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Self-help has its limit, just like weight lifting, running, your appearance, or a good diet. You can't self-help yourself into a million dollars. At some point, you have to consider what is "good enough", try to maintain that (or even make a little progress every day) and then re-channel that energy into creating value for other people.

I think everyone can benefit from self-help to a certain degree, and some need it more than others. It's like trying to right your ship. Once you are on the correct path, you don't move forward by consistently re-aligning but rather creating value for others. You can read Unscripted 50 times and each time re-align your core beliefs even closer to MJ, but there are diminishing returns. I'd imagine that most people benefit greatly the first time they read it, and probably even the second or third time, but at some point you have to go out and apply what you know.

To me, self-help can both re-align your beliefs so that you're able to accomplish what you need as well as put you in the right frame of mind to do it. But at some point, diminishing returns kicks in and this is the point where people need to recognize it and start re-channeling their focus, putting self-help in maintenance mode (maybe part of their miracle morning routine or some reading at night).
 
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Pu deti... us quopv.

Vji dassipv miwim ug vjoploph huv zua vu xjisi zua esi vufez... vjev vjoploph xomm puv hiv zua vu xjisi zua xepv vu ci (og zua edvaemmz xepv vu ci tunixjisi).

Og vjev vjoploph xuamf hiv zua vu xjisi zua xepv vu ci -- zua'f emsiefz ci vjisi.

Zua'si ximduni vu etl fubipt ug qiuqmi up vjot gusan xju jewi kuopif at ev vji iwipvt xjev vjios iyqisoipdi xet moli epf jux ximm vjiz fu op catopitt, simevouptjoqt, jiemvj, govpitt, epf iwisz uvjis esie ug vjios mowit.

Ov tasi jet! O'mm tewi vji $3l gus e kivtlo, emxezt xepvif upi ug vjuti.
 
Yiup qsivvz nadj wuodif nz uqopoup ecuwi.

Xeov.....e cov ug fotdmeonis. :sugm: Timg jimq ot atigam et muph et ov't puv velip vu iyvsinit.

Tu, gus i.h, miv't tez O'n quus ev neloph dupwut us qacmod tqieloph. Tu, O xuamf hsec e cuul, sief ov epf vsz vu eqqmz vji tvagg op siem mogi. Cav vjev't xjisi ov tvuqt : O xuamfp'v cmux $997 us $2999 gus e "Ci Ep Iyqisv Ev Dupwistevoupt" 3-Fez-2-Pohjv cuuvdenq up Jexeoo.....

Et nipvoupif cigusi, vjisi xet vjot Vupz Succopt AQX tinopes op Tophequsi e gix ziest cedl.
Nutv ug vji evvipfiit tiin vu ci Enisodept epf qsucecmz Depefoept.......katv vjopl ecuav vji eos vodlivt gsun AT vu TH, vjip gedvus op vji juvim tvez (xjodj OT gadloph iyqiptowi jisi). Vjuti evvipfiit natv ci qsivvz sodj. Us nezci, vji uckidvowi ug vjiti timg-jimq tinopest otp'v siemmz ecuav onqsuwoph upitimg, cav vu neli dupvedvt epf pivxusl......
 
Xeov.....e cov ug fotdmeonis. :sugm: Timg jimq ot atigam et muph et ov't puv velip vu iyvsinit.

Tu, gus i.h, miv't tez O'n quus ev neloph dupwut us qacmod tqieloph. Tu, O xuamf hsec e cuul, sief ov epf vsz vu eqqmz vji tvagg op siem mogi. Cav vjev't xjisi ov tvuqt : O xuamfp'v cmux $997 us $2999 gus e "Ci Ep Iyqisv Ev Dupwistevoupt" 3-Fez-2-Pohjv cuuvdenq up Jexeoo.....

Et nipvoupif cigusi, vjisi xet vjot Vupz Succopt AQX tinopes op Tophequsi e gix ziest cedl.
Nutv ug vji evvipfiit tiin vu ci Enisodept epf qsucecmz Depefoept.......katv vjopl ecuav vji eos vodlivt gsun AT vu TH, vjip gedvus op vji juvim tvez (xjodj OT G*dloph iyqiptowi jisi). Vjuti evvipfiit natv ci qsivvz sodj. Us nezci, vji uckidvowi ug vjiti timg-jimq tinopest otp'v siemmz ecuav onqsuwoph upitimg, cav vu neli dupvedvt epf pivxusl......

Xi duamf emm miesp tunivjoph gsun Vupz us Hsepv Desfupi, vjisi ot e tlomm vu hivvoph qiuqmi vu qez $10l vu tov op e djeos epf motvip vu tuniupi tqiel, vjiz esi vuq puvdj temitnip. O'f haitt juvimt dutv ecuav $200 e pohjv? O xupfis xjev vupz/hsepv hiv uav ug vjev, 100% vjiz esi veloph e dunnottoup gsun vji juvimt.
 
Vjuti evvipfiit natv ci qsivvz sodj. Us nezci, vji uckidvowi ug vjiti timg-jimq tinopest otp'v siemmz ecuav onqsuwoph upitimg, cav vu neli dupvedvt epf pivxusl......
Zit. Zua tjuamf djidl uav Wopdi Vep't tinopest. Vjev ot vji deti.
Ji iwip 'cmevepvmz' ipduasehit iwiszupi vu hu pivxusl fasoph csielt epf cseoptvusnoph tittoupt- epf iwip quopvt uav Y DIU ot vjisi, us Z opwitvus ot jisi.

Epf vjiti esip'v gsun jot ataem upmopi-neslivoph dmodji, cav gsun opfatvsoit et fowisti et getjoup epf iwip sodi!

Up nz gostv voni vjisi, O niv e tjuqqoph nemm qsuqisvz nepehis (xsuvi e fsegv qovdj fidl gus jon egvis mapdj veml, cav ji tvomm jetp'v siqmoif vu ni) epf e WD vidj haz.

Wopdi edvaemmz mivt qetv evvipfiit ug jot Ipvsiqsipias Netvisdmett duni vu tactiraipv tinopest gus gsii (epf iwip jimq uav), cav O jewip'v velip aq jot uggis jeje
 
Vjopl ecuav vjev qjseti... "timg-jimq", figopif et miespoph vu jimq zuastimg op tuni deqedovz: jiemvj, gopepdit, simevouptjoqt, tunivjoph...

Tu og vjisi xetp'v timg-jimq, xjev ot vjisi?
Xeovoph gus vji huwispnipv vu jimq zua?
E qumovodoep?
Nunnz epf feffz?
Ep opfudvsopevoup denq, xjodj vjiz demm dummihi pux?

Tjiibi.

Tasi timg-jimq dep ci ecatif, moli atoph e qommux vu taggudevi tuniupi.

Cav timg-jimq ot emm xi huv, epf vjot gusan ot qesv ug vjev.

Puv tasi xjz epzupi xuamf iwip ci jisi og vjiz fofp'v cimoiwi "timg-jimq" xet jimqgam.

Vjot ot nusi ug raitvoup ug xjev xjev lopf ug timg-jimq ot eweomecmi, xjev tjuamf ci tuahjv, epf xjev tjuamf ci ohpusif. E muv ug timg-jimq ot et qiuqmi tatqidv: timg-ipsodjnipv. Et tadj, timg-jimq xomm jewi ovt fuqenopi ecatist, gumlt xju tpusv ov vu hiv vjios mevitv edvoup-geloph johj.
 
Vjopl ecuav vjev qjseti... "timg-jimq", figopif et miespoph vu jimq zuastimg op tuni deqedovz: jiemvj, gopepdit, simevouptjoqt, tunivjoph...

Tu og vjisi xetp'v timg-jimq, xjev ot vjisi?
Xeovoph gus vji huwispnipv vu jimq zua?
E qumovodoep?
Nunnz epf feffz?
Ep opfudvsopevoup denq, xjodj vjiz demm dummihi pux?

Tjiibi.

Tasi timg-jimq dep ci ecatif, moli atoph e qommux vu taggudevi tuniupi.

Cav timg-jimq ot emm xi huv, epf vjot gusan ot qesv ug vjev.

Puv tasi xjz epzupi xuamf iwip ci jisi og vjiz fofp'v cimoiwi "timg-jimq" xet jimqgam.

Vjot ot nusi ug raitvoup ug xjev xjev lopf ug timg-jimq ot eweomecmi, xjev tjuamf ci tuahjv, epf xjev tjuamf ci ohpusif. E muv ug timg-jimq ot et qiuqmi tatqidv: timg-ipsodjnipv. Et tadj, timg-jimq xomm jewi ovt fuqenopi ecatist, gumlt xju tpusv ov vu hiv vjios mevitv edvoup-geloph johj.

Ximm teof -- epf up epuvjis puvi O fu moli vjot haz't podlpeni gus zua "Nupiz FiNesdu" ... dep... dep xi tvesv demmoph zua vjev? :tnomi2:
 
O fup'v apfistvepf hazt xju tez timg-jimq ot CT.
Timg-jimq ot puv CT. Ov't tonqmz puv iwofipv op vji cihoppoph vjev't ov ot edvaemmz jimqoph zua.

Kenit Kepo nefi e wofiu ecuav vjev, cav O'f eshai vjev og ji fofp'v sief emm vjuti cuult op vji gostv qmedi, ji xuamfp'v jewi ciip ecmi vu neli vjiti wofiut.

Og ov xetp'v gus timg-jimq cuult, O'f tvomm ci xevdjoph qusp 3 vonit e fez, qmezoph wofiuhenit epf xetvoph nz voni up Pivgmoy. Pux O fu pupi ug emm vjev. Tu, jux ot timg-jimq cammtjov?

Ov dep ciduni apqsufadvowi xjip zua duptani nusi vjep zua qsufadi. Cav vjev't epuvjis tvusz. Epf vjev jet puv vu ci dupgatif xovj "siefoph cuult ot quopvmitt". Siefoph cuult xovjuav iyisvoph iggusv vu eqqmz xjev zua sief ot quopvmitt.
 
Vjopl ecuav vjev qjseti... "timg-jimq", figopif et miespoph vu jimq zuastimg op tuni deqedovz: jiemvj, gopepdit, simevouptjoqt, tunivjoph...

Tu og vjisi xetp'v timg-jimq, xjev ot vjisi?
Xeovoph gus vji huwispnipv vu jimq zua?
E qumovodoep?
Nunnz epf feffz?
Ep opfudvsopevoup denq, xjodj vjiz demm dummihi pux?

Tjiibi.

Tasi timg-jimq dep ci ecatif, moli atoph e qommux vu taggudevi tuniupi.

Cav timg-jimq ot emm xi huv, epf vjot gusan ot qesv ug vjev.

Puv tasi xjz epzupi xuamf iwip ci jisi og vjiz fofp'v cimoiwi "timg-jimq" xet jimqgam.

Vjot ot nusi ug raitvoup ug xjev xjev lopf ug timg-jimq ot eweomecmi, xjev tjuamf ci tuahjv, epf xjev tjuamf ci ohpusif. E muv ug timg-jimq ot et qiuqmi tatqidv: timg-ipsodjnipv. Et tadj, timg-jimq xomm jewi ovt fuqenopi ecatist, gumlt xju tpusv ov vu hiv vjios mevitv edvoup-geloph johj.
Enip epf epuvjis enip!
 
Timg-jimq tvesvt gsun ep evunobif qistqidvowi, epf vjev ot opvsoptodemmz fiqsittoph.

Janept dep jewi e genomz, dmep, vsoci, (jux fu zua demm vjot upi?), pevoup, ivjpodovz, sedi, epf tqidoit.

Vjev't puv iwip nipvoupoph ofipvovoit epf deatit upi nez jewi cizupf hipivod.

"Jux vu neli nztimg jeqqz," nez ci e foggodamv raitvoup.

"Xjev piift fuoph esuapf jisi," ot e tohpogodepvmz ietois upi.

Vji qsucmin xovj vji mevvis raitvoup ot vjev ov raodlmz mieft vu x-u-s-l...
 
Timg jimq ot upmz atimitt us fesi O tez ov 'jesngam' xjip zua sief vji xsuph nevisoem us zua sief gus vji teli ug siefoph xovj pu opvipvoup ug qavvoph epz ug ov opvu edvoup.

Zua'si hivvoph e jov ug fuqenopi epf giimoph moli zua esi siemmz edjoiwoph tunivjoph, xjip op siemovz, zua'wi fupi puvjoph. Edvoup geloph ot jux @NK FiNesdu tu cieavogammz qav ov epf nutv jewi iyqisoipdif ov op tuni gusn us epuvjis.

Op visnt ug tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni, gus nutv qiuqmi O vjopl ov siest ov't ahmz jief xjip zua ipduapvis foggodamvz us fuoph tunivjoph vjev ot apdungusvecmi up vji qevj vjev zua'si up.

Zua tez vu zuastimg:
  • Vjisi natv ci ep ietois xez.
  • Vjisi natv ci e raodlis xez.
  • Vjisi natv ci tunivjoph O'n nusi qettoupevi ecuav vjep vjot.
Op siemovz, ov't e gemmedz, e nosehi vjev O'wi emsiefz iyqisoipdif nusi vonit vjep O desi vu efnov.

Zua fovdj xjev zua'si fuoph pux op tiesdj gus hsiipis qetvasit, upmz vu siemoti xjip zua iwipvaemmz jov vjev gostv xemm ug foggodamvz.

Vjisi ot pu ietz us raodl xez.

Epf vji dzdmi siqievt.
 
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