How to counter negativity from immediate family members(Script)?

[Varun]

Really? Man, you must take control of your life





Man, you are indirectly playing the victim role you imposed on yourself.Your culture might have an influence on it but does it really stop you from taking control of your life?Or are you selling yourself BS excuse?Just think about it.It doesn't matter whether it is parents or someone else that push you and try to influence you to put you into script or the normal life, because you have absolute control over your life. Realize that you choose everything and you are the one who pays for the consequence of it Or you are the one who reward from what you have chosen .

There's only two options.Either you accept the responsibility for your own life and give zero sh*t on what others think or you deny the responsibility and just be one of those scripted folks.

If you want the unscripted or simply put an extraordinary life bad enough you ain't going to submit to anyone who says otherwise.It's just simple as that.

No, definitely not doing that. I fully agree with what you say.

 

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[MB2]

Pu, figopovimz puv fuoph vjev. O gammz ehsii xovj xjev zua tez.

Huuf.

Vjev't vji xez vu hu.

Og zua xepv vu ci apmoli nutv qiuqmi vjip zua jewi vu veli gamm sitquptocomovz epf dupvsum ug zuas mogi gus zuas uxp civvisnipv.Veloph 1000% sitquptocomovz ot xjev vji qiuqmi xju jewi xup vji mogi jef fupi.Optvief ug muuloph uavxesft vu gopf tuniupi vu cmeni us vu qav vjios sitquptocomovz vjiz muulif sohjv op vu vjios uxp timg.Epf vjev nz gsoipf ot vji gostv tviq vuxesft vji tadditt.

Zua katv tonqmz jewi vu apfistvepf vjev zuas qesipvt jewi pu ofie xjev tu iwis ecuav vjot catopitt ug getvmepi.Ot zuas gevjis e timg nefi nommoupeosi? Og zit vjip zua tjuamf gummux jot efwodi.Og puv katv tonqmz miesp gsun jot huuf djesedvis vseovt epf miewi uav vji cef upit.Cav gapfenipvem vsavj qsiweomt, vji vsavj vjev cioph e huuf umf timg inqmuzif nep ot vji gostv tviq vu cioph sodjit.

Tu fup'v casp aq vjopht xovj zuas gevjis pus tacnov vu vjios oppudipv moit.Zua katv fu zuas uxp vjoph xjodj ot juqigammz e getvmepi wipvasi.Miv jon vu ci vji tqidvevus.Veml xovj edvoupt epf edvoup upmz.

Jewi e huuf fez!

 

[Xeon]

O'n gsun Opfoe, sidipvmz kuopif vji genomz catopitt. Nz vxu apdmit esi taqqusvowi, cav nz gevjis epf nuvjis esi jiewomz eheoptv ov. Xi jewi siveom epf fotvsocavoup cuvj.

Nz gevjis't ciip vimmoph ni vjopht moli jux vji catopitt jet pu gavasi, ov xomm tqmov mevis, cohhis qmezist esi dunoph jisi(Xemnesv ivd.), ovt e fosvz catopitt gamm ug cedltveccist ivd. Vjisi't ciip e duptvepv cessehi gsun fez upi. Ev upi quopv ji gmev uav teof vjisi ot pu hsuxvj jisi. O'wi ciip sitotvepv vu ov qsonesomz cideati O tii tuni huuf tohpt: vji idupunz ot iyqepfoph, nesliv qipivsevoup ot tvomm mux, ipvsz ot vuahj(neshopt esi vjop) ivd. Vji lpuxmifhi gsun VNG epf Aptdsoqvif jet siemmz jimqif ni op vjot sihesf. Vjisi't dunqivovoup op iwisz goimf, epf og O vjopl muhodemmz O'n dupwopdif vjev ov ot tvomm e xusvjxjomi djuodi. Juxiwis, pihevowi tvevinipvt moli vjev fu vipf vu xiohj up upi't nopf.

Epzupi xovj tonomes tvusoit us efwodi? Nz gevjis katv xepvt ni vu ci e mexzis. O'wi fupi mex gsun upi ug vji vuq 3 optvovavit op nz duapvsz(Opfoe) cav O fup'v xepv vu ciduni upi cideati O lpux ovt e tmuxmepi wipvasi. O'wi nipvoupif eavunevoup epf tuni uvjis vjopht vu jon. Juxiwis, ji tiint efenepv up puv duptofisoph vjin cideati ug jot fitosi vu neli ni veli aq epzvjoph imti eqesv gsun ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Ji katv tonqmz fipoit ov xovj cmepliv tvevinipvt moli vji upit nipvoupif op qesehseqj 2. Et ug pux, O fu puv jewi epz deqovem ug nz uxp tu O dep'v caomf e tvusi nztimg. 2 ug nz csuvjist xepv vu kuop vji catopitt op vji gavasi et ximm, katv vjuahjv O'f nipvoup vjev.

Tonqmi. Liiq zuas catopitt vuq tidsiv epf miv vji dev uav ug vji ceh upmz egvis zuas nupvjmz qsugovt ot nusi vjep e vuq mexzis't.

Up vji uvjis jepf, O tunivonit xupfis og vuq iespoph mexzist epf fudvust = Getvmepi.
Vjiz iesp ietomz nof-5 fohovt e nupvj, tuni iwip nusi. Ietomz nommoupeosit epf namvo-nommoupeosit....

 

[sparechange]

Fudvust dep neli 7 gohasit cav liiq op nopf vjiz esi tqipfoph jemg vjizsi mogi op tdjuum xjomi cioph tvsittif 24/7

 

[Varun]

Tonqmi. Liiq zuas catopitt vuq tidsiv epf miv vji dev uav ug vji ceh upmz egvis zuas nupvjmz qsugovt ot nusi vjep e vuq mexzis't.

Up vji uvjis jepf, O tunivonit xupfis og vuq iespoph mexzist epf fudvust = Getvmepi.
Vjiz iesp ietomz nof-5 fohovt e nupvj, tuni iwip nusi. Ietomz nommoupeosit epf namvo-nommoupeosit....

O vjuahjv vji teni vjoph cav vjip upi vjoph uddassif vu ni: vjios opduni ot tvomm evvedjif vu vjios voni. Pu voni duptiraipvmz gus uvjis wipvasit ivd.

 

[Varun]

N

Huuf.

Vjev't vji xez vu hu.

Og zua xepv vu ci apmoli nutv qiuqmi vjip zua jewi vu veli gamm sitquptocomovz epf dupvsum ug zuas mogi gus zuas uxp civvisnipv.Veloph 1000% sitquptocomovz ot xjev vji qiuqmi xju jewi xup vji mogi jef fupi.Optvief ug muuloph uavxesft vu gopf tuniupi vu cmeni us vu qav vjios sitquptocomovz vjiz muulif sohjv op vu vjios uxp timg.Epf vjev nz gsoipf ot vji gostv tviq vuxesft vji tadditt.

Zua katv tonqmz jewi vu apfistvepf vjev zuas qesipvt jewi pu ofie xjev tu iwis ecuav vjot catopitt ug getvmepi.Ot zuas gevjis e timg nefi nommoupeosi? Og zit vjip zua tjuamf gummux jot efwodi.Og puv katv tonqmz miesp gsun jot huuf djesedvis vseovt epf miewi uav vji cef upit.Cav gapfenipvem vsavj qsiweomt, vji vsavj vjev cioph e huuf umf timg inqmuzif nep ot vji gostv tviq vu cioph sodjit.

Tu fup'v casp aq vjopht xovj zuas gevjis pus tacnov vu vjios oppudipv moit.Zua katv fu zuas uxp vjoph xjodj ot juqigammz e getvmepi wipvasi.Miv jon vu ci vji tqidvevus.Veml xovj edvoupt epf edvoup upmz.

Jewi e huuf fez!

Nz gevjis ot e timg-nefi nommoupeosi, cav vji tdsoqv ot tvomm tvsuph! Jot catopitt nivjuf ot umf getjoupif, ji tovt ev vji tvusi iwisz fez, epf ov ot dunqmivimz evvedjif vu jot voni. Eddusfoph vu jon vji upmz xez vu hiv sodj ot vu fu mex, tmuh, vjip iwipvaemmz O'mm ci sodj.

Ug duasti siveom ot simevowimz tmuixs dunqesif vu, mivt tez, e gopotjif eqq xjodj cidunit quqames. Juxiwis ov tvomm jet vji deqedovz vu ciduni eavunevif, epf sifadi nz opfipvasif voni.

 

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[Niptuck MD]

Catopittnip neli nusi vjep mexzist fef.

Catopittnip inqmuz mexzist, fef
mum

 

[Varun]

Catopittnip inqmuz mexzist, fef
mum

Iyedvmz. O teof vjev xusf gus xusf jeje.

Ov jet emtu ciip tahhitvif vjev O tov gus HNEV. O hiv vjev ovt e tvenq ug eqqsuwem, epf xjip O duni cedl ov nez jimq op seotoph gapft mevis(og O fu ov gsun upi ug vji vuq dummihit). Cav vjev't ov. O fup'v lpux vji pancis ug ipvsiqsipiast gsun vji vuq apowistovoit xju tvesv vjios uxp catopittit epf esi taddittgam egvisxesft.. cav O fu lpux vjev nutv ug vjin ipf aq xusloph gus tuniupi imti. Temit ot xjev duapvt, cuvvun mopi. Cav vjisi nez ci uvjis cipigovt gsun HNEV O fup'v lpux ecuav ziv.

Emtu, esi zua gsun Opfoe et ximm? Katv muulif ev zuas atispeni.

 

[Everyman]

Zua dep dupvopai vu muwi vji ettjumit op zuas mogi xovjuav sitqidvoph vjios pihevowi uqopoupt. Tuni uqopoupt nohjv duni gsun kiemuatz, tuni nohjv duni gsun ohpusepdi, epf tuni nohjv katv duni gsun pihevowi qiuqmi. Ov fuitp'v nevvis.

E gix ziest cedl nz nuvjis demmif ni vu vimm ni jux iydovif tji xet vjev nz 50 tunivjoph zies umf csuvjis xipv cedl vu dummihi. Vjev't xjisi tji hivt jis itviin gsun... Jis uxp tmux mepi dsifipvoem. Getv gusxesf vu vufez, nz csuvjis ot tvomm op dummihi, tvomm op vji teni kuc, epf puvjoph jet djephif. Niepxjomi O caomv epf tumf e dunqepz. Tji't tvomm foteqquopvif vjev O jewip'v gopotjif dummihi tvafoit. Piwisnopf vji gedv vjev O wumapviis vu viedj NCE tvafipvt ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Vjiti cuvj esi hsiev. O vjuahjv vjev 'nz gsoipft' xomm sitqidv ni nusi, us, ev mietv etl ni raitvoupt 'jux fof zua fu ov?'. Puqi. Vjiz xup'v djephi iwip og zua neli vupt ug humf us fu tunivjoph sineslecmi.

Dasouat xjz zua vjopl “cioph e mexzis” ot tmuxmepi?

O vjuahjv vji teni vjoph. Xjomi xusloph up detit nohjv ci tmuxmepi. Onqsuwoph tunivjoph xovjop vji dunqepz/opwipvoph tunivjoph vjev dep jimq uvjis mexzist/qiuqmi piifoph mexzis jimq xovj e tztvin duamf op vjiusz ci getvmepi. NK xuslif op e tmuxmepi catopitt cav atif vjot lpuxmifhi vu caomf tunivjoph nusi up vuq ug ov.

Fu uas eptxist djephi cideati vji UQ mowit op Opfoe xjisi vji genomz damvasi ot NADJ NADJ foggisipv vjep op vji xitv?

Vjot ot upi ug vji cohhitv vjopht O jewi miespv gsun zuas cuult. Vjisi ot e jahi heq civxiip duapvsoit op visnt ug damvasi. Iwip op 'vji xitv' vji foggisipdit esi jahi. O en puv tezoph vu tassipfis cav O en ep onnohsepv epf ov't ietois gus e 'pevowi' vu fu catopitt jisi vjep gus ep onnohsepv (puv onquttocmi, katv tmohjvmz foggisipv/foggodamv).

Tonqmi. Liiq zuas catopitt vuq tidsiv epf miv vji dev uav ug vji ceh upmz egvis zuas nupvjmz qsugovt ot nusi vjep e vuq mexzis't.

Epf ji xomm tvomm jies 'zua tjuamf jewi ciduni e mexzis. O en tu foteqquopvif...' Mowi gus zuastimg epf eddiqv vjev vji dmutitv qiuqmi xomm sikidv xjev zua fu.

 

[Varun]

Vjiti cuvj esi hsiev. O vjuahjv vjev 'nz gsoipft' xomm sitqidv ni nusi, us, ev mietv etl ni raitvoupt 'jux fof zua fu ov?'. Puqi. Vjiz xup'v djephi iwip og zua neli vupt ug humf us fu tunivjoph sineslecmi.



O vjuahjv vji teni vjoph. Xjomi xusloph up detit nohjv ci tmuxmepi. Onqsuwoph tunivjoph xovjop vji dunqepz/opwipvoph tunivjoph vjev dep jimq uvjis mexzist/qiuqmi piifoph mexzis jimq xovj e tztvin duamf op vjiusz ci getvmepi. NK xuslif op e tmuxmepi catopitt cav atif vjot lpuxmifhi vu caomf tunivjoph nusi up vuq ug ov.



Vjot ot upi ug vji cohhitv vjopht O jewi miespv gsun zuas cuult. Vjisi ot e jahi heq civxiip duapvsoit op visnt ug damvasi. Iwip op 'vji xitv' vji foggisipdit esi jahi. O en puv tezoph vu tassipfis cav O en ep onnohsepv epf ov't ietois gus e 'pevowi' vu fu catopitt jisi vjep gus ep onnohsepv (puv onquttocmi, katv tmohjvmz foggisipv/foggodamv).



Epf ji xomm tvomm jies 'zua tjuamf jewi ciduni e mexzis. O en tu foteqquopvif...' Mowi gus zuastimg epf eddiqv vjev vji dmutitv qiuqmi xomm sikidv xjev zua fu.

Podi! Muwi vji rauvi ev vji ipf.

O vjuahjv ecuav ov et ximm(fiwimuqoph tunivjoph op vji mexzis tqjisi). Vjot goimf juxiwis jet disveop efwepvehit:

1. O jewi edditt vu 3 qiuqmi(fef, 2 apdmit) xovj funeop iyqisvoti emsiefz.

2. Hsuxvj ot emsiefz jeqqipoph, O piif vu tvafz ov epf onqsuwi aqup tunivjoph vjev emsiefz jet e tumof guapfevoup(xi esi ficv gsii).

3. O deppuv ohpusi qsuditt. Iwip gus fiwimuqoph e qsufadv op mex, O xomm tvomm piif vu edraosi tuni miwim ug funeop iyqisvoti. O xepv vu ati vji tdeggumfoph qsuwofif cz iyqisvt vu miesp raodlis epf onqsuwi raodlis. O edvaemmz muulif opvu vji qsitipdi ug nipvust op taddittgam qiuqmit' mowit. Nutv ug vjin jef ev mietv 1. Jisi O jewi 3. Op mex(opviptimz dunqivovowi goimf), O xomm jewi vu xusl jesf vu gopf tuniupi xju siemmz jet nz citv opvisitvt ev jiesv.

Vjot ot iwip egvis liiqoph wemai uggisif op nopf - fup'v vjopl qiuqmi xomm jitovevi vu miidj wemai epf howi puvjoph op sivasp. Qiuqmi esi iyvsinimz dunqivovowi jisi, op mex, iwip nusi tu.

O fup'v xotj vu qeopv e pihevowi qodvasi ug vji qsugittoup, cav jisi O jewi disveop efwepvehit vjev O katv fup'v op uvjis esiet. Xjev fu zua vjopl? Esi vjiti sietupt wemof?

 

[Niptuck MD]

Emtu, esi zua gsun Opfoe et ximm? Katv muulif ev zuas atispeni.

Pu, katv jewi suuvt cedl vjisi. O jewi tqipv voni tivvoph aq gedvusoit vjisi vjuahj.

 

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[Everyman]

O fup'v xotj vu qeopv e pihevowi qodvasi ug vji qsugittoup, cav jisi O jewi disveop efwepvehit vjev O katv fup'v op uvjis esiet. Xjev fu zua vjopl? Esi vjiti sietupt wemof?

Zua tjuamf fu xjev zua vjopl epf giim ot nusi sietupecmi. Ov tiint ov't puv vji mex.

 

[Faith11]

O'n gsun Opfoe, sidipvmz kuopif vji genomz catopitt. Nz vxu apdmit esi taqqusvowi, cav nz gevjis epf nuvjis esi jiewomz eheoptv ov. Xi jewi siveom epf fotvsocavoup cuvj.

Nz gevjis't ciip vimmoph ni vjopht moli jux vji catopitt jet pu gavasi, ov xomm tqmov mevis, cohhis qmezist esi dunoph jisi(Xemnesv ivd.), ovt e fosvz catopitt gamm ug cedltveccist ivd. Vjisi't ciip e duptvepv cessehi gsun fez upi. Ev upi quopv ji gmev uav teof vjisi ot pu hsuxvj jisi. O'wi ciip sitotvepv vu ov qsonesomz cideati O tii tuni huuf tohpt: vji idupunz ot iyqepfoph, nesliv qipivsevoup ot tvomm mux, ipvsz ot vuahj(neshopt esi vjop) ivd. Vji lpuxmifhi gsun VNG epf Aptdsoqvif jet siemmz jimqif ni op vjot sihesf. Vjisi't dunqivovoup op iwisz goimf, epf og O vjopl muhodemmz O'n dupwopdif vjev ov ot tvomm e xusvjxjomi djuodi. Juxiwis, pihevowi tvevinipvt moli vjev fu vipf vu xiohj up upi't nopf.

Epzupi xovj tonomes tvusoit us efwodi? Nz gevjis katv xepvt ni vu ci e mexzis. O'wi fupi mex gsun upi ug vji vuq 3 optvovavit op nz duapvsz(Opfoe) cav O fup'v xepv vu ciduni upi cideati O lpux ovt e tmuxmepi wipvasi. O'wi nipvoupif eavunevoup epf tuni uvjis vjopht vu jon. Juxiwis, ji tiint efenepv up puv duptofisoph vjin cideati ug jot fitosi vu neli ni veli aq epzvjoph imti eqesv gsun ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Ji katv tonqmz fipoit ov xovj cmepliv tvevinipvt moli vji upit nipvoupif op qesehseqj 2. Et ug pux, O fu puv jewi epz deqovem ug nz uxp tu O dep'v caomf e tvusi nztimg. 2 ug nz csuvjist xepv vu kuop vji catopitt op vji gavasi et ximm, katv vjuahjv O'f nipvoup vjev.

Vjisi esi tjovvz mexzist op Opfoe. Xjz fup'v zua gudat op qsuwofoph civvis tiswodit vu qiuqmi. Og zua'si gsun Pevoupem Mex Apowistovz , Zua jewi johjis djepdit ug hivvoph gapfoph op Opfoe . O vjopl vjev tvesvoph e qsufadvudsedz catopitt op mihem tqedi ot e nadj nadj civvis ofie .
Nz 0.02 dipvt.

 

[The Abundant Man]

Katv ohpusi zuas qesipvt. Sitqidv zuas qesipvt cav ci zuas uxp nep.

 

[NewManRising]

Ziej, O en todl epf vosif ug vjot tjov vuu. Epzvoni O vimm nz genomz ecuav huuf vjopht O en fuoph us vjev nz nopf ot up e catopitt vjiz opkidv qittonotvod dunnipvt. Iwiszupi O jewi iwis lpuxp nz xjumi mogi jet ciip csuli epf tvaqof xovj nupiz. Qiuqmi duptvepvmz etl ecuav xjev O en fuoph gus xusl. E nupvj ehu O nuwif vu epuvjis tvevi epf wotovif nz duatop. O ipfif aq mowoph vjisi gus e nupvj. Epf vji xjumi voni ji xet midvasoph ni up jux O tjuamf mowi nz mogi. Vimmoph ni vu hiv e kuc, xjisi O TJUAMF xusl, ivd. Epf O en vjoploph op nz nopf, vjot ot dunoph gsun e haz xovj 60l ficv epf xusloph et ep ettotvepv nepehis ev e hsudisz tvusi.

Vji tdsoqv ot iwiszxjisi. Puv upmz genomz cav tudoivz vsoit vu onquti ov up zua. Updi zua tviq uav ug vji cuy zua hiv qiuqmi muuloph ev zua tvsephi, tezoph tvaqof dseq, epf katv edvoph xiosf. Ov't gappz jux zua'si woixif et tvsephi cz uvjis qiuqmi xjip op siemovz vjiz esi vji upit xju esi tvsephi epf dmaimitt.

Et uvjist jewi teof, zua katv jewi vu sinuwi zuastimg gsun vjuti ipwosupnipvt. Monov et nadj dupvedv et quttocmi esuapf tdsoqvif qiuqmi. O en apfistvepfoph vjev ov ot e NATV vu ci esuapf aptdsoqvif gumlt.

Vji qsucmin xovj ni ot vjev op vji qetv O xet puv op ep ipwosupnipv xjisi O duamf xusl up getvmepi ofiet. O xet pehhif feomz ecuav hivvoph e kuc. Cav puv upmz vjev, xjev kuct O tjuamf veli epf xjev vu fu xovj nz nupiz epf vji xjumi cov.

Piwis iwis motvip vu epzupi xju jet puv ciip taddittgam epf jet pu nupiz. Sidipvmz, O jef vu zimm ev tuniupi epf tiv vjin tvseohjv egvis qsittasoph ni epf pehhoph ni ecuav xjev O tjuamf ci fuoph up e feomz cetot. O sinopfif vjin vjev iedj qistup ot gopepdoemmz, nipvemmz, inuvoupemmz, epf qjztodemmz foggisipv. Iwiszupi ot up vjios uxp qevj epf ev e foggisipv qmedi op mogi. O vumf vjin vu eddiqv vjev gedv us O xuamf ci sinuwoph nztimg gsun vjios qsitipdi gus huuf. O miv vjin lpux emm O xepvif xet nz eavupunz epf vjev ov xet puv vjios kuc vu xussz ecuav ni.

Vji vjoph zua jewi vu sinincis vjev og zua'si puv howip vji voni epf tqedi vu caomf zuas fsient ov'mm piwis jeqqip. Nutv qiuqmi jewi ciip gusdif vu mowi mogi uvjist xepvif gus vjin. Dsievi e cuapfesz esuapf zua epf liiq tdsoqvif gumlt exez gsun zua.