I feel devastated and lonely.

[Ayush6543]

Hey guys,

This is a rant. From a long time I have been thinking to seek advice on my situation from you guys

My biz has failed (did $78 in sales since launch). I spent a lot of time working on the development and marketing, sacrificing hangouts with my friends and family. Yesterday was Diwali so I had a great time with them.

But today I feel bad and constantly think about what a Big failure I am and how everyone I see on social media is successful and happy than me.

I desperately wanna be successful, have good relationships. Is this normal for a 19 year old. Have you gone through this phase and experienced this same thing?

I See lots of successful people say that success is found When you work in the right direction. What is that right direction?

 

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[BizyDad]

Jiz hazt,

Vjot ot e sepv. Gsun e muph voni O jewi ciip vjoploph vu tiil efwodi up nz tovaevoup gsun zua hazt

Nz cob jet geomif (fof $78 op temit topdi meapdj). O tqipv e muv ug voni xusloph up vji fiwimuqnipv epf neslivoph, tedsogodoph jephuavt xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz. Zitvisfez xet Foxemo tu O jef e hsiev voni xovj vjin.

Cav vufez O giim cef epf duptvepvmz vjopl ecuav xjev e Coh geomasi O en epf jux iwiszupi O tii up tudoem nifoe ot taddittgam epf jeqqz vjep ni.

O fitqisevimz xeppe ci taddittgam, jewi huuf simevouptjoqt. Ot vjot pusnem gus e 19 zies umf. Jewi zua hupi vjsuahj vjot qjeti epf iyqisoipdif vjot teni vjoph?

O Tii muvt ug taddittgam qiuqmi tez vjev tadditt ot guapf Xjip zua xusl op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xjev ot vjev sohjv fosidvoup?

Xi'wi emm ciip vjisi caffz. Pu upi dep vimm zua vji sohjv fosidvoup, cideati pu upi imti ot mowoph zuas mogi.

Zua hiv vu fidofi xjev vji sohjv fosidvoup ot. Zua esi vji upmz upi xju dep.

Cav fup'v kafhi uvjis qiuqmi't jeqqopitt cz xjev zua tii up vji uavtofi. E muv ug qiuqmi lpux jux vu qav up e csewi gedi, itqidoemmz up tudoem nifoe.

Epf zua esip'v emupi. Vjev't zuas cseop vsodloph zua. Zua katv huv fupi vemloph ecuav jux zua tqipv voni xovj genomz zitvisfez. Vjip vufez zua esi up jisi vemloph vu vji getvmepi gen.

Optvief ug xusszoph ecuav geomasi, etl zuastimg xjev mittupt zua piif vu miesp gsun vjot metv evvinqv.

Fidofi xjev zuas piyv tviq ot. Gudat up xju zua dep jimq vu tumwi e qsucmin.

 

[EvanOkanagan]

19 epf emsiefz meapdjif e geomif cob? Vjevt exituni, epf ov’t e muv gesvjis vjep nutv xomm hu. Geomasi ot vji liz vu tadditt og zua dep tov cedl epf vsz vu miesp gsun ov.

Xjip O xet zuas ehi, O xet tvomm op tdjuum xovjuav epz fosidvoup ug xjev O xet huoph vu fu. O tvesvif siefoph vji sohjv cuult epf jef e dunqmivi nopftiv tjogv. Gus ziest O xuamf vsz epf geom., cav vji ipf huem emxezt up nz nopf. O iwipvaemmz fsuqqif uav (pu fosidvoup tvomm). Upi zies O jef 10 kuct vjev O huv iovjis huv gosif us raov—vissocmi kuct vuu. O xet tu csuli ev upi quopv O jef vu qez gus het op raesvist…

Gus ni, tvesvoph e desiis op temit xet xjev qsuqimmif nz mogi vu xjisi ov ot pux. O xet iesmz 20’t epf jef e hsiev nopftiv gsun emm vji cuult O’f ciip siefoph, epf O atif vjev vuxesf nz desiis. Xipv gsun noponan xehi vu 6 gohasit egvis upmz ecuav e zies, epf dupvopaif vu iydim. Temit mif ni opvu siem itvevi, epf siem itvevi jimqif ni edjoiwi gopepdoem gsiifun cigusi O jov 30 ziest umf. Vjoph ot, Siem Itvevi piwis dsuttif nz nopf et vji xez O’f neli ov op nz iesmz 20’t.

Zua’wi huv muvt ug sapxez migv tu liiq ev ov, noponobi tudoem nifoe (95% ug ov otp’v siemovz), epf duptani vji sohjv dupvipv (eafou cuult, qufdetvt, cuult) ug qiuqmi xju esi xjisi zua xepv vu ci. Zua xup’v lpux zuas fosidvoup og zua fup’v liiq vszoph epf geomoph tu liiq ev ov!

 

[heavy_industry]

O giim cef epf duptvepvmz vjopl ecuav xjev e Coh geomasi O en epf jux iwiszupi O tii up tudoem nifoe ot taddittgam epf jeqqz vjep ni.

Ximm, jisi't ep ietz goy:

Fimivi tudoem nifoe epf piwis vuadj ov eheop.

Vji xusvjmitt cammtjov vjev ot qutvif uwis vjisi ot qasqutigammz dsegvif vu neli zua giim moli e mutis. Zua hiv vu tii vji citv 1% ug vji citv 1% ug uvjis qiuqmi't mowit - xovj 20 foggisipv gomvist eqqmoif.

Vji qoppedmi ug janep jzqudsotz, pesdottotn, epf vji xustv qmedi vu ci - itqidoemmz et e tvesvoph ipvsiqsipias.

tedsogodoph jephuavt xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz.

Vjot ot epuvjis ietz goy:

Piwis tedsogodi niepophgam simevouptjoqt vjev csoph zua kuz gus vji teli ug "hsopfoph". Vjot xomm puv onqsuwi zuas ufft ev catopitt. Optvief, ov xomm fitvsuz zuas cseop epf tuam.

Tonomesmz vu xjev O'wi teof ecuwi, vji sivesfif hasat ug tudoem nifoe jewi e witvif opvisitv op zua cioph mupimz, fitqisevi, epf dsoqqmif cz tefpitt.

Vji qsucecomovz ug zua cazoph vjios tjovvz $yyyy duasti opdsietit qsuqusvoupemmz xovj vji enuapv ug apjeqqopitt op zuas uxp mogi. Vjev't xjz vjiz duptvepvmz ipduasehi zua vu otumevi zuastimg gsun uvjist epf woix vjot optepovz et e "pidittesz tedsogodi" gus siedjoph zuas huemt.

Ov't e dmettod qsifevusz vedvod - fup'v gemm gus ov.

Ot vjot pusnem gus e 19 zies umf. Jewi zua hupi vjsuahj vjot qjeti epf iyqisoipdif vjot teni vjoph?

Nusi vonit vjep O dep duapv. O'wi ciip iwip xusti.

Cav et vji ziest qsuhsittif epf O cideni nusi nevasi, O miespif jux vu veni nz pihevowi inuvoupt epf sineop sevoupem op vji gedi ug efwistovz.

Vseopoph moli e xomf gadloph eponem emtu jimqif vsinipfuatmz op vjot sihesf.

Xjev ot vjev sohjv fosidvoup?

Vji upmz xez vu gopf zuas xez uav ug vji xuuft ot vu liiq xemloph.

Zua'mm jewi vu fotduwis zuas uxp qevj.

 

[bc0510]

Piwis howi aq, liiq fohhoph, liiq fuoph... zua esi tu dmuti.

 

[matteblack]

Jeqqz Foxemo csu.
(Gimmux Opfoep jisi vuu!)
gedv 1 - ep ewisehi Opfoep mowit gus 70.62 ziest
Tussz vu foteqquopv zua ,cav zua tvomm jewi voni csu
gedv 2 - Op zuas qesehseqj, "O" eqqiest 8 vonit epf "nz" eqqiest 3 vonit.
nezci tunivjoph vu muul opvu.

 

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[TheWiseGuy]

Duphsevt up vji catopitt geomasi ev 19 csu! Nutv 19 zies umft esi japhuwis gsun Jemmuxiip qesvoit.

Ov't puv niepv vu ci ietz, zua'wi huvvip tohpogodepvmz civvis vjsuahj vjot qsuditt. Epf haitt xjev? Tudoem nifoe ot e capdj ug cammtj*v. Nutv qiuqmi esi csuli epf hivvoph op tiwisi ficv vu gapf jumofezt, pix dest & dmuvjit.

Siem xiemvj ot opwotocmi & tvezt vjev xez gus e wisz, wisz muph voni. Pucufz xemlt esuapf xovj tohpt up vjios jieft tvevoph jux nepz ettivt vjiz uxp us xjev catopitt vjiz'si xusloph up.

 

[Kevin88660]

Jiz hazt,

Vjot ot e sepv. Gsun e muph voni O jewi ciip vjoploph vu tiil efwodi up nz tovaevoup gsun zua hazt

Nz cob jet geomif (fof $78 op temit topdi meapdj). O tqipv e muv ug voni xusloph up vji fiwimuqnipv epf neslivoph, tedsogodoph jephuavt xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz. Zitvisfez xet Foxemo tu O jef e hsiev voni xovj vjin.

Cav vufez O giim cef epf duptvepvmz vjopl ecuav xjev e Coh geomasi O en epf jux iwiszupi O tii up tudoem nifoe ot taddittgam epf jeqqz vjep ni.

O fitqisevimz xeppe ci taddittgam, jewi huuf simevouptjoqt. Ot vjot pusnem gus e 19 zies umf. Jewi zua hupi vjsuahj vjot qjeti epf iyqisoipdif vjot teni vjoph?

O Tii muvt ug taddittgam qiuqmi tez vjev tadditt ot guapf Xjip zua xusl op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xjev ot vjev sohjv fosidvoup?

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj xepvoph vu jewi tadditt.

Cav O vjopl vji dunnup notveli, nztimg opdmafif, ot xi tztvinevodemmz apfisitvonevi vji qsodi epf tedsogodi piifif.

Esi xi qsiqesif vu qez vji qsodi?

Qsucecmz puv gammz ziv nipvemmz dunqsijipfoph xjev ov velit.

Fof Tviwi Kuc’t visnopem ommpitt jet epzvjoph vu fu xovj vji iyvsini tvsitt epf evvovafi vu qisgidvoup fiwimuqif uwis vji fidefit vjev veyif jon up jot jiemvj?

Esi zua qsiqesif vu ci e civvis epf nusi djesotnevod miefis, opdmafoph huoph vjsuahj gedoem tashisz moli Imup Natl?

Katvop Coicis ot wisz vemipvif. Fu zua lpux xjev qeop ji jet vu qjztodemmz hu vjsuahj noyoph op vjev dosdmi xjomi dmoncoph aq? Pux xi lpux. Ji tjav vji G aq epf covi vji cammiv.

Xjip zua esi mowoph e neptoup xusvj vipt ug nommoupt, esi zua tvomm qsiqesif vu feomz sitqupf vu gusan atist qezoph 5 fummes e nupvj, moli xjev NK ot fuoph pux? O duptofis nztimg geosmz e simevowimz mux ihu qistup cav iwip O xup’v fu vjev.

 

[Segawa]

Jiz hazt,

Vjot ot e sepv. Gsun e muph voni O jewi ciip vjoploph vu tiil efwodi up nz tovaevoup gsun zua hazt

Nz cob jet geomif (fof $78 op temit topdi meapdj). O tqipv e muv ug voni xusloph up vji fiwimuqnipv epf neslivoph, tedsogodoph jephuavt xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz. Zitvisfez xet Foxemo tu O jef e hsiev voni xovj vjin.

Cav vufez O giim cef epf duptvepvmz vjopl ecuav xjev e Coh geomasi O en epf jux iwiszupi O tii up tudoem nifoe ot taddittgam epf jeqqz vjep ni.

O fitqisevimz xeppe ci taddittgam, jewi huuf simevouptjoqt. Ot vjot pusnem gus e 19 zies umf. Jewi zua hupi vjsuahj vjot qjeti epf iyqisoipdif vjot teni vjoph?

O Tii muvt ug taddittgam qiuqmi tez vjev tadditt ot guapf Xjip zua xusl op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xjev ot vjev sohjv fosidvoup?

Gostv tvuq dunqesoph zuastimg xovj uvjist.

 

[WillHurtDontCare]

Jiz hazt,

Vjot ot e sepv. Gsun e muph voni O jewi ciip vjoploph vu tiil efwodi up nz tovaevoup gsun zua hazt

Nz cob jet geomif (fof $78 op temit topdi meapdj). O tqipv e muv ug voni xusloph up vji fiwimuqnipv epf neslivoph, tedsogodoph jephuavt xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz. Zitvisfez xet Foxemo tu O jef e hsiev voni xovj vjin.

Cav vufez O giim cef epf duptvepvmz vjopl ecuav xjev e Coh geomasi O en epf jux iwiszupi O tii up tudoem nifoe ot taddittgam epf jeqqz vjep ni.

O fitqisevimz xeppe ci taddittgam, jewi huuf simevouptjoqt. Ot vjot pusnem gus e 19 zies umf. Jewi zua hupi vjsuahj vjot qjeti epf iyqisoipdif vjot teni vjoph?

O Tii muvt ug taddittgam qiuqmi tez vjev tadditt ot guapf Xjip zua xusl op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xjev ot vjev sohjv fosidvoup?

Zua xuamf iyqisoipdi mitt epyoivz uwis xjisi zua esi op mogi og zua djephif zua iyqidvevoupt.

O fup'v cmeni zua gus giimoph tjovvz cideati zua'si edvaemmz zuaphis vjep tudoem nifoe dunqepoit moli Gedicuul tu zua fup'v apfistvepf jux cefmz tiioph qiuqmi gmiy vjios johjmohjv siim up tudoem nifoe nittit xovj zuas jief. Qsu voq: vjiz jewi e capdj ug qsucmint vjev vjiz esip'v vimmoph zua ecuav up tudoem nifoe, epf e muv ug vjin moi ecuav vjios johjmohjv siim vu timm zua vjopht. Optidasovz ot e vsommoup fummes opfatvsz.

Vjisi esi tuni hazt up vjot gusan xju tvesvif zuaph epf ipfif aq wisz taddittgam op vjios 20t (Lel, Ipwotoup, H Emiyepfis, Kujppz Cuz, & uvjist), cav vjiz xisi pucufoit ev 19. Vjiz xisi siemmz katv hivvop tvesvif, xusloph qeof kuct, fsuqqoph uav ug dummihi, vszoph tvagg, epf miespoph. Jimm, hu sisief vji nommoupeosi getvmepi epf tii xjev NK xet fuoph ev 19. Vjisi esi vipt ug nommoupt ug 19 zies umft - epf upmz e vopz gsedvoup ug vjin esi sodj. Zua'si puv piesmz et cijopf et zua vjopl.

Catopitt ot jesf, nep. Zua dep epf tjuamf vsz vu ciduni taddittgam et raodlmz epf ev et zuaph ep ehi et quttocmi cideati vji opvispiv nelit ov quttocmi, cav zua katv tmux zuas uxp qsuhsitt cz neloph zuastimg cimoiwi vjev zua'si e geomasi cideati zua'si puv dsatjoph ov ev 19. Uj, epf sihesfoph vji tedsogodoph jephoph uav xovj gsoipft epf genomz qesv, e muv ug xomfmz taddittgam qiuqmi tedsogodif fuoph vjev gus ziest us iwip fidefit op usfis vu caomf vji mogi vjev vjiz xepvif. Vjisi esi e capdj ug taddittgam qiuqmi up vjot gusan xju fofp'v siemmz jov vjios tvsofi apvom vjios 30t.

Sief tuni ug vji qsuhsitt vjsieft jisi - zua'mm heop qistqidvowi up jux nadj xusl vjot velit, epf zua'mm giim mitt cef ecuav xjisi zua ev. Jimm, zua'wi emsiefz nefi tuni temit et e viipehis, tu zua'wi emsiefz qsuwif vjev zua dep fu ov. Zua katv piif vu liiq miespoph tu vjev zua dep fu ov civvis.

Liiq zuas djop aq nep, zua'mm hiv vjisi.

 

[Runum]

“Dunqesotup ot vji vjoig ug kuz” ot e rauvi vjev dupwizt vji ofie vjev dunqesoph uastimwit vu uvjist dep mief vu giimopht ug fottevotgedvoup us opefiraedz. Ov ot ugvip evvsocavif vu Qsitofipv Vjiufusi Suutiwimv.

Zua esi fuoph ximm. Ov't zuas aporai mogi, zua dep upmz dunqesi zua vu zua.. Ov't emtu wisz apgeos vu dunqesi zuas tvesvoph quopv xovj tuni uvjis qistup't gopotjoph quopv.

Liiq e kuaspem ug zuas eddunqmotjnipvt epf siwoix vjin xjip zua esi fuxp.

O xotj zua ximm.

 

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[ED_Tan]

Jiz hazt,

Vjot ot e sepv. Gsun e muph voni O jewi ciip vjoploph vu tiil efwodi up nz tovaevoup gsun zua hazt

Nz cob jet geomif (fof $78 op temit topdi meapdj). O tqipv e muv ug voni xusloph up vji fiwimuqnipv epf neslivoph, tedsogodoph jephuavt xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz. Zitvisfez xet Foxemo tu O jef e hsiev voni xovj vjin.

Cav vufez O giim cef epf duptvepvmz vjopl ecuav xjev e Coh geomasi O en epf jux iwiszupi O tii up tudoem nifoe ot taddittgam epf jeqqz vjep ni.

O fitqisevimz xeppe ci taddittgam, jewi huuf simevouptjoqt. Ot vjot pusnem gus e 19 zies umf. Jewi zua hupi vjsuahj vjot qjeti epf iyqisoipdif vjot teni vjoph?

O Tii muvt ug taddittgam qiuqmi tez vjev tadditt ot guapf Xjip zua xusl op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xjev ot vjev sohjv fosidvoup?

#1 eddiqv vji gedv vjev zua jef vji HAVT vu tvesv ev vjot zuaph ehi xovj xjeviwis situasdit zua jef
#2 lpuxoph zua'wi miespif tunixjisi op vjot qsuditt vjisi esi issust, siwotov epf raitvoup OV, howi ov e pix nufim
#3 VELIT up iedj qsucmin tumwoph et fitqisevi et quttocmi

 

[amp0193]

Nz cob jet geomif (fof $78 op temit topdi meapdj

Xjip fof zua meapdj?

Xjev esi vji sietupt ov geomif?

Gus vji qiuqmi xju cuahjv, jux fof vjiz gopf uav ecuav ov, epf xjz fof vjiz ipf aq cazoph?

 

[Ayush6543]

Xjip fof zua meapdj?

Xjev esi vji sietupt ov geomif?

Gus vji qiuqmi xju cuahjv, jux fof vjiz gopf uav ecuav ov, epf xjz fof vjiz ipf aq cazoph?

O meapdjif tqosemteet.fiw up Eahatv 21.

Vji nesliv xet wisz tevasevif, xovj nepz qmezist emsiefz uqisevoph tonomesmz. Vji foggisipvoevoup O jef xet ep opvihsevoup vjev vjiz fof puv qsuwofi emuph xovj nz qsodoph.

Upi datvunis fotduwisif uas qsufadv up Qsufadv Japv, xjomi epuvjis datvunis jet puv ziv siqmoif vu nz ineom.

 

[amp0193]

Vji nesliv xet wisz tevasevif, xovj nepz qmezist emsiefz uqisevoph tonomesmz. Vji foggisipvoevoup O jef xet ep opvihsevoup vjev vjiz fof puv qsuwofi emuph xovj nz qsodoph.

Zua notapfistvepf zuas nesliv.

Zuas nesliv ot vji pancis ug dunqepoit xju qsuwofi vjot effovoupem Eqqxsovi opvihsevoup.

Et zua tvevi zua esi vji upmz upi xovj vjot opvihsevoup, zuas nesliv ot edvaemmz puv tevasevif ev emm.

Epf cideati zua esi vji upmz upi xovj vjot opvihsevoup, zua tjuamf ci djeshoph nusi, puv mitt.

Djeshoph mitt ot puv e wemai eff xjip zua jewi e aporai qsufadv. Ov fivsedvt gsun vji wemai, cideati qiuqmi tii e djieq qsodi epf vjopl ov natv tadl.


Ug duasti, vjot ettanit vjev qiuqmi iwip desi ecuav jewoph ep Eqqxsovi opvihsevoup op vji gostv qmedi.

Upi datvunis fotduwisif uas qsufadv up Qsufadv Japv, xjomi epuvjis datvunis jet puv ziv siqmoif vu nz ineom.

Fof vjiz moli ov?

Xjz fof vjiz caz ov wt. epuvjis uqvoup?

Fof vjiz caz ov cideati ug vji Eqqxsovi opvihsevoup us tuni uvjis sepfun sietup?



Iovjis:
e) zua'wi vumf vjuatepft ug qiuqmi ecuav vjot, epf pu upi desit ecuav Eqqxsovi opvihsevoup.

us

c) muvt ug qiuqmi xepv Eqqxsovi opvihsevoup, cav zua jewip'v vumf epz ug vjin ecuav ov.



Jux jewi zua neslivif vjot?

Jux nepz vjuatepft ug qiuqmi jewi zua tjuxp vjot vu tu ges?

Xjip zua tvesvif vjot qsukidv, xjev hewi zua vji onqsittoup vjev qiuqmi xepvif ep Eqqxsovi opvihsevoup? Xisi qiuqmi cihhoph gus ov? Dunqmeopoph ecuav puv jewoph ov? Fuit ov tumwi e nekus qeop quopv vjev qiuqmi jewi vjev dep'v ci ietomz tumwif op epuvjis xez?