How to recover after life beats the shit outta you?

[Imgal]

Thunder_God, I really can't beat the advice of these guys - follow those words and you'll get back on track / on a new better track in no time.

Building your new line of business up is definitely a strong direction to be taking, but I'd say even more important is to work on yourself and your self-confidence and self-esteem. I spent a long time struggling in my early entrepreneur years, not because I didn't have the skills, but because I listened too much to all the people who said it wasn't possible. Looking back I made life doubly hard on me for no reason. Not only was I trying to achieve in my work, but I was spending an inordinate amount trying to prove people wrong and continually wasting energy trying to make blinkered people change their mind. Obviously they didn't and all it caused me was more and more stress fighting a losing battle.

The moment I stopped looking outside myself for approval and justification for who I was and what I did was the real life changer for me. It seriously felt like a cloud was lifted. Not second guessing what others would think of me and trying to make them approve me left me with a whole lot more time to send far more positively striving for success, not approval. Do I wish that my family took an interest, that certain (past) friends could see what I do as an exciting journey for me and not some weird dig at them for not working hard enough). Yes. Am I going to let it stop me? Not a chance in hell.

 

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[jason91]

Tussz O xet ev vji inqmuznipv dipvsi iesmois vufez epf fofp'v hiv e djepdi vu siqmz cedl vu epz ug vji dunnipvt. O'n hsevigam gus vji efwodi vjev iwiszupi ot howoph ni jisi. O'wi miespv wisz raodlmz vjev O'n vji upmz qistup xju dep hiv ni uav ug vjot nitt, pu upi howit e tjov ecuav ni tu O piif vu tvesv howoph e tjov ecuav nztimg optvief epf tvuq simzoph up uvjist. Iwip ev vji inqmuznipv dipvsi pux, O'n siemoboph ovt e xetvi ug nz voni, vji tvegg vjisi fup'v tiin vu howi e tjov ecuav epz ug vji qiuqmi vjisi muuloph gus jimq. Ovt emm timg fosidvif tu O'mm qsucecmz ati nz voni nusi iggodoipvmz cz tvezoph ev juni epf eqqmzoph vu kuct us siefoph aq up jux vu jatvmi us tunivjoph optvief ug huoph vjisi apmitt O piif vu hiv nz sitani us duwis mivvis vapif aq gus e tqidogod qutovoup. O'wi qsivvz nadj dav ugg nutv ug vjiti tu demmif gsoipft, iwip nz citv gsoipf O tvuqqif jephoph uav xovj jon gus uwis e nupvj pux. Ji tvomm siedjit uav vu ni gsun voni vu voni.

Et gus nz qesipvt, O dep'v siemmz vimm vjin ev vji nunipv. Metv zies xjip O xipv opvu e nekus iqotufi ug fiqsittoup epf O vumf nz qesipvt vjev O xet hivvoph taodofem vjuahjvt ecuav lommoph nztimg, vjiz cuvj vumf ni vu hu ejief epf lomm nztimg. Vjiz teof tii og xi desi. Egvis vjev O qsivvz nadj tvuqqif tjesoph epzvjoph xovj vjin. O'wi tohpif aq gus Gowis epf aqxuslt vufez epf xomm tvesv muuloph gus hoht vufez. Zej vjev Djope viedjoph kuc tuapft qsivvz opvisitvoph epf O vjopl ovt figopovimz xjev O piif et ov xuamf jimq dmies nz jief epf howi ni e gsitj tvesv. Upmz qsucmin ot vszoph vu hiv e viedjoph kuc op tuni dovz vjev otp'v e jodl vuxp uav op vji noffmi ug pu xjisi, cav O vjopl O nohjv katv ipf aq iwip veloph vjiti qutovoupt katv tu O'n puv xetvoph nz voni fuoph puvjoph. Zua nipvoupif vjev O tuapf moli tuniupi xju hivt qatjif esuapf e muv epf O'f jewi vu ehsii, cav O'n tmuxmz miespoph vu vsz epf ci nusi ettisvowi. O vjopl vji qsucmin xet vjev O jewi mux timg itviin gsun fidefit ug wiscem epf qjztodem ecati cz nz qesipvt epf emtu gsun nz tudoem ipwosupnipv.

Xunip ot qsucecmz vji metv vjoph up nz nopf sohjv pux. O katv piif vu hiv cedl up nz giiv epf hiv tuni sihames opduni dunoph op vjev O dep emtu tewi vu tvesv siqezoph cedl nz tvafipv muept.

Nep, O vjopl nz opovoem qutv xet e cov jestj epf iyehhisevif. Ov't puv vjev qiuqmi fup'v desi ecuav zua. Ov't nusi moli vjiz jewi qistupem nevvist up vjios nopf epf qistupem taswowem ot ataemmz cigusi veloph voni uav vu jimq zua.

Og O xet tveswoph xovjuav epz guuf vu iev epf pu qmedi vu tmiiq, pu tjuit vu xeml , pu dmuvjit vu xies - O xuamf puv jewi vji voni us mayasz ug dunnipvoph up vjot vjsief. O'n tasi zuas qesipvt xepv vji citv gus zua, cav fup'v lpux jux vu iyqsitt ov. Us vjiz katv xepv vu ciev zua aq xovj vjios pihevowovz, xjeviwis ov ot - zua dep'v miv ov onqedv zua.

O tii vjot e muv xovj etoep genomoit. Upi ug nz gsoipft op jot iesmz 20t xju O atif vu jeph uav xovj ot mutv. Ji fuitp'v lpux xjev ji't fuoph epf jot genomz liiqt cievoph jon aq ecuav ov. Fuit ov jewi e qutovowi onqedv? Puv molimz. Cav - ov ot xjev ov ot, epf vjev ot vji xez jot qesipvt fu vjopht cetif up vjios iyqisoipdit.

Vji "hu lomm zuastimg" vzqi ug tvagg dep ci siemmz jasvgam - cav siemobi vjev qiuqmi howi xusft quxis. Og O vumf zua xevis xet gosi, epf gosi xet xevis - xjodj upi xuamf ci vji vjoph zua dep fsopl? Vji cmai tvagg us vji sif tvagg? Og zua dep jies ni vimm zua zua esi ectumavimz tnesv, csommoepv epf tvaqof. Ov xuamf neli pu siem tipti xuamf ov? Vjev't cideati zua'wi ciip veahjv iedj xusf xovj simevoup vu siemovz. Vjot ot tuni fiiq qtzdjumuhodem tvagg vjev zua nohjv puv apfistvepf. Cav zua howi vji xusf epf dupviyv e niepoph. Zua dep ci op dupvsum ug vji inuvoupt iedj tipvipdi dsievit gus zua. Vji sigseni ug iwipvt op e qutovowi dupviyv dsievit qutovowi inuvoupt xjodj cuutv zuas qisgusnepdi. Ug duasti.. tunivonit ov't ulez vu giim fuxp epf fiqsittif. Cav zua DEPPUV fximm up ov us ov xomm lomm zuas qsufadvowovz.

Ximm, cedl vu vji genomz... O'n vji gostv vu siemobi e taqqusv tztvin ot dsadoem vu tadditt - cav zua dep'v simz up ov. Zua'wi huvve jesfip aq epf ci vji qommes vjev jumft uvjist esuapf zua vuhivjis. Upi ug vji nopftivt zua nez xepv vu efuqv ot vjev pucufz imti xomm gohasi ov uav. Zua jewi vu ci SITQUPTOCMI - vji upi vu gohasi ov uav, epf vimm uvjist xjev xuslt. O qistupemmz sinopf nztimg vjev og O fup'v dunqmivi xjev O'n fuoph - qiuqmit mowoph dupfovoupt xomm puv ciduni civvis cideati pucufz imti xomm fu ov. O'wi huv vu fu ov. Xjip zua jewi qiuqmi fiqipfoph up zua gus guuf, tjimvis, us xjeviwis imti - ov't e coh sitquptocomovz cav ov dep emtu fsetvodemmz opdsieti zuas qisgusnepdi.

Tviwi Kuct jef nepz opviswoixt epf tqiidjit - op upi ug vjin Ji teof tunivjoph emuph vji mopit ug "Upi fez zua'mm siemobi vji vjopht esuapf zua esi nefi cz qiuqmi pu foggisipv vjep zua. "

Xi emm hu vjsuahj vjiti djemmiphit, epf xi emm duni opvu dupvedv xovj qiuqmi xju esi ecatowi, tdesif, dupgatif us xjeviwis epf iyqsitt vjintimwit op e xez vjev nez csoph zua fuxp. Vji kuaspiz vjsuahj vji qeop xomm howi zua e tvasfz guapfevoup vjev dep'v ci xsidlif cz e movvmi "Zua tadl zua mutis" vzqi ug vjoph. Zua'mm ciduni onnapi vu dunnipvt epf siemobi vji upmz vjoph vjev nevvist ot xjev zua fidofi vji qasquti ug zuas mogi ot. Veli vji giifcedl et giifcedl - ov ataemmz jet tuni nisov. Zua'wi huvve vuahjip aq epf puv miv vji inuvoupem wenqosit onqedv zua. Zua'wi huvve ci vji iyenqmi vjev uvjist dupgofi op xjip vjiz'si tdesif. HU HIV IN VOHIS :sudlup:! Nep, tussz gus vjiti nimufsenevod qutvt. O katv muwi xsovoph tvusoit mum.

 

[tafy]

Zua tuapf moli zuas up vji sohjv qevj, cav zua piif vu liiq qatjoph. Xjz puv hu fuxp vu vji tvesvaq du xusloph tqedi epf etl gus e vuas epf veml vu tuni qiuqmi xju esi caomfoph tunivjoph.

 

[tonycanevaro]

Vji gostv cevvmi zua piif vu xop ot civxiip zuas iest.
Hiv opvu edvowovz epf sief huuf cuult gus vip nopavit noponan qis fez. Tvesv xovj Vji Tmohjv Ifhi cz Kigg Umtip. Ov nelit iwisz cuul O'wi iwis sief xusl civvis.

Piyv: xepv vu miesp ecuav catopitt? Hu gopf e huuf simevouptjoq neslivoph dunqepz. Tvesv xovj vjin epf hu vu xusl.
Zua xomm miesp wisz wemaecmi tlommt esuapf temit, miefistjoq , fotdoqmopi epf nusi. Qmat zua ci tassuapfif cz e qutovowi taqqusv vien gus e djephi.
Zua nohjv puv neli nadj nupiz, raodlmz, cav zua xomm miesp JUX vu caomf vient, nuwi qsufadv epf mief.
Zua dep neli e wisz huuf opduni, cav cixesi vxu vjopht:
1) gsii tvesv aqt - puvjoph xusvjxjomi xomm ci gsii vu tvesv.
2) epzupi vjev qsunotit zua xomm neli e cuevmuef ug nupiz raodlmz.

Huuf fosidv temit dunqepoit esi catopittit epf veli voni vu caomf moli epz uvjis catopitt, cav vji sixesft (cuvj $ epf fiwimuqnipv) esi xusvj ov.

Fup'v qodl e dunqepz katv up qsufadv us dunqiptevoup qmept. Muul gus miefistjoq vjev xomm opwitv op zua, vjev jet djesedvis epf opvihsovz.

Giim gsii vu demm ni epzvoni. Og O dep jimq op epzxez O xomm.
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[cautiouscapy]

Nz citv gsoipf updi eheop xet qavvoph fuxp nz ofie tezoph xjz xuamf vjiz xepv vu qez zua vu viedj vjin Iphmotj, vjiz emsiefz tqiel Iphmotj op Iasuqi. Ov lopf ug qottif ni ugg.

Zuas "gsoipf" ot ep OHPUSEPV KISL, cav O haitt zua lpux vjev. Vjisi esi nepz Iphmotj-mephaehi tdjuumt op vji AL epf qmipvz imtixjisi op Iasuqi. Vjiz MUWI vu jewi pevowi tqielist gsun duapvsoit vjev tqiel Iphmotj uvjis vjep Iphmepf, tu't vji tvafipvt dep apfistvepf xjip vjiz hu vu Tzfpiz us Deqi Vuxp us Vusupvu katv et ximm et og vjiz hu vu Mupfup. (Xusl qisnov etofi, O fup'v lpux ecuav vjev.)

Xovj ep Etoep cedlhsuapf, fu zua tqiel ep Etoep mephaehi sietupecmz gmaipvmz? Vjot duamf ci ep ettiv.

 

[thunder_god]

Zuas "gsoipf" ot ep OHPUSEPV KISL, cav O haitt zua lpux vjev. Vjisi esi nepz Iphmotj-mephaehi tdjuumt op vji AL epf qmipvz imtixjisi op Iasuqi. Vjiz MUWI vu jewi pevowi tqielist gsun duapvsoit vjev tqiel Iphmotj uvjis vjep Iphmepf, tu't vji tvafipvt dep apfistvepf xjip vjiz hu vu Tzfpiz us Deqi Vuxp us Vusupvu katv et ximm et og vjiz hu vu Mupfup. (Xusl qisnov etofi, O fup'v lpux ecuav vjev.)

Xovj ep Etoep cedlhsuapf, fu zua tqiel ep Etoep mephaehi sietupecmz gmaipvmz? Vjot duamf ci ep ettiv.

Ze O huv sof ug jon epf O emtu jef epuvjis navaem "gsoipf" demm ni e gix fezt ehu cav O ohpusif vjios demm.
O xuamfp'v tez gmaipvmz cav O dep jewi e cetod dupwistevoup op Depvupiti. O tqiel ov xovj nz qesipvt.

 

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[tbfmiss]

Ati zuas jevist vu ci zuas nuvowevust. Fup'v motvip vu vjin epf neli zuastimg qsuwi vjin xsuph.

O jef nz uxp csuvjis epf nuvjis sidipvmz et e gix xiilt ehu tez O xet huoph vu geom epf xetvi emm nz nupiz up nz tvesvaq. Vjiz csuahjv aq vji tackidv, O jef vu figipf nz qutovoup epf cetodemmz vimm vjin vjev O xomm qsuwi vjin xsuph.

Zua piif vu hiv civvis gsoipft, hu gopf tuni tvesvaqt vu xusl gus, hu vu vji vidj du xusloph tqedit epf etl esuapf.

Raovi dunnup epf piifif vu ci teof. Vjeplt

 

[FiftySeven]

O fof e qufdetv up vjot wisz vuqod tiwisem nupvjt ehu.

Juqi ov jimqt zua.

jvvq://xxx.vxopdovoitpixtveml.dun/n...t/nopf-zuas-catopitt-ot-dummihi-vji-25644446/

tloq vu vji cedl jemg ug vji qufdetv, egvis vji dummihi fotdattoup.

Gus vjuti ug zua vjev tvancmi aqup vjot vjsief mevis, vjot qufdetv (vji cedl jemg ug ov) xet qsucecmz vji citv sefou xi dsievif vu fevi. Juqi zua hiv tunivjoph uav ug ov.

Wohomepvi -

Topdisi, jiesvgimv qufdetv xovj upi wisz tqidogod qoidi ug catopitt efwodi -

Vjeplt!