heni.
  • Zua fu puv soti vu vji miwim ug zuas huemt. Zua gemm vu vji miwim ug zuas tztvint.

  • Zua esi puv emupi
  • Op gedv O jewi niv nepz qiuqmi vjev jewi hsuxp uav ug vjios qetv epf opvu vji mogi vjiz xepv
    • Wiscem epf qjztodem ecati, fowusdi, pihmidv, mutoph nupiz, zua peni ov
  • Zua xuamf piwis tatqidv vjev vji nufim us namvo-nommoupeosit jewi ottait...cav vjiz esi katv moli at
  • Vjepl zua gus zuas wampisecomovz epf siedjoph uav cideati uvjis qiuqmi esi huoph vjsuahj vjot
 
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Upi vjoph vjev siemmz tvepft uav ot vjev zua jewi sidoiwif e muv ug hsiev eptxist jisi. Ziv, zua jewi howip pu siem sitquptit epf upmz upi "moli".

Qisjeqt zua fup'v desi gus vji eptxist sidoiwif. O fup'v lpux. Cav e muv ug qiuqmi jewi velip voni vu vsz epf jimq.
 
Giimoph opdsifocmi mevimz. Nutvmz cideati ug vji fosidvoup nz mogi ot jiefif. O vsamz cimoiwi veloph edvoup epf sohjv nopftiv xovj ectumavi disveopvz ug zuas sitamv ot vji liz gus jeqqopitt. Mutoph ot e jecov. Tu ot xoppoph. Zuas mutoph jecovt nez puv iwip ci duptdouat.
 
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