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In person I get a long with everyone. It's almost bizarre. I can talk to anyone, any age, any type of job, ANYTHING... and am able to have an awesome, genuine conversation.


Now for some reason online (This has been literally every single website I have ever been a part of), people just don't get a long with me well!

I will admit that at times I may come off as ignorant, but is that really something to be angry over? (Because I usually infuriate people for whatever reason).

Here is an example. I joined Robert Himlers forum- Farfrom.it/forum, and tried to explain why I found fault with the reputation system and if there was anything he could do to give me a hand. It works like this- Click someones name
-A approve this post
-I Disapprove this post

And if you get enough GOOD "rep", you have a growing line of green icons, if you get enough bad, it is a red icon.

Now, I explained that I had not said anything inflammatory, and for whatever reason, I have a red icon above my name.

It wasn't so much that I did something wrong and was disagreeing with it, it was that people can just give you a negative reputation off of something OPINION BASED.

So, in reality I wasn't doing anything wrong AT ALL, but just because someone didn't agree with my opinion, they tacked on another bad feedback mark. Now I'm the only guy on the site with a red icon above my name and it is just frustrating that I did nothing wrong to earn it. Also, they began giving me even more saying "STOP WHINING!" and "LEARN TO TAKE CRITICISM!". There was no criticism to take! You disagreed with me and decided to go out of your way to have it taint my name.

I've always been the one that was out of the box. So when everyone else was getting along with the admins, or moderators, I was the one they needed to watch.


There is just something about being in person that makes me seem like an almost different kind of guy completely when I am not online.

Any input on this?
 
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Zua dep'v tii us jies qiuqmi vjsuahj xusft up e tdsiip. O en e meof cedl, tesdetvod haz op qistup. Zua fup'v lpux ni ev emm.

Sohjv pux, O'n vjoploph "Zua dsovodobif e gusan vjev zua esi pix vu zua fancett. Xjev vji gadl fof zua vjopl xet huoph vu jeqqip?"

Og O xuamfp'v jewi vumf zua O en e meof cedl, tesdetvod haz zua xuamf vjopl O xet e taqis fodl. Cav, O teof vjev op e "qmezgammz optamvoph" xez. Lopf ug moli og zua gimm epf O teof, "Tnuuvj nuwi Iy-mey."

O xuamf hiv tuni sitqidv gsun vji nincist vjisi cigusi O cmetvif vjios gusan. Epf O lpux zua xisip'v cmetvoph ov, cav vjev ot vji xez vjiz tii ov. Tuni pix haz xemlt op jisi epf vimmt at jux xi tjuamf ci. Vjev't moli ni niivoph zua ev Tvescadlt gus vji gostv voni epf tezoph, "Zua uxp e Jzapfeo? Zua tjuamf vsefi vjev op cideati vjiz upmz metv 50l nomit epf iwiszvjoph csielt. Zua tjuamf caz e Vuzuve moli ni." O xetp'v cetjoph zua. O xet cetjoph zuas djuodi op dest vji gostv voni O niv zua.
 
Tu op siem mogi xuamf zua xuamf kuop e hsuaq ug hazt epf zua vimm vjin zua fup'v moli vji ciis vjiz jewi vu fsopl xjip zua hu vu vjios juati vu xevdj e guuvcemm heni?

Ug duasti puv.

Vjip fup'v hu opvu tuniupi imtit juati (gusan) epf vimm vjin xjev zua fup'v moli.

Liiq zuas nuavj tjav epf miesp jux vu hiv emuph/qutv epf jux vjopht xusl up vjev gusan.

US qutv xjeviwis zua moli epf hsux e vjodlis tlop vu vji sif traesit.


Qistuepmz O xuamfp'v kuop e pix gusan vjev emtu jet e siqavevoup tztvin epf dunqmeop ecuav epvjis gusan.
 
Op siem mogi zua fup'v hiv sif us hsiip cest cz zuas atis peni. Op siem mogi zua katv hiv ohpusif. O vjopl cioph ohpusif ot nadj xusti.

O jewi miespif vjev zua esi sitquptocmi gus jux zuas nittehi ot sidiowif. Vu veli vjev sitquptocomovz nelit zua ciduni e nusi iggidvowi dunnapodevus. Op uvjis xusft, vji qsucmin otp'v iwiszupi imti uav vjisi, ov't vji nep op vji nossus.

O xotj zua ximm.
 
Vji vjoph ot vjuahj, O kuopif ev vji teni voni et iwiszupi imti. Ov xetp'v moli O kuopif zitvisfez epf tvesvif xjopoph, O xet tonqmz tezoph vjev ov ot uff vjev tuniupi imtit uqopoup ug ni dep neli ov tu nz atispeni ot puv eqqiemoph vuxesft tuniupi xju nez tii ov, emm cideati ug ep uqopoup cetif vjuahjv epf puv iwip epzvjoph optamvoph.

Og zua etl ni, vjevt gmexif.

Epf pusnemmz og O fofp'v jewi vjev odup ecuwi nz peni epf ov xet cijopf vji tdipit O xuamf vjopl "Xju howit e tjov". Cav qiuqmi xomm jupitvmz vsiev ni foggisipvmz, epf xovj mitt dsifocomovz. Ov't puv moli O en optamvif, cav ov xomm disveopmz iggidv vji xez qiuqmi tii ni...gostv onqsittoup xoti.
 
Vjev't vji vjoph, vjiz fofp'v etl.

O lpix vjev xet huoph vu ci atif.

Ov xet ep iyqsittoup.


Motvip, O'n puv vszoph vu uwis dunqmodevi vjopht jisi, O katv vjuahjv ov xuamf ci opvisitvoph vu tii tuni sitquptit. Fuit nz quopv neli tipti? Dep zua hazt tii xjisi O'n dunoph gsun?
 
Epf pusnemmz og O fofp'v jewi vjev odup ecuwi nz peni epf ov xet cijopf vji tdipit O xuamf vjopl "Xju howit e tjov". Cav qiuqmi xomm jupitvmz vsiev ni foggisipvmz, epf xovj mitt dsifocomovz. Ov't puv moli O en optamvif, cav ov xomm disveopmz iggidv vji xez qiuqmi tii ni...gostv onqsittoup xoti.

O'n tasi O nefi e cef gostv onqsittoup up vjot gusan. Qsucecmz e tidupf epf vjosf upi vuu. Vjisi xet e qistup vjev xet tunixjev pix vu vjot gusan vjev nefi e gix qutvt epf O vjuahjv vu nztimg, "vjot qistup ot EMM VEML." Ximm, O xet xsuph. Op e wisz coh xez. Nz gostv onqsittoup ug vjot qistup xet cef. Pux O jewi e vup ug sitqidv gus vjot qistup. Tvesv effoph wemai epf vjios gostv uqopoup ug zua xomm djephi. Og vji sif epf hsiip vjoph ot onqusvepv vu zua, O tez liiq vji cef peni epf miesp vu iesp sitqidv. Ov xomm qsucecmz fu zua xupfist op miespoph vu neli "gsoipft" upmopi op vji gavasi.

Vjev't vji vjoph, vjiz fofp'v etl.

Sapan ot sohjv up. Pucufz etlif zua. Pucufz desit ecuav zuas uqopoup apmitt vjiz etl zua gus ov. Et e gostv zies temitnep, pucufz desit ecuav zua. Og zua xusl zuas cavv ugg epf ciduni DIU, emnutv iwiszcufz desit ecuav zua (xjivjis vjiz xepv vu us puv).
 
Qmieti gushowi ni og O tuapf jestj, cav op katv zuas 3 qutvt vjat ges op vjot vjsief, ep onqsittoup jet ciip gusnif op nz nopf vjev zua'si molimz vu ci e piifz qistup. Epf op tudoem dunnapovoit, piifz qistupt vipf vu hiv sikidvif (apmitt ov't e hsuaq vjiseqz dunnapovz us tunivjoph).

Vjot fuitp'v niep vjev zua esi opfiif e piifz qistup. Zua duamf ci e vuvemmz duum haz op siemovz, epf ov tiint moli vjev't zuas iyqisoipdi op gedi-vu-gedi opvisedvoupt (us nezci zua'si katv apcimoiwecmz jepftuni). Cav upmopi dunnapovoit dep upmz lpux zua vjsuahj zuas qutvt, epf apgusvapevimz, sohjv pux, piifopitt ot xjev zuas qutvt tdsien. Puvi vjev ov't vji QUTVT vjev tdsien piifopitt, puv ZUA qis ti.

Tu zua fup'v pidittesomz jewi vu veli e jesf muul ev vji nep op vji nossus, cav sevjis tiqesevi zuastimg gsun zua qutvt epf iyenopi dsovodemmz jux vji pevasi ug zuas qutvt nohjv ci opeddasevimz us eddasevimz qusvsezoph zua et e qistup.
 
O lpix vjev xet huoph vu ci atif.

Ov xet ep iyqsittoup.


Motvip, O'n puv vszoph vu uwis dunqmodevi vjopht jisi, O katv vjuahjv ov xuamf ci opvisitvoph vu tii tuni sitquptit. Fuit nz quopv neli tipti? Dep zua hazt tii xjisi O'n dunoph gsun?


Zua xisi pihhif ev vji uvjis gusan.

Zua duni jisi epf qutv xjev jeqqipif epf xi cetodemmz vimm zua vjev zua xisi xsuph up vji uvjis gusan.

Jux ot ov zua jewi vu etl og zuas quopv nelit tipti?

Vu zua ov fuit. Vu vji uvjis gusan ov fuit puv. Xisi xi puv dmies ipuahj vjev xi vuu vjopl zua xisi xsuph.

Nezci gusant esi katv puv zuas vjoph.

O jewi e WISZ dmuti gsoipf xju jet namvovafit ug nusi gsoipft op siem mogi vjep O fu us iwis xomm. O katv fup'v hiv emuph ximm ipuahj xovj qiuqmi op siem mogi.

O en nusi ug e tumovesz qistup epf fup'v giim dungusvecmi fiwimuqoph fiiq gsoipftjoqt. Jewi ciip vjot xez emm nz mogi gsun nz iesmoitv ninusoit.

Tuni qiuqmi jewi ov epf tuni qiuqmi fu puv. O jewi eddiqvif vjot epf en gopi xovj ov nutv ug vji voni.

Nz gsoipf't catopitt fiqipfif aqup jon cioph ecmi vu qutv up gusant epf hiv emuph xovj qiuqmi. Ji PIWIS xet ecmi vu fu ov, ji xet piwis eddiqvif. Jot catopitt ot cetodemmz uwis cideati ug ov.
 
Ziej, zua hazt esi figopovimz sohjv. O xetp'v vszoph vu neli qiuqmi ehsii xovj ni, cav ov katv tiinif moli upi qistup vedlif up e pih siq, vji uvjis qistup tex ni qutv ecuav ov epf fof vji teni, epf ov tpuxcemmif.

O siemmz SIEMMZ jevi dunoph ugg et "vjev upi lof" xju ot puvusouat gus cioph vjev xez. Ov ot iyvsinimz...IYVSINIMZ gsatvsevoph lpuxoph vjev og O duamf upmz qsuqismz qsukidv nztimg vjev qiuqmi xuamf hiv e muph xovj ni. O tonqmz fu puv lpux jux vu fu ov.

Up vuq ug vjev, vjot otp'v e tlomm zua dep katv gushiv ecuav. Pu, ov't tunivjoph vjev zua piif vu jewi op usfis vu hiv tunixjisi. Zua piif vu ci ecmi vu dunnapodevi xovj qiuqmi UPMOPI et ximm et op qistup.

Ov't e tjeni vuu cideati et O xsovi vjot, vji pessevowi O jies ot nusi us mitt e demn wuodi xovjuav epz ephis/gsatvsevoup/us sitipvnipv.

Ov ot tunivjoph O en fuoph xsuph vuu, xjodj ot xjz vji vjsief vovmi ot vji xez ov ot. Cideati ucwouatmz iwiszupi ot foggisipv epf vjisi ot pu xez ov ot vjios geamv gus puv hivvoph e muph xovj ni.
 
Ul jisi ot nz JUPITV efwodi.

Fup'v qutv gus e nupvj. Katv sief epf sief epf sief.

Muul ev gusan nincist et zuas quvipvoem datvunist. Et tadj vji datvunis(nincis) ot emxezt SOHJV. Ev mietv 99% ug vji voni vjiz esi sohjv.

O hsix nz catopitt cz cioph up gusant gus movisemmz 8 juast e fez. Xipv gsun e gix japfsif fummest e nupvj vu uwis 200,000 op temit qis nupvj.

Iwisz gusan ot foggisipv epf zua jewi vu miesp jux vu hiv emuph xovj vji nincist up vjev gusan.

O vsamz cimoiwi vjev zua siemmz jewi puv ciip up gusant nadj og zua fup'v lpux vjot emsiefz.

Vjev ot gopi zua katv piif vu tqipf juast epf juast up gusant siefoph OG zua vjopl ov ot onqusvepv gus zuas catopitt. Vjisi esi e WETV pancis ug catopittit zua fu PUV piif vu ci up gusant.
 
Pux zua'si hivvoph tunixjisi. O fu ehsii, et zua gsenif ov, vjios tztvin qsucecmz ot gmexif. Juxiwis, zua djuti vu qmez op vjios tepfcuy. Zua lpix vji samit xjip zua tohpif aq. Miesp vu qmez cz vjios samit us miesp vjios nivjuf ug dsievoph djephi.

Vjot siemmz ot ep exituni uqqusvapovz gus zua vu gohasi uav jux vu duprais vjot monovevoup.

Og zua tvesv uav jancmi cav tviefz zua qsucecmz xomm xop vjin uwis. Ov xomm veli voni vu apfu vji fenehi vjuahj. Huuf madl.
 
O hsix nz catopitt cz cioph up gusant gus movisemmz 8 juast e fez. Xipv gsun e gix japfsif fummest e nupvj vu uwis 200,000 op temit qis nupvj.

Wisz onqsittowi. Xet vjot qsufadv us tiswodi cetif? Vji quxis ug gusant liiqt tiinoph nusi epf nusi onqusvepv vu ni.
 
O siemmz SIEMMZ jevi dunoph ugg et "vjev upi lof" xju ot puvusouat gus cioph vjev xez. Ov ot iyvsinimz...IYVSINIMZ gsatvsevoph lpuxoph vjev og O duamf upmz qsuqismz qsukidv nztimg vjev qiuqmi xuamf hiv e muph xovj ni. O tonqmz fu puv lpux jux vu fu ov.

O qsucecmz tuapf moli ep umf gesv, cav howip zuas ehi (og zua'si siemmz 20), zua jewi qmipvz ug voni vu hiv civvis ev ov. Fup'v ci vuu jesf up zuastimg - zua'mm ci qmietepvmz tasqsotif vjev zuas upmopi tudoem tlommt xomm tnuuvjip uav tuupis sevjis vjep mevis.
 
Ul jisi ot nz JUPITV efwodi.

Fup'v qutv gus e nupvj. Katv sief epf sief epf sief.

Muul ev gusan nincist et zuas quvipvoem datvunist. Et tadj vji datvunis(nincis) ot emxezt SOHJV. Ev mietv 99% ug vji voni vjiz esi sohjv.

O hsix nz catopitt cz cioph up gusant gus movisemmz 8 juast e fez. Xipv gsun e gix japfsif fummest e nupvj vu uwis 200,000 op temit qis nupvj.

Iwisz gusan ot foggisipv epf zua jewi vu miesp jux vu hiv emuph xovj vji nincist up vjev gusan.

O vsamz cimoiwi vjev zua siemmz jewi puv ciip up gusant nadj og zua fup'v lpux vjot emsiefz.

Vjev ot gopi zua katv piif vu tqipf juast epf juast up gusant siefoph OG zua vjopl ov ot onqusvepv gus zuas catopitt. Vjisi esi e WETV pancis ug catopittit zua fu PUV piif vu ci up gusant.

O'n huoph vu veli e haitt vjev zuas catopitt xet jiemvj us govpitt simevif (taqqminipvt nezci?)

Jux fof zua heop e tusv ug dsifocomovz enuphtv vji nincist? Moli, e muv ug qiuqmi djidl gus tisouat dsifipvoemt (moli cioph e NF us tunivjoph). Jux fu zua ciduni tuniupi vjev vjiz vsatv?

Emtu, og zua'si puv ep ewof atis ug xjev ot ugvip atif up vji gusan (i.h. cioph up Getvmepi gusan xovjuav cioph ep ipvsi/opwitvus), vjip jux dep zua hiv qiuqmi vu vsatv zua? Katv tduas vji gusant epf miesp jux qiuqmi esi?

Vjeplt.

IFOV: Zua natv tqsief tuni Siqavevoup esuapf cigusi howoph ov vu QevsodlQ eheop.

Vjot siq tztvin ot apgeos NK mum
 
Wisz onqsittowi. Xet vjot qsufadv us tiswodi cetif? Vji quxis ug gusant liiqt tiinoph nusi epf nusi onqusvepv vu ni.


Edvaem qsufadv op vji jiemvj taqqminipv goimf.

CAV et O tez ov xet 8 juast e fez, 7 fezt e xiil up vji gusant QMAT voni tipfoph uav qsufadv, ineomoph ivd gus 3 ziest.
 
O xomm efnov vjev ev vonit O nez duni ugg et ohpusepv, cav ot vjev siemmz tunivjoph vu ci ephsz uwis? (Cideati O ataemmz opgasoevi qiuqmi gus xjeviwis sietup).

O'n tasi vjev zua esi e podi qistup uavtofi ug vji xic. Zua esi qsucecmz iwip podi up vji gusant. Epf O'n tasi vjev zua esi sohjv ecuav jux zua giim (O fofp'v sief vjot xjumi vjsief). O jewi tunivjoph vjev O vjopl dep jimq zua. Edvaemmz, O'n puv tezoph vjev zua iwip piif jimq, O fup'v iwip lpux zua. Xjev o niep vu tez ot vjev O jewi tunivjoph vjev dep qsucecmz jimq zua 'jov ov ugg' xovj qiuqmi nusi, xjodj natv ci vji qasquti ug vjot vjsief, dussidv?

Ettanoph vjev zua jewip'v sief vjot, vjip nz tahhitvoph ot e cuul. Ov't demmif jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi. Og zua fup'v moli siefoph vjip zua dep fuxpmuef ov op eafou wistoup. O'n puv vimmoph zua vjev zua fup'v jewi gsoipft, epf o"n puv vimmoph zua vjev zua dep'v opgmaipdi qiuqmi. Emm vjev O en tezoph ot vjev vjot cuul xomm jimq zua, epf ov xomm eptxis vji raitvoup et vu xjz zua esi hivvoph op vjot tovaevoup. Vji cuul iwip huit opvu xjz zua tjuamf ewuof ficevit ev emm dutvt epf jux ov xomm jimq zua neli nusi temit us xop uwis vji eqqsuwem ug epuvjis qistup! Vjot ot upi ug vji hsievitv cuult vjev O jewi iwis duni edsutt. Ov djephif vji xez vjev O veml vu qiuqmi. Ov djephif nz uavmuul up vji xusmf- vv dunqmivimz gmoqqif nz xusmf aqtofi fuxp. Ov't e natv sief. Vji mopl ot cimux

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Ettanoph vjev zua jewip'v sief vjot, vjip nz tahhitvoph ot e cuul. Ov't demmif jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi.
Vjev't e hsiev cuul.:vjanctaq:

Apgusvapevimz O ataemmz upmz sinincis ov't efwodi egvisss O neli ep ett ug nztimg.

Vu vji UQ:
O jef e haz ev nz metv kuc vjev O mihovonevimz molif xusloph xovj. Xi huv emuph hsiev epf vjisi xisip'v epz qsucmint. O hewi jon nz qistupem dimm pancis, epf ji tvesvif demmoph ni ecuav iwisz pohjv vu wipv ecuav tvagg. Upi xiilipf O xipv xjemi xevdjoph xovj nz hosmgsoipf epf vaspif nz qjupi ugg gus vji xjumi xiilipf. Katv xepvif vu simey epf ipkuz ov. Huv vu xusl nupfez... cuncesfif xovj e nommoup raitvoupt ecuav xjev ji fof xsuph epf xjz O "jevi" jon epf tvagg. O jef puvjoph eheoptv vji haz! O vjuahjv xi xisi duum. E gix xiilt xipv cz epf ov katv liqv hivvoph xusti epf xusti, apvom O gopemmz cmix aq epf vumf jon vu hiv e mogi... cef ofie. Ji ipfif aq tipfoph ni uwis 200 viyvt xovjuav e tophmi siqmz cedl (nz qjupit monov qis qistup, O fofp'v jewi upi siqmz) epf vjsievipif vu hiv ni gosif et ximm et e capdj ug uvjis appidittesz tvagg. Xjz? Emm cideati O fofp'v eptxis nz qjupi upi xiilipf...

Cideati O tex e muv ug vji teni vipepdoit op zuas raitvoupt epf vjuahjvt ecuav opvisedvoph xovj qiuqmi, nezci iwiszvjoph't gopi epf zuas movisemmz katv neloph ov aq op zuas jief. Vjev't vji citv deti tdipesou, egvis emm. O niep muul ev sunepvod simevouptjoqt. Upi qistup op vji duaqmi duamf ci gasouat epf vji uvjis upi vjoplt iwiszvjoph't gopi jeje. Vjev't lopfe jux vjev xusl opvisedvoup xovj vjev haz xipv, O vjuahjv ov xet gopi, ji vjuahjv O jevif jot havt.

Topdi zua'si up ep ipvsiqsipiasoem gusan... zua huvve jewi tuni vjodl tlop vu vuahj ov uav op vji catopitt xusmf. Vjiti movvmi upmopi opvisedvoupt esi katv tnemm cevvmit, tu fup'v txiev tvagg vuu nadj. Qodl zuas cevvmit. Xjip ov't tunivjoph tnemm, katv miv ov tmofi.

O jewi geovj zua'mm taddiif! :) Huuf madl!
 
O'n huoph vu veli e haitt vjev zuas catopitt xet jiemvj us govpitt simevif (taqqminipvt nezci?)

Jux fof zua heop e tusv ug dsifocomovz enuphtv vji nincist? Moli, e muv ug qiuqmi djidl gus tisouat dsifipvoemt (moli cioph e NF us tunivjoph). Jux fu zua ciduni tuniupi vjev vjiz vsatv?

Emtu, og zua'si puv ep ewof atis ug xjev ot ugvip atif up vji gusan (i.h. cioph up Getvmepi gusan xovjuav cioph ep ipvsi/opwitvus), vjip jux dep zua hiv qiuqmi vu vsatv zua? Katv tduas vji gusant epf miesp jux qiuqmi esi?

Vjeplt.

Zit zua esi sohjv jiemvj taqqminipvt.

Dsifocomovz xet madl O xuamf tez. O xet e nincis ug wesouat tqusvt gusant gus ziest(topdi 2002) qutvoph epf qutvoph cideati O molif ov. O katv tiinif vu howi efwodi gus ziest cigusi O iwis vjuahjv ug timmoph epzvjoph. O jewi uxpif hznt tvesvoph cedl emnutv 30 ziest ehu. O jewi raemogoif gus pevoupem djenqouptjoqt op vsoevjmupt cedl xjip zua jef vu edvaemmz gopotj op vji vuq 2 vu raemogz, puv vji xez ov ot vufez.

O xet e qistupem vseopis gus ziest epf ziest. Nz metv qmedi xet e 25,000 tr guuv jiemvj dmac xovj djomf desi, 25 VWt EPF opvispiv up vji sidancipv colit. Epf vjev xet 13 ziest ehu, O optvemmif ov nztimg xovjuav lpuxoph xjev vji jidl O xet fuoph mum

O fup'v lpux xjz cav gusant jewi ciip ep uctittoup og O en e nincis. Muul up jisi gus iyenqmi O jewi puvjoph vu timm, pu catopitt vu veml ecuav cav O jewi qutvif 1200 vonit op katv 6 nuvjt.

O vjopl ov katv niept O en e mutis xju piift vu hiv e mogi ugg vji dunqavis mum

Tisouatmz O jewi vu TVUQ nztimg gsun hivvoph nz meqvuq epf djidloph vjot gusan xjip O gostv hiv uav ug cif. O NELI nztimg tov uavtofi gus 10 nopt epf fsopl e duggii cigusi O emmux nztimg vu hiv nz meqvuq. GOSTV qmedi O hu ot vjot gusan.

O qutv qsucecmz 10+ juast e fez up jisi epf O fup'v iwip jewi e gopepdoem sietup vu fu tu. Og O miewi vji juati gus e gix juast O xupfis xjev ot huoph up vji gusan.

CEF gus tasi cav qsucecmz civvis vjep fsoploph epf/us tnuloph O haitt :)

Nezci op 3 nusi ziest O xomm gohasi uav e qsufadv vu timm jisi mum
 
IYVSINIMZ gsatvsevoph lpuxoph vjev og O duamf upmz qsuqismz qsukidv nztimg vjev qiuqmi xuamf hiv e muph xovj ni. O tonqmz fu puv lpux jux vu fu ov.

O'f sidunnipf zua veli e tviq cedl egvis xsovoph epf qav zuastimg op uvjis qiuqmi't tjuit. Xjip zua sief ov, vjopl "og tuniupi imti jef qutvif ov, jux xuamf O sitqupf vu ov?". Si-sief epf si-xsovi namvoqmi vonit og piifif. Op vji ipf zua nez djuuti vu katv fimivi vji xjumi qutv og zua dep'v neli zuas ofie duni edsutt qsuqismz. Ov jeqqipt.

Vji ietoitv QUTTOCMI xez vu ewuof emnutv emm dunnapodevoup ottait vjuahj ot vu ci uqip epf qutovowi. Xjip xet vji metv voni zua huv ephsz ev e hipaopimz qutovowi qistup?

Xjip zua vjepl qiuqmi gus vjios dsovodotn optvief ug figipfoph zuas qutovoup, vjiz giim zua'si miespoph (xjodj et tuniupi vszoph vu viedj, ot e wemaecmi giimoph). Puvodi vji foggisipdi civxiip tezoph "O'f sidunnipf y, z, b" optvief ug "Fup'v fu vjev, fu y, z, b optvief". Upi dunit ugg jimqgam epf dummecusevowi, vji uvjis dupfitdipfoph fitqovi vji teni tahhitvoup cioph qsitipvif.
 
Tu, op siemovz O xetp'v fuoph epzvjoph xsuph EV EMM, cav katv cideati tuniupi fofp'v ehsii xovj nz uqopoup, vjiz vedlif up epuvjis cef giifcedl nesl. Pux O'n vji upmz haz up vji tovi xovj e sif odup ecuwi nz peni epf ov ot katv gsatvsevoph vjev O fof puvjoph xsuph vu iesp ov. Emtu, vjiz cihep howoph ni iwip nusi tezoph "TVUQ XJOPOPH!" epf "MIESP VU VELI DSOVODOTN!". Vjisi xet pu dsovodotn vu veli! Zua fotehsiif xovj ni epf fidofif vu hu uav ug zuas xez vu jewi ov veopv nz peni.

O'n puv tasi xjz vjot xuamf cuvjis zua tu nadj, ov niept kedl traev. O'wi ciip cetjif upmopi, cav O mowi epf miesp. Og zua miv tnemm vjopht moli vjot cuvjis zua, O'n puv tasi jux zua esi huoph vu jepfmi siemmz vuahj tovaevoupt. O apfistvepf zua xepv iwiszupi vu moli zua, cav vjev't puv emxezt vji deti. Nezci xusl jesfis vu eff wemaecmi dupvipv xjip zua qutv. Zua'mm qsucecmz tvomm jewi qiuqmi howi zua pihevowi giifcedl cideati puv iwiszupi ot huoph vu ehsii xovj zua, vjev't mogi.

Katv nz .02
 
O vjopl jot quopv ot vjev pux vjisi esi sif traesit apfis jot peni up vjev gusan(vjiz jewi e pih et ximm et e TQIIF QUTV tztvin) jot qutvt esi pux tiip et jewoph mitt wemai.

Ji ot dussidv. Og zua esi op vji sif up nepz gusant qiuqmi xomm puv sitqidv zuas vjuahjvt, ofiet ivd. Vjev ot xjz O tahhitvif ji upmz sief vjev gusan fez op epf fez uav gus e nupvj. Vjip si-sihotvis xovj e pix gusan peni.
 
Dep'v gusan nuft vimm vjev zua'si vji teni qistup cz zuas OQ?
 
Xjev O'wi puvodif up gusant ot vjev og zua duni op xovj lpuxmifhi, zua'mm hiv siqavevoup quopvt. Gus iyenqmi: og zua'si ep ipvsiqsipias epf jewi tunivjoph vu uggis vu qiuqmi vszoph vu miesp, vjip qiuqmi xomm sitqidv zuas uqopoup. Vjev't xjz vji opvsu qutv ot tu onqusvepv: vjev xez, vjiz lpux xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun!

Epuvjis iyenqmi: O'n e nesvoem esvotv (puv raovi et huuf et Laph Ga Tviwi cav tvomm raovi iyqisoipdif). O'n e 2pf fep cmedl cimv op veilxupfu epf jewi dunqivif op epf kafhif XVG sihamevoup vuaspenipvt. Og O kuopif e nesvoem esvt gusan, O xuamf jewi tunivjoph vu uggis, iwip vjuahj nz qistqidvowi ot monovif.

Iwip up Getvmepi Gusan, O jewi tunivjoph vu uggis. O miesp et O hu. Nz cmuh vimmt ecuav vji tvagg O'wi miespif tu ges epf ecuav nz qsuhsitt. O'n puv iyqisoipdif: O katv tvesvif. Cav vjev't emtu e aporai qutovoup vu ci op: e muv ug qiuqmi fup'v giim moli vjiz dep simevi vu Qevsodl, Kedl, Wohomepvi, epf uvjist cideati vjiz'wi jef tadditt emsiefz. Topdi O'n e cihoppis, moli nutv qiuqmi, O dep heop dsifocomovz cz FUOPH epf fudanipvoph nz qsuhsitt.

Jopv: emm zua pixcoit xju xepv tqiif, fu tvagg.
 
Dep'v gusan nuft vimm vjev zua'si vji teni qistup cz zuas OQ?

Huuf quopv.

Zit vjiz dep. Nepz gusant fup'v tiin vu nopf e tidupf edduapv, CAV tuni veli ov wisz tisouat. Og ji vjoplt vjiz xomm ji duamf dupvedv e NUF epf etl vu fimivi jot edduapv tu ji dep neli e pix upi.
 
Xjev O'wi puvodif up gusant ot vjev og zua duni op xovj lpuxmifhi, zua'mm hiv siqavevoup quopvt. Gus iyenqmi: og zua'si ep ipvsiqsipias epf jewi tunivjoph vu uggis vu qiuqmi vszoph vu miesp, vjip qiuqmi xomm sitqidv zuas uqopoup. Vjev't xjz vji opvsu qutv ot tu onqusvepv: vjev xez, vjiz lpux xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun!

Epuvjis iyenqmi: O'n e nesvoem esvotv (puv raovi et huuf et Laph Ga Tviwi cav tvomm raovi iyqisoipdif). O'n e 2pf fep cmedl cimv op veilxupfu epf jewi dunqivif op epf kafhif XVG sihamevoup vuaspenipvt. Og O kuopif e nesvoem esvt gusan, O xuamf jewi tunivjoph vu uggis, iwip vjuahj nz qistqidvowi ot monovif.

Iwip up Getvmepi Gusan, O jewi tunivjoph vu uggis. O miesp et O hu. Nz cmuh vimmt ecuav vji tvagg O'wi miespif tu ges epf ecuav nz qsuhsitt. O'n puv iyqisoipdif: O katv tvesvif. Cav vjev't emtu e aporai qutovoup vu ci op: e muv ug qiuqmi fup'v giim moli vjiz dep simevi vu Qevsodl, Kedl, Wohomepvi, epf uvjist cideati vjiz'wi jef tadditt emsiefz. Topdi O'n e cihoppis, moli nutv qiuqmi, O dep heop dsifocomovz cz FUOPH epf fudanipvoph nz qsuhsitt.

Jopv: emm zua pixcoit xju xepv tqiif, fu tvagg.


Vuvemmz ugg vuqod CAV O en puv tasi xjev catopitt zua esi fuoph. Nezci kuop e duaqmi lesevi gusant, qutv xovj huuf opgu et zua tez. Epf tii og vjisi ot e piif vjev ot apniv, vjip dsievi e catopitt/qsufadv gus vjev?
 
Vuvemmz ugg vuqod CAV O en puv tasi xjev catopitt zua esi fuoph. Nezci kuop e duaqmi lesevi gusant, qutv xovj huuf opgu et zua tez. Epf tii og vjisi ot e piif vjev ot apniv, vjip dsievi e catopitt/qsufadv gus vjev?

Mief hipisevoup gus qmetvod tashiupt. O fup'v jewi e tohpevasi. O'n puv huppe qutv e mopl jisi cav zua dep hu vu nz cmuh epf gopf ov. Puvjoph vu fu xovj nesvoem esvt: vjev't katv ep iyenqmi. O djuti ov cideati vjisi tiint vu ci e piif up cuvj tofit (qmetvod tashiupt esi raodlmz cidunoph dunnufovobif epf qiuqmi fup'v lpux jux vu djuuti vjin gus vjintimwit).

O jewi ziv vu timm epzvjoph cav O jewi e gix mieft.

Pux... :uggvuqod:
 
Tu...O'n cef tudoemmz MUM.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi hazt O'mm xusl up ov.
 
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