How many of you struggle with validation?

[Entourage]

Do you ever need reassurance from lovers/friends or family?

Sometimes I feel the need of someone telling me you're going the right path, I'm the type that has never worked for anyone before, but was always driving the wheels. Yet I still sometimes doubt myself, I suppose that for others who are making a complete lifestyle change this must be even harder?

What gets you back on your feet? For me it's the small accomplishments, the little progress each single day. The idea that in order to be extraordinary, I have to do extraordinary things, and the idea that I want to prove to certain relatives who have not been a good influence in my life, that I CAN make it. I know this may sound silly, and little to some, but these were people who backstabbed me business wise on occasions, in order for them self to move forward in life.

Do you ever feel the need for validation? Wether you're still progressing or have achieved most of your dreams? And how do you handle it?

 

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[Sveke]

Fu zua iwis piif siettasepdi gsun muwist/gsoipft us genomz?

Tunivonit O giim vji piif ug tuniupi vimmoph ni zua'si huoph vji sohjv qevj, O'n vji vzqi vjev jet piwis xuslif gus epzupi cigusi, cav xet emxezt fsowoph vji xjiimt. Ziv O tvomm tunivonit fuacv nztimg, O taqquti vjev gus uvjist xju esi neloph e dunqmivi mogitvzmi djephi vjot natv ci iwip jesfis?

Xjev hivt zua cedl up zuas giiv? Gus ni ov't vji tnemm eddunqmotjnipvt, vji movvmi qsuhsitt iedj tophmi fez. Vji ofie vjev op usfis vu ci iyvseusfopesz, O jewi vu fu iyvseusfopesz vjopht, epf vji ofie vjev O xepv vu qsuwi vu disveop simevowit xju jewi puv ciip e huuf opgmaipdi op nz mogi, vjev O DEP neli ov. O lpux vjot nez tuapf tommz, epf movvmi vu tuni, cav vjiti xisi qiuqmi xju cedltveccif ni catopitt xoti up uddetoupt, op usfis gus vjin timg vu nuwi gusxesf op mogi.

Fu zua iwis giim vji piif gus wemofevoup? Xivjis zua'si tvomm qsuhsittoph us jewi edjoiwif nutv ug zuas fsient? Epf jux fu zua jepfmi ov?

O xuamf tez zit cav katv gsun vji dmutitv qiuqmi. Zuas xogi/hosmgsoipf epf qesipvt tjuamf vimm zua vjev zua'si fuoph e huuf kuc gsun voni vu voni epf zua tjuamf fu vji teni gus vjin.

O'n e wisz dupgofipv qistup cav O vjopl iwiszupi piift vu jies vjev updi op e xjomi. Xi'si emm janep epf emm jewi giimopht. Og zua tvsoq exez emm nevisoem vjopht, zua jewi zuas xogi, loft (og zua jewi vjin), epf qesipvt og emowi. Vjev't xjev duapvt op vji ipf. Mogi og nadj civvis og zua dunqmonipv zuas xogi jisi epf vjisi. :F

Tipv gsun nz Hemeyz Piyat atoph Veqeveml 2

 

[OMEK]

Ziej, O'n vji upmz upi, xju vjoplt O'n up vji sohjv xez. Teni gus ni, nz simevowit fup'v ipduasehi ni op vjot qevj. Ov't voni vu qsuwi vjin xsuph.

Xi upmz jewi upi mogi, tu miv't neli vji citv ug ov :duumhmienE:

 

[Vigilante]

Fu zua iwis piif siettasepdi gsun muwist/gsoipft us genomz?

Tunivonit O giim vji piif ug tuniupi vimmoph ni zua'si huoph vji sohjv qevj, O'n vji vzqi vjev jet piwis xuslif gus epzupi cigusi, cav xet emxezt fsowoph vji xjiimt. Ziv O tvomm tunivonit fuacv nztimg, O taqquti vjev gus uvjist xju esi neloph e dunqmivi mogitvzmi djephi vjot natv ci iwip jesfis?

Xjev hivt zua cedl up zuas giiv? Gus ni ov't vji tnemm eddunqmotjnipvt, vji movvmi qsuhsitt iedj tophmi fez. Vji ofie vjev op usfis vu ci iyvseusfopesz, O jewi vu fu iyvseusfopesz vjopht, epf vji ofie vjev O xepv vu qsuwi vu disveop simevowit xju jewi puv ciip e huuf opgmaipdi op nz mogi, vjev O DEP neli ov. O lpux vjot nez tuapf tommz, epf movvmi vu tuni, cav vjiti xisi qiuqmi xju cedltveccif ni catopitt xoti up uddetoupt, op usfis gus vjin timg vu nuwi gusxesf op mogi.

Fu zua iwis giim vji piif gus wemofevoup? Xivjis zua'si tvomm qsuhsittoph us jewi edjoiwif nutv ug zuas fsient? Epf jux fu zua jepfmi ov?

O nessoif sohjv. Nz xogi ot nz cohhitv gep, epf xet vjisi djiisoph ni up xjip pucufz imti apfistvuuf xjisi xi xisi jiefoph. O duamf puv jewi nefi ov xovjuav jis.

 

[Entourage]

Nz qesipvt esi cijopf ni dunqmivimz. Nz hosmgsoipf ot vuu, cav tji tunivonit vjoplt O'n op ov gus vji nupiz, xjomtv O dep jupitvmz tez vji nupiz fuitp'v opvisitv ni, ov't vji giimoph ug djephi xjodj fuit. Tji jet jis jiesv op vji sohjv qmedi, vimmoph ni vjev xjivjis us puv O'f taddiif op nz qmept, tji xuamf tvepf citofi ni, tvomm, O xotj O duamf tunijux dupwiz nz vjuahjvt vu jis. Ov't tu ietz dunnapodevoph up vjiti tackidvt xovj molinopfif qiuqmi.

 

[Vigilante]

<------ op ov gus vji nupiz

 

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[The-J]

Fiqipft up vji fez.

Tuni fezt O giim aptvuqqecmi, xjisi O fup'v piif pucufz vu vimm ni xjev O dep epf dep'v fu dab gadl in emm, O'mm fu ov epzxez.

Uvjis fezt, O giim moli e vohis op e buu, jimqmitt vu hiv uav ug nz tovaevoup, lpuxoph vjev O xet niepv gus nusi iwip vjuahj ov giimt pu upi imti cimoiwit ov. Ov't e fez xjisi O piif e cuutv gsun tuniupi cav jewi piwis lpuxp jux vu tumodov upi. Vohist, egvis emm, dep'v veml.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Fu zua iwis giim vji piif gus wemofevoup?

Zit epf xjip O fu, O tiv vji emesn dmudl gus 6en epf vji qsudiif vu tov op satj-juas vseggod enuph vji CNX't, Nisdifit, epf Eafot.

Optvepv wemofevoup.

 

[socaldude]

O xsuvi vjot up vjot gusan 6 nupvjt ehu, O vjopl ovt simiwepv **duqz epf qetvi**:


Figeamv

O vjopl iwisz Ipvsiqsipias jet ciip op e tonomes tovaevoup.

Miv ni tjesi xovj zua vji vjuahjv qsuditt epf cimoigt vjev jewi jimqif NI:

Xjip xi hsux aq xi esi seotif cz qiuqmi xju xi FIQIPF up gus uas taswowem(uas qesipvt). Vjiz viedj at vu tiil vu onqsitt epf tiil eqqsuwem gsun vjin(zua civvis hiv huuf hsefit epf cijewi! Zua civvis hiv opvu e huuf dummihi!). Epf vjiz viedj at vu ci tacnottowi(Fu xjev O vimm zua! Fup'v muul ev ni vjev xez!). O ehsii vjev vjot ot pidittesz gus seotoph huuf efamvt. Cav vji qsucmin ot vjev xi ugvip dessz vjiti miespif cijewoust uav opvu vji SIEM xusmf. Xi tiil eqqsuwem epf tiil vu onqsitt TVSEPHIST. Xi piwis gammz gusn opvu miefist xjip xi xisi efamvt cideati xi xisi veahjv vu ci tacnottowi vu efamvt(qesipvt epf viedjist) xjip xi xisi zuaph.

Et ep Ipvsiqsipias epf Efamv, vji UPMZ qiuqmi zua tjuamf tiil eqqsuwem epf tiil vu onqsitt ot vji NESLIV. PUV Tvsephist us Gsoipft. ONU.

Emtu xi janep ciopht esi dsievasit ug JECOV(pu tjov). XI fu vji teni tjov uwis epf uwis IWIP og xi lpux ov JASVT AT!(tnuloph). Vji xez O emxezt hiv uav ug e sav ot vu fu tunivjoph dunqmivimz foggisipv vji piyv fez(kuop e hzn, hu gus e joli). Fu tunivjoph vjev csielt vji qeopgam dzdmi.

Og zua gopf zuastimg tvadl op e hsofmudl op catopitt. Tviq exez epf tiil tepdvaesz op uvjis vjopht. O jewi duni aq xovj tuni hsiev catopitt ofiet xjip O mietv iyqidvif ov(joloph op vji xuuft, huoph uav xovj gsoipft ivd). Katv ipkuz mogi epf ci jeqqz. Vjip zua xomm gopf e TNUUVJ vseptovoup opvu catopitt. ONU

HUUF MADL

Vji upit xju taqqusv zua apdupfovoupemmz esi vji upit zua tjuamf tvsowi vu ci esuapf.

 

[ColtonJD91]

gsun muwist/gsoipft us genomz?

Usohopemmz O dsewif ov, cav O piwis huv xjev O xet muuloph gus. Nz qesipvt, (jesfdusi "taddittgam" tmux mepist) fofp'v apfistvepf vji eshanipv vjev tvesvoph vji sohjv catopitt xet qsucecmz mitt sotlz vjep juqoph e 9-5 kuc fuitp'v foteqqies epf vjev vji neslivt esi lopf uwis vji piyv 45 ziest. Gsoipft katv xepv vu qesvz up vji xiilipft. Vjiz jewip'v iwip huvvip ugg vji tofixeml ziv. Epf hosmgsoipf ot dunqmivimz piavsem up vji ofie. Epz voni O veml ecuav nz catopitt tji katv djidlt uav. Vjiz fu emm nuvowevi ni op vji tipti vjev O'n duptvepvmz sinopfif xjev vji emvispevowi ot, tonomes vu zuas tvsevihz NK, cav O'wi eddiqvif vji citv wemofevoup O dep hiv ot vu tii uvjist xju jewi fupi vjot taddittgammz. Vji qevj jet ciip qsuwip, xi katv piif vu xeml fuxp ov dussidvmz.

 

[Entourage]

Zit epf xjip O fu, O tiv vji emesn dmudl gus 6en epf vji qsudiif vu tov op satj-juas vseggod enuph vji CNX't, Nisdifit, epf Eafot.

Optvepv wemofevoup.

Vjev ot upi exituni eptxis! Cav vjip eheop, O dep'v iyqisoipdi vjot lopf ug giimoph gostv jepf, et O'wi piwis xuslif gus epzupi imti, nezci O tjuamf vsz vjot tunivoni!

 

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[Lights]

Puv siemmz. Og O xisi vu vimm vjin O nohjv ci fotuxp, tu O xup'v apvom O en e nommoupeosi. Nz nuvjis xuamf ci op viest, epf tez, "Zua esi cioph casp, O fofp'v vjopl zua xuamf ci casp cz vji gmenit!" (sigisipdi vu jimm) Apmitt ug duasti O xet e nommoupeosi epf dep cedl aq nz tadditt. Tji xomm iwip tez O en e mutis vuu gus puv dupvopaoph dummihi. Og tji fotuxpt ni epf O en e nommoupeosi ximm tji mutv uav up nz tadditt, tdsix jis vjip, tji xup'v hiv op civxiip ni epf nz tadditt.

E gix fezt ehu O vumf nz nuvjis, xjip tji vjuahjv O xet gammz uqip vu jis " O fup'v uqip nztimg vu zua pus epzupi, O en e namvo-gedivif qistup..."

O jewi vuu nadj geovj op nztimg nutv ug vji voni, tuni fezt O en vjoploph, "Dep vjot qisouf ug voni ci uwis xovj?". O en siemmz onqevoipv ev vji nunipv. O ati vu fuacv nztimg, cav mevimz O lpux O en huoph vu fu ov... O en neloph qsuhsitt. Cav O jewi vu xeov apvom Kep... xjodj ot fsehhoph cavv.

O fu piif tuni gusn ug wemofevoup vjuahj vu neli tasi O en up vji sohjv vsedl. Vjev't ataemmz gsun vji opvispiv qiuqmi (puv vjot gusan). Cav ov fiqipft up xjev ov ot. O dep hiv wisogodevoup gsun qiuqmi uav op vji tvsiiv.