Bit of a weird question but, what was it like? I've always wondered what it must be like to be male and so attractive you have women throwing themselves at you. Are you in a long-term relationship at the moment?
There are studies out there that a man's self-worth and self-esteem go almost completely hand in hand with how desired they are (or rather,
feel they are) by women. Having been on both ends, I'd say that sounds about right.
To answer your question:
I'm in a long-term relationship with what was the most attractive girl at my high school. She's also one of the most sensible ones I've met, too. That's not to say my relationship is perfect by any means, lol.
In high school, it was cool. A lot of girls liked and flirted with me, and a lot didn't because they were intimidated by me (but not necessarily because of my looks).
My "good" features, and this I assume also goes for 90% of people, come at a specific weight, body fat %, hairstyle, etc. It's not like I just hit puberty one day and became an object of desire. I can EASILY look like trash.
In fact, I entered high school as a malnourished late bloomer due to a severe chronic disorder. I really didn't look my age and was skinnier and shorter than 9/10 guys. It took a few years before I started working out, eating more, and reading up on how to regain my confidence after my health misadventures (which involved a lot of gross, traumatic, and emasculating procedures in hospital settings when I was a pre-teen).
I also read books from most of the major pick-up artists at the time, a lot of which was complete BS. Still, I learned that it's important to always be confident, assertive, and direct—especially when communicating with women. I never got "friend zoned" apart from once... and it was from my current girlfriend when I invited her on a date in high school before I learned all of this.
What also helped was that in my social circles, most of the guys were still awkward as hell. Most didn't work out, their clothing style sucked, and they would shit bricks whenever they had to talk to girls they liked.
Or they'd openly talk about what porn video they watched and compare porn stars with each other while our girl friends were standing next to them, lmao.
On the other hand, I treated everyone the same and just went out to have fun and flirt nonchalantly while knowing that girls would always pick me compared to my other friends. And they did.
Funnily enough, most girls who ended up liking me initially thought I was a "dick", "kind of a douche", "arrogant prick", "too self-loving", and "not my type". I.e. their perception of me was that I was a "bad boy" when I'm actually, for the most part, a decent guy.
It was one of the best times of my life so far which I nearly missed out on. Had I just gone about my high school years like everyone else, I would've probably been known as a gamer nerd rather than a hot chad. Behind my "effortless" attractiveness was actually a lot of reading, trying, failing, and, eventually, winning.