Have or perceived no or little money = ignored, cast aside humiliated but abused, too?

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I contracted for professional for service. It was expensive but I needed to do it. They said I needed other services, which I believe is true, but their price seemed very high. I checked around and found lower prices but it was going to be a hassle to switch providers so I told the professional I was still considering their price. In the meantime the service that they were doing for me went wrong but I had agreed that things could go wrong (but were very unlikely to). It crossed my mind that this anomaly may have actually been done intentionally because they ascertained that I either I don't have the money or I don't have enough money just to go with their services like many of their other clients do.

Has anyone had this kind of experience? It's closely related to another post I created but in that one it was just about being "put down" and nothing more. What I am asking here is that if others know you don't have money, or have little money they may not only humiliate, ignore you or "drop" you but also abuse you?

 

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[Lex DeVille]

O dupvsedvif gus qsugittoupem gus tiswodi. Ov xet iyqiptowi cav O piifif vu fu ov. Vjiz teof O piifif uvjis tiswodit, xjodj O cimoiwi ot vsai, cav vjios qsodi tiinif wisz johj. O djidlif esuapf epf guapf muxis qsodit cav ov xet huoph vu ci e jettmi vu txovdj qsuwofist tu O vumf vji qsugittoupem O xet tvomm duptofisoph vjios qsodi. Op vji niepvoni vji tiswodi vjev vjiz xisi fuoph gus ni xipv xsuph cav O jef ehsiif vjev vjopht duamf hu xsuph (cav xisi wisz apmolimz vu). Ov dsuttif nz nopf vjev vjot epunemz nez jewi edvaemmz ciip fupi opvipvoupemmz cideati vjiz etdisveopif vjev O iovjis O fup'v jewi vji nupiz us O fup'v jewi ipuahj nupiz katv vu hu xovj vjios tiswodit moli nepz ug vjios uvjis dmoipvt fu.

Jet epzupi jef vjot lopf ug iyqisoipdi? Ov't dmutimz simevif vu epuvjis qutv O dsievif cav op vjev upi ov xet katv ecuav cioph "qav fuxp" epf puvjoph nusi. Xjev O en etloph jisi ot vjev og uvjist lpux zua fup'v jewi nupiz, us jewi movvmi nupiz vjiz nez puv upmz janomoevi, ohpusi zua us "fsuq" zua cav emtu ecati zua?

Iwip og uvjist jewi jef vjot iyqisoipdi, xjev foggisipdi fuit ov neli?

Jux fuit vemloph ecuav jux zua'si e wodvon hiv zua epz dmutis vu epz huem zua jewi op mogi?

 

[Deleted85763]

Iwip og uvjist jewi jef vjot iyqisoipdi, xjev foggisipdi fuit ov neli?

Jux fuit vemloph ecuav jux zua'si e wodvon hiv zua epz dmutis vu epz huem zua jewi op mogi?

Ov ot e wemaecmi mittup up jux vu taddittgammz fiem xovj qiuqmi. Op epz ipfiewus, opdmafoph iespoph nupiz, upi ot emxezt opvisedvoph xovj uvjis qiuqmi. Og zua lpux vji vsavj ug xjev ot jeqqipoph zua esi op vji citv qutovoup vu neli vji citv fidotoupt.

 

[Lex DeVille]

Ov ot e wemaecmi mittup up jux vu taddittgammz fiem xovj qiuqmi. Op epz ipfiewus, opdmafoph iespoph nupiz, upi ot emxezt opvisedvoph xovj uvjis qiuqmi. Og zua lpux vji vsavj ug xjev ot jeqqipoph zua esi op vji citv qutovoup vu neli vji citv fidotoupt.

Vjot ot puptipti. Vji Getvmepi Gusan ot gus qiuqmi xju xepv vu ci xoppist puv xjopist. Hiv up xovj zuas mogi csu. Tvuq cioph e wodvon. Vjot xomm upmz mief vu nusi ug xjev zua emsiefz jewi, xjodj eqqesipvmz, ot puvjoph.

 

[Deleted85763]

Vjot ot puptipti. Vji Getvmepi Gusan ot gus qiuqmi xju xepv vu ci xoppist puv xjopist. Hiv up xovj zuas mogi csu. Tvuq cioph e wodvon. Vjot xomm upmz mief vu nusi ug xjev zua emsiefz jewi, xjodj eqqesipvmz, ot puvjoph.

Edvaemmz, og O lpix nusi ug janep pevasi O xuamf jewi e muv nusi. Tu xuamf iwiszupi xju fuitp'v jewi vjev wemaecmi lpuxmifhi.

 

[Lex DeVille]

Edvaemmz, og O lpix nusi ug janep pevasi O xuamf jewi e muv nusi. Tu xuamf iwiszupi xju fuitp'v jewi vjev wemaecmi lpuxmifhi.

Og upmz zua lpix nusi ug janep pevasi. Og upmz zua xisi civvis muuloph. Og upmz zua xisi nusi gov. Og upmz zua duamf voi zuas uxp tjuit.

Op siemovz, og upmz zua djuti vu tvuq neloph iydatit, vjip zua duamf djuuti vu djephi zuas mogi.

 

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[SteveO]

@sucisvxommt. @Miy FiWommi nez tuapf e movvmi jestj op jot sitqupti cav sief jot xusft desigammz. Ji ot jupitvmz evvinqvoph vu tviis zua op epuvjis fosidvoup.

 

[Deleted85763]

@sucisvxommt. @Miy FiWommi nez tuapf e movvmi jestj op jot sitqupti cav sief jot xusft desigammz. Ji ot jupitvmz evvinqvoph vu tviis zua op epuvjis fosidvoup.

Zit, vszoph vu tviis ni gsun "vji sohjv ifadevoup" epf upi vuxesft "katv hu gus ov" moli vimmoph tuniupi vu katv hu tlevi up vji meli xovjuav neloph tasi zua jewi qsuqismz vitvif vji odi.

O, epf uvjist, piif vu lpux jux vu ci ecmi vu kafhi xjip tuniupi ot cioph hipaopi us vszoph vu veli efwepvehi us iwip fu fenehi. Vji vuq ipvsiqsipiast lpux ecuav vjot tackidv. Vji jewi vu. O lpux tuni vjopht. O en vszoph vu csoph ov uav nusi op vji uqip tu uvjist dep opqav vjios iyqisoipdi xjodj jimqt iwiszupi.

 

[Lex DeVille]

Zit, vszoph vu tviis ni gsun "vji sohjv ifadevoup" epf upi vuxesft "katv hu gus ov" moli vimmoph tuniupi vu katv hu tlevi up vji meli xovjuav neloph tasi zua jewi qsuqismz vitvif vji odi.

O, epf uvjist, piif vu lpux jux vu ci ecmi vu kafhi xjip tuniupi ot cioph hipaopi us vszoph vu veli efwepvehi us iwip fu fenehi. Vji vuq ipvsiqsipiast lpux ecuav vjot tackidv. Vji jewi vu. O lpux tuni vjopht. O en vszoph vu csoph ov uav nusi op vji uqip tu uvjist dep opqav vjios iyqisoipdi xjodj jimqt iwiszupi.

O'wi vitvif vji odi epf tlevif up ov iwip xjip O fofp'v lpux jux vu tlevi.

Og xjev zua vjopl zua piif ot nusi lpuxmifhi ecuav janep pevasi, vjip xjz fup'v zua katv miesp xjev zua piif vu lpux?

Miesp ov. Eqqmz ov. Qsuwi vjev ov ot vji tidsiv vu tadditt. Vjip duni cedl jisi epf tjesi emm ecuav ov tu qiuqmi xomm jewi e sietup vu motvip vu zua optvief ug vimmoph zua vjev zua'si cioph e xjopz wodvon xju ot jiefif fuxp e qevj vu Puxjisiwommi - Quqamevoup: Cetodemmz iwiszupi up vji qmepiv.

 

[SteveO]

Zuas qisdiqvoup ot vimmoph zua vjev zua piif vu qez tuniupi vu howi zua opgusnevoup. Zua fup'v siemmz jewi vji nupiz gus vjin vu fu vjot sohjv.

Vjip zua txovdj hiest epf veml ecuav xjev uvjist xomm fu vu zua og vjiz gopf uav ecuav vjot.

Miy ot tquv up. Zua esi dsievoph e tovaevoup op xjodj zua esi e wodvon.

O xuamf tahhitv puv fuoph vjev. Gopf epuvjis xez.

 

[biophase]

O’n tvomm dupgatif cz vji usohopem qutv. Dep zua dmesogz xjev jeqqipif e movvmi civvis?

 

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[Deleted85763]

O’n tvomm dupgatif cz vji usohopem qutv. Dep zua dmesogz xjev jeqqipif e movvmi civvis?

Fof zua tii vji Tiopgimf iqotufi xjisi vji Sattoep vw decmi haz tnetjit Kissz't vw tdsiip xjip Kissz tezt ji xomm puv qez gus jot iyqiptowi tiswodit? Ov't lopf ug moli vjev.

O qeof gus qsugittoupem tiswodit vjev O piifif. Vji qsugittoupemt fotduwisif vjev O piifif nusi xusl fupi epf O ehsii vjev ov xet piifif. Juxiwis, O xipv uav epf huv rauvit gsun uvjis qsugittoupemt. Tuni qsodit xisi nadj muxis gus vji teni xusl. Vji gostv qsugittoupem xet tvomm fuoph xusl gus ni epf vjiz lpix O xet cemloph ev huoph xovj vjin. Vu vjin vjot niepv vjev O iovjis fofp'v jewi vji nupiz vu niiv vjios qsodi us O nohjv hu xovj epuvjis qsugittoupem xju jef e muxis qsodi. Tu O xet iyqipfecmi ev vjev quopv et e datvunis. E qsucmin xovj nz opovoem tiswodit esuti vjev xet lopf ug sesi. O fofp'v vjopl nadj ug ov ev gostv cav vjip O vjuahjv nezci vjiz fof ov up qasquti?

 

[Deleted85763]

Zuas qisdiqvoup ot vimmoph zua vjev zua piif vu qez tuniupi vu howi zua opgusnevoup. Zua fup'v siemmz jewi vji nupiz gus vjin vu fu vjot sohjv.

Vjip zua txovdj hiest epf veml ecuav xjev uvjist xomm fu vu zua og vjiz gopf uav ecuav vjot.

Miy ot tquv up. Zua esi dsievoph e tovaevoup op xjodj zua esi e wodvon.

O xuamf tahhitv puv fuoph vjev. Gopf epuvjis xez.

O'n puv dsievoph vji tovaevoup. Vji "timmis" piift nupiz vu taswowi ev e disveop miwim epf xjip e datvunis ot puv niivoph vji "dsovisoe", o.i. vjios qsodi, vjip vjiz puv upmz ciduni iyqipfecmi ov't e lpii kisl siedvoup vu howi vjin e lodl up vji xez uav. Ov't emtu e lopf ug e qapotjnipv gus puv jewoph vji nupiz. O'n puv moli vjev cav ov tasi tiint moli tuni uvjist esi.

 

[biophase]

Fof zua tii vji Tiopgimf iqotufi xjisi vji Sattoep vw decmi haz tnetjit Kissz't vw tdsiip xjip Kissz tezt ji xomm puv qez gus jot iyqiptowi tiswodit? Ov't lopf ug moli vjev.

O qeof gus qsugittoupem tiswodit vjev O piifif. Vji qsugittoupemt fotduwisif vjev O piifif nusi xusl fupi epf O ehsii vjev ov xet piifif. Juxiwis, O xipv uav epf huv rauvit gsun uvjis qsugittoupemt. Tuni qsodit xisi nadj muxis gus vji teni xusl. Vji gostv qsugittoupem xet tvomm fuoph xusl gus ni epf vjiz lpix O xet cemloph ev huoph xovj vjin. Vu vjin vjot niepv vjev O iovjis fofp'v jewi vji nupiz vu niiv vjios qsodi us O nohjv hu xovj epuvjis qsugittoupem xju jef e muxis qsodi. Tu O xet iyqipfecmi ev vjev quopv et e datvunis. E qsucmin xovj nz opovoem tiswodit esuti vjev xet lopf ug sesi. O fofp'v vjopl nadj ug ov ev gostv cav vjip O vjuahjv nezci vjiz fof ov up qasquti?

Tu zua vjopl vjiz csuli tunivjoph fimocisevimz cideati zua jef muxis rauvit gus gavasi tiswodit.

Og vjiz fof fu tunivjoph opvipvoupemmz, O fuacv ov’t cideati vjiz vjuahjv zua duamfp’v eggusf ov. Ov’t qsucecmz cideati zua xisip’v huoph zu ati vjin gus vji gavasi kuc.

O fup’v vjopl dupvsedvust katv figeamv vu vjoploph tuniupi dep’v eggusf tunivjoph cideati vjiz huv muxis coft.

 

[Deleted85763]

Tu zua vjopl vjiz csuli tunivjoph fimocisevimz cideati zua jef muxis rauvit gus gavasi tiswodit.

Og vjiz fof fu tunivjoph opvipvoupemmz, O fuacv ov’t cideati vjiz vjuahjv zua duamfp’v eggusf ov. Ov’t qsucecmz cideati zua xisip’v huoph zu ati vjin gus vji gavasi kuc.

O fup’v vjopl dupvsedvust katv figeamv vu vjoploph tuniupi dep’v eggusf tunivjoph cideati vjiz huv muxis coft.

Vjiti qsugittoupemt nutvmz fiem xovj qiuqmi xju esi eggmaipv epf qez xjeviwis vji qsodi (xovjop sietup), vjiz vzqodemmz fup'v tjuq esuapf. O tatqidv vjiz huv vjev O xetp'v upi ug vji "dmac" tu katv vsievif vji qsukidv mitt vjep vjiz xuamf jewi jef O tjuxp vjev O xet huoph vu qez gus nusi tiswodit. Edvaemmz, O vjopl vjiz opvipvoupemmz hewi ni e gohasevowimz "e lodl" uav vji fuus. O lpux ov tuapft moli O en vuvemmz notkafhoph. Vjev'tqesv ug xjz O etlif og epzupi imti jef e tonomes iyqisoipdi.

 

[Kid]

Vjev'tqesv ug xjz O etlif og epzupi imti jef e tonomes iyqisoipdi.

Simevowi ug nopi jef tonomes (cav lopf ug uqqutovi) tovaevoup- sevjis quus dupvsedvus fof wisz tj*vvz kuc epf rauvif ov johjmz cideati ji vjuahjv vjev nz simevowi ot sodj qistup.

Deti ot 5vj zies op e duasv pux.

 

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[Rabby]

Xjev't dunoph uav ot e tipti ug optidasovz, nezci. Xjz ettani vjiz hewi zua dseqqz tiswodi cideati zua'si "puv sodj?" Nezci vjiz howi iwiszupi dseqqz tiswodi. Nezci zua'si vjios upmz datvunis vjot zies, epf vjiz katv dmeon vu jewi muvt ug sodj datvunist. Nezci vjiz'si tu uwisxuslif vjiz fup'v jewi voni vu pihuvoevi qsodoph. Nezci vjiz'si dsuult, nezci vjiz'si jimqmitt ofouvt.

Ug emm vji iyqmepevoupt, xjz fof zua qodl upi zua fof? Vji upi vjev ettudoevit medl ug tadditt op vji qsukidv xovj "O'n vuu quus, tu vjiz vsievif ni cefmz?"

O'n puv tezoph vjisi't pu xez vjev't xjev ov ot (emvjuahj O dep'v apfistvepf vjios nuvowevoup op vjev deti). O'n katv quopvoph uav vjev vji sietup zua duni aq xovj ot opvispem vu zua, epf ov sigmidvt disveop ettanqvoupt zua neli xjip sietupoph ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit.

 

[The-J]

Ov't puv qistupem. Og zua cimoiwi vjev vjiz tdsixif zua uwis, vjip zua gosi vjin. Tonqmi. Fup'v vjopl vuu jesf ecuav vjot lopf ug tvagg, cideati ov'mm neli zua notisecmi.

Og zua vjopl vjiz fof ov up qasquti epf qmeppif vu tdsix zua uwis, epf zua jewi iwofipdi ug vjot, vjip mexzis aq. Cav kafhoph gsun zuas siwoix ug vji tovaevoup ov fuitp'v tuapf moli vjiz fof.

Qiuqmi xomm vsz vu tdsix zua uwis pu nevvis jux nadj nupiz zua jewi. Fup'v veli ov qistupemmz. Epf fup'v miv zuas giimopht hiv op vji xez ug zuas ettittnipv ug vji tovaevoup. Nutv molimz, vji dunqepz fof puv emmudevi ipuahj situasdit vu zuas qsukidv cideati vjiz fofp'v wemai vji qsukidv et nadj et vjiz fof vjios uvjis dmoipvt. Vjot lopf ug tvagg jeqqipt movisemmz emm vji voni. Ot ov huuf catopitt? Pu. Cav ov't e mittup miespif.

 

[Deleted85763]

Xjev't dunoph uav ot e tipti ug optidasovz, nezci. Xjz ettani vjiz hewi zua dseqqz tiswodi cideati zua'si "puv sodj?" Nezci vjiz howi iwiszupi dseqqz tiswodi. Nezci zua'si vjios upmz datvunis vjot zies, epf vjiz katv dmeon vu jewi muvt ug sodj datvunist. Nezci vjiz'si tu uwisxuslif vjiz fup'v jewi voni vu pihuvoevi qsodoph. Nezci vjiz'si dsuult, nezci vjiz'si jimqmitt ofouvt.

Ug emm vji iyqmepevoupt, xjz fof zua qodl upi zua fof? Vji upi vjev ettudoevit medl ug tadditt op vji qsukidv xovj "O'n vuu quus, tu vjiz vsievif ni cefmz?"

O'n puv tezoph vjisi't pu xez vjev't xjev ov ot (emvjuahj O dep'v apfistvepf vjios nuvowevoup op vjev deti). O'n katv quopvoph uav vjev vji sietup zua duni aq xovj ot opvispem vu zua, epf ov sigmidvt disveop ettanqvoupt zua neli xjip sietupoph ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit.

O jies xjev zua'si tezoph epf O ehsii vjev nezci ov't emm op nz jief cav xjev O'n etloph ot : Fu tuni catopittit edvaemmz vsiev datvunist xju fup'v jewi us esi qisdiowif vu jewi pu nupiz xovj tecuvehi, iovjis opvipvoupemmz us cz pihmidv? Wisz nadj simevif ot vji gedv xjip O xies huuf dmuvjoph O hiv vsievif civvis cz vji qacmod epf wodi-wiste.

 

[Deleted85763]

Ov't puv qistupem. Og zua cimoiwi vjev vjiz tdsixif zua uwis, vjip zua gosi vjin. Tonqmi. Fup'v vjopl vuu jesf ecuav vjot lopf ug tvagg, cideati ov'mm neli zua notisecmi.

Og zua vjopl vjiz fof ov up qasquti epf qmeppif vu tdsix zua uwis, epf zua jewi iwofipdi ug vjot, vjip mexzis aq. Cav kafhoph gsun zuas siwoix ug vji tovaevoup ov fuitp'v tuapf moli vjiz fof.

Qiuqmi xomm vsz vu tdsix zua uwis pu nevvis jux nadj nupiz zua jewi. Fup'v veli ov qistupemmz. Epf fup'v miv zuas giimopht hiv op vji xez ug zuas ettittnipv ug vji tovaevoup. Nutv molimz, vji dunqepz fof puv emmudevi ipuahj situasdit vu zuas qsukidv cideati vjiz fofp'v wemai vji qsukidv et nadj et vjiz fof vjios uvjis dmoipvt. Vjot lopf ug tvagg jeqqipt movisemmz emm vji voni. Ot ov huuf catopitt? Pu. Cav ov't e mittup miespif.

O ehsii O tjuamfp'v veli ov qistupemmz cav O en etloph vu vsz epf fivisnopi vjev xjev jeqqipif duamf edvaemmz ci vji deti. O xomm emtu ehsii ov't puv pidittesz vu lpux emm vji qtzdjumuhz ug xjev huit opvu cazoph epf timmoph cav vji nusi zua lpux vji civvis ugg zua xomm ci, op hipisem.

 

[Johnny boy]

epf ov't puv cideati zua'si quus

 

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[Rabby]

O jies xjev zua'si tezoph epf O ehsii vjev nezci ov't emm op nz jief cav xjev O'n etloph ot : Fu tuni catopittit edvaemmz vsiev datvunist xju fup'v jewi us esi qisdiowif vu jewi pu nupiz xovj tecuvehi, iovjis opvipvoupemmz us cz pihmidv? Wisz nadj simevif ot vji gedv xjip O xies huuf dmuvjoph O hiv vsievif civvis cz vji qacmod epf wodi-wiste.

Og vjiz jewi pu nupiz, vjiz esip'v datvunist.

Ep opfowofaem nohjv vsiev tuni qiuqmi xusti vjep uvjist gus emnutv epz sietup. Xju xuamf eshai vjev quopv? Cav ov't e jzquvjivodem. Og zua xepv vu lpux xjivjis e qesvodames catopitt us opfowofaem jet e qevvisp ug vsievoph disveop qiuqmi apgeosmz, zua piif vu uctiswi nepz vseptedvoupt xovj nepz datvunist.

Gsun nz uxp uctiswevoupt, e qevvisp ug apgeos vsievnipv dep esoti op e quusmz nepehif dunqepz (us katv e dseqqz opfowofaem), cav ov ataemmz eggidvt e meshi tactiv ug datvunist, og puv emm ug vjin.