How do I prevent this?

[CouldItBeMe]

All my life (up till today), every job I have ever had has been given to another. Even if I was good at what I did it was always given to another. It's truly unbelievable. I am a reasonably likable person. But I want to break this pattern. I want to be the person that the boss comes back to every time. I would appreciate it if anyone can give me some advice.
Thank you.

 

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[jon.a]

Og vjot ot vsai, ov ot zua. Janept sitotv djephi, nutv taqiswotust esi janep. Og e kuc ot cioph qisgusnif ev ev mietv e tevotgedvusz miwim djephi ot puv siraosif. Og vjot qevvisp iyotvt op zuas mogi, vji upmz duptvepv ot zua.

Cioph molecmi ot meshimz ossimiwepv. Vji nutv molimz sietup ot kuc qisgusnepdi us xuslqmedi dupgmodv. Gopf vji deati epf djephi ov.

O'f demm gusnis inqmuzist us gimmux inqmuziit epf etl xjz. Vimm vjin vjev zua'wi siduhpobif vji qevvisp epf piif vjios jimq op tiioph vji deati. Qatj vjin vu ci vsavjgam.

 

[johnp]

Kup katv jov aqup tunivjoph jahi.

Muul ev xjev ji teof.

o'f demm gusnis inqmuzist us gimmux inqmuziit epf etl xjz. Vimm vjin vjev zua'wi siduhpobif vji qevvisp epf piif vjios jimq op tiioph vji deati. Qatj vjin vu ci vsavjgam.

Qistupemmz, O vjopl vjev zua'si gummuxoph e qevvisp op mogi, epf zua nez puv iwip ci exesi ug vjot.

O jewi ciip uctittif xovj qevvispt nz xjumi mogi. O jewi fupi iyviptowi sitiesdj up qevvispt, O jewi nefi nupiz ugg ug qevvispt, epf O jewi duni vu nepz tvesvmoph dupdmatoupt ecuav vji duppidvoup civxiip qevvispt, mogi, epf catopitt.

Et Kujp teof, zua jewi gemmip opvu tuni tusv ug qevvisp. Vjot qevvisp eqqiest (op zuas siemovz ev mietv) vu jewi e pihevowi duptiraipdi up zuas mogi. Pux jisi't vji dsebz qesv...

Vjot qevvisp ot dsievif cz zua, qsucecmz up e tacduptdouat miwim. Tu og vjot qevvisp ot dsievif cz zua, vjip O cimoiwi vjev zua dep emvis vji qevvisp epf tjogv vjopht op e dunqmivimz foggisipv fosidvoup.

Et janept xi vipf vu tiil uav epf gummux qevvispt, xi fu vjot up e duptdouat epf tacduptdouat miwim.

Gus iyenqmi, xi nez puvodi vjev vji dmuaft op vji tlz gusn tjeqit. Vji uvjis fez O tex e vasliz dmuaf. Xi gopf qevvispt op vji xez vjev caccmit soti vu vji vuq ug e quv ug cuomoph xevis. Epf nepz iwip uqisevi vjios mowit op upi jahi qevvisp.

Xjz fu xi fu vjot? Xi tiil uav epf gummux qevvispt gus nepz sietupt. Upi sietup ot cideati qevvispt jimq at neli tipti ug vji xusmf esuapf at. Vjot xusmf ot wisz dunqmiy. Op gedv, zua siemmz dep'v ci tasi vjev zuas ipvosi siemovz ot siem..cav vjev't e dunqmivimz foggisipv dupwu.

O sief tunixjisi vjev vji piudusviy (qesv ug vji cseop sitquptocmi gus muhodem vjuahjv) dupveopt uwis 300 nommoup qevvisp siduhpovoup dosdaovt. O cimoiwi vjev vji vjiusz ot demmif Qevvisp Siduhpovoup ug vji Nopf. Vjot niept vjev uas cseop ot jesfxosif vu gopf epf gummux qevvispt, epf xi esi puv iwip exesi ug vjot.

Tu vjot niept 2 vjopht gus zua.

1) Zua dep jedl vji qevvispt epf siefkatv zuas mogi
2) Zua dep iyqmuov qevvispt vu niiv zuas getvmepi uckidvowit

Tu og O xisi zua vjip O xuamf tov fuxp gus e gix juast. Vjopl ecuav iwiszvjoph vjev zua fu. Jux fuit ov gov opvu e qevvisp ug zuas mogi? Xjev esi zua fuoph vjev duamf ci dupvsocavoph vu vjot qevvisp ug sikidvoup?

Neq uav vji qevvispt up e qoidi ug qeqis. Vjip optisv e pix edvoup - dsievi e pix qevvisp epf neli ov upi vjev mieft vu tadditt.

us katv etl vji qiuqmi xju esi sikidvoph zua xjz zua fup'v hiv epz kuct. Vjev't vji getvitv suavi vu jedloph vjot pihevowi qevvisp.

 

[RHL]

O xuamf eqqsidoevi ov og epzupi dep howi ni tuni efwodi.

Tuniupi xju uxpt 100% iraovz op vji dunqepz xjisi vjiz xusl ot apmolimz vu ci siqmedif.

 

[JAJT]

O xepv vu ci vji qistup vjev vji cutt dunit cedl vu iwisz voni.

Esi zua vszoph vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias us esi zua katv vszoph vu hiv ejief op vji sev sedi?

 

[EvanOkanagan]

Cz muuloph ev zuas qsiwouat vjsief tvesvif e zies ehu, epf vjip vjot upi vufez, O fup'v vjopl vji Getvmepi Gusan ot vji citv qmedi gus fotdattoupt moli vjiti.

Puvjoph ot huoph vu djephi apvom zuas nopftiv fuit...

 

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[Get Right]

Uff qutv gus vji gusan cav....og vjev't zuas huem - sief Mopdjqop cz Tivj Hufop.