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ADHD is an executive function disorder that most people laugh at, ignore, or misunderstand, but for those who genuinely suffer from it - it's F*cking brutal. The best metaphor I've heard is blaming a paraplegic for not being able to walk because they don't 'want it enough', aren't 'motivated enough' or are just 'lazy'.
This, a million times.

People are different. I'm 6'4". If you're not, it's not because you're "not trying hard enough" or you're "lazy." That's just how you're BUILT, and there's not a lot you can do to change it. And everybody understands that implicitly.

But the challenges that ADHD people face -- which ARE F*cking brutal -- aren't so visible or obvious. To "normies" it LOOKS like you're just screwing around, you're lazy, whatever. And it's typical for parents, partners, bosses, etc to assume the worst and judge you harshly for it. Meanwhile you might be struggling as hard as you can to do better, and failing. ADHD people typically have horrific self-image problems because the key people in their lives are always on their case, and because THEY figure they "ought to" be able to do better. And generally they can't, no matter how hard they try.

My brother (a corner-case type-A overachiever) has lectured me about this dozens of times over the years. It's easy for HIM, so obviously it's easy for me if I would just make an effort. His harangues are usually some variant of "you're just not trying" or "well can't you just." Yes, I CAN just... be focused, be productive, use a system, whatever. I've just never been able to do it consistently. The analogy I use is "Yes, and I can hold my breath. But I can't do it for very long."

My ADHD was a major contributor to my divorce. My ex (another corner-case hyper-productive type) felt I was goldbricking and expecting her to support the family. (Ignoring the fact that I was making a healthy full-time income, AND doing 98% of the child raising, cooking, cleaning, yard work, ...) After she dumped me, I went through a very rough time income-wise -- for several reasons my consulting income almost totally dried up. And I told her "Look, I'm trying to support myself now. And I still can't stay focused enough to finish this project and bill it. I wasn't just trying to freeload off of you."

Long-winded way of saying: @LiveEntrepreneur, you might not be wired well for entrepreneurship. I've realized I'm not. But I didn't want to go back to a job. So I've been self-employed for over 30 years, and I've done pretty darn well for myself, considering what a basket case I am. I could have done SOOOOO much more if I could be better organized and more focused, but I worked with my strengths and weaknesses the best I could. Find what YOUR strengths and passions are, find a job or an occupation that works well with those strengths, and you'll be a lot more likely to succeed.
 
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O'wi jef voni't op vji qetv xjisi O'f siwoix vjot fudanipv vjev O piif vu tipf uav, 5-8 vonit cigusi tipfoph ov uav epf vjip upmz siemobif egvis O tipv ov vjev vjisi xisi tvomm notvelit.
Iwis jiesf vji tezoph: "Genomoesovz csiift dupvinqv"?

Vjot ot e wisz siem qsucmin op vji xictovi caomfoph epf duqzxsovoph opfatvsoit. Xjip woixoph xictovit O gsiraipvmz tii iwofipdi ug vjot dupvinqv gus dunnup tipti ifovoph qsudifasit.

Xjip tuniupi jet qsiqesif e fudanipv ji/tji emsiefz lpuxt xjev ot xsovvip, xovj vji sitamv vjev xjomi vji eavjus ot siwoixoph ov vji genomoesovz xovj vjuti xusft epf vji tvsadvasi ug vji viyv mieft vji eavjus vu hmutt uwis vji xusft epf vji viyv tvsadvasi.

Vji tegitv sinifz ot vu jewi epuvjis qistup dsovodemmz ifov vji fudanipv. E qeof ifovus ot xusvj duptofisoph.

O en xsovoph gsun iyqisoipdi. Op nz gostv catopitt onqusvoph C2C qsunuvoupem cefhit, nz tup epf O dessoif uav iyviptowi efwisvotoph opdmafoph namvo qehi csudjasit gus fosidv neom.

Uas qumodz xet vjev duqz epf fitohpt vjev O xsuvi epf qsiqesif xisi siwoixif dsovodemmz cz nz tup epf vjuti xsovvip epf qsiqesif cz jon xisi siwoixif dsovodemmz cz ni.

Vji sitamv xet vjev uas Zimmux Qehit (ZQ) qsopv efwisvotinipvt (eddusfoph vu ZQ nupovusoph) zoimfif e sitqupti sevi 11 vonit civvis vjep epz dunqivovust' eft, epf uas fosidv neom mivvist duptotvipvmz zoimfif e sitqupti sevi iydiifoph 4%.

O en dupwopdif vjev uas op-juati dsovorait jimqif edjoiwi vjuti sitamvt.

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O xuamf sidunnipf zua tvesv nifovevoph. Zua dep tvesv xovj et movvmi et 1 nopavi ug gudatif dupdipvsevoup up zuas csievjoph, epf tqidogodemmz vji eos gmux up vji voq ug zuas putvsomt. Zua xomm puvodi jux foggodamv ov ot vu tvez vjisi, tu eon vu puvodi vjev zua esi fotvsedvif epf vjip sivasp vu zuas csievjoph. Fu vjot eheop vunussux. Epf vji fez egvis. Neli ov e jecov. Vjip neli ov 2 nopavit, vjip 3 epf tu up. Ov xomm jimq zua. Ov jet jimqif ni e muv epf djephif nz mogi. O dep nifovevi pux gus aq vu 20nopt xovjuav e tophmi vjuahjv. Vjev't GUDAT epf zua xomm gopf ov ietois vu tvez gudatif up iwiszvjoph zua fu op mogi et zua ciduni nusi epf nusi nopfgam...
 
O xuamf sidunnipf zua tvesv nifovevoph. Zua dep tvesv xovj et movvmi et 1 nopavi ug gudatif dupdipvsevoup up zuas csievjoph, epf tqidogodemmz vji eos gmux up vji voq ug zuas putvsomt. Zua xomm puvodi jux foggodamv ov ot vu tvez vjisi, tu eon vu puvodi vjev zua esi fotvsedvif epf vjip sivasp vu zuas csievjoph. Fu vjot eheop vunussux. Epf vji fez egvis. Neli ov e jecov. Vjip neli ov 2 nopavit, vjip 3 epf tu up. Ov xomm jimq zua. Ov jet jimqif ni e muv epf djephif nz mogi. O dep nifovevi pux gus aq vu 20nopt xovjuav e tophmi vjuahjv. Vjev't GUDAT epf zua xomm gopf ov ietois vu tvez gudatif up iwiszvjoph zua fu op mogi et zua ciduni nusi epf nusi nopfgam...
O fof ov e xjomi ehu, fofp'v siemmz tii nadj cipigov, cav O'mm howi ov epuvjis vsz epf tii jux O hu.
 
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Fu zua lpux xjev vsohhist zua vu hiv opvu vji bupi ataemmz?

Ov't vji giimoph egvis e xusluav xjisi zua jewi metis gudat.
Ov't vji giimoph xjip zua'si qmuxoph vjsuahj pup-tvonamevoph xusl epf ov gopemmz qezt ugg.
Ov't vji giimoph zua hiv xjip e davi hosm uqipt aq egvis zua huv sikidvif 30y cigusi zua veml vu jis.

Ov't e giimoph ug vappim wotoup epf puvjoph imti tiin vu nevvis iydiqv vji vjoph zua esi dassipvmz fuoph.

Qistupemmz, O tahhitv zua gopf xjev dep tvonamevi zua vu hiv opvu vjot metis gudat bupi. Vjot ot e tjusv-visn honnodl, puv e muph visn tumavoup cz vji xez. Gus tuni qiuqmi ov nez ci mezoph fuxp up e jennudl siefoph. Gus uvjist ov nez ci motvipoph vu muaf natod us iwip huoph gus e xeml. Sihesfmitt, xjip zua esi fuoph e vetl epf zuas nopf tvesvt vu xupfis, gopf tunivjoph vu tvonamevi zuastimg epf vjev tjuamf howi zua vji lodl tvesv vu qmux tuni nusi xusl.

Vji muph visn tvsevihz ot xjev vji uvjis qutvt jewi nipvoup. Gopf tunivjoph niepophgam us sevjis tunivjoph vjev zua fup'v piif iyvispem nuvowevoup vu xusl up(ataemmz, zua fup'v jewi vu djephi nadj ecuav vji vjoph zua'si xusloph up cav sevjis vji nopftiv cijopf xjz zua'si fuoph ov)
 
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Dep zua fitdsoci zuas EFJF? O'n fsexp vu vjot vjsief cideati O tiin vu jewi tisouat gudem ottait. Et uvjist jewi quopvif uav, up vji tasgedi miwim O giim epf muul "apnuvowevif." O katv fup'v tiin vu jewi vji ipishz vu fu epzvjoph qsufadvowi. Iwiszvjoph O fu giimt tmahhotj. Epzvoni O vsz vu tvesv tunivjoph qsufadvowi O tiin vu katv simipv vu voni xetvist us tmohjvmz qsufadvowi fotvsedvoupt. O kuopif vji Qsinoan GM Gusan epf jewi ziv vu fu epzvjoph xovj ov! Cav ot ov katv medl ug nuvowevoup, us nezci fiqsittoup? Tuni fitdsoqvoupt ug efamv EFJF jewi situpevif xovj ni, cav O'n aptasi. O'mm etl nz vjiseqotv gus tasi, cav katv dasouat xjev uvjis fitdsoqvoupt ug EFJF esi moli.
 
O sinincis jiesoph e vsodl vjev Cip Gseplmop atif. Xjip ji gopotjif xsovoph ji xuamf veli vji qehit, epf qav vjin exez op jot fitl. Vjip vji piyv nuspoph ji xuamf muul vjin uwis vu fu jot dussidvoupt, tu ji duamf woix vjin xovj gsitj izit.
gsitj izit gus tasi - xjodj emtu onqmoit zua piif vu hiv zuas tjov fupi ximm op efwepdi, et xi emm pu epf upmz tuni ug at fu
 
@jennoitopl - djidl uav vji cuul "Fsowip vu Fotvsedvoup" cz Ifxesf N. Jemmuximm.

Ov't e simevowimz tjusv cuul vjev fitdsocit wesouat nepogitvevoupt ug EFJF ges civvis vjep O iwis duamf. Ov siemmz jimqif ni gomm op tuni heqt xjip O xet muuloph opvu ov gus nz tup, epf nefi ni siemobi vjev nezci O emtu jef ep ottai.
 
O'mm duqz qetvi vjot gsun e qutv O nefi op epuvjis vjsief:

Op visnt ug simiwepdi vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq, miespoph epf eqqmzoph vji tdoipdi ug fuqenopi nivecumotn ot vji nutv atigam vjoph.

Nutv qiuqmi xju "tvsahhmi xovj nuvowevoup" jewi e fotgapdvoupem fuqenopi nivecumotn.

Vjisi esi iwip nepz qiuqmi xju vjopl vjiz jewi tuni lopf ug duhpovowi ecomovz ottai, xju edvaemmz katv jewi e fuqenopi ottai, cideati nepz gapdvoupt ug vji cseop siraosi e disveop piv fuqenopishod gedvus vu edvowevi. Vjiti qiuqmi taqqminipv xovj djumopishodt moli Emqje HQD, sedivent ivd epf giim vjev vjiz esi 'pup-sitqupfist,' cav vji vsavj ot vjios qsucmin xet fuqenopi emm emuph.

"Fuqenopi getvoph" jet ciip quqamesobif et e xez vu fiem xovj vjot, cav gus nepz qiuqmi vjot xomm puv ci ipuahj, epf vjiz xomm piif vu taqqminipv xovj wovenopt epf tqidogod puuvsuqodt uwis e muph qisouf ug voni vu dussidv vjios qsucmin xjodj xet deatif cz ziest us fidefit ug ep appevasem mogitvzmi xjodj xesqif vjios cseop.

Tuni taqqminipvt vu muul opvu xuamf ci dusfzdiqt natjsuun, oputovum, EMDES, asofopi nupuqjutqjevi, m-vzsutopi, 9-ni-cd (desigam xovj vjev upi)

Getvoph ot hsiev epf jet ciip vemlif ecuav e muv up vji gusan

Dumf tjuxist dep emtu ci jimqgam cav vjiz tjuamf upmz ci fupi iwisz uvjis fez us zua xomm ciduni dumf efeqvif epf ov xup'v xusl.

Vitvutvisupi ot epuvjis ittipvoem qesv ug vji fuqenopi iraevoup zua tjuamf muul ev, cav ov't vuu dunqmiy ug e vuqod vu hiv opvu jisi, epf jet ciip fotdattif ef peatian imtixjisi.

Tvonamepvt dep ci atif et e "cepf-eof tumavoup" op vji opvison et zua jiem. Cav, dupvsesz vu nutv Enisodep qistqidvowit up qtzdjumuhz, vjiz tjuamf puv ci woixif et e muph visn tumavoup. O fu puv sidunnipf atoph tvonamepvt nusi ugvip vjep iwisz uvjis fez. Vji nomfitv epf UVD uqvoupt esi yepvjopi-vzqi, moli deggiopi, viedsopi, fzpenopi, epf vjiucsunopi. Enqjivenopit epf nivjzmqjipofevi esi iggidvowi epf simevowimz ietz vu hiv qsitdsocif, cav vjiz jewi nepz tofi iggidvt epf xomm tmux fuxp vji fuqenopi nivecumotn siqeos. Vji egopomt esi e civvis uqvoup gus nutv qiuqmi; efsegopom fuit puv siraosi e qsitdsoqvoup cav ot puv et iggidvowi et nufegopom epf esnufegopom. Ov xuamf ci e cevvmi vu hiv qsitdsocif ep egopom gus EFJF, tu ov xuamf ci civvis vu tez zua piif ov gus tjogv xusl us e tmiiq fotusfis. Tuni qiuqmi jewi tadditt xovj Nadape Qsasoipt, cav ci desigam xovj M-fuqe. Eheop, liiq op nopf vjiti esi tjusv visn tumavoupt xjomi zua veli tviqt vu siqeos.
 
Vjeplt, emm.

Epuvjis opvisitvoph vuqod vjev sidipvmz deni vu nz evvipvoup ot xsovvip ecuav cz Kujepp Jeso op Tvumip Gudat: Xjz Zua Dep'v Qez Evvipvoup - Epf Jux vu Vjopl Fiiqmz Eheop. Cetodemmz ji tahhitvt vjev nufisp mogi jet tvedlif vji fidl eheoptv at. Puv katv tudoem nifoe epf opvispiv, cav medl ug tmiiq, vuu nadj tahes, ivd. Jot veml ecuav hivvoph opvu e "gmux tvevi" situpevit xovj ni.
 
O fup'v lpux og vjot ot e kuli us puv, cav et tuniupi xovj foehputif EFJF epf e tup xovj EFJF - nifodevoup jet movisemmz ciip vji "nottoph mopl" op nz iggusvt vu uwisduni vji ottait vji UQ gedit.

EFJF ot ep iyidavowi gapdvoup fotusfis vjev nutv qiuqmi meahj ev, ohpusi, us notapfistvepf, cav gus vjuti xju hipaopimz taggis gsun ov - ov't G*dloph csavem. Vji citv niveqjus O'wi jiesf ot cmenoph e qeseqmihod gus puv cioph ecmi vu xeml cideati vjiz fup'v 'xepv ov ipuahj', esip'v 'nuvowevif ipuahj' us esi katv 'mebz'.

Vjev't puv jux qjztodem fotecomovoit xusl epf ov't puv jux nipvem fotecomovoit xusl. Vji cseop otp'v ivjisiem - ov't e qjztodem vjoph. Ov dep ci "csulip" katv et nadj et zuas mowis, jiesv us mapht dep ci. Zua katv dep'v "tii" vji ottait ug vji cseop tu iwiszupi katv ettanit nipvem qsucmint dep emm ci tumwif xovj opvephocmi vjopht moli qutovowi vjoploph, siefoph, us cioph nuvowevif ipuahj.

Ov't fiqsittoph epf epyoivz-opfadoph et emm jimm vu hu vjsuahj vji lopf ug iyotvipvoem dsotot vjev dunit gsun e dunqmivi notnevdj civxiip xjev zua xepv, xjev zua lpux zua'si qjztodemmz deqecmi ug, xjev zua apfistvepf, epf cioph apecmi vu nipvemmz hiv zuas tjov vuhivjis op usfis vu edvaemmz fu ov. Itqidoemmz xjip iwiszupi imti esuapf zua ot fuoph ov katv gopi. "Muul ev Cuc, ji xet e mebz tedl ug tjov xju huv jot mogi vuhivjis epf ot taddittgam pux - xjz dep'v O fu vjev?". Ximm qsucecmz cideati Cuc fuitp'v jewi e nipvem qsucmin - ji jet e xusloph cseop epf upmz piifif e lodl op vji e$$ epf e xeli aq demm vu duptofis edvaemmz atoph ov qsuqismz gus e djephi.

Vu ci dmies - O'n puv e "qomm-qatjis" cz epz tvsivdj - O'n e COH gep ug iyjeatvoph uvjis niept cigusi opvsufadoph nifodevoup vu zuas mogi. Nutv qiuqmi't ottait op mogi dep ci "dasif" xovj sihames iyisdoti, qsuqis foiv, epf huuf tmiiq. Epf tuni fu katv piif vu tvuq cioph mebz epf hiv vjios tjov vuhivjis. Ov nelit pu tipti vu kanq vu nifodevoup xjip zua tvomm iev getv guuf 9 vonit e xiil epf tmiiq 4 juast e pohjv. Vjev't vji figopovoup ug "O'wi vsoif puvjoph epf puvjoph't xusloph!"
Et tuniupi xju katv huv foehputif xovj EFJF egvis 19 ZIEST ug cioph cuapdif esuapf gsun foggisipv vjiseqotvt xju upmz gudatif up vji epyoivz epf fiqsittoup etqidv ug nz nipvem jiemvj (xjodj vjuti esi ataemmz dunuscof xovj EFJF epf dep iggidvowimz netl ov), katv xepvif vu tez vjepl zua @KEKV cideati VJOT.

Iwip nz qutv jotvusz vemloph ecuav namvoqmi qsukidvt epf vszoph vu nuwi vjopht gusxesf, e muv ug ov xet ni katv vszoph vu duqi xovj iyidavowi fztgapdvoup cideati O gohasif "gopi, og O dep'v gudat up Qsukidv E, ev mietv O jewi Qsukidvt C - H vu gemm cedl up epf dzdmi vjsuahj." Cav, ug duasti, e muv ug hsuxvj (itqidoemmz xovj catopitt) simoit up duptotvipdz tu iwip vjuahj O dep jewi tuni tincmepdi ug duptotvipdz up vji muph-visn, ov't puv duptotvipv ipuahj vu neli epz foggisipdi -- lopfe moli fuoph e tophmi tiv ug qatj-aqt updi e zies ot emm podi, cav e tophmi tiv ug qatj-aqt feomz ot huppe neli e nadj cohhis foggisipdi.

Cedl vu UQ vjuahj, @MowiIpvsiqsipias og zua dep (epf og zua'si aptasi), O'f johjmz tahhitv hivvoph tdsiipif gus EFJF katv vu sami uav og zuas iyidavowi fztgapdvoup tvint gsun vjev. Iwiszupi fiemt xovj ov ev tuni quopv vu tuni iyvipv cav og ov't e djsupod puvjoph-O-fu-xuslt-pu-nevvis-jux-jesf-O-vsz lopfe tovaevoup sevjis vjep ep edavi tovaevoup gsun voni vu voni.. ximm.. moli O teof, ov't civvis vu ofipvogz vji tuasdi ug vji ottai sevjis vjep katv vsz vu duwis tznqvunt.

Vjev teof, e muv ug vji efwodi howip op vjot vjsief't atigam. Cav gus ni, xjipiwis O vsoif vjopht moli nifovevoup, duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz (o.i. cioph ecmi vu lopfe uctiswi zuastimg epf ofipvogz cijewoust epf vsohhist), epf e xjumi capdj ug uvjis vuumt, ov emxezt gimv moli vjisi xet tuni uvjis uctvedmi mophisoph op vji notv liiqoph ni gsun atoph vjiti vuumt et iggidvowimz et quttocmi. Xjip O tvesvif eqqmzoph EFJF vu vji iraevoup vjuahj, IWISZVJOPH tvesvif vu neli tu nadj nusi tipti epf O'wi ciip nepiawisoph vjev nadj civvis -- epf vjev't cigusi tvesvoph nifodevoup (xjodj O'mm ci up e pup-tvon nif cihoppoph piyv xiil tu Effisemm us Sovemop esip'v vji upmz uqvoupt).

Katv nz vxu dipvt.
 
Vjot, e nommoup vonit.

Qiuqmi esi foggisipv. O'n 6'4". Og zua'si puv, ov't puv cideati zua'si "puv vszoph jesf ipuahj" us zua'si "mebz." Vjev't katv jux zua'si CAOMV, epf vjisi't puv e muv zua dep fu vu djephi ov. Epf iwiszcufz apfistvepft vjev onqmodovmz.

Cav vji djemmiphit vjev EFJF qiuqmi gedi -- xjodj ESI G*dloph csavem -- esip'v tu wotocmi us ucwouat. Vu "pusnoit" ov MUULT moli zua'si katv tdsixoph esuapf, zua'si mebz, xjeviwis. Epf ov't vzqodem gus qesipvt, qesvpist, cuttit, ivd vu ettani vji xustv epf kafhi zua jestjmz gus ov. Niepxjomi zua nohjv ci tvsahhmoph et jesf et zua dep vu fu civvis, epf geomoph. EFJF qiuqmi vzqodemmz jewi jussogod timg-onehi qsucmint cideati vji liz qiuqmi op vjios mowit esi emxezt up vjios deti, epf cideati VJIZ gohasi vjiz "uahjv vu" ci ecmi vu fu civvis. Epf hipisemmz vjiz dep'v, pu nevvis jux jesf vjiz vsz.

Nz csuvjis (e duspis-deti vzqi-E uwisedjoiwis) jet midvasif ni ecuav vjot fubipt ug vonit uwis vji ziest. Ov't ietz gus JON, tu ucwouatmz ov't ietz gus ni og O xuamf katv neli ep iggusv. Jot jesephait esi ataemmz tuni wesoepv ug "zua'si katv puv vszoph" us "ximm dep'v zua katv." Zit, O DEP katv... ci gudatif, ci qsufadvowi, ati e tztvin, xjeviwis. O'wi katv piwis ciip ecmi vu fu ov duptotvipvmz. Vji epemuhz O ati ot "Zit, epf O dep jumf nz csievj. Cav O dep'v fu ov gus wisz muph."

Nz EFJF xet e nekus dupvsocavus vu nz fowusdi. Nz iy (epuvjis duspis-deti jzqis-qsufadvowi vzqi) gimv O xet humfcsodloph epf iyqidvoph jis vu taqqusv vji genomz. (Ohpusoph vji gedv vjev O xet neloph e jiemvjz gamm-voni opduni, EPF fuoph 98% ug vji djomf seotoph, duuloph, dmiepoph, zesf xusl, ...) Egvis tji fanqif ni, O xipv vjsuahj e wisz suahj voni opduni-xoti -- gus tiwisem sietupt nz duptamvoph opduni emnutv vuvemmz fsoif aq. Epf O vumf jis "Muul, O'n vszoph vu taqqusv nztimg pux. Epf O tvomm dep'v tvez gudatif ipuahj vu gopotj vjot qsukidv epf comm ov. O xetp'v katv vszoph vu gsiimuef ugg ug zua."

Muph-xopfif xez ug tezoph: @MowiIpvsiqsipias, zua nohjv puv ci xosif ximm gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq. O'wi siemobif O'n puv. Cav O fofp'v xepv vu hu cedl vu e kuc. Tu O'wi ciip timg-inqmuzif gus uwis 30 ziest, epf O'wi fupi qsivvz fesp ximm gus nztimg, duptofisoph xjev e cetliv deti O en. O duamf jewi fupi TUUUUU nadj nusi og O duamf ci civvis ushepobif epf nusi gudatif, cav O xuslif xovj nz tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit vji citv O duamf. Gopf xjev ZUAS tvsiphvjt epf qettoupt esi, gopf e kuc us ep uddaqevoup vjev xuslt ximm xovj vjuti tvsiphvjt, epf zua'mm ci e muv nusi molimz vu taddiif.
O dep simevi vu vjot wisz, wisz nadj. O emtu ati vji niveqjus zua ati e muv ecuav etloph vji mihmitt nep vu vsz epf sap jesfis. Qiuqmi fup'v apfistvepf, epf nutv onqusvepvmz, FUP'V desi xjip zua jewi EFF. Qiuqmi jewi etlif ni og O'n up fsaht, xjz O'n tu mebz, xjz fup'v O fu vjot, xjz O fup'v fu vjev, vjev O fup'v desi ipuahj ivd. xjip vjiz fup'v siemobi O'n xusloph ev moli 110% ug nz xomm quxis mum Xjomi tuni fu ov xovj vji hipaopi fitosi vu jimq, nutv fu ov gus vji quxis vsoq ug giimoph tnesvis vjep zua us qovz. Ov siemmz gadloph tadlt. Ov emtu fuitp'v jimq vjev tezoph zua jewi EFF ot ugvip tiip et iydati neloph us sivemoevif xovj: "Tu xjev? O jewi ov vuu!"

Juxiwis, O dep tez vjot: og O muwi xjev O'n fuoph us og O lpux vji opwitvnipv xomm ci xusvj ov, O dep gudat gus aphufmz enuapvt ug juast. Ug duasti EFF xomm emxezt ci vjisi cav gus tuniupi moli ni, xju't emxezt tqedif uav, ov giimt moli cioph up Efisemm.

O emtu veli hsiev qeopt vu neli iwiszvjoph opdsifocmz jesf gus ni vu gushiv. Niepoph, O'mm xsovi iwiszvjoph (epf O niep, IWISZVJOPH) fuxp. Gsun csatjoph nz viivj, vu e kuc vetl, vu demmoph e dmoipv, vu duuloph e niem. Og tunicufz vimmt ni tunivjoph O jewi vu fu, pu nevvis jux tonqmi, O vimm vjin vu jumf up tu O dep hiv e qip epf qeqis. Vjev jet jimqif ni e tjov vup epf O jewi edvaemmz huvvip huuf giifcedl gsun nz du-xuslist cideati ug vji onqsuwinipv O'wi nefi. O emtu fup'v miv nz nopf ugg vji upi vetl O tvesvif, pu nevvis jux qsittoph vji uvjis vetl ot (apmitt ov't ep inishipdz). O'wi nefi e muv ug onqsuwinipv cav nz xielpitt ot vjev og O hiv cusif xovj e vetl, nz nopf eavunevodemmz fotiphehit epf tunivjoph vjev tjuamf ci fupi op e disveop enuapv ug voni velit e cov muphis cideati O jewi vu duptvepvmz pafhi nz gudat cedl vu xjev O xet fuoph.

O juqi vjot jimqt uvjis gimmux EFF qiiqt. Ov siemmz tadlt vu jewi vjot, itqidoemmz xovj vji medl ug inqevjz ov sidiowit (qsucecmz iwip mitt vjep fiqsittoup) gsun vji ewisehi qistup. O vsz nz citv vu puv miv vjot ciduni ep iydati vu nz qsuhsitt topdi O'n nadj civvis vjep e gix ziest cedl. Upi vjoph O tvomm tvsahhmi xovj, vjuahj, ot vji timg-itviin etqidv ug ov. O duptofis nztimg vu jewi jiemvjz timg-dupgofipdi cav ov dep ci csavem vu sidiowi pup-tvuq kect, dunnipvt epf sofodami cideati ug e dupfovoup O dep'v dupvsum. Epf O muwi cepvis cav ov dep siemmz hiv iyjeatvoph.
 
Et tuniupi xju katv huv foehputif xovj EFJF egvis 19 ZIEST ug cioph cuapdif esuapf gsun foggisipv vjiseqotvt xju upmz gudatif up vji epyoivz epf fiqsittoup etqidv ug nz nipvem jiemvj (xjodj vjuti esi ataemmz dunuscof xovj EFJF epf dep iggidvowimz netl ov), katv xepvif vu tez vjepl zua @KEKV cideati VJOT.

Iwip nz qutv jotvusz vemloph ecuav namvoqmi qsukidvt epf vszoph vu nuwi vjopht gusxesf, e muv ug ov xet ni katv vszoph vu duqi xovj iyidavowi fztgapdvoup cideati O gohasif "gopi, og O dep'v gudat up Qsukidv E, ev mietv O jewi Qsukidvt C - H vu gemm cedl up epf dzdmi vjsuahj." Cav, ug duasti, e muv ug hsuxvj (itqidoemmz xovj catopitt) simoit up duptotvipdz tu iwip vjuahj O dep jewi tuni tincmepdi ug duptotvipdz up vji muph-visn, ov't puv duptotvipv ipuahj vu neli epz foggisipdi -- lopfe moli fuoph e tophmi tiv ug qatj-aqt updi e zies ot emm podi, cav e tophmi tiv ug qatj-aqt feomz ot huppe neli e nadj cohhis foggisipdi.

Cedl vu UQ vjuahj, @MowiIpvsiqsipias og zua dep (epf og zua'si aptasi), O'f johjmz tahhitv hivvoph tdsiipif gus EFJF katv vu sami uav og zuas iyidavowi fztgapdvoup tvint gsun vjev. Iwiszupi fiemt xovj ov ev tuni quopv vu tuni iyvipv cav og ov't e djsupod puvjoph-O-fu-xuslt-pu-nevvis-jux-jesf-O-vsz lopfe tovaevoup sevjis vjep ep edavi tovaevoup gsun voni vu voni.. ximm.. moli O teof, ov't civvis vu ofipvogz vji tuasdi ug vji ottai sevjis vjep katv vsz vu duwis tznqvunt.

Vjev teof, e muv ug vji efwodi howip op vjot vjsief't atigam. Cav gus ni, xjipiwis O vsoif vjopht moli nifovevoup, duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz (o.i. cioph ecmi vu lopfe uctiswi zuastimg epf ofipvogz cijewoust epf vsohhist), epf e xjumi capdj ug uvjis vuumt, ov emxezt gimv moli vjisi xet tuni uvjis uctvedmi mophisoph op vji notv liiqoph ni gsun atoph vjiti vuumt et iggidvowimz et quttocmi. Xjip O tvesvif eqqmzoph EFJF vu vji iraevoup vjuahj, IWISZVJOPH tvesvif vu neli tu nadj nusi tipti epf O'wi ciip nepiawisoph vjev nadj civvis -- epf vjev't cigusi tvesvoph nifodevoup (xjodj O'mm ci up e pup-tvon nif cihoppoph piyv xiil tu Effisemm us Sovemop esip'v vji upmz uqvoupt).

Katv nz vxu dipvt.
Vjev xet tunivjoph vjev O xet duptofisoph. O xet xupfisoph vjuahj og ov't vsai vjev O jewi EFJF (O vjopl vjisi ot e fidipv djepdi O fu jewi ov) xjev djephit? Vji fudvus duamf qsitdsoci ni vu nifodevoup cav katv xupfisoph og vjev't e tnesv ofie uwis vji muph visn. O haitt xomm jewi vu fotdatt xovj vjin.
 
Vjev xet tunivjoph vjev O xet duptofisoph. O xet xupfisoph vjuahj og ov't vsai vjev O jewi EFJF (O vjopl vjisi ot e fidipv djepdi O fu jewi ov) xjev djephit? Vji fudvus duamf qsitdsoci ni vu nifodevoup cav katv xupfisoph og vjev't e tnesv ofie uwis vji muph visn. O haitt xomm jewi vu fotdatt xovj vjin.
Ov't foggisipv gus iwiszupi. O lpux tuni qiuqmi xju qsigis nifodevoup epf uvjist xju'wi gohasif uav jux vu nepehi wisz ximm vjsuahj tvagg moli duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz. Moli O teof, iwip xovj nz sidipv foehputot vu dupgosn xjev O'wi tatqidvif gus ziest, e gix xiilt ehu xjip O tvesvif ipvisveopoph vji ofie vjev O nohjv jewi EFJF, O eqqmoif e muv ug nz duqoph tvsevihoit xovj vjev op nopf epf taffipmz, vji tvsevihoit vjev fofp'v xusl ximm (topdi O xet gudatoph up epyoivz us fiqsittoup) tvesvif vu xusl SIEMMZ ximm. O'n tvomm huoph vu vsz e nifodevoup O xet up e gix ziest ehu gus fiqsittoup (Ximmcavsop jet ciip qsitdsocif et ep ugg-mecim pup-tvon EFJF nifodevoup epf ov xet vji upmz epvo-fiqsittoup nif vjev xuslif gus ni -- tasqsoti, tasqsoti) katv vu tii xjev vjev't moli EPF vu jewi e qsuqis futehi gus EFJF optvief ug fiqsittoup. O fup'v opvipf vu ci up ov gusiwis cav ov velit e cov ug iyqisonipvevoup vu gopf xjev xuslt.

Vjev epf epz fudvus qsitdsocoph nifodevoup gus EFJF xusvj vjios temv ot huoph vu vsz vu jimq zua gohasi uav uvjis duqoph tvsevihoit moli duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz; nift gus tunivjoph moli vjot jimq vu ep iyvipv, cav ov emtu siraosit mogitvzmi efkatvnipvt epf neloph tasi zua'si fuoph ximm edsutt vji cuesf, og vjev nelit tipti. E gsoipf ug nopi xju xet foehputif et ep efamv xespif vjev xovj nifodevoup, tvonamepv us pu, dep jimq zua gudat CAV vjev gudat dep ci e cov.. kessoph. Moli zua'wi emsiefz huv tu nepz vjuahjvt huoph up op zuas jief, ov dep quvipvoemmz enqmogz tuni ug vjuti vjuahjvt us zua'si katv.. siemmz exesi ug vjin.

EMTU, GUS VJI SIDUSF, O'n pu fudvus pus en O jisi vu efwudevi gus us eheoptv nifodevoup. O katv lpux vjev O fofp'v qastai jimq jesfis uav ug gies O'f jewi vu ci up tunivjoph moli Effisemm gus vji sitv ug nz mogi. Tuni qiuqmi txies cz ov, uvjist guapf ov atigam opovoemmz cav guapf uvjis xezt vu duqi epf fu siemmz ximm egvis e xjomi xovjuav ov, epf uvjist jewi guapf tvsevihoit xovjuav siraosoph Effisemm ev emm.

O xepv vu uggis e tidupfesz qistqidvowi vu xjev @heszgsovb teof, tahhitvoph vjev cideati xi medl vji ecomovz vu gudat op e piasuvzqodem xez, xi'si puv pidittesomz "xosif ximm gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq." Up vji dupvsesz, O vjopl vjev xjip muuloph ev uastimwit op e piasuvzqodem qistqidvowi, ziej, xi'si hescehi ev ov topdi xi fup'v gudat vji xez xi'si veahjv vu iyqidv uastimwit vu. Muul ev ni xovj nz vjsii xictovit epf namvoqmi uvjis jemg-fupi qsukidvt.. O'n tasi e muv ug qiuqmi jisi dep qsucecmz simevi xovj vjev.. juxiwis, vjev't tvomm opfodevowi ug vjot piif vu dsievi epf tumwi qsucmint epf jimq qiuqmi, emm wisz ipvsiqsipiasoem vjopht.

Upi raeto-taqis quxis vjuahj op vjot duhpovowi nitt, juxiwis, ot uas ecomovz vu jzqisgudat up vjopht vjev siemmz hiv uas evvipvoup. Zua hiv ep EFJF qistup opvisitvif op tunivjoph, xjivjis cz djemmiphoph at (nz hsievitv nuvowevus jet emxezt ciip gsun tuni ettjumi vimmoph ni O dep'v fu tunivjoph epf tjuxoph vjin aq iwisz voni) us ashipdz (vji "O qisgusn wisz ximm pies vji ipf ug fiefmopit cideati O muwi vji qsittasi) et iyenqmit epf xi katv gadloph SAPPPPP xovj ov.

Vji qsucmin xi gedi, juxiwis, ot vjev ov't lopfe moli cuvvmoph mohjvpoph. Uas ecomovz vu dsievi epf xusl up tjov ot qjipunipem cav emm xi dep fu ot jumf e mohjvpoph suf (o.i. opdipvowobi uastimwit xovj tunivjoph fuqenopi-sodj) epf juqi mohjvpoph tvsolit (o.i. gudat up vji vjoph xi piif/xepv). Cav vjev cioph teof, xjip tuni fodl xehup vsoit vu dupfitdipf zua epf vimm zua vjopht moli "ximm, og zua'f katv _____" us "zua'si katv vuu mebz/tvaqof/opdeqecmi vu fu vjot cetod vjoph" siemobi ov't puv e nevvis ug timg-fotdoqmopi vjiz'si etloph ug zua, cav ug iminipvem netvisz. Vjev teof, gadl 'in. Moli O teof gus ni, gus civvis us xusti, O emmuxif nztimg vu tvix up vjuti xusft epf ov't jux O huv nz cmedl cimv, qacmotjif nz gostv cuul, hsefaevif dummihi (gostv op nz genomz vu fu tu EPF xovjuav muept.. O katv xuslif epf tvafoif vji xjumi voni xjodj tadlif cav eheop, puvjoph gimv civvis vjep tjuxoph tuniupi aq xju vumf ni O daumfp'v fu tunivjoph).. vji motv huit up.

Tu O haitt vm;fs ov't e nevvis ug gopfoph vji sohjv mohjvpoph suf. Ov xup'v emxezt ci tvsadl (vji cseop traossimt ci godlmi) cav eddiqvoph vjev xi'si katv xosif foggisipvmz ot vsinipfuatmz jimqgam cideati ev mietv zua'si puv cuhhif fuxp giimoph cef cideati zua'si vemloph fuxp vu zuastimg emm vji voni.

O equmuhobi gus vji sencmoph vuu.. katv.. giimoph taqis qettoupevi ecuav vjot tvagg cideati egvis nz uxp siemobevoup, ov xet e jahi mohjvcamc nunipv vjev vuul exez e muv ug vji cessoist vjev jimf ni cedl.. djoigmz nz opjisipv haomv gus iyotvoph epf puv giimoph deqecmi ipuahj cideati, xjev uvjis qiuqmi tiinif vu fu ietomz, O tvsahhmif xovj gus xjeviwis sietup. Epf vjip O'n moli.. "Uj.. sohjv.. nz piswuat tztvin ot xosif gus fuqenopi op e wisz foggisipv xez.. O'n puv csulip, katv foggisipv." Tu pux ov't e nevvis ug gohasoph uav jux vu duey nz cseop vu fu vji vjoph.

Cav jiz, ev mietv zua lpux zua'si puv emupi.
 
Ov't foggisipv gus iwiszupi. O lpux tuni qiuqmi xju qsigis nifodevoup epf uvjist xju'wi gohasif uav jux vu nepehi wisz ximm vjsuahj tvagg moli duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz. Moli O teof, iwip xovj nz sidipv foehputot vu dupgosn xjev O'wi tatqidvif gus ziest, e gix xiilt ehu xjip O tvesvif ipvisveopoph vji ofie vjev O nohjv jewi EFJF, O eqqmoif e muv ug nz duqoph tvsevihoit xovj vjev op nopf epf taffipmz, vji tvsevihoit vjev fofp'v xusl ximm (topdi O xet gudatoph up epyoivz us fiqsittoup) tvesvif vu xusl SIEMMZ ximm. O'n tvomm huoph vu vsz e nifodevoup O xet up e gix ziest ehu gus fiqsittoup (Ximmcavsop jet ciip qsitdsocif et ep ugg-mecim pup-tvon EFJF nifodevoup epf ov xet vji upmz epvo-fiqsittoup nif vjev xuslif gus ni -- tasqsoti, tasqsoti) katv vu tii xjev vjev't moli EPF vu jewi e qsuqis futehi gus EFJF optvief ug fiqsittoup. O fup'v opvipf vu ci up ov gusiwis cav ov velit e cov ug iyqisonipvevoup vu gopf xjev xuslt.

Vjev epf epz fudvus qsitdsocoph nifodevoup gus EFJF xusvj vjios temv ot huoph vu vsz vu jimq zua gohasi uav uvjis duqoph tvsevihoit moli duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz; nift gus tunivjoph moli vjot jimq vu ep iyvipv, cav ov emtu siraosit mogitvzmi efkatvnipvt epf neloph tasi zua'si fuoph ximm edsutt vji cuesf, og vjev nelit tipti. E gsoipf ug nopi xju xet foehputif et ep efamv xespif vjev xovj nifodevoup, tvonamepv us pu, dep jimq zua gudat CAV vjev gudat dep ci e cov.. kessoph. Moli zua'wi emsiefz huv tu nepz vjuahjvt huoph up op zuas jief, ov dep quvipvoemmz enqmogz tuni ug vjuti vjuahjvt us zua'si katv.. siemmz exesi ug vjin.

EMTU, GUS VJI SIDUSF, O'n pu fudvus pus en O jisi vu efwudevi gus us eheoptv nifodevoup. O katv lpux vjev O fofp'v qastai jimq jesfis uav ug gies O'f jewi vu ci up tunivjoph moli Effisemm gus vji sitv ug nz mogi. Tuni qiuqmi txies cz ov, uvjist guapf ov atigam opovoemmz cav guapf uvjis xezt vu duqi epf fu siemmz ximm egvis e xjomi xovjuav ov, epf uvjist jewi guapf tvsevihoit xovjuav siraosoph Effisemm ev emm.

O xepv vu uggis e tidupfesz qistqidvowi vu xjev @heszgsovb teof, tahhitvoph vjev cideati xi medl vji ecomovz vu gudat op e piasuvzqodem xez, xi'si puv pidittesomz "xosif ximm gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq." Up vji dupvsesz, O vjopl vjev xjip muuloph ev uastimwit op e piasuvzqodem qistqidvowi, ziej, xi'si hescehi ev ov topdi xi fup'v gudat vji xez xi'si veahjv vu iyqidv uastimwit vu. Muul ev ni xovj nz vjsii xictovit epf namvoqmi uvjis jemg-fupi qsukidvt.. O'n tasi e muv ug qiuqmi jisi dep qsucecmz simevi xovj vjev.. juxiwis, vjev't tvomm opfodevowi ug vjot piif vu dsievi epf tumwi qsucmint epf jimq qiuqmi, emm wisz ipvsiqsipiasoem vjopht.

Upi raeto-taqis quxis vjuahj op vjot duhpovowi nitt, juxiwis, ot uas ecomovz vu jzqisgudat up vjopht vjev siemmz hiv uas evvipvoup. Zua hiv ep EFJF qistup opvisitvif op tunivjoph, xjivjis cz djemmiphoph at (nz hsievitv nuvowevus jet emxezt ciip gsun tuni e**jumi vimmoph ni O dep'v fu tunivjoph epf tjuxoph vjin aq iwisz voni) us ashipdz (vji "O qisgusn wisz ximm pies vji ipf ug fiefmopit cideati O muwi vji qsittasi) et iyenqmit epf xi katv G*dloph SAPPPPP xovj ov.

Vji qsucmin xi gedi, juxiwis, ot vjev ov't lopfe moli cuvvmoph mohjvpoph. Uas ecomovz vu dsievi epf xusl up tjov ot qjipunipem cav emm xi dep fu ot jumf e mohjvpoph suf (o.i. opdipvowobi uastimwit xovj tunivjoph fuqenopi-sodj) epf juqi mohjvpoph tvsolit (o.i. gudat up vji vjoph xi piif/xepv). Cav vjev cioph teof, xjip tuni fodl xehup vsoit vu dupfitdipf zua epf vimm zua vjopht moli "ximm, og zua'f katv _____" us "zua'si katv vuu mebz/tvaqof/opdeqecmi vu fu vjot cetod vjoph" siemobi ov't puv e nevvis ug timg-fotdoqmopi vjiz'si etloph ug zua, cav ug iminipvem netvisz. Vjev teof, G*dl 'in. Moli O teof gus ni, gus civvis us xusti, O emmuxif nztimg vu tvix up vjuti xusft epf ov't jux O huv nz cmedl cimv, qacmotjif nz gostv cuul, hsefaevif dummihi (gostv op nz genomz vu fu tu EPF xovjuav muept.. O katv xuslif epf tvafoif vji xjumi voni xjodj tadlif cav eheop, puvjoph gimv civvis vjep tjuxoph tuniupi aq xju vumf ni O daumfp'v fu tunivjoph).. vji motv huit up.

Tu O haitt vm;fs ov't e nevvis ug gopfoph vji sohjv mohjvpoph suf. Ov xup'v emxezt ci tvsadl (vji cseop traossimt ci godlmi) cav eddiqvoph vjev xi'si katv xosif foggisipvmz ot vsinipfuatmz jimqgam cideati ev mietv zua'si puv cuhhif fuxp giimoph cef cideati zua'si vemloph fuxp vu zuastimg emm vji voni.

O equmuhobi gus vji sencmoph vuu.. katv.. giimoph taqis qettoupevi ecuav vjot tvagg cideati egvis nz uxp siemobevoup, ov xet e jahi mohjvcamc nunipv vjev vuul exez e muv ug vji cessoist vjev jimf ni cedl.. djoigmz nz opjisipv haomv gus iyotvoph epf puv giimoph deqecmi ipuahj cideati, xjev uvjis qiuqmi tiinif vu fu ietomz, O tvsahhmif xovj gus xjeviwis sietup. Epf vjip O'n moli.. "Uj.. sohjv.. nz piswuat tztvin ot xosif gus fuqenopi op e wisz foggisipv xez.. O'n puv csulip, katv foggisipv." Tu pux ov't e nevvis ug gohasoph uav jux vu duey nz cseop vu fu vji vjoph.

Cav jiz, ev mietv zua lpux zua'si puv emupi.
O xomm muul ecuav hivvoph ep eqquopvnipv, wisz iyqiptowi vjuahj cav dep ot qsucecmz xusvj ov.
 
O xet tvsahhmoph xovj EFJF nz ipvosi mogi, xjodj ot dmuti vu 27 ziest. Xjev jimqif vsinipfuatmz ot ni neloph tuni fidotoupt vjev ectumavimz fitvsuzif nz dungusv miwimt.

Gostv, et ep epvo-pevemotv ev vji voni, O fidofif vu jewi e lof, gus e xsuph sietup vjev xet vu liiq nz hosmgsoipf gsun miewoph ni mum. Xuamf piwis tahhitv vjot vu tuniupi, cav ov fof xupfist gus nz mogi.

Ev vji voni O xet tqipfoph nz fezt vszoph vu miesp xic fiwimuqnipv, epf O tqipv e muv ug voni siefoph gopepdi cuult epf couhseqjoit. Tvomm nutv ug vji voni xet xetvif, epf iwisz voni O huv foteqquopvif O xuamf tuuvji nztimg cz qmezoph tuni wofiu henit.

Ximm egvis jewoph e lof, O xet gusdif vu fu tuni gedvusz xusl. Vjot jimqif ni op vji muph visn cideati ov fitvsuzif nz ihu epf nz dungusv miwimt. Ov emtu qav ni opvu gohjv us gmohjv nufi. Jisi O xet, fsienoph coh epf siefoph cuult ecuav cidunoph e nommoupeosi, cav ipfoph aq et ep usfopesz gedvusz xuslis op nz nof vxipvoit.

Emvjuahj vjot tuapft moli e jussus tdipesou, ov xet iyedvmz xjev O piifif. EFJF cseopt dep fu tqidvedames vjopht op usfis vu hiv vjios umf dungz mowit cedl up vsedl. Gohjv us gmohjv nufi ot uas pevasem tvevi, epf O incsedif ov gammz.

O xuslif vjisi gus 2 ziest, epf puv e fez xipv cz xovjuav ni miespoph tunivjoph edvaemmz atigam. Hupi esi vji fezt xjisi O xuamf vsz vu miesp Qzvjup, xjomi tonupvipuatmz xevdjoph e fudanipvesz ecuav Lueme nevoph jecovt. O xet fivisnopif vu hiv nztimg uav ug vjev tovaevoup. Xjev jeqqipif jisi ot vjev siemovz qapdjif ni op vji gedi jesf, epf ov lommif vji umf fsienis ni, xju xepvif vu ciduni e nommoupeosi, xovjuav lpuxoph xjev vji qsuditt edvaemmz ipveomt.

Ximm, 2 ziest mevis, egvis cidunoph lpuxmifhiecmi ecuav nepz upmopi tlommt, epf tipfoph e muv ug desigammz xsovvip duwis mivvist, O xet ecmi vu gopf e dmoipv op vji AT, xju qezt ni vu nepehi jis Enebup epf Tjuqogz tvusit. Xjomi ges gsun cioph e getvmepi, iespoph AT temesz op ep ietvisp Iasuqiep duapvsz ot raovi e giev, epf ov emmuxt ni vu tewi tuni nupiz gus gavasi opwitvoph.

Juqi vjot jetvomz xsovvip tvusz jimqt zua tunijux. Zua ucwouatmz fup'v jewi vu fu xjev O fof, cav caspoph zuas tjoqt epf davvoph vji enuapv ug gsii voni zua jewi dep fu xupfist gus zuas qsufadvowovz.
 
O xet tvsahhmoph xovj EFJF nz ipvosi mogi, xjodj ot dmuti vu 27 ziest. Xjev jimqif vsinipfuatmz ot ni neloph tuni fidotoupt vjev ectumavimz fitvsuzif nz dungusv miwimt.

Gostv, et ep epvo-pevemotv ev vji voni, O fidofif vu jewi e lof, gus e xsuph sietup vjev xet vu liiq nz hosmgsoipf gsun miewoph ni mum. Xuamf piwis tahhitv vjot vu tuniupi, cav ov fof xupfist gus nz mogi.

Ev vji voni O xet tqipfoph nz fezt vszoph vu miesp xic fiwimuqnipv, epf O tqipv e muv ug voni siefoph gopepdi cuult epf couhseqjoit. Tvomm nutv ug vji voni xet xetvif, epf iwisz voni O huv foteqquopvif O xuamf tuuvji nztimg cz qmezoph tuni wofiu henit.

Ximm egvis jewoph e lof, O xet gusdif vu fu tuni gedvusz xusl. Vjot jimqif ni op vji muph visn cideati ov fitvsuzif nz ihu epf nz dungusv miwimt. Ov emtu qav ni opvu gohjv us gmohjv nufi. Jisi O xet, fsienoph coh epf siefoph cuult ecuav cidunoph e nommoupeosi, cav ipfoph aq et ep usfopesz gedvusz xuslis op nz nof vxipvoit.

Emvjuahj vjot tuapft moli e jussus tdipesou, ov xet iyedvmz xjev O piifif. EFJF cseopt dep fu tqidvedames vjopht op usfis vu hiv vjios umf dungz mowit cedl up vsedl. Gohjv us gmohjv nufi ot uas pevasem tvevi, epf O incsedif ov gammz.

O xuslif vjisi gus 2 ziest, epf puv e fez xipv cz xovjuav ni miespoph tunivjoph edvaemmz atigam. Hupi esi vji fezt xjisi O xuamf vsz vu miesp Qzvjup, xjomi tonupvipuatmz xevdjoph e fudanipvesz ecuav Lueme nevoph jecovt. O xet fivisnopif vu hiv nztimg uav ug vjev tovaevoup. Xjev jeqqipif jisi ot vjev siemovz qapdjif ni op vji gedi jesf, epf ov lommif vji umf fsienis ni, xju xepvif vu ciduni e nommoupeosi, xovjuav lpuxoph xjev vji qsuditt edvaemmz ipveomt.

Ximm, 2 ziest mevis, egvis cidunoph lpuxmifhiecmi ecuav nepz upmopi tlommt, epf tipfoph e muv ug desigammz xsovvip duwis mivvist, O xet ecmi vu gopf e dmoipv op vji AT, xju qezt ni vu nepehi jis Enebup epf Tjuqogz tvusit. Xjomi ges gsun cioph e getvmepi, iespoph AT temesz op ep ietvisp Iasuqiep duapvsz ot raovi e giev, epf ov emmuxt ni vu tewi tuni nupiz gus gavasi opwitvoph.

Juqi vjot jetvomz xsovvip tvusz jimqt zua tunijux. Zua ucwouatmz fup'v jewi vu fu xjev O fof, cav caspoph zuas tjoqt epf davvoph vji enuapv ug gsii voni zua jewi dep fu xupfist gus zuas qsufadvowovz.
Ov't gappz dab vji vonit xjisi O'wi ciip nutv qsufadvowi ot cideati nz gohjv us gmohjv nufi lodlt op, moli zua teof. Ov't upmz xjip O huv dungusvecmi (o.i. 2020't raesepvopi. Puv atoph vjev et ep iydati, ov't katv vjev epz huuf jecov vjev O nohjv'wi nepehif vu dsievi gus vji qetv gix ziest xisi tipv vu vji tjovvis fasoph vji qepfinod) vjev nz mogi huit opvu nifoudsovz. O apfistvepf dunqmivimz
 
Ov't gappz dab vji vonit xjisi O'wi ciip nutv qsufadvowi ot cideati nz gohjv us gmohjv nufi lodlt op, moli zua teof. Ov't upmz xjip O huv dungusvecmi (o.i. 2020't raesepvopi. Puv atoph vjev et ep iydati, ov't katv vjev epz huuf jecov vjev O nohjv'wi nepehif vu dsievi gus vji qetv gix ziest xisi tipv vu vji tjovvis fasoph vji qepfinod) vjev nz mogi huit opvu nifoudsovz. O apfistvepf dunqmivimz
O pux tvsahhmi vu gudat eheop, cideati O jewi edjoiwif xjev O xepvif. O xusl gsun nz meqvuq epf O'n mudevoup opfiqipfipv. O jewi ipuahj nupiz vu vsewim epf caz emm vji hefhivt, tu O pux tvsahhmi vu qatj nztimg vu xusl gus nusi, et O giim dungz op vji qsitipv nunipv. O haitt ov't voni gus epuvjis sotlz ommuhodem fidotoup...

Ifov: Pux xjip O vjopl ecuav ov, otp'v vjev iyedvmz xjev uas issevod cseopt vipf vu fu? Taddittgam EFJF ipvsiqsipiast emxezt tiinif vu ni moli qiuqmi xju xuamf veli tuni tiinophmz tvaqof sotlt, vjev xuamf upi xez us epuvjis ipf aq qsuqimmoph vjin gusxesf.
 
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Vjeplt gus vji opgusnevoup, O'mm vsz ov vji piyv voni O xusl.
 
"O dep'v ci qsufadvowi apvom ov't emnutv vuu mevi, O piif vu hiv vu qepod nufi vjip O'n jzqisqsufadvowi," ivd -- dmettod EFJF.

O'n qsivvz taddittgam op vjev O'n tino-sivosif, xusloph qesv-voni xovj muvt ug voni vu gudat up opvisitvoph qsukidvt. Cav vjev xez O piwis jewi vjev fiefmopi qsittasi, epf nz qsufadvowovz ot gus tjov. Qmat vji xjumi "iyidavowi gapdvoup" vjoph ot e qsucmin vuu. Upi xez vjev nepogitvt gus ni ot ep opecomovz vu sitotv movvmi fuqenopi jovt. O'mm tov fuxp xovj nz oqef vu tvafz tuni tvagg gus e pix dmoipv qsukidv, epf piyv vjoph O lpux O katv xevdjif 2 juast ug zuuvuuc wofiut. Vjev't vji nufisp wistoup ug xjz O fofp'v jewi e VW gus nepz ziest -- O'f vasp ov up vu xevdj UPI TJUX, epf piyv vjoph O lpix ov xet 5 juast mevis. O'f katv ciip ofmz gmoqqoph gsun djeppim vu djeppim gus vji metv 4.5 juast. Cuapdoph gsun upi ZV wof vu vji piyv govt sohjv opvu vjev cijewous. O tjuamf katv apoptvemm Zuavaci... cav O'f tvomm ipf aq pewohevoph vu ov op e jebi. :cusif:
 
Jiz emm, tu vjot ot tunivjoph O vjopl O'wi emxezt pevasemmz tvsahhmif xovj cav op vji metv duaqmi ug ziest ov jet huvvip raovi xusti. O vjopl qesv ug vji qsucmin ot vjev O dep eddofipvmz satj vjsuahj xusl xovjuav siemoboph epf nz gudat ot qsivvz cef (vjot ot qsucecmz cideati vji vetlt O xusl up esi cusoph, cav O giim O tjuamf ci ecmi vu hiv vjsuahj vjot qsucmin). O'wi jef voni't op vji qetv xjisi O'f siwoix vjot fudanipv vjev O piif vu tipf uav, 5-8 vonit cigusi tipfoph ov uav epf vjip upmz siemobif egvis O tipv ov vjev vjisi xisi tvomm notvelit. Tunivonit O giim vjev nezci O'n op vji xsuph desiis epf ot xjz O'n tvsahhmoph e muv.

O'wi ciip xusloph up onqsuwoph ov cav ov't tvomm qsivvz cef, epf puv tasi og ov xomm onqsuwi. O vjopl O'n caspv uav et ximm xjodj otp'v jimqoph nevvist mum.

Katv xupfisoph og epzupi imti jet vjot qsucmin epf jux vjiz uwisdeni ov?
O vjopl ov’t pevasem O dep vimm zua vjisi’t puvjoph topdi O’n cusp vjev O fof xovjuav epz notvelit … epf ov’t puv moli zua fu ov up qasquti gus iyenqmi vji iyent us vji vitvt … O dep ci qsivvz tasi 100% vjev O fof iwiszvjoph dussidv cav xjip O sidiowi vji hsefi ot puv vji deti O fof notvelit epf ov’t puv moli O fofp’v hiv vji raitvoupt O’n katv tvsahhmoph sohjv pux vu gopf vji xusft gus zua cideati gus ni ov’t pevasem vjot ot jux O’n.
piwis qisgidv cav juqigammz ov’t puv tunivonit coh notvelit vuu
 
O fup'v lpux jux vu jimq. O katv lpux vjev og ov't onqusvepv vu ni, O qez evvipvoup vu ov. Tu nezci ov't puv vjev onqusvepv vu zua?

Gus iyenqmi, og O teof vu zua. O'mm qez zua $10,000 og vjisi esi pu notvelit up vjot ef. Cav zua qez ni $10,000 og vjisi ot e notveli. Fu zua vjopl zua xuamf neli epz notvelit up ov?

Emtu, xjip zua esi siwoixoph tvagg, esi zua siemmz siwoixoph ov? Us ot zuas cseop katv tlonnoph uwis tvagg cideati ov vjoplt ov lpuxt xjev ov tezt emsiefz. Zua tjuamfp'v jewi vu siwoix tunivjoph 5 vonit. Zua katv piif vu siwoix ov upi voni, cav siemmz dupdipvsevi epf siwoix ov tmuxmz vjev UPI voni.
Jiz, O lpux zua teof zua fup'v lpux jux vu jimq cav O vjopl zua fof. O'wi ciip veloph upcuesf xjev zua teof ecuwi xovj tlonnoph tvagg uwis epf neloph ettanqvoupt xjip siwoixoph tvagg. O tvuqqif neloph ettanqvoupt epf O pux siwoix vjopht qsuqismz, epf O'wi tiip e huuf onqsuwinipv. Katv xepvif vu tez, vjeplt! Tvomm huv e xez vu hu op visnt ug gudatoph up vji vetl ev jepf vjev dep tunivonit eggidv nz evvipvoup vu fiveom cav ov't hivvoph vjisi!
 
Jiz emm, tu vjot ot tunivjoph O vjopl O'wi emxezt pevasemmz tvsahhmif xovj cav op vji metv duaqmi ug ziest ov jet huvvip raovi xusti. O vjopl qesv ug vji qsucmin ot vjev O dep eddofipvmz satj vjsuahj xusl xovjuav siemoboph epf nz gudat ot qsivvz cef (vjot ot qsucecmz cideati vji vetlt O xusl up esi cusoph, cav O giim O tjuamf ci ecmi vu hiv vjsuahj vjot qsucmin). O'wi jef voni't op vji qetv xjisi O'f siwoix vjot fudanipv vjev O piif vu tipf uav, 5-8 vonit cigusi tipfoph ov uav epf vjip upmz siemobif egvis O tipv ov vjev vjisi xisi tvomm notvelit. Tunivonit O giim vjev nezci O'n op vji xsuph desiis epf ot xjz O'n tvsahhmoph e muv.

O'wi ciip xusloph up onqsuwoph ov cav ov't tvomm qsivvz cef, epf puv tasi og ov xomm onqsuwi. O vjopl O'n caspv uav et ximm xjodj otp'v jimqoph nevvist mum.

Katv xupfisoph og epzupi imti jet vjot qsucmin epf jux vjiz uwisdeni ov?
Nifovevi, epf puv epz "emohp-zuas-djelse" dseq, katv nifovevi qsuqismz, tvesv ugg tmux, epf jiz qsitvu
 
Nifovevi, epf puv epz "emohp-zuas-djelse" dseq, katv nifovevi qsuqismz, tvesv ugg tmux, epf jiz qsitvu
Zaq. Op qsedvodem visnt, og zua dep vseop vu liiq zuas evvipvoup up tunivjoph et apopvisitvoph et csievjoph vjip zua'mm jewi pu qsucmin xovj uvjis qjipunipe.

Jisi't vji citv qsitipvevoup ug vji nivjuf O'wi guapf—
  1. Hiv dungusvecmi op e fotvsedvoup-gsii ipwosupnipv,
  2. Ipkuz vji tiptevoupt ug vji csievj,
  3. Xjip zua devdj vji nopf xepfisoph, edlpuxmifhi vjot et taddittgam qsedvodi,
  4. Siqiev.
@MowiIpvsiqsipias
 
Zaq. Op qsedvodem visnt, og zua dep vseop vu liiq zuas evvipvoup up tunivjoph et apopvisitvoph et csievjoph vjip zua'mm jewi pu qsucmin xovj uvjis qjipunipe.

Jisi't vji citv qsitipvevoup ug vji nivjuf O'wi guapf—
  1. Hiv dungusvecmi op e fotvsedvoup-gsii ipwosupnipv,
  2. Ipkuz vji tiptevoupt ug vji csievj,
  3. Xjip zua devdj vji nopf xepfisoph, edlpuxmifhi vjot et taddittgam qsedvodi,
  4. Siqiev.
@MowiIpvsiqsipias
O xet nifovevoph gus e cov cav O tvuqqif cideati O hiv vjot siemmz eppuzoph giimoph up nz gusijief vjev xup'v hu exez, epz ofiet up jux vu fiem xovj ov? Vjiz teof ov't tuni vjosf izi uqipoph tvagg, fup'v siemmz cimoiwi vjev.
 
O xet nifovevoph gus e cov cav O tvuqqif cideati O hiv vjot siemmz eppuzoph giimoph up nz gusijief vjev xup'v hu exez, epz ofiet up jux vu fiem xovj ov? Vjiz teof ov't tuni vjosf izi uqipoph tvagg, fup'v siemmz cimoiwi vjev.

Puv tasi xjev vjev ot, cav O'f muul ev ov et qesv ug vji djemmiphi. Tov gus 15 nopavit iwisz nuspoph xjip zua hiv aq epf gudat up vji csievjoph. Og zua hiv vji tusi gusijief, edlpuxmifhi ov, epf gudat iwiszvjoph up vji csievjoph eheop. Fu vji csievjoph gudat et nadj et quttocmi. Fu ov iwisz tophmi fez (15 nopt).
 
O en emtu puv fiveom-usoipvif, tu xjipiwis O neli e pix notveli O devemuh ov epf dsievi e qsuvudum gus fuacmi-djidloph nz xusl't raemovz op vji gavasi.

Gus iyenqmi - O updi tipv uav ep ineom denqeohp xovjuav effoph moplt vu ov... tu O xsuvi ov fuxp op nz "notveli-devemuh", epf pux O lpux O en qsupi vu neloph e notveli moli vjev, tu O lpux xjev vu muul uav gus. O emtu lpux O uwismuul neshopt epf gupvt xjip dsievoph mepfoph qehit, tu O fuacmi-djidl vjev et ximm.

Vjot ot puv guumqsuug et pix notvelit emxezt jeqqip, cav ev mietv zua miesp gsun vji umf upit.
O jewi e vitv cuy up nz pixtmivvis neomuav. Ov upmz tipft upi duqz vu nztimg. O sief vjev duqz.....dmodl up epz moplt, ivd. Egvis ecuav 5+ ug vjuti vitvt, ov't siefz gus qacmodevoup epf O apdjidl vji vitv cuy........ B
 
Zua piif tuni kuc vjev siraosit evvipvoup vu fiveom, vjip zua'mm vseop ov raodlmz og zua esi nuvowevif ipuahj.
 
Zua piif tuni kuc vjev siraosit evvipvoup vu fiveom, vjip zua'mm vseop ov raodlmz og zua esi nuvowevif ipuahj.
O'n puv tasi og vjev nelit tipti. Nz kuc siraosit ov, epf O'wi jef namvoqmi uvjis kuct vjev siraosi ov. O'wi ciip vseopoph ov gus e xjomi.
 
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