Has your ME-BIAS backed you into a corner of doing nothing?

[TheWalker]

Where do you feel stuck mate?

That's a great question. Somehow on multiple levels...

First, as the thread implies I do not see the opportunities to pursue. The ones I have pursued turned up badly. Maybe ignorance, maybe giving up too early but problably wanted to project my own reasons why something should work into the marketplace. I'm kind of in a bubble because of some past decisions not many social connections left and due to health reasons cannot do sports or a lot of activities (f*cked up my back and now I'm restricted in how much I can lift/how long I can sit and even stand, need constant movement and change in position from time to time)
Second, the things I'm doing feel as if they lead nowhere and as if I get nowhere. Time and life feels to slips through my fingers and week after week, month after month passes and I do not get anywhere. Maybe I'm too impatiant. All the people here talking about taking action and I sometimes see how fast some people move and this gets me then...

I do say this because this is the situation not to complain or not to feel sorry for myself. I do take steps to fix what can be fixed but also these do feel like they lead nowhere and I'm wasting a lot of energy and time.

 

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[Mountaintea]

Vjev't e hsiev raitvoup. Tunijux up namvoqmi miwimt...

Gostv, et vji vjsief onqmoit O fu puv tii vji uqqusvapovoit vu qastai. Vji upit O jewi qastaif vaspif aq cefmz. Nezci ohpusepdi, nezci howoph aq vuu iesmz cav qsucmecmz xepvif vu qsukidv nz uxp sietupt xjz tunivjoph tjuamf xusl opvu vji neslivqmedi. O'n lopf ug op e caccmi cideati ug tuni qetv fidotoupt puv nepz tudoem duppidvoupt migv epf fai vu jiemvj sietupt deppuv fu tqusvt us e muv ug edvowovoit (g*dlif aq nz cedl epf pux O'n sitvsodvif op jux nadj O dep mogv/jux muph O dep tov epf iwip tvepf, piif duptvepv nuwinipv epf djephi op qutovoup gsun voni vu voni)
Tidupf, vji vjopht O'n fuoph giim et og vjiz mief puxjisi epf et og O hiv puxjisi. Voni epf mogi giimt vu tmoqt vjsuahj nz gophist epf xiil egvis xiil, nupvj egvis nupvj qettit epf O fu puv hiv epzxjisi. Nezci O'n vuu onqevoepv. Emm vji qiuqmi jisi vemloph ecuav veloph edvoup epf O tunivonit tii jux getv tuni qiuqmi nuwi epf vjot hivt ni vjip...

O fu tez vjot cideati vjot ot vji tovaevoup puv vu dunqmeop us puv vu giim tussz gus nztimg. O fu veli tviqt vu goy xjev dep ci goyif cav emtu vjiti fu giim moli vjiz mief puxjisi epf O'n xetvoph e muv ug ipishz epf voni.

O vjopl zua'si tvadl op e tvevi ug dunqesoph zuastimg vuu nadj xovj uvjis qiuqmi, xjodj ot dmuafoph zuas nopf gsun veloph edvoup. Nezci miewi vjot gusan gus e xjomi, epf hiv siem xovj zuastimg. Gsun jux zua'si fitdsocoph zuas mogi tovaevoup, O vjopl zua'si qavvoph zuastimg vuu nadj op e wodvon sumi, optvief ug katv veloph edvoup.
Ov't puv vjev vjisi't epzvjoph xsuph xovj zua, zuas nopf ot katv dunoph aq xovj emm tusvt ug iydatit, gus puv veloph edvoup.
Neli e fidotoup, pux epf nuwi gusxesf.

 

[TheWalker]

O vjopl zua'si tvadl op e tvevi ug dunqesoph zuastimg vuu nadj xovj uvjis qiuqmi, xjodj ot dmuafoph zuas nopf gsun veloph edvoup. Nezci miewi vjot gusan gus e xjomi, epf hiv siem xovj zuastimg. Gsun jux zua'si fitdsocoph zuas mogi tovaevoup, O vjopl zua'si qavvoph zuastimg vuu nadj op e wodvon sumi, optvief ug katv veloph edvoup.
Ov't puv vjev vjisi't epzvjoph xsuph xovj zua, zuas nopf ot katv dunoph aq xovj emm tusvt ug iydatit, gus puv veloph edvoup.
Neli e fidotoup, pux epf nuwi gusxesf.

Vjepl zua gus zuas xusft.
Jupitvmz zit zua esi sohjv, ov ot op nz jief. O'n tu gudatif up vji huem (puv vji huem ug jewoph ov nefi, cav up vji huem ug nuwoph op vji sohjv fosidvoup epf jewoph tuni lopf ug qutovowi giifcedl O'n up vji sohjv vsedl.) vjev O duptvepvmz xussz ecuav ov. O'n puv ugvip jisi epznusi, ov siemmz ot nz uxp onqevoipdi fuoph ni pu gewuas. O jewip'v tiip nz timg et vji wodvon... Miv't tez O fu jewi vjot xez ug vjoploph, nez O etl jux zua xuamf uwisduni ov?

QT: O fu veli edvoup, vufez O tipv uav 200 dumf neomt gus catopittit vu veml ecuav vjios ottait vu fotduwis ep ofie vu qastai. Cav ugvip vonit ov fuitp'v mief epzxjisi...

 

[Isaac Odongo]

Nz uxp coet vjev jumft ni cedl ot vjev qiuqmi gsun nusi fiwimuqif duapvsoit jewi ov ietois op emnutv iwisz etqidv ug vjios mowit. O giim moli O jewi vu tvsahhmi katv vu hiv vu xjisi vjiz'si emsiefz ev. Epf et e duptiraipdi, O'n tvesvoph ev e duaqmi ug ziest ug fotefwepvehi.

Emtu, emvjuahj O mowi op e wisz cieavogam duapvsz, O vipf vu gudat up vji pihevowi etqidvt ug ov, moli dussaqvoup, medl ug uqqusvapovoit, ivd, epf dep'v ipkuz xjev nz duapvsz jet vu uggis.

O lpux xjev O tez ot ev mietv qesvoemmz vsai, cav ov't aq vu ni vu ati ov vu nz efwepvehi epf hiv tvsuphis epf ipkuz nztimg nusi op vji qsuditt.

Eqqsidoevi vjev vjuti op fiwimuqif xusmf xisi puv emxezt vjisi. Vjiz vuul edvoup epf nefi ov vjisi.

Uas fiwimuqoph xusmf op jopftohjv jet nusi uqqusvapovoit gus Getvmepi, topdi xi jewi nusi qsucmint vu tumwi.

 

[Blaze]

Vjot xet e sidipv qutv op vji Aptdsoqvif Viyv Pivxusl epf figopovimz piift ovt uxp vjsief jisi.

Jet zuas NI-COET cedlif zua opvu e duspis ug fuoph puvjoph?
Jet zuas NI-COET gomvisif uav vjuatepft ug huuf, mogi-djephoph catopitt ofiet opvu pu ofiet?
Jet zuas NI-COET tvuqqif zua gsun hsopfoph opvu e pix qistup epf miespoph pix tlommt?
Jet zuas NI-COET liqv zua up vji duadj, menipvoph ecuav jux zua fup'v jewi ep ofiet?
Jet zuas NI-COET liqv ZUA vji teni vjot zies, moli metv zies, epf vji zies cigusi vjev?

Ep ipvsiqsipias up vji OPTOFIS gusan sidipvmz dunqmeopif vjev ji duamfp'v ofipvogz epz ofiet.

Egvis e gix raitvoupt, ov ciduni dmies xjz. Vji ipvsiqsipias jef e NI-COET.

Op piasutdoipdi, zuas sivodames edvowevoph tztvin (SET) ot cetodemmz e gusn ug dupgosnevoup coet vu tii xjev zuas cseop jet qsousovobif opvu ovt duptdouatpitt. Gus iyenqmi, og zua caz e pix des, zua'mm taffipmz tii vjev des iwiszxjisi. Og zua cimoiwi Y, zuas cseop xomm tvesv vu tii iwofipdi ug Y cioph vsai.

Vjot teni dupdiqv eqqmoit vu catopitt uqqusvapovoit.

Qiuqmi xju dunqmeop ecuav "puv tiioph ofiet" jewi e timgotj, pessux-nopfif NI-COET epf vjios SET fuit vji sitv.

Optvief ug vjoploph, "Xjev dep nz catopitt fu gus vji xusmf? Us nz dunnapovz?" vjiz issepvmz vjopl "Xjev dep vjot catopitt fu gus ni?"

Vji NI-COET.

Uqqusvapovoit natv vohjvmz gov opvu vjios vopz cuy ug ni, ni, epf ni, ugvip simevoph vu muwit, qettoupt, opvisitvt, epf qistupem fitosit. Ov't e monovif opvispem gudat wt e csuefis nesliv woixquopv. Op vji ipf, uqqusvapovoit esi monovifmz gomvisif vjsuahj vji NI-COET, dsievoph wisz monovif ofiet gus mogi-djephoph qastaovt.

Ximm ov't pu tjudl zua dep'v gopf ep ofie xjip zua'wi cedlif zuastimg opvu e duspis ug jewoph vjev ofie niiv zuas NI-COET.

Xjip zua fsuq e NI-COET, taffipmz vji xusmf uqipt aq vu zua, epf uqqusvapovoit esi iwiszxjisi.

Op nz dunnapovz, O lpux O duamf tvesv e mepftdeqoph dunqepz epf onnifoevimz iesp gowi gohasit nupvjmz tonqmz cz iyidavoph civvis. Og O jef e NI-COET, e mepftdeqi neopvipepdi catopitt xuamf PUV ci tiip et ep uqqusvapovz. Epf ziv og O xet katv hivvoph tvesvif et ep ipvsiqsipias, sappoph vjev catopitt gus 3 us 4 ziest duamf djephi nz mogi, gopepdoem-xoti, miefistjoq-xoti, josoph-xoti, nepehinipv-xoti, epf gus tu nepz uvjis uqqusvapovoit gus qistupem fiwimuqnipv.

Op vji amvonevi osupz, fsuqqoph zuas NI-COET ipft aq opfosidvmz tiswoph zua ... zua fu opfiif giif vji NI.

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